His First Relationship Was a Military Romance Scam.

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In this episode of Scamfish, we speak to a man named Nicholas who got into his first relationship with a scammer. He met her on Say Hi then transferred the conversation onto WhatsApp where they communicated with one another for seven months. She started asking for money so that she could eat, but it was all in the form of gift cards! Nicholas knew something was off and started investigating immediately. He reached out to Social Catfish to share his experience in dealing with a military romance scam.
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@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

To learn more about this story click this link: socialcatfish.com/blog/man-falls-victim-to-military-romance-scam-during-his-first-real-relationship/

@pamlampman2152 3 года назад

Hello social catfish, I have a question, why do the scammers that meet the victim on Facebook but then they want to move to like hangouts or Whatsapp?

@terr777 Год назад

Y'all might want to correct your spelling of "prison" to include the r.

@willshedo Год назад

@@pamlampman2152 because the hangouts are private one2one. Facebook is more public.

@MrBrandonStar 3 года назад

she can't access her account not until she gets married ????? that is the dumbest excuse i have ever heard

@RCButterfly 3 года назад

there are some middle eastern countries and cultures where, if a woman is even allowed to work outside of the home, their money is controlled by a leading male relative. then when they are married the control of their finances is transferred to their husband. Horrible situation but highly uncommon in the USA. But yes, I would call BS on a female military officer not having access to her own income.

@MrBrandonStar 3 года назад

@@RCButterfly yeah

@Jaheartsjonas 3 года назад

Also he said she decided to put her life savings into that account herself, why would you set up or choose to put ALL your money into an account with terms like that lol

@MrBrandonStar 3 года назад

@@Jaheartsjonas and not be able to access it until she married

@maneckineckbeard1749 3 года назад

@@RCButterfly That's exactly what I thought of!! While unfortunately there ARE places where women's husbands control all of their money, (even money they earn or have inherited themselves!) I'd very much doubt that the US Military would be okay with any soldier- male OR female- having their military pay go into an account that the soldier has no access to!

@cynthiar7350 3 года назад

Lost their weapon; entire military base shuts down & leaves 1 soldier totally alone to starve…🤣🤣🤣

@gingers8457 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@jaytruth6503 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣 kmsl

@chanelm969 3 года назад

😂

@johnballard6725 2 года назад

Yeah, right!

@blondesense1708 2 года назад

@@stephanie90734 yeah my husband would always get really skinny when he relied on the mess hall, the food is inedible (and he grew up super poor on free cheese and food stamps and is NOT fussy in the slightest, will eat anything) and would resort to a couple MREs he didn’t mind. The medical care is pretty bad too. I went to military doctors for years with absolute text book MS symptoms and they told me I had migraines. Also, single soldiers can be very lonely on weekends and holidays. First non military doc I saw spotted it immediately. This Catfish however clearly had no idea how the military worked though.

@h.m.badger465 2 года назад

It’s actually good that this happened to him at his young age instead of being older and lonelier, sitting on a pile of saved money. He learned this lesson early and will be harder to dupe going forward, not just in relationships, but in other situations in life.

@jeannine5604 Год назад

Exactly what I was thinking. Better it happen around the beginning of his life than near the end. I mean at 19 what setbacks are there that you can't overcome. He'll be fine.

@mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 Год назад

100%

@MikePScott624 Год назад

Pretty much my thoughts too..

@stevejohnson978 Год назад

Exactly, get this scenario out the way early. Get a haircut, hit the weights and then go hard at these women, tearin it up 💪🏼

@maemae1752 2 года назад

Nicholas please don’t refer to this experience as your ‘first girlfriend’ you deserve so much more and I’m certain it won’t be long before you meet someone to share your life with.

@thevikingchannel8117 Год назад

Just curious. Why does he "deserve" more?

@BeckBeckGo Год назад

Yeah he seems like such a nice responsible guy. And so mature for 19. Anybody would be lucky to date him.

@BeckBeckGo Год назад

@@thevikingchannel8117 are you kidding? At 19, he’s already fiscally responsible and in search of a mature commitment. How many 19 year olds do you know that have their shit together to that degree? He also seems really nice and down to earth. And above everything, nobody deserves to have their credit ruined before they’re proper out of their teens.

@maemae1752 Год назад

@@BeckBeckGo I agree wholeheartedly, he deserves better because he has worked and put in the effort to have something to offer a partner . Though as human beings we all deserve the respect that we offer to others and we should never settle for less than we are prepared to be and give of ourselves. This young man will make a wonderful partner to someone who knows how to appreciate and be grateful for everything he is.

@thevikingchannel8117 Год назад

@@BeckBeckGo fiscally responsible? He was sending hundreds of dollars a month to a stranger on the internet lol. What planet are you on?

@religionoffreedom 2 года назад

What a nice guy. He’s not like most victims, he seems naive instead of actually delusional.

@DocBree13 Год назад

Agreed

@lesleysimpson5793 Год назад

The scammer is taking advantage of his naivety.

@tavonfenwick-yb5xv 11 месяцев назад

A nice idiotic guy

@user-ll7ss5lu7e 5 месяцев назад

Poor kid is just 19

@ElleSimon-wi1cm 3 месяца назад

Nice? Of all the nice young girls he could have contacted, he's lusting after a 27-year-old woman, who looks like a tatted-up porn star and who tells goofy stories a child wouldn't believe. "Help! I'm starving to death on the military base!" 😆

@deborahfragiorgi6791 2 года назад

What a genuine, kind soul this kid is. May you find a girlfriend who will appreciate what a good person you are.

@JefferyT1991 Год назад

Women don’t want a good person. They want whomever makes them feel attraction. Being a good person usually gets you a lot of disappointment

@DragonsOfSnow Год назад

@@JefferyT1991 Not if you're truly a good person and you're not just being a self-proclaimed "nice guy." Usually those guys are anything but a "nice guy."

@TeW33zy Год назад

@@JefferyT1991 exactly.

@TeW33zy Год назад

@@DragonsOfSnow stop living in fairy land. Your obviously a blue pill beta male. Woman of attraction don’t date guys just because I’m they a good person. Go listen to R&B. All you hear is fine woman singing about being cheated on, lord to and hurt and abused. All while the good person I’m heart she rejects over and over because she has no physical attraction. Your one of them my friend.

@jr.zz7162 Год назад

⁠@@DragonsOfSnow aka him😂

@patinajadeatherton2385 2 года назад

Her commander messaged him to harass him about not helping her out more? LMAO. The crazy-ass stories these scammers come up with. It’s straight up ludicrous! 😂🤣😂

@spasticfurchild 2 года назад

And yet these people STILL fall for it! 🤡

@joandonnelly1754 2 года назад

Right?!

@marciathehooligan9967 2 года назад

What's more ludicrous is that these peabrains are buying it! 🤪

@seemomster Год назад

Even disregarding the ludicrous scenario of a "Commander" contacting a subordinate's boyfriend on social media, the thumbnail picture he sent was unprofessional (to say the least.)

@jimy0803 5 месяцев назад

i feel for dude, but that "Commander story" was hilarious.

@leighd6409 2 года назад

This guy is so pure, I hope he recovers emotionally and financially

@perryp2261 2 года назад

I hope so to.

@Rollacoastertycoon Год назад

Would you date him?

@thevikingchannel8117 Год назад

@@Rollacoastertycoonnope! Lol

@glorysmummy Год назад

@@Rollacoastertycoon I would, but I am 73.

@richardmarez126 Год назад

@@glorysmummy he likes older woman

@qwerty_artist 3 года назад

Nicholas was really brave for telling his story, there are a lot of male victims out there who never tell their story, tbh I think the number of younger victims is also high, mostly because a lot of us are having more and more 'online only' relationships

@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

Thanks for this comment! You are correct there are TONS of male scam victims.

@paladindragoongirl18 3 года назад

@@CatfishedOnline Most male victims don’t speak out because they’re embarrassed to.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

Still don't understand how you have relationship online

@lucyw.7597 2 года назад

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat i agree...its the complete acceptance that people seem to have now, even the company making the show, that its normal to say someone in 'in a relationship'...when they are talking to someone online..its completely idiotic, its juvenile in the extreme!

@dusteedawg2915 2 года назад

That's NOT a real relationship

@Godzooky 2 года назад

He’s so sweet and sheltered. He’s going to make an amazing partner to a sweet young lady one day.

@azazello1784 Месяц назад

Yeah, except nobody will want a beta like that except some unattractive overweight lady.

@coldwhitespring5004 3 года назад

There is one perk to this: You will NEVER fall for this again. Thanks for telling your story!

@metalmellie4371 2 года назад

You don't know that! It happens ALL THE TIME!!!!

@Iudicatio 2 года назад

Actually, statistically, people who have already been scammed are more likely to be scammed again than people who have never been scammed. I would guess it's because it makes them hurt and emotionally vulnerable but I don't know. Someone else comes along and says "I'm sorry that happened, I'm not like her at all, I'm different" and you want to believe it maybe.

@grannygoes7882 2 года назад

@@Iudicatio Oh yeah! I watched one vid that while social catfish was talking to them about their current scam, they found out she was online chatting with another scammer!!

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

Unfortunately many people fall over and over again

@Redspeciality 2 года назад

Nope, he wont fall for that again. It’ll be a whole new scam he falls for. Some people arent able to determine that two plus two doesnt equal five

@marciebigley1820 2 года назад

He's a sweet kid. Reminds me of my husband at that age. I met my hubby at BK flipping burgers. Today he's an accomplished computer engineer working with US space forces. This young man should apply time to studies and find a young lady who has accomplishments as well. School is great place for meeting ppl.

@victoriaWitch8290 Год назад

Totally agree, he's obviously very intelligent but very young and naive. He probably comes from an overprotective family, nothing wrong with that, but it can leave young people naive. The Internet is a big place. He's the kind of guy who needs to find himself a fellow clever person who is just kind. I'm so sad he thought it was ok for her to order him about.

@amir4r803 Год назад

Cogent post, thank you

@azazello1784 Месяц назад

Sorry but why is he still with you then? He could find someone better looking.

@janettesimone4088 3 года назад

very innocent young man - I empathize with him. Hopefully, he learned from this experience... NEVER, NEVER, NEVER send $$$ to anyone you do not know or met in person.

@withgoddess 2 года назад

DON'T GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE.

@urairatmuennarapukkee595 2 года назад

100%

@PungiFungi 2 года назад

I really think schools and/or colleges should really start teaching people Life Lessons 101...practical knowledge like how to buy a house, how to buy a car, HOW TO SPOT SCAMS, etc. It will save everybody a lot of grief later on.

@The_Planted_Eye_1 2 года назад

Poor kid. His optimism made him a victim. Hopefully that won't discourage him in the future but also teaches him what to look out for in the future

@armandosanchez8901 2 года назад

@@PungiFungi Unfortunately school are too busy trying to teach the stupid bible

@nyashaphillips5100 3 года назад

Another thing they love to say is 'my wife died of cancer & I'm a single parent', 'my child is with the babysitter'

@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

Wife passing at childbirth is almost always a red flag for most scammers stories

@nyashaphillips5100 3 года назад

@@CatfishedOnline Exactly. No doubt about that

@mikesadventure6329 2 года назад

One told my mother his wife was killed by a straight bullet and his son was with his sister.

@teejae2065 2 года назад

Oh yes, and the child needs/wants a mother. And can't wait to meet you!

@sararomero7090 2 года назад

Yeah, they never say, “My ex divorced me because I was an abusive drunk who gambled our children’s college money away.” It’s always something very sympathy-inducing, like, “My darling Lisa passed away in a car accident!”

@chanelm969 3 года назад

When I was approached by someone claiming to be in the military, I asked him to name the different ranks in the Army. The guy got belligerent and stumbled all over his words. Tried to turn the question back on me. I never heard from him again.

@withgoddess 2 года назад

Good work!

@Gurra88 2 года назад

Instant block or asking questions = problem solved

@knowbodiesfull5768 2 года назад

@@Gurra88 I would take instant block in a - well, an instant. I would not waste one second of my time with that scammer. *NOT ONE SECOND!!!* (2/20/2022)

@PungiFungi 2 года назад

@@knowbodiesfull5768 scammers are a waste of your time and keystrokes.

@ivanaandric5703 2 года назад

Your whole post says inteligent, for example "claiming to be in military"! I'm dumbfounded when some of these "victims" still talk about their scammer as if he is a real person! Good job for asking questions while on the phone, they don't know everything (it just somethimes seems that way) and not giving him the time to google and find the informations! You are a SUPER STAR!!! Just BRILLIANT!!!

@rebeccalucas6063 3 года назад

He is such a sweet young man, I hope this doesn't turn him into angry bitter person. Please stay the gentle kind soul that you are, just be more cautious please, and block anyone who refuses to video chat and meet in person, and NEVER give money for any reason! I was scammed, but the person was real, just borrowed money, and never paid back. It could happen to anyone, never say not me.

@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

Sorry to hear that you got scammed! Stay safe

@mariacleto1502 3 года назад

I went through the same thing. Those criminals are evil and their father is the devil

@maneckineckbeard1749 3 года назад

This!! He seems like such a sweet, generous, genuine person; like you, I also hope so much that he doesn't turn bitter against women or life in general! There ARE women out there his own age who would be SO happy to have a guy like him! They do exist! And I really truly hope he finds the One for him! I'm sure she's out there...

@joycekhin91khin59 2 года назад

Yeah. It could happen to anyone out there no matter how cleaver you are. I just experience that lost thousand plus and I feel myself stupid in the end angry at myself even when I noticed some if red flag yet I feel that if thought if I don't help they might be in deep trouble and realized they are not worth any ouch of sympathy...... I have learned a lesson in hard way. Hope everyone be safe there and watch out those scammer.... I am sure they will get what they deserve for doing dirty work like that.

@whateverchannel22 2 года назад

Pleeeease stop flinging around this "it could happen to anyone" myth! Some of us would never dream of giving money to an Internet stranger.

@maggiemay97 2 года назад

The fact that some creep could scam this sweet, innocent young man makes me crazy. I hope it doesn’t tarnish his hope to have a real relationship with a nice young lady. He’s so young to be disillusioned. I hope someone nice comes along who will appreciate him.

@mac3490 3 года назад

Lolz, the commander ends up contacting him, like that would ever happen for real

@teejae2065 2 года назад

Yeah, commander is not interested in a rank and files love life. And it would be inappropriate if he was.

@janetsmith9633 2 года назад

Exactly!! That's the part that got me 😂😂

@Veroweithofer 2 года назад

He’s such a sweet person. He deserves real love and respect.

@SkyePhoenix 2 года назад

Yes. We all deserve that. We don't always get what we deserve. Life goes on...

@dumbasses_R_us 3 года назад

This guy's super nice I really hope something good comes from this

@mundaneamazing 2 года назад

He's such a little sweetie! I think he'll meet his match at a con soon.

@beakt 2 года назад

Yeah, I was just thinking, how could he not get a girl? He must just need some coaching.

@beakt 2 года назад

Oh, he's only 19. Yeah, girls still have the power at that age. In about four years he'll notice the women are all coming to him!

@fayeking5066 Год назад

It will. It’s wisdom from the experience. I he won’t want a tatted up street tart that will only be an anchor on a chain.

@theusefulidiot4202 Год назад

@@beakt its prolly due to the fact that he has a touch of the tism. I'd bet the farm that his social awkwardness is due to being on the spectrum.

@SongSingsSoprano 2 года назад

"I lost my gun in battle, can you help me replace it?" I can't believe people actually fall for this kind of nonsense.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

I know. It is absolutely unbelievable for somebody in the armed forces requiring a civilian, to pay for a replacement gun. How on earth do people fall for such utter nonsense.

@evolutionaryadvantage 2 года назад

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat He is 19. How much life experience does one have in 19 years? Two of those years his parents where changing his nappy ffs !

@SanFranDentist94301 2 года назад

@@evolutionaryadvantage In the states the Armed Services aim a lot of their advertising at kids. Part of those advertisements is that you will have almost no overhead for things like medical care, food, housing, insurance. In the states they fling 10s of thousands of dollars at new recruits and give them guaranteed mortgages and college tuition afterwards. They also get first dibs at postal jobs, law enforcement, and first responder by getting extra points on the employment exams. If you SURVIVE without being rped or blown to bits it's a sweet setup. Point is though this is fairly common knowledge.

@Crackpot_Astronaut 2 года назад

Man, I saw one recently where the dude gave that story about his weapon and said the replacement would be something like $12,000. When the gal said "I don't have $12,000!" he ended up coming back later and saying "Oh, I found a used one for $1,600" and she sent the money...🤦‍♀️ As if the US Army is having their soldiers buy their weapons used online individually. Get it together, people.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Год назад

@@evolutionaryadvantage 🙄 He is 19, *not* 9.

@cassiecassiope1743 2 года назад

Nicholas you will make an amazing father and husband one day - don’t let this scam ever make you believe otherwise!

@dianalovescolors 3 года назад

Hey Nick you are not alone. So many men and women have been scammed by these criminals. You seem like a very nice young man. You are going to meet someone GREAT who is REAL and will love you. Good luck. Keep us posted!

@johnballard6725 2 года назад

Nick next time do your due diligence and check they are who they say they are and tell them no see no chat!

@barbarapalmer8224 2 года назад

Hopefully.

@meredithg227 3 года назад

He is so young and naive. This is awful .

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

@Rachel Sheldon Maybe just very sheltered upbringing.

@richardmilliken8705 2 года назад

Indeed! On the other end of the scale, there are 13 year old gang bangers that make big money trafficking drugs and pimping their hoes like the tattoed hoe in the photo. He's not the sharpest tool in the shed.

@SkyePhoenix 2 года назад

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Maybe autism spectrum disorder. My youngest daughter is on the spectrum. She's smart but very naive.

@angelsalve8408 3 года назад

My heart hurts for this poor kid. Hope he has a support network to make sure he becomes educated not bitter or jaded

@modiciamartin5659 3 года назад

They are so low class. I hope that one day they will get what deserve and they deserve prison time they make me feel so sick in my stomach.

@BudduredToast 2 года назад

Dude seems like a really good guy with a big heart. Take this as a hard lesson. But you're so young, and you can easily put this behind you, knowing that you'll go into your next relationship with eyes wide open.

@teeresayoung9215 2 года назад

Omg what a sweet kid. I'm glad he found out before he lost everything.

@tamarahicks Год назад

I actually feel bad for this baby bc he really just seems sheltered and not to know any better.

@aprilreign7840 2 года назад

He seems like a really sweet kid. I wish him all the best!

@withgoddess 2 года назад

He did it again. Why? He called the woman the young mans FIRST GIRLFRIEND. He asked the young man if he was going to DATE again. It makes me furious. The scammer was not a GIRLFRIEND, nor did they date. It enforces the false narrative.

@Crackpot_Astronaut 2 года назад

Yep. I 100% agree. I left a similar comment recently on another video. In their ads they also say something like "if you need to validate the identity of your online lover..." I think they're honestly doing people a bit of a disservice by wording it that way. It just puts the idea into people's mind subconsciously that these "relationships" hold far more weight than they actually do. "Online lover" is already a nonsense term to begin with, and it's even more inappropriate when using in in reference to this madness.

@self-publishinghelp8596 Год назад

Not to mention, Scammer dude was not even a girl.

@self-publishinghelp8596 Год назад

They’re just trying to save the person’s dignity as much as possible. But I agree, they should add, “Who you believed to be..,”

@maryannkarimi4212 3 года назад

Nicholas, try taking some classes. You may meet a nice young lady in one of your classes. Don’t give up, but please don’t try to meet someone on line. You are young and there is definitely someone for you. Don’t give up.

@maneckineckbeard1749 3 года назад

I was going to suggest the same thing! Good idea!

@oceanbrzzz 2 года назад

Great idea! I hope he read these suggestions.

@annsandlund8376 Год назад

I really feel for this young man, hard working, saving, paying rent to his father, honest and with a beautiful heart. He's a gem, and I'm sure he'll find someone.

@meredithg227 3 года назад

The girl in the picture is also being scammed.

@emilythompson3605 2 года назад

It is amazing how many people fall for these scams. After I went on FB I received 67 different love scammer contacts in the first year. Yes I counted them. So it’s just not dating sites. After the third I recognized the spiel. Usually a captain in the army. My reply to them is, I’m old not stupid and block them. Thank you for what you do. I’m 74 by the way.

@whateverchannel22 2 года назад

You can adjust your settings so that only friends can contact you. Just FYI.

@JoannA-sweetly Год назад

For me usually an oil rig manager off shore.. a white fella who cannot spell in English nor correct grammar… 😂🤣😂🤣😂😅

@melwest6639 Год назад

I understand much more why a 19 yo might fall for something like this over a 50 yo with so much more life experience. I hope he has just learned a valuable lesson and can move on. He seems very sweet x

@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink Год назад

He’s so adorable. I hate that this happened to him. May these scammers have the day they deserve. This is terrible.

@shannonbradley4699 2 года назад

Even after my ex husband retired from the Air Force, our health insurance was under $500 a year for BOTH of us. Circa 2018

@davebroad642 2 года назад

Nicholas seems like a very nice sincere young fellow. It'll all come right for him I'm sure!

@missolesoul 2 года назад

There are so many girls yelling that they live near him and are alone, playing video games etc. Volunteer somewhere for something that means a great deal to you. You will meet so many people that will be friends, and through them, who knows?

@Bebedollie 3 года назад

He seems such a sweetheart 💔

@gloriagloria716 2 года назад

Nicholas, you are the same age as my grandson! I am so sorry this happened to you. Don't beat yourself up over it. It was not your fault. Much older people, with more life experience, have been caught the same way. You are helping others by being brave enough to put your story out there. You are so young. There is plenty of time. My grandson has not yet had a serious relationship. Heck, I did not meet my husband till I was 35 and he 37. We have been married for 32 years now. Good luck. from a UK grandma.

@c_rhynehardt 2 года назад

My heart goes out to this young man. I hope and pray that the right, honest person comes his way.

@veronicaoliver7293 2 года назад

Poor guy. Please don't try to find a relationship on line. Go out and find someone. If you find someone online check them out first. Never send them any money NEVER!! You will find a perfect lady someday.

@amir4r803 Год назад

The kid has a heart of gold, refreshing

@arthurwatt5162 Год назад

The people in the comments are really kind and compassionate . It’s really nice to see this young man being supported like this. Love and compassion is important. ❤

@jimy0803 5 месяцев назад

@arthurwatt5162 in THIS particular comment-section. definitely not in most others.

@PamMinnick Год назад

I actually feel bad for this young man. You can tell he is just a sweetheart of a person. He's still really young and with age his confidence will grow, he'll find a nice young lady, hopefully he has already.

@sierastraughter6913 2 года назад

Poor baby. I feel for him and hope he finds companionship.

@shirleyanthony9581 3 года назад

They will say anything to get money

@1tarawho Год назад

I've been a single woman a long time now. Even if I was struggling financially I would never ask anyone, especially a man I'm interested in, for money. If they ask for money they have no respect for you!! Take that as a sign they are not for you..

@irishsakura1 3 года назад

Omg, if I were 27 years younger…..I hope he finds a nice lady.

@revekat2053 2 года назад

He is shallow. He probably wouldn’t pick you if you don’t look like the woman in the bikini.

@BrianLG100 2 года назад

Wish this kid a full recovery.

@gigiarmany4332 Год назад

that picture of her "Commander" 😂🤣😂🥳🥳🥳& him berating Nikolas about not caring enough about her to send her gift cards🤦🏿‍♀️🙄🤣🥳

@Emy53 2 года назад

Never send money...NEVER EVER SEND MONEY.

@twilfits 2 года назад

Glad Nicholas came to his senses He's sweet cute and deserves true love. Thanks for helping and educating...😺🐟 you do a great job

@rosieglows Год назад

This poor kid reminds me of my son, who's asd/adhd. I hope he doesn't fall for future scams.

@skontheroad Год назад

I was possibly thinking the same thing... until he started in on the movies he wants to go see... then I was positive that you are right! Hopefully he knows that he is on the spectrum and has some tools to work with.

@cedricliggins7528 Год назад

I thought it was noble of her commander to intervene on her behalf.

@Fluffysocks3124 3 года назад

Awww this guy is so sweet.

@GradKat 2 года назад

I hope this decent and attractive young man will soon find the partner he deserves.

@alans.2735 3 года назад

Nick, Thankyou for sharing this story. Sadly these scammers exist and take their toll both financially and emotionally. I hope you get over all this and you find a nice lady who is genuine and you will build a genuine relationship together.Good luck😊

@MathStar100 2 года назад

"Being in the military is one of the most honorable jobs there is". HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks. I needed that

@Jaheartsjonas 3 года назад

It seems like these scammers think being in the military is like being a volunteer prisoner? Or maybe even worse, they at least feed prisoners and give them certain equipment for jobs and recreation for free. And they expect the people they scam to accept this too, it's crazy but I understand how they sort out their potential victims. If you're willing to accept that the military leaves people stranded on base then you'd be easily willing to send money

@lucyw.7597 2 года назад

I know, who knew? the entire planet littered with stranded , starving soldiers unable to get home! its quite the scandal!!

@johnballard6725 2 года назад

If you haven't met in person you cannot be "in a relationship".Plus if your contact won't video chat that's a big red flag,how many red flags do you need to decide you are talking to a scammer?

@gabred5800 8 месяцев назад

If they ask for money they're a scammer period

@Sandragoldenlee Год назад

Shame on the scammers for trying to take advantage of a young and in experienced person. Nicholas you are smarter than most of the older victim. I really like you. I am sure you will soon find love.

@snowwhite2709 3 года назад

A friend of mine is being scammed right now by a lady claiming she is a military nurse. He's being scammed and no matter what I tell him, he's not believing it. He's in his 50s, relatively newly single after 30 years, and he is not aware of how devious these scammers are.

@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

We tend to hear that often. Show him our social media pages, show him this channel and maybe some things will start to click. Good luck!

@snowwhite2709 3 года назад

@@CatfishedOnline I've tried that too, he's in denial. I've tried everything I can think of, reverse lookup, online search, even on her Facebook there are huge red flags he's being catfished, her high school and business college shows Nigeria and and Ghana. I showed him that too, that should have hit him in the head, but he said it could be possible she went there. In done spending my time trying anymore. It's not like he's unaware NIW, he's just being stupid and gullible now.

@CatfishedOnline 3 года назад

@@snowwhite2709 We'd love to help you out. Send us an email of your story, sharemystory@socialcatfish.com

@dianalovescolors 3 года назад

@@snowwhite2709 You've tried hard to help him and he's not ready to hear it. Try again in a month. Maybe he'll be ready then and in the meantime if you come on social catfish and tell this story, I'm positive you'll be helping some other people who might be trapped right now in a scam and all the hard work you've been doing will not go to waste.

@RCButterfly 3 года назад

poor guy, i hope he does eventually see he is being taken advantage of.

@marian6593 8 месяцев назад

This is one of the very few catfished victims I truly feel sorry for. He's a very attractive, good natured young man and I genuinely hope that he's now found a genuine, loving girlfriend to share his life with.

@FreeSpirit47 2 года назад

There is NO meeting, there is NO RELATIONSHIP!

@SkyePhoenix 2 года назад

You can have a connection with someone that you've never met in person. It's true that just because you video chat with them for hours almost every day, you still don't know them very well. It is also possible to be in a physical relationship with someone for years and not know everything about them. An online relationship is "real" to the person or people involved. If you've never experienced it, it's understandable that it doesn't make sense to you. No, I have never been scammed out of any money. Yes, I have been in an online relationship that lasted for over 2 years. Would I do it again? No, I wouldn't.

@FreeSpirit47 2 года назад

@@SkyePhoenix Scammers love it when people think like this. It makes them a great target for a source of income.

@barbaradejaynes7612 3 года назад

Praying for you to find the right lady that's your age. Thank you for sharing your story to help others

@gotohellenwaite6371 2 года назад

I hope this young man realizes someone who cares about him will not be telling him if you don’t send money you don’t care/ love me.. this is not love this is using. If you meet someone online ALWAYS do a reverse image search. I’ve had a few through social media contact me , you can normally tell they use screwed up wording or within an hour telling you they are wanting to get married. Be careful out there being scammed out of cash is one thing, being scammed out of a kidney is something else.

@sharonweaver5137 3 года назад

A very nice young guy.Sorry he got scammed. I hope he finds a nice young lady! Good luck!!! 🙋‍♀️👍

@withgoddess 2 года назад

He's adorable. Trust me one day he will have a beautiful REAL woman all his own.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

I hope so. He seems like a lovely guy. But better to meet that real woman, at a bar, church or community club.

@knowbodiesfull5768 2 года назад

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Preferably either of the latter two. Bars are risky places to meet potential partners.

@Angie-jm8kp 2 года назад

@@knowbodiesfull5768 no they are not, there as many dodgey people that go to church if not more than go out to socialise. I go out and know many many people, many that I went to school with and I'm nearly 60, so cut the if you go to a pub you must be bad crap.

@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Год назад

@@knowbodiesfull5768 . Are they? I met several decent boyfriends (one who I ended up marrying) in bars.

@1ohmwrecker Год назад

Poor dude is desperate. It's OK man, you're young. Give it time bud!👍 in the meantime boss yourself up and save as much money as possible. A woman that truly wants you won't ask for a penny.

@abeltesfaye_ Год назад

Usually the victims in these videos exasperate me, but there's something so sweet and wholesome about Nicholas. I honestly feel really bad for him and I hope he realizes that he's incredibly young and will find a REAL woman who will cherish him very soon in life ❤️ I hope Nicholas is doing okay these days and has found mental peace since! I remember being 18 & 19, (I'm 30 now,) and honestly you're still SO young at that age and many times, you still have the mind of an innocent child. Nicholas didn't deserve this and it's clear he truly did this earnestly. Thanks for showing support to Nicholad everyone, if any victim of scamming deserves empathy, it's Nicholas. I also really respect Nicholas for being brave enough to come forward with his story, especially many men don't tell the world that they were scammed. What a sweet, young, man! 🥺

@nancyoyola1562 Год назад

This story breaks my heart. This young man seems like such a nice loving person that deserves to be in a healthy loving relationship. Consider that money lost and move on. You can meet young girls at your local mall, skating rink or bowling alley. Good luck young man.

@janinehiggins1507 3 года назад

Good luck man you deserve someone honest 🙂

@mydailysilence 2 года назад

Very brave young man, I’m happy he’s in good spirits.

@cherietillapaughhott1012 Год назад

Oh Nicholas...you are an absolute sweetheart. You are a handsome and intelligent compassionate and kind young man, and there is a little cutie out there just waiting to meet you. Believe in yourself, have confidence, and don't lose your good and trusting heart--just be wise. I wish I could just give you a hug!

@Trina_White Год назад

Don’t let that scumbag hurt your heart for someone else, you just started your life hun, you got this. Thanks for sharing .

@kathyschlenker6231 Год назад

This man will have no trouble finding someone who treats him like the wonderful guy he is. He’s so young

@loyaldogpublishingllc4988 2 года назад

You are young honey, save your money and stay single, theres no rush!

@Cinx2 3 года назад

Poor kid, I hope he finds a real nice girlfriend.

@MadisonWestfield 2 года назад

What I love about this channel is that y’all are also informative. Providing facts throughout the videos is so insightful. For example, what military clearance is and how much it cost, examples of scam story lines to get your money, and so on. Loving this channel!!

@Baddscorpio 2 года назад

You’re young. You live and you learn.

@bicyclelife7088 2 года назад

Unlike a lot of the other people who really should have known better. This is just a kid who is learning about dating a relationships. He has no experience. I hope it doesn't make him jaded, and ruin him for the future. He has a lot of years ahead of him to meet people.

@laurajames723 2 года назад

Poor guy. I hope he finds someone closer to home that he or his friends or family know.

@michellesood4419 11 месяцев назад

This lovely young man has a voice that is perfect for radio or recording. Very glad to know he experienced this at such a young age, so that when he's become the incredibly successful person he's going to be, he will also still have all his money which he will share with an equally special person! Best wishes to him.

@kaymill5565 Год назад

He seems like such a sweet, innocent soul.

@gloriaflores6775 Год назад

Once someone chatted me up telling me he was in the military. The flirting made me uncomfortable, felt I was being love-bombed. Then he said he needed money for some military clearance. I told him my ex had been in the army. And I know perfectly well that the doesn’t charge you for leaving. That ended it.

@interspeciesfamily8043 2 года назад

Such a lovely human being this Nicholas is. I hope he keeps it real and meets up with real people. Not online. He deserves what's good.

@abeltesfaye_ Год назад

Yes he is, he's so sweet 🥺❤️ I'm a 30 year old woman, but at 18-23ish, j would have loved to have been dating a man like Nicholas versus my abusive ex. I hope he finds a FANTASTIC woman and eventual wife!! 💖

@interspeciesfamily8043 Год назад

@@abeltesfaye_ Dreadful to have such a beginning for you. This young fellow also in some way abused. Could've been my son. Gosh how lovely that would have been. How does a parent help them understand, teach tgem to stave off such nasty people. So sad. Hope you have found your life to be happy, despite your horrid and undeserved experience.

@pauljackson9716 2 года назад

If nothing else, do not hide these "relationships" from your family and friends.

@deangelojeremitriusvickers6319 6 месяцев назад

“If we want to stay together you have to buy this gift card” I just can’t🤦🏻‍♂️🤣 you can’t be in a relationship with someone you’ve never seen or touched!🤦🏻‍♂️

@tammychapman3150 3 года назад

Get a proofreader you wrote pison instead of prison.

@amyoung101 2 года назад

I just saw this video and commented similarly. If you are going to warn people about scams, shouldn’t you be aware of grammar issues?

@BiPolarBear128 Год назад

so sad , this young man is extremely intelligent and mature for his age , I do get the sense that he is on the spectrum , I have Asperger and can usually tell when others are aspies too so he is extra vulnerable by age and autism , he didnt deserve this at all

@mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 Год назад

One of the few I felt bad for. A hard lesson to learn at a young age. Just glad he isn't like others on this channel that have given away over 100k to a scammer.

@charliebrown7904 2 года назад

There are ALWAYS military personnel on a military base, 24/7/365. Right from the barracks guard, chefs (food is already paid for), right up to someone in charge at the top. There are always medics on duty in the barracks med centre. You cannot buy a weapon to replace one which is lost - it is a court martial offence to lose a weapon. All weapon serial numbers are listed in the unit armoury and none can be replaced by a bought weapon.

@MC-eu1hx 2 года назад

A 19 year old guy falling for this? Did not even try to verify who "she" was? Not even a phone or video call? No verifying with the military on how they look after their employees? There was no mention on where he sent the gift cards? I am so weary of these "victims" who purposely cause this company to have to investigate something totally preventable; you dont't send anything to anyone you never met.

@micheleboyle3547 3 года назад

Omg! It’s too bad he didn’t talk to his dad about this before he sent a single dime to this scammer! As a mom my sons in a round about way usually let me know what’s going on in their lives!

@maneckineckbeard1749 3 года назад

Yesss!! Watching this has made me realize I *really* need to have a talk about these kind of scams with my teenager!! As moms, I know we all want to think that our boys will always trust us enough to be able to come to us about this kind of stuff, but embarrassment is a helluva thing...especially at that age! (Don't I remember!!) You've reminded me that we ALL need to be vigilant, nonjudgmental and accessable to our kids, because this could happen to anyone's son! Thanks so much for this comment. Lots of food for thought for me as a parent. 👍🏾♥️

@micheleboyle3547 3 года назад

@@maneckineckbeard1749 your welcome and it’s so sad that some person took advantage of a nice young man! Young adults just need little reminders that us parents been there done that! Lol!

@maneckineckbeard1749 3 года назад

@@micheleboyle3547 Amen to that!!

@MOTIVATION-FOR-YOUNG-MINDS Год назад

Bless you're heart, I hope you find the one and put this behind you.. really feel for you xx

@nerdalert2782 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing your story!!!

@gigiarmany4332 Год назад

not sure why, but I feel bad for Nicolas..usually I just shake my head at these scam victims,but he seems so innocent..🥺😒

@DocBree13 Год назад

Unlike most, he wasn’t old enough or experienced enough to know better. He was naive instead of delusional, I think. I trust he won’t fall for another scam.