How being a Good Listener builds healthy Relationship with others | Drishti Sharma

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There have been times where I wanted someone to just listen to me. I wanted to be seen and heard. But when I started opening up with people, I felt a disconnect with them as they had no clue on how to be a good listener.
Eventually, even I got to know about a few mistakes that I was making while talking to other people and in this video I shared how I leant to be a good listener and how I show up as a good friend by doing so.
Learning how to be a good listener is an underrated skill as it can help you build trust, build better connections and healthy relationships with the people around you.
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00:00 - Intro
01:19 - Being mindful and present
3:37 - Asking open ended questions
4:48 - Comfortable with Silences
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@wordsbydivya 8 месяцев назад

Aaj ki thumbnail Ohhoooo ❤❤❤. Yup you are good listener drish. Even when it's a virtual zoom call you are a good listener. Btw you are the first girl after my sister with whom I talked for 1 hour. I usually never speak on live call or a normal call more than a minute but with you I talked for an hour & it was not brand drain for me. One of the nicest memory & manifestations of my life ❤❤

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

That's so amazing! Yes I remember our conversation❤️❤️

@nandita_tanya14 8 месяцев назад

Being Non judgemental is a very important point in a conversation. Everyone should learn it. Thanks for the video Drishti Di ❤️🌻 keep growing 💗😇

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

So true❤️

@AmyPen 8 месяцев назад

My take aways from this video 1.stay Mindfull and observe Don't answer just heard and see 2. Asking open ended questions 3. Being comfortable with silence Empathy is important 4. Being non judgemental 5 first focus on yourself My personal learning is skills to have a deep conversation along with emotional connection 😌 I am so grateful for this video , drishti thanks for being consistent cuz your videos gives me a new way of life ❤😊

@sreeshusreeshu 8 месяцев назад

My biggest takeaway from this video is the idea of asking open ended questions it really makes a conversation with ur loved ones or your friend better and long

@harshitagohil0802 8 месяцев назад

Absolutely

@nasrin-2003. 8 месяцев назад

I think I am a good listener because my family members share their feelings and my friends also share their feelings. They know I really want to hear them. I listen to them very seriously at that moment.😌

@ansh.me11 8 месяцев назад

You are the only person who's talking about the littlest things that an individual might often think or ponder upon, but rarely anyone talks about it. Genuinely love to her and talk about these things. So Thankful to Drishti for talking about it❤❤

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Im so glad you found this helpful❤️

@harshitagohil0802 8 месяцев назад

This video came to me just on right time , I faced today that I'm not being heard , I didn't feel that the other person really wanna listen to me . Thank you so so much drishti for this video. Also I learned from this video to ignore the talks someone is saying when they are in negative state of mind . Thank you so much drishti . #qualitycontent

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Im glad you found it useful❤️

@shikhakumari5271 8 месяцев назад

Dusro ki baat sunna is such a skill aur mene ye dekha hai ki log apni baat to rakhte Hain but dusro ki baat unhe bohot aivai lgati hai I think ki aaj ye video I can share to those people. Thanks Drishti Dii❤❤❤

@11Vaishnavi 8 месяцев назад

Loved it! And this makes me realise I'm not a good listener but can be one by consciously implementing this❤

@anirudh323 8 месяцев назад

Literally your Sunday videos are like medical dose Drishti! It heals me every week and makes me start the next one with a fresh mindset... Thank you! :)

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Means so much to me. Glad that you re liking them❤️

@priya...2622 8 месяцев назад

Ha dusro ki bate sunne me ye sab bhut important he. Thanks for this video❤

@vishaldaswanii 8 месяцев назад

honestly I never open up to anyone except my mom, she hears me and doesn't judge. Even though i've some really good friends but I still feel like my mom would make me feel much better than anyone could. But I'll definitely try to be a better listener to people so I could give them enough space to feel comfortable and sympathetic. ❤

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Im so happy to know this❤️

@sanjana456sannu 8 месяцев назад

I think this is one of the way to be more attractive around social circle and that one habit of saying something nonsense in that weird silence is one of mine 😂

@watchlater6244 8 месяцев назад

My Takeaway 😂 Samajh me kuch nahi aaya. But sunne me achcha laga! 😅 So Attractive Drishti 🎉

@harshitagohil0802 8 месяцев назад

Now this is why I pay for my internet ! Loved it drishti ❤

@dhruvdesai391 8 месяцев назад

Hey, your videos are always relatable. Often people consider that people who speak less are not smart. Being an introvert I have noticed contributions of introverts are often ignored. Waiting for more such videos.

@ruchikachoudhary05 8 месяцев назад

Beautifully explained ❤️

@nityagupta2451 8 месяцев назад

Indeed a very important topic to make stronger bonds with friends. Thank you very much for this Drishti, really needed to hear this😊

@sindhuranair3096 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for making this video ❤

@mayank_airy 8 месяцев назад

Depth❤ , actually it is something which is constant in every single video.

@namitanaik7564 8 месяцев назад

Thankeeewww so much di🥹❤️

@clivedcosta7299 8 месяцев назад

Very meaningful video. Being mindful and letting others speak is very helpful in maintaining good connections !!!!! I do try to be a good listener but being I struggle with it sometimes. Thanks for the video !!!!! I'll definitely try to use it 💯❤

@vaishnavijadhav5632 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for the video ❤️🌻

@Mariamemon36 8 месяцев назад

Hey drishti I’m so impressed with your content and I’m also like you , I can familiar myself with you . Thank you for encouragement . Best wishes for your whole life ❤

@shivanichiluka1806 8 месяцев назад

Well said Drishti. The most important thing people forget is to not JUDGE.Even I suffered from that.😞😞😞😞

@pritimishra2302 8 месяцев назад

thanks deedu your advices are really helpful

@reveur_624 8 месяцев назад

Blessed to have a mentor like you litrally nothing is more satisfying than your 8 mins! You Exactly tell the same what i prefer to do.

@Nami060 8 месяцев назад

Great content ❤

@siddhikhedekar1802 8 месяцев назад

I just love the way her video pops up when i need someone the most, like I'm leaving my job for a long term goal but there is no one to listen to me about how im going through and she is just magic, like i don't need someone to listen now as i watch her videos❤

@mohitmorya 8 месяцев назад

Great content on listening

@jagratishrivastav273 8 месяцев назад

I love you and your work Drishti. I have watched your many videos some even in repeated mode. I'm starting my healing and self love journey. Positive affirmations, how not to overthink, less lazy and completing small goals etc hope I'll be able to become that person I wanted to be always. Thanks for making these videos. Please make more videos.

@suhaniraj1896 8 месяцев назад

Wao yrr explained very beautifully..❤

@spiritual645 8 месяцев назад

Thanku so much hmare liye itni mehnat krne ke liye ❤

@priyanshichoubey779 8 месяцев назад

Your content is so relatable from us

@Shanker_Singh_62 8 месяцев назад

3 lakh Subscriber. Soon . Congratulations for 2.97 lakh Subscriber ❤❤❤❤❤.... Great knowledge.🙏🙏❤️❤️✨️❤️ May God bless you 🙏 ❤️ ✨️ ♥️

@bookswithraj 8 месяцев назад

I read somewhere in a book which states, “A listener needs a listener too.” 🙃

@Wasabijo593 8 месяцев назад

Just found your channel, loved this video. Coincidentally just got this recommended after my therapy session which was kinda related to this, this was actually very helpful. Thanks.

@SootheSpectacles 8 месяцев назад

Best channel i found ever for my journey of personality development ❤❤

@santoshkumari1505 Месяц назад

Great di....unique vedio...❤🎉life changing content 😊

@NehaSharma-eq3ng 8 месяцев назад

That's too good 💯😊

@umadhakad1779 7 месяцев назад

Good one❤

@muhammadwaseemaa 8 месяцев назад

Be Respectful And Listen Carefully. After Listening, some moment silence of you is normal to create answer, so chill.

@shreyavaidya615 8 месяцев назад

Your videos really helps me a lot, to open up, to understand. Thank you so much and please don't stop sharing such a useful content either on RU-vid or on Instagram 😊❤❤❤

@shanujangra6924 8 месяцев назад

Keep going girl❤#you're the one I can relate with✨

@arpitanaik7815 8 месяцев назад

Hey Drishti ma'am, started watching your videos few days ago and they're very helpful. I've seen a lot of self help videos, psychological videos but the way you make videos it's like having a connection and real conversation with you. Thank you so much. Keep going. ❤️

@ShubhamKumarPatel01 8 месяцев назад

Do you believe in introverted and extroverted things and are you introverted or extroverted?

@arpitanaik7815 8 месяцев назад

@@ShubhamKumarPatel01 see, all I believe is that each one has a different personality, some maybe introvert , extrovert or ambivert. And I'm an introvert in general.

@lets_know68 8 месяцев назад

I like ur videos a lot... It's gradually help me to improve my self..... I hope u keep making such videos.... ❤🤗

@simarxxkaur 8 месяцев назад

Even the listener needs to be heard 👉🏻👈🏻 ThankYou for this video Di💖

@frosty2314 8 месяцев назад

my best friend is a very good listner she some time listen me to hours and i just go to her chat and just freely chat to her when ever my emotions are high and i am thank full that i had a friend like her

@Cook164 8 месяцев назад

I have one friend, she is very intelligent and knowledgeable person but she always interrupt others and never let others to speak in front of her. I believe that being a good listener is very much important apart from the knowledge one had.

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Maybe you can guide her where she is going wrong!

@Manandodiya16 8 месяцев назад

Nice video ❤

@sunki.lakshmireddy 8 месяцев назад

Shared already....somewhere all of us are like that while speaking and listening too

@nishantkumar408 8 месяцев назад

That moment when you have so many things to say but you don't get those words.. It happens with me everytime I saw your videos.. everything you speak.... every topic you choose is so much relatable for me that I can't evey say..... Deep inside my heart I'm know.. and I'm very much confident about this that I'm going to meet you one day for sure... and then I speak my heart to u.. Everything I'm going through... and hopefully how I came out from it.. You're kind of a person I'm dreaming to meet.... lots of love from my side.. ❤....

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

We will definitely meet soon!

@nishantkumar408 8 месяцев назад

@@drishtiispeaks Hopefully very soon!!!

@poorvansh_gupta 8 месяцев назад

Consistentency on it's peak😅 Awesome Drishti❤

@user-yg8yp5rc6k 8 месяцев назад

You are the Master of real life ❤

@msetia20 8 месяцев назад

please make a video on how to avoid complaining during conversations

@magnumcold333 8 месяцев назад

I accidentally see your video on youtube and I liked it so much and subscribed your channel. You became an inspiration for me dhrishti.❤❤

@magnumcold333 8 месяцев назад

I am good listener and non judgemental. I want to heal people from what they are going through . I want to comfort people with words I wished to hear😊

@vaibhavkumararya9952 8 месяцев назад

I iust love the way you explain everything❤❤😍😍

@user-nt2bc1rh7l 5 месяцев назад

Hey! Drishti . You are amazing and in this video I learn a lot and you are a perfect girl in your life 👍💖

@user-wp8fh6hs6q 3 месяца назад

Dii amazing ❤l like to listen your videos then I feel very calm

@SimranBalmiki 4 месяца назад

दीदी आप बहुत glow करते हो ❤और आपकी videos मुझको बहुत पसंद है

@priyankachandrawat7120 8 месяцев назад

Your tips and tricks help me a lot to overcome by my under confidence❤❤

@shreyajoshi2006 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much

@rituruby-eb8gz 8 месяцев назад

Hey ... You know it was too helpful for me. For some days I was finding the same content(as simple) but I didn't get it but I believe that the universe is something so he gave me some positivity through your video...

@ahaeeeitsaashi8520 8 месяцев назад

*Thankyou so much 🥰💖✨ drishti didi what a wonderful 😊🙌🙌 video !! Indeed 😊💗💗💗

@nikitamore7610 8 месяцев назад

Bestt❤

@yogeshraikwar7749 8 месяцев назад

Helpful

@Teachno12345 8 месяцев назад

You are so relatable di

@rupachemudupathi9569 8 месяцев назад

Hey u made me realise I am smart I always thought I have problem with making friends or interaction but ya I actually analyse situation and room , observe a lot , but also thought I am shy to talk ! Now I realise it's not shyness it's my nature of being smart

@gourav.chatterjee 7 месяцев назад

It will help me no doubt❤

@Lailah-uo2uf 8 месяцев назад

Hi Drishti... Thanks a lot for your videos and hardwork .....can you please give us a tip or something to accept both good and worst situations ?...like how to cope up with...it would be really helpful... Thank You ❤

@shreyamishra3197 4 месяца назад

your personality is like Priyanka Chopra ❤❤😊 So confident and graceful

@aniruddhad60 8 месяцев назад

Taking one word - "Listener". Yeah! Agreed.

@shankarnathchoudharyi8855 8 месяцев назад

Nice diii ❤❤

@TwishaSagar 8 месяцев назад

That's how I made a friendship

@wowsimon1666 8 месяцев назад

Video is good 🎉🎉

@vishvathacker 8 месяцев назад

I am also the person who listen to respond...Infact i am not listening to other. thank you for realising the same mistake. Now I practice to be a good listener.

@Designertashu 8 месяцев назад

Hey I love your videos ❤ and I want more videos on good looking personality and one question where from you buy your pretty watch 😅

@atharvamulay4131 8 месяцев назад

Nice video

@vasundharakanwar13 8 месяцев назад

Thanks❤

@itsmerishitha9967 8 месяцев назад

Hi sis . It felt much better after seeing ur videos. From past 3 days I am feeling very low and suddenly I am scrolling through yt I got to see the video of which is dealing with loneliness and other video fomo ,this video also . While you say every word it connects me very fast and ur videos are like 💥 each and every word u say I deal with it for some time it comes again.Till now I didn't seen a yt channel like this. I feel very relaxed, motivated. Thx sis for making this type of videos. Lots of ❤ from Telangana

@nikhilsw24 8 месяцев назад

Mere bahot aise friends hai, jab unse mai face 2 face bat karta hu tab unko pata chalta hai ki me unke point ko, problem ko sunta hu. Aur sach me sunta hu.Lekin jab call pe bolte vakt unko bich me nahi tokta ya bhir haa, hmm, okk nahi karta, aur unko bolne deta hu. To logon ko lagta hai ki unki baat sun nahi raha. Patience to hote nahi logonko. Sabkuch aise quick chahiye sabko. I hope I'm not the only one here. Your videos are awesome and audible. I suggest your channel to my friends(specially without phone spent one day go pro vala video)

@hanaehere_ 8 месяцев назад

Loving how are you giving out videos about various topics🥹🫶🏻

@SMPositivevibes 8 месяцев назад

Listen to understand, not reply. Very helpful tips 🙌

@ankitadas231 8 месяцев назад

Thanks for this video ❤ Please make book review's and recommendation videos

@sahilbhadauria1043 8 месяцев назад

heyy!! di I just want to tell you that you help me a lot with my life you also make me feel like you are my elder sister i'm watching you since a long time and i swear it helped a lot!!! thanks di!! lots of love 💓💓💖💖❤

@drishtiispeaks 8 месяцев назад

Im so happy to know this❤️

@sanskari_meme 14 дней назад

Thankyou is not enough for you ❤

@pratham-static08 8 месяцев назад

You're Looking beautiful drishti ❤..

@rupalipatil2778 8 месяцев назад

Yess❤

@chandanvishwakarm4287 5 месяцев назад

Didi aapki iss video ko dekh ne ka purpose ye hai ki main na baat cut ta hu toh mere ko ek genuine solution chahiye tha taki meri iss galti ko solve kar paunga and last aapne ye jo badminton wala example Diya tha jo mere kafi practical laga ye mere one to one conversation main hota hai or Mera solution dene wala mindset hai na ki sunne wala thanks for this valuable video ❤❤❤❤ loves from mp

@tahahakim7409 8 месяцев назад

Great ..for me the takeway would be ..being comfortable with silence..that pause where u feel obliged to fill in the gap..just not needed!

@Dusky_Shine_Vlogs 8 месяцев назад

Hello mam , I like to watch your videos they are really helpful.. and I noticed that pink is your fav colour and u look cool in it 💗

@vinayakalandkar 8 месяцев назад

Hey di, your videos are so thoughtful and insightful ❤️🤗 Plus I want to ask how do you generate ideas like what's the process ?

@amanagarwal6123 8 месяцев назад

Drishti ur looking khoobsurat ❤

@muskan.4307 8 месяцев назад

7:17 Even the listener needs to be heard!

@ayushipanday1753 8 месяцев назад

Exactly

@shradhaa683 8 месяцев назад

Actually for it's really hard to talk anyone who is not Happy or kind of there is a big trouble is going on his life ....like something happened like this that made the person crying...i really get so emotional while talking i don't know what to say in that situation... I try to feel them that I m there for them whenever they need ... I will apply some your tips from now . Thank you for the video❤ I really wait for ur videos. Lots of love ❤❤❤

@arunimamaheshwari155 8 месяцев назад

Will Try To Follow These Tips And Trickes In Daily Conversation But Wanna Say Thank You So So Much Covering Such Unique And Interesting Topics ♥️ Btw I Hope You Know Me (Maybe) 😂Much Much Love From This Side 🇵🇰🫶

@amanpreet12thnon-medical46 8 месяцев назад

I was having some issues in making deep connections with my partner, he stoped telling me his thoughts and said u broke my trust i was completely shattered at that point this video made me realise my whole mistake i'm very thankful to u drishti di🥰🌺☘

@Gunjankauniverse_ 8 месяцев назад

Your hands are so slim and beautiful 🤩🥰 Please bring a video for handcare

@priyankamannaart 8 месяцев назад

I always come and takeaway some good lessons from your video, is this a coincidence or what each time you post about a topic which was currently moving in my mind😅