"If You Make 50k, YOURE TOO BROKE TO DATE" 

Who hurt you? Was it necessary to call women with different standards bottom of the barrel because she had bad experiences with men? I notice you are quick to defend a woman who demeaned other women as bottom of the barrel.

Just said a whole lot of nothing

Real talk, who hurt this person?

I feel like a lot of these people just make comments like this for the pin lol. Same with people wanting more likes and stuff

Who hurt you?

What do you do? How long did it take you to get where you are?

I'm the same way. But I think that's partially because I don't have expensive tastes, and tend to enjoy simpler things in life. My hobbies also don't require constant spending.

Exactly, I make 80k a year, have a rental property where I stay in one of the units which brings my yearly taxable income to 120k, and I shop st H&M and have a $400 phone and a 2017 truck at 29 years old lol I'm still covering some other things in order to get ahead further in life so I don't have much "free income" but I'm home continue shopping at H&M and continue driving a car that's at least 5 years old whenever I decide to trade in my vehicle

Same. I dress like a 90s skater lol. My truck is nice but outside of that, youd never know I made over 100k.

Yeah okay buddy. If you look like youre barely getting by it might just be you got shit taste. Go to a thrift shop and develop taste You can look damn fine for fuck all... brandless

You are living my dream life, kudos to you and your husband!! ❤ me and my boyfriend are 21 and at the "bottom of the barrel" right now 😂 I just started off in hairdressing and barely make $9/hour before tips, and my boyfriend is working food service and retail to make ends meet while being a caregiver to his elderly nana. We are saving so we can move out together, then he can go to school. We have been dating for 4 years, and we definitely both have made stupid decisions with money lol. 😅 our plan is to eventually save up enough for a homestead, we want to live as sustainably as possible on a couple acres. Wish us luck 🙏

Congrats Miss you are a real gem of a lady.

To quote Aba & Preach - “Bars. Straight bars”

She's insane for not wanting to have a long term relationship with someone that can be financially unstable where kids can be involved? She's more sane than most people in this section and most people in life arent gonna go from making 20k to 200k. It's not 1950 anymore you can't live off of apple bees discounts every Tuesday and 20k a month while raising a family 😂.

@@brianring-nu9dwbut they aren’t looking to start a family or a healthy relationship..their spoiled whores💀

THIS

As they should if all they are going to do is marry poor.

No way u males do a much better job at that ☠️

💯

​@@TomikaKellywell nothing changes cuz they poor themselves

It got her a very rich white man doe .

Yoooo 😂😂

This Comment Right here, Officer, this the one that killed me

@@nickruffin4622 ☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣🤣

Shawty a fullback talking like that. This world is crazy.

Being obsese isn't the leading cause of divorce tho

@@brianring-nu9dw but financials only lead to divorce when it’s a 1 person bread winner situation. Or it’s when one sees it as a get rich quick scheme.

Damn right

@@brianring-nu9dw Lack of self control + mental health issues

@@brianring-nu9dw an just death and health issues that cause people to go broke due to health bills.

Facts

Facts

Deep!!!!!

Amen

I feel that.

lol

I mean, it's possible to spend $500 on restaurants everyday while eating a moderate portion for breakfast lunch and dinner

@@michaelangst6078yeah if you’re an idiot

Her white husband chose to differ.

It isn't enough to pay anyone's food bill in this economy....

I think he should at least plan on making more because if u live in the city, 50k will barely be enough to survive.

@@sync_mxlly5610 of course. You wouldn't want to be with someone with no ambition. But you shouldn't expect them to make a certain amount before even considering a date. If he has dreams and the ambition and dedication to make them happen, there's absolutely nothing wrong with what he's making when you first start dating. Especially when you're young. The older you are the smaller the dating pool gets and most of the men that make that type of money at the age of 30+ is already married or engaged. MOST (not all) of the men left for women around her age are going to be broke. More than likely she had her monitary standards set to high at a young age and didn't want to put the work into building up a man, motivating and standing next to him to support him in coming up in life.

Its more than pretty good lol. She doesnt deserve a guy like that

​@@jamespaul6315she can't get a man like that, not the prettiest not the nicest bet you 10 bucks she has this opinion because she usually date dead beats that live out of her

Maybe she’s factoring in housing and child support etc Idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ ppl have unrealistic expectations on both sides and quite frankly it’s exhausting I’ve checked out

50k TAKE HOME is like 80k a year. Thats VERY good for a Batchelor 50k before taxes is only like 30k take home and thats a struggle to pay for rent, car, etc..

@@jamespaul6315Exactly. Could have sworn the average income for a single man between ages 20-35 iirc in the us is about 25k-35k…. And that’s being generous. lol I recently started making around 38k-40k (after a few years of making a flat 28k)a year and I genuinely feel alright in terms of finances and being to afford my car, rent and buy little things I want here and there. It’s sad that some women even think the average everyday guy is making 50k minimum… just wow. They have no concept of reality and just what it takes to actually be put into a position to make even 30k+ a year for the average everyday man.

If you can’t pick ‘em up, don’t take ‘em home.

When your dating a girl over 170 your a whale hunting homie.

Damn bro what if you lift weights and can carry some weight we gotta get stuck with the big girls just cuz we can pick them up 😂. There by some slim thick girls that are busty as hell an weigh more than 140 cuz of it but they far from fat they phat 🤤

😂😂😂😂

@@hoosiernative9668hey, if they want to set unrealistic standards, why can't we? 😂

Usually she would be spending money looking her best for the guy. But if a guy isn’t taking me on dates, then he’s not spending money and likewise there is nothing for me to look nice for so I wouldn’t spend money either

@@UdoADHD Do men not pay money to look good for women? This is such a disingenuous argument because guaranteed if a guy spent more money than you did on his clothes you would still feel the same way.

@@TSSPDarkStar it’s disingenuous to say men pay anything close to what women pay to look good 🙄 Accept that men and women are not the same. Men put value on a woman looking as good as possible. Women just want men to do the bare minimum to wash up.

@@UdoADHD So even if that's true in general I'm asking you in the hypothetical case where a guy paid way more for his stuff than the woman did should she have to pay?

@@TSSPDarkStar That just doesn’t happen. When it comes to dating, we are talking about what actually happens because we are discussing a generalization and not a case by case event. Men do not spend even close to as much as women. A hypothetical that almost never happens is useless because in that case, we need to know ALL the factors involved since we are deviating from the norm.

💯 Exactly!!! Start a business for me, give me money to buy Gucci etc etc... What did you do to earn that? Oh, sex? In that case we can all just patronise sex workers instead. The absolute transactionality behind everything she said is irritating for someone who brings things thag can be easily replaced by a callgirl

Exactly, she’s not an investment because there’s no return. She’s a charity case begging for donations

She's married.

oh shioioo

“that’s not a partner, that’s an anchor” 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

This was like a discount The View made into a podcast.

Bruh

facts just cuz people can speak their mind doesn't mean they need a mic lol. it's wild so many idiots wanting to make podcasts lol. if i made more than 200k i wouldn't date the walrus like what hahahahahaha

Hasan Piker came to mind😅

Podcasters being the greatest thinkers of our time 😂

Most of us start dating our partners when they are making significantly less. You grow together.

it depends where you are but honestly 50k a year isnt great anymore with how bad inflation has become. Very rarely do i agree with what these people say but this one I agree with. If your bareley able to support yourself on that salary forget dating focus on yourself and then go into the dateing market

Not that it matters, but without knowing anything about those women, I would say they for sure make at least 50k a year, so what they are saying certainly applies to them, just not dating as a whole.. I make over 100k and I would not date, let alone start a family with a woman wanting a free ride again. All these dudes saying they don't care how much their woman makes or how she looks probably are failing at life and feel like they have no desirable options....

Fr like does she not know how much of the population makes under 100k??? Like girl bffr

The delusion is reeeal😭

👨🏾‍🍳 Aba cooking

Pretty sure an IQ under 100 is a requirement for podcasting.

I'd raise the bar to 140.

I literally hollered!!! 😂😂

bro il take 109 over this @@thrrax

You’re definitely not doing that in any major city in America.

@@FightNChickN facts she lying I live in Florida and 50k a year is homeless

Blessings 🙌

Women☕

Preach girl!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 you are living the dream!!!

That's why they downplayed even making 100k a year.. Regardless, money isn't the reason why the dating world is terrible for guys. It's because an unhealthy amount of women only want a real attractive partner, and if they don't get one, and settle for someone way less attractive than they want, they can always feel like ending the relationship when one comes around

these women could bankrupt a billionaire

Yeah, if I'm giving out $10k a month on crap then I would be out of money by October and that is not regarding taxes. These women don't even know what these lifestyles are like. They are just talking about things they've dreamed about.

Truth!

You're being too kind. I was thinking 100k.

Preach!

You're going to need an investment account that grows as exponentially as her waistline to keep up

She’s been fed enough she doesn’t need anymore food.

And pay for her medical bills

She's married. Go watch that full episode.

The leading cause of divorce is financial issues not obesity and tbf she's saying something a lot of dudes say all the time. You should be financially stable before dating.

​​@@craftreesie Fiona found her Shrek

@@craftreesie She was married to herself, he just an extra accessory

@@brianring-nu9dw must be a big black woman undercover lol

Her white husband who makes 7 figures a year loves it . That’s why she can speak facts . Black men will say you have to be fit and friendly. But she knows what true value is that’s why he married her. I think he’s in finance if I’m not mistaken.

It’s some that still wil ,always, that’s why they feel confident to talk like this

@@theoneandonlynophoney1864 Nah, they’re just delusional. Those same men you speak of are the “good men” they’re looking for.

Translation if black men don't make 1000k are broke Translation she hates poor people unless they're name is Brad

😂😂😂😂😂😂facts!!!

You are right, the young women are the ones getting picked

This is facts. The women that date for money made it known and the men are okay providing.

LOVED THIS COMMENT

Agree and disagree

A man settles down where he finds peace.

Agree on the not meeting the potential you see in someone. I couldn't even meet the potential I once had. Top of my class in high school, got an award first year of uni for being a top performer, only to drop out two semesters before finishing uni. No one should bare the burden of someone else's expectations, especially when they won't be there to help them succeed

This mf philosophical with it

Jesse Williams

Put it on a T shirt

That this hit hard.

❤❤❤❤

Exactly!!! It's all about context. Your man was completely selfless and sacrificed for his mom ❤ it's much different than someone who just doesn't know how to quit frivolous spending

The fact he sacrificed his life savings to help his mother is such an amazing quality. That's what a partnership is about when you're down he got you and when he's down you got him. That's what I want not this superficial thing they call a relationship. She is 35 and not focusing on real life stability and long term love/commitment. I can't take the woman in the video seriously at all. Also what is it with single people giving advice to people in my age group. It's not ideal and I hope no one in their 20's is actually listening to her.

And unlike his women you can say my husband.

My wife just looked at me watching this video and said “remember when you were a security guard making 35k a year? Boy times have changed” 😂 I make A LOT more now

🙏

Your ex was right. She didn't want a lazy man as the father of her children. This is how women become single mothers. The women in the podcast are very knowledgeable.

@@l19719 wow so I was working 40+ hours a week and I was lazy? Seems like you have a limited view of the situation

She'd have to consider what she makes, if anything, apart of the household income. The way she talking, however, don't imply that she wants to contribute in that way...

​@@londala Exactly. She wants to be taken care of not contribute.

Where is it implied that she even makes 50k a year?

the point is she wants to live off the mans money and not work herself. a 100k/y guy is supposed to spend 50k+ to keep her ass home. modern women want conservative men.

Her food budget is 1200 just for her so.... why should she have to go on a diet?

Doesn't work out for women at all. Most are done terribly and hurt. Don't do it.

Facts! They are so hard to find though!

@@titanl23423 ever thought you’re looking for a date at the wrong place? If we look to our grandparents then they have stories of first meeting with an activity, city event, or friend introductions. Notice how these places known for not hooking up for 1 night stands? If you go to a club, then expect a short term situation-ship. If you want a traditional date, then go to a traditional place. You’ll meet like minded people at like minded places.

thats why u dont listen to women looll

@@titanl23423 now show this study.

Straight wisdom right there.

That shit was fire 🔥

Yes

🔥

Yea that was a BAR 🍸

I always thought of this as common sense, but sadly I guess it isn't, when I see such weird videos/podcasts. And have another like btw.

@@xiii0722Same. Like who tf raised these people??? I never expected to marry some woman and just have her leach off me. I won’t date a girl that’s a deadbeat. At least be in school for a degree, or have some kind of job. I’m only 20, and finishing my 3rd year of uni, but I already meet people who are content doing nothing but smoking weed and playing video games all day. It’s crazy to me.

@@xiii0722 Absolutely agree.

People who put that much value on flashy stuff, fine dining, expensive gifts and dates, are huge red flags. Especially if they can't afford that themselves and expect other to provide that life for them. To me that just sounds like financial irresponsibility. Absolutely not.

Protect this man at all cost😂

Its a shame you didn't save your stupid friend from a divorce.

@@TheAcad3mic yea, but how do I break up someone’s relationship without them hating or blaming me forever?

I been SO FORTUNATE to find my fiancé she accepts me for my autism and even tho she makes 3x more than me ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY, she loves me and I her. That aside her writing ✍️ skills is smoothing out my story telling skills so I say check back with me in 2 years!

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 THE LIVING BREATHING WORD!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

The added emojis made me lol

Yeah that's a deep quote. Ion get it da first time 😂

Men don’t stay with the woman they struggle with, once they make it, they leave them for a gold digger anyway 🤷‍♀️

But they ugly af! You need to atleast be hot aswell as delusional to have those expectations...they just delusional.

She’s the size of a barrel too

Yoooowww 😂😂😂

😢

Wild

modern feminism and corporate female empowerment working at it's best!... it was never about women it was always about control

She didn’t even praise brands. She said men who make quick money are. And so are their girls. But they’re not putting that money where they should and investing.

I don't know why takes like this piss me off so much. Like I hate hearing dudes get disqualified because they don't make this or because they're short. No bullshit, if I ran into a profile on a dating app that said you had to be a certain height I auto swiped left. Even though I always met those requirements.

@@WarmSun_MGM Yes, that is what she said. She said too many women who get money see other women in these brands and blow their bank accounts trying keep up. But she also said she needs a rich man to put down money on her dreams. But the problem is there is never any reciprocation. And if he asks for some. She is considering the door. She got what she needed and she is willing to leave. A lot of women say they will take care of their man. But when push comes to shove… 80%…. Divorce. That’s not relationship behavior. That’s is a locust.

You use the word simp, no one is taking you seriously man. 50k is barley enough to provide off of especially if you see yourself having kids. Imagine needing to work to maintain a household while pregnant 😂😂, jokes.

It’s these RU-vid podcasters thats talking like this….

Most of not all these female podcasters think like this, pour minds, whorible decisions, just to name a few. All sex workers too, check em out yourself

Separate from what these women are saying, Teachers deserve six-figure incomes for all they do and put up with.

Go watch the full clip, this lady is married to a high value man too.

100 percent!!!!!

@@brianring-nu9dwListen to her comments high value man is not just about income. More so about character, morals, values that man has.

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@@brianring-nu9dw None of what you said changes the points she made that are correct. So, she's married, and what?

Exactly punks in realistically aka in life 🥱👀👍🏿🔥🔥🔥🥂

I miss the days when being able to use the internet required somewhat significant intelligence, like owning an actual computer and being able to install and configure the connections manually.

@@BinkyTheToasterI miss the days when you had to read the instruction manual to assemble your home stereo system because the wires weren’t color-coded and the internet didn’t exist.

I’ve learned almost everything isn’t black and white, everything has nuances and complexity. U just have to remember ur life is only urs to live, why listen to anyone outside urself?

Social media has made dumbasses lots of money.

Dang bro she carrying two salami rolls. Man

😂😂😂

And not even ONCE she is thinking that maybe she is the bottom of the barrel.

Damn she only 35… the wall doesn’t miss

Huh….. i really don’t have words to express how I feel reading this, just …. Wow.

When he struggled, you struggled with him. You did it together. Companionship over comfort anytime.

Nothing establishes a bond more than shared sacrifice. If someone will not help share any of life's burdens, there is no real bond to begin with.

lemme not get too cheesy but this made me tear up i hope you had a happy valentines day and god bless

Wait did he pay for all the nice trips, cars, etc? If he did.. how come we don’t hear of women doing this? Genuine question

35, visibly overweight, very average looking face...and she has demands. Sometimes the jokes write themselves.

Why is dating at 35 a problem?

@@Alexxluv It's not. But at the same time, it doesn't make you an expert whose opinion should be heard, it's quite the opposite.

@@AlexxluvFor a woman, let's say, it will be....difficult I'm sure you can work out why

​@@Alexxluvif you're a woman at 35 and looking for a man that wants to settle down and have kids, you're running out of time and fast. Not just for finding a partner that will give you that life, but also because the older you get the more complications will arise when it comes to having kids. May be harder to conceive at all the older you get.

Going from those wages to that income in a short time is suspect. Never heard of an admin making that little either.

@@normalguycap it also does not say much about the issue in itself, because the problem is not making regular job money, but how some morons look at that and think you are broke for working a normal job and not earning top dollar. but I guess the programming is strong in americans that you are defined by your job and ONLY your job...

Respect to you my guy!

Damn that’s love still

As they always said Floor the secret third member, when it starts talkin, it’s real shit

@@aerickmon3350😂

Facts lolol​@@aerickmon3350

Ok I was wondering if it’s just me. Floor is creaky af

They need to fix that floor, they make enough from RU-vid lol

I was dying laughing 😂

Shrek is DreamWorks not Pixar. Wrong company. Just saying.

@@summerrose8110 boooooo 😒

Nawl fr 😂😂😂

@@Skywalker721 Sure boo me for correcting someone who said the right company who owns the franchise. So terrible, I should end my life right now. But I won't because I don't want to go to hell.

"Because he was so much more than money"😂 women and there tendency to compare their husband with money feeling sorry for that guy hope he finds better woman

@@saisohan2409 the conversation was about women dating for money. So of course I said that I love him not because of his money. Bro do u understand context?😂 You’re sad human who needs help and pity. I love my man with or without money because money is not what attracted me to him but his character and values we share in common. What’s not there to understand?

No they don't.

​​@@LisaSoulLevelHealing that's all you got? These women are trash. They want to wait at finish line for the winners but don't wanna run the race with the guy as he comes up. Then they have the nerve to be talking about the man investing in her business, building off the back of the guy. Basically free loading. Then they got the nerve to call a woman who is willing to grind with a guy a "bottom of the barrel bitch"? These women are garbage. I only made 35k a year when I met my wife while she was making 95k a year. She stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k last 15 years. My take home this year after taxes more than doubled my wife's pay before taxes. She was there for me on my grind so now I make sure to take care of her now. These women in video don't deserve a good man. They can chase the bag on their own and leave the hard working dudes alone. They don't deserve that guy who grinded to success. They're looking for come ups, not companions. Trash morals, trash values, equals trash individuals!

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing yeah they are trash. They don't want to help a guy come up, but expect a man to give them 10 bands to invest in their business? We call those types of people free loaders. Don't want to help you grind to achieve success but want to show up once you're successful. Then to call a woman a "bottom of the barrel bitch" because she's willing to grind with the guy? Garbage mindset. My wife significantly out earned me when we first met. $95k a year to my $35k a year. She saw I was trying and stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k a year for last 15 years. I doubled her income the last two years and for her sticking with me I make sure to take care of her. These women don't deserve a man who works his ass up from nothing to something because they don't wanna run the race with him. They just want to wait at the finish line for the winners. They've got trash morals, trash logic, trash values, and so that equates to being trash people.

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing explain how they don't then? I can't wait to hear this.

yeah they are trash. They don't want to help a guy come up, but expect a man to give them 10 bands to invest in their business? We call those types of people free loaders. Don't want to help you grind to achieve success but want to show up once you're successful. Then to call a woman a "bottom of the barrel bitch" because she's willing to grind with the guy? Garbage mindset. My wife significantly out earned me when we first met. $95k a year to my $35k a year. She saw I was trying and stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k a year for last 15 years. I doubled her income the last two years and for her sticking with me I make sure to take care of her. These women don't deserve a man who works his ass up from nothing to something because they don't wanna run the race with him. They just want to wait at the finish line for the winners. They've got trash morals, trash logic, trash values, and so that equates to being trash people.

JUST 10% or less of the population

According to her logic teachers rookie cops fighters or most people that aren't at the top of the pay scale are bottom of the barrel 😮‍💨

You must be talking about a very different time this is 2024. Nobody can get jobs anymore. My friend is qualified with a degree and has experience from 2 previous jobs in the computer science field and he still can't find a job, I also have a friend that is a professor and he can't find a job either. It's less likely that you will strike it rich now than it was before and relying on money to get good in the future won't do anything for you or your family.

​@@brianring-nu9dwOhhhh so your "friends" arent lesser humans even though they dont have jobs. Very hypocritical of your "nude brianna"

@@brianring-nu9dw ya unfortunately a lot of people went for the same fields. Our friends in trades that skipped college altogether are the ones doing the best.

Nah, there's a few too many male feminist simps in the world for it to be 99%

Sounds like she’s hurting with all that negative talk. I bet she’s not happy with herself. Likely goes home and hates her lonely life.

​@@itsascaryworld9788the only men in her life are Ben & Jerry

I think its more like him supporting you , not vice versa😅

"Well that's not very nice....he's just a donkey." 😂

They are crazyyyyyy 50k is good! Not broke at all. Delusional 🤦🏾‍♀️

50k isn’t broke, but it’s about average and really not much in this economy. Lots of comments are people saying “I have 50k it’s plenty!” And then going on to describe how they live with family, have no dependents, second hand goods, infrequent vacations, etc. Nothing wrong with that, but let’s not lie like that is a substantial income.

@@SunnyBear11thank you. I’m comfortable…. But nowhere near content and my mental and physical health isn’t good at all. Can’t afford better nutrition, can’t afford a day off to even take a walk and clear my head, don’t live alone and don’t have privacy. I’m increasing my income and building but that doesn’t feed the soul. $50k is chump change and poor in a lot of places

Talk yo shit!!

​@@SunnyBear11oh yeah definitely agree

yup you are making almost exactly the "average american income" for the current times. Everyone with that amount of money is going to be more than fine, because even people who make 10-15k less are fine too, they only cannot afford fancy stuff like vacations all the time.

@@MrSheduurdepends on where he lives. $60k in DC is rooming with parents, multiple roommates in a basement, no son and no paid for car let alone sports car.

@@dogsalwaysbarkatbetamaleswoof I live in Chicago , my sports car wasn't that expensive because I bought it used with 10k miles before car prices spiked and I saved 1 year before buying it , my son lives with his mom but I see him every other week. The cost of living here ain't terrible unless your trying to live in the nicest neighborhoods.

Howre u doing all that bro?

@@moonknight4053 pre c19 I moved back in my family to get back on my feet so I saved like crazy ,b ought my dream car and paid it off in a year , I live extremely below my means so I rarely buy new cloths, I haven't upgraded my smart phone in 4 years and only really spend money when I go out to eat , hitting the dispersary or if my son needs something. So I did have help from family with my living situation however I could easily afford rent in the burbs and maintain the same lifestyle. The only difference would have been my car would have taken a little longer to get paid off.

Because they have never worked a physical labor job for 12 hours a day in their life

​​​@@dynamichunter843da fuck u talking about. You literally just proved his point. Doesn't matter if a blue collar man works 12hrs or not... without men like us, society would collapse in a matter of days. Instead of being a prick, why don't you back your fellow brothers. All this hate ain't necessary.

Without those men society collapses. Without most women working nothing happens.

This such an important comment and concept. Our economy and world would crash without blue collar people

I'm working class and women consider me the scum of the Earth, even if they are also working class, or make less than me.

What did your sister say to that?

@@weswolever7477 she just laughed it off and we kept eating dinner

This the one ☝️

Your brother knows how it actually works in reality, your sister is following a dream she saw on TikTok

So dang true. Women who don't have their own money, their own career are at the mercy of the man "supporting" them. What happens when you need to leave or he throws you out? Do you have the ability to go work, do you have an education that you invested in? Do you have something to fall back on if amd when things go south? Because 75% of marriages fail, do you think all those couples said, well we will give it a few yrs but I'm sure we'll divorce. NO! no one EXPECTS to get divorced!! But it happens more often then not. Keep your options open, always keep your career, always have money set aside that only you have access too on both sides! This crap where my money is my money and your money is my money? No sir/ma'am that shit don't fly! Look out for yourself, take care of yourself, and hope things go well but always have a back up in case they don't! Don't ever expect someone else to pay for you in everything, that is where you'll get taken advantage of and you'll have to choose between safety or food/shelter.

Most people don’t make $50k….why are they acting like that’s the average

Thissss!!!! They don’t know how hard it is to even get that!

That's 35k after government and state tax which is like 2900 a month take home. That's not a lot of money after living expenses.

I make nearly 60 and I live in Alabama. I feel broke

Ughhh yes it is depending on where you live.

Facts 💯 😅

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That’s wassup and most importantly she DESERVES that because she stayed down. I understand where some women have an issue with that bc not every man decides to make those improvements/better themselves but you also just can’t meet the man at the finish line and reap all the benefits for just existing either.

I felt this💯👋🏾

This...

Hahaah! That floor be cooking right along with them!

Bro, it’s insane because even when you finally measure up to people’s standards and they go out with you? You have a chance of running into a girl who STILL treats you like shit.

Yessssss

chill lmaoooo

She got a whole IG page giving advice how to land a high value man.

​@@PC-qe4rlDoes she even have one?😅

@@Naistovnope. Dating coaches are famously single, idk why you would listen to them

Why would you feel insecure about that? Unless it is right in new york city, where living costs are crazy high, this is basically a normal income. Cashiers and service workers make around that same money. The overinflated idea of some of these women is completely nuts. There is no need to be insecure about not making top dollar. I hope you have already realized this since.

I work blue collar I don't make 36k.

If you have a job and trhen your girl gets pregnant, you have a job anyways so being broke won’t be an option. Broke means u got nothing left, etc if you can be frugal you will never be broke

@@moonknight4053 I was an accountant, so I definitely knew how to be frugal that's for sure. Yet, I live in LA, I was waaayy underpaid for what I was doing. Simply put if I had a kid then, I would not be able to provide the way I should be able to or would want to. I felt insecure because I wasn't secure. Though yet, single... I was comfortable because I did live frugal. No carnote, I got the best apartment I could get at the cheapest I could get, and I didn't buy things I didn't need all the time. I left that job and more than doubled my income though.

Someone who’s honest