I love how you no longer apologize for not coming on here and making us promises of doing better😂... Sis you are just like the rainbow..we don't see you often but when we do ..we love you.
I don’t think she understands how much this transparency has helped us 🙌🏾I always felt akward in social events but listening to this is such a confidence boost
Wow I’m actually going through that right now and my mom was the same way with us growing up and I’m 47. Just the week I completely put my phone on do not disturb all day everyday with the exception of my kids. I told my husband why does everyone want to talk to me and be around me lol. I just don’t want to be bothered with people. Hell I started thinking I was crazy lol. Thanks for making this video cause it made me think about some things. I’m so glad it’s not just me. 🥰
Too relatable 😮💨 getting anxious prior to hanging with ppl I do know and even more so with ppl I don’t know 🫠 and drinking before going out and having the to go cup 😩 I’m trying my best to go out rather than avoid events because of my anxiety
Thank you for being so transparent T! I had NO idea you dealt with social anxiety too. I do as well. Goes to show, the most social people still deal with social anxiety as well. I literally have to give myself a pep talk to challenge myself to go outside of my comfort zone. Thats how I deal with it. :-)
One thank you for this! I never why I get so anxious and frankly irritated when I have to host or go to someone’s house. Omg. Then when they get here I’m fine. I have a great time!
My anxiety kick into HIGH GEAR after my mom passed away. Going outside and being around people went from not today to it's been years. I have a sister in law who is always having something for my nephews and I show up late all the time so that i don't have to spend time seeing to many people. When i show up I say hi to everyone and find one person that I can stand next too and just talk about them not me. I'm married and its sad but when i give my hubby the head Nod its time to GO. Do i have a good time when I'm out heck yeah but fisrt i have go out.
I am the same exact way, I realize that having company over gives me anxiety and turns my tummy into knots. I grew up not being able to have friends over or going over to my friends house…not that I have many friends to begin with lol but it always made me sad that I couldn’t experience what other people could….I also love hosting and treating my girls and sisters but girlll the anxiety be anxieting. I love that you spoke on this. Thank you queen! Your growing into such a wonderful women and I see it in all your videos. Your truly amazing I hope you know that 💓
I’m definitely that person who has to drink to overcome my anxiety when going out. It’s refreshing to see someone else who can relate. With God we can and will overcome anything.
I don't know how to do make up, never have but I was actually watching you thinking I can do this,I love how you shot this please do an extended version...it's in how close you are it's so personal and I definitely will try this.
Hi Tia, Hi TJ 🫶🏽💜😊 I like what you said… sometimes I have that same dread ( not that I go many places) but I agree with pushing past it. Your amazing & I also enjoy watching your process of beating your face! You are AMAZING! Know & rest in that! Everything else will fall in place 🫶🏽
Omg! You are me. I used to have so much anxiety surrounding hosting and going to others’ spaces. And, in my childhood I was forbidden from having company over and couldn’t go to my friends’ houses. And behold, as a younger adult I would always have the best time once I pushed through and socialized. As I got older and more confident this monster got off my back and disappeared. Thanks for this content, precious.🙏🏾
Same way, I can't hangout with people in my home. As an introvert, home is a safe space and personal bubble so it's weird to have people there and feel like I HAVE to engage rather than chill, we can't just watch TV. I'd be anxious and thinking about if my house is dirty or something the whole time. It's stressful for me. I'd rather go to someone's home or just not at all actually. Go to lunch lol
I would love to hear more of this topic ! You slayed per usual gf ! Been following since the beginning she’s so authentic, can’t tell me that’s not my friend lol 😂 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 but yes social anxiety really is something to push through 😩 . As I’ve gotten older it’s not as bad .
This was so satisfying to watch & hear. First of all I love you Second it’s so calming to watch you do Your makeup, & this topic about social anxiety yes I am there & have learned to accept it but learning also that’s it’s okay & once I get out of my own head I can & hopefully will become a better human for myself & others Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💕
I can kind of feel you when you step out and have a good time you're glad you did but to be honest, a lot of times I don't really. I am an omnivert by the way who was raised the same way but yeah when I don't have a good time, I feel like I want my time back. I need a refund. Add it on to the end of my life😂😂😂😂😂
@@tiarramonet I hope you’re enjoying your Wednesday! The week is almost over. I cannot wait to watch your video bc I love listening to your voice and hearing your stories. 😍
Hey this is @Brooklyns_nunu. Girl Im suffering with social anxiety now, which is why my ass disappeared off of social media. Im going through it virtually and in reality. Its definitely somewhat debilitating but Im working through it. The masses believe im this social butterfly because of how outgoing and opinionated I am in my stories on IG, but I hate being around ppl now. 😩😩😩Like i feel u “ how can i want these connections but im not putting myself out there”. you are not alone. I be here watching u still girl. Im alive and well. Miss u chica. Hopefully we can hang out this year n sip n drink n talk about our anxieties n stuff lol. 😘
