Hello Counselor - Choi Hee, Jun. K [ENG/2016.09.12] 

2jae's real u right

Definitely jun k will be an ideal friend.

Should have better prescription end glasses from a well trained optomitrist

You'd think so but there are a lot of things celebrities can get away with that normal people can't

That's true if celebrities do it its fashion and trend but if someone has natural looks like that they treat them as an alien what's wrong in having blond hair and blue eyes many are born naturally like that even if their parents dont have blue eyes or blond hair when they see foreigners with blue eyes and blond hair they are fascinated by their beauty shes a korean does not mean she has to look like typical Asian many asians have blue eyes or other color like green that dosent mean they are abnormal or different infact their eyes look so beautiful

yes!! and her personality too. i enjoyed her ''date'' with the MC

+Nolitha July I'd definitely want to converse with her she seems so outgoing ;)

albinism isn't something you hear on a daily basis it's not like a big "disorder" that many people really know much about...

albinos aren't a big size of the population so maybe that has to do something with it

michael Carrero So that gives people a right to mock her & treat her like an exhibit? I'm not going to make an excuse for adults acting immature. Especially over something as simple as someone looking different from them. Some of the people that teased her KNEW what albinism is.. and still went forward with it. So no excuses from me

Azyah C when did it say that adults where mocking her? Did I miss something because I mostly saw that she said it was little kids or students...people know what albinism is but it's not something that is common so of course people would stare.

michael Carrero​​ Sorry for saying adults then (like it makes it any worse)... Still not going to make an excuse for it. There's a difference between staring and then taking a pictures of someone without consent & acting entitled to it like you're at a zoo. I'm not going to justify anything they did to her. Regardless of age. I don't like bullying, period. (And I'm not going to sit here and believe that there hasn't been ANY adult that's mocked her whether publicly or discreetly..)

you would have been a billionaire

tbh :/

etroxon guys i figures out how we can all have endless money.... just put 5 dollars in a jar every time helloe counselor has an alcoholic concern or a bad husdband concern. our savings are going to be so fucking massive guys.... watchu mean debt? i need not know the word.

ikr

i bet if anyone hadnt interrupted they'd still be there i kind of hope he asked for her phone number or something

ahh that's so cool I really like him!! :D

Same! I feel like we needed a younger MC to balance things out a bit and he's perfect! I like that he gets just as angry as we do about some of the concerns! 😂

Especially in Korea

........welcome to this thing called reality. Not everyone will be treated the same way, unfortunately.

Especially in Korea? Sure some Koreans can be extreme but North Americans can be the same. Growing up in small town in NA, being Asian, you are almost treated the same.

I agree with you 100% it's just not meanness runs deeper than that. If we took the time to educate ourselves on diversity accepting another person/race of their differences you wouldn't have a problem of ignorance. We aren't born that way ignorance is a learned behavior.

indeed

Yeah, I noticed

The Masked Singer Xx same 😂😂💖💖 I'm Hottest and he is my all time bias wrecker he is such a sweet and cool person

Same!!!

Yeah..... I lost contact with my friends when I was 7, and haven't spoke to them since. ( my parents took me out of school) Since then, I was inside all the time, sometimes even for days in a row. I became insecure about a lot. I was already shy, but ever since I lost my friends, I became even quieter. I was always really lonely, and after a year or so, I started getting depressed. From around 8 or 9, till now, I would have so many suicidal thoughts, and even held a knife to my wrists, neck, stomach etc. while crying. (I never actually hurt myself though, cause I was too scared.) I was told hurtful things by people that are close to me; like " if you want to kill yourself, do it. You should've done it already! " "You were a mistake and I wish you were never born. " "You're the reason for all the arguments that happen." "I have always liked your younger sister more than you, that's why I spend more time with her, and give her things; and besides, she doesn't cause everyone's problems like you do. " They say things like that , and it hurts my heart and makes me even more depressed, especially hearing it from someone who is close to me. I long to have friends so much, and I want to go out and have fun, but I can't because my parents won't let me see some of my friends, they won't let me have a phone, ( I am a teenager) and they won't let me go out.😭 I wouldn't be as lonely if I got along with my family, but I don't really. I want to be close with my sister, but we always end up arguing, and she spends all day on her phone, and she gets angry at me when I enter the room she is in. (She would either shout, hit, or kick me.) I also want to have a good relationship with my parents, but sadly, I don't get along with them either.😢 I just want to enjoy my life and I want to be happy again, like I used to be. It feels like my young life is slipping away. I just want to have friends and happiness.😭🙏 Now it's gotten to the point where I am concerned for my health. I started getting a lot of headaches and started doing tics with my head and mouth, because of the stress. I started having pain in my joints, my hands, my legs and feet, my hips, my neck, my back, my head, and my chest. I would get short of breath alot, and have come close to losing it completely. ( I would be in a state of panic, I would be crying, and I would feel dizzy, and I would just be on the floor gasping for breath, barely being able to get air in and out.) I don't know what to do; I want to get rid of the pain, I think it is getting serious, I mean, I almost stopped breathing over 10 different times. Why can't I just be happy and have no pain in my body? I am so young.😭 ( btw, it's not that I haven't had fun days since I became depressed, I have, they are just quite rare. There have been times when I was happy, but it doesn't last long. Not long after, like in the evening, or the next day, I would feel a deep pain and sadness in my heart, but I would still try to smile. Out of 365 days, I only spend an average of 12-13 days of the year, talking, or being with people my age, or people other than my family.)

Full of prejudice. It's really sad.

looks is a big deal all around the world I hope you know that

+michael Carrero ..It's obviously more serious in Korea. There's a chance you would get turned down for a job for being not attractive enough and it's part of your resume to put your picture. High school students get plastic surgery as graduation gifts to get ready for college. Foreigners or anyone who looks different than "normal" Koreans will be stared at, stopped on the streets, or even randomly sworn at.

rueexxi I don't know where you are getting your "research" done but your so wrong. Foreigners aren't treated badly in Korea yeah they may get stared at but everyone who looks diffrent in any place will be stared at. And almost every company or business all around the world has some kind of image that they are looking for in employee if the employee has something in there physical apperance that they don't like then they'll fire you or won't give you the job so the company isn't "affected"

michael Carrero My friends have experienced it firsthand. They were never discriminated against for their looks or appearance in other countries.

thats the sad truth in schools of korea, bullying is such a huge thing... if teachers would step up on the bullying, they could lose their job due the complains of the parents ( the one who bullies other ), since they are mostly the "rich ones" doing... the korean school system is very corrupt and everythings about good grades, good looks and money

Korea's school system is pretty fucked up. Excuse my language. South korea's suicide rate in unbelievable, & bullying in school is related to that. It's so unfortunate. Because if you go to Korea there is certain standards set for females. A chubby person with little fat in our eyes would look obese to theirs & I'm hot hating but their society is driven by standards and if you dont look a certain way people will put you down. It's really sad. I just wanted to reach out to the woman in the 1st concern. People are seriously so unbelievably rude.

+Hye Mi Kang Yeah I understand, it is indeed sad! But what we did back then, was that we sat in a circle and talked about cancer in general. The teacher did not pick on individuals. Also there was a school psychologue and the sessions were free. So if you had a concern you could just go and talk to them

+gDragthaTbitCh. Yeah also in Switzerland suicide rates are pretty high too, in fact today I heard that a friend of my brother comitted suicide. And he was about 18 years old. But what I am curious about is if you live in korea or have lived there yourself? 😶

Wow, I never would've thought the school system in Korea is *that* bad that the teachers could lose their job for defending bullied children. I can only hope the situation improves.

it's really sad because the country is so beautiful, but some people make the country a bad place to live, because of the preconception

I don't think it's a problem because of how "homogeneous" a society is its Beacuse it's something really diffrent. I mean even in the United states I'm sure if people saw an albino they would stare just Beacuse it's not common and probably the first time they see something like that.

+michael Carrero but most people would have the tact to recognize it as albinism, a genetic disorder due to the inheritance of recessive alleles from both parents, and LOOK AWAY. Most Koreans don't really have that; if they see something different, they will STARE and openly talk about it in front of you.

+michael Carrero why do you keep defending the people in the wrong? You've replied to almost every single thread pointing out how messed up it is to make fun of someone for the way they look. Albinism may not be common and you may not see it very often, but we have the freaking internet now. We have countless resources at our disposal for the purpose of education, all at our fingertips. Stop justifying superficiality and ignorance. Under any circumstances, the behavior of the people who made fun of that woman was unacceptable.

You are right...there are some drawbacks to having a more homogeneous country, and my guess is being less good at understanding/tolerating/accepting difference is perhaps one of them. Although I agree to an extent with Michael when he questions to what extent reactions of people in a more heterogeneous country like the US would differ. I think it also depends on education level and the way people are raised.

I feel you

Same thing happened with my family. My dad refused to stop drinking after we tried to help him for 7 years. So we left. He was causing us too much pain and it wasn't worth it anymore. You can't help someone, who doesn't want help.

U did a good job girl :D

You are a kind of friend that everyone needs in their life.

Lucky 😭

Jealous of you dude🙃

You're so lucky 😭

😭😭😭😭

Same!!

still thinking about you

yeah I bet he's hiding it 😭😭 now I'm sad

right? when I was in middle school I was on the wrestling team along with 4 other girls. even though we were outnumbered by the boys there were still girls trying to get involved and going to things like state and one of my friends even went to nationals

Watch a drama, Try W

Watch the movie "Train to Busan" it made me cry a lot haha

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Sister Slum DUNK :)

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