Txhob tu siab mog. Tsis ntev no ces peb cov hmoob feem coob yeej yuav zoo raws nkaus zaj dab neeg no. Kuv los yeej tu siab kawg ntshe qhov kawg yuav zoo kiag nej zaj dab neeg no.
This is what parents deserve! They did this to themselves only, i don't feel sorry for them. Why the heck these older generations give every penny they have to their son(s)?
I agree too. My inlaws are the same. Not to us but to thier daughers/Nkaug Ntaxwm girls. She caters to them- literally- and if they don't cook, they order for takout and deliveries. SMDH
Yes they only have 3 kids, why not split their money around. Even if they didn't care about the younger sister who married viet, they should still consider the older sister. nay nay
Hmoob parents always love their sons more - at the end their sons used and abusived them to the bones. Sad and very frustrating for us hmoob daughters.
Mi muam aw, ntuj yeej tsis tsim ob tug neeg phem los nyob ua ke, vim yog ob tug phem ib yam nyob ua ke ces siav tsis ntev lub cev yuav lwj sai ua av, ntuj thiaj tsim ib tug phem nrog ib tug zoo, ces thiaj muaj nyab, nus, phem li neb dab laug nkawv ntag. Txhob tu siab neb ob viv ncaus ua tau zoo kawg, thov kom neb muaj hmoo lawm tom ntej nawv.
Cov brother no yeej tsis paub xav...me n my brother both cough up 20k each but at the my brother got all his money back. 10k from my dads saving 12k from sunshine money all to my brother. I’m very sad till this very day too. Our hmoob brothers need to step up.
Dont worry sister. Karma will get them. Their children will do the same to them as they did to your parents. Glad you and your sister were there for your mother.
Nyob MiKas no pojniam cov neej tsa daj hau khov dhau heev lawm ces 3 cov txiv neej nkag siab kawg nyoo (: Lwm tiam yog yug los nyob lub teb chaw no ces thov yug los ua pojniam xwb o.
This usually affects the people that still believe in the old tradition. Some of the ones that are Christian now they don’t do that anymore so even though if it’s the daughter they will still take care of the parents no matter what and the parents can still live with them
Vim koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd muab hlub dau lawm nws thiaj li dau mus ua ib tus neeg tub nkees. Peb ua niam ua txiv peb txawm hlub peb cov tub npaum li cas Los tsi txhob pub peb pob nyiaj rau lawv cias ib sim neej li tej tub yus muaj li cas muab me 2 rau lawv siv xwb tseg kiag tsi txhob pub yus pob nyiaj rau lawv pom lawv paub li os mog.
mloog koj zaj neej neeg tag ce kuv ntshav siab txog 200 nawj hais tau ntxim ntxub thiab npau tawg dhau lawm os hmoob aws ca yuav nkim lub zog tu thiab hlub ua luaj naj
Hais rau nej cov ua niam ua txiv txhob ntaim ntaim kom nej vov tub yuav nyab. Thaum peb nyob Nplog teb mas hluas nkauj hais tias yog yus yuav lawv., lawv yuav hlub yus, mloog yus hais, hwm kom tau yus cuab kwv tij tsistas li ntawd txoj cai kom poj niam hwm txiv neej. Lub neej nyob rau America mas hluas nkauj hais tias yog yus yuav lawv kom mloog lawv hais. Yog leej twg yuav tau cov nyab zoo li no ces kawg niam pog txiv yawg pos qhov muag quaj .
Cov tub nyab zoo li no mas niam txiv tuag tag ces yuav kob huam nyob qab choj xwb mas txhob zoo zoo siab os mog tej mi nyuam. Ua li america hais os goes around come around os mog. Yus yog ntxais xwb ces yus hlub li yus hlub tau os mog.
Kev hlub niam & txiv yuav faib li cas rau tus twg los kuj kav liam lawv los pos. Cas muam pheej khib nus nus khib muam? Tus twg tuag los yeej kawg cev lwj los ua tshauv nrog av xwb es ho tsis muaj lub chaw tuag li cas na? Oh, hmoob txoj kev xav mas cas. Niam txiv tuag tag mas nus muag nij ua yeeb ncuab.
Tus me viv ncaus aw ua cas yuav hlub koj niam thiab koj txiv ua luaj li os, koj niam koj txiv tsis tau kev hlub os ntawn koj tus nus ces tim koj tus nus siab yeej phem tsis muaj kev hlub rau koj niam nkawv xwb os. nyias yug nyias ib pab es nyias cov mam ua rau nyias os mog.
Zaj no yog ib zaj uas yuav los qhia rau peb hmoob hais tias tub thiab ntxhais los yeej los nta tau niam thiab txiv lub ntees. Txhob hlub cov tub ntau es tseg cov ntxhais. Nyob meskas teb old tradition tsis work lawm mog peb tsoom hmoob. Leej tub ces tsuas yog los carry leej txiv noob neej hauv family rau yav tom ntej xwb. Txoj kev hlub kev hwm niam hwm txiv yeej tsis muaj li yav tas los lawm. Thov peb hmoob tsoom hluas thiab smaim no hlub tub ntxhais kom sib npaug nawb mog. Cov ntxhais mus ua neej los txhob pheej khibz ua yuav sau nqi mog, tub yuav nyab ces poob nyiaj mus yuav, tau tus phem tus zoo los rho nyiaj mus them kom tau nyab..smaim no peb hmoob kev tshoob kos twb tsis work lawm, tej tub nyab kev ua neej thiaj tsis work. Kev nta tej laus hnub kawg los yuav tsis work lawm. Txhob muab kev cia siab loj loj rau cov tub xwb mog...
The old generation want you to be a good wife to their son so you can keep their family legacy. The old generation did not have the brain that they don't live forever. What i believe is that what you have and spend it that are yours.
Koj tus nyab nkawd siab phem 2 nkaus li peb tus nus thiab thov kom lub ntuj pom thiab Lau,. Lawv Tau ua rau tej laus tu siab thov kom lub ntuj muab lawv tej nqi zog rov rau lawv
Kuv li kuv txiv nkawv muaj 3 tug tub nyab cov nyab nus no yeej noj tej laus nkaus xwb kuv tus nyab thiab tus nus hlob nkawv ces kaus kuv niam nkawv npaum koj tus nus thiab hos kuv 2 tug nus yau mas nkawv hos hlub tsua yog thaum tuag tsis tha xwb
Kuv twb tsis muaj txiv kuv tus nus hlob thaum kuv niam kuv txiv tuag nws yeej cem kuv taw tes nkis tias kom kuv yuav tsum tuaj sib tig sib luag nrog lawv tib si tab mas kuv yuav tau 2 tuag laus li leeg $50,000 life ces kuv tus bus hlob yeej khoos kom muab cov insurance coj Los tha nkawv los kuv yeej tias tsis ua cas cia kuv muab no ces cov nyab nus no yeej tsis poob ib lub cents liab li
mloog zaj neej neeg no tag..txawm kv g muaj ib tug tub los kv yeej tsi tu siab li os..yg zoo li no xb! cas nkawv tsis los cas kiag niag tub thiab niag nyab mus ua nkawv qhiv ne!
Eb kuv muaj ib tug nyab zoo li ko thiab os phem2 los yuav tau yus tus tub ces coj khiav li lawm tiag tsis pub yus txib li lawm cov nyab niam no nav lawv ntse dhau lawm lawv hais tias lawv tsis xav yuav niam pog txiv yawg lawv pheej mus hlub niam tais yawm Txiv xwb yog li ntaw lawv kuj nrhiav nyiaj tuaj them niam pog txiv yawg
She must have a pssy made of gold for him to stay with her and put up with her gambling addiction. That *itch will leave him sooner or later. Koj tus nus ua maum xwb. Nyob hauv nws niag poj dab kab ntiab xwb. Let him go. Txoj kev npam yeej yuav ncaum cuag nkawv ib hnub!!! Take this as a lesson to NOT spoil your kids. Love them but teach them morals and values. Tiam no ib ntxhia tub ces mus ua maum lawm xwb. This is America. Xyaum hlub nej cov ntxhais thiab mas nej cov laus na! Txhob cia cia siab rau nej cov tub heev heev thiab os!
Thaum twg peb hmoob mam hloov tau hlub tub ntxhais ib yam thiaj tsis zoo li zaj dab neeg no. Peb 2 tug laus tusiab kawg. Koj tus nus nkawv twb yug tau me nyuam thiab yeej yuav paub sai2 no xwb ma.
Cov laus uas hlub2 cov tub ces thaum kawg tsis muaj neeg faus li no mas. Tu siab kawg os. Tus tub tus nyab no ces yuav npam txog hnub tuag lauj. Tim tus tub tsis tsim txiaj tsis zoo. Nws tsis ywj poj niam ces yeej dawj tsis tau ob ceg li los mas tus viv ncaus. Yeej hais ncaj tias cov ntxhais yeej hlub dua.
Tau ib tug nyab poj laib ces kav liam os nws twb yug muaj tub thiab cia nws cov tub mam ua rau nws mas.. Hos tus tub ces yog av tawg pleb tawm los xwb os tsis muaj niam muaj txiv yug.
Cov niag niam thiab txiv hmoob hlub cov niag tub tsis paub muaj fij xws li no ces nyuam qhuav haum thiab xwb ,niag tub los xuab xuab tshaj plaws tsis muaj dabtsi los piv tau lawm ces nyob los nyag av xwb
Tej zaj neej neeg zoo2 li no yog tus muab tuaj ntawv ntawv ho tsis kam hais npe rau ib tsoom hmoob paub los mus ua kev kawm ces txhais tau tias dag xwb peb ua neej nyob tiam no yog ib tug neeg twb ua tsis yog zaum 1 zaum 2 lawm es tus tseem ntshai hais npe ces thov txhob muab tuaj tham saum huab cua no rau hmoob mloog lawm nawj tiam 21 no yuav tau tham qhov tseeb thiab qhov yog txhob ntshai tus neeg ua tsis yog ntawv yus thiaj ua tau 1 txoj kev kawm rau cov neeg xav ua zoo okay
That is what happens. Most of the son are like that. I feel bad for your parent and all the Hmong parents that love their sons like that. To all the Hmong parents please love your daughters same as your sons too.
kuv muaj nyiaj npaum cas tom bank los kuv tsis muab ua leej twg npe li kuv mam tso ua beneficiary rau lawv xwb kuv tuag ces kuv nyiam li cov Corona no xwb cia li mus nram Hospital rau tom cementary xwb as
Tsis to taub tias cas 1 co tub Nyab yuav khuj hij ua luaj tiag yom 3 li niam pog txiv yawg nrog 3 nyob dawb xwb as tab sis cov muam txhob txw txw 2 tug laus thiab ov
This story hits close to home. My parents do everything for their sons. May they never have to go through something similar because it doesn’t look so great right now. Shame on you parents who love and do everything only for your sons.
I'd blame the parents. They spoiled him too much in the begining. But it goes both ways- IF the parents treated the son like the daughters and made him step down on his women, they'd get a proper burial. I feel sorry for the everyone. This story gives me a heads up on how I should treat my kids. I see this alot- in some parents these days- some girls are too over spoiled- they don't know how to cook, clean, always waiting on thier parents even though they are in the mid-20s' and some boys soo over spoilled they let thier women wear the pants.
Hmoob cov niag funeral mas yeej ua ua pluag kiag tiag. Kuv xav tias yog hloom tau mas tsis txob muab ua tau tau li kom.. cov nyob tos qab mas pluag kiag li os..
Qhov ntaus ces yog tim koj niag nws ntag. Yog tias tim koj niag nyab ces hais tsis tau ces muab nrauj , los sis muab tej nyiaj rov twj ywm rau koj niam thiab txiv lawm. Koj niag nus twb yog tus me huam nab khuj noj khuj hau ntag tau kev twd lam liam rau niag nyab xwb.
Hey, qhiav koj tus me nyaj rau kuv sob. Kuv xav pom saib nwg zoo licas es nws lub nias siab yuav phem tshaj dab lawm thiab. Kuv tug pojniam wb yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta. Nwg pheej tsev nwg tej nyiaj rau nwg ob tug tub. Nwg tias nwg le yog nwg li. Kuv li yog wb ob leeg li. Nwg yuav tsev nwg li rau lwm hnub nwg yuav coj mus ua neej nrog nwg on tug tub. Kuv tias yog li ces sawb sim rov mus nrog nwg ob tug tub nyob ces nwg khiav lawm. Nwg muab nwg tej nyiaj rau nwg tus tub yau yuav tsev tag nwg mus nrog tsi tau nwg tug tub nyob. Nwg thov txais kuv nyiaj li $10,000 kuv tias wb tsi yog niamtxiv kuv txais tsi tau rau nwg. Thaum kawg nwg niaj hmo mus nightclub ces ho nrhiav dua txiv yuav lawm thiab. Cov neeg li no yuav tsawg tug txiv los tsi zoo dabtsi li os lawv.
Will he and his wife will get there turn down the road. They already have some kids on them. They will die without funeral service. The best way is Hmong write a well or trust. How you want your funeral done? Don't hand your money to one person. Now day you can not trust anybody.
