Aba and Preach support true gender fairness and are actually pretty consistent with their views. While they can be biased towards men, they still call out men's double standards and hypocrisies unlike red pill communities that have basically evolved into modern feminism for men. Just because they talk about men's issues more doesn't mean that they hate or are unfair towards women.
She didn't mind his van, she minded it was dirty and she didn't criticize him for his home, she criticized that he was living beyond his means. Why would she marry someone who makes irresponsible financial decisions and puts everything in his image. Plus he misrepresented himself and instead of dumping him for lying she's trying to help out. They really did her dirty.
@@bannedmann4469If you are going to pick up your future wife, whom you sold the story to that you're loaded and established, and you don't even pick her up in a clean, organized van, it's a problem. He sold her the story of a white-collar man, not blue.
I dont know about that. When she 1st saw the van she was actually hoping it was the other car. As far as staying n helping out..she can always pack her bags n go right back to where she came from. Every Woman has Dreams of hitting the lottery.
@@blunt2416 LMAO bruh you and that other guy are stupid AF you can't be lying to females and then act a victim when they expect you to live a certain type lifestyle based on what you showed/flexed on them if you can't actually afford that lifestyle then don't pretend that you can just to get a girl interested then act a LIL B when the female gets mad
@@rustug75 💯 exactly. To her it just looks like he was pretending to be a real estate agent to get her and then switching to being a plumber, which there is nothing wrong with being a blue color worker, but he's a real estate agent and he's pretending now all of a sudden not to be one and to be broke. It's a relationship founded upon lies. She was already established in her own career and left to be with him. If you say you are offering something in a relationship then you have to follow through with that. It doesn't matter what it is.
I am so happy this happened because a lot men in America 🇺🇸 think dating a women overseas or other Countries are going to accept their bullshit because of traditional culture. Good 😊 for her!
Yeah I’m from north africa and currently in asia , been with different women from here and there , i can tell you that women are all the same when it comes to (i can live without a man or I’ll focus on my career) it’s not just in the usa
You’re an idiioot if you think most guys trying to date overseas are as stuupiiid as this guy. This dude’s a clown, playing stuuupiid and childish games. But you keep telling yourself that you’re a strong independent woman and “real men” are not “intimidated” by masculine women like you.
They called her a gold digger..she is just a rational woman in her thirties. It is a red flag for a man to have expensive things but lives in poor place.that means he flexes what he can't afford.and it shows how irresponsible he could be if his priorities were clothes, bags,and watches he can't afford.and he is in his 40s..not even a college kid would get a pass for that.
If she was white this would be the description as you put it for her not how they tried to make her look a golddigger. But that's what she get for agreeing to put her life on display. You sign off on editing that can go any way.
This woman is a gem, the fact that she was willing to help him sell stuff to make money meant that she was willing to work things out with him, he pathetically tested her but it backfired..
So these guys end up staying together and later on she wanted to have a child, he agreed verbally, but then kept doing everything he could to put it off. He told her she might be too old to have one, so they went to a fertility doctor that told them it might be harder but far from impossible. He kept trying to get the doctor to make it sound worse than it actually was so he wouldn’t have to give her the kid he promised. Dude is shady all around.
This woman is not a gold digger. She dated him long distance for years without being sent a penny. She had a career and lived in a nice house in her home country. He was supposed to already be married to her. So when she left that to be with him and he pretended that it was a complete downgrade, of course she was disappointed. Nobody should have to downgrade the lifestyle they have to be with a man. He did not find her in a hut! And she STILL tried to be nice about it, while the ceiling was falling in.
She looks and is a gold digger. The fact that he flexed for attention does not make her less of a gold digger. She was fishing for a rich man. This is the very definition of a gold digger.
To everyone else, I thought it was basic common sense to not downgrade your lifestyle for someone. If a girl I think is cute but lives paycheck to paycheck while I’m making like 500k a year then I’m probably not gonna downgrade myself. If I work hard I’m not gonna flush it down the toilet for love.
It would be bad enough playing these games with someone in general. But to do this to a woman who left her country and family and needs to trust you as her only person in a foreign country….. I’m disgusted. Most people would already be nervous about the unknown of risking so much. His job was to make her comfortable and secure. He did the opposite. I don’t know how she puts up with him.
Bilal went to her country wearing designer labels and had the nerves to pick her up in a van and take her to a crumbling house. Folks need to stop calling her a gold digger seeing how he's the one who lied to her. Bilal needs to be alone and if they get married I doubt it will last because he's got a lot of issues.
I live in Trinidad and I'm married to a trini. This girl is clearly well off and she's not a gold digger at all. She comes from a well off family and she is very well adjusted. I hated what the producers and this guy tried to do. This is not right.
I mean yeah you can't shame her for her standards. She takes care of herself and clearly has worked hard in her life. So if she wants a man that does the same then that would be great
Exactly! She wore her clothes well, she had a lot of grace and class and mannerisms of a upper middle class woman that was raised in a modern household. She grew up in comfort and this clown showing her a dilapidated house with no water and busted roof.
People think because you come from the islands you are not well off and educated and you are looking for money. She was looking for someone to match her own status. Now, she has wasted 2 years of her life.
They had a conversation later where she explained that he looked like he was struggling, and she left her situation in Trinidad to come there, cannot work for several months, and wanted to know if he was going to be able to take care of her. Which is a perfectly reasonable concern.
She had every right to be upset tbh. Imagine thinking you’re booking a 5 star hotel suite to go to another country and you rock up to a cabin in the woods with no heat 😂 he did the bait and switch
Dude, I'm a Trinidadian, born, raised and still living there, and let me just say everything he did is super disrespectful. when you bring someone to your house, especially for the first time your house is supposed to be in order because over here, if anything has to be in order and look good it is your house even if your house is a cardboard box. So to bring your fiance to your house when it is a mess and when you came down flaunting money means that your life is a mess and you have no respect for her. Talk done
I imagine that's why she had a problem with the van. It sounded like it was messy and she was shocked he didn't organize it. I'd feel the same way, but I'm too non-confrontional to say anything.
EXACTLY!! I live here too ( Central). My neighbour has an old car. He keeps it CLEAN!! It shows he has pride in his possessions. This man's van and house are like a pigsty!!
Same ting I fuckin sayin, and I watching the way they really trying to spin it as if she's the wrong one in all of this. I normally don't follow the show but they trying to throw dirt on an innocent person. Yuh van dirty and you putting the girl good bag and ting to get grease up? Steups
I genuinely believed that she was a sweetheart. He just took advantage of her trust, lied to her, and she fell for something that was not real. You can not get upset with someone if you lie to them and she really seems like a wholesome good woman.
When someone uses the word “however,” I’m put off. It’s too formal and businesslike, ugh. Bilal is a handsome fellow, and his ex is just adorable, plus down to earth. As for visiting tropical climes, Shaida is right; dig out your faded shorts and tees, battered beach bum hats, to blend in. Who needs a watch? At the same time, she also showed her Island 🏝 side by being shrewishly critical. Those folks are neatniks, which I find tiresome, even grating. I send them articles telling how modern kids have allergies 🤧because are not exposed to dirt, manure, which provided a sort of immunity!
When I met my wife, I told her the truth from the jump. look, I am student and I work part time and I promise I will work hard to provide for us once I am done with uni. She agreed and she knew what she signed up for. She helped me while I was studying, to a point she was working until she was 9 months pregnant. After I finished she stopped working, now we have three kids and I pay her midwifery course. It’s all about being real with other person and give them options to sign up or not. If she signs up to stays, she won’t complain but if you deceive a person, you can’t blame them and say they are gold digger.
Well said. It’s also nice when you build that empire together as a couple. That makes for a great partnership in life for all aspects you encounter. Respect, honesty and loyalty are important and goes both ways.
Not a gold digger necessarily, but she probably becomes a more… agreeable… person while living in comfort. Not everyone is like that though. Some people stay quite agreeable even when facing adversity, and those are the diamonds in the rough. Hard to tell who is who while you’re surrounding a person with luxury, though.
In the scene with the car, she wasnt saying "the car was unacceptable" she was saying the trash inside the car was and how he so casually plopped her belongings on them like they were part of it. Goes to show you how people take care of what they have and obviously him "testing her" was a set up from the jump, he was already ready to pull the cord on the relationship.
As soon as she said we may have to sell the suits I was like yeah, she's a real one. The last thing a Gold digger thinks in that situation is "How can we fix this problem for 'US'?"
What a moron. I think she was a really good catch. Down to earth, pretty and a yoga instructor (ehem 😏). He bombed a potentially good relationship for absolutely nothing. If you can’t determine if someone’s sketchy without doing this kind of bs and being sketchy yourself, good fking luck in life, how did he survive so far is what I’m curious about. Before anyone says anything about simping. I’m a straight woman from Eastern Eu. Go off.
This clown is so focused on his idealistic and honestly childish idea of being so afraid of gold diggers that he can’t even see he got a keeper. She didn’t immediately leave when she saw his garbage van and room, instead she tried to figure out some ways to make it work. Anyway the guy’s too stupid to see his own stupidity.
She wasn’t upset about the humble car and home, she was upset because it was unsanitary and possibly dangerous. She’s A grown woman moving to an entirely different country and this is the person that she has to rely on for her financial stability and well-being she deserves to know what his financial situation is.
What a FRAUDULENT SHUPID “MAN” . The fact that everything she said went above his head…. aggravated me. 😩 Because how stupid can you be, to catfish someone then turn around & say you don’t want me for me.
There are really men out there trying to vilify women for doing what is smart, sensible, practical and in their best interests- by calling them gold diggers. What it comes off to me as, is that these those certain men just want the women they deal with to lower the bar and accept whatever it is that man has going on, they want a “ride or die” but I think a lot of women are waking up and realizing there is no prize or reward in being a martyr for a man. They have seen older generations of women, be it their mothers, aunts etc, sacrifice their love, energy, time and lives for men and get very little in return for propping that man up and the younger women of today are seeing that investing so much of yourself in a man who is only willing to give you the bare minimum so he can string you along while he gets the best of you- is not a wise choice. Women have been hypergamous possibly since the beginning of mankind, it has only been in the last 50 years or so that this behavior which benefits women- and the men they are with by the way- is now being cast as shallow and greedy. Never has there been a time in history where parents would want their daughters to be with men who have nothing or are not willing to offer anything substantial to provide safety and comfort for their daughters. Make no mistake, it is not a free ride for women. Men may have a house, but women make it a home. Women provide the love, encouragement, moral support and inspiration that men need to thrive and elevate their lives- but it has always historically been understood that, that kind of submission and co -operative behavior that men want from their women is contingent and incentivized by the provision and protection the man has to offer her. It is only now in recent times that men are asking women to do what they have always done without men doing what they have always done. I encourage any woman to choose the man that is willing to make her a Queen in his Kingdom- that is the man worth submitting to and loving. Don’t be afraid to look out for yourself women, the label gold digger is just a guilt and shaming tactic to get you to waste your time And energy on a guy who has nothing for you.
I agree with you completely and as much as people say it’s cringe I love the quote even though I’m paraphrasing it a bit. “ a woman multiplies what she’s given, a house into a home, sperm to a baby…”. That’s why I also say if you give bare minimum I’ll multiply it and give zero. Then men want to be defensive and say “well you’re not doing anything either” meaning that I’m not chasing after them. Yes absolutely not, to take a turn on a misogynistic anecdote: the key comes to the lock.
@@tamiajackson The issue with the comment is that it's too long. You need to say something vaguely-aggravating in a short manner in order to chase clout.
lol, “women make it a home” as a person who is in the 1% of men in regards to wealth I’ll pass on that. All you’re offering is vague sentiments that quite frankly mean nothing. You’re argument regarding hypergamy is wrong as well. While women have been previously hypergamous it was on a local level. The internet has made women hypergamous on a global standard and thus 80% of men are not longer even considered. So you want a man that is in the top 1% wealth wise and top 20% looks wise while offering some vague notion of utility ! Not to mention that the women of todays age are no longer even offering the virginity that was the bare bones that was once required. So as a person in the top 1% of male earners I’ll pass and so have many of my colleagues.
That should have been his test. Which she would have passed. The first clear sign a woman is into you for you is that she isn't quick to beg you money or things. Well, for Caribbean women.
@@ducksquidbat8315 just what i wanted to say lol he thinks they dont become covert some wait to strike for 20 years for 400 milion like the ex wife of dr dre lol wake up indeed
@@ducksquidbat8315 "wake up" lmao It's totally fine for that guy to deceive her I guess? Who wouldn't be mad if their partner was lying to them about A LOT of things?
This man is ridiculous. He literally put on a persona of being well-off to get her attention and to woo her and then when it worked he proposed to her. Just for it to be a facade and he expects her to be OK with that.
You mean what women do all the time by lying about their body count (after mariage) gaining weight (after mariage) Putting on lot of make up and when it comes off (after sex ) oohhhh that behaviour yes i know that one thats so bad of him 🙄🤔
This framed her wrong. That was a shady test. He is lucky he didn't get cut. I think she was good, bc she was trying to come up with solutions such as selling his shit bc it looked to her like he was living beyond his means. She didn't just walk out on him as she could have.
As a Trini woman, I love the fact that she called him out on his mess. He was trying to flex real hard and he's just lucky she didn't go full Trini woman on him.... he did lead her on!!
They absolutely framed her to be a gold digger. She was even willing to stick around because to her, he’s living above his means in terms of what he has flaunted to her over the course of their relationship. She had every right to be shocked and feel the way she felt. Her explanation even felt like she was explaining he was leading her on, not that she’s just our for his money! That man was a whole ass circus, outta here with that mess 😒
Her initial reaction was trash though and very gold diggerish. She didn't get more reasonable until Bilal called her out on it. Then that's when she said the stuff about working with him and selling the suits. She didn't lead with that though and that's what pissed people off.
@@DavGre it's possible she would have. They had some mutual friends so they could have still connected offline. Even if his profile hadn't been hyped up and he had just been himself, been much more genuine, their situation could have gone a totally different direction, and probably for the better. Problem with social media is everyone thinks it's a race to be the flashiest, so it's hard to even know which side of him was "honest".
@@jerometruitt2731 I can understand that point. I also didn't particularly like her initial reaction, but it was also a genuine one based off what he presented to her over 2+ years, and what she was expecting (even if it was a negative one). She also at least corrected herself and tried to be more gentle about it when she didn't have to be, but I think given everything she had a right to feel negative whether she lead with the more chilled discussion or not. Unfortunately he really just dug the hole for himself by not being honest from the get go 🤷♀
For those that said she's a gold digger, that's basically who he wants to attract with the image he tries to put out. Flash gold and you'll get gold diggers. She did nothing wrong. Dude just wants a trophy wife without playing his part.
@OohOoh AhAh Let's be real aside from actual hotels most Air BnB's in residential areas of Caribbean areas are going to seem a bit sketchy to some compared to North American cities. She booked him a place with security, basically a gated community. If she wanted to put him in a truly sketchy area she could have.
@@craiver00 You can use a fishing pole and end up fishing out things that are not fish. Just don't be surprised if you end up getting fish with a fishing pole.
He misrepresented himself to such an incredible extent that she genuinely couldn’t even believe it when she was seeing it 😭😂 poor girl. Also this show sucks so hard for constantly trying to portray EVERY SINGLE PERSON from any country other than America as “a gold digger” its so cringe
This is one extended pre-meditated gaslight and its horrifying. This poor girl got lied to for over two years by someone exhibiting clear lack of accountability and seemingly narcissistic behaviour. He literally lied about EVERYTHING to this woman and is now attacking her character for not accepting that lie.
Exactly! He’s mentally abusing her. She’s in a new country all by herself and per the government he’s supposed to be her resource and this is stunt he pulls.
@@real_abiola I agree he’s a big baby. I hope she asked him why is he divorced. His wife looks like she just tired of him , but they have the kids so she works with him for the kids. But so far he think he has self confidence, he actually showing his insecurity
If he really wanted to test a woman, he should have presented a “poor” imagine to her first to see if she likes him for him and then reveal that he’s well off after. For him to sell her the well off look at first and then say ta daaa it was a lie, no one would be happy with that doesn’t matter if it’s male or female.
I had a boyfriend who I thought was broke but once we made it official I found out his parents were millionaires. Usually the only guys that try to flex their money right away are "new money", and it's honestly a huge turn off.
My cousin does that. Literally has an only fans and her regular social media is filled with revealing photos. Then she complains that she's objectified by men everywhere she goes. She knows exactly what she's doing and plays innocent.
This woman was not a gold digger, he was just a stupid dude. You can’t tell someone your a millionaire and then take them to your house in the hood. He should be glad that she even stayed around long enough to make the show interesting.
He never said he was a millionaire. Those are assumptions. Same as men who rapes a women because they look like hookers. And their reason: her clothes said she asked for it. So ignorant. This Abe & Preach show is for 15/16 year olds hahahaha.
he is actually a millionaire learn to listen he was playing pranking her to see if she was gold digger, remember how the beginning of the video says he is well off financially and has a nice home lol y’all are slow in the comments section
@@jamesg9583 You so much in your feelings that your missing the whole point. If you show someone a million dollar lifestyle then you need to back it up pulling up in the hood is not going to work. Learn to listen and not react it’s surprising she didn’t leave at the airport and damn near amazing she didn’t leave when she saw the house. The prank proves nothing!!!
Cleary he still has a "hood" mentality. He has money, but the fact that he feels the need to flaunt his money in his clothes, and watches is true to the phrase: You can take the "person" out the hood, but you can't take the hood out the "person".
Except most folks in the hood aren't flexin' like that. The flexers are a small group of guys and everybody in the neighborhood knows they ain't got nothin'. They have to get their relationships from very young hood girls who don't know yet what the deal is. Or from people outside of the hood who don't know they momma.
Blows my mind sometimes. If you find someone that you really dig, be honest from day one about yourself. You'll either find they dig you as well or they weren't quite what you imagined... then you move on in that case. Even goes for basic dating from the get go, be you and be genuine. Put in the amount of effort you can see yourself affording years later. Folks try way too hard in the beginning and I think it sets the bar where expectations will ultimately be chalked off as failures or lies leading to many unhappy times ahead.
Y'all hit it on the nose. At this point in life, I would have been pissed off, because when I was younger I did is way too many guys that acted like they we're financially stable and I ended up taking care of them. At least give somebody the equal opportunity to know what they're getting into versus setting them up, that's not cool
I'm sorry that she wasted 2 years on this shady guy, shes well put together and expecting the same from her partner. She was will to stay and help him stop living above his means.... she's a keeper!
he is actually a millionaire learn to listen he was playing pranking her to see if she was gold digger, remember how the beginning of the video says he is well off financially and has a nice home lol y’all are slow in the comments section
It’s amazing how a lot of people in America still think that people in other countries are beneath them that they feel that they have to “test” them to see if they’re gold diggers. Most people who are looking for people abroad are people who can’t find any in their own country. 🤷♀️
Exactly....the entitlement and narcissism. I see it alot with 90days....they think they are doing them a favour and they should accept just anything. What they dont understand is the person who is travelling to the states or wherever has to uproot their life which is a much bigger sacrifice and they can't fend for themselves in their new location right off the bat. They need to be sure they are leaving their life for much better and wont be worse off.
I'm Trinidadian and I don't think people understand that culturally it doesn't matter how poor you are we would never invite you into a dirty home. 2ndly we have names for men who do this to women and it is a huge taboo even be with them. I am sure she is so embarrassed.
Can someone explain to me how this isn't exactly catfishing? why is it supposedly different? How does he come out as the victim and not the villain in all of this? Catfishing: "the process of luring someone into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona."
Most men I think agree with AnP take on this.. what dude did was wrong. The only thing is when it comes to 1st impression alot of men will catfish (or flex) just to get there foot in the door. It does not mean you dont have a good personality, but to seal her initial attraction to you you might have to do a little extra....Its been like this since the 50s.
Because he never showed her his home. He didn't say he lived one place a but showed her something else. He never showed her anything but some fancy clothes....I mean I guess you could call it catfishing...but it just seems like good old fashioned assumption on her part, to me.
As soon as she said: "Well we could sell some suits ..." I immediately knew she wasn't a gold digger, a real gold digger would have just hopped back on the plane and went home the second they realised what was up. Or expect him to do everything himself out of frustration. She was actually coming up with ideas to fix things. She never once said she wanted a big house or fancy cars, rather just something tidy and comfortable enough to live in. Dude picked her up in a work van ... Man I'd have just taken a cab or cleaned it up if that was my only whip (gotta be humble) lol. Lastly you can't blame her with being so harsh and having such high expectations when it was HIM that was advertising himself that way. Had he been honest from the beginning and she still acted that way, then we'd know 100% that she's toxic. However, that's not what we got ...
@DarwinAward You're delusional. She's Trinidadian, in our culture a woman can marry and start a family at any age she desires. Alot of Trinis get married around this age and start a family. Im noticing nothing is good enough for u American bm. Had she been a babymama at 37 you would be singing a different tune and we don't call strangers asking advice on how to live our lives. We are very family oriented ppl and we have great examples around us of successful families. Grow up. How is expecting a grown a** man to put u in a clean home in his country gold digging. You clearly dont know what it means to be a man if your first thought is her having a call with a complete stranger assuming about her life. I guarantee if some of u bm travel the world u would realize how embarrassing some of yall really are. You are not men if you don't know that your first job as a husband is to put your wife in a clean home.
Agreed. She gave up a life in Trinidad to come over and build one with him. HE set expectations high with all the flexing on social, which speaks volumes about his character. Even his ex-wife knew what he was doing and called him out on it. All these people saying that she's a gold digger need to wake up and think if the shoe was on the other foot
The fact she was going to help sell some stuff shows she's not a gold digger. She was willing to work with him. People need to stop playing games with their partners
What y'all didn't mention is American men "import" these women and expect them to accept whatever flim-flam they set up because they are from "poorer" countries.
Thank you for mentioning this. These types of American men ( and quite frankly Western men) think that they can push their nonsense and/or abuse on women from developing countries and that the women should endure it because she should be grateful that she is in a developed country, which reeks of entitlement and egotism that in certain instances can be deadly.
Aba N Preach truly care about and support women as equal. They’re not creeps like Andrew Tate, and they’re not like these “male feminists” that are equally as bad bullying and manipulating women. You both make me feel a little better about the messed up world we live in, thank you!
I appreciate how you guys can see things clearly. I saw this clip on Facebook and everyone was trashing the girl and acted like the guy was some victim. It's ridiculous
It's quite common for people to side with a manipulator/scammer, according to psychological studies it's because it makes people feel like they couldn't get scammed if they find the victim at fault.
She looks and is a gold digger. The fact that he flexed for attention does not make her less of a gold digger. She was fishing for a rich man. This is the very definition of a gold digger.
@@gospeldva Yes I was shocked as well but my therapist told me about this when I shared with her how cruel my mother in law was to me during something that had also happened to her.
This is apples and oranges. You can't show someone one thing and expect them not to be shocked when something else is presented. The first thing that would have crossed my mind is what else has this guy lied about and now I am his mercy away from my home and maybe all those things he has told me are lies. I would be afraid of staying with him because he was a liar.
Listening to that part about your spouse making large financial purchases without discussing it with you first is so real. Don’t finance anything as a gift for me.
Agreed. Since I handle the finances in the family, there's no way my husband could spend a bunch if money without me knowing. Hell, I felt odd getting a brand new Honda cr-v last year. Like it was too much even though we could afford it. Spend more then $50 on me I feel odd.
Yup. I’ll drive that car straight back to the fucking dealer if I find out it wasn’t paid off in full or it put us into debt to buy it. I’m not about to get us into a financial mess just to flex. not for A N Y B O D Y.
To me, $100 is a LOT. Being raised poor does things to your perception of money. I refuse to marry a man who is irresponsible with money, because I refuse to go without food ever again. Every penny is precious. Spending it on beer or a car is unacceptable, unless that spending has been properly thought about.
@@PHlophe he is actually a millionaire learn to listen he was playing pranking her to see if she was gold digger, remember how the beginning of the video says he is well off financially and has a nice home lol y’all are slow in the comments section
I went out with a guy who pulled some of this. He came and picked me up in a work van, which was fine with me. Then I saw the passenger seat and floor were knee deep in fast food wrappers and drink cups....that's too much. Flashy turns me off, but be clean and tidy please! Do own a toothbrush!
I had a friend like this. Chains and expensive looking jewelry. “Why these girls always want me to spend money on them?” That’s the imagine you’re portraying.
They're dumb then, because men who have to be all over accessorized & shit are typically not generous, and when you're looking at them- you're literally looking a ALL of their worldly possessions Asses need to be looking for them good Ole NB new balances, 🤣🤣🤣🤣.. LVBS
Yeah true, the Deception on its own is enough to jet out so u can't chop it down to gold digger now cause in that situation someone can just be turned off by the lying in itself. Now there's no knowing if he had have been honest from the get go if she would have been happy with him for him.
As someone who lives in Trinidad, i remember seeing the clip of her 'acting like a golddigger' circulating on social media, & alot of us were very disappointing bcuz no context was given. To now see an extended view of the situation it's REALLY eye opening.
She’s not a gold digger. He lied. He presented himself as someone who can take care of her. All he done is gaslight her and mentally and emotionally abused her.
She's a beautiful representation of Trini women ❤️ full of class, respect and grace that unfortunately fell for a bitter and narcissistic man who should have focused on healing from his past broken marriages before projecting his broken trust upon such a wonderful woman!
😂 😂 😂 And this is why her mum said, pelt yuh arse back home! She's a gem, the fact that she says let's sell them suits if you really struggling says all he needed to know 🤷🏿♀️
Yes when she said bring uh backside home I loved her. A tru trini mom. I was finding my backside back home. Shaeeda is a better woman than me cause this guy is a 🤡
So she's a gold digger for wanting someone who's actually financially secure? No, she actually liked him, he just doesn't meet the standard. If he did he wouldn't feel the need to pretend to have more than he does. They don't have to be rich but never settle for the struggle life especially with a liar.
when she said “humble abode” it made me like her even more. She genuinely cares about them enough to step and tell him how it is but also be gentle about it.
This guy can go about making sure she’s marrying him for the right reasons without doing absurd things like this. I’m sure he thought he was so intelligent doing things like this.
I don't think it's absurd...what is absurd it proposing to someone you're unsure of in the first place. If she was just coming to visit and put her through this test that would have been fine. He could have sent her home and never spoke to her again.
Yeah , if you want to see if someone is a gold digger then what about NOT showing you have money and just be yourself... He just likes to act rich and tried to justify it with this "test"
I honestly feel bad for my Trinidad sister right there, leaving her beautiful house and country to be with a pretended , shout out to his ex wife for telling him, he’s doing to much too font
Yeah, she kept a long distance relationship with him for over a year and then left her home to be with him. Only for him to have lied about everything.
That bait and switch was wild. She’s a very attractive woman. Why would she settle for some struggle 💩 like that? If the roles were reversed and she pulled that 💩 with him TLC and everyone else would have dragged her for filth.
Well she was fine with it as seen in the video saying we're gonna need to get rid of some of those suits. So she was willing to make it work just wholly disappointed in him as he was flaunting a wealthy lifestyle and seemingly lives in poverty whilst buying expensive things. I.E. Hood people tend to buy the expensive clothing brands/gold and jewelry too flex when they aren't well enough off to do so which in turn keeps them in poverty.
