Her Ex Partner Almost Ended Her Life 

This is why society needs to get rid of the idea that you have to be in a relationship. Life isn't a fairy tale

I feel so bad for elderly people Who stay in a lifetime of An abusive relationship.

The devil is real and uses relationships to destroy us.

I’m at a complete loss. Why did she continue to recycle the same men that were ALWAYS abusive and dangerous or get naively involved with men on such short notice? My GOD her poor kids😔. Is this better than being single?

I'm so glad you're still here to tell your story. You will save lives.

Abuse is not just physical and unfortunately when it's done in other ways it's harder to prove. Thank you for sharing your story.

She was with so many men and rushing into relationships and almost every guy she been with was abusive

You were in A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP. LIVING AND SLEEPING WITH YOUR ENEMY.

After being in one abusive relationship, I refuse to ever take a chance again. It's not worth it. How did you keep trying for relationships over and over? Be happy being single.

After all the abuse, still having kids still longing for a relationship instead of focusing on healing and the kids 🤦🏽‍♀️

I was also punished in that very same way. Thank you for sharing your story.

Nothing is wrong with u. God loves you

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I don’t think people can judge unless you have been through it. Men like this know who to target, sadly they know who is more susceptible to being manipulated. The scary thing is how easily this can become generational, kids are smart they see what we don’t think they will and it’s all they know. I’m praying for your and your children, I’m so sorry 😢

Speed is the weapon of choice for many toxic ppl.

My mother was just like you. I use to help her fight. These guys enjoy abusing these women.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. My situation was very similar. I always thought and sometimes still do think it must’ve been me. I hear what some people here are saying, “Just leave.” I used to say that too. Until you’ve walked in someone’s shoes it’s not as simple as that. Also some, I think are just wired differently? Idk but either way she’s human, I believe she tried her best and I’m happy she’s out of that relationship. I wish her all the best! My heart is with you. ❤

Get a restraining order so that every time he makes contact he can get arrested.

How tf did Corey agree to a plea deal but then turn around and appeal and get out on bond?!?!? Great justice system we have 🤬🤬🤬

Prayers that you will find inner peace and love for yourself and I pray that your daughters don’t follow in your footsteps 🙏😔

Why bring all these men into your children's life 😢

Ok, so I’ve been in many bad relationships and tolerated things longer than I should have. After my divorce, I decided to work on me. My self-esteem was low and I noticed I always jumped into relationships quickly then think they will change if they love me. So I worked on myself built confidence and reminded myself that I’m a good person and I deserve to be treated well. Next, I thought about what I want and don’t want in a man. I told myself to watch for red flags and not to stay with anyone if I noticed them. Plus, I decided to just talk to guys for awhile before even considering dating them and I wasn’t in a rush to make it a relationship. So if a guy didn’t seem like what I was looking for I’d stop talking to him. It was easy to just stop associating with them because I have good self-esteem and I wasn’t in a relationship it was just talking. I made sure I enjoyed being single and made a life I enjoyed so much that any guy that wanted me would have to be worth me not staying single. Later I met my husband. It just happened we started talking awhile and he was upfront and honest like me. Most guys I’ve talked to or dated were never upfront and they’d try to act like they are so good only to change after 6 months to a jerk. My husband did things for me I never expected from a guy nor did I think those things were something men do anymore. Like open doors for me. We dated awhile then got married. He still opens doors for me and helps me with things. May 24th it will be 2 years of marriage. My point is you have to learn to value yourself and believe you deserve to be treated with respect and love. What you accept/tolerate in a relationship that is what you will continue to receive. You have to respect yourself enough to know when to leave a toxic relationship. But if you know what you’re looking for you don’t even have to be in a relationship to know if a guy is good for you or not. Now, if there are things like flaws and behaviors you don’t like in a man understand that he won’t change after you get married those things you don’t like will get much worse. You must set boundaries and know what you’re willing to tolerate and what you’re not gonna tolerate you know deal breakers. Going from one bad relationship to another is partially your fault because you kept choosing the same kind of men. I know what I’m saying because that was me choosing the wrong guys not seeing my worth and tolerating abuse. If you don’t learn to love yourself you will never know what love is and what being loved is like. Don’t make excuses for a man to be abusive towards you. We all have had hardships it’s no excuse to beat a person and treat them horribly. A partner is like looking for a nice pair of shoes. You must find the right pair of shoes that fits comfortably. You cannot just grab any pair of shoes and expect them to be comfortable. If you pick any pair of shoes then you have to decide whether to keep those shoes that hurt your feet or look for a better pair. You cannot make a person be the right person for you. They are either right or wrong for you.

You are sooo beautiful!!😍Brave‼️‼️ and loved ❤️

He really almost beat you to death. Im so sorry you kept going through that you are better than that!!!!! 💓💓💓💓

My ex gave me a brain bleed.. and I was married. He never came to the hospital…

There is nothing wrong with u sweetheart, you just needed to find self love. I hope u found it❤God is with u

For the sake of your children don’t get into a relationship until they’ve left home. Clearly you are not capable of seeing these abusive men for what they are.

I think it is rather concerning that you also took on the responsibility of being a mother … as you seem to be unable to look after yourself

This is how it works when one hasnt been in therapy for a troubled childhood. One violent relationship after another takes place. Been in it for 31 years now, getting help this summer. So she is a classic case, like the rest of us. The comments in here are awful and absolutely lacking in any form of knowledge. Cudos to her for telling! ❤❤❤❤

Disgusting for the women in the comments shaming her that it must be her fault bc it happened to her more than once YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. nobody is super happy alone they all want a partner secretly Thank you for sharing your story i can relate to it in so many ways. ❤Jesus found me & while im "happily " single no im not better off alone i want babies and marriage too. I just leave it in His hands now.

Your children's well-being ought to be your priority now. Take care of yourself and stop looking toward relationships to create happiness.

We teach people how to treat us. Hit me once it’s your fault, hit me twice it’s mine. I am NOT blaming the “victim” here please don’t go there. ITS NEVER ok to yell, threaten, strike or hit another person. EVER! However, Unfortunately our “victim” mindset culture doesn’t address the internal makings of domestic violence and is too focused on the perpetrators of violence and not the dance behind the couple that dances it. It’s always related to unprocessed childhood trauma on both sides, and lack of connection to one’s inner most being! Always!! I think you helped some people when you discussed how you ignored obvious red flags and justified staying repeatedly in abusive relationships because you wanted the relationship to be a certain way rather than the way it really was! This is HUGE and a repeated pattern of making up a fantasy relationship vs reality. The relationships all got progressively worse over time, never better. The victim gets addicted to the adrenaline rushes that go with constant fight or flight mode and this is not discussed enough in the DV culture. I think you can be a great service to others if you continue to work on your internal split which led you to these kinds of men. I hope you’re not with someone right now either. I really hope you are finally getting to know the real you and are being a little selfish with her and not sharing that with anyone for a while. Keep healing and thank you for sharing your story. You’re stronger than you think you are!

(skip to 8:05) Imagine lying 🤥 and saying you "lost touch" of your child when in actuality, you voluntarily gave up your parental rights to your OWN biological child, only to then turn around and ADOPT two kids that AREN'T yours! Like...wtf. 🤦

I am so sorry this happened to you!I had this happen to me too.

At least for me, everything goes back to growing up when abuse was normalized, and not understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy. And when you go out to the real world, you want to feel “safe” and that only happens in familiar situations. Please be health so that you don't find scum bags again!

I'm so sorry girl❤ you're such an strong and brave woman for keep going❤

Is this what co dependency is ? Bc its almost unbelievable that every single man she chooses just happens to he the devil by chance. There's gotta be something more to this case.

Wow all the negative comments…. No one will understand why people make the decisions they make in these types of circumstances. There’s obviously something going on that she may not even have know about yet as to why she made the choices she made. She deserves mercy and grace and prayer for healing and strength to move forward in a positive way for her and her children.

I don't know what to say. I hope what you said will be a lesson to someone, especially yourself.

WHY mention if he will reach out ? That stuck me as her wanting him to ! I really hope not !

why do you want him to reach out again?¿??????

I pray for your healing and protection for your children! Also just wanted to know how long ago this was because there is a bruise on the top of her eye lid and small one on the bottom of it!?

Feel sorry for the children.

If someone hits you just once, leave.

I believe in long engagements. They can’t hide that long.

Thank God...U r ere ..after All That..👈🙏🙏🙏..just Love urself ...we absolutely deserve That 🎉....💔❤️🙏

I went through similar courts here in Stephenville nl our judicial system is sad and there for the abuser

Why are people not getting private investigators to vet these guys?

You're so brave!! Thank you for your story. A true blessing

What’s just as scary as being with somebody who shows no empathy is someone who can fake it my ex was a psychopath told me after we got married and a narcissist so he could fake empathy that look in someone’s eye she’s talks about I’ve seen it few times

I usually have immense empathy for people who share their stories on this channel, but I’m struggling with this one…You’re not responsible for his actions, but you are responsible for giving awful men more opportunities to be awful to you. Boundaries are meaningless unless you enforce them, and by enforce them, I mean LEAVE. I hope you’ve since learned to “love yourself so much that when someone treats you wrong, you recognize it.”

Mistake was to jump from one relationship to another

Tank you for all u saying

Those are Narcissist's you were with. Turn to Christ and heal. So sorry you experienced all of this. I know how it can be. Keep your head up. God is our REDEEMER 🎉. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos on this. It helped me. ❤ May God bless you 🙏🏽

My ex husband was in therapy doesn’t mean anything narcissists do it in private that’s how they don’t get caught too smart if they didn’t abuse women and actually do something with there lives they would great normal people

Why is she shaking her head no the whole time? That’s a tell of someone who is lying.

How dare they reduce his sentence 🤬

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Can I ask Where are your children? They need therapy after seeing all this.

A now how you feel a feel sorry for you 😢 From me the women in sweden😌

Look I'm not denying that it was really horrible experience but at what point you thought maybe U should find out why I'm choosing these bad people and maybe not to have children with them sure first time 18 I understand but after that you were not 18 anymore your children paying price work your bad choices

I just can't withwomen who pick the same dude over and over. They go against EVERYONE around them. At some point you just let them alone to be miserable. Don't get sucked into their problems

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Ii do not understand men wanting annul sex. The thought of it is so disgusting.Im sorry she went through so much trauma!

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Ao thankful I didn’t get pregnant with my ex I got lucky cuzz we tried for long time one point in my life god was looking out for me or I wouldn’t be alive today cuzz I would have stayed

See being single sounds so much easier even if you may have moments of loneliness. This woman should have been looking for God instead of men

His new gf now is gonna be the next victim need to have list of names cuzz that goes away can search it but doesn’t always come up online I’ve tried

I think she had these guys in life because of self hatred.. she probably went through some trauma, she didn't want to hurt herself, so she the man in her life that did..it's like when you hear women say to their friends if something happens to me my husband did it..why, why do they stay with this person???please love yourself, when you see one red flag, be out ✌️

Once you see the DARKSIDE of SOMEONE IN PLAIN SIGHT LEAVE IMMEDIATELY WITHIN ANY EXPLANATION. A MAN WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR.OK SO BE SMART.

I have noticed these stories always have a certain theme of women that are desperate for love. Learn to be alone. Instead of getting into one relationship after another heal yourself and become whole within and get a clue. What annoys me the most is the children that have to live through one man after another abusing their mother because they can't be alone.

And I thought I was dumb

Sorry to say this, but the problem in her life is she herself! It must have been horrible for the children!

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You need to look internally. Every single relationship was abusive. Why are you attracting monsters. Lightening doesn’t strike twice, but for you it hits every single time.

Lady, please accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Don't waste your second chance at life. When you have God's Holy Spirit inside of you, you will discern these people right away and walk in His wisdom to avoid them. God bless. 🙏🏽

How long ago was this look like I see a bruise on your face now

Your looking at the devil or one of his demons.

You seriously need help seek a therapist!!!

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Anyone else think she's a fool?

Something is wrong with you!!!!!!

Girl can pick em!

Ohh, so she was being a fast azz out here cheating. There usually is a reason, esta la bollitas culpa😂😂

When are women going to wake up to the fact that romantic love doesn't exist?

I feel no sympathy for this woman. She clearly cheated, so don’t whine about anything when you are the CHEATER.! I feel that this woman is the instigator, the fraud, you are not even remotely a victim.!! And playing the suicide card is repulsive. Stop jumping from man to man .

What’s just as scary as being with somebody who shows no empathy is someone who can fake it my ex was a psychopath told me after we got married and a narcissist so he could fake empathy that look in someone’s eye she’s talks about I’ve seen it few times