@@nikitamarynich1794 thanks bro. Yeah me and my wife met each other before social media for popular so she wasn't influenced by any of that like the women are now. There are still good women out there though just gonna be harder to find.
@@karon718I’m glad for you man. I’m 25 and it’s not easy at all I don’t think it’s ever Been easy but the difficulty has certainly increased. Did you guys meet at school, work out and about the mall etc? I diversify where I look to mix up the crowd and not over saturate one area.
“It wouldn’t make sense for me to date down “ remember that men. When you’re thinking about love she’s thinking “how can he love me if he doesn’t have enough money “.
The sad thing is, she has no real sense if how money works she thinks its luxury items and expensive dinner every night , these women will be extremely broke soon
She believes that earning more “money” is needed in order to lead. Many women make 6 figures and are drowning in debt. Most women drown in debt. While a man can earn 35k and take better care of his finances. Who’s to say he couldn’t lead? Her point is a fallacy and incorrect 100%. Most women who are Americanized become have a trash mindset. The truth of the matter they’re not wife material
the fight isnt against women. the competition is other men. why would she pick you over someone who works out everyday, charismatic and makes 200k a year? the fight is also against your previous self. you can become black pilled and become nihilistic and not try much, or red pilled and work to have more options, or blue pilled and get wrecked
@@1111111111202 yeah, those praises for competitive dating vaporise when you realise your entire life you'll have to compete without ever having the assurance of care, love, respect, kindness from a stable relationship with a woman who share those values. No man can continue to compete at every front of his life for his entire lifetime. Keep your idiocy to yourself.
@@Jblah Tell that to the married guy with a couple of kids. That will get divorce graped in court. But for me I won't live with women so I can boot them anytime. If I could even find a B worth dating in this swamp.
Those are the same women that reject or ostracize the yet or destined to be high value man before he finds his footing remember the film 'the pursuit of happiness' based the true actually story of Chris Gardner whose ex wife left him for dead before he became a stock broker, business man & philanthropist these stories happen a lot.
Yea but will she find a good men with such expectations? I mean besides the money aspect she would want him to be good looking and all other sort of stuff. The guy meeting her criteria doesn't need her as he can finance a family in a third world country with 10k a year, so why put up with a woman that bases your value on how much you make and know that she'd be gone if your business doesn't do great. Shes delusional indeed as an inteligent men will never commit but just smash.
She's full of crap man. Simply being a provider is not the only aspect of a relationship that's important. If your boring, have no personality, insecure, the girl will lose attraction for you even if you have all this money and pay the bills. I think she truly doesn't know what she wants
Focus on yourselves kings. women come and go. We work hard, suffer and have to obtain everything ourselves.We don't have a plan B where we just settle with someone who will take care of us like them. Women who fear god and embrace old values do exist, but it won't be the ones you find on the streets at 10 pm. This instagam-influencer generation is disgusting. its gonna be a crazy world when the new generation gets older and their kids will have moms with 50+ body counts
Men and women need to realize that we're all just rodents in the rat race. That default of "the man should be the breadwinner" went out the window years ago once women entered the workforce and lowered the wages that can be given to the average man since by definition your more replaceable. Men and women used to have that understanding that were in this $hit show together and we'll make it work, but were playing right into the hands of what the powers that be want. Single men and women working their buts off, and they keep themselves forever single by working with 1950's dating standards in 2023. A man should be the leader in the relationship, but in this day and age holding the task of "always making way more money than your women" is not realistic and will drive you crazy.
@deez3063yeah this whole concept of women that date men that make less than them being called dating down is crazy. For years men shouldered the burden of being bread winners and taking care of their family. Now that times have changed with women having more opportunities to make money they would rather be single than be with a great guy that maybe makes less than them. Pretty sad tbh and it’s stunting the growth of our society.
@deez3063It’s also more ridiculous when women earn more money and are still drowning in debt especially with a 6 figure income. While a man working at Walmart may have no debt and have his finances in check. Most men have healthier finances. Which defeats her argument on “how is he going to lead me if he doesn’t earn the same or more money than me” Leadership skills has nothing to with Money To me it’s a red flag 🚩 when women demand this. They just want men to pay their debt and bills while they get to save their money in the bank 🏦
That was slick Angela (first girl). Notice how it went from ‘a man can’t lead if he makes less (his 50k to her 100k)’, to ‘how can he lead if he has NO money’. Goes to show how women can equate making less than her, to making nothing. A wise man can very well lead a relationship even if she makes more. That was very disappointing to hear from her.
Boohoo. If men can write off overweight women because it shows off her lack of discipline then a woman can write off men because of his low income because it shows lack of ambition.
@@xshesyourqorqeousxx3 First of all, men and women can do whatever they want. Any reason for someone to write off another is their business. So although I agree with your response because it’s fair, it had nothing to do with my comment. Second (in relation to my comment), what Angela said, was not in fairness. It would be like me saying, “HOW CAN SHE BE A GOOD WOMAN IF SHE’S OVERWEIGHT” is the same as…”HOW CAN SHE BE A GOOD WOMAN IF SHE’S AN OBESE LAZY SLOB” You see? Being overweight is not the same as being an obese slob. Many overweight woman can be attractive, good women. I can’t say the same about the obese lazy slob. Likewise, a man having no money is not the same as a man making 50K. Do you see the unfairness in Angela’s statement?
@@KINGKING10109 Give her something to follow. Who would follow a man living in poverty who clearly cannot lift himself up or be a provider? You want a 2nd mother that's why no woman will submit to YOU. Leaders don't make excuses. You're upset no woman will let you "lead" her into a life of poverty, mishaps and unfortune. Good fathers teach their daughter to avoid the likes of you, that's all. Date within you range - there are women who will gladly struggle with you but don't upset when she gets tired & files those divorce papers.
i didnt know that money had anything to do with leading a household or marriage, my mom makes 3X what my dad makes, they been married 30 years and my mom knows her place 🤷🏾
@@Shuwbz what do you mean? my dad made more money than my mom when they were first married until she got promoted, it wasnt always that way, my dad was the breadwinner at first, bottom line is that modern men are insecure when a woman makes more than him
How is it that men are insecure, most men wouldn’t mind if their women made more, modern women start resenting a man when they make more because they don’t have that “ambition” or they “outgrew” them and they start throwing it in the mans face and leave… if anything women seem like the insecure ones, especially when they make up the majority of personnel that initiate then end of relationships.
@@insomicraiddict because that attacks a mans ego, mens stress levels become higher when a woman makes more than 40% of the household income as well, proven fact
“The dating scene sucks” means different things. For men, it means he can’t get a date. For women, it means she’s dating a top tier alpha and can’t stop him from cheating
@@farzana6676 There is sorry, look at high school or college for example the hierarchy is usually the athletes and popular guys get the prettiest girls this is human nature
@Solotv84 This is irrelevant in the real World(not in school). The nerds and shy unathletic guys become doctors, lawyers and tech bros and make big bank. So yeah, everybody has something going for them.
Men, she DONT care about your being. Who YOU are. She only cares what you can do for her long term. And women call this "love"? I want none of that bs.
@@erko78 They are in Brickel, Miami, literally minutes from the beach. Everyone there is dressed like that, or still wearing their bathing suits with a cover.
That’s the same girl that attacked MLD on SOSCAST for calling her fat. Then she started making fun of Japanese women for being more traditional than women in America.
all she is a modern day women. those are the type of women you stay far away from. find a girl that wants you to lead regardless of how much you make. that takes care of her. Her submissiveness is conditional. She will only like you if you are making more money than her
Doesnt matter how much he made as long as he was making more than her mum, That was her point.Only western men think things like don't matter, it matters in other culture. I'm African and you would be seen as less than a man and butt of jokes by your peers, if they know 😅
@@ibrahimbarry8219Lol I mean let’s be fr tho he’s been exposed tho. He did lied, tried to play it off, and then later on got exposed for being an abuser.
The first girls logic makes no sense especially the further up the ladder you go. Mariah Carey is worth almost $400 million, Nick Cannon is worth $50 million. What can’t he afford to get for Mariah that she needs? He obviously has to lead in more ways than just being a financial provider because when they were together she dominated his finances. That girl sounds like she’s not ready to be in a real relationship.
If you're 30 and under focus on being your best self, spiritually, mentally, physically and financially. Dating as an average guy in 2023 is going on a dummy mission if you don't have one of these looks, money, status, social circle, or game. Your climbing an uphill battle
Stop dating if you are a man under 30. Dating should be reserved for men over 35 who are looking for wives, not a side piece to a side piece to a side piece.
Isn’t it crazy how if a woman cheats it’s because they aren’t getting what they want from the relationship but if a guy does it it’s because he is insecure and not because he isn’t getting what he wants from the girl in the relationship? Wild stuff
@@CassandrabbGuys aren’t cheating their just being men. If they have the opportunity to be with other women they will, it’s as simple as that and usually it’s just sex. Nothing to do with being insecure. It’s just nature. Sure they could have a little self control, but most men won’t depending on how attractive the woman is
The first lady is smart and has a point, date in your circle it won't be perfect but i can bet you wouldn't fight or go ego tripping over who earns more. Just my opinion
"Everyone's a cheater" womanese translation i go for rich Chads/Tyrones that have Thousands of other Women on Deck but i expect to make him change for me cause i "feel" i'm so special & when i fail "which they all do" then i'm gonna blame men & society...what else is new😂
2:15 What she says is what a woman will do. Not a man. A man 9/10 times will cheat because he’s just thirsty for sex, not validation. If a man is being treated good by his girlfriend or wife and she carries herself respectfully, in most cases he will honor her. It doesn’t take much to get men’s respect and commitment. That’s assuming they are picking the right dudes.
if a woman is throwing herself at a guy maybe he'll cheat just for the nut. if he's putting time and effort into convincing her to smash it's the validation of the conquest just as much as the nut. men who are good with women have a skill most men don't and they're never going to stop utilizing it for one woman when they can get another one easily. most men don't even have the ability to cheat without paying for it.
unfortunately it’s difficult for these broads to earn a mans honor and respect. They’re also about themselves. They have no thoughts of the other person. It’s me me me and all about me and what i want attitude Prime example as to why relationships in the U.S fails
I think a man can still respect and love his woman but still be tempted to cheat. It's not the same as when women cheat, it usually means she has lost attraction and respect for her man.
100% facts bro. My last chick was almost perfect but the me me me attitude was her downfall. Slept around way too much in between her last relationship and meeting me. I said straight up that I can’t honour you after such behaviour, you bring shame to me. The woman I marry I want to look into her eyes with up most respect and I can’t do that with you because of your selfish filthy ways. Shit is just as crazy here in Australia bro
@@burtongrimes2227There's nothing wrong with human sexuality if it's between consenting adults. You sound like you came out of the 15th century. So lemme guess . Female sexuality is disgusting but Male promiscuity is to be applauded? Y'all better lay down the double standards. If having sex is a bad thing like you people think it is then men should be shamed as well for having it .
No she’s not she gave reasonable reason as to why ! And it’s truth , if it were a dumb reason like most of these girls say for example to they need a man to make that money to take care their lifestyle ! If you have any been around a woman that makes more than you, you will understand
She’s really not. She is one of the most mentally aware about the dating game. Some men do hold value to finances and use that as a way to lead in a relationship so if he is making significantly less than his woman it could disrupt the relationship. No one should date down.
@@kala5775Welp the women better get used to being in harems or single then because majority of the men most women want are mostly in the top 10%(tall, 75K+, some what attractive). It gets worse the more we go down the line because it’s a very small percentage. Hypergamy is very undefeated
Regarding the first chick saying that the $55K man cannot lead the relationship: it's 2AM in the morning, and an intruder breaks into the house. That man will lay his life on the line to confront the threat and defend her. Case closed.
Leadership is about how a man can lead difficult conversations and create psychological safety and emotional trust. That is really all it is. Unfortunately people are unware of these forces in relationships. They think superficially and don't understand how to create intimate relationships.
Nope, that's just wishful thinking for people who don't have actual resources... I.e money. Safety means living an expensive, safe neighbourhood. It means having money for unforseen expenses like the roof having a leak, the boiler blowing up, the car breaking down. It means having money to send your kids to college. Safety isn't some bullshit like "I'm here for you babe, I'll take a bullet for you".
Income bracket has nothing to do with compatibility / chemistry. One person can be a high earner but the partner can be great at other things that build a better structural unit. People aren't even self aware enough to know what they really need so they assume job/ lifestyle and income is all that matters. She may have bi passed 3 soulmates that would elevate her entire family and personal wealth just because the guy makes less or works in a different industry than she romanticizes. Shits crazy.
Nah, they just don't give a shit about these things you're speculating about. You're like a person that gives you KFC when you ask for a Big Mac because you think it's "better". No one cares, they want the Big Mac.
I never been there but i assume its a place where connections and networks are important. I get the impression that friendships there start off with that before it becomes genuine
@@lionedheart you’ll make connections and network there if you’re wealthy. Many people living in low income communities in Miami are sharks against each other and don’t want to work together.
The Asian girl from the beginning look VERY familiar. I think she has been on other talk shows. She waited until there were other girls around to gang up on a mgtow influencer for calling her fat in the past. He didn't even remember who she was. That girl literally grinded to appear on talk shows just so she could meet him and try to destroy him. If she is who I think she is, STAY FAR AWAY FROM HER. A very deranged woman (MDR is his name I believe and the channel is called valuetainment)
I know money is Important in a relationship, but how is money have anything to do with a relationship mentally..we was born without it and going to die without it..having a healthy relationship takes way more than money to maintain a happy home..making less doesn't make a man less than what he is..having the modern day thinking and this brain wash mentally makes u way less than a man that makes less that a woman who makes a 100k a Yr..
She said 3 weeks was the longest she made a man wait. 😮 know wonder women like me are struggling in this dating game. There’s easy women out there like this that just give it up to any random.
She didn't give a body count. She could only have 3 or 4 past partners, either way she said she's dating for marriage. that she felt she would have a future with. "Any random" probably couldn't garner her attention.
3 weeks is nothing LMFAOOO if you think that's wifey material you clearly haven't dated many women. 3 weeks is actually considered long now, a lot of women gie it up by the 2nd date@@chriscrockpot5410
@@chriscrockpot5410if it’s dating for marriage then you wait for the wedding she’s stupid? my generation is severely mentally impaired like most of the interviewed people.
It doesn't matter anymore. Don't you get it? Robots will be birthing our children, raising our children, and everyone will have sex with robots. AI is coming, and the world doesn't need relationships, parents, ect. Just play your role as an essential worker, and stop complaining.
she said she thinks he's a bad boy and the bad boy is the one they want to smash. he looked stupid when he couldn't back up how he's a bad boy but if she left the venue with him he can still turn it around. i believe.
If I’m making 100,000k a year I could care less what my spouse is making. If I thought enough of you to marry you that’s all that matters. Doesn’t matter to me if she works at Wall St. or McDonald’s.
That dude in the blue shirt, his energy noticeably drops each time they cut back to that girl talking. He was ready to drop her for the next mid interview.
That’s says a lot about about what values. Priority is financial but not relation, emotional or spiritual. How much one make is funny. Bob makes $100k/yr and pays out $7,800 in bills. Ed makes $60k/yr and pays out $1,000 in bills. It’s not how much one makes but how much one keeps. 👀
The first woman needs to learn the difference between love and money because if all will live in a society where money will always has dominates, that is where things become complicated. Influential people will become rude and do won't consider those who don't. I'm afraid I have to disagree with how she sees things. However, in modern society, women have evolved, meaning they can work, get higher education, and do what men do,… but we need to share responsibilities and shouldn't based on how much you make.
I could tell he had that old-school Caribbean 6th sense about the Hispanic girl. That's why he started flirting with her, but...asked her the abortion question to really test her. I see what you did there my dude!
3:54 has this girl never heard of roofies in clubs? What if her boyfriend felt the same way of "go where he wants, do what he wants" with strippers? Doubt she'd like that.
She never heard of a lot of shit if she think she can go to dangerous areas and still have control of most things. She was talking all out her ass smh.
The first lady said women should date on their level or above because of hypergamy, then, said the man making 35k at Walmart should date a woman at Walmart on his level or down. So, only women can be hypergamous. LOL!
Hypergamy exists because mostly men demand leadership in relationships but If men were ok with equal power in a relationship then hypergamy wouldn't be that much of a thing.
Lmao Breh love don’t even exist nowadays other than the unconditional love you have for your fam… When it comes to relationships it seems like it’s all about what the other person can provide it ain’t even about someones personality anymore… Believe me there’s folks out there whom genuinely just want to be loved regardless of one’s status… That shit is very rare though…
Tbh, I make 100k as a black woman. My preference is black men, society holds my men down. If a black man comes my way spiritually on the same level as I , he is priceless. As long as he’s a hardworking man that skillful in many areas, I’m down. But as a woman, I’m going to downplay how much I make. My king gonna always feel like the King. And he very well might build himself up to make more than I.
@@JamesSmith-pi2qq Why you here if you are racist. You are rotten and going to be alone for the rest of your life. You are lucky, even if you get a wife for a few years, before she dump your ass. Purely because of your hatred. What is wrong with you, why would you throw away your life for hatred like that? Get lost or fix yourself
@@78percent34mean she is married but she would be setting herself up for failure if she was single. Women who make $100K will always want the man whos equal but realistically it needs to be higher for the relationship to work because women send the relationship down a hole with leverage.
Dude is a straight up simp and pathetic... Look at the hesitation when he asked if he could hit... I'm pretty sure she had one night stands before she's not a virgin straight cap
That girl is 100000000000000% not a virgin. That dude is 100000% not what you want to emulate ever, stop sounding like that, stop smiling like that. He looks rich though, maybe she just trying to steal his money? Evil world out here dude, please be careful
there’s a lid for every pot. the first girl is right for rationalising the logic of dating people on the same level. that’s how we grow. i dont mind if you make 50k per year as long it fits your life style. but you won’t meet people in a different social circle.
I’ve been to club’s where a girl will be throwing that batty back on me while she has a ring on her finger from another guy I’m fully convinced it’s over for relationships out here
She is a self obsessed idiot with no direction other than wealth. I lived on a small street with three women doctors. None of their husbands made as much money as them but they all have great families and relationships. The kind of woman to avoid
Actually she does not have the right mindset and here is why - she mentioned that a man should get with a woman who also makes 30k but when it comes to men choosing women they don’t care nothing about the womens money vs a woman care about a man’s money which she shared. She is a gold digger and like all the modern day women of now.
This generation is screwed literally. Falling in love and being with them for life and starting a family, getting married has been lost. Women getting married in thier 30s is absolutely the down fall of society. Getting pregnant in your thirties will raise the risk factors of disabilities and disease. My opinion
My mom had all 3 of her children after the age of 38 and we are successful, healthy and doing fine. Stop trying to fear monger women into dating you and just go find someone that wants to build with you but oops! Y’all will pass those women up cause she doesn’t meet your physical look requirements. Also, my parents got married AFTER 30 and were together until my father died. A bunch of social media warp minded folks trying to scare women into dating them. LMAO
