Di for chair would want to say that if she goes for the marriage for standing in his hard times that what could happen like he is a chain smoker and he also drinks a lot than chances of liver failure and lung cancer are there so decide it properly you have to see him going for kemothrapy for cancer its painful process (after seeing my nani go for it and than died after 1.5 yrs of treatment) so would want to say that after seeing the consequences of marrying with her than if you are ready than go off otherwise what prachi di has said do follow which is the best for you 👍
Can someone heLp me here? So I met him in workplace it's all virtual now and we haven't met in front. There are seniors who help us on Google meet. He asked me to join a google meet and asked me doubt as we both got similar project names. He instantly messaged me personally on number for thanks for help. Later he started to chat with me. The very next day he told me that he texted a girl for resolution but she is not able to help. Later 3rd day I joined and he asked me doubt. I asked him to make a google meet like earlier I'll help. He hesitated. Later when he didn't got resolution he share me link for meet. And there i saw that girl was in the meet. I was shooked to see that. It made me heart broken i dunno why because he was chatting with me. But he had told me that he asked her doubt But didn't told me about google meet. And my friend said why he asked you to join meet when he could have taken help from senior who are having different meet? He said he could have asked seniors ...And why girls. So we Moved forward and he was talking with me on chats and calls ...He then went personal and started to tell me how his ex left 5 year relationship and he can't move on but he has moved on. So I told him she will come back and Mostly in relationship it happens that ex comes back. He told me she will never. I told him to msg her on social media and check ..He said he doesn't have guts and asked me to do it ...So I did and he asked me to check her replies. After few days he said that he cant check so asked me to check msgs. Later suddenly he said that she's married she replied and blocked him. He didn't ask me to check msg and said she's blocked him. Dunno sounds weird. He gave his account password and username too. After that he said am his buddy and am his bro...now that Once he now knows that his ex is no more single and married ..He had crush on another girl in workplace and said he will now move on ..After a week or so he said he has same feelings for me as well along with her. Maybe trying to make me jealous. And said wants to flirt with me and since then he flirts with me. He told me about his dad death and mom and His brother. His earlier job too. And he went on a vacation for 5 days ...There was no single text from him at all. not even a single hi from him. Even i didn't messaged him. Earlier he used to msg me on his holidays . Is it a red flag? He hasn't seen me yet nor he met me in person. I have seen his pic and status videos. He asks me for my pic just for curiosity as he hasn't seen me yet. But I haven't added aNy picture yet. He though calls me once a week and msgs me daily But not on HIS holiday ….only does when he requires information. He also said I need to make a list of girls and you are in them ...Then I said u are ruining our friendship and he said now you are not my buddy or bro….but you are one in that list to have crush on. Then he said he jokes and laughs and tells me am the only one . Once he said tell me who is the most beautiful girl in workplace so that he can impress her. He told me there was a challenge in college who will impress a beautiful girl and he made his ex impress and he said it's just a challenge he won't date her and later he did and she became his gf. He wrote songs on her on how she ditched him. And now after Him knowing she's married ..He is finding a chance on me and he hasn't even spoken once about how he is Missing her which he used to share with me earlier. I am so confused guys please suggest me what is this? Is he Just flirting with me? On this also he goes to pub drinks and smokes daily......What should I do to not catch feelings? And what if his feelings are true or they are Not?
Major learnings: 1.Standing up for love along with protecting your mental peace.. If the other person's is not willing to change.. Its not going to work 2. In a relationship both should not be angry at the same time.. 3. Building a strong foundation to your relationship before marriage is important.. And also working on it after marriage❤ 4. Knowing your trigger points is very very important Thank you akka❤The way you analysed both the letters was amazing.. Hope chair gets her issue sloved and regarding table.. Its amazing how you understood table as well as her husband❤❤ Thank you for amazing video..❤ Lot's of love❤
Smile with prachi has special place in my heart . Always wait for the new episodes .. have been able to think with so much maturity after this series . Constant supporter since the beginning ❤️
Prachi di, your vdos are really helpful for many people out here.. You're so genuine, so pure.. So understands the real pain of person ✨ Thankfully I'm not suffering from any worst situation, my parents are so supportive but whenever I would be in problem I'll surely remember you my darling didi 🦋❣️.. Thanks dii Or existing
I didn’t think this alcohol story could give me any lesson but all the things that you said about self sabotaging, felt good to learn these kinda life lessons , thanks ☺️
Chair: most young girls have a fix-it complex. No one can cure his alcoholism, not his mom, not his best friend, not his own self...only I, the great girlfriend, can fix his life! This guy has money, he drinks too much, he smokes too much, if he doesn't realise at 29 that he is approaching an unhealthy dissipated middle-age with all that family money going to doctors, it is really his problem. At 29, that sloshed feeling must be great, particularly when others in the family are earning the money and there's a devoted little girlfriend trying to fix him. But remember, youth and nasha nasha dhuwa dhuwa feelings don't last. And a wasted life, even for the scion of a business family, isn't pleasant. It will be more unpleasant if you were to partner that wasted life.
viewers really did told her to betray her brother like that, what if he wanted to know whats going on ? sisterhood is really strong with this one, if it was the other way around and her sisters husband was cheating on his wife with her younger sister most of you wouldve gone with her to let the sister know whats going on.
Table: like Prachi said, I see a lot of hope for you both!!!! Sure, your husband said hurtful things. But he stood by you during your illness and stood up to you to his parents. I think very few husbands do these things, though many do tell their wives they are the love of their life!!! I also can't help noticing you are only 26 and he is 8 years elder. There's an age gap here. So I'd like you to think if you have probably been a little immature or hasty abt stuff and he has had to step in and fix the damage, and then lost his patience and said the hurtful things. No, I am NOT condoning the hurtful things but I do think he is a good man simply because he took care of you when you were ill and defended you to his parents, two rare scenarios in a marriage that's still fairly young.
Now a days internet has made world into 1 nation or 1 place.. So ppl in arranged marriage are frauded and cheated.. Kindly make video on precautions to b taken while marrying NRI, what shld b things that a girl especially shld look bcz she will have her base shifted to completely strange location.. Sometimes guys lie about their jobs in foreign countries
Table whatever you do please end up happy and in a good relationship with your child. Go for therapy before things worsen. Don't just live with all the burden, your child will be affected
Hey Prachi Di 🙋, Are you a phycology students? Or you are litterly came from an another world 😌👼. Sometimes i just thought "Do you ever get angry on anything?😅... Apart from this BIG FAN 😄 LOVE YOUR THOUGHTS ❤️.
Hey Prachi di , love watching ur videos ; But m slightly disappointed to know that the girl u mentioned whose brother is cheating with her sis-in-law decided to back off instead of exposing him . Don't u think if v were in the position of her elder bro , v would also want some1 to tell if something is going wrong on our back ? Also living with such disgusting ppl under the same roof , keeping a dark secret in heart all the time , must be so uncomfortable to live ur whole life with !.... (Just my PS )
Yupp its totally her choice, also agree that it's not tolerable to live with these kind of people when u know the truth, And this thing will eat you from inside, But bro just try to understand Prachi Di's point of view ,.. She said this bcz sometimes result of telling someone's truth is very horrible and if the family doesn't believe her then she will broken totally and this will ruined her life 🙏.. ( This is my point of view) PLEASE IGNORE ENGLISH MISTAKES 😅..
😍u r my sister😍 di u explain us so sweetly ☺️☺️ i always wait for ur videos.... I follow all ur advice and im perfectly happy in my life..... Comparing my life before watching ur videos.. know i take a gud decisions tqs to u.... Ur videos help me a looot.
Hi Prachi . Here is an update: My mother is taking chemo treatment and her condition is stable now. I discussed with my mothers doctor and he referred me to a counsellor . But Prachi I come from a society where people of my mothers generation don’t like to open up to strangers . How do I make my mother ready for the session. ? What’s the point of therapy if she doesn’t discuss her problem? Do you think I should stay in the session or will it be better if only my mother takes the therapy. It’s only for my mother . M okay now . Please help .
Sign up for therapy yourself, and go for a few sessions. You seem to have been under immense stress lately, which is obviously understandable. Therapy will help you manage your thoughts better. Keep telling your mom how awesome is therapy. Eventually after a few sessions ask her casually to join you for a session...claiming that 'she can help you get even better'. And let the therapist take it from there..
Please help me out someone i m not able to take any disision i m going itno dipression my boy is alcoholism i can't live without him i love like anything he also love me .but i can't accept him like that .
1st letter , give yourself and the other person time until this phase ends , this phase of covid is really being tough , make him to jion in some sports that he njoy to do this really helps
Hey di I always loved your video but I want to ask you question.that how you just decided that in table case both are in depression like you didn't even know them and talk with them
@@SmileWithPrachi Welcome... I'm Psychology student and I just love your videos. I've noticed that our thoughts and opinions match so much. It feels like we are really sisters but apart.
Hi prachi di.....m in a very bad conditions with my life....m so depressed right now....i dnt have anyone to share who will understand me....di i want to talk to you i dnt ap tak me kese messages pohanchu....ese openly public platform me i cnt tell you my story....so di please tell me d way to talk to u i wanna share
Mam do you know about misophonia (sensitive to sound like TV sound, others talking on phone, fan sound, tap leakage sound), please tell me. I am suffering from this since my schooling. If you don't know solution then at least Please give me suggestions related to that.
Don't mind me asking, I noticed one thing that on your previous videos you used to wear 'Sindoor' but sometimes you don't wear. Why is it so ? Like, I mean to say, is it necessary to wear sindoor and all after marriage or its completely our choice ? Please, do reply!
