How Can I Focus On Money When I'm Going Through A Divorce? 

If she or he WOULD go, then they SHOULD go. Am I right?

Probably down to our nature to try and fix problems, but it's an essential skill that we'd all be better off learning

So true. All this "fight to keep her" belong in Disney rom-coms.

AKA: Red Pill up now!

50% of household assets, 50% of post-tax income and every year or two Her FREE court appointed Lawyer, renegotiates and cuts you Death by a thousand cuts

LoL, he married a good house keeper. He gets divorced, she keeps the house.

for one he needs Jesus to fix it all

@@PriceLomonte Yes, prayer has a place but Jesus helps those who help themselves. I don't think the reality is He will rule on the divorce and pay his legal fees.

@Richard Parker hate is easier than love.

I doubt you gave 100% of everything up, unless there wasn’t much money involved

Braindead comment, Literally millions and millions of people today and in human history have lived this way for many many years. Military families, energy worker families, agricultural families… traveling sales, migrant work… it goes on and on and on.

@@adamseidel9780 everyone has a different point of view of what is a good marriage and what isn't. Many families have had a parent working away from home for long periods but most of those marriages end up in divorce. Military families, oil rig workers, migrant workers usually end in divorce when a spouse is away for a long time. I would never put up with someone working away for long periods of time certainly not to live a more luxurious life if they were doing it for better paid work. Family needs to be a strong unit and stick together by physically being there. My opinion on marriage is that the parents are there for their spouse and children and not abandoning their family and marriage for a career or more money. The only time its acceptable is during war time but I'm referring to peacetime.

@@lepolhart3242 you’re the one who made absolute comments about what is and isn’t a good marriage, not me.

@@lepolhart3242 While I agree with you on the principles of what family relationships and so forth should be, unfortunately, some have to take jobs that require travel because that individual, husband or wife, is the sole family provider. So....choose your battle. Best not to judge everyone's situation.

It’s sus.