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What qualities should a father and mother have in order to properly raise a son?

i mean the dad isnt wrong. calling the school wont do shit , the bully wont stop.

Junior: "Oh okay.." "Did you win?" Dad: "Of course I do." Junior: "NOIIIICE."

As someone who was bullied in school, i can affirm that fighting back is the only way. One day in middle school, i had enough of the bullies, and i fought back. I knocked the hell out of them. Got detention for 2 weeks, they got out scott free, but at least they never bothered me from then on out. No one did.

The funny thing about school and bullying is that it can go on for months or years without any answer , but as soon the victim defends himself , the school jump on him. Very classic.

I love seeing their relationship as a father and son grow. He knows his kid is different but he still wants whats best for him.

I love how he portrays every character, with reasonable understanding instead of what we listen/read on the internet, just like the way men who are physically tough are often labeled as "toxic masculine".

I was such a timid kid, terrified of getting in trouble at school and at home. Was bullied relentlessly, more physically than not and I will always regret not standing up for myself, it keeps me up at night. I have a son now about to start Primary School and I won’t let him make the same mistake and me

As a former bullied child I have to admit my parents signing me for muay thai class totally changed my life. Not only I was able to defend myself, it also teached me discipline and strenght of mind. It literally changed myself when I was at my lowest and I am honestly not sure if I could have all these things that make me happy today if it was not for that introduction to combat sport when I was a teenager.

Dad: go cook dinner or something Mom: we already ate Dad: read a book 😂

3:32 go cook dinner or something lmao.

I remember my first school fight (age 12). My mom was angry at me for fighting, but my dad was proud I didn't let myself get picked on. He didn't condone fighting, but if someone was messing with you, handle it.

I feel this is really important. We all have to go through this as men at some point, some of us are lucky enough to have the talk, some of us have to come to the conclusion ourselves on our own.

My situation was a lot darker and twisted. I trained my ass off to look intimidating, but fighting back would have made it infinitely worse. My punishment at home from my abusive father would have been far worse than anything the bullies could ever do to me. My mother just left for her friend's house if he went ape shit on my brother or I. Sometimes you can't fight back. It's a very good thing I left my home state, because I don't know what I'd do if I saw him again.

"if he is bigger then take a stick, if you don't have a stick, take your friends"

At first you always think "wow, almost 7 mins", and after finishing the video you'll be thinking "woah, that felt like seconds". This is such a great storytelling, you forget about everything and begin enjoying it before you even notice.

In my house, it's my mother who usually says I shouldn't be afraid of fights and should stand my ground. And I am sweet and diplomatic talker like my father.

Be strong and keep your head up, relentlessly adapt, face life until the end of your days.

5:09 the narraters voice 💀

I stood against the bully and he totally kicked My ass, but after witnessing me standing against him the other kids treated me with respect and the bullying stopped

I was almost constantly bullied in school. It was one of my best decisions to sign up for Wing-Tsun courses. After some basic training, I was able to defend myself, despite being usually weaker than my opponents. I stopped Wing-Tsun almost a decade ago, but still remember some moves. I was attacked on the street twice in 2021. With some luck & determination, I managed to repel said attacks. Be strong, kings.

Maybe it's cause he's not wearing a hoodie, but is the son getting newbie gains since working out with pa?

I was bullied hard when I was younger and I confirm there is nothing more frustrating to not atleast try to defend yourself. I wish I did. I made the mistake to listen to those adults who told me that I should ignore the bullies or give them the other cheek until it stopped. It never stopped and it destroyed me. I was ashamed to even tell my parents but I tried to get help from the teachers. It's useless, they don't care or they give you garbage advice. Fighting is the only way. Now I am 30 and my life is a mess. I can't connect with people despite wanting to. I can't have a girlfriend. I feel like a failiure everyday. Like the video said atleast try.

For some reason this looks exactly like all of the scenarios when I was bullied, except I never started

0:20 amazing street fighter reference. cant wait for 6 to drop soon 😂💯

I love the wholesome buffed dad character.

2:49 *Cenk Uygur nephew u're welcome

Those videos have nightmare vibes while showing stuff that happen to all of us at least once

Got taught to stand up for myself at an early age. Paid the price for it similairly, plenty of times sent to the principles office, almost forced to take anger management courses. I think that theres a fine line between watching out for yourself and just fighting for some made up cause. Sure, we shouldnt say "violence good", but we need to understand that sometimes we gotta look out for ourselves, and not expect mom to call the school and fix everything. As the dad said, the bullying isnt going to stop. It never will. Its part of being human. I dont have a perfect answer sadly, but I think that being able to defend yourself if necessary as a good skill to have at any point

I think that standing up for myself was the best fucking thing I ever did in school. I was always one of the smallest kids, but I would never run away or roll over when push came to shove. It taught me to be who I am today and stand my ground. Then classes taught me what my limits were and how to actually use my body, gave me confidence. I don't go out looking for fights, but at least I can pick my battles right.

I wish I had a father in those developmental years.

My story went for the mom ending. I escaped from my fears for 4 years, I didn't even went to school 'cause I was afraid of bullies. I totally left social life, closing myself in my room and playing videogames with my friends. Only now I realised I made bad choices. My dad didn't teach me to defend myself. "just ignore them" he used to say. But I couldn't. Every insult, or joke (innocent sometimes) were HEAVY in my head but I didn't have the strength to react. Just standing angry and silent in a corner, letting people to judge everything. If you let weakness win, it will take over you and you'll cannot react. You will be a ghost, a pathetic person who cannot stand up even for his own life but just letting life happen. THAT'S THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU COULD DO FOR YOURSELF. I still having LOTS of self-esteem issues, but at least I'm TRYING to change. I want to be better every month. When you're feeling depressed, like a nobody, it's because IT'S TRUE. Is your own instinct who's saying: "dude, you're doing everything wrong". You're not the good version of you. When you feel bad about yourself means that you must change. I'm not saying to become a rich and cool sigma male, that's business world propaganda, but just DO SOMETHING AND FIGHT YOUR WEAKNESS FOR YOUR OWN LIFE. Or you will be stuck for ever.

6:05 When men marry beta or “cute” women and have sons

That Street fighter II intro reference was gold

It is true that a man needs to learn some fighting skills and make it part of his system. If you don’t practise some basic skills you’ll be not trained to fight back when it is needed.

Thanks Millenni Thinker, your videos are very good, I'm from Brazil, thanks for having subtitles in Portuguese

I wasn’t bullied terribly in school, in fact I was a bit of a bully myself from time to time, but I never really felt confident or good. One day, long after graduation, I was just sedentary on the couch like normal when my mom dropped a gym membership in my lap. Only after I started working out and actively making physical progress did I have a genuine feeling of self worth. I haven’t done great things yet, but I’m working toward those things. I’ve made so much progress toward bettering myself, only because a long time ago, someone said ‘Go sweat for a while.’ You can do push ups anywhere, there is potential everywhere.

I wish I had a dad like this one. It’s always my fault when I fight back, everyone testifies against me and my parents won’t back me up

One of my elementary schools was actually pretty cool. I was in 8th grade and an A student, quiet with sometimes outbursts of rapping or singing, but those were kept to a minimum. The faculty all saw that I was a good kid and never acted out in class. So some kids did mess with me for that. The faculty always punished the bullies though. I remember we were sat at the reading carpet. We had a few benches, but we couldn't fit anyone else so some brought chairs. This one kid sat behind me. He and his friends kept grabbing people's sides as a joke. When it got to me. I ignored the first few. Then he kept on, so I told him to stop. He kept going, I sat 'Stop' louder. The teacher looked at them and told them to knock it off. That didn't deter them. They kept going until I ended up giving him a Spear from WWE. We bumped into a few desks on the way to the ground. He ended up on top of me but I had him in an armbar. The teacher told us to stop, sat us back down and sat me away from him. No muss no fuss, the rest of class was as productive as it could be. The school allowed me to defend myself because they knew the type of student I was. They knew that most of them were going through hard times and acting out as a way to cope, but they still needed a little bit of order.

You took story from my life. Instead of boxing i learn karate but similar thing. Never let others push you around.

in elementary school I was bullied and I had the courage to fight back and for this I was considered the bully while instead I was the victim, but it has been better this way than hoping for help from the school

Didn't see anyone talking about this but.. the description in 4:41 says "I saw that 3 people partly deciphered my code. If you manage to guess it in its entirety I leave the knowledge or share it with the rest of the..." so there might be a code in the video, which matches with what the dad was saying, and the channel name (LEARN THE CODE) Edit: I've come to realization that the "code" is supposedly the meaning behind the 4 part series (there's most likely a 5th video in the making), so I'm gonna write down an analysis of what I've understood so far. PART 1: The video portrays the difference between traditional men and modern men through the story of a father and son with a good relationship. There are two moments worth highlighting, the first being when the father talks about how his wife got rid of the grandpa's images, which is foreshadowing to part 4 and hinting that the grandpa is disliked, the second moment is when he questions his son's on what he's drinking presuming that the reason his son isn't as masculine is because of what he's been consuming, which possibly hints to the stereotype of a "soyboy" who's weak because he drinks soy products, but then shuts it down since all Ivo was drinking was water. PART 2: The video continues the story, this time it shows how un-masculine Ivo is, and that his father is worried by it, but nonetheless, the father still respects his son and doesn't try to force him to do anything, instead he tries to have some father time with his son by playing catch, going to a shooting range and fixing the shed, which could instill some masculine values in him. On the other side, it shows Ivo's respect for his father, his self-reliance and his willingness to learn and improve by showing how he doesn't shutdown any of his father's idea and goes along with them incase there's something worth learning. Two things are worth noting, the first being the father's commentary of the modern word of consumerism and how everyone is only in it for the buck, and the second being the scene where the father closes Ivo's bedroom door where he seems indifferent. PART 3: This video continues the commentary on masculinity with its story, where the father and son are going on a camping trip. The father tries to be protective by lying to the mother to not worry her, and booking a cottage instead of using tents while underestimating his son. Ivo is shown to be prepared with his downloaded wilderness videos, and his care for his father when not wanting to chop the wood and giving his dad his jacket to cover during the night, it also shows that Ivo is mentally strong and that possibly growing up with unrestricted internet access has lead him to grow desensitized to what some could consider gruesome or inappropriate, at home the mother points out how Ivo is actually trying his best and to give him some time. Like the last part, the video ends with the father closing the door of Ivo's bedroom, but this time he seems happy and hopeful. PART 4: This part is different, it shows the past of the father as some annoying kid, which lead him to getting beaten, and it showed how his parents reacted differently. The mother wanted to call the school and be overly protective, while the father wanted to be aggressive and teach his son how to defend himself but took it a little too far, both parents never considered what the son wanted to do and were pushy. This lead to the suspension of the son, but gave Ivo the lesson that no matter how bad you think you are, you can Improve and get better with time. CONCLUSION: I think the main point of this series is showing the importance of good parenting, today's age sadly lacks it, and many young individuals are left confused or scared on what they want to do. There are many lessons to learn from this series. Firstly being that we should always try, no matter the circumstance, with enough courage anything can get better. Secondly, is the importance of good parenting, whether you have a good parental figure or not will play a role in how you end up later in life, some manage to overcome hardship and reach a better life without father figures, but that's sadly the exception and not the rule, so we should respect our parents knowing that they are trying their best, and in the future, be great understanding parents aswell. Thirdly, being less reliant on consumerism, sometimes its better to just cut the grass yourself rather than call a gardener, some people are in it for the buck and will put in minimum effort even with good pay, so it's important to just do the work if you are able to, instead of paying someone else to do it.

That's a good father, and the mother is a good mother aswell. They both has their own ways of seeing things, and both are good ways. In our current society, you'll have to fight to **Survive**. Altough sometimes, for thoses who cannot take on stuff, nor fight and that might fall in a deep depression, (was my case 5 years ago and the social fear is still pursuing me) the mom's way is a good way. They basically has both differents ways, but both are right.

my surface value observations: this isn't a story about bullying,it's a story about a kid being a menace and lying to his parents to save face and pretend he's the victim it's extremely common in schools if he was indeed bullied he would've shown it,i highly doubt he would just skip on important visuals and say "it happened off camera". the teachings the kid gets from his parents still hold real value despite being lied to. I'm still happy to see the first duo get expanded on,they are definitely my favourite characters from all your videos.

Same sort of thing happened for me years ago. My folks complained to the school and got nowhere with them, so I finally snapped one day. Despite the black eye he got though, he came back the next day for another go, ran off crying and, when we got hauled in front of the head for it, got told that he got what he deserved by the teacher himself. Ha!

Best video yet, a similar thing happened to me except my dad didn't teach me i just fought him and delivered good punches which made him know not to fight me and it worked for everyone else too

I used to be bullied then I learnt to psychological tactics like finding dirt on people online, claiming I could hack and access their internet history. I was never touched and even respected after that.

"If he's taller punch higher" My decent or better father -

I wish I encountered physical bullying growing up. But I was always big and strong compared to other kids so I only ever received verbal bullying which is much harder to identify and combat that just physically fighting back.

My father taught me to always stand up for my self either through argument or physicality. Firstbweek of high school i bust the class bullys nose i was a small 13 year old he was almost 14 and one of those guys who physically was already a man 5.10 and stubbile. We ended up best of friends for the next 5 years

4:40 "Sometimes the author mixes up the clues to hide a completly different meaning". I dont think people really get the message of the story. The dad of the weak girly looking boy from 4:35 is actually the kid from the first story who grew up to be "just like his dad". The point that everyone s missing is that the guy who actually started the fight was the "bullied" kid who was actually picking on the "bully" who later punched him. After he lost he just played the victim. I think the meaning of the video is the consequences of a lie, because the kid lied to his dad from the beginning saying "he got picked on" instead of "I was messing with the guy first". That's why when he grows up he points out that the message is simple but it has double meaning because he s the only one who knows the true story.

THe idea that you transmit is briliriant dont stop posting this is very helping for new generation

0:21 street fighter 2 opening scene

i really like this it's also deep that the one who actually started it all was the son, but the lies just become truth in your mind after a while.

This is more accurate than you know, my parents split when I was young and my mother handled the bullying situation I had by making me avoid the bullies and hope they switched targets and get bored with me, if my dad had known about it all he would have signed me up for karate, he was a brown belt as a young man and never pushed me to fight as I was more interested in other sports. Maybe I would have spent my formative years as a young adult competent and confident instead of a nervous wreck in times of confrontation if I had just told him.

I'm particularly loving this series and I really hope to see many more installments of it come out in the future. Please make that happen for me. 🙂

The Street Fighter intro at the beginning! So good! There needs to be more appreciation for the little things

Father was right here, even if his son lied. When I was a kid I also got bullied, and it only stopped when I fought back. Not only did it stop, I started to be respected, whenever a new student tried to mess with me, someone would go up to them and be like "are you sure? he's really good at fighting back, you won't have a fun time". Now I will say that a couple of years later I did develop to be a very annoying kid, mostly because I was very immature and selfish, and I didn't get "bullied" that time, simply because people knew I was good at fighting, that was also around the time my dad convinced me to start practicing kung fu to get in shape (for context, he also used to pratice kung fu), so that was another reason for people to not "mess" with me. Despite that, my younger self would later definitely want to have been corrected by his classmates in the form of """bullying""". Because I didn't have anyone to correct me, when I reached 14, bout the age you finally start to mature, my uncorrected immaturity started to really drag me down, to the point I started to develop depression, and later even suicidal thoughts, all because my selfish and immature ass couldn't deal with the process of basic maturing. I was always very good at lying, deceiving and hiding info tho, so I managed to do a good job making sure nobody knew what I was actually feeling. I wouldn't recommend anyone to do the same, but I'm glad I did it, throughout that phase of my life, I may have suffered a lot, but dealing with it all by myself it taught me very precious lessons the other kids couldn't have taught me, since they were afraid of messing with me. At the end of that phase of my life, I can confidently say I was much more mature than most of the kids in my class, and much more self-confident as well, and even having changed a lot since then, I always keep those moments of learning near and dear to my heart and I could not have matured further into who I am nowadays without them. I'm glad to say I have been more than fine these years. I have been facing some problems in life, but at least I know I'm very happy with the person I have become. I just realized, while writing this, that I kinda went off topic here, oops. Anyways: My point is that tough learning is much better than no learning, no matter how tough it may be. I think the father was right here, but the son would have much higher chances of growing into a better person had he not both lied and fought back, and instead just tried to understand why he got beat up in the first place. But nothing comes close to the damage that's probably being caused by the overprotectiviness of the mother here, and if I had to guess, being raised that way is probably what led the son to lie in his first place. I cannot stress enough how damaging overprotective behavior is. I'd rather be treated underprotectively than overproctectively, 100%. If you want your kids to grow up properly, the last two things you should do is to be overprotective and to be overcontroling. I'd also like to comment on the end message of the video: it's very true: At least try. If you fail, at least you will be going down with honor. And let me tell you something, being able to honor yourself is something really important.

4:48 was like walter white and gus fring

It is a good feeling when you can say "at least I tried". Even if the odds were against you all along.

nobody is qualified for parenting. i don t get how people think that they should get kids.

I actually can relate to ivo, i don't look like a girl but My father talking to me about our family, as a child i liked a Lot Sports because i feel it was like My duty for the family, im from a family of boxers and baseball players, My grandpa was famous in My State and he also Made it to the pro lvl in the 50s if i quit remember, My dad just amateur in the 80s, so since a kid i learn how to fight and play baseball because also My grandpa played a Lot and he was really god at it, when i was in middle school i was pick up by bullies, My dad told me "just fight if it's necesary, u know how to fight, and maybe they don't know so keep it cool" i'm like a peace person i don't like to fight but i sure know how to do it, but anyway, having this type of knowledge actually helps, thanks to baseball i have a schoolarship and thanks to boxing nobody bothers me, thanks pa and thanks papa g

It doesn't matter if you win the fight or not. What matters is that you fight back. As long as you give the bully trouble for picking on you, they won't touch you again. Bullies don't like to be confronted. They want their victims to take the abuse without giving anything back.

I can say a lot of shit about the education system in Poland where I live in BUT if you defend yourself whole school is on your side and there is nothing school principal can really do to punish you.

"did you win?" average dad conversation

3:00 bro just did an andrew tate 😂

4:42 these two are my favorite out of everyone on this channel, I hope they never stop appearing

It's not about fighting, only him who knows how to manipulate people, change how he thinks, and knows that how he is treated by most is based on the perception he gives, may his path to social acceptance rise and give him way. I used to be a fat slob, really geeky, watched anime, I then started doing calisthenics or something that looked cool, hit a glow up, got a beard, all while being 5'7. Another glow up came but a mental one, started taking pride in myself, found a quality I have and banked on it like it was my life, I revere it, I think "you should be glad to be in my presence" that's how I gained confidence and changed people's perception about me. It's all in the head, 50% willing to admit what your faults are, 10% saying "it is what it is" (you can't change people, 40% putting the work in. An extra 5% to those that question everything.

Many here keep commenting about how this video is about bullying, some even relating it to their own experience, which is both tragic and valid, no one should be bullied and need to resort to violence to make it stop, but what I notice is that they're making huge leaps in the story to associate the main character with their own. There's no indication to say that the father as a kid was bullied, he was a jester who pulled a prank on someone bigger than him, who then challenged him to a fight, which he agreed upon, then lost the fight and went back home with shame for what he did. There was no reason to believe he was being "picked on", one instance of any type of violence does not mean he's being bullied, it has to be repeated over and over. He was a clown, and other people responded to his annoying behavior in their own ways. Think about what would've happened if the mother had indeed called the school and had the situation explained to them. They'd have realized soon enough the whole situation, how he was making others uncomfortable with his behavior, how his actions led to the fight, and, in the best case scenario, could've worked with the school and both kids to deal with their respective behaviors; the MC wasn't right to pull pranks on others, and the other guy wasn't right for punching him. Instead of doing that, the father shut down the mother, both avoided any explanation other than "my son is always right", and his father proceeded to teach him that, if others don't respect his way of existing, then he has to resort to violence to assert dominance. When he did, and the other parents did what he didn't want to do and went to the school to complain about their own child being beaten on, then he reacted like the victim and threatened with legal action. What could've been a learning experience for the son about the effects of their own behavior on others turned into distrust for the system and the belief that he, alone, as an individual, is living in a hostile world that wants to put him down, and that if he doesn't show force, then others will show it to him, because that's what is expected of him as a man. This is how you effectively build and perpetuate egocentrism that will then turn into toxic behaviors. This video was about gender stereotypes and how toxic masculinity, which is just aggressive behavior disguised as assertiveness, affected the main character in a pretty pervasive way. If you remember previous videos, you'll remember that this kid later on became the big, bad bully in high school and college who didn't mind seeing his friends picking on smaller guys than him. He became what he feared because his father pushed him to put himself above others, no matter the cost. Later on, he has a son of his own and finds himself unable to connect with him and his worldview centered on caring, because he shut down his own feelings under the belief that it was "weak" to be anything else other than the shark. These series of videos are brilliant, and I love how much thought you can put into them and reflect about how parenting and social expectations can push a person into becoming the person they currently are.

Love the messages of this story! I also love how I have grown to be able to focus on your videos and understand the meanings of them! Thanks for what you are doing! Keep up!

I remember my first beating, got zero sympathy from my mum when I returned crying lol. But my mum is Scottish with very masculine traits. Kids should be left to navigate this shit themselves as much as possible

Unfortunately, my bully was one of my teachers because I was much smarter than him and would call him out when he was wrong about stuff. He would try to push thinly-veiled Christian creationism nonsense into his science class. He would also grade me much harsher than the other students and I couldn't do anything about it. Well, one time he tried to embarrass me in front of the entire class the one time I forgot a homework assignment. He said something to the effect that how could my parents raise someone so irresponsible making it sound like it was a common occurrence. It's like he was trying to get back at a kid who knew far more about the subject than he did and would push back against his wild and radical beliefs in public school. I finally snapped and saw red. I stood up and socked him right in the side of the head. I was suspended before the other students ended up siding with me saying that he was always on my case far more than anyone else's. He was later fired for trying to preach theocratic nonsense that wasn't part of the curriculum. Separation of church and state and all that. It was poetic justice.

His kid is getting some gains, he's raising the boy right.

2:40 his form isn't bad here. right hook to the body, left hand up guarding the face. He could pivot on his foot and turn his waist more. Also that thumb isn't tucked in and can get broke. All and all 5 out of 10.

The Street Fighter reference is 👌 well played. Maybe showing my age now...

This hits home, i was raised only by my mom, my father was always working aborad. I was bullied by group of 3 guys, mom told me to just ignore it and they will stop, they never stopped until one time i snaped and got into a fight. I just wish i could do that sooner. Dont let yourself be bullied guys, fight but only in self defence.

Damn...... this is, in fact, according to my research... a certified hood classic.

Wait he knocks the guys soda out of his hand and sufdenly that guy is the bully for hitting him?

The dad in this story is the needed father figure

ivoはいい…心の栄養剤になる…

Коротко о детстве Папича 😂 (батя уж больно смахивает на Дядюшку Богдана)

Once in middle school, I had a rivalry with this kid named Zach, who had been bullying me time after time for stupid things like wearing New balance when he had Nikes. Every day, it was something new, and he had a couple of friends that would always laugh at me and he'd always make jokes about me, and I'd respond with some stupid comeback that never really landed. It just made them laugh harder. I remember that he was a black belt in karate and he always told me he could "kick my ass," but one time we were out playing football as a class, and I accidentally ran into him when I caught the ball. He grabbed me and threw me to the ground. I saw red and his face just seemed to me the most punchable face I'd ever seen, so I slowly got up, waited for him to turn to his friends and start laughing, threw the ball into his face to stun him, kicked his shins, grabbed him by the neck, put him on his back, and kneed his head over and over. It was so uncoordinated, but it surprised him. I still remember his black hair with blood in it, how hard he screamed, and how he basically started crying in front of the class. I went to the principal's office for that one and the teacher tried to claim that I "assaulted him for no reason," but my classmates (except for his friends) backed me up and said he threw me down. Funny enough, his parents actually weren't even mad at me, because his mom and mine were friends and she knew that her son was bullying me. I heard his mom go, "what did you do to him to start it?" The principal threatened to suspend me for a week, but she just gave me detention for 4 days instead. My dad took me out for ice cream. Still one of the high points of my childhood. I remember how proud my dad was.

There is some easter egg i dont get in the video at 1:58 weird name appears "Cenk uygur nephew" i searched for it but its probably nothing important idk

I don't know why, but the way he says "don't worry son" always sounds funny to me

As I am growing up and just starting to work. Bullying is not so black and white anymore. Its a lot more subtle. especially and work. everyone treats you well and help you where they can but will occasionally take advantage of you. You don't even realise you are being bullied until one ay someone slips up and lets you know how well they are being treated as supposed to you even though you guys are doing the same job. As men we have that spirit to fight back but its hard when the enemy has helped you many times before and part of a larger system that is designed to use you and spit you out. As you grow you will be in a position to do the same to others. And now you are the bully. I am just saying, be aware at all times. Seek out trustworthy mentors and never make the mistake of being too quick to trust someone at work. Thinking they are on your side, no matter what they say. I am young so i cant say this for sure but it seems to be extremely difficult to be a good person and do right by your employees. so watch yourself in case you are becoming the kind of person you hate.

His son is more like a e-girl wtf 💀

listen to the the dad. took me 2 years to realise this on my own, coulve gone without the pain

4:42 "I saw that 3 people partly deciphered my code. If you manage to guess it in its entirety I leave the knowledge or share it with the rest of the"

Bro street fighter reference was really cool you really are getting better at this i wish you good luck

When I was a kid (like 8 or 9) I used to be really violent towards other kids due to me being that way when I played with my older brothers. I was at recess one afternoon at school and was playing tag until I tagged a girl way harder than I thought I did. She was bleeding really bad and I was traumatized, it all hit me in that moment “I really hurt this girl” I thought. From then on out I never wanted to hurt anyone ever again whether it was physical or mental. I would all come back to me in my first year of middle school when I had to deal with bullies for the first time. Of course I didn’t see fighting them as the way out so I endured it even trying to talk them out of it on one occasion. This resulted in them beating me up to the point I had started to get bruises which I would cover up to avoid my dad seeing. Eventually it got too much and I snapped one day but before I threw a punch I remembered that day in elementary school. I immediately unclenched my fist and decided to remain a unaware pacifist, that was until they started picking on another kid who tried to fight back but couldn’t beat them. The next time they we’re bullying that kid I stood up for him and fought them seeing no other way to resolve it going against my self imposed code. After a while they ran off saying they would tell the principle on me but I was disappointed that I hurt someone again. I was sent to the principals office but was vouched for by the kid I helped defend against the bullies. I remember after that those guys never messed with me or that kid again and I walked away realizing that I was fine with taking the hits but if it happened to someone else I would intervene. This is getting pretty long so I leave whoever’s reading with this it’s okay to not choose violence when it comes to yourself but protecting someone who can’t defend themselves will always require a tough heart. Edit: there are those who are fine with taking those hits but there is never shame in fighting back in self defense.

Bro really broke the 4th wall and thought we wouldn't notice at 04:41

I was bullied by both girls and boys, seemed like my mum going to school (she was a single parent) complaining about the girls to principal worked and she stayed away from me and I ended up somewhat more friendly with guy bully. But school was always tough, I hate it so much it was trauma for life. My approach is you should do either fight back or complain to elders and not ignore it, they won't leave you alone.

The most effective way to beat someone trying to fight you is a kick to do leg , then punch him in hes stomach, then a head but to the nose its the most unexpected move.

The core problem you have to try to solve with bullies: You have to make it not fun for them to bully you. How you achieve that... Depends. Beating them up might work, might not. Laughing it off might work, might not. I dunno, start acting creepy around them. They'll try spreading rumors that you're creepy, but you keep doing it and they'll be seen as delirious and everybody thinks they're insane. Yes, my advice is to gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss!

The boy that lost the fight started it anyways. He throw the coke of the other boy

0:20 appreciate the Street Fighter II reference

My father is also like that man he gave me the will to defend myself and morals that I still hold. I've always protected my dignity and honor, even in the last farwell meeting I threw punches and chair at the person who tried bullying me.

Most bullied victims don't call school most raped women don't call cops etc. because people believe it will not help. With this attitude you allow bad people to win. All this bs about being a rat only helps criminals.

I was bullied in the school. I tried to stand my ground. I was beaten back. I was a target of bullying all through school, and indifference of my parents was just as painful as being weak. I wish that back then I would take a stick, or a stone. At least I wouldn't have those mental scars which are going to be with me for the rest of my life.

Schools will never help in terms of bullying, the only way i got rid of my bullies was by fighting back