Hello Counselor - Son Hoyong, Eunha & Umji, Jang Moonbok [ENG/THA/2017.08.14] 

In the second concern, Don't let the wife's smile/laughter fool you. I am 100% sure that behind that smile there's a lot of pain & hurt caused by the husband words.

Okay, but he never told us why his hair is so silky.

Eunha has a big heart... When she was crying I just wanted to hug her

I guess sowon will have to deal with her innocent child revealing her weight😂😂😂umji is so cute

the first story made me cry so much oml it was a car story but it made me bawl wtf

I am torn on the second concern. The fact that the husband literally MARRIED his wife 80-90% because of her body is completely shitty. News flash you marry someone because of their PERSONAILTY not because oh shes 50kg. Looks are an added bonus. But on the flip side, yes she is overweight. That is a damn FACT. She does NEED to lose weight in order for her health. I cant even begin to list the amount of health issues she could encounter by the way she is eating. BUT she should not be losing weight to please her husband, because he wont hold her hand down the street or some other bs. She should be losing weight for HER HEALTH. At the end of the day, she is his WIFE. Overweight or not, he vowed to love her through sickness and health. If he can't do so then bih i would dip.👋🏽

In the first concern, Eunha probably understands what the child is going through. As a child she had to get shots everyday because she gained a rare disease, thankfully she's all better now, but she must have felt horrible just hearing that the father didn't do it on the third day. When the mother said that the child had to get shots everyday, you could see Eunha's eyes instantly going sad like she's remembering the days when she had to get a lot of shots as well.

Actually i was mad with the first concern but it didn't affect me as much as the second... like. seriously asking... tha man fall in love of her or her body? then when a girl with a better body appear in front of him he could just leave his marriage? he said he was cheated but did she promised him to be always pretty? the human body change, she could be pretty now but who knows tomorrow? at the end a person should fall in love of the weight? he ignored his wife when they met in the street, the way he talked about her IN NATIONAL TV "pig" i can't imagine what he said at home, they also said she doesn't get hurt when they called her names... but who are they to said if she's hurt or not? do they feel what she felt? she should lose weight SHE DOES but they way the persons around them treat her i bet she should be stressed too, i hate it, even the husband of her friend said she could ignore her if she gain weight WTF? it's your wife as well. Edit: just thinking, since i've known Gfriend Umji was called fat and ugly i just wonder how could she felt with the second concern. Edit2: Eunha is so cute when she's crying, she was really upset.

At first I was here bc of all the "Eunha cried" but than I saw Moonbok and I'm actually happy like for once in a while I like everyone on the panel of idol guests

The second concern seriously makes me wanna cry. Like- sis leave him already. Someone so easily ashamed of you doesn't deserve you :'(

Never heard of jang moonbok before but I like him. He seems to have a great personality so now I have to listen to his music lol

I hope the guy in the first concern wakes up and treats his family better if he doesn't change now, the kids will likely treat him the same when they grow up The second girl is fat and has health problems but calling her pig and cussing at her will not help or encourage her to lose weight. She acts all happy but her friends' and husband's words and actions probably makes her feel shitty so she turns to food for comfort. the guy was pretty good-looking in the third concern its a shame he and his mother got scammed :| i feel like those acting teachers really crushed his self confidence.. he had really friendly, warm eyes(i know that sounds kinda weird) alot of people are probably going to disagree but when people see the bad situations of divorcees like the woman in the last concern, it causes them to think that those are the consequences of divorcing(just my thought when comments always say "why doesnt s/he just leave them?)

I can't stop replaying when Umji mentioned Sowon😂😂

If anything the second concern should've been about the wife's health with the way she eats and her lazy habits, not the way her figure looks now because her husband feels "cheated". His own fault for marrying a woman because of the way her figure looked, should've married someone for who they were. Korean beauty standards are just... no.

Eunha how can you look cute even while crying? Umji looks so good in this episode. Kinda wished that Both of them talked more.

For the second concern, I've seen a ton of people that gained twice their weights after pregnancy. I live in a western culture, but am Asian myself. I know how it feels to be targeted even for the slightest weight gain, but not holding your wife hands just because she's fat? Its stories like this that gives you a clear point of view of how different two cultures can be. I am not hating on anyone by the way, I'm just trying to say that though it is looked down for being overweight (in Korea), I hope none of you guys out there are that mean toward overweight people.

Eunha's little squicks in the first concern are just too cute 😂 how can she be so stunning and cute while crying? 💖

I was already in tears when Umji first started crying, then when Eunha and Umji both started crying I felt like my heart was breaking. This first concern is tearing my heart to pieces!!!

The third concern made me cry a lot, the guy didn't need to get any form of plastic surgery at all he look already so handsome beforehand I wish he never considered it in the first place because plastic surgery more often than not can you ruin your life further especially if there was no real medical purpose to get work done on your body in first place. The part that got me most however was how much his relationship with eomeoni deteriorated, and didn't have will to live anymore because he believe his face was ruined forever and can never go back to his old look. It is true he cannot change his face back unfortunately, but I pray for him that he searches for confidence deep within, successfully repairs his relationship with eomeoni and don't allow anyone to criticize the way he looks now as he pursues his career dream.

That moment when your battery is at 3% and you see your Boss upload pictures of himself and his family. And wanting to impress him, you quickly comment "cool pics" but auto correct changes it to "cool pigs" and your battery runs out!

"Why are you crying?" My mom asks as she enters my room. "Because of a car." *Continues to cry* "Eh?"

For the second story I was kind of disappointed by her friend. Honestly her just smiling doesn't means her feelings aren't hurt.

To be honest, the fact that he's telling her to lose weight isn't the problem, it's the reason *why* he wants her to lose fat. As cliche as it sounds, it really is better for her to lose weight. 13-14 years is a long time, and the fact that she doesn't move much is worrying. But her husband's reason for her to lose weight isn't because of her health (in fact, he never would've talked about her health if the hosts hadn't brought it up), but because he wants her to look pretty??? That's the reason why people are getting angry. Scratch that, that's the reason *why* people should be angry. From the start, this situation is wrong because a marriage should never be based off looks. It just means that he's extremely shallow. Also, even if he was worried for the right reasons (like her health), the way he does it is just wrong. Calling her a pig, (even from the beginning he was strict), yelling at her, it's not the way to go about it. If anything, she should be slowly trimming down her food intake, not cutting it off immediately. And his friend is extremely shallow too. They shouldn't be judging off of looks, but caring about their wife's health and happiness, because that's what a relationship's supposed to be about, supporting and caring for one another. But obviously he is not deserving of the title husband.

Some of these men seriously win in life after marriage. They just go crazy doing what they want in spite of the spouse.

Umji-ssi is really honest and adorable

Am I the only one who watches these episodes while eating?

i love umji for looking so cute and slaying the game #QUEENUMJI

My main problem with the second story is how the hosts didn't really pay attention to what the original concern was, but focuses on the health concerns and laziness to try and make the husband look like a good guy. One of the first things the husband said was that her looks were 80-90% of the reason he married her, and how he would avoid her since she big and how she's not his "beautiful wife" anymore, however, if he married her because he loved her more than he cared about her looks, they wouldn't even be there. Besides, she started gaining weight because she gave birth to his children, that's what upsets me, that they forgot that he called this a "fraudulent marriage" as if he were catfished or like she married him for money. Sure, she has bad habits, but the core of the problem comes from the way the husband sees her and their marriage, not the weight of the wife herself.

I love how in the second consern, at the end she said that she loved him and he didn't even smile back..

If an object is more valuable than your own child's health then you really have a problem. How shameful

I cried when I saw Eunha (and Umji) crying 😫😫😫😭

"You married her because of her body?" "I suppose that was 70 to 90% of the reason." Me: 👉🏾🚪

I cried so much watching this first family about the car. It's like a waterfall effect, seeing people cry and knowing what pains them, aghh that makes me cry along with them. Parenting should not be a one person responsibilty. It took two people to make a child, so it should always be two to be there and to take care of the child(ren). When one of the girl guest mc from gfriend started to cry, i cried along with her. I hope the husband puts the effort to change how he prioritize his car from family. Family is so important, you are only lost or less of who you are without them. I really admire the wife for enduring being a wife and a mother to three kids for nine long years, when her husband is like that.

Wow Eunha, Umji and Moonbok on the same show, they picked all my faves.

Moonvok hair looks soo soft and umji is cute as always

That awkward moment when you accidentally roast your leader :v 34:11

This video had a lot of important concerns and I am aware of that but...... Why is no one talking about how wonderful and sweet and handsome Jang Moonbok is. Like really why does everyone always sleep on how talented he is, Not to mention how cute and underappreciated he is like the fact that he didn't win in produce 101 is bad enough but even when he's on other programs people still disregard him smh

GFRIEND are too cute. I can't deal with Eunha and Umji. So sweet. I feel like SinB is not going to let her forget this though aha!

Eunha you precious mochi you !! I was bawling when she started crying

My baby Omuji💞💞

21:24 I love how Umji was there trying to comfort the mother. Eunha and her sure have big hearts T.T

I hope the lady in the second concern leaves that horrible man and finds better friends,, literally she might laugh things off because she doesn't want to look weak or sum but that doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings. Calling people ugly names isn't going to help the,, instead encourage them to lose weight not to please society but for their own health which is more important than what people think about the way you look.

I love TaeJoon so much. I fell for him during 'the flower in prison'. I wonder how someone can be this pretty inside and out?? I'm seriously falling head over heals for him every time I see him - again and again

Second concern is honestly both sides fault. Husband shouldn't have married someone because of their body, she should have know that she would eventually get old and her body not as beautiful as it used to be. And she has extremely unhealthy eating habits, she shouldn't be called pig but damn she shouldn't eat 5 tubs of ice cream in one day. It's effecting her life and her care of the kids, and the husband is really shallow. The female host with the glasses was really pissed of at him but its national television she cant say shit... ://

I find it funny how moonbok just rolls his eyes and does that mouth thing everytime the situation gets worse XD

The third concern made me cry so much. I feel so bad for the mother, she deserves happiness, I hope her son doesn't dissapoint her again..

The first concern had me bawlingg, i dont get how he even hesitated when asked about choosing between his kid and his car. The poor boy looked so upset and betrayed, the dad needs to get back to the reality that his family is gonna be with him for longer than some dumb car

Even though I am not a fan of Eunha But when she cried, It broke my heart :( I wanted to give her a big hug :'(

I like Moonbok so much, he is so adorable, if he makes something, I'm supporting 😭💕

Moonbok's hair is beautiful.

do not cry umji and Eunha

Yeonja is not having it this episode and I am living for it. I always felt she was the most upset at all the irresponsible dad's and husband's on the show but couldn't express it as much. However today something ticked her off enough to make them feel as embarrassed as they should be. Tell them queen. These men out here playing all kinds of games.

Okay but like, what kind of LOVING husband calls their wife a pig?

i don't think the second one is a concern at all because like he's basically fat shaming her and saying he only married her for her body that's rude and i think he's the concern

Funny how at the first concern Moonbok and Umji were all like "wtf man" but Eunha was completely outraged Then the three were very concerned but Eunha broke up into tears

I came here for MOONBOK😂😂❤

I felt bad when Eunha and Umji cried😫 (I also cried)

Bruhhh I saw one of the teaser vids before this one and I was entirely convinced that Moonvok was a female! His hair is so pretty!

The first one touched me because when my parents divorced, my father walked away from us to be with another woman. He never cared about us and looking back he didn't care when my parents were together. I now have to tell people that my dad abandoned me when I was 13 to anyone who asks about my father. It struck a nerve to see such a person not care about his children the way he should. It hurts to think that my father didn't care or want me and sometimes I get so upset I tell people that he is dead. In a way, it is true.

Umji is sooooo pretty. I can't believe she's my age. T-T

I sympathize with the first and last concern but the second one is beyond ridiculous. I can't even believe that this man was even able to find "love" with his narrow way of thinking.

Moonbok is so adorable

Is it only me that crying and laughing at the same time while watching eunha crying in first scene?

i'd understand the second concern if he was concerned about her health or cholesterol but no he was just concerned over her looks. Tbh I see him as the concern and not his wife. edit: At least they somewhat solved the concern/called the husband out. I feel like they worked through some issues. But I think they misunderstand her because she smiles all the time. Like Hoyoung said she must be stressed and hurt on the inside.

taejoon looks so done in the first concern 😂😂 im pretty sure he would have cursed the shit out of the guy if it werent for the cameras

the description is totally wrong. lmao.

The 2nd concern is all sorts of bullshit. Like its THE WIFE that should be having the concern. Like dude you should be worried about her health not her looks. If thats all you look for then go find someone else. Youre not married for the right reasons hell. 80-90% of the reason why you got married??? You dont even need to be married. Shes too good for you. To take all that mental abuse and shes still content with herself then dude youre the one with the problem. You dont deserve her. I say toss him and koreas outlook on beauty standard out the window and just do you.

I like how Dong Yup tries to ask the question but stops bc he is too embrassed but we all know what I question is. Hahahaha.

It hurts my heart so much to see Eunha crying that much 😭 She’s so kind :( Wow... for the second story, the wife should be sitting where the husband is. It’d be fine if he said he wants her to lose weight because he’s really TRULY worried for her health, but... in the beginning, he said the reason he married her was 80%-90% bc of her body. So if she becomes overweight, he says that he cares about her health as well, but I doubt it. I think he’s just using health as a reason for the public to make it look like he’s not that bad. As a fellow Korean, that’s really damn upsetting to hear. Smh. K but for the third problem the dude doesn’t look that bad now that the swelling’s gone down. He kinda reminds me of FTISLAND’s Lee Hongki! XD

lmao is no one gonna talk about how cute the little kid thats falling asleep is at 19:55

우리 은하도 너무 착하고 예쁘고 ... 엄지의 공감능력은 너무 감동을 배가시키는 것 같아요....사랑애효 여자친구........

It's so nice seeing Son Hoyong I really adore him

Moonbok is truly gorgeous

XD I keep mistaking one of the girl guests for moonbok 😳

21:25 aww, umji comforting the wife gfriend members are all so sweet i love them

Ah I feel bad too at what eunha said.. Ah umji and eunha has a glass heart😭♥️they are so pure

Umji is getting prettier each day

The second concern isn't as bad as some from the comment section is saying. Of course the husband wanting his beautiful wife back but he never said to his wife in the show to lose weight to 50kg as she was before. He compromise for a healthy 70-80 kg and in excange he will quit smoking and drinking. She cannot move around the house bc she is heavy, ( like she said it) he does all the household stuff. She is ruining there business but eating food from their shop. Also spent thousand of dollars for dieting methods which does not help. And if he was a doughbag and love skinny women he could easily get a divorce. I know they have kids. Why would he still stay with her and even go to Hello Counslor to show his concern while everybody will think bad about him on first listening.?????!!!!! Of course he should be more polite and not being mean to his wife like his friend to his wife ( his friend answered the question he would not walk next to his wife if she is double the size) This is my option. Please watch the full second concern again.

If the second concern was only for health reasons I wouldn't be so mad right now.

eunha is actually the cutest purest little baby everyone needs to cherish and protect her

Umji so adorable. Lol

That third concern makes me proper angry these two poor people are sitting there devastated but the concern isn't with them it's with those horrible teaching company staff that ruined their lives out of greed for money. Disgusting. This concern belongs in the courts not on this show.

The second one made me mad. Like seriously, I would understand if the guy was there because he was like concerned for his wife's weight, but he specifically said that he felt "cheated." I honestly don't even care about anything else that was said because it disgusts me how some people marry/date for the looks of a person. I understand that he may be a bit ashamed with Korea's beauty standards, but if he truly loved his wife he would accept her for who she is

Moonbok💖 it's nice to see him!!!

i was crying and then... 27:00 "practiced on a dolls butt" :)

I feel so sad for the woman on the 2nd concern. It's true that she's unhealthy but her friends and husband are so mean, they don't even understand how much their words hurt her and that's why she finds comfort in eating a lot. And her husband is horrible, he calls her pig and disgusting whenever she approaches him romantically. I'm totally disgusted with that human being who married her 80%/90% for her looks. I hope she gets skinnier and leaves him for good. She has such a good personality, I pray the best for her. 💛

Throughout the first concern, Eunha constantly looked like she wanted to cry and when she did it hurt a bit to watch. She’s very caring but especially with her past, I can’t imagine what she felt :[

The first one made me cry!😢💔 when the wife cried and she explained her son ill

THEY ACTING LIKE YOU CAN'T DRIVE A CAR FROM 2003 AND I'M PRETTY SURE MINE'S FROM THE 90'S LOL

Both the wife and husband are at fault in the second concern. While the wife is very obese (around 240lbm going on 300), her husband still shouldn't be treating her like that. It's reasonable that he wants her to lose weight, to a pretty average size (around 160lb). He's not expecting her to look like a model or how she used to, but his methods to make her lose weight aren't right. He should be motivating her. Not degrading her. However, he still married her for her looks which is a horrible reason. The wife is also irresponsible. She's like those lazy husbands in the other concerns that don't do shit, so y'all shouldn't be preaching her rights just cause she's fat. She's also extremely unhealthy, but she should lose weight for herself, since it isn't easy to do. Anyways, done ranting, hopefully they divorce.

I started crying when Eunha started crying, she's so precious! She truly hurt by what was going on. Did anyone else cry when she cried?

*First concern.* Get a divorce lady, he won't change; he's childish and clearly has shown his priorities in life (cars over his family). *Second concern.* Get a divorce dude *if* she doesn't change, she clearly got comfortable about getting married and got lazy. There is nothing wrong about being attracted to someone physically first then about their personality. A person who takes care of themselves expect to be with someone who do as well. It's hard to walk in life with someone dragging you down. If someone is lazy they're going to fit well with a lazy person. Someone who is active and well adjusted is going to fit well with someone active as well. Not everyone is born with the knowledge to help someone who is mentally sick (depression, anxiety, eating disorders, etc.) Tough love is his way to approach the situation, it's not working and he doesn't know how to try another way. They clearly aren't a match. They mentioned he's not affectionate at all and she is. *Third concern.* I'm so angry this lady is spoiling her wrong up son with every acting request he asked her. Poor lady, but it's also her fault for paying for things like that when he should work for those things. As his eyes seem better now he should focus on finding a simple job to support himself and payback some money he asked from his mother. It must've been though for both of them in the aftermath. But it happened, they should talk and move own, seem they both need to let some steam out. Also KICK THAT BOY OUT OF YOUR HOUSE, LOOK AT THE WAY HE TREATED YOU. SMH. No matter what you shouldn't treat your mother like that after ALL she has done for you. This one case infurated me the most. My own opinions after all.

The man from the second concern does not fit himself into the beauty standards so why force the woman to do the same!?

I love watching this show

aghh the last concern made me cry poor guy, and i feel really bad for his mom too

The second concern is sad. I feel bad for the woman because she just wants to eat and be happy and I feel a little bad for the husband because even if we love someone for who they are, I think what bothers him is the fact that she just sees it as a joke; but at the same time I love her personality lol

"i feel like it was a fraud" wtf ?!

listeen the way the husband in the 2nd concern looked at his wife pure disgust :/

MY POOR PRINCESS STARTED CRYING! The first concern made me really emotionally sad....poor kids :(

I was waiting for this episode after I saw a preview of Eunha crying...I wanted to watch more