I'm a girl, and the worst way I've been rejected was back in middle school. I had a huge crush on this guy and it was basically an open secret. There was this stupid game we played where someone would write a name of a random person on your hand and you had to not look at it or else you'd have to ask the person out on a date. I had a friend of mine write a name on my hand and balled it into a fist to not see it. The guy I liked asked to see who it was, then when I showed it to him he made a disgusted face and said "*Don't* look at it." I figured it was one of the weird kids because we'd clown on each other and do that if we saw someone undesirable. When I got home, I looked at my hand and it was my crush's name. Definitely messed with my self-esteem for a bit there.
Not sure if this is the worst way I have but at the time a girl kept pestering me to go out with her and I was very openly gay and she kept saying she could fix/change that. One day she was flirting with me in front of my boyfriend so I turned around and kissed him in front of her
I don't remember ever explicitly rejecting a girl. There were girls that flirted with me but I was too oblivious to notice, and some girls who confessed to me but I kinda just changed the subject. Am I a bad person?
I remember one day i rejected an actual local photo model cos I had a girlfriend at a time and boy oh boy, the idea that she couldn't juts get the guy she wanted was too much for her.
Back in sophomore year of high school there was this girl that would hang around me and my friends lunch table which wasn't uncommon because even though I didn't get around much there would be friends of friends and the tables were 8 person round tables instead of the long benches from elementary so students would just walk around during lunch so i really didn't think much of it. She was one of the weird kids that would cut her hair short, wear metal band t-shirts, and claim to have schizophrenia and murderous tendencies, so a class A edgelord (though with hindsight I wasn't much better, I was the leather jacket year round kid that falsely claimed sociopathy, you know the one), and in the looks department, to put it nicely, she wasn't my type, and to top it off she had a noticeable facial resemblance to my grandmother (tbf I'm not and never was a looker myself). So towards the end of the year she asks me if I wanted to see a movie, unfortunately, I feel like a bad person just saying this, but I never saw her as a girl, just saw her as one of the people who would hang around the table. So I didn't catch on and was playing along thinking we were going as friends and she eventually just flat out told me she was asking me on a date, and I panicked because now I'm in dating territory and have no experience and no idea what I'm doing so I just shut her down, in the worst possible way. I stammered something out to the effect of "you're not my type" and ended it with the words "you look like my grandma". She was visibly destroyed and that's the last I've heard of her. That was 6-7 years ago and I do hope she's doing better. I've had more experience with dating and just talking to women since then but still no luck, but at least I've never said something that stupid since.
She wouldn't stop calling me boyfriend. This went on from middle school to highschool. I kept telling her to stop but she wouldn't stop. Everyone thought it was funny but I didn't like it. I think it started because I had helped her with a question or something. I made it stop because I told her something that made her scared of me. I just told her about a dream I had. Not gonna say it because I didn't like the dream and still don't but I was glad that it worked. She never talked to me again.
My favourite way men have rejected me is….. when I have not shown any interest in them and all of a sudden they are in my face going over the extensive details of why they don’t find me attractive, apparently it was usually “non-feminine personality” (i.e. not a doormat). I’m not sure if has to do with the way I look considering that they were overly nice until a certain point and flipped. It’s really sad that some “men” decide to put women in the 🍆 category or women to harass because you don’t want to 🍆 them category, we don’t care if you don’t like us and just want to be left alone. I can get date anytime that I want (it’s extremely easy) why would I care if a sad, deluded man didn’t find me attractive? The only thing that really bothers me is how often that happened when I was in Toronto (while I didn’t want to date) and nowhere else that I’ve lived… I’m assuming that a lot of men have worse experiences with rejection (probably without the negging vibe that I was getting)
Ok looking back on it my reasons where petty and hypocritical but still. Rejected my ex's attempt to get back together via proxy. Why? Well for one that's mostly how she communicated with me whenever we were in same room. She never showed any interest in spending time with me until I ended it and barely spoke and gave me the cold shoulder when she did. Well that and some similar stuff to some of the minor stories in this video. Borderline stalking over the phone and by text messages and told everyone I was harassing her (most British teenagers had prepaid phones you kept going through gift cards and I couldn't reply or call back alot of the time (early 2000s.)) Oh and alot of those phone calls... 3 or 4 back to back 45 seconds long max from over priced payphones (you could keep putting money in and oh yeah 10p elsewhere was 5 minutes so what she was using I have no idea.) And the constant accusations I was cheating on her, I had girls pretending to have a crush on me that many times I didn't even believe her when she said she had a real one. Yeah of course I had multiple on the go. The aftermath... Mixed. On the one hand she kept it up on friendly sounding bs terms but with no girlfriend to try and keep things going with... also meant I had no reason not to call her out on her crap when apparently I was harassing her again. And her next boyfriend apparently had the same experience to the point he dropped out when it ended. But to be fair, I would several years later realise I was gay so it would have never worked out.
TL:DR: Rejected my ex's attempt to get back together via proxy, because that was what she was like with me most of the time we were in the same room while we were together. Well that and she was a liar and had no idea what the difference between harassing and being harassed by your boyfriend was.
4:00 Bisexual with anxiety, depression, trauma and insecurities. Yep that's a 2024 girl or this is a shitposter pretending. It's almost too perfect lol. Also, I've had braces and a lot of work done on my teeth and yes I was inconsolable when they fitted me for the imprint in the clay and it certainly wasn't fun going through those similar procedures. But to claim "mouth trauma" is insulting and dramatic. OP really has no right to call this other girl immature.
