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Healing From Heartbreak with THE LOVE COACH for Women 

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@HardlyInitiated
@HardlyInitiated Месяц назад
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@courtneecarrigan3340
@courtneecarrigan3340 10 месяцев назад
I appreciate the way she handled this interview. Wonderful woman!
@rocknew1624
@rocknew1624 10 месяцев назад
"What are the requirements to even get into my space!" LOVE THIS!!
@flydollronda1926
@flydollronda1926 Год назад
I will say she’s beautiful & an absolutely phenomenal, well spoken woman ❤
@laquintaf.574
@laquintaf.574 11 месяцев назад
Very well spoken and entertaining
@CoachCass
@CoachCass 6 месяцев назад
thanks sis
@flydollronda1926
@flydollronda1926 Год назад
He needed to go all the way out of his house and into his car to take a phone call? Idk…something about that story just still doesn’t sit right with me regardless. Trusting someone and being secure is one thing, but I can’t blatantly ignore weird scenarios like that. I’m glad she is now happily married though.
@leomarilyn4232
@leomarilyn4232 Год назад
I will sit in the car a need the call to continue on speaker, or understand why is this call so urgent that has this guy taking this call and in privacy cause I am not paranoid, or tripping cause I am not playing with my time in a funny strange situation no relationship I want to go along
@flydollronda1926
@flydollronda1926 Год назад
@@leomarilyn4232 Yeah it sounds like even the new marriage may be a little questionable (imo) aint no man taking no private calls around me, unless I for certain know it’s business or a family member. I thought she was going to say she heard the call, but to walk off and be okay just because he said, “I’m not that guy,” naw, sometimes they be exactly the same guy, but because you told them what you been through, now they know how to maneuver and “handle” you better. She said he walked out of the house and was alllll the way in his car, no sir.
@leomarilyn4232
@leomarilyn4232 Год назад
That's why I believe you don't tell them all about your past relationships so they don't get to have an advantage on your hurt,tramas or your triggers, they use that against you in the relationship and when you sense something is going on based on their actions, attitude and behaviors they want to say we are crazy, I believe we have to take our own advice on this kind of matters especially since we know all the angles of the situation be ready, plan and leave him or get him out your home you don't want no weakness in your homes foundation make sure you have a man who cares and answers to your straight up questions, about our emotions and support we got family and friends to relate, release and reflect on our past relationships, but we must spend some time on our own to recover from a prior damaging relationship, heal our self in spirit, mentally and emotionally but don't take too long to bounce back, God willing we pay attention and attract a solid Man, our equal to the foundation to make a home, a family of two is a new family that can grow together and offer any children involved a safe family life in a home. Hope for all the best to All who put God, and themselves first when choosing that one and only standup kind of life partner who can stand side by side you through thick and thin in all lifes circumstances and events of joy and hardships, challenges and crisis and the in-between daily life, I don't want no one holding me back, getting in the way of my life's purposes- With Respect, Faith and Actions I will know his walk in life and if he fits in my Life, not everyone is worth my time, love or friendship, don't be too generous with everyone you come across not everyone gets to hold my hand in Life, be honest with yourself about your place in the relationship, if your not legally married it's not a marriage don't expect that "significant other" to behave or treat you as the wife/husband anything else is intended to be a temporary kind of relationship that is not the foundation for a home, honor and value yourself to get the most of an honest relationship with your life partner, if for whatever reason the relationship must come to an end, then be okay with yourself and End it, life goes on and you continue with your purpose God has to be in your life so that he/she is with you through all life seasons that the only way I can make move on and forward with Peace and not all broken into pieces, let yourself breakdown if you have to in order to complete your transformation in the healing process but don't go broken into any relationship yes we walk around with scars, scars are a sign of healing, its not a sign of your death don't let anything get between your hearts and God, that's the sacred space you hold for that one true and only one who deserves that place in your life who has earned your trust to hold your hand it's that significant remember you are a Gift of Life don't waste your time with foolishness
@bigblack4001
@bigblack4001 Год назад
These 3 are solid…Funny, I came in on the middle of this video,while my cousin was watching…and I told him,Cass is of Caribbean descent,not because of her looks, but because of her sheer logic and delivery…Very few Africa Americans can go through hell,filter out toxicity,genuinely recover,using self awareness,mental fortitude and is willing to help others.
@julietoneill1268
@julietoneill1268 Год назад
This woman! She's a queen 👸 💯👏💕🎯
@janespitfire9884
@janespitfire9884 Год назад
Your advice sounds so good. I have not been with anyone in 15 years. Married 2 time and each got bored with me and cheated BIG TIME. Also I was a goody 2 shoe wife, too nice, a empath and too passive. Now I just want a good male friend to create some memories . I want to be like the lyrics of Naked in Ella Mae s song. I always refuse to deal with men who smoke or drinking but seem to get mean men later on. If I had stayed in the marriage I d be dead. He told my daughter he should have NEVER married me. That hurt! I could tell by the Ex hubby's actions he did not want me any longer. Divorce was my safe option. I shall get your book! Thank you> Yes the song Love Makes A Woman by Phoebe Snow..Excellent Song describes a female needs
@dmhardnett
@dmhardnett Год назад
Ms Janespitfire9884, I’m glad you are safe. Always remember to love you. Self care lets you sit in a quiet space for you to get to know you. Focus on things that you like and enjoy. Once you know yourself and enjoying yourself. You will attract the love of your life. God bless.
@tammys5417
@tammys5417 Год назад
Say that. Plug your community into your dating process.
@Queenconsciousness311
@Queenconsciousness311 Год назад
A free spirit recognizes a free spirit... truly enjoyed this beauty Coach Cass!! 💎💎💎 I'm joining the Real Love community! ❤❤❤ ✌🏽🙏🏽
@courtneypuryear4217
@courtneypuryear4217 Год назад
Bring her back ❤. Great convo guys.
@CoachCass
@CoachCass 6 месяцев назад
aww thank you
@diahannab5072
@diahannab5072 9 месяцев назад
Sadly I was the wife in her scenario. My ex worked out of town during the week and came home weekends. Some weekends he couldn’t come because of obligations and required overtime, which I encouraged. I was forgiving, understanding and didn’t go visit because I had my own job and the kids. So was easy for him to have another life. He could tell gf he was visiting his kids every other weekend. In the end, it broke my heart and the somehow the blame was on me because I encouraged the sacrifice for the family.
@TNexpert
@TNexpert 7 месяцев назад
It's not your fault
@lala5061
@lala5061 День назад
Dang this is my exact same situation...problem is he is accusing me of cheating but I think he has someone out there now because of these accusations 😢
@patriciawade8563
@patriciawade8563 Год назад
I am so happy and thrilled that I found this PLatform... I was a bitter black woman that only loved one man my adult life... He approached me with lies.. our whole relationship was based on lies.. I have forgiven him as well as forgiven myself but I'm still lacking healthy boundaries for my future husband.. I need to continue breaking chains.. by the way I'm single I'm speaking in the future about my husband.. I want to be wife material with no baggage.. So I'm grateful I have subscribed after watching the Judge Lynn Toler story ❤
@anonymixx8106
@anonymixx8106 Год назад
I have to disagree that a woman should consider staying with a man that hits her just because he shows remorse. Remorse is just another tactic for some abusers so that their victims feel even worse about leaving when they eventually randomly escalate the abuse. When physical abuse enters the picture, whether or not things can be worked out comes completely down to the victim/survivor.
@kathleenaoconnell5777
@kathleenaoconnell5777 Год назад
The guy said “his WIFE isn’t here she’s in the Bahamas” the hint it right there he’s married! Do people really want to be a side chick and encourage infidelity?!
@antwanstowe6561
@antwanstowe6561 Год назад
I think she is referring to her as his wife because that’s what she found out.. but I’m gathering the man referred to her as his ex wife who lives out of the country.
@ladymvp10
@ladymvp10 Год назад
I have listen to many podcast and women speaking and received valuable information. But this lady here..Wow ohh WOW!!! Thank you for having her on here, learned soooo much more and feel like I hit the gold pot listening to her!!!! AMAZING PODCAST!!!
@kamed.
@kamed. 10 месяцев назад
Mic drop all over the place! Awesome podcast! Awesome guests! (Current and future guests)
@nashonharris7805
@nashonharris7805 Год назад
I always appreciate a good conversation coming from an imperfect person with experience and knowledge. Now, I let it sink In and comprehend it all and apply it to my life.
@moniquewatson6231
@moniquewatson6231 Год назад
Wow love it. Love the information. I love loving myself and sharing with the people I choose to allow in my space.
@tamarajohnson8328
@tamarajohnson8328 Год назад
“When you have the right man in your life, they got you.”💚🫶🏽💯
@GrigaGal
@GrigaGal Год назад
Agree totally !!! Dating is gathering data .
@sfreeman417
@sfreeman417 Год назад
I love it here!!! Much needed conversation and tools to navigate relationships!!!
@lexviaortiz9342
@lexviaortiz9342 Год назад
Such a good episode 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 love her and appreciate her input
@HardlyInitiated
@HardlyInitiated Год назад
Let's gooooooo !!
@sheronaking9466
@sheronaking9466 Год назад
@HardlyInitiated... This is my favorite episode to date. Dr. Cass is so on point. Thanks for the gems 👌🏾👌🏾
@CoachCass
@CoachCass 6 месяцев назад
blessings sis
@ccgotit173
@ccgotit173 Год назад
This was wonderful ❤
@val8173
@val8173 Год назад
Thank you🙏 beautiful perspective on love
@W.I.F.E
@W.I.F.E Год назад
So ready!!
@rocknew1624
@rocknew1624 10 месяцев назад
I need to join her community!! My GOD, help me regain connection to my Feminine energy!!
@furahaj645
@furahaj645 Год назад
I love her so much!!!
@venessamoon3741
@venessamoon3741 Год назад
I enjoyed this podcast! Dr. Cass gave a lot of good gems!
@jazzbeinme9710
@jazzbeinme9710 Год назад
I love, love this conversation. Especially about letting the man lead. Yes study ❤
@frankieharrison356
@frankieharrison356 Год назад
She did the damn thang🔥🔥🔥she spit game🙌🏿🙌🏿
@AnEmptyNest
@AnEmptyNest Год назад
Love the channel! 🫶🏾
@AriMayweather
@AriMayweather Год назад
Great episode gents!! 🎉
@mariawilliams558
@mariawilliams558 Год назад
I really enjoyed this particular podcast. The guest was so feminine that it was delightful to listen in. Girl Do Your Thang!!!
@sterling.hopkins
@sterling.hopkins 11 месяцев назад
Awesome! Good session
@HardlyInitiated
@HardlyInitiated 11 месяцев назад
You the man, Sterling! Much appreciated💯
@laquintaf.574
@laquintaf.574 11 месяцев назад
She speaks my language. She hit some key points. I too believe that you should learn your person and let a man lead where he wants to lead
@sheronaking9466
@sheronaking9466 Год назад
A Jamaican in the house! Talk girl!! 🇯🇲🇯🇲 🎉🎉
@patriciawade8563
@patriciawade8563 Год назад
"Not perfect but in progress"👏👏👏👏
@ashlinaash5612
@ashlinaash5612 Год назад
this is so good
@Cassandra_Alexis
@Cassandra_Alexis Год назад
Favorite episode so far!! Really appreciated receiving wisdom from a sound & knowledgeable woman 🙌🏾 I literally took pages of notes. Thanks guys 😁
@diva4tv
@diva4tv Год назад
I luv her advice! Phenomenal advice indeed. "Dating is gathering data. [...] Stuff stops working. As we get older stuff sags, stuff goes down. ppl need pills [...] life be life'in'"
@leomarilyn4232
@leomarilyn4232 Год назад
You got to meet the adult family members especially the grown woman of his family they don't play along to BS
@ardeniamyrick6858
@ardeniamyrick6858 8 месяцев назад
Hard, Emotionless, Rock! I’m dead😂
@kathyjones1408
@kathyjones1408 Год назад
This is golden! I agree with her! I prefer starting as a friend! Get to know me to see if you like me. 😊
@Jovialjay86
@Jovialjay86 Год назад
Love vision!! Someone interested in learning how to speak love!!!
@t.l1357
@t.l1357 11 месяцев назад
There's one thing that I really oppose that she said. I make a really great living. I NEED my man to make more or at least afford my same lifestyle. There's no amount of money that I will make that will allow me to tolerate a man making less. We live a physical existence and this is programmed into women. It's not about money but about provision. Emotional provisions don't cancel out monetary. It's about safety on all levels. Financial safety is necessary. If I have a mansion and something happens to me, I need a man that can maintain our standard of living. I'm not doing struggle love and have a so called man beside me. I'm just being real. It's a turn off if a man doesn't have ambition and the money that shows for his efforts. I have it, why don't you? It's a man's world in the workforce so nah..miss me with that. Everything else I felt like she was on point with. Great conversation as usual. ❤
@lala5061
@lala5061 7 месяцев назад
As u should 🤗 I did the other thing 😬 took care of him and our kids...he focused on making our daughter great cuz he believes with her talents that she is going to be the one to do it for our family and Im like wait what so u not gonna do it? U pouring everything into her cuz she's gonna do it? Wait what...so all I built will go down if something happens to me cuz u waiting for 3 more years for her to get out of highschool so u can see...but actually u have to add an extra 4 for college because she's a sports star 🤔 trust me u doing the right thing!
@EG-hh6zz
@EG-hh6zz 13 часов назад
jumping from one relationship to another a person who moves from one romantic relationship to another to very quickly spending as little time single as possible is called a relationship hopper some folks are terrified of being by themselves they feel like they need to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves themselves and to be happy they jump from one relationship to the next to avoid getting to serious with anyone
@HarissaBalderas-sz5xn
@HarissaBalderas-sz5xn 2 месяца назад
So good !!!
@jessicag0625
@jessicag0625 3 месяца назад
Please bring her back! Love her!
@sherylhokianga3
@sherylhokianga3 Год назад
WOW! Truth!❤
@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919
@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919 9 месяцев назад
WOOT WOOT coach Cassidy!!🎉❤❤❤
@larecashon6759
@larecashon6759 Год назад
I like her! 🦋I like to hire out as well, so I’m with her on this! Andy is cool too! I enjoyed his Master Class. 🌟
@desimo9127
@desimo9127 Год назад
I Love this episode🤍🫶🏽
@The_Real_McCoy76
@The_Real_McCoy76 Год назад
Awesome
@MaureenBlack-gq5pl
@MaureenBlack-gq5pl 8 месяцев назад
She's amazing
@OmgjaxxTV
@OmgjaxxTV Год назад
If someone hits you they will do it again. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@Kwn79878
@Kwn79878 Год назад
Coach Cass!!
@Jovialjay86
@Jovialjay86 Год назад
Not perfect but in progress 💎
@patriciawade8563
@patriciawade8563 Год назад
This women slapps👏👏👏👏👏👏 very realistic and informative... I want to be your friend mentally ,emotionally and spiritually ❤❤❤❤❤First... Until until🤷
@B_4_PTALKS
@B_4_PTALKS Год назад
Standing&watching on the sideline and being that cheerleader is soooooo good... move accordingly...
@TheAniYaAShow
@TheAniYaAShow Год назад
WoW WoW WoW
@tammys5417
@tammys5417 Год назад
Can you last from the feeling?
@CL-do5eq
@CL-do5eq Год назад
God will never send you somebody else’s husbands - my mother. God had to deliver me. I almost got into a situation. Once you know they are married you stop. With the help of my mother and God I was able to move on. But he lied. Please look up marriage licenses. We weren’t intimate thankfully. I’m so glad I’m a slow dater because the foolishness will eventually come out.
@WHATsYOUR914
@WHATsYOUR914 Год назад
👏🏽👏🏽 42:30
@moniquewatson6231
@moniquewatson6231 Год назад
…. and I want to hear more about women trips to continue to fill my cup.
@19nvo
@19nvo Год назад
I don't mean no harm, but did she know he was married or naw 🤔
@flydollronda1926
@flydollronda1926 Год назад
That part threw me off a little bit too. It sounded like from the interview he told her he was married, but separated and the wife was in another country. Also, no way a woman in a 2 year relationship and literally had NO clue, there would have been some red flags in that amount of time geesh
@spacebar6020
@spacebar6020 Год назад
Yeah naw, not buying it. She seemed to have told on herself with her story about the other, other woman
@duallylicensed145
@duallylicensed145 Год назад
@@flydollronda1926​​⁠xxactly, right! There's always always some clues or flags....and, especially, and definitely, 2 yrs relationship 🤔🤨🥴🤷‍♀️🫤. There's a few reasons why they will have nose wide open.....sexualness, compensation (in 1 way or another), or, flat out don't care....
@CL-do5eq
@CL-do5eq Год назад
The flags are always in the beginning. The flag go are pink first before red.
@danishaspikes3581
@danishaspikes3581 Год назад
Is this on the app 🤔
@kayannthegreat
@kayannthegreat Год назад
I love this lady! I hate cleaning toilets and bathrooms in general, that's something for someone who has a gift of loving cleaning bathrooms! Lol
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy Год назад
There’s no such thing as heartbreak in my opinion. The idea of heartbreak is just a way of making pseudo or puppy love sound real. Just look at why a person is heartbroken, and there’s nothing whatsoever besides pure foolishness. The ego crushed or butt hurt over something ridiculous or a messed up person. Which is foolishness to begin with and people hurt in underdevelopment and hypersensitivity and think they are heartbroken. 😮 That growing up and developing more is the solution to.
@HowToLoseWeightDaily
@HowToLoseWeightDaily Год назад
children outside of wedlock 100% AVOID-----widow(er) adultery abandonement DIFFICULT possible exceptions😯
@joansheekey476
@joansheekey476 Год назад
There is woman and men that do no there married some people only go for married people they even tell yu two yur face so it’s both people that either go are they do not there’s no excuse none there’s alkways a way out off it don’t go we’re yu are in tgat company that it’s dangerous game e plus kuds suffer trew all this and the other person and iv known people that are so sorry now but it’s two late once a cheer all ways a cheer live with it all down two us all ❤
@joansheekey476
@joansheekey476 Год назад
Men are strange. But woman are two yur either a good girl are yur not ❤
@jillh440
@jillh440 10 месяцев назад
Men need respect and women need love. But when we have to walk in our masculine energy and we have such a large to-do list... It's hard for us to walk in our feminine. Also I find that oftentimes because we're so busy walking in our love side we end up in relationships with people we shouldn't be in. But then it puts us in a position where we can't or struggle to show respect because we have a clown in charge of our family as a spiritual head. So then we can't give respect, because we know more, and we do more than he does. We're more capable than he is. Because we picked a project, not a partner and so the covering and the order of the family is off and messy. And then we're constantly trying to create and push him to be a leader, And for him to be the spiritual head.because he doesn't know how to be. Then we're having to be the spiritual head which is putting the cart before the horse and everything out of order.Then we wonder why things don't work. This is why it's important to pick an actual leader, that can lead us physically financially and spiritually. Because a clown in charge can never lead us. We're constantly taking over having to lead, because we're the better leader. Then we're having to walk in our masculine. Which often pushes him into the feminine because we're his Mommy, not his partner.
@ekeneigwenagu239
@ekeneigwenagu239 Год назад
This coach is not a wife material. She's a business and masculine woman. But as long as her husband is good with it, that's okay. But will he tolerate it forever?
@nenajay3174
@nenajay3174 Год назад
@ekeneigwenagu239 She’s not wife material to you. People have to understand that each person has their own personal preference. It’s strange that so many people fell like that can speak for all. By the way there are thousands of business women who some deem masculine that are married and have been for a while.
@nenajay3174
@nenajay3174 Год назад
*feel
@ekeneigwenagu239
@ekeneigwenagu239 Год назад
@@nenajay3174 Their are men for those women, but to tell you that those men are very few, look at how long it took her to get married, instead of get married at a very old age.
@ALEXPIANIM
@ALEXPIANIM Год назад
Usually men on 2nd, 3rd, and 4th marriage
@ekeneigwenagu239
@ekeneigwenagu239 Год назад
@@ALEXPIANIM That's not true. Most men usually don't marry after their first marriage. But the stay in a long term companionship instead of marrying again.
@EG-hh6zz
@EG-hh6zz 14 часов назад
remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90 percent of ladies won’t see a reason to be in that relationship if it’s only about money we are hopeless if it’s about people we are hopeful if your a man without money you better have a ten inch personality to make a relationship work
@emmagallaher-dk3ry
@emmagallaher-dk3ry 6 месяцев назад
when you get married the only thing that changes the day after marriage is the appearance of your hand third finger.people keep thinking if they get married this solves the problem nothing changes after you get married arguing the whole time when you get married you going to be arguing the whole time.nothing changes after you get married so if you don't solve this problem before marriage you in a world of trouble e anessa g
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