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@averya.8622
@averya.8622 4 года назад
Sounds like a pretty methed up situation
@Bk1geny
@Bk1geny 3 года назад
Someone had to say it🤣
@mayilla8462
@mayilla8462 3 года назад
😂😂
@tajali8001
@tajali8001 3 года назад
Oh my god hahaha 😆
@roderickhockaday5715
@roderickhockaday5715 3 года назад
Mike Tyson, is that you?! 😅
@ruxp12
@ruxp12 3 года назад
Got emzzzz
@MrEherndon5
@MrEherndon5 8 лет назад
Drugs. Your sister squanders her money on drugs. Just say it, "my sister is a drug addict"
@shaochiavang
@shaochiavang 8 лет назад
+Emerson Herndon No, she said cigarette and soda. lol
@MrEherndon5
@MrEherndon5 8 лет назад
shaochia vang oh yeah. Lol she's not in denial at all ha
@Rome3aaro
@Rome3aaro 6 лет назад
Facts!!
@lenas5613
@lenas5613 5 лет назад
ZERO she can or should do. Life is life.
@johnsmith-zx5er
@johnsmith-zx5er 5 лет назад
might not be drugs. literally 100 other things it could be when speaking of the mentally ill
@ocky88
@ocky88 6 лет назад
"I have never seen her brush her teeth. Ever." God, that is heartbreaking. And yes, she needs a payee.
@jasonn1716
@jasonn1716 5 лет назад
“We’re twins, I’m 38... and she’s ...... 38!
@wisnoskij
@wisnoskij 4 года назад
I wonder how many twins were born in separate years.
@johnhodgson9631
@johnhodgson9631 4 года назад
@@wisnoskij , good question.
@arthurvasey
@arthurvasey 4 года назад
One can be born a bit before midnight on December 31st 2019 and the other on January 1st 2020 - never mind different years - different decades - as for twins, one of which born before midnight on December 31st 1999 and the other on January 1st 2000 - different years, different decades, different centuries and different millennia!
@dancer1
@dancer1 4 года назад
Jonathon Wisnoski there can be twins born in separate years based on if both specimens were frozen and one was fertilized one year and one the next
@bonitaohyea9258
@bonitaohyea9258 4 года назад
@@wisnoskij actually more than you can imagine. A friend of mine has twins in different years and centuries; one born Dec 30, 1979 and the other Jan 1, 1980.
@s1234pro
@s1234pro 5 лет назад
You can't help someone that doesn't want help.
@lakewoodsteve5028
@lakewoodsteve5028 5 лет назад
The most relevant comment so far! Live with it!
@kimmyymmik
@kimmyymmik 5 месяцев назад
100 percent. My mother has schizophrenia and she has help! But doesn’t want it.
@Coananlover
@Coananlover 4 года назад
The caller seems like a really good sister. She really seems to understand and genuinely care about her sister. I cant imagine how hard it is to see a loved one spiral like that and be able to do nothing to help her.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Год назад
Your relatives don't listen to you. I fought like a dog to outlive my mom so my brother wouldn't get all the money. He just asked me what year we went skiing in austria. I told him not to go but to put the money on his mortgage which is still very high. He just makes excuses. He thinks he is Frugal but he eats lunch out everyday. I don't think most people can see their own behavior
@litigioussociety4249
@litigioussociety4249 5 месяцев назад
​@@georgewagner7787Frugal can mean making do with less. Someone who gets a kids meal for lunch everyday could be considered frugal; however, I suspect you mean someone who often pays 10 dollars just for lunch everyday.
@nicholasblackwell3343
@nicholasblackwell3343 3 года назад
Dave's often at his best in dire situations.
@jaybenekin
@jaybenekin Год назад
“I’m a single mom of 5” yet you have time to concern yourself with what your sister does with her inheritance? I don’t get it. It’s her business if she wants to squander it or invest it! This lady should be focusing or HER 5 CHILDREN! I’m sure her own life is just perfect!
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 6 месяцев назад
Exactly. And she's manipulative to boot! It's only now that she suddenly grows a heart and wants to declare her sister a mental case to control her.
@user-pd5vl4lr5p
@user-pd5vl4lr5p 5 месяцев назад
She cares about her sister and wants to help her, and I am sure it doesn't affect her children in any way. My sister is schizophrenic and (when having an episode) has done and said nasty things, but we still try to help her. It's easy to walk away from the mentally ill, or write them off, which is why so many end up on the streets.
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 5 месяцев назад
@@user-pd5vl4lr5p sounds more like she just wants to keep the $ for herself under the guise of helping.
@user-pd5vl4lr5p
@user-pd5vl4lr5p 5 месяцев назад
@@Excalibur2 The executor of the will is in charge, not her. Either way, you can only help people if they accept the help.
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 5 месяцев назад
@@user-pd5vl4lr5p that's true. I'm not sure either of them are in good enough shape, it's like the blind leading the blind
@karlashmeedavlasta6365
@karlashmeedavlasta6365 5 лет назад
Wanted to see my brother win - failed. Wanted to see my father win - failed. Wanted to see my mother win - failed. Failing made my life feel bad. Now I want to win in my own life ...this is what I came here for.😄
@lakewoodsteve5028
@lakewoodsteve5028 5 лет назад
I feel your pain having watched most of my childhood friends O.D & kill themselves!
@karlashmeedavlasta6365
@karlashmeedavlasta6365 5 лет назад
@@lakewoodsteve5028 I feel sorry for you...when everybody one loves and you rely on gets taken its hard to find sense in your own life...After a death of a loved one life will never be the same...it was only my faith in Jesus Christ who pushed me through this times. Others blame GOD for their losses, but fortunately I could surrender to him and let him help me. I also always could see it was not GOD taking them, it was themselfes taking them out with their careless behaviour. Very sad to watch this and cannot change the direction and outcome. Stay strong and feel your heart...
@lakewoodsteve5028
@lakewoodsteve5028 5 лет назад
I don't know what happened ? But continuing, My devout christian wife died 5 years ago and thanks to Jesus we'll meet again soon and that's the main point! This short life is only a test. God has been too good to me & my wife! God bless you Karla! Steve
@gregschaust4298
@gregschaust4298 4 года назад
@@karlashmeedavlasta6365 Never give up. Succeed for yourself. Make those that are gone smile down on you, and those that are still around proud of you. It is what drives me in my life after much loss.
@Evil-Rod-Farva
@Evil-Rod-Farva 3 года назад
Keep pushing forward and pursue excellence in your life. I come from poverty and will never look back. Unfortunately one of the hardest things to accept in life is that you can’t save everyone. Be a good influence to your family and if they want to follow, they will.
@throwaybye6173
@throwaybye6173 4 года назад
This poor woman and her poor sister. Seriously this is sad.
@justinneilsonn2665
@justinneilsonn2665 5 лет назад
"She squanders it on cigarettes.. and, ya know . Soda."
@jakeleisure8326
@jakeleisure8326 4 года назад
Haha, baking soda maybe 😏
@buzzthreads1
@buzzthreads1 4 года назад
a.k.a coke lol
@TravelStephanie
@TravelStephanie 3 года назад
Coke
@keviiinramaaaage7650
@keviiinramaaaage7650 4 года назад
There's only one thing I know of that makes you lose your teeth that fast and it is called smoking methamphetamine. She ain't spending a whole disability check on soda and cigarettes she's spending it on glass pure and simple.
@Songbird36able
@Songbird36able 3 года назад
She knows that. She's in serious denial. It might hurt to bad for her to say and admit it.
@ricktrombley5235
@ricktrombley5235 3 года назад
Idk if you actually never brush your teeth I could see it
@ronnieking3848
@ronnieking3848 3 года назад
There are actual diseases that make you lose your teeth.
@melb2734
@melb2734 9 месяцев назад
Being homeless and not taking care of your teeth also REALLY does not help. Giving homeless people dental hygiene products can be a great gift.
@magicfairy7805
@magicfairy7805 7 месяцев назад
Pregnancy can do it too
@pps076reviews2
@pps076reviews2 4 года назад
I’ve lost 2 inheritances that were meant to be mine. Both were through deceit and manipulation. Can’t trust anyone when it comes to large sums of money
@jeffsmith8066
@jeffsmith8066 4 года назад
In the same boat. Money definitely brings out the bad in some people
@utmax8522
@utmax8522 4 года назад
I know this comment is old, but I'm curious. Hope did they take it from you?
@jeffsmith8066
@jeffsmith8066 4 года назад
@@utmax8522 my case was my uncle was made trustee and spent it all on his own investments
@jeffsmith8066
@jeffsmith8066 3 года назад
@A H we settled outside of court recently. He got a loan that paid it back + interest. Had to threaten to sue to get there
@Piggyy33
@Piggyy33 Год назад
I could smell the greed of the caller.
@aka1boi
@aka1boi 4 года назад
An inheritance claimed too soon will not be blessed at the end. - Proverbs 20 verse 21
@kimscriber8408
@kimscriber8408 8 лет назад
Rebecca my heart goes out to you and your sister. You don't have to enable her to love her. Don't abandon her emotionally. Finacially keep your purse tightly shut but be there for her to cry to about it. Good luck
@DarkStarAZ
@DarkStarAZ 4 года назад
@Robert Adkins Have her live with you so she can pawn everything in your house.
@dariocastro-lopez3589
@dariocastro-lopez3589 4 года назад
@Robert Adkins she is on welfare. Nobody starves in the US not even illegal aliens. There is food banks and other stuff. Plus food isn't that expensive.
@Josh-by9fv
@Josh-by9fv 3 года назад
A great heartfilled message
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 лет назад
My brother is similar--head injured, alcoholic and lived in a homeless camp for years. Because he was going to die out there, I convinced my mother to let him live in her garden shed--he won't live in a house. I was going to get him special housing but he wouldn't cooperate long enough--after I put in a lot of effort to find him something he refused. My mother thinks he's okay to manage the half a million dollars she plans to leave him, but he'll give it away or lose it. For instance, he recently gave his debit card to a woman he met on a beach. He can't manage his bank account, use a computer or get the messages off his cell phone. He can't remember or learn anything because of the brain injury and years of drinking. I gave up trying to help. Sometimes there's no good answer.
@joiab11
@joiab11 5 лет назад
I'm sorry to hear that Elizabeth. That must be so difficult for you.
@LittleHatori
@LittleHatori 4 года назад
Dont give up. Pray. God hears and does transform hearts. He did it for me. Bipolar. No motivation. Grand delusions. On govt. Assistance. I was prayed up. And the Lord still kept his eyes on me. I found him waiting for me one day. But it took many days to get to that one day. I'm so glad I held on.. Pray.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg 4 года назад
Thanks but I'm an atheist. Praying doesn't do anything.
@LittleHatori
@LittleHatori 4 года назад
@@Elizabeth-yg2mg i assume u say prayer does nothing bc of personal experiences. Well, Let this be an encouragement to you then, as it was for me: you dont understand the spiritual things that bring life. But u can understand them! Wherever you are, how ever you feel, God sees you. God cares for you. This is evident by the sacrifice of his only son, which has provided a way for us to be near God & like Christ. Now that you know about God and his grace, dont be afraid to come to him and ask for help (finding a church where a pastor will explain this to u more is easy. Plz take advantage)... For this life is nothing compared to eternity. And you can come to him when you're ready to know about how to be rescued from danmation. But first comes loving Him. And He does not force anyone to love Him. I can attest. And I will attest! That God and prayer have healed and does heal. But even more importantly then healing, you can know your Maker, and you can have a secure eternity with him. I hope you can hear the love and compassion in my voice!! I'll leave you to ponder these things. But I'm happy to communicate outside of RU-vid if u want! Xoxo
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg 4 года назад
@@LittleHatori It's bunk. Good luck to you though.
@dougie281
@dougie281 4 года назад
Dave Ramsey: If you give her money you may as well tell her "I hate you"..... I'm dying laughing
@benvasilinda9729
@benvasilinda9729 4 года назад
Her sister is entitled to squander her share of the inheritance all she wants. She doesn’t need to loan her sister any more money because her sister got the same inheritance she did once already and will once again.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Год назад
Don't give away anything. My parents gave my uncle money for a lawn mower and after dad was gone they wanted to quote unquote borrow $5,000 for some medical device. They had a house they could have borrowed against and my mother no longer did.
@sjaykay9884
@sjaykay9884 4 года назад
Sometimes you can’t save people from themselves
@crowtservo
@crowtservo 6 лет назад
Sounds like my wife’s cousin. She is in Florida now with her income tax refund blowing it all on a 2 week “vacation” and by June she will be a victim again and not have any money because everyone and the government is screwing her over.
@matthewhoover6154
@matthewhoover6154 4 года назад
a baller one minute, a victim the next. I've seen them.
@liberty4392
@liberty4392 3 года назад
Being broke is okay because you can work smart, save and invest your way out of it. If someone is in a poor mindset you cannot fix it. If someone believes they are a victim and that they will always be poor then very likely that is what their future will be.
@michaela3681
@michaela3681 4 года назад
I’m a recovering addict, years clean, I would bet a large sum that this lady is an addict. Cigarettes and soda, lol.
@john1425
@john1425 4 года назад
NO guys you are wrong. She's not a drug addict! She spends all of her money on cigarettes and soda!
@datdude7395
@datdude7395 4 года назад
150k is a lot of cigarettes and soda!!!
@john1425
@john1425 4 года назад
@@datdude7395 LOL!!
@ellencook1658
@ellencook1658 3 года назад
😂
@l-train7876
@l-train7876 5 лет назад
Rebecca - if she doesn’t bother brushing her teeth and is okay with living in her car, why would you think she’d be interested in attending FPU?🤯
@ddavis8988
@ddavis8988 Месяц назад
She won't even brush her teeth consistently to the point where shes losing them at 38. FPU is not a priority here.
@oneandone2744
@oneandone2744 4 года назад
Great advice Dave. Nothing else can be done in a situation like this.
@anneirenej
@anneirenej 4 года назад
Dear sweet kind Sister hang in there. The hardest thing I ever did was start saying no to my Little brother and his kids. Even when i gave it as gifts it would hurt my feelings that they would squander what i would give them due to really poor choices. Now i can hear them carry in about lack of money and just say oh so sorry you are having problems and just be a cheerleader for them. I hope you find peace as you go. Know it will take a while to see you made the right choice.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Год назад
People don't appreciate free money
@Speechiegirl1
@Speechiegirl1 8 лет назад
I just died when he asked " Why did she lose all her teeth?" Lol.
@lovinKGS
@lovinKGS 8 лет назад
You didn't even spell lose correctly. I'm glad you found this funny.
@brantley2171
@brantley2171 8 лет назад
Speechiegirl1 "lose" sweetheart
@Speechiegirl1
@Speechiegirl1 8 лет назад
Rebecca Long Oh you are right! Ok, I fixed the typo. Seven months later and it is still giving me a laugh lol!
@goodhombre544
@goodhombre544 7 лет назад
These grammar nazis everywhere
@TheAw1963
@TheAw1963 7 лет назад
Sue Burgess relax. Please have a cocktail.
@purewonka
@purewonka Год назад
What a busybody! It's none of her business how her sister spends her inheritance.
@blueamenaa749
@blueamenaa749 Год назад
It reminds me of the movie " I care a lot". And the britney spears story... people who care too much can be hiding something else. Careful!
@mindys1198
@mindys1198 9 лет назад
I know someone like that, that just can not think long term, they are just incapable. Im sorry for your situation. You love her but hate her life decisions. Best luck to you
@MyFreedomChannel
@MyFreedomChannel 10 лет назад
What a sad situation for Rebecca's sister. I'll be praying that the family will be able to do what is painfully hard to get her twin sister some help.
@walkerboh39
@walkerboh39 5 лет назад
Money does not help people. People help people.
@bregjejabra25
@bregjejabra25 3 года назад
Outstanding performance. You go girl...
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 6 месяцев назад
Outstanding, 5 kids and no daddy, but time to worry that her sister is going to waste her inheritance.
@janethomas78
@janethomas78 5 лет назад
GIVE your HOMELESS sister THE GODDAMNED MONEY!
@georgeross6304
@georgeross6304 5 лет назад
You did not read the comment here. Her sister did get the money, she squandered all money within two years.
@janethomas78
@janethomas78 5 лет назад
@@georgeross6304 SO WHAT!! THAT IS HER DEAL NOT YOUR DEAL!
@meggrotte4760
@meggrotte4760 3 месяца назад
Stop she needs a guardian because she'll blow it. What in the world is wrong with America How is it possible that people Like this can get money from the government, and they still can't get help
@1castellp
@1castellp 5 лет назад
3:30 (pauses vid to go brush my teeth)
@marquintawalker7906
@marquintawalker7906 4 года назад
Me too!😆😆😆
@tashinaking3198
@tashinaking3198 Месяц назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@FortuneSeek3rz
@FortuneSeek3rz 5 лет назад
I would wager this is a drug addict. After enough changes occur in the prefrontal cortex this type of behavior is not uncommon.
@jseden
@jseden 4 года назад
FortuneSeek3rz yup. I've known many. some on disability and the first and only thing they budget for is their drug use.. it typically always goes above food and other necessities. They know they can scrounge up some food or gas money but dealers don't take IOUs.
@SpeedfreakUK
@SpeedfreakUK 3 года назад
Or just lifelong undiagnosed adhd
@privateprivate8366
@privateprivate8366 5 лет назад
Reminds me, a bit, of my family’s situation. My mother is 75, “May” have some dementia, but is likely more NPD. Although I have a financial interest for inheritance, my mother has decided to scapegoat me and give my needy sister a home. Mom stopped caring for her own teeth, stopped filing taxes and, while I’m making an exit out of the chaos, I’m likely expected to fix everything. Can’t worry with what I can’t stop.
@WCGwkf
@WCGwkf 4 года назад
Who believes not brushing your teeth makes then fall out by 38? That's called druuuuugs
@jbtpa895
@jbtpa895 3 года назад
Yes it can especially with cigs and soda, very quickly (I'm a hygienist). But still drugs a huge probability.
@user-es5jq6yy9l
@user-es5jq6yy9l 10 месяцев назад
There are genetic and autoimmune diseases that can make you susceptible to losing teeth like sjorgrens
@thriftflipfire3501
@thriftflipfire3501 4 года назад
OMG - have just dealt with this exact situation - person harassed solicitor weekly the entire Probate period for money, had half of it already spent - I was Executor and would not let them harass me - person will not take Bi Polar Meds - only a few months ago, but imagine all of the money has been squandared - hates us.
@AkaRuby
@AkaRuby 4 года назад
Yes... wise advice Dave Ramsey. Her sister needs help and prayers. Nothing is impossible with God.
@jeffkline9191
@jeffkline9191 5 лет назад
My brother same story. Drug abuse mental illness loss of teeth. Mom got him ss and dad bought him a trailer. Now he spends his time drinking himself to death.
@KristinaBakerSmith
@KristinaBakerSmith 20 часов назад
😢🙏
@MP-nj1qy
@MP-nj1qy 4 года назад
Sister “She claims she has post traumatic stress disorder.” Dave “From what?” Me “From adulthood 🙄🤣🤣😂😂😂😅”
@SummeRain783
@SummeRain783 3 года назад
That’s actually not funny. I am betting you something really bad did happen to that twin. It’s not normal for someone to end up that way out of the whole family. She may have been sexually assaulted or some other sort of trauma in early childhood and never got help.
@melb2734
@melb2734 9 месяцев назад
Honestly, personality disorders can be controversial. And the beliefs, behaviors and patterns that are deemed problematic can be related to trauma. I still think it's important to have boundaries and not put up with abusive behavior. But, I'm not convinced slapping personality disorder labels on people is always helpful. Even more so when their behavior is odd rather than abusive. Like I don't blame "schizoid personality disorder" people for being loners. If they can be happy that way, it might actually be a superpower in a world that contains narcissists.
@godsbest8405
@godsbest8405 8 лет назад
I am going through the same thing with my mother. I am so overwhelmed and ready to walk away. My mother is now living with me and before that she was living out of her car for 2 years. My entire house stink because she is here. She doesn't want to bath or wash her clothes. Her hair is matted and her teeth are rotting. She does have a full time job but she blows every dime of her money. I want to put her in an assistant living facilities but she doesn't make enough money to pay for it. She tried to rent an apartment but she has bad rental history so no one wants to rent to her. I'm going to talk to her doctor to see if I can get her diagnosis and treated. I just don't know what else to do.
@lovinKGS
@lovinKGS 8 лет назад
I'm so sorry that you are going through this too. I pray for better solutions. Mental health issues in our country do not receive the resources that are so desperately needed. Stay strong and know that my prayers are with you.
@godsbest8405
@godsbest8405 7 лет назад
I talk to my mom's doctor but they were no help. They don't really like to deal with my mom because she is a hand full. They told me they could not force my mom to take their help. My mom decided to move out. I am not sure where she is staying and she will not tell me. I did invite her over for Thanksgiving, but she spent most of the time sleeping. We didn't have much interaction. She has become like a stranger. All I can do is pray for her because she has rejected my help.
@MrHav1k
@MrHav1k 6 лет назад
How did this turn out? I"m curious. Asking for a friend who is in a similar situation.
@barcode628
@barcode628 6 лет назад
The comment section in RU-vid is bs... I wanted to express compassion - how would I do that? With a thumbs up? There should be more options. However, I hope the situation with your mom has improved.
@Heseesyou
@Heseesyou 4 года назад
@@lovinKGS , it is not the doctors job, clinics job.. it is a sin issue. Everyone of us has freewill and a CONCIOUS. It is a fallen world and the only answer and cure to ANYTHING IS A TRUE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE LIVING GOD. YOU ARE NOT TO RAISE ADULTS.. YOU RAISE CHILDREN. THE DEVIL HAS LIED TO YOU AND NOW YOU ARE PARTICIPATING WITH HER DELUSIONS. IT HAS TAKEN YOUR PEACE AND JOY AND THE VERY PEOPLE THAT NEED YOU IN THE HOME ARE BEING ROBBED. YOU ARE SHOWING THEM DAILY HOW TO CONNECT WITH SINNERS.. YOU WILL HOUSE THEM, FEED THEM AND ENABLE THEM.. JESUS SAT WITH REPENTIVE SINNERS.. READ YOUR BIBLE, HE DID NOT LIVE WITH THEM OR STAY MORE THEN A DAY. YOU ARE IN THE WRONG LANE TO MAKE A RIGHT TURN. REPENT AND SEPARATE YOURSELF. ITS REALLY YOU BEING SELFISH NOT TO PERMIT ANOTHER PERSON TO CHANGE. MAY GOD WAKE YOU UP BEFORE ITS TO LATE.
@Lizarddqueen79
@Lizarddqueen79 9 лет назад
I have feeling the money is going to be gone quicker than she receives it. Maybe hitting rock bottom is what she needs. But not sure what rock bottom is for someone already on the bottom. My prayers go out to both of them.
@lovinKGS
@lovinKGS 8 лет назад
Thank you. The money was gone very quickly and she's close to rock bottom but she wants someone to bail her out, again. Unfortunately our Dad usually did and in the process he was enabling her. She will have to really hit rock bottom and make serious changes to turn her life around.
@Lizarddqueen79
@Lizarddqueen79 8 лет назад
+Rebecca Long stay strong and do not give in. she needs love and love in this case helps by not enabling. God bless you.
@herfirstmate
@herfirstmate 7 лет назад
Rebecca Long How is she doing now Rebecca?
@zzirvingj
@zzirvingj 7 лет назад
Would also like an update....
@simonmaguire5250
@simonmaguire5250 6 лет назад
So your sister spent her own money. Like it or not it was her money. You know who has the right to do what their want with their money? Them it's their money. Remember every one we have only heard one side of the story.
@SubTranslationJack
@SubTranslationJack 6 лет назад
I can tell you from experience that with how her sister seems to be presenting herself, legally Rebecca will not be able to control the outcome of this. The court system wants to see someone who is actively a real danger to themself or others. And not in a theoretical kind of way.
@askhowiknow5527
@askhowiknow5527 6 лет назад
I dated a girl with histrionic personality disorder It would probably be very easy to get a court to declare this lady incompetent to receive this money.
@yourmilitarymoney
@yourmilitarymoney 10 лет назад
Yes, very sad situation. The sister needs help beyond finances. Dave was spot on with his advice. I hope for the best.
@ogj13
@ogj13 4 года назад
This is 💔. I can't imagine trying to help your sibling who's not willing to help their self. I can hear the caller really hurts for her sister.
@burntblonde2925
@burntblonde2925 4 года назад
You have to let go, it’s her journey, not yours.
@wolftreetree
@wolftreetree 10 лет назад
Her sister does need to get off the streets.
@lakewoodsteve5028
@lakewoodsteve5028 5 лет назад
Like duh!
@tomm8025
@tomm8025 5 лет назад
I like the way he cuts her off (at 8:11) and continues to talk as though she is there and able to respond. Haha. He was done with listening to her and wanted to wrap it up so he cut her off!
@evenbiggeral5089
@evenbiggeral5089 3 года назад
He does that with all callers. It’s funny to watch the timing of it.
@tomm8025
@tomm8025 3 года назад
@@evenbiggeral5089 - Yeah! The timing is always when he doesn't want them to be able to reply (or definitely not being heard doing so). That way he can just say what he wants and it appears like they are just taking in all his wisdom. There are some calls where you KNOW the person would disagree or argue with him and he always cuts them off before a long rant.
@DavidEVogel
@DavidEVogel 3 года назад
"My homeless sister will waste inheritance." "Well thats a shame. Next caller."
@bigg2phillips480
@bigg2phillips480 4 года назад
The problem is that if u let an attorney the attorney would take it all ive already seen this happen the attorney will charge the account 1000 a month or more . The best is the sister rents a apartment and pays the bills until money gone. Thats if you can get a judge to agree
@jeffc1347
@jeffc1347 4 года назад
She says "single mom of five" like its something to be proud of.
@kimwayman4
@kimwayman4 4 года назад
Jeff P , many women say single parent that were divorced. I did, it was easier with an absentee father
@hothotheat3000
@hothotheat3000 4 года назад
What if her husband died? Divorce? Doesn’t make her a bad person.
@Lydiaohlydiaa
@Lydiaohlydiaa 4 года назад
Being a mom period is something to be proud of
@cass1092
@cass1092 4 года назад
She just said that to support her case for not being able to keep supporting her sister. I’m not sure how that came off proud ?
@Mexicobeanpole
@Mexicobeanpole 4 года назад
It is. Not many people could do that. It’s frigging hard work. You don’t know what got her there. Husband died? Husband disappeared? But she didn’t disappear from her kids.
@alexd7164
@alexd7164 6 лет назад
Wish there was a follow up on this story.
@fivespeed3026
@fivespeed3026 4 года назад
I’ve lived all over the South and no state has more toothless residents than Florida.
@speakingtruths4215
@speakingtruths4215 4 года назад
Fivespeed 302 Except that the toothless woman lives in Texas. Try watching the video. The CALLER lives in Florida.
@KristinaBakerSmith
@KristinaBakerSmith 20 часов назад
Great advice! Make sure she has food and shelter. Then pray.
@Cyps36
@Cyps36 10 лет назад
A tricky situation for sure, it sounds best for a the money to be drip fed. Via a proper legal arrangement. Some peaple no-matter how much money the get their hands on always blow it. Tough love at times is the best way. If they hate you for it "tough" be the better person.
@shawmeck9323
@shawmeck9323 6 лет назад
Can we get a follow up to this story?
@sandranoisewater6093
@sandranoisewater6093 4 года назад
The sister got the money, and blew, thru it...
@KiLLED5639
@KiLLED5639 Год назад
How lucky she has a sister that cares so much about her. Many mentally ill people don't have that support system.
@danpike7980
@danpike7980 Год назад
Usually agree with Dave, but he is completely wrong here. Give the woman a break. She's homeless. Yes, don't give her any new money; but her parents wanted her to have that inheritance. It is only right and ethical for her to have that
@jayrider2726
@jayrider2726 4 года назад
She's the "black tweek" of the family.
@annastarr2043
@annastarr2043 4 года назад
Lol
@BillAngelos
@BillAngelos 4 года назад
Trying to force someone to go to church by withholding their money... classy advice.
@meggrotte4760
@meggrotte4760 3 месяца назад
He's not forcing her.She's a train wreck
@BillAngelos
@BillAngelos 3 месяца назад
@@meggrotte4760 she can be all the mess she wants to be. If you're going to get a bunch of money, and I try to force you to join a cult you'll probably have a problem with that. I'm not going to anyones stupid church until they can at least prove that their stupid god is real.
@bk_deltor9155
@bk_deltor9155 4 года назад
Completely ignored Daves question "is she a drug addict?" I don't care what the other commenters in top comments say, cigs and soda? Don't think so. To me even the way she said it says it all. Sis is a drug addict.
@anitadrum1432
@anitadrum1432 3 года назад
For those of you saying that the sister is an addict-maybe she is, maybe she is not. The bottom line is that it is not anyone's business to speculate about it, discuss it and try them both in the court of public opinion. It is a very sensitive situation. It would be tough for anyone. I hope that none of you ever have a family member who has addictions or mental illness and if you do I pray that you are shown more grace and kindness than you are giving to both of these women in the comments below.
@georgewagner7787
@georgewagner7787 Год назад
The names are changed to protect their anonymity.
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
As a person who doesn’t want help you can’t help people who don’t want help.
@captainobvious5993
@captainobvious5993 4 года назад
That money is already gone for the both of you.
@Coco-og7zw
@Coco-og7zw 8 месяцев назад
Excellent advice!!!
@summer2011leggo
@summer2011leggo 4 года назад
This is a tricky case and I like the way dave advised her
@categurl3967
@categurl3967 4 года назад
How will she manage a home, she can't manage to brush her teeth!
@freetrailer4poor
@freetrailer4poor 9 лет назад
Her sister said she wanted a home. She could get a apartment or house. She is in Texas and could get a home for 100K I would think and the disability would pay her bills.
@MrEherndon5
@MrEherndon5 8 лет назад
+pirucreek $50k
@janets9179
@janets9179 4 года назад
$100k can be spent quickly, especially when ur talking about funding house and school and the person has no other income.
@johnhodgson9631
@johnhodgson9631 4 года назад
good point, but won't her government. cheque go away in this case? Why should she receive a government allowance cheque and still get a win fall on our taxes.
@dariocastro-lopez3589
@dariocastro-lopez3589 4 года назад
How are they twins, but only one has a mental illness?
@wolftreetree
@wolftreetree 10 лет назад
It does sound like they don't want the homeless sister to inherit any of the inheritance. Its one thing for someone to manage the money for the sister, its another thing to just cut her off.
@Matake2007
@Matake2007 6 лет назад
Y'all have clearly never had to deal with someone with a mental illness. You don't give them large resources at one time to potentially put themselves in even worse situations. If you listened, you have heard that she had been giving her money before and it didn't help. Besides the conversation was to basically have someone manage her money not split it between the rest of the siblings.
@bobbiclinger7500
@bobbiclinger7500 6 лет назад
Church is not going to heal her mental wounds. She needs a good therapist.
@claydouglas2526
@claydouglas2526 5 лет назад
And likely drugs as well. Love DR but a pastor isn’t a professional, and even a therapist can’t correct a chemical imbalance from the outside.
@michaelritchie7699
@michaelritchie7699 5 лет назад
That’s not what he said though...
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
@Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 лет назад
A therapist can't change anything either.
@Heseesyou
@Heseesyou 4 года назад
And that therapist is JESUS!! NOT A BUILDING, NOT A GROUP.. BUT A TRUE REPENTANCE AND RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KING.. THAT IS WHAT HE DIED FOR.. TO PASS FROM DEATH TO LIFE.
@kimberlyfamoly9445
@kimberlyfamoly9445 4 года назад
It’s her money let her do as she will, it’s hers.
@MsJoyce31202
@MsJoyce31202 4 года назад
She just may but it's still hers.
@HB-ey2dk
@HB-ey2dk 5 лет назад
Sis is in denial or lying, she's definitely on drugs.
@ittakesavillage5461
@ittakesavillage5461 4 года назад
Government programs do work for issues like this, when they treat the whole person just like Dave talks about
@chloerodgers692
@chloerodgers692 5 месяцев назад
My sister lives with my elderly father in Florida. She has never been financially responsible and actually depends on him now for a place to live. She helps him immensely even tho he is in good health (cooks, cleans, takes care of gardens…works her tail off). My fear is that she’ll feel “entitled” to inheriting his home when he passes because of all this effort. he does not charge her any rent and she essentially lives off her SS and a little bit of money she made selling her own home before she moved in. I am well-off. I certainly don’t “need” whatever inheritance and I told him so….that said, I don’t feel like I should be “punished” for being successful….I told him that too and he agreed. I would not evict her from the home when my father passes, but I also don’t believe it is fair that she will just assume the house is hers. It is a dilemma (or will be I’m sure). Any advice?
@b_rad5678
@b_rad5678 3 года назад
Give her the best advice you can, point her in right direction and let her be
@AlfieTank
@AlfieTank 4 года назад
What some people dont realize is Drug addiction isnt Just a Simple decision for everyone to stop. It literally remaps your brain to NEED it Biologically, and some people go through Trauma so bad they wanted to escape through drugs and wound up stuck in a never ending cycle. You need an external force to help such people and sadly sometimes even that isnt enough ☹
@johnsmith-zx5er
@johnsmith-zx5er 5 лет назад
gotta remember this is one side of the story and dave should have picked up on that. her disability check only pays for cigs and soda? sounds like its at least possible one sister wants the other sisters share. maybe not but some holes in this woman's story
@bennettmusiclabs9382
@bennettmusiclabs9382 5 лет назад
Parable of the prodigal son..... end of story. everyone was given the free will to chose how they want to live their life. and everyone else has to respect that right, as long as they are not, "a danger to themsleves or others" otherwise she will HATE everyone who is involved.
@AlfieTank
@AlfieTank 4 года назад
Single mom of 5. Drug addict sis. Man life on earth is hard to swallow sometimes. The sad thing is the sister has very low chance of recovery due to drugs and the money will just make it 1000x worse. The things she probably did to get by and her head is probably beyond human help. She will need a forced intervention. And prayer.
@arleneaugustahair8393
@arleneaugustahair8393 5 лет назад
This is so sad. Sometimes you cannot help people who don’t want to be helped unless you force their hands legally.
@lindaleelaw5277
@lindaleelaw5277 5 лет назад
She needs a Guardian ad Litum ... and,mandate care. No family should touch her money. I wouldn't trust the family , or they would have found this out. No they want her money. They let her be until there's money!!!!
@lindaleelaw5277
@lindaleelaw5277 5 лет назад
My my my, the family doesn't want to jump in but her money they will
@belindavandyke8363
@belindavandyke8363 5 лет назад
Lindalee Law I have a sister with schizophrenia, in this almost same situation. We want to help her but there’s absolutely no helping her. I have watched her squander her inheritance... it’s a sad situation. We want the best for her but she cannot make good choices for herself and refuses to listen to a word we advise her. Please don’t judge this girl, she just sadly knows exactly what sister is going to do.
@lizcedillo4602
@lizcedillo4602 4 года назад
6 yrs ago but wonder what happened to this women's sister and inheritance. I live in Houston so touches home
@JamesBond-uz2dm
@JamesBond-uz2dm 7 лет назад
The bar for guardian ad litem is high. The mental capacity needed to inherit money is low. You cannot rip up a trust because the beneficiary is a homeless druggie. The court may give her the distribution. I am not a lawyer.
@coffeecake8835
@coffeecake8835 4 года назад
@Jackblood "bigot"??? 🤔
@jaybenekin
@jaybenekin Год назад
I’m not so concerned about her living in a car in Houston. Squandering her inheritance is my main focus.
@bliglum
@bliglum 6 лет назад
Taking one bad example, one bad egg, and definitively stating that said example proves why government assistance does not work is pretty asinine.
@bliglum
@bliglum 5 лет назад
@Scott Paulson Yes, there are many who misuse and abuse gov assistance, but there are also many who properly use it as a stepping stone to a better life.. I've personally known a number of people who fell into both camps.. Yes, it is frustrating when you see people lazily and shamelessly milking it. But you cannot let the stories of the bad eggs spoil the idea of altruism and helping those in need.. If you do, you'll end up full Scrooge mode. Don't want that do you?
@OneRedKansan41
@OneRedKansan41 9 лет назад
The homeless sister should get her inheritance, it is HER money when it is given to her. If she spends it all, that is HER problem.
@jblack4735
@jblack4735 9 лет назад
Heather Wanamaker I agree with you. It is her sister's money and her sister's business.
@imafilipino12
@imafilipino12 9 лет назад
yea because you don't care about your family
@jblack4735
@jblack4735 9 лет назад
Kubz You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
@SammySam316
@SammySam316 8 лет назад
Did you hear when she said that her sister is also on disability for mental illness? In that case it makes sense to care.
@GenK1991
@GenK1991 7 лет назад
if her sister cared enough she would try to give her a home
@robertmcgee7083
@robertmcgee7083 4 года назад
A 100k will disappear in a jiffy if not careful.
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Месяц назад
Its really up to her.😊
@carojames6776
@carojames6776 5 лет назад
The money should be put in a trust.
@AsianAlaskan
@AsianAlaskan 5 лет назад
Give me a break, a good sister will call to solve her sister's homelessness instead. Her sister WAS HOMELESS FOR YEARS before this inheritance situation, why would she allow her sister to be homeless for years but now cares?!
@annwilliams6438
@annwilliams6438 6 лет назад
It is the sister's money! If she messes up she messes. And she doesn't believe her sister's case even though the social workers do? Just stay way from this.(Bad teeth is also a sign of drug abuse.)
@debipennington8501
@debipennington8501 4 года назад
I would think that the sister would lose her disability benefits once she received the money, so she would be in a worse situation...
@bigtopher8787
@bigtopher8787 5 лет назад
Whatever she chooses to do with the money is HER desicion. I don’t believe anybody should try and take her money and spend it for her. You can try and pursuade her but taking her to court and trying to take her money is redicoulous in my opinion.
@angel0island0ninja
@angel0island0ninja 5 лет назад
I wonder if this video came up because people are talking about mental illness again? The person who could have handled this was the one who gave them the inheritance. It is a shame this money became a curse instead of a blessing
@debrawilliams7983
@debrawilliams7983 8 лет назад
Put that money in a "spendthrift" trust for your sister so that she does not squander it!!!
@lovinKGS
@lovinKGS 8 лет назад
Unfortunately it's too late and the money was gone in mere months of her receiving it. 😥
@MarkZimmerman
@MarkZimmerman 8 лет назад
+Rebecca Long If she doesn't get help after losing all that money, she will either die soon or commit suicide.
@debrawilliams7983
@debrawilliams7983 8 лет назад
Rebecca Long what a waste!! that could helped her in the future!! Of course people who suffer from addictions don't think that way. they live in the "moment"!!!
@brnt034
@brnt034 6 лет назад
It was her right to do whatever she wanted with the money even if it meant that she burned it in a fire. Geez, some people are control freaks and just won't mind their own freakin' business!!
@offgridjack5779
@offgridjack5779 6 лет назад
Brnt034 - It becomes Rebecca's business because her twin sister will come to her for continued bail outs now so it makes it HER business. Rebecca, you have your own minor children to put FIRST!!
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