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Meet Jason, a 36-year-old spendaholic from Bristol, whose finances are a real-life horror show. When it comes to money, Jason lives in a fantasy world. A part-time student, he works three days a week in a record store and earns just £550 a month, but his debts are a massive £35,000, and feeding his addiction leaves no money for his family.
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@FatmaGabuya 4 года назад

I watched the whole video. Finally someone helped him cope with his anxiety, addiction, insecurities and make him realize that he is a dad/partner.

@truebluewonderful 4 года назад

The more honest people become about themselves, the more beautiful humans they become. That's what I often see happening in this programme.

@smileyguy24 3 года назад

His entire DVD collection must be worth £3.95 in Cex by now

@one_more_chance4694 9 месяцев назад

Does he have Netflix now?

@tramit9646 4 года назад

The wife is way too nice. He needs to step up and take care of his family...no excuses. He's got champagne tastes on a beer budget

@michaelm5741 3 года назад

White lightening budget 🙈

@eggfluffington5408 4 года назад

That man is insane I have 2 little kids and they come first .I love anime and manga but I get it as a treat never would I leave my kids without food or essentials

@DBT1007 4 года назад

If u love anime thingy, then watch hololive vtuber streams on RU-vid. It's free. They're basically anime girl that also a RU-vidr like Pewdiepie.

@DBT1007 4 года назад

If u love anime thingy, then watch hololive vtuber streams on RU-vid. It's free. They're basically anime girl that also a RU-vidr like Pewdiepie.

@JustinLHopkins 4 года назад

He’s 36? He looks much older. At least in his 40’s.

@nyanbinary1717 4 года назад

Justin Hopkins I thought the same thing. I’m 35, and he looks 10 years older than me at least.

@ginasg883 4 года назад

I’m his age and yet he looks 10+ years older!

@elenawilliams32 4 года назад

He looks like Iggy Pop is his Dad!

@peachycinnamon5786 4 года назад

All the stress of being in debt caught up with him

@matthewpedersen1101 3 года назад

Wow

@hikulin525 4 года назад

I don't understand this man. He says he can't keep money on his on, then give it all your wife/family instead of throwing away.

@rachelmaureen9507 4 года назад

I actually really liked the therapist in this, he had some really cool insights, particularly about how Jason hides his potential to feel safe. I think Jason is ok, he obviously has issues and I think ultimately he's going to be alright.

@Vlastickaf 4 года назад

I can't express enough how I've enjoyed this episode. Not only it captured my attention like a movie would and i really wanted it to end well :) but it has tought me a lot about me - how quickly and easily I judge and "write off " someone I don't even know. How easy is to call a person a looser with no chance. I truly felt ashamed of myself. And with all honesty there is a bit of Jason in me and many people I know , just it's not that obvious and too painful to face. I really wish Jason and his family a great life and everyone here who is quick to judge - please pause , look at your life, your habits, your belief system and your priorites... all perfect?? 🙏💗 We all need compassion.

@raccoonchronicles5134 4 года назад

Aren't you the little lecturer.

@peachycinnamon5786 4 года назад

Phfft! Whatever! Think she has a little crush

@raccoonchronicles5134 4 года назад

@@peachycinnamon5786 Lol!!!

@kdramas1004 3 года назад

Are you guys 12 stfu 😒 good for her if she got something out of it

@balthazarblazingflame834 4 года назад

Pathetic, when ur married and especially with a kid u can't just care about and act for urself u gotta put them first ALWAYS!!!! HE'S NOT A MAN HE'S AN IMMATURE SELFISH CHILD!!!

@bemeeklezvelveeta6719 4 года назад

He knew he was messing up so he reached out for help to learn to be better for his family.

@sebwarman341 4 года назад

@Claire Joy Lives - what a crap bag🕊✌

@JP-gb3mq 4 года назад

Alright calm down

@bmwvillan 4 года назад

@Willem Chastity It's called getting to know a person before having children with them. Those are some poor pathetic genes you duplicated. Your judgement sucks and now he is going to be in your life forever. Oh well not my problem. Goodluck....

@senoritaaurora5123 4 года назад

@Willem Chastity equality, not a parasite

@rocknrollrat2344 4 года назад

Just shows you how important *quality* time is with your children.

@cinda2030 4 года назад

When people comment without watching the full video first

@jcspider7259 3 года назад

With 14 years having passed since this was produced, Jason is now 50 years old. Hopefully he's been able to stay with the healthy ways. Wonder how he's doing.

@terminat1 2 года назад

Maybe he died long ago.

@NoContextRDH 4 месяца назад

He is still alive and appears to be Virgin Atlantic cabin crew

@suzanne7277 4 года назад

I didn’t like the last comment I received so I deleted it. People don’t seem to understand about addictions unless they go through it too or work as a councillor. At least he’s trying to get help, he could have chose not to share his life to the public but he has so he’s taking the right steps - good on him

@sebwarman341 4 года назад

Hard to feel for this guy. Taking money from his wife and child.

@kathleenkitcher852 3 года назад

I agree that it is difficult to feel sorry for him......I would if he was alone, but he is depriving his family through his own selfishness. I am happy that he sought help for his compulsion though.

@Ikr2025 4 года назад

I think lots of fathers feel as though they are in competition with their kids for the mother’s attention. They don’t realise their children just want more positive attention from them & their approval. They don’t want to compete with their fathers.

@deathwolfs69 3 года назад

Yeah its common but it creeps me out. Being jealous of your own kid . Ughhh

@daCubanaqt 8 месяцев назад

@@deathwolfs69 Very strange considering the parents bring the child into the world. You have to raise children and show them how to be a good person. It isn’t about competition, it’s about helping your child grow into a healthy adult. Maybe if he helped his wife more, she would have time to give him attention.

@maggiemay97 4 года назад

How can someone earning £500 a month ever pay off £35,000????

@spumantemerrick2832 4 года назад

It's possible with discipline.

@Gaphalor 4 года назад

@@spumantemerrick2832 ehh no, he needs a bigger paycheck, or he has to basicly dont eat and drink anything, i am a student and i pay 300€ for rent and i am on the cheaper end. 30€ for electricity, 8€ for Internet 17,5€ for GEZ, 6€ for garbagedisposal, another 9,99€ for my phone contract, makes another ~ 90€ would leave me with 110 Euros for food, hygiene products, and all other stuff like when things break and you need to replace them etc. You cant save or pay off shit with 500 bucks, you cant even buy youself a T-shirt once a while. Edit: and i have no Kids to feed!

@daCubanaqt 8 месяцев назад

It’s called declaring bankruptcy.

@happy-chanchan 4 года назад

how supportive his wife is! he is a lucky guy.

@mushroomman6904 4 года назад

Did people even watch the video? (In the end he changed for himself and his family, he fought through through his anxiety and the memories that made him the way he was, he is strong.)

@t4s.xy0 4 года назад

1. Call your wife beautiful instead of clothing 2. Spend the money on food and essentials on your family if you don't want it 3. Do not go to the shop every time you get money if you dont go you cant get it

@wendygillard2133 3 года назад

Gosh his partner Jane was very understanding. I hope they all do well as a family.

@Trund27 4 года назад

Why did he have a child?

@team3383 4 года назад

couldn't afford a condom ?

@RichardJones-kn3rq 4 года назад

Didn't pull out

@senoritaaurora5123 4 года назад

@@bmwvillan bullshit. Men just dont take sexual responsibility. If a man really doesnt want a child he will make sure it doesnt happen

@peachycinnamon5786 4 года назад

Spent all this money on anime and movies so couldn’t afford them lol

@abby454 4 года назад

I feel so bad for his family tho... and him.

@AngelaTopping 4 года назад

Emotional abuse from his mother, albeit unwittingly, has been the cause of this.

@bettygraham818 2 года назад

That is a Victorian way to treat children who misbehave! How could she threaten her twins that someone would take them away .̈ I notice that in this episode, they don't arrange a meeting with the mother as was so often done in others.

@georgemaherjr2290 4 года назад

If you are the man of the house and you don’t put your family first, the needs of them first, you are no man. They should always come first. Just my opinion.

@anniespencer7879 4 года назад

The man of the house ? What century are you living in? Jane has as much right to call the shots as he does.

@georgemaherjr2290 4 года назад

Annie Spencer You May have missed the point of that post. I’m saying he should want to take care of his family first and foremost

@virces6563 4 года назад

I have dvds but I buy them discounted in thrift shops

@bdel80 4 года назад

This show is back when DVDs had a high value, I can't remember the last I bought a DVD at full price

@yatesy117 4 года назад

They pretty much give away DVD's near me can get 5 for £1 but even then I don't typically bother as I have Firestick with all movies/shows could ever possibly watch so even at 20p each they're not worth buying lol

@bdel80 4 года назад

@@yatesy117 physical media is still nice to have plus it can't be edited to suit a agenda. Such as recently cutting out the womans bum from Splash on Disney Plus

@WillowJordan1979 4 года назад

This was before the time of streaming services, when DVDs were valuable. Nowadays they're dirt cheap.

@janetveres3316 4 года назад

And those DVD’s nearly worthless now since you can just download nearly everything now!

@bdel80 4 года назад

You could DL even back then

@jcspider7259 3 года назад

Did you not watch it all the way through? He got rid of the vast majority of the DVDs.

@zoesolanki961 3 года назад

I was thinking the same thing

@yourface07 4 года назад

I wonder how he’s doing now? I know there shows are about 10 years old (I think). A lot of people being very negative about this man, but he’s embraced changed and come out a lot more positive on the other side. Shows us all a good lesson for self improvement.

@bdel80 4 года назад

13 years old. At the end it said BBC 2007

@lisawharris1539 3 года назад

I'm new to your program, but I just love it! This episode is fantastic, and congratulations on an amazing transformation!

@hectorosbert 4 года назад

I really wanted to know what his twin brother does and how accomplished he was in comparison.

@Spaceseeker 3 года назад

When it was a wife overspending in an episode - they gave the finances to the husband. In this episode it is the husband overspending - and they give the husband control over the money. Interesting.

@numberone5680 4 года назад

Great episode. I appreciate the psychological unburdening to solve lifetime problems. Free, much needed therapy. Scary proposition for most.

@kassychavira 4 года назад

Wow just wow. I feel bad for his child, wife doesn’t put her foot down, the boy has no say so.. but he means well, I assume. I hope he gets the change he wants for him and his family.

@cerysstevo1309 4 года назад

Good that he reached out for help Can't help but feel sorry for his wife and kid who are clearly living poor

@boolanny 4 года назад

she married a lil boy...the guy needs to grow up, she needs an actual man.

@sarah3796 4 года назад

That Guy she an enabler. She must find her identity in rescuing

@cct306 4 года назад

She doesn't needs ANY man, just herself (or another woman)

@bmwvillan 4 года назад

I mean there is verb/action we all have in our instinct as "leave" she must have forgotten to download that app so until then, she shall continue being stupid 100%

@RR-us1lt 4 года назад

its always the womens fault in these replies huh? maybe she doesnt want to separate the kid from his dad

@bmwvillan 4 года назад

@@RR-us1lt Right and set a bad example for the kid so he can be in a bad/toxic relationship and continue the cycle. Sometimes the right thing to do isn't always the easiest or prettiest one and it will teach the child to really get to know the person before having kids with them. He can still visit his or her father or mother. No child should be around such an environment where all they see is misery outweighing the good.

@dawnashford3307 Год назад

I miss Blockbuster 💟

@lawyerdoctor 4 года назад

He seems like a good guy that wants to do better.

@Seiferboi 4 года назад

I probably have thousands of DVDs at this point. The difference is, I save up and buy them on Black Friday when they're like between $2-$10, $10 for seasons of TV shows. I also comparison shop online for the cheapest deal, mostly on Ebay. I haven't bought a DVD since last year, though. I don't have streaming services, so I buy the DVDs so I'll be able to watch something anytime I want, without having to wait until it's on satellite TV. I know my issue is asking for something when I was a kid and always being told 'no'. Now that I have my own money, I figure I can spend it anyway I want. I've gotten better over the years of not spending and saving instead.

@turtleanton6539 6 месяцев назад

So nice

@beaulieuc8910 5 месяцев назад

it is just tat

@jeanp1323 3 года назад

It's the 1st time i see Benjamin smile, and i've been binging these videos

@robertgaunt59 8 месяцев назад

That is very cool that park example ..the mirror …really cool Freud had some good ideas More people need this kind of awareness .. difficult but necessary

@jeanp1323 3 года назад

His manga collection must worth a fortune now

@marengartner3254 4 года назад

Benjamin should start an ASMR channel. He speaks so calmly I would fall asleep in an instant.

@kimberlyparrish7522 4 года назад

He seems like a nice man otherwise but he is quite selfish . Maybe they can help him and his family.

@numberone5680 4 года назад

Kimberly Parrish Didn’t you watch all of the episode?

@jessieshepherd6642 4 года назад

In thirty years he will be crying that he don't know where his kids are or even how to contact them.your children are always first you are last . My x don't even know that he has grandkids if you don't change don't cry in the future.

@raaaaaaarr 3 года назад

I hated this guy by the title and how they presented it. Now, I like him, a lot. You can tell he has a lot of trauma and is a very sensitive soul who cares a lot. His eyes are very very emotive. I can see he has an anxiety disorder.. I kinda wish I knew the guy

@beaulieuc8910 5 месяцев назад

I am surprised anyone would have a kid with him, knowing how much he wastes so much money. To get to £35000 is absolutely ridiculous, I would be livid

@p.s.csdeaky8530 3 года назад

I am not justifing his actions and his spending addiction, but I am assured that 'most' of the same ¨He's looks old, he's acts like a child, he's a selfish loser, he shouldn't be a father!¨ comes from the viewers who just watched the first 5 or 10 minutes.

@whynotnow9618 4 года назад

I've watched a few of these...that session was pretty deep...

@deathwolfs69 3 года назад

I thought so too . I found it very sad . Especially that he feels he is competing for attention all over again . What a terrible mum . Glad he could see it for himself though

@bdel80 4 года назад

Omg Blockbusters this show is showing it's age

@gryneye 3 года назад

Best episode ever.

@randysmith7189 3 года назад

if he stays a project and not a partner... cut her losses and move on

@GREENLALI 4 года назад

Kick him out, get a divorce and full custody .🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@gunterhunter9943 4 года назад

At least he got help and tried.

@gunterhunter9943 4 года назад

IDK I'm just 10

@sarah3796 4 года назад

I agree

@bdel80 4 года назад

You need to watch the show fully before you comment

@gunterhunter9943 4 года назад

GreenLali also drama

@BillWaltersIndYoda 4 года назад

His kid looks like Charlie Bucket. 😏

@virg0_lem0nade 4 года назад

omg it made me laugh how in the hairdressing scene, he gave the girl his exact same haircut hahahahaha

@davidng8870 4 года назад

Comments are a bit harsh - he is dealing with his shit and selfish loser or not his family loves him. That means of discipline his mother used (someone coming to take you away) is pretty abusive. And it was troubling that neither mother or twin made an appearance on the show - maybe estranged? Poor bastard

@No-cj9zx 3 года назад

Don't have kids then and then buy as much as you like 😍 yay!

@SadieAtCollege 4 года назад

My brother is like this. Funko pops, movies, subscriptions, magic the gathering cards. He gets something in the mail every day! He's 32 and doesn't help with anything but sure loves to use everything

@jakemorrison8507 4 года назад

What's a funko pop haha

@chickenlittle5095 4 года назад

@@jakemorrison8507 Literally plastic toys for adults. Think of the old bobble heads but more cartoonish.

@beaulieuc8910 5 месяцев назад

man child!

@florencedebear1576 3 года назад

How does his "wife" allow this teenager to live with her?

@virces6563 4 года назад

This would make me so sad.

@jasha7579 3 года назад

9:35 lovely

@iarshintasudjana4382 4 года назад

I did not know that marriage means not shopping just for you only. Simple as that...so I advise my daughter to postpone even delay being married if she is still selfish n does not want to share. Marriage is about swallowing not just for fun. My dad had a massive collections of antiques cars n bikes...those did not save him when he needed to buy his groceries with massive children. As a result I was suffering.

@joshuaadamstithakayoutubel2490 3 года назад

He is financially supporting the people whose paychecks come from the film industry. Suporting people he is, though indirectly, as is the case with any financial transaction.

@ImRunningazoo 3 года назад

I have never heard a man his age say something so outrageous saying if he has money on him he has to spend it

@catherinefriedman8511 2 года назад

The partner is mother to 2 children.

@MissFoxification 4 года назад

Where does the child play? I did not see a child's toy in that home.

@annabelenko1611 3 года назад

The whole house is child toys 😂😂

@dreadlegend7365 3 года назад

Dammmmmmn @ 19:05 blew his friggin mind.

@NoContextRDH 4 месяца назад

Hahahahahaha

@youaremylifepictures4680 3 года назад

And I feel guilty for wanting the occasional t-shirt, sheesh.

@tandraarisandi6680 4 года назад

He literally spend the money that he don't have

@virg0_lem0nade 4 года назад

ummmm... did Tarzan write the title of this upload? LMFAO

@JoeDiGiovanniIV 3 года назад

imagine what happened when Blu-Ray and 4K UHD came out. The whole DVD collection turned virtually worthless. Prob a buck a piece at best

@ultraboombean 8 месяцев назад

Everyone I know still buys dvds more often

@lipstickprincess1 4 года назад

D I V O R C E Some people need to be married to grown-ups!!! Runaway from this type of self centered childish behavior!!! (I enjoyed this episode and glad to see him wake up.)

@wltrs_srtlw7349 4 года назад

lipstickprincess1 maybe dont marry him then....this shit doesnt spring out of no where she knew what she was getting into. Sleep in the fucking bed you made.

@senoritaaurora5123 4 года назад

@@wltrs_srtlw7349 sometimes these problems come out or are exaggerated after marriage when people feel more secure to let go. But anyway it seems he got himself together by the end of the episode. He just needed some help.

@haroldfridkis3536 2 года назад

C O N S E R V A T O R S H I P is what he really needs!

@pandapanda9483 4 года назад

Similar to me, but I'm full time worker with no degrees, and still spare money for my family 😰

@tuesdaypatience 3 года назад

I’m confused - he said he binges when he gets his student check. Is that a student loan check like people get in the US? Or does he get money from the government because he’s a student? If it’s a loan check, isn’t it for his tuition? Or is college free there?

@BenchReviews 3 года назад

You get a loan for the course and a loan called a maintenance loan for bills / expenses to cover you also. So two loans.

@bradleymatthews7245 Год назад

Gigs up, we know that's Chris Lilley

@ropeboyo-fullstreamsandass2569 4 года назад

Priorities dayo!!

@Derry-Tinq57 4 года назад

Oh wow

@TheBadchicken666 4 года назад

Wow he looks in his late 40s but acts like a teenager

@virces6563 4 года назад

oh no

@SanJae.2 4 года назад

His reactions are weird. hearing his depts he still smilling

@beaulieuc8910 5 месяцев назад

yes

@amyx231 4 года назад

His debt is less than 1 year’s tuition in the US. But I’m pretty sure UK college is free...that’s a lot.

@mutoidliz2320 4 года назад

UK collage is free under 18,its a few thousand for a year course after. University is around 9k a year.

@rachaeladams8059 2 года назад

I often wonder what happened to him after this was transmitted what happened to his finger I wonder where he is now Jason if you are out there somewhere hope you are OK but I felt so sorry for him and his family is he still with his partner and son

@theperezident1934 4 года назад

2:44 : micheal scott

@gabbyelliott-stokes9591 4 года назад

What a knob. Gives £2 to pay off debt but still spends heaps on stuff he doesn't need

@befree3101 4 года назад

I hope he didn't spend money on that hair cut 😂

@bdel80 4 года назад

It was a she

@Derry-Tinq57 4 года назад

Crazy

@metime4325 8 месяцев назад

Any latest updates on these people?

@jovandavidovic1 4 года назад

When was this recorded? Seems like a very old video.

@marsinspace 4 года назад

Jovan Davidovic The 2000s, like 05-07

@wolfman5181 4 года назад

2005

@jovandavidovic1 4 года назад

@@marsinspace how do you know?

@2344g 4 года назад

@@jovandavidovic1 you can see it in the end credits, this is from 2007

@gracewillis577 4 года назад

He shopped at blockbuster so must be really quite old

@Sacheen81 3 года назад

He gave the lady HIS hair cut. Not a great choice but kudos to him for trying. Best of luck!

@Derry-Tinq57 4 года назад

Wow

@fahrezaakbarramadhan0511 4 года назад

What year was this footage filmed?

@thatcherpatchstopmotion7711 4 года назад

RezaCatto 2007

@fahrezaakbarramadhan0511 4 года назад

@@thatcherpatchstopmotion7711 ah ok thx

@user-tf2xx4ip6d 3 года назад

How can one survive on £550?? I realize this is early 2000's, but yet it is not supposed to be a comfortable living I believe. His wife has to be working, at least a little

@NoContextRDH Год назад

I wonder where he is now

@lorrellmcguinness2119 4 года назад

What he makes a month would not even cover rent here in Australia .

@studentnguyen2564 3 года назад

Looks like the sayings true. Everything in Australia is trying to kill you.

@chazzerg8567 3 года назад

he'd be able to make that money back by becoming a Beatles impersonator

@AM09286 4 года назад

36 with a wife and kid and still at uni. Grow up mate.

@SweetKonekoCat 4 года назад

There are plenty of parents and older people that attend university, though... but yea he should be more responsible.

@AM09286 4 года назад

SweetKoneko yeah but for a degree in film studies? 🙄 nice to go it as a hobby but not when you’re bringing home £500 a month

@KenotheWolf 3 года назад

Im not in debt yet but thats me buying Mangas.

@allankago8412 4 года назад

How comes he gets to have a nice girlfriend, despite his immaturity, life is funny. I guess this is the way to ya'll out there if you're tired of being single. Ha dont take me seriously, this is just what occurred to me.