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Men. 1. If she plays the "I was too busy to reply" nonsense, she gets two chances, and then she is cut off. Every single woman has their phones almost literally glued to their hands, no excuses for not replying within reasonable time. 2. You do not use texting for anything other than setting up dates, texting is NOT for getting to know anybody. Texting is your tool to get the girl out on a date with you, that is it. If she hums and haws, then she is not interested, and there's your answer, move on. 3. Do not try to be clever when setting up a date, all you have to say is "what is your schedule like on certain day/night of the week?" and see what she comes back with. If she says she's busy, but does not give you an alternate day, i.e. she doesn't even want to attempt to meet you half way and make an effort to set something up, usually you would get "I'm booked Wednesday night, but how does Thursday look for you", if you do not get at least some effort, she's not interested, move on. 4. do NOT set the exact time and place several days in advance, otherwise you will have to send the dreaded “are we still on for tonight?” message. Instead tell her that your work schedule is hectic and that you will text her on the day of the date to figure out the exact time/place. “Hey my work hours are pretty hectic. I usually finish 6ish. How about I message you Thursday during the day and we’ll figure out the exact time/place?” 5. once you agree on the day - leave her alone! no more texting!! I mean it! Even if the date is a week away! Be a MAN. Balls of steel. If the girl’s interested, it doesn’t matter how long she has to wait, her interest will not wane, IF however the day comes and she flakes, her interest was low to begin with, so it would NOT have mattered if you messaged her somewhere in between anyways. 6. as you said you would, on the day of the date, send her a message to solidify. Let’s say you made plans for the evening, send her this text early afternoon: “Get pumped for tonight! I’ve got something fun planned for us!” If she asks what exactly, just say "meet me at 7 at this place" and that's ti, don't give her any more info other than this, keep her in the dark. I've been on hundreds of dates and this works. Good luck. P.S. No emojis, stop, please stop, if you're a teenager, maybe, but if you're a grown Man, do not under any circumstances use emojis.
The fact that we even have to do all this Intricate shit and chase another human being like this with mindgames and entertain them every day without any dull moments Is ridiculous If you think about It , modern society has set up this bs unofficial rule where the woman should almost have to do NOTHING , just look pretty and pick and choose which Is absurd. Life's too hard and short for all this , they need us as much as we need them , no human wants to be lonely all the time but nobody should have to try any harder than the other , nobody should be full of themselves no matter how much society tells you you're the ideal catch your shit still stinks like the rest of us , there's too much walking on eggshells stress going on just reading your advice alone , even If It probably does work , connecting this way Isn't natural. Imo we all need to just be frank with eachother and more immediate.
It’s like anything, if you are attracted to someone they could accidentally drop a plate of food in your lap and you would laugh. If you’re not attracted to them, how they hold their fork could irritate you.
They over analyze the dumbest and shallowest s...., what a waste of time, effort and loss of great opportunities or good times. I wouldn't waste my time in trying to win that boring, exhausting and ridiculous game just to get a shallow complicated girl.
This is crazy how so many of these women are so quick to cut a guy off etc for double texting only shows me this generation doesn't have any communication skills
Double Texting? Maybe one person is a better communicator than the other person? This is literally immature. Soo.. You lack communication.. And you get frowned at because you double text? Totally Stupid
