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How Do African Women Feel About Polygamy?? 

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Welcome back to another episode of Kenganda. Today we are discussing about being in polygamous relationships. How do African women feel about this? Today we have Sumaya, who is a muslim, who gives her point of view about being in this situation. Lala, who is a Christian, gives her point of view. Lets wait for Edy and see what she has to say.

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@firstbornproductionsfbtvbl4728
@firstbornproductionsfbtvbl4728 4 года назад
Ir's sad the way the HOST supported the woman that did not agree about polygamy, the doubled teamed Lala the entire interview. Shouldn't the host be neutral?
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 3 года назад
Yes
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693
@marriageofthelambassemblie1693 3 года назад
Amen, yes
@Cambrella2022
@Cambrella2022 3 года назад
Why does the host have to hide her feelings? They are all human and all have a voice that should be heard. Maybe one more person who supports polygamy would have balanced things a bit.
@samir-mayit
@samir-mayit 2 года назад
Yeah she was rude
@fireblack5320
@fireblack5320 2 года назад
They always clearly push specific agendas and which is to defile their culturw and Amerikkkanize themselves and others. They had no respect for the polyga.ous wo.an at all.
@bigballer1399
@bigballer1399 5 лет назад
Lala is a gem. ❤️ And I will state that polygamy isn’t for everyone.
@henryfloyd3943
@henryfloyd3943 4 года назад
She truly is..I want to find her ..wow
@niyyahjaffah5308
@niyyahjaffah5308 3 года назад
shes a gud lady
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 3 года назад
@@niyyahjaffah5308 good* 😂
@crystalyn2855
@crystalyn2855 3 года назад
Hey don't fight for her you men y'all can get whoever! Perverts!!🤣
@soulstades9575
@soulstades9575 2 года назад
Lala is wife material 💯🙏🏾
@smgbeats
@smgbeats 4 года назад
She didn’t cut them off not one time when they were talking she showed true maturity when she speaks
@mansamarshawn7532
@mansamarshawn7532 5 лет назад
Polygamy always been in Africa for thousands of years
@classy137
@classy137 4 года назад
mansa marshawn Yes but it doesn’t make it right. I guess slavery is okay in your book?
@houseofmatrix6174
@houseofmatrix6174 4 года назад
classy137 so your saying any form marriage is slavery
@christinathembisile2496
@christinathembisile2496 4 года назад
I think polygamy is a good idea , i dnt mind being a second wife .... as long as our man will make time us for us ...
@phoenixreviews2836
@phoenixreviews2836 4 года назад
mansa marshawn it’s bullshit it doesn’t make it right
@christinathembisile2496
@christinathembisile2496 4 года назад
Lazy Cat South Africa
@gizzanubian2970
@gizzanubian2970 4 года назад
Interviewer is putting lot of her feeling in the interview instead of opening mind
@criticalthinking9796
@criticalthinking9796 4 года назад
Lala is the kind of woman you don't cheat on or take another wife she knows how to make a home happy
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol Год назад
She might just can but that doesn't mean she'll fully fulfill a man 😇
@smgbeats
@smgbeats 4 года назад
I hate hearing how they bash her poly beliefs because they are scared of what real love is. The sister that’s for polygamy look at her did she snark and make stank faces while they were expressing themselves on how they’re not for polygamy, it speaks in VOLUMES THIS SISTER IS COMPLETELY HAPPY AT HOME. Women take notes
@thaboshikwambane
@thaboshikwambane 4 года назад
Two versus one. This was not fair or properly structured
@piashadononfroy1261
@piashadononfroy1261 3 года назад
I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN INTERVIEWED BC I AGREE WITH LALA AND I WAS BORN AND RAISED TO HONOR WESTERN MIND SET BUT I DONT I BELIEVE IN POLY RELATIONSHIPS I THINK THAT IT IS BETTER TO LOVE AS A GROUP RATHER THAN SINGLE THATS JUST MY OPINION ❤️💯💋🌹
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449
@sinistransgressionofthetor5449 3 года назад
True
@kuselwa6715
@kuselwa6715 3 года назад
The title of the video is ‘how do African women feel about polygamy’ and they all told us how they feel. Why do we want to correct it? It’s how they truly feel 🤷🏽‍♀️
@leticiamagalhaes3747
@leticiamagalhaes3747 Год назад
Beautifully said❤🤍
@God.sDaughter
@God.sDaughter Год назад
They don’t represent every single African woman though.
@SD-ws8sn
@SD-ws8sn 6 месяцев назад
​@@God.sDaughter Just like those statistics y'all like to use..it does not count everyone
@thejamaicanreactor
@thejamaicanreactor 4 года назад
When you are submissive and you have something to add the union a man will never leave you . Most of us do not understand polygamy
@yourdedcat-qr7ln
@yourdedcat-qr7ln 3 года назад
I like this guy
@crystalyn2855
@crystalyn2855 3 года назад
Yeah more sex for men of course why would he want to subtract when he would rather add?! Duh it's just the woman live in man's world and men love sex and get boted but feel awesome if they have more than one it makes them feel powerful.
@josephbradley2913
@josephbradley2913 4 года назад
Lala is the ultimate lady. Those two should just date themselves.
@makaveliddon
@makaveliddon 3 года назад
😂😂🤣🤣
@hassinabeauty5800
@hassinabeauty5800 3 года назад
😂😂😂
@antoniocossa4508
@antoniocossa4508 3 года назад
Super agree
@wizzzleee1
@wizzzleee1 3 года назад
Facts ‼️ the other two act like American women 😂😂😂. Lala lets them talk & doesn’t interrupt! They constantly interrupt her 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ the other two are combative & argumentative.. they’ll bring that same energy to a relationship!!
@crystalyn2855
@crystalyn2855 3 года назад
Ofcoarse this all the men aggreing you nastys if you were women woul you be a polygamist wife? Answer me that? Believe me most men would say nooo!🤣 Its funny when the roles are switched vatos!
@farceadentus
@farceadentus 3 года назад
The lady on the right is a smart one. Protect her.
@samnyambi.
@samnyambi. 4 года назад
Wise single Ugandan men should seek Lala’s hand in marriage. You will be happy with her in a monogamous marriage because she will not be stressing you out with jealously towards other women around you. Never cheat on her and you will have a happy marriage because she will respect you.
@derekprinceweems
@derekprinceweems 3 года назад
Amen. Absolutely!
@yourdedcat-qr7ln
@yourdedcat-qr7ln 3 года назад
What if I want other pussy. Sounds limiting
@ComptonWar
@ComptonWar 3 года назад
@@yourdedcat-qr7ln if you arent hiding it, its not cheating
@tahiramaryam
@tahiramaryam Год назад
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@moseset
@moseset 5 месяцев назад
I will still get a second wife like her,make it a double. It will be good
@lovepeacecourage1079
@lovepeacecourage1079 4 года назад
It's not for everyone but it works well for some. Sometimes it's a necessary good. Some woman are in pologamous relationship anyway some of them just don't know it.
@yourlittlesecret7575
@yourlittlesecret7575 3 года назад
*polyamorous
@shadeedmuhammad8107
@shadeedmuhammad8107 2 года назад
Love Peace Courage smart girl. If some do it then ok if they do not it is ok. At the end of the day when a woman was single they were sharing men anyways,smh
@lkpeace911
@lkpeace911 2 года назад
Then that’s cheating… in a poly relationship, all parties know and AGREE.
@shadeedmuhammad8107
@shadeedmuhammad8107 2 года назад
@@lkpeace911 You may be right but at the end the day you are sharing rather regardless what folks may call it. With that in mind someone always get hurt ( regardless of the title that may be used).
@aaliyahbush4961
@aaliyahbush4961 2 года назад
That means they are being backstab!
@oamin100
@oamin100 4 года назад
I would marry lala in a heart beat and give her what ever she want.the other two is a extreme turn off
@LloydsSky9
@LloydsSky9 4 года назад
That is not how you moderate... Asking for ones opinion should not be a competition or a debate to see who is rite and who is wrong. It is also a known fact that polygyny in Africa is as old as Africa.
@azizaleem7940
@azizaleem7940 3 года назад
Lala dropping supreme understanding. One heart and one love. Let us remove insecurities, jealousies, hatred, and envy.
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol Год назад
Exactly 💯 , the very things Europeans in America have taught NATIONS smh
@aearthwise
@aearthwise Год назад
Lala understands true emotionally intelligent love, her beauty shines through, and it does so peacefully, as she holds her own unique power by being truly submissive, and that in itself is a precious gift for any man to behold ❤
@samsantana9348
@samsantana9348 5 лет назад
The moderator is another guest, she is not impartial
@goldenbearfitness9297
@goldenbearfitness9297 4 года назад
Facts didn't even watch after 1 min in
@slevinchannel7589
@slevinchannel7589 3 года назад
Polygamy = Harem-Building; One of the most prideless things possible to do. Poly-Propaganda sure got you good; convinced you of stuff like Harems being Justified and that you need to ‚take good care of them’. But sorry to say, this is just general propaganda, nothing else. It’s not something royal or good. Rather, Polygamy is Failing at Monogamy, so to speak. Propaganda got you got and now you think it’s ok or even the Best, but it never will be ok. It’s just bringing back the primitive past and normalizing this randomized numbers of Partners, which is just wrong. It’s not ‚another Lifestyle’, but in fact, taking part in a Harem is pure Humiliation for anyone involved. You normalize this, not even understanding what you’re doing.
@kwabenaadjei2009
@kwabenaadjei2009 3 года назад
My thought 😂😂
@gems3604
@gems3604 4 года назад
Interesting. I'm glad Lala finds polygamy works for her. Some women it does work for them. But in order for it to work, everyone needs to cooperate.
@divinesol1997
@divinesol1997 2 года назад
True indeed lala it's called equality in other words let's say balance
@Spokestherevolutionary
@Spokestherevolutionary 2 года назад
I love Lala. Thank you 🙏🏿 🙏🏿 🙏🏿 she is such an African Queen 👑.
@XxxclusiveReviews
@XxxclusiveReviews Год назад
Yes Lala.... great queen...
@Erica-ls7bp
@Erica-ls7bp 3 года назад
Polygamy for women like Lala is really about the veneer of a marriage, they are actually living a single ladies life but with a title. Women like Lala don't want the daily interference into her affairs that would happen if she had to share her life with a man full time. Polygamy is how Afeican women get freedom from men in an acceptable way that won't stigmatize them being single mothers (which is what they are).
@j1thegod
@j1thegod 3 года назад
What’s really difficult to accept is that these two ladies feel like their fantasy of being cuffed by their ideal man are somehow threatened by this Lala’s independent approval of polygamy.
@j1thegod
@j1thegod 3 года назад
Relationships, monogamous or otherwise, fail when participants don’t mind their own relationships and look... this whole chat is really about Lala unpacking polygamy, while the other two have nothing constructive to say about anything, let alone their monogamy... not even a single inspired thought
@lawrencebolt3540
@lawrencebolt3540 3 года назад
Because lala gives men what will bring them peace and the other 2 haven't a clue what a man is, lala is the highest level threat.
@The_Being_Alive
@The_Being_Alive Год назад
@@j1thegod Imagine if all the women were like Lala! This world would not be messed and many kids would not be sufferring right now I speaking.
@cigarholdingsllc8356
@cigarholdingsllc8356 5 лет назад
Polygamy is needed to avoid cheating privately, is good b/c one single woman doesn't have to carry all responsibilities of homemaking & the house gets more income. It's also needed b/c women out number men & the real heterosexual men population is shrinking (due to white racism & LGBTQ)
@tietearoddy
@tietearoddy 4 года назад
If a man gotta do poly to avoid cheating he needs to stay single.
@Babybookieboo
@Babybookieboo 4 года назад
Poly men cheat
@dariush.4241
@dariush.4241 3 года назад
@@Babybookieboo monogamous men and women cheat. What's your point 😂?
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 3 года назад
@@dariush.4241 that’s not monogamy then
@nikishastanfill504
@nikishastanfill504 3 года назад
CHC INC...... This was the only reason I heard soooo far that made any sense honestly.....I don't believe in polygamy ....... But this reason sounded better than anything either of these women said..... The only thing I don't like about it is that this type of belief is catering to a man only either way you put it
@phoenixknight8837
@phoenixknight8837 2 года назад
Lala is very wise and gave an excellent rational response. 👏
@angiyikuswela
@angiyikuswela 4 года назад
You're not a good presenter cos you're taking sides. You may have a side but your role here was to give both ladies an opportunity to express their views. This can't be a platform for you to express your views. They are important but not relevant here.
@kristastewart5388
@kristastewart5388 3 года назад
Lelia (sorry if I misspelled) I really enjoyed your points and like that you made a point about nature. You are wise
@God.sDaughter
@God.sDaughter 4 года назад
I’d never understand why women would want to share a man? That’s some foolishness. Polygamy benefits men more than it does the woman.
@d.jmamba7237
@d.jmamba7237 4 года назад
Lol if you think that then you're dumb
@alphabogeyman7462
@alphabogeyman7462 2 года назад
It's how nature designed it,we just created rules to punish men for doing something that is in their nature.
@bronzesweetqueen4227
@bronzesweetqueen4227 Год назад
@@alphabogeyman7462 Nobody gives a fuck about what’s in men’s nature women are now free in the world
@alphabogeyman7462
@alphabogeyman7462 Год назад
@@bronzesweetqueen4227 That nonsense only works in countries where they can take half of the man's assets,in the Middle East or Africa she can bounce of she doesn't like it.
@bronzesweetqueen4227
@bronzesweetqueen4227 Год назад
@@alphabogeyman7462 Men in Africa are poor and white mens property I couldn’t care less what “men” that go enslaved by the white man has to say.
@divinesol1997
@divinesol1997 4 года назад
There's no such thing as number one n two n three n four bc all us one n should treat each other fair n with equally n it should be balance
@TheCounselOfNigritia
@TheCounselOfNigritia 4 года назад
Yes, that's them emotions run by Western societies
@lawrencebolt3540
@lawrencebolt3540 Год назад
Hey sis, Quick question please, have you done a MBTI test before?
@wizzzleee1
@wizzzleee1 3 года назад
Lala killed them with the “S” word 🤣🤣
@elmosmoove1762
@elmosmoove1762 2 года назад
becaue yall pooosay to reciprocate and to compete with other man plus treatt woman bad asd nor cant submit to one so how can u do two
@gm8378
@gm8378 2 года назад
I've been in very nice monogamous relationships. I've been proposed to 6 times, (one went in twice), I have nothing negative to say about those men or those relationships, they ran their course. I have also been in an polygamist relationship. It was fine also. The truth is, id, rather be single, spend time with whom i want to spend time with, when I want to spend time with them. I don't have the "lonely" gene and I don't need financial support. It has been my experience that it is the weak, coddled, ego driven, truth deflecting, un-evolved man who needs a "submissive" woman.
@wizzzleee1
@wizzzleee1 2 года назад
@@gm8378 a few synonyms for the word “submit” ; yield, cave in, give away, back down, humble ones self, agreement, agree to, adhere to, consent to, conform to, comply, heed, wave the white flag, lay down ones arms, play by the rules, play by the book.... We all have to submit in one way shape form or fashion.. this is what creates order.. & we all know where there is no order there is chaos
@The_Being_Alive
@The_Being_Alive Год назад
@@wizzzleee1 Well said....Those women, birds like sneaks must shut up and get a life. Just leave the men alone.
@2801pepperdog
@2801pepperdog 2 месяца назад
I totally agree with Lala…. Many more women in the entire African diaspora should share Lala’s perspective we as and African global society would benefit her perspective immensely.
@yahosephbenyisrael917
@yahosephbenyisrael917 4 года назад
Interesting. The Muslim does not want polygamy, but the Christian does....Lala is right though. Men are polygynous by nature. Polygamy is an umbrella term. The proper word is polygyny. A man who has more than one wife practiced polygyny. Polyandry is when a woman has more than one husband. Polyamory is when you have orgies with multiple men and women. Polyamorous people are transgender, gay and bisexual people with multiple partners. The bible permits polygyny and I am all for it. Whether you have one woman or five women, all your wives are supposed to submit to you and as long as you take care of them with the basic necessities such as food, clothing, shelter and sex, it is okay to have multiple wives. Polyandry and Polyamory are forbidden according to the bible.
@classy137
@classy137 4 года назад
Yahoseph Ben Yisrael what? Basic needs so I guess she’s your pet? I think your wife should out source because your list of what you can provide to her is very thin. No where in the Bible did God say it was okay. He is a sixth-generation descendant of Cain (Genesis 4:18); his father was named Methushael, and he was responsible for the "Song of the Sword". He is also noted as the first polygamist mentioned in the Bible, taking two wives, Adah and Zillah (Tselah). But no where did it say it was ok.
@reefk3412
@reefk3412 4 года назад
@@classy137 read the Qur'an
@classy137
@classy137 4 года назад
Reef k how about you look at the original one and see how it’s had changes made to it. Know your history before you direct me some where.
@ryanreed1974
@ryanreed1974 Год назад
Love that women on the right. All men with wealth, wish for a women like that. Not the versa.
@JD-tp6ei
@JD-tp6ei 3 года назад
It’s so true that a man can not love the women equally. At best , he can provide equally for them.
@tietearoddy
@tietearoddy 4 года назад
They add more wives for the benefit of the man and life is not about pleasing the man. The interviewer is right I'm on her side. We were created to be submissive not stupid and a doormat.
@robnesha4561
@robnesha4561 3 года назад
It always centers around the satisfaction of the man
@sky-od8cq
@sky-od8cq 3 года назад
Exactly
@YouTubeProgramming
@YouTubeProgramming Год назад
If that is a problem don’t become a wife.
@leticiamagalhaes3747
@leticiamagalhaes3747 Год назад
True😔
@TheMatkat
@TheMatkat 4 года назад
We need a part two to this lala needs her own show where lala now is lala taken and not listening lalalala
@chosen_333_3
@chosen_333_3 3 года назад
Lmaooo
@beautyandskill3393
@beautyandskill3393 3 года назад
Thank you, Lala 🙏🏼✨
@houseofmatrix6174
@houseofmatrix6174 4 года назад
The host was close minded Lala was calm made sound arugement, life is not about pleasing man,I personally like independent woman but Lala end up happy she understand God design marriage for man lead and wife follow.
@TheCounselOfNigritia
@TheCounselOfNigritia 4 года назад
Lala is guarded by culture, them other two are in Western mind set....I hope they don't take the rest of our culture away
@houseofmatrix6174
@houseofmatrix6174 4 года назад
Newhouse of Yisreal i agree they going with familiar instead of unfamiliar
@TheCounselOfNigritia
@TheCounselOfNigritia 4 года назад
@@houseofmatrix6174And I guarantee you the moderator is a Christian. They not even speaking up for the culture...All you hear is feelings and emotions
@piashadononfroy1261
@piashadononfroy1261 3 года назад
YES I WAS BORN AMERICAN BUT I READ MY OWN KNOWLEDGE AS FAR AS RELIGION I HAD MANY FRIENDS BORN AND RAISED MUSLIM AND FROM ALL AROUND AFRICA I KNEW WHEN I WAS 14 THAT I WANTED TO BE A SECOND WIFE TO AN HONORED AND PRIVILEGED MAN BC I BELIEVE THAT A MAN THAT FOLLOWS THE WILL OF GOD CAN LEAD HIS SACRED MARRIAGE WITH HIS WIFE OR WIVES AND A WOMAN IS ONLY SUPPOSE TO FOLLOW A MAN THAT HONORS THE WILL OF GOD BY OBEYING HIM AND BEING SUBMISSIVE BUT ONLY IF HE IS TRULY RIGHTEOUS 💯💋🌹❤️MUCH LOVE TO LALA SHE IS ABSOLUTELY A QUEEN BC IT TAKES COURAGE AND HUMILITY TO BE HUMBLE AND SHARE AND AGREE AND GROW AND LIVE TOGETHER IN A HOME🌹💋💯❤️
@elmosmoove1762
@elmosmoove1762 2 года назад
aint i bet those other two woman still happy even tho she dont hAVE TO SHARE ran thru dick , catch stds , settle herself in every way as human , slave minded , thinkining like white man wwhen it comes to power , god as as husmans and as men. she can live her best life without anyone , u men the weaks ones that really need woman more than woman need us
@chosen_333_3
@chosen_333_3 3 года назад
Yessss LaLa, let them know the facts sis
@blazejon
@blazejon 8 месяцев назад
One heart and one love, that's the truth. You cannot promote jealousy between the children or wives. Yes let love reign ❤
@mkc9737
@mkc9737 4 года назад
Unless you find 2 or 3 like lala, if you're polygamist, you're definitely in for a bumpy ride. Also, you stand a much better chance of being struck by lightning than finding a submissive women.
@God.sDaughter
@God.sDaughter 4 года назад
I wonder if men would accept it if a woman were to want to have three men for husbands?
@semiloreomoyinmi6398
@semiloreomoyinmi6398 4 года назад
Why not?
@rj1056
@rj1056 4 года назад
Nuh that gay
@rj1056
@rj1056 4 года назад
That backwards
@God.sDaughter
@God.sDaughter 4 года назад
Informax Isn’t it gay lesbianism for a man to want to have 3 ten wives?
@God.sDaughter
@God.sDaughter 4 года назад
Informax Fragile ego.
@sandersestablishment4194
@sandersestablishment4194 4 года назад
Lala is a queen that i would worship. Her confidence is overwhelming her company.
@divinesol1997
@divinesol1997 4 года назад
Cee European went to Africa n used trick knowledge n the past generationas today come to America n get westernized I n forget bout their true culture n tradition
@imanbutton7072
@imanbutton7072 4 года назад
So sad
@_prettybrownbrown7729
@_prettybrownbrown7729 4 года назад
I would not want polygamy marriage . It must be easier knowing that there is another woman and accepting that. I personally would say no .
@Karma-iz4ir
@Karma-iz4ir 4 года назад
Same here. I am too jealous for that. Loyalty is important. Neither should cheat.
@brianandrews4290
@brianandrews4290 4 года назад
To me marriage is sacred 1 man and 1 woman. I couldn't do it.
@Karma-iz4ir
@Karma-iz4ir 4 года назад
@@brianandrews4290 So glad someone thinks like me.
@oneupforthesonof
@oneupforthesonof 4 года назад
Can't control no one soon as you stop trying u let go of soo much stress. If you know the man loves you he will not leave as long as you don't facts! Let him be honest n he won't cheat no more he will begin to ask you first ;)... Only way u can get a lil control otherwise he gone lie to you period boo
@TheCounselOfNigritia
@TheCounselOfNigritia 4 года назад
When the Queen find her King she submits to the KINGDOM. The queen don't possess the King..... We are spiritual Kings and Queens. Our Queens wasn't an emotion reck back then. They understood the way of life
@mixmastermtv
@mixmastermtv 9 месяцев назад
Lala all day every day. What a wise woman ❤
@lesbradley774
@lesbradley774 3 года назад
Much respect for all three of you lovely Ladies
@bwNetOps
@bwNetOps Год назад
Love the spirit of the lady on right, Yah bless you ..
@sarahstarr
@sarahstarr Год назад
Polygamy isnt everyone's cup of tea. While its great for "ultra independant", "emotionally unavailable" or "financially dependant" women and gives them companionship along with benefits like free time, children and financial resources with the cost of sharing her husband. But for a woman who is emotionally devoted and who prefers an emotionally available partner - its not compatible I believe. As for a man - only if can be fair to all his wives will it be a win win situation for him otherwise its just an emotional hell.
@danielburton2927
@danielburton2927 Год назад
That is a lie . It’s not for emotional people . God ordained Marriage to Multiple wives . So the issue would be us as people Going against the system God set up . Because You shouldnt marry Multiple wives unless your heart is right with God because otherwise you will be lead down a path of temptation. “If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be her's that was hated: then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, which is indeed the firstborn: but he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of the firstborn is his.” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭21:15-17‬ ‭KJV‬‬ 1 Joash was seven years old when he began to reign, and he reigned forty years in Jerusalem. His mother's name also was Zibiah of Beer-sheba. 2 And Joash did that which was right in the sight of the LORD all the days of Jehoiada the priest. 3 And Jehoiada took for him two wives; and he begat sons and daughters. (‭‭2 Chronicles‬ ‭24‬‬:‭1-3‬ KJV Joash Pleased God and he had 2 wives . 29 And Jerubbaal the son of Joash went and dwelt in his own house. 30 And Gideon had threescore and ten sons of his body begotten: for he had many wives. 31 And his concubine that was in Shechem, she also bare him a son, whose name he called Abimelech. 32 And Gideon the son of Joash died in a good old age, and was buried in the sepulchre of Joash his father, in Ophrah of the Abi-ezrites. (‭‭Judges‬ ‭8‬‬:‭29-32‬ KJV Gideon a Judge of Israel Had multiple Wives and the bible is very clear he please God in all that he did ! Many other Men of God had Multiple wives ! As i said it’s about The heart ! Because if your heart isn’t with God ultimately you will just run towards sin every time .
@claudiaayala9215
@claudiaayala9215 3 года назад
Thank you Lala for your wise words!
@lawrencebolt3540
@lawrencebolt3540 Год назад
Hello sis, Quick question here, have you done a MBTI test before?
@faheemfaquir1024
@faheemfaquir1024 Год назад
Note to self: Get a woman who believes women were created to be submissive to a man, understands the nature of man and thinks polygamy is good, outsourcing, one love, one heart
@divinesol1997
@divinesol1997 4 года назад
It's many reasons y women do not condone polygamy
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol Год назад
SEX being the main reason 😂 . Women with a mindset like the host are going down the road to destruction 💯. At this point they may as well go to America 🇺🇸
@blazejon
@blazejon 8 месяцев назад
It's a part of the African culture specifically Ugandan culture. I am very much considering it right now. There are things my current wife has no interest in but I still care for her and just don't want to toss her aside. The difficult thing is this isn't something I even thought of as we got married. It's a tuff situation to bring up but I really feel I have to. Maybe it's the ancestors talking to me but I'm very concerned about legacy and building a strong one.
@TriceyC
@TriceyC 4 года назад
It’s easy to be LaLa when you have not lived polygamy. Easy to say the words. Why say women are naturally jealous, emphasis on naturally, and then bash them for being who they are naturally. But then you say men are naturally polygamist and you say we have to deal with that as a fact of life. Again like the moderator said everything is geared toward pleasing the man. And that’s not right, no matter what you’re itching ears tell you is okay. #entanglementwithAugust
@nicksvendlund4487
@nicksvendlund4487 5 месяцев назад
Polygamy was greated to ensure that widowed females would not be without provision and protection. The problem appear to be that the women are afraid that they will get less because a sister wife gets something as well. A good man rewards and gives all a woman deserves. What does goes lost is of cource the "twosomeness"... But the man will have to suppress his own needs if he wishes to be considerate to her mood all the time
@lolafahlana
@lolafahlana 4 года назад
Y’all need a part 2
@The_Being_Alive
@The_Being_Alive Год назад
For that reason I only respect women who have the same vision and understanding of Lala. There rest of them are just birds with eggs inside waiting their metamorphosis into fully grown sneaks ready to bite and kill the mankind. My fellows you better watch out!
@abiyyahbaqbuqyahyaradan3111
That's the issue! We acknowledge "God" to be real and we show Him reverence by keeping His Word. His Word is His Word. It's not contingent on how we feel. We all need to understand that especially the two women on the panel.
@africaine4889
@africaine4889 5 лет назад
I feel like black Americans do not understand what polygamy is really. I feel like for u guys is about having different women for sex and them taking care of you like a pacha. Polygamy is about thr man taking care of his different wives and to be equal to all of them.
@bamashow3676
@bamashow3676 5 лет назад
That's right we here in America still thinking of the man going around and sleeping with his different wives. We need to be educated more and understand the true meaning of the term
@Karma-iz4ir
@Karma-iz4ir 4 года назад
Why can't it be reversed. What if a rich woman wants 5 husbands. Seems the men get all the fun and variety.
@africaine4889
@africaine4889 4 года назад
@@God.sDaughterYes taking care, provide for their wives and their children. I am African and for your information African women in general do not want to be in a polygamist marriage. Most of the African couples are not in polygamists marriage. I myself am not in favor of polygamy. But I would never judge any one that is in one. You obviously do not know anything about some African culture so just keep quiet.
@africaine4889
@africaine4889 4 года назад
@@Karma-iz4ir In my country there is a tribe that accepts polyandry
@Karma-iz4ir
@Karma-iz4ir 4 года назад
@@africaine4889 Thats good to know. Equal rights. 😊
@tildus5
@tildus5 3 года назад
TRUE LOVE IS UNIQUE, UNCONDITIONAL, UNCHANGING, ETERNAL AND EXCLUSIVE. EVERYBODY HAS ONE HEART SO IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEBODY, YOU CAN GIVE YOUR HEART ONLY TO ONE PERSON, NOT MORE.
@bungeespeaks6081
@bungeespeaks6081 3 года назад
No it isn't .. my dad has true love for my mum and his otger wife
@lawrencebolt3540
@lawrencebolt3540 3 года назад
Men are built differently to you. You cannot speak about love if you do not honour God's creation and accept God's work.
@pokemonbacon1237
@pokemonbacon1237 2 года назад
@@lawrencebolt3540 hope your agreeing to monogamous relationships since god instructed it to be one man and one woman
@beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
@beautifullyblessedandnatur7457 2 года назад
@@pokemonbacon1237 Exactly. God gave Adam Eve 1 wife. Not Eve, Jasmine, Lisa and Marisa.
@pokemonbacon1237
@pokemonbacon1237 2 года назад
@@_a9403 your instructed to not drink and drive , you are instructed to not steal , you are instructed by many things in the world
@willsteel1631
@willsteel1631 Год назад
Polygamy is centred on strong tradition family life and values.
@isaacreign9140
@isaacreign9140 3 года назад
Crazy how the host was choosing sides it’s not a faire argument and even still the the women in the right brought more points
@t.linellehuston9814
@t.linellehuston9814 3 года назад
Perhaps the main issue with Polygamy is that Women don’t also have the same variety. The Universe leans toward Balance. I suggest enjoying more than one Man wholeheartedly.
@danielburton2927
@danielburton2927 Год назад
“For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭7:2-3‬ ‭KJV A women is bound to her husband as long as he lives . So marrying another man is out the question .
@sk8ingthemystery
@sk8ingthemystery Год назад
White american dude here.... yeah im moving to where Lala is from
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 Год назад
Great points. Thank you, ladies, for the video. Is there a type of relationship that women and men can both be with multiple partners? Like 4 men, 4 women, all in one relationship? I'm just curious cause I do like the idea of outsourcing as well as multiple sexual partners. Seems like it would work great that way. Any thoughts?
@marmyeater
@marmyeater Год назад
That would be polygamy.
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 Год назад
@@marmyeater thanks
@marmyeater
@marmyeater Год назад
@@dakotapeters5654 You're welcome.
@MrHav1k
@MrHav1k 4 года назад
Women are happy to share a high value apex male. If a man is among the best marriage prospects she could attract (or hell, maybe THE best) she will HAPPILY share him with other women. There is no competition among the women. Men compete, women don't. I loved this video. Lala was on point. Polygamy will be legalized in at least one state in the US by 2030.
@greyfoxblade
@greyfoxblade 2 года назад
LALA UNDERSTANDS! XOXO
@BigReddthehebrew
@BigReddthehebrew 7 месяцев назад
You can tell LaLa is comfortable in herself andnunderstand how to use her female power properly. Her attitude will have a man wanting to orovide the world to her, while the other two are very western minded and seldish. Lala is thinking about the bigger family unit vs me me me like the others
@CoffyWilson
@CoffyWilson 25 дней назад
Speaking from America there's so many women that are against because we were taught lies that it is wrong we haven't seen such thing but seeing what happened to my family my mother and father separated and I in foster care and being accused I found out the truth of this topic I wish my father had two honest virtuous women in his life I believe I would not have had a awful childhood. I do believe that there's a benefits in this for the man and the woman if doing it for right reasons and to please Yawah you have to remember that Yahweh is the number one purpose of any relationship ❤
@watchmanawakens4388
@watchmanawakens4388 3 года назад
As a host yes you should have your opinion but is was very unprofessional being emotional and biased the way you were. Lala was patient and very feminine well done sis.
@Beautybizz28
@Beautybizz28 4 года назад
I dont have a problem with Polygamy but lets be honest EVERY man has a favorite so there will be some jealousy. If the man gets sick what house does he remain in if hes not mobile?
@Kenganda
@Kenganda 4 года назад
You can be my wife any day boo 😂😂
@Beautybizz28
@Beautybizz28 4 года назад
@@Kenganda Which one 1 or 2 or 3?😁
@ao1920
@ao1920 3 года назад
@@Kenganda *"The answer to the question lies in understanding the Natural laws involved. People argue that man is polygamous by nature, but that is only so because human body evolved from animals. Polygamy is actually a quality of animals, and with further maturity of the human soul in constant incarnations and reincarnations, they are expected to have outgrown the issue to the monogamy principle. Unfortunately, due to the fall of man, we not only degenerated back to the level of animals but went far below them. Our concept of love became warped, It became confused with lust and its attendant ills of jealousy."* - Uche Mbah
@luciwah7305
@luciwah7305 3 года назад
I dont think women should feel to be a second, third or fourth person to love. If you love a person and wants to give your heart, you will feel it is enough to give it to one wife. And it is not allowed for women to do this? Tf is this shit. Men should not do this if they are a real man.
@MrTteee
@MrTteee Год назад
Shout out to you LaLa.
@JP-gl5dj
@JP-gl5dj Год назад
I like that she got to a point of not trying to control very peaceful.
@adamwassajja6721
@adamwassajja6721 3 года назад
I think the host needs to be objective in her question and especially when you don't agree with the person
@albertzee8510
@albertzee8510 3 месяца назад
As a man, which girl would you choose as your wife?
@KGB94TV
@KGB94TV Год назад
I appreciate the wisdom of Sister Moreal Layla.
@smgbeats
@smgbeats 4 года назад
They won’t even let her talk without interrupting like we don’t wanna hear y’all spit the same reason why y’all are against it cause you’re insecure 😟
@piashadononfroy1261
@piashadononfroy1261 3 года назад
RIGHT LALA IS SO BEAUTIFUL MINDED AND A VERY SWEET LADY
@pauloskidane2819
@pauloskidane2819 4 года назад
One of these women said that men can’t love 2 women “the same”. That’s like saying a parent won’t love his children “the same”. She don’t speak for Men!!
@Jessicaokolie
@Jessicaokolie 4 года назад
Can a woman love two men the same?
@mildhoney2092
@mildhoney2092 4 года назад
Harpy Jessy 😂😂😂😂 notice how they got very quite with this question 😂😂😂😂
@mildhoney2092
@mildhoney2092 4 года назад
That’s not true both my mom and dad have favorites, they say it verbally they don’t have any favorites, but their actions shows who they like the most.
@chidianyanwu8731
@chidianyanwu8731 4 года назад
@@mildhoney2092 you can't stop it So Shut up What's wrong with it
@danielburton2927
@danielburton2927 Год назад
@@Jessicaokolie Nope it’s not Biblical “For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭7:2‬ ‭KJV Your stuck with your husband as long as he lives . “If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be her's that was hated: then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, which is indeed the firstborn: but he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of the firstborn is his.” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭21:15-17‬ ‭KJV‬‬ 1 Joash was seven years old when he began to reign, and he reigned forty years in Jerusalem. His mother's name also was Zibiah of Beer-sheba. 2 And Joash did that which was right in the sight of the LORD all the days of Jehoiada the priest. 3 And Jehoiada took for him two wives; and he begat sons and daughters. (‭‭2 Chronicles‬ ‭24‬‬:‭1-3‬ KJV Joash Pleased God and He had 2 wives . 29 And Jerubbaal the son of Joash went and dwelt in his own house. 30 And Gideon had threescore and ten sons of his body begotten: for he had many wives. 31 And his concubine that was in Shechem, she also bare him a son, whose name he called Abimelech. 32 And Gideon the son of Joash died in a good old age, and was buried in the sepulchre of Joash his father, in Ophrah of the Abi-ezrites. (‭‭Judges‬ ‭8‬‬:‭29-32‬ KJV) Gideon Pleased God and he had multiple wives .
@mutebiemmanuel1425
@mutebiemmanuel1425 Год назад
IF GOD PERMITTED KING SOLOMON TO MANY WIVES THEN WHO ARE WE?
@deontemeriwether
@deontemeriwether 4 года назад
Horrible moderator. There is no right or wrong just differences of opinions and cultures.
@carlosnunes3701
@carlosnunes3701 7 месяцев назад
Polygamy is the best system to preserve the human species
@malcolmking5023
@malcolmking5023 4 года назад
Most African folklore and verbal tradition would say women started polygamy.
@RandomUserName92840
@RandomUserName92840 3 года назад
Lala would be a dream wife
@tekitahoston
@tekitahoston 4 года назад
Oh hell no, pologomy strictly is for the man. Meanwhile the woman stays miserable
@salvadormarin6807
@salvadormarin6807 3 года назад
I think the case for monogamy works best when thinking of the children. I’d love to agree with Lala. I am a man and I think all men would love more women, but don’t know how hard that would be. Still these other women are too feminist. Even a monogamous man would prefer this Lala woman.
@kimakotrotman6860
@kimakotrotman6860 3 года назад
Why did they even invite the woman in polygamy. They beat up on her at every turn.
@dee3489
@dee3489 Год назад
Deal with it or move on, I can have more than one women if you don't want me to have kick rocks. That women spoke all facts you know she will never will have to work a day in her life unless she wants.
@outlandishmccandlish3873
@outlandishmccandlish3873 Год назад
I don't have a problem with polygamy in general because I think some people can make it work but I have a problem with the idea that men just need more sex then women and you have to keep your man happy. I agree if the woman is too tired for sex than the man is not doing enough to help his wife and should be doing just as much to br just as tired. My husband and I have every different levels of sex drive but I'm not going out looking for another man to satisfy my needs because a marriage is more than sex. Marriage is a partnership and if there was another man or another woman that I could have a partnership with along with my husband that would be different. We would each have our strengths and weaknesses that we could compliment each other with.
@kalon511
@kalon511 Год назад
There are far too many people who don't know the history and purpose of certain things. Polygamy isn't/wasn't a "Muslim" thing. It was actually something that God gave/allowed The Ancient Hebrews to do and the so-called "Muslims" ended up making use of that and making it seem as though it were a "Muslim" thing. However, everything that IS considered "Muslim" actually came from the teachings of The Ancient Hebrews. What was the purpose of polygamy? To provide a way to expand the ancient bloodlines. Polygamy had NOTHING to do with the "man" as though he was being catered to. It had NOTHING to do with the woman. It was about bloodlines and customs - even prior to "Islam". God already knew that one wife might get jealous of another - just like that young lady in the middle mentioned, HOWEVER, THIS was God's response/solution to such a situation. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- {Exodus 21:10-11} New English Translation [10] If he takes another wife, he must not diminish the first one’s food, her clothing, or her marital rights. [11] If he does not provide her with these three things, then she will go out free, without paying money. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Polygamy isn't/wasn't meant to be about "money", it's about fairness. Another reason polygamy is good is because there are certain times (during the month) when the husband isn't ALLOWED to sleep with or even touch his wife. In situations or times like those, the other wives make it so that the husband won't risk burnning in hell for thinking about a woman he's NOT married to since he's not able to physically be with someone he's already married to.
@timothysmith4260
@timothysmith4260 3 года назад
Salute to the beautiful polygynous sister in blue. She surely would be a blessing to any man's home. This is a perfect case of the wicked and the righteous becoming enemies. The same for men. The body language and energy turned really aggressive and that sister felt it.
@Japanese_one_Tokyo
@Japanese_one_Tokyo 3 года назад
I think it’s if GOD says it’s okay in the Bible and Quran then it’s okay, it’s better to marry two women and be a honourable husband taking on the responsibilities that come with that then to just cheat or bounce around with different woman being a ‘player’. At least you are keeping it real taking them on properly. Full of honour and blessing if done correctly
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol
@DavidPerkins-jn3ol Год назад
Agreed 💯 , but Most women can't deal with this reality bro , they think they have the power to control a mans vitality as if his royal oats stop at her smh
@pidouble145
@pidouble145 4 года назад
5:05 who is this woman and where can I find her and women like her?????
@BigDaddy4Real
@BigDaddy4Real 4 года назад
When you find out please let me know I want some too!
@XxxclusiveReviews
@XxxclusiveReviews Год назад
LALA... WOW... TRUELY GREATED
@ronnishafranklin1289
@ronnishafranklin1289 4 года назад
He would have to be rich and while he with the other wife I'm flying to different states and countries living my best life... lol Bae I be back in a week or two im going on a business trip🤷‍♀️😂
@TheCounselOfNigritia
@TheCounselOfNigritia 4 года назад
Im rich
@tietearoddy
@tietearoddy 4 года назад
Amen!! Sister right on
@danielburton2927
@danielburton2927 Год назад
“For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭7:2-3‬ ‭KJV‬‬ The issue with that is God made it clear that a women is Stuck with her husband while he draws breath ! God ordained Marrying Multiple wives . “If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be her's that was hated: then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, which is indeed the firstborn: but he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of the firstborn is his.” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭21:15-17‬ ‭KJV‬‬ 1 Joash was seven years old when he began to reign, and he reigned forty years in Jerusalem. His mother's name also was Zibiah of Beer-sheba. 2 And Joash did that which was right in the sight of the LORD all the days of Jehoiada the priest. 3 And Jehoiada took for him two wives; and he begat sons and daughters. (‭‭2 Chronicles‬ ‭24‬‬:‭1-3‬ KJV Joash Pleased God and He had 2 wives . 29 And Jerubbaal the son of Joash went and dwelt in his own house. 30 And Gideon had threescore and ten sons of his body begotten: for he had many wives. 31 And his concubine that was in Shechem, she also bare him a son, whose name he called Abimelech. 32 And Gideon the son of Joash died in a good old age, and was buried in the sepulchre of Joash his father, in Ophrah of the Abi-ezrites. (‭‭Judges‬ ‭8‬‬:‭29-32‬ KJV Gideon was a Judge of Israel and he had multiple Wives , and 70 sons . He pleased God , The issue you have with Gods setup is your ego , But honesty while you are like that God would never place you in that situation because you would just destroy others because you aren’t ready to accept Something that he ordained . It’s not about sex , It’s about The man of God spreading His seed and Raising The next generation to properly serve God !
@simplyjayfilms
@simplyjayfilms 3 года назад
First woman could have kept that extra stuff to herself if she disagreed. The second woman at least respectfully listened to her opinion. Wheher you agree with someone about anything or not, they still deserve the same courtesy.
@divinesol1997
@divinesol1997 4 года назад
For example that's saying as an adult we all know there's such thing as Santa and Christmas bc they were lies but because we got into America customs we tend to still believe n Christmas n Thanksgiving
@mariarozanska9838
@mariarozanska9838 7 месяцев назад
Painful to watch because of host's biased behaviour. I would not subscribe to your channel if that's your way of interviewing people: interupting them, making faces and forcing on them your own opinions. I suggest the lady to go back to journaling school.
@goldenlebel1493
@goldenlebel1493 4 года назад
What about in Islam where polygamy is focused on preventing our women from having to struggle for righteousness alone?
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