I am 26 years old now and mera pura teenage and early adult life isse mein WASTE ho gayi. Friends circle me hi sabse individually baat karta tha phone pe, fir society ke friends, college ke, yaha ke waha ke, sometimes in single day. Mera time waste multiple ho jata tha and mujhe bhi bhot maja aata tha. Now all of them are very ahead in life and I am nowhere as they never wasted time as much as me. 🥺🤧
Same case with me sabko sath lekar chlna dosti yaari etc... Jab time nhi dena start kiya to khud hi saare faltu log gayab ho gye... Apna agenda rakho seedhi baat kro that's it
I started following your advice since last year. I don't meet anyone without any agenda. Even during phone conversations with strangers, I ask them why they have called. If I think somebody doesn't add value to my life, I discard them immediately. I have only two friends (including my wife), and even people in my official circle think twice before dialling my number. Thank you Guruji.❤
Ye baat shuru se parents kehte rhe hain. But ab aapne kahi hai or mai jis phase pe khada hu life k wo bilkul sahi maloom apdyi hai. U gave an energy. Thanks 🙏🌹
Very very relevant video. I have been saying NO a lot nowadays and feel stronger and powerful. But I still get bullied so I will work harder on this now. I read somewhere "NO is a complete sentence." Many times I don't even bother to give an explanation coz the other person will not listen anyway n will criticise you anyway.
You speak so truly about the topics which many of us used to feel guilty about, even thinking in our minds although going thru the miserable situations. Thank you so much for getting the pressure out .🙏with out fthe feeling of being selfish.
Excellent observations, your points are very relevant and important. I have always been this way and people don't seem to understand but you have reinforced my belief and I thank you for it.
My husband is a SBI po , kahi pe bhi transfer hota rehta hai unka 3 yrs ka beta hai mera , gharwale said primate school teacher ki job chodo , and fully prepare Karo govt school ke liye , as I am ctet qualified and mera bhi Mann tha , but baad me unki reality pata chali jab i resigned and jethani ka baccha pakda dete mujhe sath me , padhne ni milta as dono bacche same hai , ladte hai , and fir gali galauch , jethani ko govt job hai so sab support kar rahe use , maine mana kiya ki i don't have time to look after ur kid, as i have my own aim in life and i hv to focus on it , this is the high time . Fir mujhe ye mauka ni milega , kuch months ki baat hai , sab jhadge mujhe bole tujhse support ki umeed ni ki jaa sakti ,selfish hai tu etc etc ,... Husband was in my support as only he want me to opt for govt job of a good salary so that he can leave his job and become fulltime trader in share market . Ye video se pata chala ki selfish mai ni wo log hai , jinko mere precious time chahiye aur maine mana kiya to mujhe selfish bolte
Yes,they are selfish..You should focus on yourself,child and hubby.wo log rote h rahenge, because unka mindset hi aisa hai.Time is pressious.Give it to your self🙏
Totally agree, wid u sir some relatives also ask to meet without telling the reason on the phone. After meeting, they make awkward situations, so we can't say no to them and waste our time .
I understand well this topic.. Even many ladiescwant to meet friends make groups...plan trips..call it enjoying life..bullshiz..no talent..no earning only spendinh husband and children money...sir Pls mke vedio on this kitty party stuck women
True, Actually from beginning I was very straight forward person, Eg if there is some lesson being taught in school my natural behavior was just to listen, solve answers & do hw, But then some teachers talked to my parents that I am introvert, after that i started talking way more giving time to any bullshit people, One of my teacher who I used to complain about a pencil chor, she as normally many teachers do didn't listen to it seriously while chit chatting with other teachers, and when my parents came to meet her she was like yaa your daughter is very silent I will change her place from that pencil chor, My parents came in changul of such teachers and made my behavior talkative, compelling me to open mouth in front of anyone & everyone Just waste of time young lifetime
नमस्ते सर, बातों में से बात निकलेगी, कोई ना कोई ऐसी बात मुंह से निकल सकती है तो रिश्ते खराब हो सकते हैं, ये बात बहुत बार महसूस की और देखी है, हमेशा की भाँति बहुत ही बढ़िया विस्तृत जानकारी दी है सर आपने ❤🙏
