“I know I’m depressed what can they do give me vitamins?🤷🏾♀️” you can go to therapy get to the root of the problem and work through it. So delusional poor woman
shes literally acting like a 4 year old, standing on the box like a child sitting on their favorite toy so that their parents cant take it away from them
I see so much of my mother in Louise. It was NEVER her fault, it's always someone else's fault, and she cared far more about money and having things her way more than she did about her children or all the other friends and family she drove out of her life by acting like that. Yes, for the record we tried everything to help. If you can think of something to try, we tried it. My mom died alone in her hoard like she wanted. It literally took us 9 dumptrucks and a crew of 10 to clean out her house. I hope Louise manages to have an epiphany about her immaturity before she ends up like my mom.
Dont ignore how much actual good nutrition can help though. But I mean she has cancer so like... youre gonna be sad when you are sick sick. im not found of this person but depression is a c word.
Dr Heaton has much more patience than I would have with this very rude lady. I've had depression for almost thirty years. I take anti depressants to help me control it. I eat well, I exercise, I've had therapy. In other words, lady, I do things to help myself move forward.
Right and ? Some people have depression that is far worse than yours and they can't do anything to change, the simple fact that you were able to recognise you need help says that your illness wasn't as bad as some people
@@SergyMilitaryRankings you don't know that. You have no idea how bad it was, and I've been suicidal. But no matter how bad it gets, there are tiny windows of time when it's not as bad. Those are the points we need to utilise. My original point was that this lady is doing nothing to help herself. She may not feel able to right now, but there'll come a pint when she will. I wish her all the luck and support in the world.
@@itsacarolbthing5221 it's pretty obvious that there are others who have had worse depression than yours, (it's not a competition) unless you are seriously trying to imply that no one has had it as bad which is just wrong, also the simple fact that you were able to better yourself proves that yours was not as bad as some people's, as some are so far gone they require a lot of care among other things, so I think it's safe to assume that your depression isn't the worst anyone's ever experienced. But back to the discussion , again some people have it so bad that there is no points to utilise again you are judging depression from your own experiences when everyone's is different, in relation to how difficult they are to deal with, some are not as bad as yours, whilst some are far worse, again it's different for everyone, the point is just because you were able to do things to help yourself doesn't mean others could, everyone recovers at different times. And hoarding requires constant support and is one of the hardest to deal with because of the massive social stigma around it.
You have to want help in order to be helped. Even if that help comes by accident, you will only be changed by it if you accept it, not if it’s forced on you. I feel bad for this person, but objectively it makes a lot of sense why she would refuse help.
Hoarding is a form of OCD. You can't simply throw everything away and the hoarder will be all better. That can cause a hoarder to have a mental breakdown. It's a very serious mental health issue. It takes therapy and hard work to overcome hoarding.
So difficult to change for them. They rarely face the problem for the hoarding. They just want to throw it all. It’s sad. She has to get to the point of wanting to get help for depression.
You're going up against 2 hoarders and a whole Crappy Headquarters, And you send 1 therapist??? What you DO need to fix that is the police, an ARMY of maids, the construction workers and negotiators. 1 Therapist isn't going to fix THAT type of mess
It’s hard to face your issues and depression. My sister started after her husband’s death and her cancer diagnosis but in the end we cleaned after she passed away. I grieve for her loss and for her pain and living conditions.
My mom was a hoarder and it didn't matter if it was a piece of junk or trash because you'll be thrown out before it will if you try to put it out with the rest of the garbage.
You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. I can already see the steps she's going to take. 1 is she's going to lose the house. 2 she's going to lose whatever whatever she can salvage from the house. 3 she's going to start hoarding stuff on to other people's property. If she doesn't change soon she will be spending time in jail or a psychiatric hospital. So sad but so true.
I'm sorry but I couldn't help this woman, these people are saints for not getting extremely annoyed with her and walking out. Completely stubborn beyond any excuse.
she needs to it tho more than anyone really. we need to offer help as much as we can and hope she changes her mind. adam tho... she is a bad influence on him sadly
If that happened, it would make her even more depressed and before you know it, she would be living in an abandoned metal shed and would be hoarding nothing but garbage in it in order to feel safe.
Why on earth would you bring two young kids to this?!?! It’s so unsafe and the mum is so volatile it seems so irresponsible and dangerous to have them there and expose them to this shit.
@@chobers5659 if you could just burn your house to ground start fresh then you're not a hoarder, hoarders experience instense distress over the removal of a bit of paper, it's a mental illness, the point is these people don't choose to do this and they can't control how they feel
@@SergyMilitaryRankings It's ok, you don't need to explain. I wish I could start fresh, I didn't say I was capable. I doubt any hoarder is truly happy or at peace living in a state of disarray. I get it.
she obviously has mental health issues, once you develop depression you don’t care about that stuff anymore and and it can be incredibly difficult to do the simplest things, it’s also probably really embarrassing
@@aimee1123 I understand the depression but I think this is more than being depressed. She has an addiction. It's probably more complicated than I can imagine.
This was so hard to watch. I want to be furious with Louise but I know she’s suffering from a disease. I just wish someone or something could break through to her.
I don't believe I've EvER heard anyone say the Hoarder is hoarding to keep themselves safe. Seems like a bit of a contradiction considering how much danger she's putting herself in. Guess that's what the therapists are for.
To read the comments on a video like this of your family member is not a good idea. Remember this is someone’s mother, grandmother, loved one. She has since passed from breast cancer. A lot of you lack empathy and compassion. My grandmother was sick. Please try to be kind.
Adam was no different than his Mom. He's been a dumpster diving hoarder his entire life. Sadly his Mom Louise died in November 2015 two days before Thanksgiving. Adam ended up losing the house and is a total mess living at his youngest sister's house since then.
Hoarders rarely seek help or even admit they have a problem. They must be forced to deal with it. They should not present when items are being removed otherwise they will fight for their right to keep garbage.
Poor living hygiene that's why she got more depress because the mom she don't want to get rid all the garbage stuff so that her place organize and clean.
Wondered if they were going to have an episode filmed here in Oregon. We have a lot of hoarders here. In Washington state too. And wtf no not just vitamins for depression. It's called getting out and not hoarding making you more depressed
I think the solution for horders is to put them in a hotel for a few days finish the job and bring them back to a clean house it's useless to discuss anything with them.
You can't be more wrong. I'm not trying to be mean by my comment but that idea is a disaster to any hoarder and only leads to intensification of hoarding.
It is illegal. Even the government gives them an opportunity for clean up before going in and cleaning up, fines or taking property. Second, it doesn’t treat disorder and they just fill it up again. Third, it can lead to suicide or mental breakdown. So, the cleaners feel great but the hoarder still have the same problem.
@@claire040776 exactly. It's their way of coping with an underlying issue. Some people drink, some people do drugs. People deal with their problems differently. This problem is mental but doesn't mean she's crazy. It's usually brought on by depression usually from a huge loss in their life.
@@claire040776 I just hate to see people down on the lady because they won't try to understand. She's not lazy and she's not dirty, she's I'll. She can't help what's going on. Just like a person that has Alzheimer's, we should pity them, not make fun of them.,
I know its a mental issue but How can they help me with this giant stinking boil when I know it is a bacterial staph infection...give me a lightbulb..... makes about as much sense as the idea that since you know you are depressed that somehow makes it harder to deal with than a mystery...
You see individuals that are having a really strong mental issue with tossing things but logically when spoken to they do understand they can not live like this even if they dont know how to go about working through it. This case you have no mental ability to handle anything but also a total lack of logic and awareness of consequences so she has nothing at all to be motivated by. Shes just going to die clutching her trash alone. She may not be legally considered an adult based on her reactions. She is taking delight in causing stress and agitation and misery for others like she is winning something when the prize is homelessness and solitary death
I have many disorders I dont want to share with anyone else. I get where she is coming from but I would not give value to such a worthless item. I then love when I can say see we would've had to stop everything go in the car and spend money buying that when I saved it 6mo-1yr ago you said we'd never use that. Has is been a bother in the drawer no. Its when my basement is filled again because my girls moved out and left their stuff and baby stuff but now baby is 2 and I wanna get rid of the little baby stuff. I hate that the dump cost money and we need a truck. My husband hates spending money on those types of things.
