Hobbies That Make Men MORE Attractive? 

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The most attractive hobby for a man is not choosing your hobbies based on what is attractive.

For any dude out there watching this, dont gauge your hobbies based off of external validation. Find hobbies that are personally fulfilling to you. Theres nothing wrong with trying to increase your attractiveness but at the end of the day you should be investing in yourself and what makes you happy. There's someone out there that will like you for who you are, and building yourself to represent what others tell you will make you "more attractive" is a hollow path not worth walking. Chin up brothas

Cooking is a good hobby. When I was dating, I was flat broke and could not afford restaurants for dates. When I told the women I was dating, that I could cook for them at my apartment, they all dropped me like a hot stone when I explained my finances. I had one girl who took me up on my offer. We had a very nice chicken dinner with wine, soft music and good conversation. We celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary next year. BTW...my finances have greatly improved since then. I also play piano. I don't know a women out there who does not like a man who plays piano.

How the hell did musical talent not make it onto the list!?!? I played basketball for 10 years, never drew me interest from a girl. I’ve been into singing for only 10 months, and it’s been a different story

Hobbies and interests do make a man more attractive and diverse. If you do get into a relationship don't let the woman take your hobbies from you. So many men have had their hopes, dreams, and opportunities taken away by a relationship. Make sure the relationship compliments your life and is not your life. Also shopping and spending money isn't a hobby ladies.

Here's my two cents: I do believe that people are drawn to the feeling they get when they're in the presence of a passionate personality. I think it has less to do with the actual hobby itself, and more to do with how passionate or even obsessive the other person is about a certain topic. So don't go out there and get a random hobby just to attract people. Because unless you're REALLY passionate it won't count. No? Am I romanticizing it?? I might be...

00:00 Intro 00:45 Skillshare Ad 01:40 eHarmony Article Top 10 Hobbies 05:14 Top exercises to list 05:42 Speak another language 06:25 More stats 07:00 Article Conclusion 09:07 Courtney's Conclusion

You're absolutely right about people with no hobbies being unbelievably boring. For some reason finding women with a hobby that doesn't involve screens seems incredibly difficult.

Lack of hobbies has never been a problem for me. The fact her hobby, her only one, is shopping, however, is.

-Being rich -Having money -Working out/have a 6 pack -Traveling to bouji places and uploading to social media

I’ve had this issue where people tell me I’m doing too much. I’m super outdoorsy and love keeping my body in motion. Some of my hobbies include Jiu Jitsu, rock climbing, mountain biking, snowboarding, hunting and fishing. I also have a fulfilling career and side hustles that bring me happiness. When I’m not working, I’m either at the gym or spending time doing my hobbies. I don’t really do bars or nightlife so finding women that understand my lifestyle is hard. I live in a city so my lifestyle seems too active but when I’m out in my scene, I’m too much of a yuppy lol. It’s a weird spot that I’m in. I have learned to enjoy being by myself. I believe you’re only young once and your body is capable of so much. I don’t want to look back and say I wish I would’ve done this when I was young and strong. We live in a day and age where information and opportunity is all around us; Take advantage of that to learn and absorb as much as you can. I’ll save the book reading (I listen to audiobooks) and “Netflix and chill” for when I’m no longer able to move like I used to when I was 20. I don’t necessarily want a girl to enjoy the things I enjoy but understand that this is what keeps me sane and happy. Heck, maybe she can come tag along and enjoy things I enjoy doing and vice versa. Also, it probably doesn’t help that I’m 5’ 6” lol. But I check everything else I believe. And I would also say I’m a bit shallow when it comes to looks.

As a 49yo man I believe the list of what a women requires or wants continues to grow over the years while the opposite is true for men. As long as your nurturing, polite, look to be on my level looks wise ,"average" and I trust you is my requirements 😂 As for hobbies I had lots as a younger guy but as I get older I lose interest in many of my past hobbies. I do enjoy investing and exercise but travel is a no. However if I had a girl I would have no problem with taking her anywhere I just don't care to travel alone as a "hobby".

I share several of that list of hobbies you mentioned Courtney (travelling, exercising, dancing, cooking, politics, pets, photography and sports), but I also have quite a few geeky hobbies that have been heavily criticized by people over the years, like video games, comics and anime. I never gave a damn about others opinions regarding that. At some point I launched a website to publish news and opinion pieces about those geeky hobbies also including music, cinema, literature, etc. Later a girlfriend of mine told me I was wasting my time... She's no longer my partner, obviously, and that website not only made some money, it served as a portfolio for my last two jobs, both related to the entertainment industry (organizing comic book conventions and writing for an anime streaming service). I also have a wife that shares most of my geeky hobbies. Never let anyone go after you because of your hobbies.

I really enjoy your channel! I don't use it for dating advice. Most of your advice are great ideas for self improvement and I apply that. I'm very empathetic, so I enjoy learning from others and what their perceptions are. Your advice really helps me understand what I need to work on for myself.

I’m surprised that something involving music wasn’t on the list. Either singing or playing an instrument gives a huge boost to a man. My father was a professionally trained opera singer and there were women throwing it at him right in front of my mother. When I was in high school, I had girls call my house and ask if I was home just to hear my dad’s voice. His accent didn’t hurt any too. They knew I was at football practice but they still called anyway.

As long as u have a hobby, that alone is considered attractive. It does not have to be smth that a woman MUST LIKE in order for her to view it as attractive.

But the most important thing is, that your hobby brings you joy and not how attractive it makes you

I'm a huge car guy, well automotive I should say, anything having to do with cars, trucks motorcycles and racing in general, and that definitely helps within the community itself, but starting to venture out and incorporating that with other hobbies like traveling, making videos documenting such and I make money from doing so as well so thank you for putting it out there that having something that you enjoy that also makes you money is just as good as the ones listed

As a guy I find a girl who is busy working and bettering herself to be the most attractive. Bonuses are if she can cook and clean. But 100% a girl that isn’t caught up in the modern day to day bull crap and media and staying home and being on the internet is HUGE deal for me

Writing is a big hobby of mine. It's a way for me to be creative and tell the kind of stories I'd want to read but can't find other places. My other big hobby is whisky collecting. It's something I enjoy in moderation, but the whole process of distilling and how a whisky is shaped by the area it comes from is fascinating to me.

Most women I meet in person did not really care about my hobbies. They were more interested in telling me their hobbies.

Courtney I was once a full time musician and i did attract many women. My frustration with it was though it was my job, they saw me as a muse or novelty. It was great being able to pull some babes & really helped me figure out looks are looks and nothing more.

My top 3 as a guy (i like doing them): 1 Photography (not for the socialis, but for the creative aspect of it). 2 Cardio: Running/walking in the nature, expecially in the countryside. 3 Learning about... everything? I use many tools for that, RU-vid, books, or internet in general.

I wish women realized how attractive it is for women to have interesting hobbies. Based on dating profiles I've come across, travel, drinking, and brunch seem to be the only things women are interested in.

As a man I care whether or not a woman has hobbies, interests and passions. It doesn't matter a whole lot to me what they are as long as she has some. For me, music is the love of my life. I love a woman who also shares a love and knowledge for music.

The main problem why dating is messed up is because of social media. Cause before social media, both men and women had a realistic approach towards each other. Where as today, there are some extremely good looking guys on tiktok or Instagram which is not the main problem, the main problem is that those “good looking” guys are only like 2-3% out of 100% and 90-95% women are aiming for top 2-3% men (even the unattractive ones) which is an absolute nightmare for 5/10 or below looks guys. And over 80% of us are ignored

For me - A woman interested in exercise and good nutrition is an indicator that she has a positive self image (or at least working towards it), is less likely to suffer from depression, less prone to disease of all types, and can go on fun outings/travel in the world without becoming easily fatigued. It demonstrates she has done her research about health & fitness which typically indicates a higher average intelligence. It shows an understanding of delayed gratification, and not afraid of tackling hardship in a constructive and methodical manner.

I started ballroom and swing dancing over the past year and a half. I have always liked dancing, but was always a bit shy about it when I was younger. Part of that is because people my age at the time really only knew how to club dance and that wasn't my jam. Now I am either training with my coaches or social dancing 3 to 4 times a week. I am meeting tons of people and I really hope to meet a nice girl who shares this passion with me.

Oh trust me, even just cooking for a girl as a first date is a lot of fun. I've been with some girls that couldn't cook nearly as good as me and I've dated some girls that liked to cook beside me and it sure is a skill in which I'm thankful to my mother and grandmother for getting me started at the age of 7

Courtney, I have a few random thoughts WRT this video. One, I think you're right about Eharmony having an older demographic; I think that they're also more serious about finding a serious relationship and marriage. Two, outdoor interests could cover a LOT of territory! Boating, fishing, camping, motorcycling, bicycling, and kayaking could all be considered outdoor interests. Three, I've been in to motorcycles for ages; I've loved them ever since I could remember. I not only ride my bike; I work on it too. As a retired guy, doing most of the maintenance work myself is the only way I can afford to keep a bike and stay retired. Besides, if I do the work, then I know it was done right... :)

I tell my Nephew (since he was about 10yrs old now, 18).... Nicholas, learn to dance, learn to cook, learn to Dress sharp, be a Gentleman, and above all never stop learning or being curious. He is presently in a top Engineering school, dabbles in cooking, works-out and I'm immensely Proud of Him!!

I think your channel will reach 500k subscribers by the end of this year because you have such great content. Other RU-vidrs are complaining they are losing viewers because the RU-vid algorithm changed this year and hard to get viewers now. I don't think that algorithm is true because your channel is going fast and proves it wrong. Good job, Courtney.

If old age,medical and physical problems ever become attractive,I will finally meet someone👍🏻

Has a single dad with sole custody of my daughter, I had to hone my cooking skills. My daughter grown-up. I still love to cook, and I am my favorite cook. And I love studying languages, and practicing Arabic and Spanish.

I like going to cultural events like theatres, films and concerts. I used to be a reasonably good cook (haven't cooked much lately, lol). I'm knowledgeable about politics. I had a phase where I wrote about 100 poems. I've recited some of those on stage. I like watching sport, and visiting sporting events. I have travelled quite a bit in the past. This has helped me in my dating life, because my broad range of interests has resulted in me being able to propose interesting dates. I lived in dublin, Ireland for thirteen years. I spent a fair bit of time getting to know the city by going by myself to plays, movies, restaurants, sporting venues, bars (especially those with live music), concert halls, and sporting venues. As a result, when I asked women out on dates, I always had a wide range of entertainment options I could suggest for dates. This definately made women more interested in spending time with me. I also cooked some Indian food for a french woman I was seeing for about one and a half years, on, I think, our third or fourth date. I made sure it was mild enough for her liking. She ended up really appreciating it.

2nd date with my wife in college- I cooked dinner for us and it was TERRIBLE. Got much better over the years but I’m sure it scored me points back then 😂😂😂

I feel like dating apps limiting the amount of hobbies you can select is really a hinderance. I do a lot and limiting to 5 sometimes means I have to choose between what hobbies will make me seem attractive and what hobbies will attract the kind of people I’m looking for. I’m an athletic guy but I’m looking for someone more on the nerdy side and striking that balance without feeling superficial seems impossible.

I'm stunned that "playing a musical instrument" isn't on there

Courtney I just want to say, you’re videos have helped me so much to grow as a person and understand women better. Thank you so much for making videos like these ❤❤

“It’s like talking to a doorknob”...!!! 😂😂😂. You always make the most ridiculous analogies, and I love them 🙌🏽🤗

I've always kept my hobbies close to me because they are a part of who I am and how I view myself. I'm always learning new skills to better myself and always looking for new interests because I might grow old of my current hobbies and want to explore new ones in the future. Not shocked that #1 and #2 are exercise and traveling because women are attracted to physically fit men who are well rounded with the world.

My hobbies are cooking, baking, drawing, painting, learning languages, swimming and workouts

I’m sooo happy I found your channel ❤ I really need this guidance on how to be more attractive and dress better and all round bettering myself. You’re very good at this.

I Paint miniatures as one of my hobbies, and i get always a positive response from a girl. I believe it is because its a creative hobby, and challenging because they are really small.

I am current in the process of getting my pilots license and when I mention that to women that I meet they are fairly intrigued. Problem is that flying is an expensive hobby so it’s not accessible to everyone. My opinion is men should have multiple hobbies, especially those you listed in the video. Hobbies for both genders can signify the kind of person they are. A man who travels a lot, plays rugby and has a dog can signify to a woman that this man is a risk taker who’s athletic but is also family oriented. As a man, what I do find to be attractive in women is a woman who can cook, likes to read and wants to take care of herself in the form of exercise. Instagram is a good background check for men to use because it can show what most women’s hobbies are. What is most certainly unattractive for a man to see is a girl who’s interest is to be in the clubs all the time and posting thirst traps on her social media.

Back in 2012, I took up Argentine Tango and, in my humble opinion, became a pretty good dancer. At the time, I was going through a divorce and that helped me get through the stress and sadness. Typically, women out number men three or four to one. I like that ratio! Women dig a guy that can dance or at least put forth the effort to give it a try.

Haven’t even started the video but mixed martial arts or really any martial art is probably the best. I had no game at all when I was younger but always got away with it because girls loved my favorite hobby. Plus it’s an extremely effective form of exercise so I always had low body fat % which is a big help when it comes to attractiveness, especially since my genetics are average at best

Dive into a hobby that let's you express your creativity over time, like playing an instrument, mastering a skill like making furniture, it works like a magnet. Great video btw ;)

I have two strange hobbies: collecting Vinyl records and being a movie buff. Those probably rank pretty low, but it’s what i enjoy. Great video Courtney!!!

I think the Thetre thing is just about the fact that lots of women have a fantasy about dating a sensitive, emotional, romantic artist type. Someone who lists Thetre, Poetry, Painting, etc. is tapping into this belief that this man will be more romantic.

I have never lacked hobbies. I've turned some of my hobbies into business opportunities. I enjoy reading, photography, computer programming, exercising, hiking, skating, sports, building things, playing music, singing, cooking, etc. When I ask someone if they have any hobbies and they don't; that seems very foreign to me. I don't know what or where I would be without them. Bored outta my mind that's for sure lol!

Here are mine: 1. Pilates twice a week 2. Miata Car Club- twice monthly 3. Record collector - I make a trip twice a month or whenever I’m near a shop. I love music, played saxophone for 20 years. 4. Film buff 5. Theatre and Musicals/Concerts 6. Motorcycle rides- on a hiatus for now, but I lived on a motorcycle daily for 20+ years 7. Cooking- I cook at least once a day. 8. Mountain Biking- once a week or more often- trails next to my house 9. Was big into dancing in clubs, but now that I’m older, I don’t enjoy the younger crowds. BTW younger people in general have no moves. I stopped a few years ago, but I’d happily go back with girlfriends.

I have a full range of hobbies, but my main ones are art, design, martial arts as well as video games. I've honestly never had any woman have an issue with the fact that I like to play video games, and I think it's because I like to do other things and not just that. Any woman who does take issue is likely basing it off a previous relationship where they had no balance in their life. but otherwise most women don't mind it at all.

I love drawing, and now that I know how to do it it helps me cope. It helps me feel better and not stress.

My life has been endless hobbies, anything hands on and Im all over it, molding casting/mixed media highly detailed sculpture, fine woodworking, artistic metal work, interior design and construction, stone masonry, a full time tattoo artist. Its always been very meditative and therapeutic I switch off and create, researching, visualizing, planning, problem solving, improvising, nit picking down to the finest details that only I would notice, I live for it. If my hands or eyes were taken away Id likely throw myself off a high bridge in short order....my wife would understand 😅. Hobbies cleanse the mind and free the soul.

Definitely strength sports. Lots of girls love that I train strongman both conventional and old school, and even just the hobby of being able to fix things and build things, which includes cars and houses because they are useful. I even had an ex that was turned on by my tailoring skills when I fixed an old nightgown of hers and made it fit her better. The more capable you are, and the more useful you are the more attractive you are, and, you can even say: the more confident you become

37 years old . I play piano, guitar, ride bmx, skateboard, snowboard, disc golf and other lil things. When im single i love having time to do these things. When im in a relationship i enjoy being with someone but also don't have the time to enjoy my hobbies.

jesus christ how many times i was on a date or i was texting a girl and when i asked her what's her hobby or generally what's she's interested in she answered "emm nothing" like girl wtf are you doing in your free time, staring at a wall ?!

I would never rate myself from 1-10 because it would be a biased judgement, but one of the reasons why I loved this video so much is because I finished it feeling like perhaps I should be confident about being a 10! (selfish reasons, I know. 😂) Jokes aside, I must say the video was great and very informative. Also, it certainly was reassuring about myself and my choices as a man. I happen to cultivate almost all the listed hobbies in this video. Being Scot-Irish/Portuguese genetically, but growing up in Latin America definitely gave me a very broad perspective in life along with a true unique accent on top of allowing me to speak basically 4 languages. Yep, pure luck there, mate! Now, what really surprised me is the fact that playing an instrument or having musical abilities never popped up as a sexy hobby. It was also interesting to see that how cooking was rated in terms of it being a sexy hobby in the US. Back in my country, if a man offers to cook for a lady and he does it well, it is something big whereas in the US, girls seemingly don’t care so much about it. Strangely, when it comes to matters of politics though, here in the US I always seem to attract ladies who think completely different than how I think politically. I guess being a foreigner softens the intensity of an argumentative situation, but 9 out of 10 American ladies I’ve dated happened to think different than how I think politically. I’ve always been respectful regarding their opinions, but at the same time I do not hold myself back. I respectfully, yet vehemently, disagree with their ideas about their political ideology. Now as a personal opinion, I find intelligence to be an irresistible trait in women. As my grandpa used to say: “Books with beautiful covers don’t always make you feel like going into the second page.” Great video as always, Courtney! Thank you!

Similarly i do think women that have hobbies are more attractive. When I say hobbies, I am referring to active hobbies like doing sports (playing sports or become coaches), fitness, martial arts, arts (dancing, stage play, painting, etc), community service, volunteering in the community, gardening, etc. Not passive hobbies like watching sports as spectators in the venue or TV, binge watching on the couch, food hunting, shopping, afternoon tea with friends, etc. IMO active hobbies increase one's value; passive hobbies decrease one's worth.

Theatre is probably listed because it indicates the man has more disposable income. Theatre tickets are not cheap, so making it a hobby indirectly says you have money.

My hobbies are going to classic car shows with my classic car, shoot guns, play pool, video games, saving money, detail cleaning cars and houses, playing with dogs, skiing, going to movies, going to parks and walking around. I’m age 50 and women within 5-10 years of me all they talk about is going on trips to other countries, I’m not doing any of that until I’m older. I’m not paying for any trips. My X wife her hobbies were sitting in back yard doing nothing all day, boring! I don’t do any of my hobbies around women if they don’t like them, they might not even know I like video games or playing pool. I try to find common activities to do together.

1. TRAVELING 2. SECOND LANGUAGE (or more) 3. MUSICAL INTERESTS (the broader, the better) 4. BEING ACTIVE (but not overly focused on sports) 5. BEING HANDY (big turn on when a woman shows interest and can actually work WITH me on projects)

4:12 I met a woman this summer who was obviously swooning over me, until I told her I was Pro-Life. I watched the attraction literally drain from her face 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have principles

Hey Courtney, I'm a 60+ man, who has spent enormous amounts of time on dating sites. Here are my instant turn offs. Especially if several of these items show up in a cluster: travel abroad, fine dining, wineries, theater, living in an expensive part of town, season tickets to sports team games, weekends in BnBs. All these are very expensive activities. Almost as bad is a woman who lists: needlepoint, quilting, baking dessert, antiquing, shopping, horses, motorcycles, domestic travel to expensive sites. What is most attractive is a woman who has a mixture of things like domestic travel, family events, camping, day trips, DIYs, normal pets, gardening, cards, dancing, watching both new and old movies, politics, museums, and countless other similar interests. The WORST bio is a woman that wants to go to expensive destinations, see Broadway shows, fine dining, box tickets at a sports event, with off track betting. What I am saying is that many women make unrealistic profiles and are not wanting a mix of interests, at various price points. Many women follow their profiles about if you voted this way or that way, or you support a Supreme Court decision, or have some other perceived character flaw don't respond. I think the world has all gone crazy. All I want is a normal woman.

My hobby is martial arts. I always thought of it being an excellent hobby because of the self improvement and self empowerment aspects of it. It eventually becomes a way of life.

Courtney, Definition of Hobby as someone below rightly pointed out is investing your leisure time(after fulfilling basic needs or if you remain idle) in what makes you Happy... ❤

Nothing reminds me that I'm going to die alone quite like one of Courtney's videos...

Aside from attraction, if you (yes you Americans) can speak multiple languages you also increase your dating pool options. Even basic understanding of another language is a good ice breaker. *this is especially true if you are in a larger city or in a border state.

Politics surprised me (so did theatre). Maybe because of what happened in recent years I believe. The most recent date I had (met via tinder) was definitely into politics, which was a good thing for me, since we agreed on a lot of issues, although I'm a little more open minded than her. She was also really surprised at how well I can cook (first date was at my place). Also it's nice to have a scientific explanation on why us guys generally look for women who are physically active and health conscious. As someone who workout, I can't find myself dating someone who is overweight and lazy. Ijs 🤷🏿‍♂️

Hobbies, photography and skating. Lol my friends think it's stupid of me that I bought a pair of inline skates at the age of 51. Picked up both to deal with a loss.

Always excited to see a notification from Courtney! 🎉

No hobby will make you more attractive than fitness. It develops not just the physical but characterological attributes women are looking for. Reading is another good one so when you meet a girl you actually have something to say!

I would think. 1. Travel - For Me I would rather give my money to less fortunate individuals than travel more important to me. 2. Exercise - I do exercises but I need to not keep getting sore but to eventually get a chiseled body all around and six pack abs. 3. Theatre - I don’t get as much still but I have other things going on like my Independence & trying to do music, and film, and modeling eventually. 4. Theatre Arts Of Dancing - I had learned Hairspray dance moves almost for each scene but I did learn to do normal dancing even back then my friends would ask me how did I learn to create my own style of dancing I just did still do to this day from age 12-25. 5. Cooking - I like to cook food on an oven more than making food in a microwave. 6. Outdoor Activities - I love to find new places and time photographs of the place especially when it’s in nature more or hiking trails or oceans love oceans. or if I like a place a lot then I’ll use it as a filmmaking spot or to be put in a film. 7. Politics - I will never agree w/ Politics unless if people that are in it will change if not then that’s a problem I cannot fix because if I don’t agree with it then that means I don’t have to be involved because most of it not all it but now it is bullshit in chef salad I got that from a movie don’t ask me where I found that line from what movie if anyone know then great and if not that’s okay too but I honest opinion about Politics it could be different but the issue is playing fire with fire. So what’s the point if you’re re gas lighting more of fire from another side and your adding onto t and nothing frets done it’s like trying to win a war with guns against guns it’s basically coming down to others that would kill other people because our views on Politics that’s why for my reason I don’t have any view on it because it turns people against others that’s not right it human society it’s exactly that way it’s destructive and and violent I don’t care for those things I just want for their to peace, care for one another, equal rights for everyone out there, and have it be a better place than it being the way it is now. 8. Animals- Love Animals Cats and Dogs both used to work w/ animals volunteered for 7/and a half years when I did. 9. Photography - I certainly do Photography when I feel like when I see a new place for the first time or if I see a beautiful moon, or sunset I will try to capture it by my camera and then it’s taken then I edit it and finish it, post it if I want to on my Instagram. 10. Sports - Not anymore I used to but I have damaged my feet enough times to know to not do them because their is sometimes loosing balance and re-straining my feet again or my ankles more so yeah have to be careful. 11. Like Languages and accents - I know a little bit of Spanish but I’d like to learn more. 12. Filmmaking - It’s a great one and I know can be a job. 13. Artwork - I think it should be on the list or as a job. 14. Music - Should that be on the list I do it all the time like all the time.

I think I’m doing well haha. I love to work, travel, play music, work on cars, invest, fitness and other hobbies too.

Wow! As a 61 year old divorced man living in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico as a retired Expat, I can vouch for this list. Women from 20 to 70 love all the aforementioned hobbies and interests that they find attractive, but alas, complain about so few expat men compared to the large expat female community. Those few of us that are single and active can expect lots of female attention.

May God sweep me off the surface of this earth if I ever choose my hobbies based on whether they make me interesting to others.

Its all about being passionate. A man with a strong passion towards something makes him more attractive.

1- Weight lifting 2- MMA / Fighting systems 3- cooking 4- Anything with a sharp blade, cutting wood, knife throwing, hatchet throwing etc. 5- Shooting a pistol, rifle, shotgun etc these reek of masculinity

Hobbies in general are very attractive to me, although I can’t find myself in this particular list. I’m very proud of the hobbies I do. The only thing I could find myself in in this list is working out. Furthermore I really love to restore and repair old farm and construction equipment. I just love the way they work and it gives me good skills to fix mechanical stuff. I’ve learned to rebuild engines and transmissions. I also love to fabricate stuff from metal for my home ore garden. I would absolutely love to learn how to blacksmith. I really don’t care if my hobbies make me attractive ore not. I really just love what I do

Have a fun hobby and have her involved with you.

The last woman I dated didn't like when I told her that I often go camping alone because either I'll get married some day or I won't. If I do, I'll probably have to give it up. If I don't, then this is it. She said marriage shouldn't be a matter of having to give up things. I wanted to say "It's just giving up."

Not many years ago I met a woman and asked her what she did in her spare time. She said that she didn't do much, mainly worked and then came home and "laid around and watched Netflix. Sometimes go to the store to buy cigarettes". I asked her if that was all she did, lay-around and watch movies and TV shows and she confirmed. I couldn't resist and said, "wow, that's really dangerous. Smoking and being sedentary, you don't have any interest in getting out and moving your body?". Never heard from her again, LOL.

I don't see exercise as a hobby. It's something you do for health, strength, and maybe aesthetics. My hobbies include things like knife collecting, archery, axe throwing, shooting (don't do this as often as I would like), and sewing. Knife collecting is hit and miss as far as if it is attractive to women, some like it and it scares some away. The sewing gets mixed reviews as well. The rest are definitely more favorable to most women.

This is fine... EXCEPT in my 40+ years of dealing with females in EVERY single relationship I had the hobbie might have been attractive, but they ALL tried to get me to stop my hobbies because they said it took time away from them...🙄

I have apparently been making women swoooon my whole life with how I treat them but they never tell me and I require establishing friendships first before pursuing potential more intimate relationship, but women end up resenting me because I'm not 'moving fast enough' for them and they feel rejected because I'm not like every other guy trying to get in their pants as fast as possible. Always explicit that I don't date and just want to hang out and get to know, and yet still, at least a dozen times through life, if not 2x, if I'm not pursuing them romantically on their schedule, they get hurt/lose interest because I'm not giving them what they want when they want it.

That's spot on. As a man who's into fitness and traditional family values. I do find it attractive when a woman is into health and family.

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as a musician, I feel left out ☹️ guess I’ll go write a song about it now

Fascinating! I used to workout religiously, I'm fluent in German, I fix things around the house, I play guitar and was in a band...I cooked dinner for my now wife on our second date, and it wasn't just spaghetti, love my kids, and we traveled the world, had a military career... (she still hates me)...guess it's because i'm not 6' tall,... fml

You left out something important. A good way to get a message or start a conversation is to pick out a hobby or interest that the girl has, that you do not have or are willing/eager to learn and share together. This type of thing can precipitate the start of the conversation and possibly, a fun and different idea for one of the first several dates. Just my 2 cents..

I do martial arts (which keeps me fit) and im also a car enthusiast and mechanic (my job as well as hobby). I had the second passion before, but I barely attracted girls. When i started doing the first, I met more women in one year than the prior 10, lol.

If D & D isn’t on this list I’m screwed.

Great video. I’m 55 and I think I understand women more since I have been subscribed to this channel than I ever have been ‼️. Thank you for the information ‼️🙏💯

I have a gripe with listing travelling as a hobby because some people use that as a personality trait. I mean, most people enjoy experiencing new adventures, but not everyone has the financial means to do so. I'm surprised reading didn't make the cut, but I guess that just speaks to how few people actually active read.

You always make interesting videos and I congratulate you on your honesty, about how women perceive men physically. As this is something that a lot of men don't really understand properly. I'm 55 and divorced and took a good look at myself in the mirror after I got back in the dating game. As, I had honestly let myself go from my mid 30's after being active and playing rugby since I was young. So, i went on a mission to better myself, lost weight and started to dress better and look after myself on all levels. And everything changed for me in all aspects of my life. One thing that does happen when you age. Is, your perception of women and what you are looking for in them changes. As the girl with the killer body isn't at the top of the list anymore. As, it becomes more of an emotional & intellectual connection than ones physical appearance. Its not settling for less. Its actually the total opposite, as attractiveness is now being found on different levels. thanks for posting the video.

As a musician, I find women are attracted to this, even if it's not your career or side hustle. Most women are into music so if you can serenade a girl with guitar, piano or whatever you might play, I think that will give you bonus points. In general, any hobby that demands time, effort and discipline will make any person more attractive. I've had experiences where women have told me nothing interests them and it's the biggest turn off, no matter how physically attractive she is. Just my thoughts on the this topic, great video!

Just today a woman told me I'm full of surprises - and in hindsight it's true. I have talents, many of them. However I'm kind of oblivious to that fact,and if asked "so what are you into" my mind could go BLANK even though in fact I have special abilities. So I'm thinking taking a personality quiz could be handy to better know/assess oneself... and also to come up with interesting questions and angles to give her a chance to find something to talk about herself.

Good points about women not being attractive when they don't have hobbies. Their way of showing that they don't have hobbies is to state that they like vacation trips, restaurants, bars, and clubs. The best part of the video is where you stress how important it is to do the things you love and find someone who can get with that.