How Being In Public Feels: Men VS Women 

My female friend felt the need to carry a knife with her at the age of 13 when she walked alone, fair enough but a little weird, but when she told me she had to pull it out to make some 20 something year olds go away, that’s when I 100% knew I had it much easier than her.

"If my phone doesn't have 90% battery life, I'm not leaving the house." *eats candy*

He: "I enjoy walking alone in the streets at night" Me: Bro, I live in Brazil

As a women, I actually really enjoying walking in the street at night but scared at the same time.

The girls should have asked "where did you get all that candy from " With the guys replying "Oh form this guys van he offered us free candy "

why are women's pockets almost non existent? me and my friend figure it's to sell more handbags

I love how the settings get progressively darker/lighter. I didn't notice at first, but it really sells the different perspectives. EDIT: It's been a while since I've seen this thread. For those of you asking how I didn't notice the changes, I just want to point out that I said I didn't notice AT FIRST. At the BEGINNING OF THE VIDEO, the changes in perspective are deliberately subtle before going ridiculously full-blown. It's not something you'd notice the first time around (like the lighting being just a shade darker than before). That was my only point.

"If the female orgasm is real, why does my wife assure me she's never had one" - Ben Sharpie

"We don't have big enough pockets" So true

Half of this video was an excuse to eat that candy.

I feel like the guys had a much better time during this sketch than the girls 😂

And what's especially sad is that, that paranoia to be raped, assaulted or publicly shamed by someone comes so naturally, and at such a young age, it's scary and messed up and so twisted

omg. I get this is a joke but walking at night is the scariest thing ever.

So.... I should stop sending pictures of myself holding pictures of Katie with the eyes scratched out and 'Soon' written in crayon on the bottom? Pfft. Modern women have lost all sense of romance.

That's why i like buying men's jeans instead, they're way more comfy and have pockets that actually function like pockets

are yall just showing off your candy collection

Straight men, don't say anything to a woman on the street that you wouldn't want a guy to say to you in prison. Edit: I made this comment a while ago, and I now understand how insensitive it is and no longer agree with it. It makes light of male prison sexual assault victims, who are already belittled and dismissed for speaking out about their experiences. I apologize. In general, just try to empathize with the other person before you say smth to them. If you'd feel uncomfortable or scared in their position, just don't say whatever it is. Be kind, and respect other people. I specified "straight men" in my original comment because I feel that the majority of men that harrass women are straight, and they harrass women due to their own toxic masculinity and insecurity about their "manliness," so to speak. Ofc, this does not mean that all straight men harrass women, and it doesn't mean that all sexual harrassers are straight men. I wish I could respond to some of these comments bc they upset me but I have neither the time nor the energy. All I have to say is this: I heard once somewhere that for someone who has privilege, equality feels like oppression. Maybe that's how some of the men in the replies feel. Maybe that's why some of you are so defensive. I understand that men struggle with their own sets of issues, and any reasonable feminist will agree wih me that sexism and the patriarchy affects both sexes. So, please stop bringing up men's issues in a conversation about women's issues to invalidate our suffering. Both men AND women's issues deserve to be heard and validated, so stop comparing and claiming that you have it worse. Listen to us, and we'll listen to you, and together we can fight the systems that oppress us all. I hope everyone reading this is safe and healthy, and know that there are people who care abt you, even if you haven't met them yet.

One time a neighbour (male) gave me a lecture about why I should always be kind to strangers even in deep hours of the night. He could fit right into this sketch with that kind of thinking

Walking at night is a nice idea, but everytime I start to relax I remember that I am alone, in the dark, and the police would not make it in time.

Love the end card because now that college humor has dropout they literally have a secret app that you have to type in your credit card info to get more videos

What is this outside they keep referencing

I've seen more comments saying "I've seen more comments about triggered people than I've seen triggered people" than I've seen comments about triggered people.

Leaving your phone at home is so stupid, doesn’t matter who you are

Jogging at midnight is where you meet all the wattpad bad boys...

I wished more people would have looked in the description before commenting...

I got catcalled for the first time when I was 11 on my way home from school i was on a double decker on the top floor and it was a public bus so there was this group of guys who were in their early 20s and they were vaping and they were said "heyyyyyy girl I want to brush you're hair with my teeth!!" I felt really weirded out by it so I went downstairs for the rest of my ride it was a interesting and uncomfortable experience would not recommend it

“We’re already holding keys in one hand as a weapon.” I’ve never related to a line more than that one, wow.

When I was in college, I had really bad insomnia. I would get up and walk around Edinburgh at 4am. This was in the early 90s, so no phone. For protection I had a t-bar corkscrew with a very sharp point (it’s illegal to carry a knife, but there’s no law against carrying corkscrews). In retrospect, I was a moron, but honestly - it was very peaceful and relaxing.

hello. This has been hour five of being trapped in a comments section about gender. It all started earlier this morning when the ads were buffering, and I got bored. Since then it has only gotten worst. I've seen it all angry replies to shitty jokes that reach the max comment chain limit. comments about people who hate men, comments about people who hate women, comments about people who hate people who hate men, comments about people who hate people who hate women. everything is spiraling, and the edges of my vision are starting to turn fuzzy. I only have a few minutes before my battery dies so this is the only thing I have time to say. It's too late for me, but it isn't too late for you. Listen to my next words very carefully. DON'T SCROLL DOWN

Ugh, women's pockets suck. They're either fake or they're too small to fit your phone!! EDIT: Why the flip do I have so many likes?

@ the people saying “just get a gun” - mental health issues means that’s not a good idea

I can and can’t relate? Because on the one hand I’m gay. And it’s apparent when I go out. And I’m always afraid of someone hurting me

Scrolling through the comments I see like 80% of the people only get half the joke

I'll take "Comment Section That Entirely Missed the Point" for 300, Alex.

You forgot body hair. and please say it louder for the people in the back.

As a young woman, I have to say that the girls’ perspective is one that I definitely get behind. Except for the night walks. Jogging at midnight is awesome. Then again, I have the fortune of living in a gated suburban neighbourhood- the only people I run into at that time are security guys on patrol. It’s sad that many girls don’t have the luxury of feeling safe enough to do the same :(

All that candy!!!

Clearly Grant and Zack are sugar-coating everything.

I find it depressing how so many women can relate to almost every part of the female side of this video and then all these men are just denying all of it

sad but true someone tryed to traffic me when i was 12 that messed me up

"OUR POCKETS AREN'T BIG ENOUGH!" Amen, sister.

it isn't a buzzfeed video, guys. This actually took some thought. Both parties are being parodied here.

Literally (and I mean it) EVERYTHING scares me... and as a Asian male, I have to either be unfazed by anything or pretend to be because despite all of the society issues that we have tackled, it's kinda ignored by a lot of Asian families.

As a guy, it's always just the most uncomfortable thing when I'm coming home late, there's no one on the street except me and a woman and we're heading in the same direction. I always have no idea what to do, because I absolutely feel for the woman, but also I gotta go in that direction. If I can I'll cross over to the other side of the street but that's not always an option. Sometimes I wanna yell out "Don't worry, I'm not trying to rape you" but honestly, feel like that'd make the situation worse. Usually I just see them speed up and while it's definitely a little hurtful, I completely understand and it's best for both parties.

Comments: 1% feminists 5% people complaining about feminists 94% *grabs popcorn* or 'dont read below' or this type of comment

Most the comments are people saying not to get triggered when no one is triggered

Hurts how accurate this sketch is

With Grant basically inviting everybody to just hook up with him on Instagram in the latest Game Changer episode, this makes a lot of sense

I like how most of the comments are about most of the comments about most of the comments

The struggle when pepper spray and other self defence items are illegal where you live and the only thing you can buy is a spray that stains the skin. Great so I can colour my rapist in hope he will get somewhat of of a punishment if he is caught before the dye washes out instead of stopping him.

1:10 ok I'm a dude and I would never go drinking alone

This. I’m only in 8th grade and some high school dude reached out to me over email by accident. I let him know I was new to the district and didn’t know many people so I probably didn’t know him either, and he replied he could “show me the ropes”. I took a chance and decided to let the conversation continue and it almost immediately went to “so do you have any crushes yet? A boyfriend?”. Platonic friendships with men? I wish...

Damn this comment section is really something else

Is it ok if I just put my credit card details in the comments? I don't now how to private message you!

I’d laugh at this, but it’s so true that it actually makes me cry a bit.

I know it's exaggerated... But it's actually kinda true.

I like how most of the comments is about how most of the comments are about something (Edit) Thanks for the likes guys!

People: why does society- Me: don't even start

Honestly I didnt used to feel like this but now since im growing up and always feel so exposed in public.

My god. The comment section.

The whole time i was agreeing with the girls but wanting to agree with the guys to eat the food ahhahah

Just. Read. The. Description.

I enjoy so much my walks in the dark before going to bed, I really relaxes me

My best friend once break the ice with another girl at school with "hey, i use the same mace brand".

10% of the comment section: people who missed the point 90% of the comment section: complaining about people who missed the point

STOP AND READ THE DESCRIPTION

Tbh, this is why being a 6’3 dude is awesome. You basically don’t have to worry

As a woman, I agree with all of that. Especially walking alone in the street at night, I get very scared and I won't do it unless I have no other choice.

It hurts how accurate it is for the women

I had a similar experience talking about running in the park alone in the morning. No matter how many times I tried to explain it to my male coworker, he could not understand why I, as a woman by herself, wouldn’t feel safe doing that. I would love to feel safe enough as a man to not have to think about all of the potential situations where I could be raped, murdered, and/or kidnapped.

Yeah, I'd be scared too, also the end is great and id love to know how that cake tastes like !

Zach and Grants smiles are so big, it’s adorable lol

Today I took the bus. My boyfriend was noce enough to wait at the busstop with me, but there was this older guy there who kept mumbling and walking back and forth in front of us and staring directly at me non-stop. when i got on i put my bag in the seat next to me to avoid him sitting there but he sat across from me, legs in the aisle, whole body facing me, still mumbling nonstop. He seemed to enjoy the fact that i was visibly uncomfortable and when I put in earbuds and turned away he got up and moved to the seat in front of me so that he had to be in my line of sight. Eventually I gained the courage to tell him off and the bus driver threatened to kick him off the bus if he didn't face forward the whole trip. This video is too terrifyingly real. I could also tell you about the time I was followed 6 or 7 blocks in the dark. I was lucky a lady was driving by and drove back around to make sure I was okay because she saw him following me too. She gave me pepper spray. Shit was terrifying, but I digress.

outside scares me in general...

My favorite part of the skit is the lighting.

So true male friends don’t understand how we women feel alone at night especially when small.

This is one of my favorites. "I sat in guUUM! Oh man!"

"Hi, it’s me, the person who completely misses the point, here to tell you men get murdered too!" -Video's description Best comment I've seen yet.

Honestly though, I carry very sharp scissors with me to the bus stop. My heart starts pounding a million miles a minute even if a car drives by

Never fear, COVID is here.

This is more like super paranoid people vs super oblivious people lmao

Why are you all having a fucking aneurism about this? Its a video addressing very real issues women have in a comedic way. Its not "liberal propaganda", its just a sketch. You're the people who this is about and it went straight over your heads.

“Periods!” Relate also who has the time to find a place to sit on and changes pads,tampons or cups when there’s like a restroom in the store next by

Those little tiny pockets are for pocket watches apparently because we all still use those.

first time a car crashes the driver lives

I can't believe how many of the people in the comments think that the women's side of this is exaggerated, and so are basically responding exactly the same way that the guys do in the video. Do people really not understand that the majority of women in cities live like this, no matter where they are in the world?

Ughhh Some guy on Snapchat kept asking me for full body pics I'm literally 12 wtf and he knows this it was werid I showed the messages to all my friends and they said that they all had him as a friend he is blocked by all of us and he is blocked and reported

Yeah this is what kills me. My female friends tell me what they go through just doing normal everyday things and it's just disgusting what they have to constantly be wary about, like I couldn't imagine, all the things that I enjoy doing I just wouldn't be able to do like wtf

Comments break down: 99% people complaining about extreme feminists complaining 1% actual extreme feminists complaining

Can you imagine the setup for this video? They had to change the lighting for every shot!

This isn’t even a comedy skit this is just facts

It’s hilarious when they start eating candy 😂

THE WHOLE JOKE IS THAT IT'S EXAGGERATING. Men get anxious walking around at 2 am alone and women don't all carry weapons at all times. Men aren't naive, blundering idiots without a care in the world and women aren't paranoid schizophrenics with twitchy fingers because the world is out to get them. College Humor. HUMOR!!!!

how it feels to choose 5 gum

This was hilarious, thank you!!!!!

To be fair Walking round at night as a black person is super dangerous regardless of gender. Its actually probably worse for dudes, since u know, the fuzz might be lurking.

the pocket point is so true. women clothing pockets are always fake

The point of this video is to show that women are too worried about dangers and men are too carefree. It's a satire on both genders. The description of the video is directed towards the men that get triggered because they think this is feminist video even though it's not.

Whenever I have to walk home in the dark, my mum lectures to me to be super cautious, but I just find it calm and peaceful and I don’t feel the need to worry.

I love just chillin on a nice secluded dark bench in a empty park late at night alone without my phone