He Left...There was an OW, a marriage ....And a Restoration 

Yes sir....prayers going up!!!

It shall be done

Hermano cre en dios pero obedese sus mandamientos y no pekes y el te ayudara

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@miguel Garcia why did you leave her? If you don’t mind me asking

This also my 11th year anniversary. Standing almost 2 years. I'm praying for you and your husband. Please keep me know prayer to

@Noelle Aviles no thank you. I choose God to restore.

See ya'll don't understand. My head is covered in knots from my wife and I just see it as a crown of thorns. A sacrifice we all must make undergo in order to preserve the sanctity of this misery. That's how it works right?

Praying for you and your husband! I was in the same boat I stood for 3 years and now it has been restored! Just letting you know there is hope! Keep praying! 💜

@@angelabender1820 Praying for you! Keep the Faith your marriage can be restored!

Amen. I thank God for what you said. Remarriage to someone else while your firs spouse is still alive is a sin anyway Romans 7:2,3 therefore I bless God for what you just said mummy. May God be glorified in your marriage.

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 amen. Prayers to you and your stand.

Pray to God & seek him.

Keep standing. I am not married but I'm standing for my son's father to be restored to us and for us to get married. I don't know how long . Others may say , he may not be the one God has for me but deep inside I know God can fix anything so I told God I will keep praying until He answers.

@@kay-annclarke6312 please pray for my husband Mr Solomon Mokobi to stop infidelity

So did your marriage get restored?

Antoniojoyner, I pray your marriage has been restored.

You know... When the hospital stops giving medicine, providing options for the sick, stops caring for the sick and feeble, quits and turns away people at the Door and walk past you while your bleeding out, they cease from being a hospital the same way some churches stopped being a house of prayer and deliverance. God has a way of showing you who people really are when going through test and trials. God be praised for raising up people to help and encourage you where you are... If anything we can help walk you through we are here.. Be blessed🙏

Amen and Amen. Praying for restoration.

@@anuncommonlove1112 OHHHH AMMMEENNNNNN TO THE HOSPITAL COMMENT ♥️ WHEW!!!!😉

Amen. I've been standing for 7.5 years 🙏🏾💜🙏🏾

Bless you!

And in the midst of all the, "but God". Allow him to release you of the anger and bitterness..there are so many more videos we have to encourage you, hang in there and know you are not alone..🙏

"lord send your healing power, your favor, your love and bring peace to the minds and hearts of this home. Bless them in a mighty way, we believe the supernatural on there behalf, show up and show out in Jesus name.. Amen" Be encouraged, blessed and stay strong. 🙏

Lord hear the cries of ur child and deliver them from this awful pit of heartache and physical weakness and exhaustion! Let Joy come in the morning Lord, may she know ur peace that passes all understanding even as issues arise with her home. U are all knowing, uv got this God. Give her strength abs spare her on that there will be a great and fruitful testimony of ur healing and restoration in her life. Help get sleep and rest in u Lord, r shepherd and our shield. Thank you Lord for what u are about to do in this ladies life. In Your might name, Amen 🙏🏻

You are in the hands of God. Look up to the songs: 1. Rescue Story - Zach Williams 2. God, Turn It Around- Jon Reddick

The word of the Lord puts it like this, "having done all to stand, stand and your loins girded about..." This means we need to stay in the word trusting him no matter what. Keep the faith, as trials come to make us strong..🙏 praying and believing for you

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen!! I agree 💯%!! Thank you for the encouragement. Appreciate y’all. ❤️❤️ I was originally the prodigal, then became the stander. ✝️

Continue to pray! Ask God for forgiveness and forgive yourself! While. praying for your marriage, hope that helps

Praying for you, it helps to repent and admit what wrongs you made via the Holy Spirit. The book Love & Respect helps to see each other’s needs

Your words are so true. I feel like I'm like a piece of trash that my husband threw away because he is unhappy with his life so he wanted to get rid of me. I'm faithful and standing for my marriage but this week has been hard.

@@Drowning_Girl I pray things have gotten better for you!

Be encouraged, "trouble don't last always, it is just a season" go through your storm... 🙏

Pray away that Jezabel faithfully

@@denaehilliard2332 I am.

Yes ma'am.... God can

I declare that God is going to work is out. Pray without ceasing

@@denaehilliard2332 Thank you so much!!

7 years for me as well

Stay encouraged as this is not the end...As stated God is in control. Be blessed 🙏

Thank you Joy, this is just the first of many to come.. Stay tuned

Much appreciate the feedback, keep a look out for more content coming. Be blessed

Im praying with you for that spirit to leave your husband alone in the name of Jesus

Thank you so much for tuning in, with all those who are indeed standing, we will continue to go to God on your behalf and stand in the gap. We also stand in the gap for those who left that they too will encounter the voice and reasoning of God to make the appropriate decision and turn toward him as a prodical and go home.. Stay strong, be encouraged, God has the last say...

Thank you for the gracious comment...as anyone who's ever gone through anything will always have both types of thoughts....be blessed and once again thank you..🙏

Yessssss.. Stay encouraged 🙏

That's right! Stay encouraged...DOOOO NOTTTTT let what you see and hear affect you.. it's a lie from the enemy...YOU STAND AND BELIEVE IN WHAT U CAN'T SEE, HAVING FAITH, THANKING GOD FOR WHAT HE'S DOING ON THE OTHER SIDE ....HAVING ABUNDANT FAITH PLEASES GOD...AND ALSO ASK GOD IF THERE'S ANYTHING IN YOU THAT NEEDS WORKED ON... IT'S NEVER JUST 1 SIDED LIKE I THOUGHT LOLOL...😜😉 GOD STARTED COMN AFTER ME AND I TOLD GOD GO AFTER "HIM", HE'S THE ONE THAT NEEDS HELP, IF YOU'LL JUST FIX HIM WE'LL BE OKAY, & GOD SAID, "WHEN I'M READY I WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM, BUT RIGHT NOW WE'RE GONNA TAKE A LOOK AT YOU!!!!!" 😳 😮 WHOA, WOW!!! AND HE SLOWLY STARTED SHOWING ME ALL THE PLACES I FELL SHORT AS A WIFE, AS A MOM, A FOSTER MOM, A STEPMOM, AS A PERSON IN GENERAL.. I'M STILL STRUGGLING WITH FORGIVING MYSELF, NO WONDER THE POOR MAN LEFT😞🤦‍♀️🙌🥺🙏❤️🙌🙏 BUT GOD...... LOL IM SORRY I THINK I SWAYED WAY OFF SUBJECT..IM SORRY LOL

Notice the comment here from, "an uncommon love".... Prophetic to your marriage..... The love of Christ is completely, "uncommon." It's selfless, kind, patience, long-suffering, enduring, understanding, believing, hoping, & receiving.... In Grace, mercy, & compassion.... Love life your wife, family, marriage, finances, & freedom in Christ Jesus Holy name. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌 Amen. 💖💖

Why apply for divorce when you're believing for restoration?

@estercosta6461 God is faithful put him first and he will give you the desire of your heart a restore marriage because he hate divorce . Trust he went reconciliation for your family be bless don’t give up 🙏🌸

GM Vicki, Just know that God will finish what he started. Do not let what you see distract you from Gods promises or covenant. This is what happens when prodigals get in too deep and have blinders, they say stuff they dont mean, forget there promises, focus only on themselves, bu God. I know this to be true as this is Shon. replying to you and I too went through some things and blamed everyone else for some of the bad stuff instead of first looking in the mirror at self. "what did I contribute to our problems?" is not a question we first ask ourselves. However, when we get out of self and question God about our own selves, we will get answers. He knows how to reach us where we are, his brokenness cannot be fixed by you, but God. Just make sure when God has that encounter with him, you are ready with open arms to receive. Stay encouraged

@@Tammy-vl3pv why didn't you call for help when he was abusing you? Why didn't your son defend you?

Sounds like a midlife crisis

Hi there been in your shoes! Keep. praying and ask for your husband to have a change of heart

Yes, look at God... 🙏 Won't He Will.. Yes lord!!

@Noelle Aviles SHHHHHHH!!! I DON'T NEED ANYONE BUT MY GOD, MY CREATOR, THANK YOU THO!!

@@missklassy4447 MA'AM I HAVE NOOOO IDEA WHO MACEO IS..🥺😔😢 THIS IS THE ONLY COMMENT I'VE EVER MADE ON THIS VIDEO ... WRONG PERSON!!!!!😔 Oh wait I did reply to the Noelle person because they were trying to get me to go to some like devil worship site or something :/

Hey Mindy.. I got this.... I am monitoring before I remove folks access from this channel and this is getting ridiculous... No worries., hold your head up.. 💯

Classy? Not classy at all... Been removed.. 🙏

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thanks🙌😉🥺

We will be standing for you and praying ... "Father God in the name of Jesus, we beasech you on behalf of this request and ask that you open up the windows of heaven, pour out a miraculous blessing she will not have room enough to recieve, do exceeding abundantly above what she can think and bring a change of heart to her husband right now. God we trust you, we honor you, we believe you and turn it over into your hands....in Jesus name, amen"

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen Amen

Same…or “ there is someone out there for you. You deserve better.”

Oh My... That seems to be the answer that everyone else has because they have not walked in your shoes before. Those phrases really irritate me as well. I genuinely LOVE my Husband. Though he has moved on and in with the OW. He is still seeking divorce after 3 yrs and 7 months of living with OW. I refuse to sign papers , because I know that it is not the Lord's Will for us

@@shannongilham4945 Amen may God restore back your marriage in Jesus name 🙏

@@lydiawangui9503 Thank you so much. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Awe thank you so much, we are doing well and organizing our lives. Keep us in your prayers as we come back stronger than ever.

What about husband's divorce and separation for the most part comes from the women?

The focus is not on who does or does not separate more. This is about keeping marriages together and bringing them back to God. If the focus is on the ratio and statistics of it all this is the wrong channel. God's way or no way.. That's it🙏

On my own personal channel Imdealingwith, I go through a 4 part series called restoration of a man.. I believe this is what you are looking for... 🙏

God can, he will, but we have to trust him. "This kind comes but by fasting and prayer" 🙏

Thank you for reaching out, I didn't 4 part series on my personal page Imdealingwith and the series is called Restoration of a Man...I believe you'll get some valuable insight through that..

I believe I put it in the description below... By Stevie Alexander

Being with my beloved wife makes me hear prison work songs in my head.

@@presterjohn1697 Not sure if that is a good or bad thing....But when God is in it and he is first place, we both men and women will always do what is right to please God by doing right to our spouses. When we don't do it Gods way, we might as well be in prison..🤔

@@anuncommonlove1112 So here's my thing. I'm a corrupt child of God who peers over the fence at a vast collection of delicious lady bits. I feel if I carry on with all this sight seeing God will instigate a massive flood in my sprawling suburban home causing extensive water damage. I don't have flood insurance at the moment but I wanna listen to some sweet R&B in the next field over. Til then I'm haunted by Angola Prison Songs (see RU-vid for reference).

@@presterjohn1697 I hear you loud and clear...Change takes time, it does not happen overnight and what is required is small steps in the right direction to you get to the promise. Your walk is "Lord i believe, but help my unbelief" in this area...you have to name the areas to where there is doubt. Next allow God to work those areas out, trust him and keep your hands off of it and before long you will see the change in your self.

Keep praying sis!

Did u date anyone ? After

6hebproblem is the church folk part....not everybody that goes to church and calls his name knows who God is. The big difference is people who know of him but has never had and encounter or relationship with him. Anyone who has had an encounter with him never leaves his presence the same. When we have a relationship and encounter we treat people as God has loved us considering ourselves. This is why some of us do what we do now helping those who have been left behind due to so called church folk.... Be blessed

@Tab this is my story 23 years together would be 17 yrs married on the 27th 3 daughters. Went out to eat Dec 31 and Jan 1 2020 came home he and all his possessions were gone. He just served me with divorce papers. I am still standing waiting on God to move.

@@tc8970 thank you for sharing you testimony. God is faithful to both of us.

@jonah ogwudu hey spammer I'm not stupid

Go to the next video, it picks up from this one.. 😂🙏

With God all things are possible. He is either Lord of all or not Lord at all.. 🙏

I believe God can save every situation, but some are not worth saving. I'm seperated for 2 plus years myself from a narcissist. God will see me through.

Stay encouraged, God will honor your faith as you stand. We will be here for you and pray with you as well. You are not alone in this..Be blessed

Stay encouraged sis, God has the last say and will get the glory through your stand. Thank you so much for watching and our hope is that as you see our transparency in the story, you will find encouragement. God has so much in store for you, trust him and e will bring it to pass. "Having done all to stand, stand...."

Be encouraged....it is well with your soul. God bless you.

I would say get away from the home together and just go somewhere whether to park, beach, dinner, something that will allow a fresh scenery I order to have a real and honest conversation with no judgment and ask him how is he feeling. The hardest thing to do is listen completely without responding right away. After he speaks, turn around and tell him first what you heard with out adding anything or taking anything out. Doing this will let him know you heard his words and that you care. Later you respond to each thing accordingly in a calm soothing manner(a kind answer turns away wrath) and allow God to work through you both. Most importantly, Pray before any of this happens... 😁🙏

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen! Thank you! Our Anniversary 8 year anniversary is September 7th at first he said the kids are coming to dinner with us but when I said that wasn’t the plan hours later he said we can drop them with the baby sitter and go just to two of us since it’s our anniversary but that’s it! Pick up the kids and go home. The two months since this change happened he refused to go anywhere with me. We have spoke about some of the issues he had with me and I apologized started going to counseling and spending time with God more getting healed from past hurt trauma and baggage brought in the marriage . He said some days he’s fine but then just replays stuff over and over in his head. And he’s checked out and can’t help how he feels just feels so angry even when I hug him and tell I love him.

In this case sis consistency is key... We always ask ourselves "well how long is this new attitude gonna last" as to not give in so quick. Be consistent everyday, every minute because they are gonna look for the hole in your love. Refuse to let a hole come, trust God, pray while he's gone and pray when he pulls in the driveway, "lord bring the peace" and allow him to work.. 🙏

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thank you so much! I needed to see this. Some days it gets hard and how he’s acting I’m like I’m not going to hug him or show love I’m planting seeds for no reason he’s not going to change. You just confirmed not to do that keep being a light showing love and being Christ like ♥️

I here you loud and clear.. Many can be saved, but choose to give up do to what they see. The other thing is trusting God through the whole process and knowing that anything is possible with him if we walk in what we say we believe. The other thing is transparency which many don't want others to know that they've gone through something as to not be judged or looked down upon, so they don't share. We were told, "if you are willing to tell your truth many will be healed because of it", so this is why we are here. Be blessed, stay encouraged🙏

@Noelle Aviles if God can't restore a marriage what man can

@Noelle Aviles That IG name is clearly not of GOD.

I believe that long standers don’t truly believe and some are only out for their satisfaction and to heal their own pain or to win over the OW. I have a testimony my husband cheated, I left while pregnant it was very ugly he didn’t even show up to my sons birth and I had to take a DNA test cuz he accused me of cheating. He married the OW .. I was completely ready to let go and the Lord showed me the whole wedding was fake. I didn’t give them any attention cuz I knew this wouldn’t last I just knew my husband loved me and was mad I left. Fast forward we have a birthday party together and he wants to rekindle I say no cuz I felt like the power he had over my emotions was gone and I wanted it to stay that way. I denied him abt 2 more times.. and even once last year. I was the prodigal and I didn’t even know it I thought these other men was better but one night after realizing I was letting another man go cuz I didn’t love him I came to Christ and was shown my husband. I cried cuz my husband has still not changed plus he has been in a relationship since I sent him over to her house trying to “be free” I regret those moments so bad now my stomach hurts .. cuz the devil is moving fast he has been forced to engage again all because the Lord told me to leave my son with him and her I felt betrayed but I trust God .. this pain has purpose I see the future already. We are returning to each other. You must have faith. I thought we were done that first time, a wedding? A dna test? But God brought us past that and now I know we will get pass this one.

Trust him all the way..in spite of what it looks like, God can and will..

Be encouraged. My friend just told me about her aunt. Husband walked out on her and the kids for another woman. She was a strong believer and 20 years later he came home! All glory to God!

U just shut it down .. there’s power in the tongue. Save room for belief geesh y’all kill me with that

Thank you so much for reaching out.. It's an amazing set of questions that I can't do them justice by trying to completely undress the mind, will and purpose of God through a man. However, I do believe that all of us are made for unique reasons for his glory. We have several men who have chimed in who didn't leave but the women have, yes there are more women standing than men thus far only from what I currently see and hear. However, in this place God has us, we are learning that there are far more facets and dynamics of complete surrender to God and each other that we are now being exposed to. To generally speak on behalf of all would be belittling to the few and vice versa. One thing we do know is when God is first in every area of our lives, we will always treat our significant others in a manner that pleases HIM.

@@anuncommonlove1112 I appreciate your comment however you did not answer my questions. Thanks anyway.

Hey sis. Praying for you. It is not a matter of the black woman standing for their marriage there are many woman and men who are standing for their marriage. People leave marriages period. The enemy is real and whatever he can do to influence or temp you he will and if you are weak he can get to you. The battle starts in the mind and if the enemy can get you there that is usually all he needs....however sometimes we get in our own heads and begin to go our own way. This is why the word tells us to ,"Trust in the Lord....lean not on your own understanding...." Proverbs 3:5-6. I understand exactly what you mean when you say the weaker vessel. As a black woman of God I have asked God, "why do I have to be the strong one and stand" . God answered me and said, "Many are called few are chosen ..."Matt. 22:14. Why did God choose Joseph, why did God choose Jonah, Why did God choose Elijah, why did God choose Noah......Why did God choose Jesus! None of these individuals had to be obedient..they chose to and some with a lot of push back but because they loved God and chose to follow His Word....many were saved. The fight is much greater than what we see. The facts do not outweigh the greater purpose. When you marry, both man and wife have responsibilities. God will deal with the person not being obedient. As you stand you have to focus on you and know that God got you. Every man that I know of whose wife has stood for their marriage have been so grateful that she did not give up on God or him. "Do not grow weary in well doing for you shall reap if you faint not'"Gal. 6:9...There are so many scriptures that encourage obedience and standing for righteousness...ultimately we are all called to stand for righteousness.....curses are broken, souls are saved, generations are saved when a person stands.....Standing for your marriage is standing for righteousness...God hates divorce. It doesn't matter what the other person chooses to do God is a good God and he honors those who obey him. Love you in Christ. Be encouraged.

@@barefeetconcrete Thanks for sharing your opinion however you miss to say the divorce rate is high among black couples than any other races. This says alot and the black race must find out why it affects us more than any other races. So your concept that this happens in other races has no bearing here. My questions are for the ones that made the video. Please allow them to answer. I really appreciate it. Thanks.

@@yvettecain7447 I said a lot and it's backed up with Word so it's not just an opinion. Wanting answers and just being bitter is two different things. Your tone even in your responses are nice nasty. FYI when you ask a question on a public platform anyone can answer. You can be right in your own mind and be completely off with God. Maybe you should seek answers from God or actually pay attention when people are trying to point you to God. Have a blessed night.

Thank you for writing in, on Shons channel he speaks about leaving and what that all looks like from his perspective. The channel is called Imdealingwith and the series is "Restoration of a man" 3 parts. Hope this gives insight

@@anuncommonlove1112 thank you!

I just prayed for you Keith. My wife just filed this week. Pray for Howard and Julie.

Yes it did... But God.. 🙏

You can't but God can, only if its his will

@@sunflower5741 That's the issue GOD can but won't force his will upon no man, but it just seems to me as a husband we look for the easy way out

Thank you for writing in ..go to Imdealingwith channel and you'll get an inside perspective from Shons point of view. Restoration of a man 1-3

Stands for Other Woman (OW)

Other woman

Other woman

No sir, there has been plenty of men reaching out here as well as privately my friend, you are definitely not alone. There are some that reach out in other video threads as well.

Than you so much for tuning in and the feedback.. In any relationship we are always going to go through whether the woman or the man is unhappy for whatever reason. There were many things that I held on to from my past and showed up in my future cause I didn't deal with them. We men have a tendency to sweep things under the rug and pretend we good only to find they've made a home in our present. So it didn't take much for me to become discouraged, irritated, bitter and so on (see imdealingwith "Restoration of a man") to begin to point fingers as to why I feel the way I do. Truth is, the process humbled me in order to really enjoy what God blessed me with..

@@anuncommonlove1112 Perfect response!

Thank you for watching and we will be in contact soon. Be blessed, stay encouraged and keep believing.

Hi Michelle, It would be a pleasure to connect with you. Currently I don’t have Facebook but you can email at anuncommonlove@gmail.com. Or via Instagram @anuncommonlove2021. Many blessings to you for your support. Adrienne

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thanks for your response, however I'm o ly now seeing this... I'm not to good with this technology 😂 but I'll try nd msg you as soon as possible... I'll love to speak to you nd tell you my story. God Bless you, your family nd ministry. 😍 😍 😍