I really feel for the last girl, like that’s literally me and my personality. I have 0 self confidence and I’m really shy, it doesn’t help that my family always comment on my looks, body, etc. I hate going out and can’t even enter a class when I’m 1 minute late or leave to go to the toilet because I’m afraid of people looking at me. I hope she overcomes this, she’s absolutely beautiful!
I am shocked that the first concern was already sent in 5 years ago, it was an urgent matter! I hate it when parents take out their personal frustrations on their children. I don't know if it's because of the translations, but the dad's explanations make no sense. "My dad used to yell at me but not at my brother" - shouldn't you do it differently then? - "My son never thinks things through" - it's a child for god's sake... Anyway, I hope it is solved now.
I cried when the dad in the first concern cried at the end. Of course he loves his eldest son much, but I hope he will treat him like he treat the others. Treat them equally.
I honestly didn't understand the dad in the first concern... just because the son reminds him of his brother, it doesn't justify him treating him like that or belittling him on national tv. He's literally just a kid.
As someone who went through very similar situation with the girl in the last concern, I just want to meet her, give her a big hug and encourage her to love herself. When you live around people who likes to judge your appearance every so often you start to lose confidence in yourself and for me I lost very big part of my self worth during that period of time because some 'friends' of mine started to say I was fat, when I never ever thought so, and it seems the girl went through the same thing. Thankfully at college I met very great people and little by little began to love myself. I am sure she will meet that person who will help her love herself. And for those girls everywhere who loves to belittle, judge and give unnecessary opinions to other just to make themselves feel better, hope you taste the same thing in your life and feel how hard it is to lose your self worth!
I can really relate to the girl on the last concern. I used to not want to go out or meet new people or go to public place cause I was scared people would look at my face. I was very self conscious and insecure. I also had social anxiety to top it all of. I still do. I can't stand being in crowded place anywhere. Although i didnt focus so much on other peoples appearances........but I would rather focus on my own. I would constantly compare myslef to others and never think im good enough. I'm not as insecure and self conscious as I was a few years ago but I still have days were i felt the same way i felt years ago and I'm still struggle with my social anxiety. Social anxiety has always been a problem with me since I was a young child. But I still try to work on it day by day
I've been laughing for this meme (52:55) for like 5 minutes already when I replay it and I just couldn't stop laughing at it.. maybe it's just really me who's weird XD
Yul is such as a little fox haha i hope it won't get worst the dad should fix this since it still early or it will tu4n into a hate story between the brothers when they grow up~ seriously! Being not treated equally by parents is the worst thing that can happen~ im sure that rae will carry this in his heart forever ㅠㅠ
Omg i am a chubby flight attendant here! The little lady is so pretty and to let you know love, you need to be confident and a peoples person to be a flight attendant. Enjoy and l9ve life, see you in the sky 🤗
In first case, I do understand that not everyone can express love or their feelings clearly. It can be hard. But taking out your anger on your kids is just wrong. I hope they are happy now.
Rae should tell his father to stop beating him. I feel sad about it and I think that father wants to be strict to his eldest son and then his younger brother tease him. Poor boy and he almost hit that younger brother of his.
The dad's excuse in the first concern doesn't make sense to me! You didn't like the way your dad treated you unfairly but now you're doing the same as your dad?? And he's causing his son trauma. As for the little brother... I know i shouldn't hate a child but god he's such a fox, it's so obvious!
I jus hope ppl undstnd how looks r nt related to judgng someone. A well raised person doesnt care abt looks once they start talking to a person. It is based on how they behave not on how they look. Those who are mean to ppl jus bcz of their looks are actually weirdos! Its sad that we r putting weight on looks so much..
This guy from the first concern is going to have a very negative impact on his eldest son. When that dad is on his death bed he better hope the 2nd son is there to take care of him, because if I were the eldest son I wouldn't even bother. Girl you're better off taki ng your kids and running.
나 첫번째 고민이랑 진짜 비슷한 케이스를 아는데 남편이 첫째 아들만 좋아해서 둘째는 항상 때리니까 결국 엄마도 약간 둘째편만 들게됨 처음엔 맞는게 안쓰러우니까 그랬는데 나중에는 편이갈라져서 부모님 결국 이혼함.... 사랑많이 못받은 둘째는 완전 엇나감.....진짜 안저랬으면....울집도 엄마가 아들 엄청좋아해서 편애하는데 결국 성인이되서는 아들은 엄마 안챙김 진짜 버릇잘못들어서 받기만하고 그게 당연한줄 앎... 결국 지금 기대는건 나한테 그럼...
How curious that on the last concern they mentioned "fat" .... she's not shy for that but they looked at her and presumed that was the issue and the funny think is that she's not fat at all!
Hi@@Stilbe😊. I thought the same as you when they asked the question, but then I noticed that her sister didn't mention "fat" or weight, that was questioned after they looked at her. I don't speak korean but the translation for the question was "was she always fat?" There's an implication that she's fat now...otherwise the question would have been "was she fat before?". That girl is just overall prejudiced against herself and others looks but as she even said she gained weight and wanted to lose it, but her main concern is the red mark in her head and even the sister said that but the question directed straight to weight. I found that revealing too regarding the panel making the questions too.
i was relating to the last concern and last girl being shy but she just danced and .... i feel even worse lmao i would freeze at such request, actually i probably couldnt talk to them at all or be on tv yeah well... my case is worse.