In Islam 4 wives is NOT allowed. “If you fear that you will not do justice to the orphans, then, marry the women you like, in twos, in threes and in fours. But, if you fear that you will not maintain equity, then (keep to) one woman” I.e. if you can treat all the wives justly and fairly for your whole life. Obviously that’s not possible women like me get jealous and may not think they’re treated fairly. So stick with 1 wife that’s more than enough for 1 man.
ali you must stop exposing people if u want to make it a benefit for people dont show the person, the least you could is talk about it Ibn Rajab (may Allah have mercy on him) said, after quoting a number of hadiths that speak of concealing a person’s sins and not exposing him to scandal: However it should be noted that people are of two types: One type is the person whose situation is concealed and he is not known to be committing any sin. In that case, if he slips up or falls into error, it is not permissible to expose him or disclose his error, or to speak about it, because that is unlawful backbiting. This is the one concerning whom these texts were narrated
She's probably not a real Muslim perhaps she's someone trying to create mischief with the Muslims, Allah knows best, which right minded Muslim women would come online and say these things and which husband would sit back and allow that, even some non Muslims with good morals wouldn't do this.
I am so embarrassed for this woman. Islam is not prudish and encourages playfulness with our partners but it’s not vulgar. Issues regarding the bed need to be handled individually and privately.
I think it was pretty brave you people are overreacting 😋 There's nothing wrong with that woman she's just being open and happy in life, you would be honored for her to be the future of Muslim women. And in all likelihood she will be 💜 And your male descendants will kiss other boys and get married to other guys in mosques 💜
Asma’ bint Yazid reported: She was with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, while men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
@@kordei-7839 I'm just kind of chilling out in bed right now~ It's a lovely morning nice and cool~ You know what I think it's fair enough to say that I do love Muslims, you spend enough time learning about a culture and naturally love follows if you let it. It's because of that that I am here, it is out of love that I'm trying to break you guys out of your mind prison and be open to reform and criticism like any other group. We are all part of humanity, as a universalist I believe every human being that has ever lived and will ever live will be saved by God 😄
That makes 0 sense. Men will always be the chasers, and women being chased. It's entirely up to women to change the situation, because if women didn't allow it, men wouldn't do it. Women have the power to let a man into their lives, and if they're dropping their standards to take on embarrassing men that's entirely on them. Have self respect and know your worth. That's all that's needed.
@@dm_1236 why do women get triggered when they are called out on clothing? Can't u take advice? When a video is telling about men's fault, we don't divert. But when about women, they divert and call out men. Modestly dressing isn't as big of a problem in men then in women. Even a blind person can tell that
@@dm_1236 Whataboutism does not justify anything. Also, beta squad Muslims dont focus on life guidance advice and Islam is a life guidance unlike what the sister in the video promotes so they do not focus on Islamic content but I do agree they need to be called out.
Wouldn't you want a woman who loves you affectionately and not just act as a trophy? I am 22 looking for a spouse and I can't see what's wrong with these types; as long as they only have eyes for me - which I will too for her - then it's calm.
As a Muslim married man and a father I am really sadden with this sister. What happens in closed doors stays in closed doors between one's husband and wife. I once commented on her videos which was good however the current ones have gotten worst ! May Allah SWT guide us all the right way, Ameen !!
I feel embarrassed watching this as a muslimah, I can’t hear her words without feeling massively uncomfortable and ashamed that she’s falsely representing me as a Muslim women. She absolutely isn’t. May Allah forgive us all. Ameen
i couldn't even get through the first few second of her video. This sort of thing should be discussed (key word is is discuss, not shared) privately or at least in a small group, not on social media.
When would all of people learn the details of the intimacy between couples shouldn't be shared with anyone, if Husband or Wife share it with their friend or Small group in private or public, the prophet have said it's as if male devil and female devil are fornicating in front of their very eyes. Also the insight is we shouldn't talk about such stuff so as Muslims can be happier with whom they have received from their lord lawfully, and not be drawn to jealousy or wrongful wanting to be unchaste.
@@dm_1236doesn’t matter what he doesn’t do, the fact is he’s done a good thing here, although he should’ve blurred her face to not promote her. And he shouldn’t be called a hypocrite under a video like this. If you have a problem with him contact him directly. Andrew is new to this religion, his sins are removed once he converted. You’re contradicting yourself in only few sentences. You say stop generalizing and then you generalize Muslim men, silly 🤦♂️
I love love how he is holding the man accountable too.. especially in a situation where all the bad stuff is coming form women's mouth and she is the obvious preparator here.
@@burnerhmausbs1016 It basically means shyness/modesty. As Muslims we have to behave in a respectable and honorable way but with the rise of filthy ideologies in western society people have become shameless
There's nothing wrong with that woman she's just being open and happy in life, you would be honored for her to be the future of Muslim women. And in all likelihood she will be 💜 And your male descendants will kiss other boys and get married to other guys in mosques 💜
I don't always wear hijab. But when I do, I feel so different.I am always careful to not give bad image about being a Muslim regards to what I do and say.Hijab is not just a head scarf. It says a lot about you as a Muslim.
ITS NOT ISLAM ITS IS LAMB JESUS B2 WORDS SAME WITH MUSLIM ITS MUZZLE THEM NO PROPHETS IN THE MIDDLE EAST UNTIL JESUS RETURN 2 WORDS.. MOHAMMED IS NOT IN THIS TIME FRAME OF GOD , THE GOSPEL HAD TO BE SPOKEN ON THE OTHER 7 CONTINANTS FIRST ISLAM IS A LIE
Asma’ bint Yazid reported: She was with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, while men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
@@ZakirNaikIsGod Get a life brother he is just a man like any man he's no god nor whatever you think he is he is just a good man who opens people's eyes and you? you look like you've got more blinded for no reason?? like where did you get that poor thinking from?
Wouldn't you if that was your dad? Thats like knowing your dad had big muscles or was strong in the old days and to know you have that flowing through your veins.
“The tongue is like a lion, if you let it loose, it will wound someone.” ― Hazrat Ali ibn Abu-Talib R.A Imam Ali (a.s.) Said : Safeguard your tongue just as you treasure your gold and your money.
@@ApricityVal Naah Man, Alaihissalam is not only reserved for prophets, it's also for ahlul byat, Let me tell you I'm not shia, I Follow Qur'an & Sunnah (Sunni Doctrine), Even There Are Some Hadiths in Bukhari & Muslim Where Muhaddith Wrote A.S After The Name of Ahlul Byat E.g., Sahih Bukhari 3748 Sahih Muslim 6220 to 6229 Apart From That Some Muhaddith Also Have Written A.S After The Name of Omar Ibn Al-Khattab, Khulufa E Rasheedin. I Hope I've Cleared Your Doubt on A.S Even You Can Use A.S on Sahabas As Well 🙂
Truly disgusting. As someone who knows the dangers of most social media apps and actually stays away from them, I'm happy you shed light to one of thousands of misgivings.
@@dm_1236 There is only one person in Beta Squad and that is Chunks, and even he has Haya and never talks about is Sex life. I have never seen him say things like "Go lick some life into your wife" That is straight up weird.
@@dm_1236asslam alaikum. Just ask him politely to, it just so happens to be a female that he is talking about, while mostly addressing her husband who is a man.
@@Ashad636 He’s not the only Muslim, Sharky, Darkest man and AJ Shabeel are all Muslims and trust me when I tell you that they do not have hayaa. They all speak in their vídeos about sexual topics and make sexual jokes. They’ve participated in haram videos e.g dating games, mixing with women etc. They are misleading the younger generation of Muslims, and are an embarrassment to us. Not to mention chunks made music, I know he has stopped now Alhamduli’Allah but this should be spoken about more, it’s a big issue.
I wanted to comment and say I'm Muslim too. Also, I like your content. It's funny and entertaining when I come across a shorts video. You have gained a new subscriber. May Allah bless you.
I feel the same as him. This is the first time I heard of it. And I’m a wife. I never shared anything about my ex to another or to my husband. It’s distasteful.
The Prophet, sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said, “Perhaps a man will mention what he did with his wife, and perhaps a woman will mention what she did with her husband.” The people sat in embarrassed silence until I (the narrator) spoke up and said, “Indeed, O Messenger of Allah, they do so quite often.” He, sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said, “Do not do that, for, indeed, it is just like a male devil meeting a female devil on a road and having intercourse with her while people are watching.”
Asma’ bint Yazid reported: She was with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, while men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
@@Omer1996E.C May Allah give you and your beloved ones all the best in this life and the hereafter. May Allah have mercy upon your soul and the soul of your beloved ones. May Allah guide you and your beloved ones and never lead you and your beloved ones astray. May Allah let you and your beloved enter Janatul Firdaus without going to jahanam. May Allah make you and your beloved a light in this world and in the hereafter.
I got very disturbed watching this, my skin warming with embarrassment for the sister. Haya and ghayrah are valuable in Islam. May Allah guide us. I need to go watch some cat videos 😭
This was soooo good! Brother you spoke facts. When I watched that clip of her's I did find it funny because I was just really shocked but I definitely do agree how you should keep your marriage life private especially when it comes to intimacy because it can be seen as being disrespectful to your spouse.
@@TheEverFreeKing There is a thing called modesty, like OP mentioned. I know you so-called liberated people have a hard time understanding the concept since many of y'all basically behave like animals anyway (with some shallow cope-based ethics thrown in), but that is very important to us who submit our wills to the Creator.
@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 I think of modesty of the heart is what matters having that compassion you can show towards other human beings. Different peoples and cultures Express themselves differently some see it as liberation It matters just as much your intentions and what you do. I think there's something wonderful about appreciating beauty, why not control ourselves and appreciate the beauties of others.
@@dm_1236 but those men don't give shitty, outrageous and questionable things as Islamic advice. This woman publicly says this is advice meant for muslim women. Beta Squad don't advice people.
@@dm_1236 They're not all muslim and they don't advertise themselves as a muslim group. It's just comes up in passing. I'm not saying that they shouldn't be called out but just because they aren't, does not mean that this woman shouldn't be called out. This is way more of a serious issue. This is a very private issue. It's disgusting.
@@Hamza-iq6gw Can we just leave the rainbow to be a rainbow? Seriously? It's just a rainbow for god's sake. Are people not allowed to like the rainbow anymore because of what society has attached to it? This is so stupid.
Thank you brother. Very well made video. These misguided people or rather I may I say these people with nefarious agenda need to be cautioned and stopped.
Wallahi Ali I'm very happy you made this video. It is very surprising how some people nowadays openly talk about sexual matters without any embarrassment. It's all the works of shaytan.
I got yelled at just because I’m not wearing a hijab yet. She’s wearing it and visibly representing Islam to the world. Who’s ignorant now? May Allah guide us all. I am disgusted as a Muslim woman.
@@dm_1236 I know. I was only responding to the commentator here who was talking from a place of arrogance. You shouldn’t feel so confident/good about yourself for not wearing hijab. My point was since she’s criticizing this sister for misrepresenting hijab, then maybe she should go ahead and show us how it’s supposed to be done instead of showing off about not wearing it.
@@dm_1236So what I’m getting is “Covering my body is a hard decision”I’m sorry but shut up! If wearing ragged/ripped clothes that are shorter then the size of a Twinkie is easy,Then why is covering your head so difficult?! I’m a woman and wearing hijab is easy,Hijab is meant to hide your beauty so other men don’t get tempted by it,The women who want to tempt other men or please them don’t wanna wear the hijab and that is why it is hard for them,Stop acting like those westerners,Not everything comes with emotions or should be dealt with emotions,Wearing hijab is not hard,You are making it difficult for yourself,It is obligatory.
Ngl, i was weirded out by how calm she was about her friend marrying her husband. But when you showed us the 1st clip where she said what she said, my mind shouted “GIRL KEEP UR BUSINESS TO YOURSELF”. What happens behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors 💀(unless it’s something like abuse which is a different story). May Allah forgive her and guide her
When I see a true erosion of morals, I'm reminded of this Hadith. Narrated Anas: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) as saying: No one of you should wish for death for any calamity that befalls him, but he should say: O Allah! cause me to live so long as my life is better for me ; and cause me to die where death is better for me.
I’m really happy SubhanAllah to see all these comments that are openly disappointed and disagree with this woman I feel happy to know that even in this media time a lot of us are still on the right path Mashallah thank you to brother Ali who spoke on this matter as well 😌
@@chomo54andbabyaisha97 Who said Allah doesn't has any physical attributes.... u neither can't imagine nor will understand the physical attributes of almighty. In surah 44 verse 11 Allah says that "nothing is like him". Which clearly says that our Almighty posses a shape which v can't even imagine To imagine a thing we need something but our Almighty says that he didnt resembles like the creatures that he was created in this world As we know that god see what we do and can hear what we think and we speak. To see we need a physical atttributes like eyes and and environmental attributes like light and also the object to b visualized should be in the range of eye sight which means within particular metre radius if the object is beyond that v couldn't see it and also the light should be also appropriate if it is too low or too high v couldn't visualize it properly it will be same for all the creatures that god has created in this world
I do not wear the hijab and I feel so ashamed and embarrassed for her. My God how can she not know that Allah loves people who are discrete, humble, private, modest.. As I always said and believed and was thought by my Muslim parents: Piety and devotion are not in the way you dress, they're in the way you ACT first!
@@princessserenity1706 bro mostly women can't take advices. When there's a vid calling men's fault, men don't divert and call out women. But when vice versa, women call out men
@@dm_1236 why are you on every reply? If you are not a muslim why are you even here and defending Why don’t you ask him that directly why spreading hate here and shouting as if he owns you something Get a life
I am not a muslim my self and I am shocked, I don't get it how people can be so un-bothered to speak about their private life in public. In this era of social media all comon sense is lost even the religious people are puting their ego before their beliefs. SMH😢
I was so surprised how people on instagram reacted to this subject, some people dont have the intelect, there are so much worse subjects than this nowadays, thank you brother ali for opening our eyes and warning us about whats going on within the islamic community
We don't know if she is a true muslima, it is possible that she is just pretending to be so by wearing hijab in order to make FITNA . May ALLAH protect us AMEEN🤲🤲🤲
It’s best if you don’t assume that of her because some assumptions lead to sin as mentioned in Surah hujurat. She portrays herself as a Muslim woman even if she is going against Islamic mannerism, we have to believe that she is a Muslim unless proven otherwise .
That is very insightful. Masha Allah may Allah Almighty increase our spiritual knowledge and insight I was thinking the same thing how can a Muslim woman use her tongue for something does antithetical Islamic character character is everything it doesn't mean nothing about wearing a hijab if you speak like a disbeliever
is that actually the cost of this book of theirs. I was thinking maybe Ali might buy this book just to show us how bad it is and to steer away from it but that is just a scam on top of already disgracing Islam
@@dm_1236 this is true definitely Men have also Lost Haya and this is one of the main reasons why so many sisters are lost as well. If there was real Men in the household they would take care of the women and make sure they wouldn’t do anything Haram because they are the maintainers of the household. A lot of people have to see that Men today have lost so much Gheerah and we need this today as men so we may Help society. The real issue in todays world is that there are no Men left. May Allah make us all true men.
@@dm_1236 sister you are generalizing so many men which is completely not True at all. Majority Men Are not how you are describing and it shows what stance you are taking. You are saying Majority Sisters are good and Majority Men are bad, that is illogical. Men and Women both have to better their deen, there is a lot of Women who Lack Modesty today and A Lot of Men as well. Women are not free of the blame, my point was that If there was a real man in the house these kind of stuff would not happen because of his Gheerah and Authority to not let his wife go on the internet Exposing What they as a Husband and wife do in private. Sisters today have unfortunately been brainwashed by Feminisim and have completely lost their way, but so have the men today have completely lost their way when it comes to their role of being a man. My point is that if there was a real man in the household these Calamities will not be occurring because he would have the Authority over his wife to not go and do shameless things. Do you understand my point?
@@dm_1236 and also I didn’t notice but why are you calling Ali Hypocritical? He Always addresses both sides and is fair. You comparing Beta Squad to a Hijabi Sister promoting Islam talking about Her private interactions with her Husband is completely different. Please sister understand no one is out for each Gender we Advise and Warn so that issues are clear and we better the Ummah.
This is an example of why social media is a fitnah in some ways. People thinking they have the wherewithal to dole out advice and end up spreading garbage views for the sake of getting followers. Smh, so ashamed for this girl honestly
*Hadith on Haya: One without shame does whatever he pleases* Abu Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, _“Verily, among the words people obtained from the Prophets are this: If you feel no shame, do as you wish.”_ Source: _Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3483_ | Grade: _Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari_
Asma’ bint Yazid reported: She was with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, while men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
@@mugzA21 There is a big difference between how Aisha Radiya Allahu 3anhu talks and what she tells and the things she tells are important to know the sunnah of the Prophet Salla Allahu 3alayhi wa Sallam. Other men are not the Prophet Salla Allahu 3alayhi wa Sallam
@@ibnAlOusoudAlHassani what bollocks! Your logic is FLAWED! If Ayesha can talk about her sex life with Rasul Allah then it is good for the current generation of Muslimahs to do so as well since this is a halal Sunnah of the wives of the Prophet. Wives of the Prophet are an example to Modern Muslimahs.
I disagree with that. Christian's and non-believers are even worse trust me. i have heard it " there is no shame in that category for them " but for a Muslima to say that i swear Wallahi i never thought i would hear it.
@@dm_1236 when you can make a comment that matters and is related to the thread then tag me. Tate just became a Muslim a lil over 2mos ago. There's no Muslim that thinks he's a perfect example of Islamic character yet & no non Muslim who believes ppl change over night. Get over your jealousy and do better. At least since he's become a Muslim, he has shown signs of improvement in many visible ways, lame a**.
@@dm_1236 He's only been Muslim for a few months now. And i don't disagree with you. Many things he says are filthy, but old habits are hard to beat. I've been a Muslimah for 3 years and i still have some awful habits that are difficult to change. It takes years to change a life time of society conditioned behaviour and self learned behaviour. Again, im not justifying either of us, but we do certainly need time.
How will we ever learn those things maybe different wording . But the shock value is why I added you because sometimes being frank or open is necessary; I don’t know where is the line
Hey Brother Ali, I've been watching your videos i want to have a one-on-one conversation with you because i think you're a practical man with sense of what's going around the world i would like to understand your views and perception a bit more brother so will you be up for a podcast sometime later in the future? Alhamdulillah
Good job Ali, you just propagated this woman even further on the Internet and contributed to making her even more famous. Before this video of yours, 308,000 (and counting) less people knew about her. You're telling her to keep her private life private, then sharing it with the world? Come on man, you have to be wiser than that. You can easily deliver the same positive message you're propagating without showing her face. Allah knows best.
Are you out of your bloody mind.... The ummah needs to be rectified... You will be accountable to Allah for not forbidding evil... He has done it publicly... If that brings that woman fame ... It's not his fault... We as Muslims are not accountable for the outcome...(if done according to the Islam).. You think if our beloved Prophet (pbuh) was around... He would say ... Let the woman sprout whatever nonsense she can spew... Or will He hold her accountable for the action...
@@abaubaidah Subhan Allah, the prophet, peace be upon him, taught us to continually educate ourselves in all matters. Remember that everything you say can be used against you on judgement day so weigh every single word you say/write with extreme caution. In what universe did the prophet publicize the sins of others? People came to the prophet themselves, telling him they sinned and want their punishment, and he would walk away pretending not to hear. When has he ever stood atop a mountain and yelled to the masses that "so and so has committed this sin, and we should not do this, etc."? He spoke out against sins, and Quraysh, but he never ever singled out specific Muslims. May Allah guide me and you to what is right. Allah knows best.
@@dm_1236 Yeah this is true he is pointing to other muslims but not seeing the condition of his own muslim youth condition in uk partying drugs GFS etc
Hijab means covering one’s self physically, mentally, controlling one’s gaze and tongue. This sister is discussing her private (what goes on in the bedroom) life to the world. Where is her adaab and haya? Is she a revert? Why hasn’t her immediate family addressed this? That’s so harami, unIslamic and gross 🤢🤮
@@ZakirNaikIsGod You are making people want to believe that you have some kind of OCD, What good would you benefit from, if that's not the case?. May Allah open your doors, Aameen.
Well said brother Ali. It really does put unrealistic expectations on women as well. She may have good intentions, even though she is selling her counselling "services" and books, but I can see how it can lead to false expectations of women regarding intimacy and how men may then question their wives why they don't do what this woman is saying women should do. Essentially it is putting the onus on the woman to figure out how to "spice" things up, rather than husband and wife figuring it out together in private between themselves.
