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How do you mend a broken heart from loss of a loved one or a relationship gone wrong. How I survived the death of a spouse, What I did wrong and what I know now about surviving loss.
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@kevinhanley6462 2 года назад

My mum said: "Thanks for being so comforting."

@kittenclawsguitarvideos6147 2 года назад

Losing someone is by far the hardest thing I've ever endured. I often think about how wonderful it would be to travel back in time.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Truly!

@faithfulwhispers333 Год назад

I understand this all too well .... Much Love ❤️

@susantaft6873 2 года назад

I first learned about grief when my grandmother died when I was 14 (she lived next door). Then my sweet mother died when I was 17. My husband left after 16 years of marriage. My son died when he was 18 and I was 42. When you list the losses they seem horrific - but I have had a wonderful life! These were just moments in a lifetime - all lifetimes have ups and downs. For me, grief lasts a long time and it is because I have trouble accepting. I get stuck in the "why, why, why" and the 'what ifs'. Once acceptance comes life becomes a joy again. I turned my grief into a positive by becoming a Hospice volunteer. Giving back to others definitely helps. Grief is something we all have in common but often don't talk about - thank you (as always) for your wisdom and inspiration. God bless you.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

You are awesome. Thanks for sharing this with us

@glory1star Год назад

I can see some hope in reading your comment! Your one awesome lady, I hope and pray I can get to your level of faith and acceptance. My only daughter 7 weeks ago was just a freshman at UC 18 just in July her and her roommate were walking to campus in a marked cross walked and her and her roommate was hit by a 17 year old kid whom Stolen the car unfortunately my daughter didn’t survive her injuries she died on the scene her roommate didn’t have much injuries! I have all those Why my precious daughter! 😢

@maryannette3455 Год назад

@@glory1star Oh dear Keisha, I am so sorry...my heart really is in sorrow when I just read your loss. I have lost many over these last 5 years or so and it has made me question my beliefs and faith like "where are you please God?" I have been a good person, why so soon God? I still have no answers, but I will be praying so hard for you dear Keisha. Mother's love sending to you, Mary.

@glory1star Год назад

@@maryannette3455 I agree it does make you questions sometimes your faith! Yes she was young and full of life. Healthy person ran track in HS went to State and all. Just frustrated to know that the world can be unkind. Whom would have thought that sending a child off to college would have resulted in death and not able to walk across the street 🥲 Forever heart broken 💔! Thank You for your reply and continual prayers

@lovetheword6210 Год назад

I am a 62yr old mama of 3 professional adult children. All 3 were mandated to take something in order to keep their jobs (and travel, live life etc) a little over a year ago. It broke my heart, but more traumatic than that was how the personalities of the older 2 completely changed. I have a hunch that this has happened to many other mamas, but other than this spot (thank you Sandra!) there is no where to speak of our horrific losses. Our children are still alive and thriving in the world, but they have literally blocked us out of their lives, when we had been so close and loving for 30+ yrs. Thanks be to God for his Son Jesus Christ! He has prepared me to suffer the loss of many things, and to be thankful in all things. I am thankful for the gift of my children for the 30 yrs that I was given to raise and love them. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD. Praying for all parents suffering the loss of their children. We can do all things through Christ, which strengthens us.❤️

@lifewithsandrahart Год назад

So sorry.

@pearlperlitavenegas2023 Год назад

In sorry it could be due to inflammation in the 🧠.

@DuvAngel1 Год назад

I had to I’m suffering the loss of my adult children that are still alive. It’s like the whole world turned into a nightmare for me while I’m awake.

@alaskayoung584 2 года назад

my grandpa is dying. he's at the hospital now. I needed this video, thank you. 🥺

@cajunlady4893 2 года назад

🙏🕊

@juliehoot3916 2 года назад

🙏

@rrhines3151 2 года назад

A virtual hug 🤗 to you in this trying time for you and your family.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Blessings your way.

@laurie-jeannelister1029 2 года назад

Another important thing I focussed on was forgiveness. I had to forgive myself of my shortcomings and for not saying "I love you" enough or behaving more lovingly on a daily basis when I had the chance.

@dale9724 Год назад

I found that, too. Thank you for your comment.

@hippiegirl5167 2 года назад

I lost my husband when he was only 42 of a heart attack. We had 3 children . I found out he had many girlfriends. It didn’t really surprise me because he was always a womanizer . One of the girls husband called me up and told me he was messing with his wife . I couldn’t even cry at the funeral but I think about him sometimes still and can see him in the eyes of my children.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Mixed emotions in your case is very valid.

@cathyandresiak1975 2 года назад

Great advice Sandra, my mom just passed away in February of Alzheimers and we were very close, somehow I still doesn't seem real to me. Sometimes I put off thinking about her because I have fear of going into a meltdown again. I know she could not live on this earth anymore, she was 86 and I know she is renewed now and not sick anymore and that is what keeps me going. I love her so much and I believe our souls will be together again. Thank You for all of your wisdom and sharing your life with us.

@sandysouthward3635 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story about your mom. I too have lost my mom. It's been over three years but it feels like yesterday. Your right that one day we will be together again for all eternity. But until then we are blessed with so many memories. I hope and pray that you find comfort in those precious moments. God bless you.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

My mother died 25 years ago and not a day goes by that I do t think of her.

@joanyoung790 2 года назад

My Dad passed on his 89th BD after a 10 yr battle w alzheimer’s. Although we were relieved he was no longer suffering , and my Mom could start to heal , we all missed the person he was - and now we rarely think of those 10 yrs except the occasional humorous or happy moments - but we always recall the wonderful Dad he was for us. The pain is now just what seems like a small splinter - and the memories are truly right there beside us as if he was still here. I pray your 💔will heal as ours did.

@sharonwoodall6890 2 года назад

Lost my mom a year ago. I miss her so much. We also were very close. She was 99. Take care❣️

@truthmatters8364 2 года назад

Sweet Cathy, just got off the phone with my sister Sandra and our 88 year old mother with Dementia is going down hill as she is forgetting how to swallow now! It's devastating I know because it's as though you are greiving while they are alive yet don't know who you are are and then you grieve once they are physically gone. I know I will be with her again and it won't be long if the Lord calls her before his return. We are both strong believers and have accepted Jesus as our Savior. I so understand and your in my prayers!❤️

@naomiferreira8255 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing Sandra. Grief doesn’t end. It changes. I’m holding God’s hand on this journey ❤️✝️

@maxineboxer9714 2 года назад

That’s a really good way to put it. It changes.

@wildflowerwind6941 2 года назад

It does not end. And you don't get through it. You learn to live with it.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

So true!

@nelweissenbruch9000 2 года назад

Sandra I recognize the grieving. I am in the middle of it. Both my children are emigrated. I live in the Netherlands, our daughter lives in Norway and our son in Kenia. It is so wierd. I am grieving but they are still alive. It is confusing for me and my huisband. We miss the grandchildren

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

It truly is a loss even though they are still alive. You have genuine grief of missing them.

@beezorob 2 года назад

I am nearly 73 and have experienced little loss so far. My parents lived until 93 and 96, and they passed with very little suffering. I am seeing friends with a lot of loss and wonder how I will deal with the future, when I know I'll have more loss. I've started to fear it. Thank you for your life lessons.

@reemsaif3105 Год назад

You're doing well do far. Keep living 💗

@salsarmemimi7292 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your feelings and story. I lost my husband of 41 years June, 4, 2022. He was 90 years old, I am 67. It was unexpected and a total shock. I don't feel I have been dealing with my grief for him, as I have lots of financial things to deal with. We had term life insurance and it expired on his 90th birthday in October. Therefore there is no life insurance. (please be careful people purchasing life insurance)I have his and my annuities and other investments however I can't get ahold of them yet. Due to worrying about money - I feel guilty I am not grieving for him properly. Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you from Texas.

@wildflowerwind6941 2 года назад

It will come. You are trying to figure out to survive financially.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Right now you have priorities in your life. Once that is attended to you will be able to focus on your heartbreak and working through it

@PT-tw6kg 2 года назад

I lost my son and husband was devastated to say the least, but my belief in God let's me know their with me always and we will be together again. Yes, there is sorrow but I know their watching over me. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️Thank you, ♥️♥️♥️♥️

@luciatat4084 2 года назад

You sure will see them again soon. Life here is very short. God bless you!

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Blessings your way Pearl. You will meet again.

@sygunparchment1707 2 года назад

Time heals all wounds .....it requires patience and accepting to feel the pain .....find a passion to keep busy ....

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

True.

@lisamac8503 2 года назад

My husband passed in Oct 2021 Together for almost 50 years He took my heart but left his within me I await till the day we see each other again and no I have no interest in dating though have been asked out on dates I am learning to live with this new normal I will never stop missing him

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Lisa, So sorry for your loss and I understand. Thanks for sharing .

@MimiZ914 2 года назад

I've had a lot of loss in my life starting at age 16. I just lost my beloved Dog at age 17 and I'm swimming in an ocean of grief. Thanks Sandra for all you do for everyone with your experiences. Grief is love with no where to go. The hardest part about this life is getting thru it. Everything after that is the great reward.

@maxineboxer9714 2 года назад

I’m so sorry about your dog, it’s a huge heartache, devastating, I know. It takes time, but it will lessen, very slowly. How wonderful that you took such good care of your dear friend that he should live so long. I believe we will see our beloved pets again, one day.

@susano7587 2 года назад

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved dog. I am preparing for major changes in my life soon, and I don’t know that I would be capable of making it through without my little dog Ellie.❤

@gigilewis9346 2 года назад

So sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved dog also three months ago and the grief is very real. It’s been so difficult with her absence in the house. So many memories. I cried an ocean and I can’t even imagine replacing her by getting another dog. I know God is with us and with time we will heal. Stay strong. Jesus loves you ❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

So true. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with us today

@thinkforyourselfjohn3167 2 года назад

I'm so very so for you're loss. I understand all to well. Pet's are family. I'm still missing my cat and it's been one year since she passed. I truly thought I was going to die right along with her when she passed. We had a very special bond her and I.

@sunshineinarizona1726 2 года назад

Just found your channel yesterday. Love your words of wisdom. I'm 63 and pretty much have lost all my family and friends. I have a wonderful son and plenty of fur babies that bring love and happiness into my life. But I'm clueless about getting older. I plan on watching many of your videos. Thank you.

@wildhorses6817 2 года назад

Yes, I can relate and I am ten years older. It is a very strange feeling.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks for being here and sharing your thoughts with me today

@laurievanzon2126 2 года назад

I'm 63 too. I was let go from my job almost 3 years ago and I retired. I feel so young, but have started seeing signs of aging and have a hard time believing that I'm this old already. I lost my father, husband, son and brother and feel that my family has gotten so small. My mother is 92 and I so enjoy spending time with her as she loves playing games. She told me not to worry about getting older or about my age or hers after she told me how pretty I am. Did I tell you how much I love her?

@laura_azevedo 2 года назад

I’m 42. One year and half into the horrible grief of losing my partner to sudden dementia and suicide. Since day one I knew I had to face my feelings so that it wouldn’t become even more difficult in a long term. But it’s not easy at all to sit with the grief, the anger, de sadness, the loss of joy. No counselling. And almost no friends nearby as I live in another country. It’s been a really difficult and profound journey. I watched your other video about your loss and your words give me hope that I will survive this and eventually one day say “I am happy” again. Thank you for everything you share.

@user-id8qm8vn3q Год назад

Laura, I am 44 and 10 days ago I lost my dad to depression and suicide. He did it in a hospital, he threw himself out of the window. I feel acutely your grief and your feeling of loss. I blame myself every minute that I didn't find the right words for my dad to helphim recovered, that I sent him to that clinic. I hope these painful thoughts and feelings will one day become less painful. I hope we both will find happiness in our lives. Mental illnesses is a horrible thing, I am so sorry I didn't take my dad's depression seriously((((((

@mercedesgutierrez9575 2 года назад

I don't know if I might have mentioned this but I have two daughters and the oldest was diagnosed with schizophrenia paranoia at the age of 18 it has been quite the roller coaster they found her not to be sick enough according to UCLA to take away her rights so she has had many children who I am constantly trying to care for keep track of and advocate for only people who have dealt with people with this type of situation can understand the painful grief that goes with mental illness and how it spread to your family and everyone's life I'm happy to say she's alive and she's well but what a trip and so much suffering to be a grandmother

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Blessings your way! I totally understand the collateral damage done by this illness. May God give you continued strength. I hope she is on good leveling medication..

@nancyculhanehoag7936 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra!!! My heart is so sad, I know I’ll get threw my loss, because I’m strong. But climbing into bed with out him being there makes me cry every night!

@salsarmemimi7292 2 года назад

I bought a new mattress out of a need for a new one and can't bring myself to sleep in it or our bedroom yet. Prayers up for you dear. Blessings to you from Texas.

@cajunlady4893 2 года назад

Twist and turns Face under covers Night after night. Soggy pillows. Sleep during the day with mist of thick fog in-between. Lasted until I let it go and faced the reality... i must move on or I will become a zombie. My spouse wanted me live and spread the love I have... Not to stay in darkness in the mist of confusion. But in the light of joy and with a sound mind. It took awhile to muster the strength to lift up the light switch.. That he wanted me to turn on and carry on. Like the movie.. "Me Before You"

@betho.3542 2 года назад

Nancy you have described the thing I fear the most - the nights. And waking up to another day alone. My husband is not completely well and I know that someday........ You just keep being strong and I will pray for you! You will be ok. I'm sure of it. Sending hugs!

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Healing does take time. I know so well.

@justicefreedom2648 2 года назад

You're such a tremendous blessing Sandra! You and Arthur are in my prayers! ❤

@sophiamariesimpson9939 2 года назад

Honestly your like the grandma everyone wants. Your videos are so much wisdom and make me feel so warm and helps me a lot in life. Thank you so much and keep up the fabulous work xx

@jeanjacobs9965 2 года назад

Greetings Sandra! Thank you so much for this. It has been so helpful! Love and blessings ♥️🙏

@judiruthmeredith6427 Год назад

Love your videos, Sandra. Keep them coming! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@justmaria5806 2 года назад

Its always good to see and hear you, Sandra. The colors in your top make me think of lush places and cool tropical drinks. I listened and nodded as you spoke, as I too am a survivor of sudden and shocking loss. There certainly is no way to predict how each person will experience loss. It is hard to begin to let the emotions show and come forward; when suppressing them is the one thing you feel you can control and hold on to. With time, therapy, prayer and much more time than I would have ever imagined I began to inch forward with my life. I think the shock and grief experienced becomes a part of the fabric of your life. I will never be the person I was after the sudden and unexpected loss of my son. I smile and move forward with my life but I know I'm different each time I see my eyes in the mirror. Its the great soul shift, don't you know.......

@alayneleang4678 2 года назад

This was so helpful, as all your videos are. For the past 14 months, I've been grieving the deaths of four people I was very close to (my mother included in that four). It is hard for me to be around people who have zero understanding of what grief looks like. So I appreciate all your advice here so much. I have to be very choosy about who I can surround myself and when because so many just don't or won't understand. Having two friends who allow me the space to cry has been priceless for me. I so appreciate them! Exercising/Walking near water (a lake, a fountain, etc.) is very healing for me. I love the Bee Gees lyrics too - I haven't heard that one in a while. Thank you so much!

@juliefizpatrick513 2 года назад

Dear Sandra:). I’m so glad you brought this subject up so that I will be able to understand the process of death and grieving when the time comes. Every so often I think of my son who has had his dog for quite some time now and the love they have for one another is really amazing! This will enable me to help him as best I can when…he takes such great care of him and he’s as spry as a puppy so no worries. Like you have taught us there is no good that comes from worrying so I don’t. I’ve had some very sad losses but I did manage to cope. Everyone is different as you remind us so we just have to trust our personal feelings and grieve in our own way. Love you to the moon and back-you are a very treasured friend🤗💕🤗💕

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Julie, a child’s relationship with a pet is probably the first experience with grieving. I know it was for me. When the time comes I know you will be there to help him through it. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with me and for being so supportive.

@DeeDee-pl8se 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra for sharing and your words of advice. You are a blessing..Have a wonderful week❤

@lisahobbs2312 Год назад

Hi Mrs. Sandra, its so great to see you!

@angietiller2332 2 года назад

Sandra, thank you for such a great message.

@debrarusso330 2 года назад

You are truly a bright light in this world Sandra 🕯💜

@judithmarrero2977 2 года назад

I love listening to you. So inspirational. So much loss in these last few years has been unbearable. I found your channel and you shine a light that I want. Thank you so very much.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks for watching and being here

@leilaalrashidi5704 2 года назад

From the title name, I remembered a song by Al Green with the same name. I ask God to heal everybody's pain and all the things that we cannot reveal🙏🏻 ❤️‍🩹

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Beautiful song recited by Al Green and written by the Gibb brothers

@maryalberico4356 Год назад

I wrote to you the other day day and you responded. Thanks so much. You are just what I needed at this time in my life. You are a beautiful person and I look forward to your videos. 😘

@suzannewing7574 2 года назад

Thank you for your words of wisdom! I anxiously await for Tuesdays with Sandra!! We all LOVE you and thank you for the time spent on sharing your experiences with us!!!

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much

@claudiascott6484 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra. I found that in every loss my response was different. Sometimes even surprising. Great to hear from you today dear friend. Praying for you, Arthur and family 👪

@peggybaggenstoss3817 2 года назад

Sandra your videos are so comforting To me. I look forward to seeing you weekly. I pray for you and your family for continuing good health and happiness. Love to you from Arkansas.

@rebeccajusteson4234 Год назад

Your wisdom is so helpful. Thank you! 💜 And, also, you are absolutely radiant! 😊

@genabrown8740 2 года назад

Beautifully stated Sandra. Thank you 🥰🌞💞

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks for watching

@WorldWideWebObserver 2 года назад

Dear Sweet Sandra, Thank you for sharing wisdom which can only be acquired and achieved through decades of experience in living life. Warm thoughts and hugs coming your way from Texas.🌹

@gracefreed7900 2 года назад

@Sandra. I just found your channel yesterday and watched a few of your videos. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences with others in order to help. You are so beautiful inside and out and I'm grateful to have found you! My mother/best friend made it to heaven last yr at 99 yrs old and i did the same thing as you... could not deal with losing her at all. I still have a hard time even looking at photos of her or talking about her. But i want to honor her in some way and create something that will keep her memory alive and show people how amazing she was... maybe a book, i don't know. Anyway i am pondering your words of wisdom and will apply them to my life as i move forward and try to make a positive change. Thank you so much for this. God bless you always.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Welcome and thanks for letting me know!

@Enmanuel_V6 Год назад

I just found your channel today and I subscribed right away. Been binge watching your videos for an hour now. I’m only 24 but I love gaining perspective on life from all different angles possible and what better way to learn then from someone who’s miles ahead of the game of life. Thank you Sandra for your uniqueness. I appreciate you very much

@lifewithsandrahart Год назад

Welcome and thanks for being here!

@lilaclilly198 2 года назад

Thankyou Sandra 😘 It’s a pain like nothing else i experienced. Music is a great healer … It’s played a big part in my life. Got me through some very dark sad and lonely days . Mostly importantly I reached out and got support. Slowly but surely,this to will pass… Hang on in there. I wish you all love and healing😘🤗🙌

@ranjaitjaswal8030 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra for this video I lost my dad 4 years ago and now my mom is in the nursing home at the age of 86 in her lifetime journey she has seen so much grief lost two children and now with dad gone she is so lost as he was her soul mate Sandra your wise words are a.comfort may the almighty bless you and shower you with his love🇨🇦

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much and blessings to you and your sweet mother.

@purrsephone2904 2 года назад

I agree with you about letting the feelings flow. Thanks, Sandra.

@juliabailey3447 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this today Sandra x Moving on is so hard x love to Arthur x

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

It’s truly hard to do. But possible

@curlew-3592 2 года назад

I lost my husband of 42 years less than a year ago. I lost my mother not long before that. You are a lovely lady. Thankyou so much for this.🇬🇧

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

You understand. Thanks so much

@tamiwilliams5903 2 года назад

Sandra, when I was little back in the 60s I watched Romper Room and loved it! Now I watch your videos and love them and you ❤️ You are a very special person and I feel especially blessed to have found you. Many many blessings to you.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much DoBee!

@meckismicki 2 года назад

Sandra, Thank you so much for this. For six years I have felt so paralyzed. For five of those I have been trying to get out of this house, but help isn't as easy to come by as it once was. After this pandemic it's hard to let people in, to freshen up paint, do minor repairs & I don't want to be in the house while people are tramping in & out while the house is being shown. I have a friend of 30 years who has offered me a place. She lives where I am moving back to. It's taking that first step! I really need a push!

@Annie-nj7yv 2 года назад

DONT GIVE UP

@wildhorses6817 2 года назад

If you can find a trusted realtor through recommendations, a realtor who has expertise often has contractors they depend upon. You could possibly relocate to your friends location while the house is being improved for Sale. A trusted, honest Realtor can be your answer. Best to you and to your new life.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

I truly understand. Take it step at a time and don’t overwhelm yourself with the entire process. Make a checklist and do each task on your own time.

@thinkforyourselfjohn3167 2 года назад

I understand how you feel and relate. Will be praying for you.

@learnbyheart7 Год назад

I so understand this predicament. I feel the same way, the packing of the house, 43 years of working for many treasured memories I will have to part with. I have a few friends who did that...got rid of too much...and I said you just might miss yourself. So there will be conflict in my heart when I must make my choices. Take care.

@mrscottoncandydarlinglife 2 года назад

Hi Sandra , Beautiful Said ❤️ I have lost Amazing People and fur babies in my life , that it does change you and makes you a strong person !!! I like to think , I have many Angles looking out for me up above !!! And when I do get sad I put on some music we like to listen to and have a little dance and that comforts me . Thank you so very much for your lovely videos and for being a bright light in this world !!! Hope you are having a wonderful week . Big Hugs 👍🏻🥰💕

@alecia8852 2 года назад

Thank you, Thank you!!! You are a gift. I needed to hear this as I'm so deep in the depression stage after my loss that I can't get out of bed but I am allowing myself to cry. I just don't want to be such a downer to be around so I don't see anyone. Sage advise - thank you so much. I will seek out something to bring me joy.

@Lil-Be 2 года назад

Thank you for another wonderful video, Sandra. I can’t express enough how helping others is helping me. I volunteer for rape and bartering hotline and despite so many sad stories I hear, I am so glad I can be there for people that call. It also makes me fully appreciate how blessed I am with my own life. By helping others we help ourselves the most. Love ❤️

@dale9724 Год назад

Oh, Sandra, what great advice. Thank you.

@jajaazmi4441 2 года назад

Hello Sandra, good to see you well and yet again another concerning topic that will touch each and everyone of us sometime or other. For you my friend, thank you so so much....Please do hug your beloveds everytime you get.. in the end this is just what matters.

@sawsank6158 2 года назад

شكراً ساندرا ، كلام جميل و عميق ، اسعدني مقطعك 👌🏻💕🍃

@judihulslander298 2 года назад

This is an excellent video! I imagine it was tough to make, even now. I believe that our grief is like an onion, and we heal layer by layer, going inward. And many layers.... And I am convinced that God brings opportunities for further healing when we are ready for them, and have the resources to progress to another level. I am glad you were able to turn your tragic circumstances into occasions to assist others. That is a blessing. Thank you for sharing!

@patriciaredick9849 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra. You really helped me today. Thank you.

@2EternityButterflies 2 года назад

Thank you from my heart. God bless you Sandra. You have been a great inspiration to me and today as the tears flowed I knew what you were saying is right about the steps in grieving. Much love from your friend in Denmark.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much

@ernarc23 2 года назад

Such an important message, Sandra. I have been through grief multiple times -- losing both parents and my sister (in an accident). Each time, it was so painful, I was numb for a year. It's only now, years later, that I'm able to begin to deal with it directly. Thank you so much for sharing this. It is so important to share what you've been through, when you can, to help both yourself, as you say, and others. 💕

@robertus2407 2 года назад

It is only recently that I discovered this RU-vid channel. What a joy to hear your clear and wise words. They help me in the right direction. Thank you so much. So glad I found this channel. Best regards, Robert.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thank you and I appreciate your watching today

@karenpny 2 года назад

I love what you said about finding your joy. I lost my mom and brother (also a paranoid schizophrenic) a week apart in 2020 and I was so lost and angry. It’s so hard but life does go on. It takes work to be happy and healthy - making an effort. I find and appreciate joy in each day now - it’s often the simplest things that are joyful. I still miss them terribly!

@debgilbert3206 2 года назад

Thank you for being a continuous source of wisdom. I am creating a file in my RU-vid library where I can save this video so that I can rewatch it when the inevitable occurs. ❤

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much

@marthar9065 Год назад

Hi Sandra. I love everything you say. I’m in Spain and it’s wonderful for me learn your teachings. I’m learning english too and it’s amazing, I can understand almost everything because you talk slow and nice. Thank you😘

@eternity-minded Год назад

Hi Sandra. I wanted to thank you for helping me recognize the different stages of grief I have been experiencing. I had been dismissing my feelings because I thought I was just being negative. However, after watching your video, I realize I am indeed going through the stages of grief, and am entitled to allow myself to feel however I am feeling about my loss and experience. Thank you again for your help!

@thegraylatte1638 2 года назад

I'm so sorry Sandra for the loss of your husband, sending love to you & all who are going through this.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thank you

@nataliesa9117 2 года назад

Thank you, Sandra❤️

@pamcee6813 2 года назад

Very powerful message. Thank you 😊

@travelseatsyellowlab Год назад

As someone who is planning for retirement, something I have done consistently since my twenties, now being in my late thirties, your content randomly appeared in my suggested videos to watch. On loss, it's so hard. Still young, I haven't lost a lover, spouse or parent yet. However, my grandmother left here in 2002. It was one of the saddest days in my life to date. She had been ill for a few years, was diagnosed with terminal illness but her death was still a heavy shock. Even 20 years on, it can be riveting because I chose not to attend her memorial service. Since then, I have seen four uncles go, three aunts, and several high school classmates, but none were as heavy as my grandmother. Godspeed to you and yours!!

@doloresikbaker2371 2 года назад

I want to thank you for these Tuesdays talks. Do not ever forget, your thoughts reach us, and help. So, again thanks for your work and effort on presenting these videos.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much for your kindness and support

@mswnderwman 2 года назад

I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for your heartfelt advice.

@lindawalker7518 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra your words have true meaning in my life… I appreciate your honesty

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks Linda

@tinalouise1268 2 года назад

New to following you. Your beautiful! Love everything about you! Your beauty, your knowledge, your experience, your insight and your soulfulness. ❤️

@robinsdailylife1021 2 года назад

You look fabulous, and rested.. 💛 Thanks for the words of wisdom and for being here!

@janetsharpe13 2 года назад

This was so uplifting to hear and watch thank you Sandra. Losing my parents and sister I thought I’d never get over but then to lose my daughter sometimes my heart hurts so much and last year I nearly lost my husband who is now in heart failure but I thank God every day for the blessing of him still being alive. Together we volunteer our time to help others and this helps us heal and helps us too just like you mentioned. I also took up painting and spending time with the rest of our family. Thank you for your time spent on these videos ❤xxxx

@lab4389 2 года назад

So sorry for your losses. ♥️

@vivianacastillo9680 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this . I lost so much lately in my life , my friend, my 2 pets , my beautiful mother and a relationship I had to end . ❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

I am so sorry you have had to go through all these losses one right after the other. Thanks so much for sharing and my thoughts are with you. Grieving is also a healing process.

@irishernandez8899 Год назад

Grieving is a process. Thank you for sharing. Greatly appreciate it Lady Sandra . All the best, PEACE & BLESSING 🙏

@aminar9044 2 года назад

You are an inspiration 💛. Thank you for this video; it was what I've been needing to hear.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so much

@stephenb-good9292 2 года назад

I love you Sandra....you are a strong and loving woman....may God bless you and may your beauty and wisdom shine through out this misaligned world that we live in. Love, Stephen

@anoush369 2 года назад

Hello Sandra, I in my early 30’s and I love watching your videos. It’s filled with so much wisdom and thank you for sharing your experiences on how you navigate life. You are indeed a true inspiration. I wish I would be given a chance to see life the way you see it at your age by now. I pray for you to stay healthy and to always live each day with that radiant energy. Looking forward to watching more of your videos! From your fan here in Dubai.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Ana, I sincerely appreciate your kindness. Thank you so much

@NaNa-re3wc 2 года назад

I’m only 23, but I have learned and received some much needed validation on the wisdom of life from your videos. I’m so glad I found your channel today! You warm my heart and give me great comfort🥹♥️ Thank you for being vulnerable with us all!

@NaNa-re3wc 2 года назад

Also, one of the most valuable things I’ve learned thus far is to surrender to life. Embrace it, accept that we don’t have control in the big scheme of things, and have gratitude for what we still have. If you approach everything and everyone with curiosity instead of judgment, you will inevitably live a more authentic and fulfilling life. Live in the NOW and everything you need to heal will come to you; everything you need is already within you, waiting to be discovered. ♥️

@nickiabbott5060 2 года назад

Thanks for Being You, Sandra, and for sharing that wonderful person’s Joy and positive perspective on Life ! We Appreciate YOU !

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

And I appreciate you!

@marysuncin4302 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and tips on grieving. My condolences on your losses.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks Mary

@deniseroth1 2 года назад

❤️Two things that helped me immensely on my grief journey; walking and being with other women who were grieving. I logged many miles walking/running with tears streaming down my face. At the park, at the beach, around my neighborhood. Sometimes it was so hard to get myself going, but many times it was a sweet release and always helped me emotionally. Hearing other ladies share what they were feeling helped me realize I was not going crazy but going through all the “normal” emotions we feel during a great loss. Looking forward to reading your book, Sandra. Ordered today. 🤗🙏🏻❤️

@cathyo3393 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra I only discovered your channel a few days ago! You are an amazing lady! Sending Love from Ireland 🇮🇪❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so very much Cathy. My grand children just got back from Ireland visiting their grandparents

@jackiebarrett4063 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your message. It’s all so hard isn’t it? Hard to go on… 🙏💙👍

@michellemccoy3726 2 года назад

Omg! I love you all for opening your hearts n bearing your souls! God bless you all and thank you Sandra!!! Love you!

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks Michelle.

@uzbechkabee4058 2 года назад

Hello dear Sandra, I'm 35 and I really find your advices very helpful and healing. I try to follow all of them because they have a common sense. I'm from far Uzbekistan and I realize that life has the same rules wherever we are. Your beauty tips also works great for me. Wish you all the best wishes from the depth of my heart ❤️

@learnbyheart7 2 года назад

Dear Sandra, you are the strongest woman that I know. What you have been through I could never imagine the grief and pain of it all. I am just grateful that you share it with us to help give us the strength too. Thank you, your friend Mary in NC.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thank you so much Mary. That means so much to me.

@shereecarey2021 2 года назад

Thank you for this video. I had a loss in my life recently and you made me feel normal as what I'm going through.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Sheree, thank you for sharing

@CherylWilsonArt 2 года назад

I recently found your channel!, what a lovely woman you are! I am 65 and most of the women on my channel are 65 plus. I love all you say. I am an abstract artist and started painting later in my life after owning my business in the DC area. I do art full time. Art filled a huge place in my life during a huge loss and when I needed something as I entered retirement. While I am an artist, id love to connect with other women here! I find many of us do share all the things you are saying, what a God send you are

@njohnston1224 2 года назад

Oh Sandra ..thankyou for this lovely video today , just what I needed..I have lost two friends recently but over years breakdown of marriage and family .I have survived.. my dogs have always been my companion through many times. . but I feel so bereft at close friend going away .. I didn't think I'd be that way .my church has closed also ...so many things ending, you are a wonderful person you have come through so much too . Sandra.,thankou for sharing and caring. bless you x

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

My thoughts are with you and blessings your way. Thanks for sharing

@margarettownsley9500 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra for your advice grief is a terrible pain

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts

@rrhines3151 2 года назад

The timing of this conversation is SO appreciated. Thank you 🙏🏻 for your wise and caring counsel.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks so very much

@hispanicservices9225 2 года назад

You are a beautiful soul Sandra, thank you for your words, 💕🌹

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks for being here

@carolefox6553 2 года назад

Excellent, excellent, excellent. Your intro pictures were heart wrenching. Your message was spot on. Thank you, Sandra, for caring enough to give us your wonderful advice, which I hope we all heed.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Carole, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and your support.

@isabeltorres8717 2 года назад

Dear Lady thank you so much for your loving care and wise words,🌸,🌸

@hilarywallace9927 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra for your wisdom and sharing

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thank you

@asmaq9444 2 года назад

Although I'm still in my early 30s I really enjoy your videos and approch to life, the calming voice is difinetly a plus. My you enjoy more years in health and joy

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thank you so much

@rebeccatargett9785 2 года назад

Sandra, you are my angel that I have only just come across. I am forever grateful to have found you. Xxx

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Rebecca I sincerely appreciate your kindness

@mareeschollum2986 2 года назад

How timely this message was for me Sandra. I lost my mother when I was a teenager. I am now 67. I felt at the time the sun was turned off. As an adult I remember her and am thankful for her. The thing I remember most is that she was a constant in my life . Always there. There is so much I would have liked to talk to her about, to find out what sort of person she was. We don’t think of these things when we are kids. But I know what I experienced with her and that was warmth. ❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Maree, how hard it is for a child, especially a young woman, to lose her mother so early in her formative life. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on this .