Time line 2:09 Crypto / nft bro Red flag only if he is always in your face. Same like those financial / property pals you have always ask u out for catch up dinner etc. 2:58 Mean to strangers Duh... goes both genders. but then again SG so small always seems like some one is always bumping into another who knows another.... of cos rude to service staff, eh you not scared they give you free toppings / ingredients in your food ? never ever piss off peak hour staff but then always see drama all the time so *shrugs* 3:30 Always tries to be PC I too find those type of guys annoying. red flag if trying to please every one so stay PC. not a red flag if I use cheese pie , fish sticks and chao guo teow as censor words during CNY reunion when I challenge the little ones to ang bao match over console games. 4:05 When she sends 5 msgs and he only replies to 1 Nope cos usually when the girl sends a WoT or TLDR the guy will be either preparing for a fight or know he will sleep on the couch. 5:04 When he says he can't post his gf on ig feed Red flag means he is a legendary wei xiao bao, one gf in clementi, one gf in changi, one gf in serangoon, one gf in telok blangah, one gf in yishun. non red flag means I rather be the IG bf to take your pics. goes both genders. 5:56 Controls your dressing serra mike lima juliet ? now 2023 still have ? like Cynthia Koh zeh zeh say if still have it flaunt it. Ima uniqlo basic but if its for a event or something occasion then pls dress me up to match how you wanna dress to feel ? jus cos... 6:48 Keeps posting half nekid pics of himself Red flag if thats he has a simp agenda. not if it is model / asthetic / couple shots... some ideas can look good. goes both genders. 7:53 Plays devil advocate Nope but not to annoy the person. some girls really cannot continue on the convo so just stir it both ways and turn it into a htht. 8:36 When he talks about babies on the 1st or 2nd date. Nope if I date her it would be with the goal of a view of marriage otherwise why would I waste my time ? I can even go further to say dna circle thing to see if our babies will high risk of anything heditary. going further would be hiv testing. usually its the girls who wants kids no ? I don't tbh. 12:11 He always ask for the blow but never gives a suck ? RED FLAG most guys are selfish tbh. I rather see the girl satisfied also to see if she can squirt cos not many can. also once the girl's engine is warmed up, it will be a good quarter mile turbo blow. Also mansplaining... explaining something isn't mansplaining " The explanation of something by a man, typically to a woman, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing. " what about coaches instructors etc do girls who are studying for whatever they are training go up to them and say don't mansplain how to do this sport / job to me ? do girl students go tell their teachers don't mansplain this topic ? why does Jerod thinks he is mansplaining ? Next on Singaporean tries... Guys explaining how to to Girls..... lmao
The Singaporean men here are actually pretty decent, I'm surprised. Red shirt guy is very real and honest, down to earth, very cool. Black and white shirts guy has several problematic views tho. But overall pretty decent bunch. Black shirt guy is exceedingly eloquent! (sorry I'm very bad at names) BUT HOR aren't like half of them not straight 🤔
@@lalalalaland84oh, he is eloquent, and sounds very sweet - I'm sure he's a nice person! But he doesn't really show much of his character so I can't really tell much. 😅
Red flags for me: - asking you whether you live alone and whether you can come to his house to "bang". - asking you to invest money and refuse/keep giving you excuses not to meet you in person (typical online scammers) - just tell you to come to his office to meet because he just finished work and this is the first time you are going to see him (boy, you think we don't need time to put on makeup and stuff) - telling you that he only wants an open relationship
Men who wants to go 50/50 on everything or very calculative about what the woman brings to the table; Says he wants a woman who is "contented" and don't demand much but then has a long list of traits he expects in a woman like ambitious, has a full time job, take care of kids and also has time to to to the gym (looks good); Wants a rship but doesn't put effort to communicate or get to know someone on a deep level; Never have real dates outside his or her home; Doesn't go down on you; Has no plans to be financially independent (never held a serious full time job for long, doesn't plan to ever move out from parents house, not serious about having stability etc)
