He called me A LOSER, so I gave him advice - WC3 - Grubby 

"u cant control how oppo plays only how u" Are the ultimate words of wisdom

'did you know you can transform bears?' is a real housewives level insult

I don't think people truly appreciate how amazing this turnaround was. Super impressed by how you persisted and won him over, even getting the "GG" in second game.

Nicest WC3 player gets a free coaching by Grubby

The F moment was the very minute I tuned into stream for the first time. Definitely a very interesting time to drop by, but you handled it all like an absolute legend. Definitely the way to deal with a rager, and an insult-thrower. Class act, Grubby.

I gotta say it was very impressive of him. He didn't just insult and take the easy way out by leaving. He stuck by in his raging moment and took you up on the challange and joined another game, where as he could have just ignored. I assume he was still irritated, but was still polite with the "u2". Rising above the emotions. Then when his anger seemingly droped and towards the end, he took advice and had a laugh. And you gave him that chanse. Enabled him to learn and hopefully change his negative outlook. It goes to show that everyone can have a shitty day, but given a chanse and taking that oppertunity, things can take a different course. To me, it was a great interaction. Very likeable. Good job to bouth of you!

That was pretty wholesome. Big props to to K1nk (Grubbys Opponent) aswell. I think we´ve all been in that situation at least once in our gaming sessions in which we just saw red and were just tilted. There are opponents that just keep on insulting and it can turn in an ugly mud fight between 2 or more players rather quickly. Really nice to see that he chose to have another game with Grubby and actually try to learn something. Not everybody can do that in a PvP scenario and it kinda takes a leap to overcome the tilted ego of oneself to actually take some advice. In the meanwhile i hope, that he improved his mental game vs human :D

Grubby playing with restrictions and this guy raging cuz grubby winning even with restrictions Truly a gamer moment of all time

grubby giving free therapy lol.

32:09 "I harass my mirror every morning" lol Great video btw, always love to see people awakening from tilt and toxicity

This is a mature mindset - not getting mad in return but realising the one who's tilted just has issues that need to be fixed (probably not just ingame but also irl if you throw insults over a video game loss). Loved this "Mentor meeting the mad Disciple" episode.

Best wc3 therapist. You show him the light in his dark human cage.

I appreciate all the uploads man, been a pleasure watching your thought process in games. Used to play against you waayyy back when and as a fellow orc main/young teenager I always looked up to you. Now I’m 30 and wc3 is still my favorite game ever, just wanted to say thanks for keeping it alive brother!

I really did enjoy this video. As a league player, i encounter these kinds of mindsets all the time, which is frustrating to me as a teammate. During working hours i am a teacher, and i really like your teaching style. You are direct, but you also do ackknowledge his feelings of frustration. You even tell him you have been there yourself, and by your play you show him that theres better alternatives. Im amazed. Ty for this and bless your patience! Edit: Nicest video i have seen on YT in a while!

We can see how in another universe, Grubby is a well respected teacher with easy temper and witty knowledgeable conversation Well done master of all races

you a true gentleman Grubby, for him to call you all those names and carry on like that. You respond with kindness was pretty amazing to watch. well played man.

Best redemption arc, did not expect that at all

Therapist GRUBBY in the house! Amazing how you turned the situation and his attitude around instead of just flaming back. Extremely patient and mature of you, i aspire to be like that

I just faced this guy twice in a row and he accused me of maphack and ranted at me about what a loser I was the whole time, so I don't think his attitude improved much after this, lol. And I was playing Orc, not even Human!

him: you play the same every time also grubby: hero solo, tower rush, only flying machines n tinker, neutral heroes, etc,

Oh wow, more of this stuff please! It was so entertaining watching you educated a fellow gamer, addressing his mistakes and what not. He does seems like a good lad inspite of his tilting tendencies tho :D GG man. Great content!

Gotta say i‘m proud the guy came around and actually didn‘t mistake your advice for you insulting hin

Ultimately, this is the way how to change a community into a more wholesome one. Thanks for this experience, Grubby! Unfortunately, there is no "super-like button" so I can give you proper credit for this!

He went from salty to listening. Some people need to be taught the hard way. I like that he became receptive.

"even though I am a loser and a bundle of sticks" LOL

ngl, that was pretty inspiring. I have trouble keeping such composure, when insulted. And you even taught him a valuable lesson.

One of the best videos - I really love how you are down to earth and have great self-reflection. I usually just listen to your videos, while working and sometimes looking with one eye. I was watching the whole time.

That's one of your best video I think Fantastic mindset and coaching!

That was so good. I like to imagine him turning the computer off with a satisfied and knowing smile on his face and playing a game of catch with his father after that game with a new understanding of what ‘it’s just a game’ means.

That's maturity right there and it's achieved through time, experience and reflection - always a pleasure to witness. Having the empathy to recognize emotion, then the ability to separate the individual from the emotion. This is not a toxic person. It's a person, acting toxic - the difference in perception is where maturity resides, as you can handle their emotion in a productive way, neutralizing it by not exchanging fire, after which - you help them see the illusion they've mistaken as reality. That was awesome Grubby!! : ) : ) : ) Also, your AoW creeping is improving for a player who couldn't even get to rank 1 bnet as elf ; p

"Listen here, noob..."

And what an advice you gave him XD

Grubby brought a sore loser straight to enlightenment to turn his whole life around, damn. 😂 thank you for your teaching Zen Master Grubbster. 🙏

You were very nice to him. I wish I'd met more opponents like you and in general a less toxic ambient. I won't lie, I have been that player in the past, raging irrationally when collecting yet another loss, not thinking straight, venting my frustration at the opponent.

"Lovely human, doesn't even need units" This is 🍈Melon in a nutshell

What a really nice piece of content. Controlling your emotions is not only useful in game, but also in every aspect of life. Doesn't mean you ignore it, but it shouldn't take over your decision makings.

that was a simple mindblock that every uncoached person gets but so hard to rid of. Glad the guy took it well

Human!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That was a really nice movie about teaching an unknown player. Great thing Grubby. A had a really nice emotions watching this. All the ppls are brothers.

I'd love to see more of these redemtion and/or coaching archs! Felt wery wholesome when you got closer to the same wavelength.

I really think this guy really deserved to know who you are at the end, cause he accepted to learn and change his mindset. I think if he knew that its a former world champion teaching him it would get to him even more and he would put more effort in.

gj grubby, glad you could help someone improve, hope he keeps what he learnt on board

Can't believe this is grubby now. I guess maturity makes you a philosopher in every aspect in life. I shall put this guy on my most respected list

How can you hate Grubby, seriously. Especially in the world of gaming where insults and threats are thrown like candies and where toxicity thrives like cancer, this guy is always there giving positive vibes, being wholesome and at the same time being funny and entertaining to watch. Even to people who might not deserve it. Warcraft 3 wouldn't be half as entertaining to watch if he wasn't there.

I really love the psychological judo you did. Kept calm and stayed centered because you knew the bigger picture. Fun to watch

In the end this guy win a free lesson on warcraft 3 strategy, cause Grubby took really a lot of time to explain, it's almost free coaching! xD

That was wholesome AF.

And there we have it 17:04 "acceptance" :D Grubby dropping truth bombs as this guy goes through the five stages of grief.. xD He really wanted to win!

My respect for Grubby just went up today. Keep doing what you do Warchief.

what a vid Grubby ! thanks for this sharing

Originally I thought "mad cuz bad" Then I thought...Grubby your a fucking King for always being the chill teacher.

A surprising amount of patience and care for a stranger. i'd just have drank his tears and moved on 🤣

GG, glad this had a happy ending. Looks like Grubby found his Vegeta

I know that I'm late to the party, but leaving the comment to up the engagement of the video, cause I really liked this game/therapy session in particular. Love watching you Grubby!

omg that first game :D what a micro play lesson

"i can fix him." actually does.

That first game lol... promise not to be bad. I see the dota lives on in grubby

Very cool vide ! :) Grubby as always been a diffrent kind of streamer. That's why even after years i still watch his containt ! ^^

I started watching because I wanted to learn more about RTS games, I started to enjoy warcraft 3 but now I check for new videos constantly because you're a wholesome dude with an admirable mindset. Never change Grubby. Not that part, at least.

There is nothing I love more than to see someone get out skilled by the Grub and for a rematch game on their terms. Oh man!

5:18 bro i couldn't 😂

"you have to proise not to be bad" hahaha, what a lapsus! :D

Video ended up on a therapy xD

I know this is not related to the highlight of the vid, but man, the sounds of your keyboard whenever you type is just really soothing

I'd like to think of Grubby as a Bo Burnham's nerdy half-brother

We see so much bad behaviour, that we have zero patience for it. Nice to see something else happening on the internet for once. Wholesome :)

Just wow❤ Good to have good people like Grubby

Dit was echt een hele vette video Grubs. Vader figuur van WC3, ik ga hier echt heel lekker op! ggs

The best way to counter something you think is imbalanced is by playing it yourself and learning whether it's really imba or if it's just a skill issue. Regardless of the outcome you'd atleast be able to learn that strategy's weakness and counters...unless you inherently hate playing that thing you consider imbalanced. In which case, tough luck.

Masterclass on leadership. Your wc3 humbled me, but now your teaching and personality have humbled me. I will relish this rare feeling and do better Thank you grubby

You´r a true inspiration to the gaming community and people in general. Not manny players would offer advice to someone that hostile. Keep spreading the love Grubby!

Love how you won him over, I wish every competitive game had a therapist like you who talks someone out of the insulting tilt mindset. I never could do it and that sort of thing makes everyone have less fun (unless you're a sadist I guess).

Meanest Nederlander vs Nicest WC3 player. Directed by Stanley Kubrick.

As I stated multiple times in the last couple of years. Grubby is a good person. This videos proofs it. Grubby became a free therapist for about 20 minutes for his opponent who even INSULTED him before. Much respect Grubby. Those who call you a friend should be happy and proud.

And this is why Grubby is my favorite streamer.

Life lessons disguised as rts commentary. Good job, Joda!

This was very wholesome, redemption arc achieved.

What a comeback. I hope that dude gets better, maybe goes pro and owes it all to that 1 chance meeting with the one and only Melon.

bro got the THORS victory. this was amazing

Grubby giving therapy lessons through w3. Love to see it.

I really like this video. I was exactly like this dude when I was young. Wish I got a coach like grubby back then

I'm amazed on how you handled that rager. GG indeed. Thanks for this.

This is so wholesome omg

Hey, Grubby, I'd like some advice about WC3 too. Can you make a video showing how to use the keyboard and it's various hotkeys for a newer player like me? Thanks for your great content, btw.

It's very hard for me not to answer with mean comments when I encounter someone like this guy in games, in general. Well done Grubby.

"Why you mad? Is only game!"

Grubby is a better man than I am. Once someone uses the n or f slur, I’m not bothering to engage in any type of discourse with them except possibly to lobby insults/try to make them even more upset.

Grubby the anger management therapist

at the same time, giving it your all with emotion might be the best thing in life

I really appreciate that despite the guy's rudeness, you still addressed their issues in rather well meaning manner. After all, the frustrations of the "impossible matchup/playstyle that I just cannot win against" is something that everyone who has ever played a competitive game is familiar with. But in truth, it's really all about practice and mindsets. Because sure, sometimes, your opponents will utilize a strategy or playstyle that will give them an unfair advantage (perhaps turning the win chances from a 50%/50%, to something like, a 47%/53% in their favor), but the game isn't happening between two AIs that both play perfectly. You're still fighting a human being, a human being that will occasionally mess up, and those mess-ups can be utilized to even out the odds, potentially even turning them around. Not to mention, in the majority of cases, even seemingly broken strats have their fair share of exploitable weaknesses, and it's up to you to study them, to find out what they are. This is very much coming from personal experience, from few years ago, when I used to spam an older version of Aurelion Sol in ranked League games, and got hit with a long lasting Kassadin meta. Kassadin was one of the best counters to my character, and a lot of them did manage to beat me. But as time went on, I started winning more and more into them, by analyzing and learning the matchup, and not allowing a myself to get a mental block from the idea that "by default, he has a higher chance to win". Due to the nature of competitive games, this is not something that will always work, but the results will show eventually. These journeys require patience, but it will always feel awesome when it pays off, and you manage to win games that would have seemed completely impossible before.

we came for some WC3 and we left with wisdom

Thank you, Grubby, for making community healthier! Maybe you helped future Happy 2 to become better!

Grubby, you really are amazing :) That was so nice of you

Grubby using only one heroe->balanced Grubby actually ALMOST playing the game as i tended->absolute masacre

now this is quality content

You are like I would hope all players were. Thatnk you, Grubby

i think u changed some lives here today man

thank you master yodda

This video is amazing. Truly wholesome content out of toxicity.

Ah, another video where Grubby abuses the game, just what I needed to finish this day with!