What WOMEN Don't Understand | MEN’s Mental Health Crisis  

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I'd agree it's important for men to have covering and men peers. As a woman, there's security/something safe about knowing the men in your life have structure, discipline, accountability.

It was a high honor joining you for this conversation. Thank you for the privilege of sharing and building with you both for the building up of our people + community. Look forward to future conversations and work with you both. Gratitude, Respect and Love.

“If your heart WORKS it will be broken…” …. Love that! Thank you!

When Tysean said that crying feels like something is being pulled out of him, that's exactly what is happening. The dense energy of emotional pain is leaving your body. Unfortunately, as it's leaving your body, it feels horrible. That's why people avoid crying or feeling sad. The purpose of crying is to release that dense energy.

It's a beautiful thing to see black men rising up. Not only do you guys get a start on healing but us women get an insight on how to understand and how to help properly. ❤

My man is right about your relationship with God mentally, spiritually and physically! Working on all 3 right now and things are starting to lineup, confidence through the roof, etc. An unexplained peace is coming over my life!

I love how he broke down the three types of friendships/relationships a man should have in his community. Within, I always got a strange feeling if a man I was getting to know didn’t have a strong community. I now know how much of an asset it is in his growth and mental development

This is definitely the best podcast out right now. It’s almost surreal that these conversations are public for black men, but I’m enjoying each and everyone of them; this one especially! Much love for everyone that’s apart of this.

This was so helpful although it was aimed at men but I learned something and reached out for therapy. I buried my Mommy a week ago and it hurts like hell... I miss her so much. I thought going back to work and trying to get on with life would make me feel a little better would work. I'm crying while at work, on the commute home, in the store but I'm the oldest so Mommy would always say You must be strong. I can't be strong right now. so Thank u for speaking on grief😢

The number of gems dropped in this conversation is insane. Brother Lawrence was cooking from beginning to end!

Love ur show and I’m 66 years old. Sharing with others. Keep up the good work. Xx

I definitely understand men more after this! Thank you! My man will truly thank you because my mind has been OPENED‼️

Wow. This was dope! Mannnn, it gives me hope that we as black men will get better across the board 🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Proud of our Just Heal, Bro Tour Speaker, Lawrence Adjah! A dynamic, leading voice for our men!

LOVED THIS! I am here as a woman listening bc it's alway's good to understand men better. I loved the topics that were shared bc many of them are so nuanced and carry so much of the unseen behaviors and this relation to a man that goes deeper than the conscious aspect of self as a man. A person/man above else is a spirit and a soul and there's shadows in that that have that foundation that play's a role in the relation to himself and any and every other relationship. it makes me very happy to see how ya'll stepped into that space with the cameras with a level of vulnerability that is strong, courageous and beautiful. Thank you!

I really love this for brothas. I've been suggesting circles like this for brothas for so long. I'm so thankful a strong man is at the forefront of this movement. We need our men healed and they need the support of us women in their healing.

its an honor ... im 26years old and ya'll really inspire me... tHANK YOU

I came here for Judge Lynn Toler. I stayed because the great quality content being produced. Keep it up ❤❤

Great conversation as a female I’m so blown away. I hope many more females tune into this convo

This was a very profound and must needed discussion about men especially black men regarding their mental health and self awareness dealing with trauma. When you heal the trauma of the childhood wound of the little boy inside the broken man, the King will show up. A emotional mature and whole man is able to love God, himself, his woman and other people. Be blessed.

41:53 So on point. People don't believe how this stuff really impacts our minds.

I've never heard of yall. I don't even know how I came across this, but I'm so glad I did! This was an excellent interview! Topics like this I discuss with people all the time! The more I see what's happening in the world and the more I talk to people, the more passionate I am about people healing. Yes, I have shared clips of this on my social media page, and I am now subscribed! I love this! Will spend the summer binge watching you all! Thank you for all this! Hope to be a guest on your show someday! Until then, I'm watching, sharing, and praying!

Great conversation. It is necessary for women to listen to emotional mature and secure men discuss life. We have men in our lives whom we love and want the best for. There are so many distractions from the societal machine promoting the narrative that Black men and women are at odds and our families are in turmoil. This is far from the truth. ❤

Excellent discussion. A few talking points here opened a dialogue between my wife and I. Thank you gentlemen for what you do.

My goodness!! Once I started, I could not stop listening to this!! This dialogue was truly enlightening!! So much was unpacked here!! I gained a deeper insight on the topics discussed!! Thanks y’all!! 💪🏾🥰💪🏾

This Episode is a life changing 🎉 You guys are digging into Soul work I have so much respect. You got my vote 👑

@realtyseanjackson What you said about crying and it feels like "its pulling something out of you" - that is exactly what happens its liberating and healing brah!

Powerful episode! Thanks for facilitating such a needed conversation with truth and grace.

This was a master class! Thank you brothers for your healing wisdom! Peace.

I absolutely loved this and appreciate everything I’ve learned to. As a mom of 5 boys and my life partner this has enlightened me in so many ways. Keep up the great work!!!

This was poppin'!💓💓💓💞💞💞🔥🔥🔥

this was the best episode by far.....

I’m a 29 year old woman and the story he told at 10:21 about his family in the hospital and him having the one to hold it together is something I relate so deeply to. There were no men in the home so that ended up being my role: Keeping it all together. I was looked to for masculine energy in the home I grew out of. I can’t imagine being looked to for that everywhere, every day, by everyone 🙌🏾

They are very respectful

Man. This has blessed me on so many levels. Definitely needed this and to know that there's true brotherhood and men out here helping other brothers navigate through this thing we call life. Most High bless yall. This is the second video from this podcast and you're 2 for 2 🤝🏾

That ATM story hit different

I Appreciate you guys…💯💯💯

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Great conversation

Learning more and more each video . Understanding is so helpful

Sooo good!!! ❤❤

Ty and Ryan im sharing your vids with everyone and the feedback has been great. Im learning so much! Keep rocking, informing and doing the damn thing! 🎉🖤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

A full reservoir of respect😮 that's soo profound. That is the Words of a wise man. Accountability and understanding that respect is currency‼️🌹🌹🌹🌹

1:03:23 I know ya made this as a short clips. This is a whole new podcast right here. Thank you for making it clear. It's what I always express to those I guide in health and wellness. Back to the foundation and rewire the brain and re-parent ourselves through compassion and forgiveness. While using all the tools mentioned in this video. I love it..

Our Family Dinner was dope! I attended the Oakland and San Francisco dinners

This was a great episode because it acknowledged how men have to do the spiritual work to be great leaders at home, work, and community instead of using women as a scapegoat for their lack of self-love, virtue, or lack of fulfillment in this life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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Yo that accent thing got me at 54:40 lol. I thought I was the only one and not doin it jokingly. Pickin up on accents and paying respect to languages definitely gives that feeling of a human connection. Bless

I absolutely love this episode!

Amazing episode

I totally love the Bro talk----Thank yall for the Bro insight.❤

Them bruddass choppin real game 💎💎💎

🎉wonderful show!!! 😊always love, education and positivity 🙏🙏🌸🌸

I’m looking forward to see how these episodes actually help the hosts evolve to be men they could have never imagined themselves to be. Elohim, please keep speaking to them through their guests. 🤍🙏🏾

Beautiful conversation gentleman That voice is perfect for reading the Bible

Brothers, Men, Kings, there is no shame in crying its a cleansing of the soul let your intermediate circle with you are not at the moment be your human Kleenex💐

So important and so needed. My ex was the same about sadness he was able to overcome ir after we watched the movie Inside Out together. Its a kids movie but it may help people learn how to peocess uncomfortable emotions.

Great gems discussed . Side Note: If a man is having ED problems, it is mostly because of diet and what he is putting into his body. Eat to live, not live to eat.

Men please listen…we all need community and a healthy one. I will add let’s be mindful you can’t choose your family, but you can choose friends and how you improve how you interact with what might be a toxic family. Sometimes healing yourself is contagious. Don’t throw away a good woman because of her family, is she a growing woman? Is she managing the relationship with them in a healthy many? Does she establish healthy boundaries? Is she receptive? Etc? Don’t let one bad past experience allow you to judge your current experience. It was sad to have an awesome relationship with a man who didn’t let go of his past hurt. As we grew closer, he started showing he truly hadn’t let go of the past and pushed me away. No one will be perfect, but are they self reflective and willing to grow in the relationship? Are you seeing the relationship for what it is or skewed vision based on hurt. This is a problem for both sexes, but men seek counseling less and hold onto the baggage. Don’t lose the one fearing you can’t live up to the expectations you’re imposing on yourself that she isn’t pressuring you on. Best wishes to the brothers out there. Lean on someone when going through things. Therapist are a safe place. Some sites allow you to pick a specific type. It’s ok not to be perfect; no one is.

Men gotta be strong 💪 workout get a bag get right wit God all important 🙏

Post but clarity. Son husband. 😂 He Coach Gang for real. 😂 I love this guy.

Is there virtual options for the podcast class? I wasnt able to find the link thanks guys.

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Where’s the link

09:59 this event he’s recalling is the burden we carry as men. The modern women of today simply dont understand this and its a shame.

These brothers' inability to feel emotion like some of ours, too, is from unresolved traumas from slavery. Dr. Joy DeGruy taught us that❤

DID i miss the instructional video about how to establish a podcast.?.😢

13:00 yeshua himself went into the wilderness away from everyone he knew and love , to pray , it is necessary to peel yourself away from the noise and have a moment to get a good cry out or pray or just to be physically still and PHYSICALLY BREATHE… 25:49 it’s not an unmanly thing to cry 37:46 🫣😰🫢…. Wait … what !??? Noo 😔

Great podcast! The guest had several valid points, but I personally didn’t agree with how he kept saying “as a man”. This is a blanket statement that says that all men are a certain way. I believe manhood and womanhood cannot be generalized because many factors, mainly one’s upbringing, determines how people process emotions. I personally know men that contradict many of his points. Nonetheless, it was a good show.

This was good ❤

Somebody watches CGA, I see. 👀 😆 (Great interview)

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Is ryans favorite color black 🤔 ?

Ephesians 5:33 (NIV) However, each one of you also MUST LOVE HIS WIFE AS HE LOVES HIMSELF, and THE WIFE MUST RESPECT HER HUSBAND."

Once someone knows the mother’s gift, the son will be used for everyone else’s accolades.

Once again, that FYE!!! 🔥

I think that what many if not most women don't understand is that women have to lead. So many women argue that a woman is not supposed to provide, protect nor lead, that's a man job. And that's what I think got men so uptight. They actually believe that stuff women says and can't live up to it, bcuz it's not true. It's just little girl emotions women haven't outgrown yet. Naturally, a child will look to be covered and taken care of. But in adults this is farce. And when childish women gets with a man, they do things automatically to build him up and bring herself down. Which is proving, protecting, and leading. But doing it backwards. And he's only gonna become churlish, selfish and hostile over. Bcuz that's what becomes his dominance and leadership. A caustic tongue and quick temper. He's not doing anything but building up fear in her and making her feel bad. Bad men learn how to grab up a woman's false needs for their own use. So while she's calling on patriarchy to provide, lead, protect, and rule, she will be actually giving certain guys money, paying their bills, and even financing their dates with other women. If I could give just one piece of advice to decent men with a good heart and means well, it would be to stop listening to women calling on patriarchy. Those are nothing but little girls in women's bodies, and noble men are not gonna find nothing there but a nightmare. Dusties are the ones suitable for the patriarchal ladies. Bcuz the dusties are unscrupulous and will teach them the hard lessons that they need to learn. Bums or employed moochers controlling those women with a hot temper.

marriage is not a partnership

Maybe that’s why a lot of guys are considered simps nowadays… The lack of fathers in the home is making men more protective of and acquiescing to women…

Sorry I like a REAL man personality and character. Men, GOOD Men should not change their manliness. STAY the way you are. Society does not speak for women.

The only thing that matters to most women is that he not be a bus driver.

He opened up lying. Not from the stories i heard from men. They pick the nastiest and most disrespectful woman most of the time

Sorry I like a REAL man personality and character. Men, GOOD Men should not change their manliness. STAY the way you are. Society does not speak for women.