He has another GF But he loves us both || Smile With Prachi 

Hey prachi.. Hope ur good...I was as the same place as this girl... I was ok not getting married...he said he loves me..I even did his wedding shopping along with him😆...but as he got married...he was still calling me and dating me...so happened one day I asked him to show me his wedding album...what I saw in the album he was so happy with getting married...pictures of his frns along with him so happy on his wedding day. Days passed by he was still dating me and having fun with his wife too..going everywhere with his wife...almost everywhere....I realised this guy is damn enjoying both sides and one day I told him I just want to be with you without any physical intimacy. He agreed but after few days started to abuse me...I saw his real face...he called me what not. That day I decided to leave him..he blackmailed me and called me and raped me several times. Finally the day came I said no wonder let him blackmail me and ill still not allow him to touch me or rape me.he fought with me I left from the place..once it happened I was alone at night he was in the urge of raping me..I called the cops got him arrested. It was my fear..and I saw the real him. Today I'm happily married since 5 years...have a baby. All because I made a choice .I'm so lucky to get a wonderful husband who loves me unconditionally...now I know what exactly true love means.

I had the exactly same scenario once as the second girl. The guy gaslighted me by saying stuff like polygamy is natural for men, etc. Little did he know, I hadn't lost my brain over him. I never have over anyone, tbh. Don't think love is supposed to make you lose your mind, but rather see things with a better vision in this world. Contacted my brother who is a scientist, and asked him if it was true. He said no, and told me he was manipulating me. Left soon after six months. The biggest problem I see with these scenarios is women not respecting other women as well. The guy is the primary one at fault, but I feel like we really need to learn to respect our own fellow lady friends so much! Sometimes they give us more comfort and happiness than any bf can give. A woman standing up for another woman, be it cheating, backbiting or anything, is beautiful and rare. When we support one another, all this hurt is minimised. I've met good and bad lady friends as well. Glad to say, didn't hesitate to dump any of the bad ones.

Dear letter, If he can cheat on her, he can cheat on you too.

“You cannot heal at a place you got hurt” words!!

Letter you and your bf in simple words are cheating. And the fact that you are willing to keep the relationship even after he gets married is mind boggling to me. I feel super bad for the other girl who has no idea what's happening behind her back

I noticed that in the case of letter - she has described her boyfriend as the exact opposite of who he actually is. She says he is very loyal and truthful. It's almost as if she's trying hard to convince herself. As human beings whenever we make a mistake we try to convince ourselves repeatedly that we did the right thing. Somewhere in her hearts of hearts she knows the reality but is not accepting it. What do you think of this prachi?

"Letter" please leave your boyfriend Becoz you both are technically cheating the other by not telling about your relationship

Letter please be a good human and tell that girl about your relationship. She deserves to know the truth! Saying that man is a good human is only masking the fact that he is a cheater! Who does that....?? He is going to get married and having an affair... Pathetic! I feel very sad for that girl with whom he is going to get married. God bless her and give her courage.

My advice to letter: Please step out. You will fall in love again. The worst has happened and it still can be fixed. You staying away is the only solution now. And your bf who loved two woman at the same time, it's upto him to fix his marriage. The best that you can do is step out and live your life.

Dear letter, sorry to say but you seem to be truly Living in a fantasy world. You've been completely blinded by this so called "love". Remember that it's not always the man's fault to get into an extra marital affair. The woman who's gotten involved with the man is equally responsible. How could you get involved with an already taken man? What example will you be setting for your future children? Please save your life before it's too late. Your life will be ruined completely with what you're doing right now.

Not sending any hate to LETTER Girl you are in a stirred up situation.... Love is pure and is not meant to be shared in any way Well it might be true but as Prachi said "ITS OUR CHOICE" You might be in love with someone who can never be yours but just being connected after knowing that person is getting married is a punishment . You will eventually see his kids and his wife to be fully involved with him He will no longer consider you as a priority rather you might just be an option Do you really want to be an option forever? With all due respect please try to see how bad this guy is He is taking advantage of two ladies at the same time He swings between you and her Do you really want to be with him? You might stay unmarried for the rest of your life with more dignity and respect than right now You are not an option PLEASE KNOW YOUR WORTH

HAHA LOLLL!!!!! This letter plot reminds me of Bajirao Mastani. people wanted bajirao and mastani to stay together but nobody gave a thought about how kashibai felt when she loved Bajirao life more than hers.

In Letter's case - being a woman she can't do that thing to other woman. His girlfriend is same like her believing in him and building her future same like her(writer of letter) she is finding herself in a triangle story rather than finding her own love. How does that guy is loyal & trustworthy when he clearly making fool of his first girl in the name of love. I really feel sad for his girlfriend who might be thinking he is the right one & might gonna fight with parents for marriage with so many hopes for her future with him innocently without knowing truth😢

This is for letter: there is difference between loving someone and being in love with someone he might love you both but he can not be IN love with you and that girl both so the answer to your question is yes you can love many people at the same time but you cannot be IN love with more than one

Letter, Get out of that relationship and tell the other girl everything. Please don't ruin her life. Let her know that this is what it is and sincerely apologize to her. This will keep you at peace and help her make an informed decision. As for you, this will not end very well.. I can guarantee that with personal experience.. :)

I have suffered from such situation. When I was I at the lowest point in life, this guy talked with me and I fell in love with him at first sight. I cried in front of him. He hugged me and kissed me...That was the best day of my life...So we dated for 3 months. But slowly he started to ignore me completely...I was so depressed...I tried to make it right. But on the day of my birthday, I found out that he already had a girlfriend for 3 fucking years and was just using me. I broke down completely....But I broke up with him as soon as I got to know about this. I even asked him about this but he just blocked me.

Letter, please don't do this to another woman. You must own your mistake n step back. I think it's your responsibility to let the other girl know about this cheating scenario. You will save her life, may be this could wash off your bad karma. And guy is a cheater.

Letter you calling the guy loyal but think about it he so not loyal with the first girl . She needs to get out of this relationship she doesn't deserve such a cheap guy

Letter, it's shameful what you and your boyfriend are doing to that other girl! Please put yourself in her situation and just imagine how would you feel if you were cheated like this? Would you be happy to accept that? No, right? Then please step out of this mess and don't ruin that other girl's life. He is a cheater and he can cheat on you too.

Letter, please just step out of this relationship. Please dont cheat anyone and tell him that enough is enough.

People like letter and his boyfriend are weird and selfish, they don't care about the other girl's feelings! Letter herself is a girl but don't mind about cheating happening to the other girl. And the boy is a disgrace, two-timing for his selfish desires! I just hope the other girl gets to know about these two weirdos and stops the marriage and cut away the "cheap romeo" from her life.

Letter needs to make an ultimate decision because firstly it is very very difficult to be with someone you know is having someone else in his life. Today she's OK with all of this but after a while she is going to be trapped in an unbearable situation. She already has started feeling insecure. And first of all... Being a girl you can Not cheat on another girl. Please ❤

At the beginning I thought you would be be angry at the second writer , but honestly I love your professional behaviour , the way you replied to her making her understand her faults witbout any judgements because it clearly seemed that the second writer is completely immature and i won't call her selfish, but she seems to not hav any idea of how relationships work , lol !

Letter please see yourself in the position of the first girl. Be a good human and say everything to her .She deserves to know the truth

letter shame on you, i suffered same situation my bf cheated on me with another girl and then cheated on her YOU SHOULD BE SHAMEFUL

My question here is how can a girl love a guy who is already in love with other girl so sincerely?? How can a girl be so normal any girl in love shld have priority first frm the guy she love and then after he gets married to tht girl ur not his priority 🤔 be careful just breakup dont enter into sumother girls life without her knowledge . U will find a better one👍

Letter, you and your boyfriend are frankly destroying that poor girls life, and its absolutely selfish! Always remember, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Also, once a cheater always a cheater!

Thank you so much..you have no idea how perfectly timed this video is for me..the 5-6 min speech of yours gave me so much clarity.practical , sensible and smooth talk it was ! ❤️

Dear letter, Yeah love is a chemical reaction in brain, love is a choice, one can found two people "loveable" at the same time but he/she always has the choice of ways he/she want to love the second person! First of all accept that you love that person and that's totally ok☺️ Romance is overrated, know that! If you "choose" to not love him in a romantic or sexual way, have your boundary than it can be solved. You should love him enough to not make it a romantic connection and let him cheat with someone he claims to love. You should love him enough to let him go.. and remain loyal🖤 keep it pure! Let love stay there and let your decision of keeping it romantic slip! Let platonic, respectful & understanding feelings enter. Don’t force your self coz you're gonna find it hard for sometimes, which is normal ☺️☺️

prachi .. your video on the toxic parents is wonderful and relaxing to me suffering from narcissist. thank you Prachi .

i think falling in love isn't a choice but persuing that love is.

I am so done with people , i want to go far away.

Dear letter, I understand your situation what you're going through rn. As you're seeking advice for how to handle this situation I would suggest you to take a step back and just think about it from a third person's perspective. When you're in a serious relationship with someone the most imp thing you expect from your partner is honesty and loyalty which helps you to build trust on your partner. WILL YOU BE OKAY IF YOUR BF or HUSBAND GETS INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LETTING YOU KNOW? It's okay to feel attracted or fall in love with someone inspite of being in a relationship but one should also try to control the feelings and stay commited with the partner if you're in love with them. If you don't have feelings for someone then be honest and discuss with them rather giving false hopes or pretending to have same feelings which you have for them. In your case it's none of the girls fault bcz she's innocent for not knowing about you and her partner. Before getting into this relationship you and him already knew that he's already committed to someone. The more time you spend with him the more stronger your expectations and feelings will grow and ones he gets married eventually he'll have family responsibilities bcz of which he won't be able to spend much time with you. It would be a better option to move on and be open to new ppl, you'll fall in love again and that time you'll be thankful that you moved on in your life.

The way I look at it, everything is about control - having the control over ur own behaviour/thoughts/actions and choices is what helps us make the right choice...here letter and her boyfriend are weak infront of their own desires and only prioritising their emotions. Please be honest abt ur situation to the other girl and don't steal her choice

Talking about the 2nd letter. .hilarious! Yeah ..he is very truthful ..that is why the 1st girl friend doesn't know anything ! And very good human being also. .that is why he is being so irresponsible about the other girl's life or her wishes! How selfish people can be ! -- Preethi

Dear girls now u need to take stand for ur self 😌😌

Hi Letter, The longer you invest in this relationship the more you are going to get hurt,Just move on. "The move that you are afraid to make could be the one that changes everything" . Just try to look at whole scenario from a third person's view!!

I just love the advice you gave to advice..❤️❤️❤️ Keep up with good work you deserve millions of subscribers. This is what social media should be about

I have same situation as yours.. because I also think I'm not addicted to my phone..but when I lose it I get withdrawal symptoms..I will definitely try to spend one whole day every month without touching my phone

Letter, you fell in love with a commited guy and he fell in love you is not ur hands. But u made a move inspiye of that. THAT IS WRONG. I feel bad for his fiancé

Latter - I know you are trying to convence yourself that he love you. But the reality is, if don't love you , and not his girlfriend too. If there is a little possibility he love someone, than it is definitely his girlfriend, not you, because at the end he want to spend his whole life with his wife, not you. Now, you can do 3 thing : 1) you can still love this man while he is happily married with his wife and using you as a time pass. 2) You can breakup with him and move on. 3) Tell the truth to his girlfriend, (there is a chance his gf will breakup with him, and here you and this man can be in a relationship, if not, then you will eventually move on without guilt). I will suggest you to tell his girlfriend, because she deserve batter.

You look gorgeous today 🥰😘

Letter, absolute shame on you. How could you even look at a guy in 'that' way knowing he had a girlfriend? Shame on him also, he is cheating on her physically, orally and emotionally. No, he definitely does not love both of you, because he would not lie to her if he loved her. I am not even sure he loves you. I know the thing that they say about humans supposed to be in polygamous relationships because they are animals. But well, humans are different from other animals. We have the faculty of choice and we are able to discern. Other animals are not dependent on their parents, we are- very much. The society would be a total mess if humans went on polygamous relationships. With who would the kids grow up? There are also a few animals who are monogamous. Also, I believe that if you talk about love as the hormones and sex, then maybe that is why you think of polygamy as possible. But if you think of love as the feeling, well I don't see how you can have that strong feeling for more that one person. I take my own example: I would never love someone apart from my boyfriend. Here, you are not the one he chooses. You are not his only choice; you are just one of his choices. I really pity that girl; both you and the guy deserve hell. It is because of people like you that today so many persons are broken.

Letter please run away from that guy he is manipulating you and the other one, not asking for sex at first doesn’t mean he is the right one and he is loyal… i had similar experience but I didn’t know he has other girl and to the other girl he told he cannot marry her but he won’t keep any gf and they will be together until she marries and he came in relationship with me without telling her and when i told that girl about us she was surprised basically that other girl was living in fantasy like you… move on and be happy

I know how relationships works.. Based on loyalty and honesty.. And I can really control my feelings and attachments for third person... One of my friends had crush on me 4 years back but i never gave him hopes, that time he was 21 and i was 17.. Now he is one year married to someone.. But still ready to be in relationship with me and i m so proud of myself as i only think from his wife's point of view and whenever he tries to flirt with me i use to avoid chatting with him until and unless its necessary.. By nature he is a good guy but lacks basic principle of relationship My advice to 2nd writer is to please control your feelings i know its hard since here u r in love.. But as prachi di said you r a consenting adult and can do whatever of your choice UNLESS it HARMS anyone. So for that girl's sake please cut off yourself from his life, its not healthy for that girl and u as well

Very Professionally Answered. 👏

I was eagerly waiting for thissss dii 🥺

A person has just one heart. So no place for two if love.

Letter, If you are seeing this comment, please speak to the other girl and let her know that her fiance is seeing both of you. She is going to marry this person and she deserved to know about this. Let her decide whether to continue with the marriage or not . If she comes to know about this ib future after the marriage, she will not able to tolerate the pain.

For phone, it's a normal scenario these days and I totally agree with your opinion and for letter, it's good to separate by yourself otherwise it will hurt you later.

Not an alcoholic but very toxic environment at home I just want to get out of my house

For the 1st letter, i think even if she moves out nearby n if her mother comes to stay with her, there is a possibility that the father could come too, just for fights or argument n if she decides to not take her dad home, that will also turn into bigger arguments and shamful situation in front of neighbours cus in that state the father wouldn't care what he is doing.. I think the best thing she can do is involve someone who her father cares and listens to, like his close friend or relative, and also talk back about all the wrong things he does or say n how frustrated she feels about his behaviour, but only when he is sober.

I am happy with my one and only girlfriend. She is good and I am marrying soon. Jai shree rama

😂😂😂 Love is a waste of time. 💔💔💔 Stay single stay happy.

These videos are always therapeutic ❤️

Yes I can stay one day, two days without my phone but the thing is every 10mins there is something important I get as a message on email or on whatsapp. So, sometimes if I'm not feeling to use my phone then also I have to because my work is like this only. 🙂

The title sounds like the plot of "Girlfriend, Girlfriend" anime 😂😅

Pausing the video to answer your question. YES, I can go about with a day without my phone. Infact, when I was not working and was just a student (in the non covid world) I once got so irritated with my phone that I went without a phone for 7days!!😂 Now due to wfh and all, I only do it on every sunday. It feels amazing. Even now, I have turned insta, fb and everything off since the past 1 week. I feel detoxified 😁

Hey prachi i just want to let you know is that I love you really. It's been a year watching your videos following you on Instagram knowing you as a person and I can say this has been amazing. I found you immensely muture and a good human being. I've learned so much from you. In every difficult situation I visualize you that what prachi di would have done and I do it accordingly. May you all the lovely things that you deserve.

Thank you for simply being who you are...🥺🥺

Love your advise

Love how you start the videos with some interesting incidents 😀

I seriously think it's a bit of problem for a girl. I noticed that she is loosing her mind like she is constantly trying to convince herself that it's okay of her boyfriend is dating two girls at same time. I'm not against polygamy but it should be willing not by force. Just because one person is looking for that adventure but another one is emotional pain than its not correct or cool. And I'm 100% sure her boyfriend won't be very accepting this fact if she had another boyfriend by saying it's a poly thing. If you're getting emotionally abused please back out instead of keeping urself make addicted to something ur not happy about it.

Omg, your suggestions are too good.

Let's just learn few things in the process😁🤗

Dear letter the boy is very clever n playing a safe card don’t get much serious n kindly move on I know its lil hard but trust urself know ur worth n move on u ll end up with some one better n to be honest getting physical is what now a days called as relationship n don’t make blockages in ur mind I ll not get physical see its completely ur choice to get or not to get but but u need to remove this thought that i need a man who never asks for physical intimacy coz dude let’s it be on terms and situations n yess holding urself on something which is cheating on uh n playing safe card not a great job dude kindly move on ☺️☺️

Wow such great video....❤❤❤

Yes, I think i can leave my phone for a day, I'll try this Sunday to not my phone or any screen. (Being a designer if I get some urgent work only then I'll use it)

You are looking amazing 😎🎉

Awesome dress di!!

U r outstanding🙌

Hi Prachi . As you know my mother is taking treatment for her cancer and to support her treatment I started a fundraiser. Please let me know if you know about some NGO where they support cancer patients . Thanks

Phone ... Even I have suffered same thing... Still now.... I'm tired dear ... But stay strong

It is always the other way round. Men rarely have more than 1 partner. It's women who have multiple partners nowadays. Most Indian men are single and desperately searching for a partner.

Only two souls can be connected in a very special bond ...that bond above all other relations...Dnt be such person who spoils everyones life ..in the early stages it may seem ok but...deep inside the person,who got cheated by the soul whom she or he trusted the most .....the pain that no one knows only thay can feel the pain....if you are into multiple relations why dnt you let your partner to know that.....Just stay connected with only one soul...for a healthy society....dnt push some trusted soul into hell 😟

Nice hair cut😍

The second story was a little triggering for me😅

Hey Letter, TRUST ME , I can relate to it better . JUST LISTEN- Once he's married with that girl, you will definitalty be sidelined and your life will become hell, you will cry most of the times for him to not giving you time. And marriage is a big commitment , after marriage the relation becomes more stronger. YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER, PLS DONT LET HIM MARRY IF YOU LOVE HIM TRULY.

I can live without my phone but I need my laptop..😂😂

lots of love di..

Di For the phone I would like to day that last week only I started an internship were I am so just busy that I dont get time to use my phone earlier before that I use to say that my phone didn't have enough battery life and now what I am seeing that I am always going to bed with 50% of battery remaining but would want to say that the phone is the lender of the last resort as we don't have someone to talk to or we don't have any kind of work than its like phone is a necessity but than it just becomes an important device for that work and talking 👍

Letter, how do you think he will 'be in your life' WHILE being married to another person?

Softly , truly , genuinely...letter he is ditching you

Looking so pretty didi♥️😍🌹💐

What, falling in love is a choice? Everything I do as a human being, is ultimately my choice. Does anyone have any choice for anything?

Your BF has 2 GF and I am single from last 21 year's 🤣🤣

This may sound HARSH letter but I’m sorry he ain’t your BOYFRIEND you are technically the SIDE CHICK he has The only person who can legitimately call him a boyfriend/fiancé is his first girlfriend Second do her and yourself a favor and tell her the truth!!

What's the haircut name di

Addicted yes!

❤️❤️❤️didiii just wow❤️❤️

Prachii yesterday why no video about Korean skin care???

Letter, have you watched the korean drama - The world of the married?

You look like Radhika Apte 😊

🥰🥰🥰love yaaa!!!!!

I am super addicted

What if prachi the second woman knows everything about the two and is okay with the two because she knows where she stands in her life and she knows that he is gonna be with her eventually bcoz he is gonna marry her and his future is not possible with letter

No... But rest is true...

I dont use phone for 2 3 days in some month .. its awsome... me time 🥰.. but its also hard due to work and all..

Oh my God..oh my God

God is calling from thoosand and one directions. But our eyes are closed.We never feel love for the fellow human beings. Existence always loves never expecting anything from us-OSHO