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How Do You Say... But Nicely? | Asinine Advice 

Sheena Melwani
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Ok, let's be honest, his advice was not very kind! But it was effective and hilarious. Hope you guys found some nuggets of useful information in here somewhere!
Thanks for your questions! Let us know what topics you would like to hear us discuss in our next episode in the comments below!
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Комментарии : 296   
@tanyavariava4666
@tanyavariava4666 2 года назад
TRID is very straightforward. I appreciate such people🤣
@ScooterDoge
@ScooterDoge 2 года назад
Yeah honestly I’m a lot like TRID and my woman is nothing like Sheena. Ive been trying to teach her to let go and live in the moment for months.
@Trollmangol
@Trollmangol 2 года назад
​@@ScooterDoge your not your womans dad dont try to teach her nothing or she gonna leave you
@moore.k9028
@moore.k9028 2 года назад
@@ScooterDoge Good luck with that. 🙄
@MrMarycontraire
@MrMarycontraire 2 года назад
Sheena says mostly politically correct things while TRID gives real practical advice hahaha great balance
@aprylvanryn5898
@aprylvanryn5898 2 года назад
Tried making a sudden gesture when interrupted. They paused and I continued my sentence. It was incredibly awkward but it did work like a charm . Thanks Trid
@mikekoenig9950
@mikekoenig9950 2 года назад
I’m with Trid, we need to stop dancing around the truth to spare peoples feelings. The truth hurts sometimes, but in the long run your honesty will be more helpful than hurtful
@leahf145
@leahf145 2 года назад
But there are SO many people out there who can't handle the truth
@ProudBerliozian
@ProudBerliozian 2 года назад
The “🤷‍♂️ I don’t know, maybe,” at 11:11 was GENIUS on Sheena’s part. I don’t think TRID realized what she did.
@NobodyNobodytrustNobody
@NobodyNobodytrustNobody Год назад
Yeah he didn't
@Noname123rr
@Noname123rr 2 года назад
Trid solutions are ridiculous yet when you think deeply it makes sense 😂😂😂😂
@AmicusFire1
@AmicusFire1 2 года назад
Unrelated but I love that Sheena naturally slides toward TRID and ends up leaning on him every episode
@lynclang
@lynclang Год назад
Because she loves him and he adores her!
@rasheakorren
@rasheakorren 2 месяца назад
I noticed that too and it's so cute !!
@kevinbrown4219
@kevinbrown4219 2 года назад
She has a wonderful personality! Wish there were more happy people around like her!
@margiecook6879
@margiecook6879 2 года назад
Little lady, your laugh is your legacy. You have a wonderful infectious, contagious laugh. You make us laugh. You two are something else. More laughter please. 😊👍
@nwalk33
@nwalk33 2 года назад
“I’m sorry your karma brought you a child like this” lmaooo
@shari-ann4529
@shari-ann4529 2 года назад
“Sometimes you just have to lean in” 😂😂😭😭 noted, got it 📝
@theanonymousranger6014
@theanonymousranger6014 2 года назад
I 100% will be implementing this in the future.
@nighthawk043
@nighthawk043 2 года назад
"That's not a complaint, that's taking action". Love it.
@cbenji2
@cbenji2 2 года назад
I have to say I agree with Trid regarding weddings in regards to the fact one persons Montessori child is another persons demon child, respect the wedding couples request and leave children at home if requested. Also it may not be your children that are bad but they have to say no children or “that” couple will bring that child that bites you on the ankle and they say it’s just his way of expressing himself.
@gausiashaikh2581
@gausiashaikh2581 2 года назад
Totally going to overshare about non existent yeast infection when private questions come my way 🤣
@NihonNoMajin
@NihonNoMajin 2 года назад
Beem waiting for this! After I binged watched all the Advice, Games, Tutorials, and almost all the clips I can honestly say I love you guys and feel like part of the family 😂.
@drivethrupoet
@drivethrupoet 2 года назад
"I'm sorry for your karma" LMAO that is my new go-to
@mazarisam259
@mazarisam259 2 года назад
My husband hates your channel because I keep cry/laughing while he’s asleep …you both are so funny
@janidang90
@janidang90 2 года назад
Sheena’s laugh is very infectious. Smile on face, Giggles in my heart! Thoroughly enjoy these, keep em’ coming! #fromAKwithlove
@alyonaa8788
@alyonaa8788 2 года назад
I’m going to use the “see below 😉” line!
@alyonaa8788
@alyonaa8788 2 года назад
I already say “close the windows on that nonsense” in my emails)))
@georgiedagreek2734
@georgiedagreek2734 2 года назад
Just found you guys and you are 👍 👌 saw the morning running short 😆 and I could not stop laughing 😆 🤣 😄
@ceha9517
@ceha9517 2 года назад
Why does Sheena want to be always so kind and nice. Sometimes it is better to say things directly. Then everybody knows what is going on. Saves time. And nerves. But I think it is a cultural thing. And maybe a woman thing. To please, to be sweet and nice. Adorable. Here in Germany we say things in a direct straight forward manner. And I like it. I had to learn the social games of my arabic friends. 🙈😂
@Lemana28021989
@Lemana28021989 2 года назад
I think it depends on the social circles you are roaming. There are really backhanded and "nice" people in Germany as well
@gessicakaylanedasilva2481
@gessicakaylanedasilva2481 2 года назад
Most cultures just take her actions as polite, and the german are kind of known for being rude all around the world...
@ceha9517
@ceha9517 2 года назад
@@gessicakaylanedasilva2481For your cultural upbringing it might seem rude. But it is not rude. It is direct. No fuzz. Much more easy. No games. No speculation.
@ceha9517
@ceha9517 2 года назад
@@Lemana28021989 Of course.
@jhindupur
@jhindupur 5 месяцев назад
Some people are naturally nice, it's not always a cultural thing. Let nice people be themselves too, it gets tiresome being told to be "assertive" or "direct" when the nice people aren't being fake or afraid to assert anything. They're genuinely saying what's on their mind and that happens to be nice things.
@David-ym2vk
@David-ym2vk 2 года назад
The most interesting thing about this is demonstrating passive aggressiveness in an attempt to be kind. Most people appreciate honesty and authenticity even at the cost of kindness. Sometimes you just gotta rip the band-aid off instead of beating around the bush and hoping they get the point.
@Nellbae
@Nellbae 2 года назад
Trid is life. As is Shenna laughing!!
@MichaelHarto
@MichaelHarto 2 года назад
"i'm sorry you have to live with this" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@RSB1726
@RSB1726 2 года назад
I loved this version better than the earlier one. It was nice to see Trid and seemed to be funnier. Thanks for the redo.
@LOKDOWNKING
@LOKDOWNKING 2 года назад
Yup just found you guys last night, AND I HAVENT STOPPED LAUGHING...... u have now become 1 of my fav channels on this hellscape we call RU-vid
@Eyes_Unclouded
@Eyes_Unclouded 2 года назад
😂❤️
@imjustme9479
@imjustme9479 2 года назад
The bright spot in my day!
@clareatimug
@clareatimug 2 года назад
Iam with TRID on teaching kids manners!
@mjlink777
@mjlink777 2 года назад
Her smile and laugh are amazing. Who could complain?
@cruelladevil1001
@cruelladevil1001 2 года назад
It's absolutely acceptable to request no children at your wedding.
@sarahanwar007
@sarahanwar007 2 года назад
“Why should other people pay for your mistakes?” Omggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
@mbsl923
@mbsl923 2 года назад
If, growing up, my family's weddings always invited kids that would be an extra 30+ guests. One of my cousins got married this week, and as far as I know, our cousins nor their children were invited, which by now would have been another 50+ guests. I think it is reasonable that our 12 aunts and uncles plus their spouses/significant others got invited and the cousins & their famiiles didn't. Wedding or not, if you're paying to host an event, you get to choose who you invite to attend.
@acswain6720
@acswain6720 2 года назад
It is very rude in India to ask any friend/relative to not bring their children to the weddings. In most Indian weddings, the total number of guests is never fixed, you can ballpark the number of guests attending as almost 2 to 2.5 times the number of invitations you send. Some come alone and some with whole family. The weddings culture is drastically different in India/Indians than the West.
@mbsl923
@mbsl923 2 года назад
@@acswain6720 If you know 2- 2 1/2 times the amount of people you invite are coming or if you know people are going to bring their kids you still know what to expect and can plan for that. If that works for you and you can afford it, great. Not all of us can. Neither custom is right or wrong, just different.
@acswain6720
@acswain6720 2 года назад
@@mbsl923 Community lunch/dinner is served in a different way in non Christian cultures. The Christian way makes it difficult to manage unplanned circumstances. Think of it as community buffet with lots of food, but served to the guests, in stead of guests helping/serving food themselves. You just have to make sure lot of food, eyeballing the ballpark figure (sorry, english being my third tongue, mixing too many phrases). In many cases the cooking (next batch of food) continues along with the feast as guests DO NOT arrive simultaneously however much you wish. India, being filled with people, people having very close ties with the families and the relatives, we are generally invited to hundreds of such festivities per year, which we cannot miss. So, very few guests really attend the actual Wedding Ceremony (s)which may last for days and sometimes a week. So, most attend only the wedding reception (feast), give the gift, eat and leave soon. There are not enough weeks in a year to comprehensively attend all the invitations you get every year. People understand, if you can attend for only half an hour, but you must eat before you leave, or it is rude, and remembered!!
@mbsl923
@mbsl923 2 года назад
@@acswain6720 all I said was it is different. I’m not Christian, so I can’t speak to that.
@vampy5071
@vampy5071 2 года назад
If you had the money and room to cater everyone and thier kids then definately that would be great. However most people cannot afford this, so its usually just your closest family members which get invited. My cousin however when she got married, invited everyone along with their kids, she had her wedding at alniwck castle (harry potters hogwarts castle) we all even got to use broomsticks around the yards, was pretty funny all the women attempting it with long dresses on, my son was 5 at the time and got to have a lot of fun running around the castle grounds with all of his half cousins, and they had great fun at the disco afterwards, was an amazing day and it made it special for us all
@lachibolala3578
@lachibolala3578 2 года назад
This was so funny..love TRID's straightforward answers and Sheena's laughs.. thank you guys for making us laugh.. Also a suggestion , can you probably add subtitles to your videos?
@anshbajaj7223
@anshbajaj7223 2 года назад
Enjoyed a lot, please never shut this show down 😂❤️❤️❤️
@robynw77ify
@robynw77ify 2 года назад
I love you both!! Listen….your laugh is fabulous!! Thanks for bringing joy!! 🥰
@nate-404
@nate-404 2 года назад
My favorite channel for real advice 👌🤣
@vijaysemele
@vijaysemele 2 года назад
As for "this was the scene of the crime" had me in stiches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sbhm1108
@sbhm1108 2 года назад
Omg y’all should do a podcast . Do you have one ?
@sjnegron74
@sjnegron74 2 года назад
You guys compliment each other so well!!! “Don’t eat this diet lol”
@epicepidemic7131
@epicepidemic7131 2 года назад
I love the one about giving too much detail on personal questions. GOING TO USE THAT ONE, ASAP!
@UsmanKhan-mx9ll
@UsmanKhan-mx9ll 2 года назад
yessss omg thanks for posting you just made my day
@rgober60
@rgober60 2 года назад
You two make me laugh 🤣 Thank you so much, I really needed it!! Hope you have a Blessed week 🙏🕊💜🛐
@ironwoodification
@ironwoodification 2 года назад
This is so wholesomely delightful I might just get my laundry done today.
@thomasarussellsr
@thomasarussellsr 2 года назад
I can keep the peace with anyone up to a point. That point is variable with the veracity of a person's offence. And usually the line is crossed when they are offending someone other than myself, specifically a female, child, veteran, or elderly person. I just won't put up with anyone bullying some one else. I've got pretty broad shoulders, metaphorically, and have taken so much crap in my life that I could likely spread it across all of Montana as fertilizer. So I am used to it. Why I can stand up for others but not my self, I don't know, but I try to keep the peace as much as possible. When I blow my top, it isn't a pretty sight. When I blow my top for myself, I either quit my job or get fired. So, since I need my income for my family, I just compartmentalize and swallow it down, then try to fond some way to vent later on. (But never toward my family.) Wood craft, yard work, video games, something where I can vent away from other people.
@Huzaku
@Huzaku 2 года назад
5 year old female soldiers with the mentality of a 79 year old are plague on our earth. They're everywhere man. In the trees waiting for one of us to stray from the pack. They go around kicking dogs and they think they can get away with it because they are 5 and a girl and a Vietnam veteran and it's just gotta be stopped. And I'm talking highly trained. 3rd degree black belts at the age of 4. They will stick your own ass in your ass if they catch you alone and the only way to stop them is to 1. Full on deck them in the jaw 2. Hold them down and bark in their faces until they cry 3. Knife, and you better be good with it The only downside is to other people who didn't get the full context of the situation would just assume you were barking at and punching a little girl with a army costume on and a grey wig. And there is no explaining yourself because like I said they are highly trained. They could convince a cat it was a frog. They basically rule the United States through nut kicks and politics. And you sir would defend such horrible monsters. Shame and a pox upon you
@cynthiamichta9834
@cynthiamichta9834 2 года назад
Best part of the day.... getting these notifications!!!! 🤣
@corner23
@corner23 2 года назад
Love everything about this!!
@cynthiamichta9834
@cynthiamichta9834 2 года назад
Love it! Thanks guys!
@briano.1503
@briano.1503 2 года назад
I just found you guys a few days ago. I've been laughing and sharing your videos ever since! ✌🤣👍🧠🌌♾
@Josh-od3pb
@Josh-od3pb 2 года назад
You two have such a beautiful relationship!
@frankthrasaric6569
@frankthrasaric6569 2 года назад
I just love your laugh/smile....
@staware222
@staware222 2 года назад
Her smile made my rainy day keep smiling
@akshayasatheesh499
@akshayasatheesh499 2 года назад
Big fan of yours ❤️❤️
@poodlegirl55
@poodlegirl55 2 года назад
When someone touches your pregnant belly you holler OUCH real loud. Scare them.
@BaebaeW
@BaebaeW 2 года назад
I popped so many hands of strangers when I was pregnant. Keep your hands to yourself!
@shawnstanton2443
@shawnstanton2443 Год назад
Your grandfather's response reminded me of an old mentor of mine Did a similar thing He also said tact was telling someone where to go and they thank you for the direction
@TheGingerpeer
@TheGingerpeer 2 года назад
I love this!
@MrPyro052180
@MrPyro052180 2 года назад
I love his honesty
@eichler721
@eichler721 2 года назад
Love you two it's hilarious and the chemistry is great.
@MarinaArtDesign
@MarinaArtDesign 2 года назад
11:16 If it is their special day and they do not want to have separate preparations for kids' entertainment and have kids running around screaming and playing (especially if the kids are not raised properlly) they have full right to ask not to bring kids. It is not an event for kids, but for adults. It goes down the same line if a kid is invited to a birthday party and the mother drops off their brother and sister with him. The invitation is not for "all kids" it is for a specific friend, they planned a certain number of kids, and they have mutual interests and things to do, bringing two strangers, brother and sister is not acceptable. If they are inviting you they are not inviting your kids. If you do not want to come without your kids, don't come, simple as that.
@reggie2803
@reggie2803 2 года назад
Trid is hilarious. I’m going to take some of his advice at work. I’m sure it will get me reported to HR, but some people need that. 😲
@tara6460
@tara6460 Год назад
I don't think people ask if you laugh all day as a insult. I think everyone wishes they had a partner who made them laugh like trid does 😂🥰
@janmyersknight6110
@janmyersknight6110 2 года назад
Almost choked on my coffee. You are th3 best! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@bekrayzee
@bekrayzee 2 года назад
Uff I’ve been waiting for this for a while. I watched it three times among so many other shorts and laughed like crazy. Thank you for making me laugh. Love you guys. You guys are part of my family. ❤️❤️🤣🤣
@annabellebartaune8411
@annabellebartaune8411 2 года назад
You deserve someone who is worth your Love! This is a nice way to get rid of someone
@yvonnemacdonald8443
@yvonnemacdonald8443 2 года назад
Agreed, say it as it is, open and honest... 😁
@karlamayc.gentapan5798
@karlamayc.gentapan5798 2 года назад
Sheena I love your lipstick color, suits your skin so well
@bltoth1955
@bltoth1955 2 года назад
You are the image I see when I look up the words, Irresistible, Vivacious and High Spirited.
@christianwiberg447
@christianwiberg447 2 года назад
If you laugh every day then you are truly living a good life.
@reggie2803
@reggie2803 2 года назад
Keep laughing. Watching your videos keeps me smiling. 😊
@Moi2.24
@Moi2.24 2 года назад
How can you not stop laughing with a goob of a husband. You're going to have a happy and long life with all the laughing you do. Myself as well from laughing at his antics lolol
@laughteraddict1003
@laughteraddict1003 2 года назад
She probably has great abs from laughing so much. He's a riot !
@shootdj
@shootdj 2 года назад
Omgg I love this show
@jarodbruce7626
@jarodbruce7626 2 года назад
Forgive my grammar I'm from Texas y'all are wonderful people y'all make my day better and I hope you all have a wonderful life Yara just wonderful the only word I can describe when I watch y'all
@charlenedupuy7984
@charlenedupuy7984 2 года назад
Love these videos 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@rituchaudhary9969
@rituchaudhary9969 2 года назад
Absolutely love your videos. Love from India❤️
@shreee294
@shreee294 Год назад
I can c ur videos all day😂😂😂😂😂😂 stress buster 😜
@dark_neverland
@dark_neverland 2 года назад
Some of the prompts people submitted are the nice way of saying what they want to say.
@oglucifer9234
@oglucifer9234 2 года назад
The goddess has been reborn and her name is Sheena melwani I just hear her cover of stay with me and I am bloody blown away powerful voice very awesome 😎
@chehancock4485
@chehancock4485 2 года назад
Has anyone noticed that at 3:26, TRID put up his hand and is missing the tip of his 2nd finger? Credit to that dude having something like that happen and still being light hearted…
@bobbechtel8377
@bobbechtel8377 2 года назад
You two are both very funny!🐑💖💖💖
@RandomMomentsWithKelly-du6lo
@RandomMomentsWithKelly-du6lo 2 года назад
I love you guys so much 🥰❤️🥰
@souradeepsengupta4269
@souradeepsengupta4269 2 года назад
Watched the live😂😂
@Lemana28021989
@Lemana28021989 2 года назад
Honestly..."please don't touch my belly" IS the nicest way to day it. Whoever is offended...that's not my problem. It is MY body, no matter if there's a child in there or not. Noone is allowed to just touch it like that without asking.
@heydinny9934
@heydinny9934 2 года назад
I love ur videos Long form and shorts 😁🥰🥰🥰
@JustinThorntonArt
@JustinThorntonArt 2 года назад
Parenthood can be isolating and it makes it worse when selfish jerks don’t want kids around.
@bleeka325
@bleeka325 2 года назад
Lol they are your kids not mine
@cristiflorescash1962
@cristiflorescash1962 2 года назад
I get that… but weddings aren’t about the guests :/
@carloslozada470
@carloslozada470 2 года назад
Adorable Sheena
@JOHN-ht6zc
@JOHN-ht6zc 2 года назад
LOL LOL LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLL YOUS ARE TOO HILARIOUS I LOVE U . EVERYTIME I WATCH U TWO I SMILE AND 😂 LAUGH
@thegamingapple0282
@thegamingapple0282 2 года назад
Love her laughing. She makes me laugh. You two are amazing. 😁 Keep up the good work.
@SammLloy481
@SammLloy481 2 года назад
Awesome
@sriharshithasoorabathula2843
@sriharshithasoorabathula2843 2 года назад
justtt can't stop laughing 😂u guys make us smile !!
@shanna17lo
@shanna17lo 2 года назад
Omg Trid always has awesome zingers! 🤣🤣🤣😍😍
@marciasandoval7281
@marciasandoval7281 2 года назад
Omg I love u guys
@Nacogdoches86
@Nacogdoches86 2 года назад
U have a cute laugh and makes u live longer and means ur happy
@shimeatokona7381
@shimeatokona7381 2 года назад
I love TRID he makes me craugh (cry and laugh at the same time) so much 🤣
@ivangim1
@ivangim1 17 дней назад
Different strokes for different folks. Some people need a direct approach to get the message. Others find directness abrasive. Be discerning, flexible, reasonably kind. Extend some basic social etiquette at the beginning. Be a sport too. Give and take. Be mindful and accommodative of your spouse's sensitivities to your own seeming unfriendliness, self-annoyance, mood swings in a social setting. It's not about you only when going out to meet friends/people.
@EstherGacha09
@EstherGacha09 2 года назад
Alright, time to get ready to laugh my arse off :"D
@rosebud9464
@rosebud9464 2 года назад
Trid would make more money being a Comedian, his lines are so funny 🤣 ... Now I gave you that idea, so I need royalties if you do make money being a Comedian
@kmay181
@kmay181 Год назад
Here's something for when you don't agree with someone: "Well, I COULD agree with you, but then we'd both be wrong."
@mr.goodcat3025
@mr.goodcat3025 2 года назад
Some of those questions, being rude is being nice
@starshinetamy
@starshinetamy 2 года назад
Omg yesss TY
@JOHN-ht6zc
@JOHN-ht6zc 2 года назад
THANK U
@Nellbae
@Nellbae 2 года назад
"Don't eat this diet." 🤣🤣🤣
@TGregers
@TGregers 2 года назад
03:26 "You are the missing link... Goodbye" (For real tho didn't know he was missing a part of his finger. Wonder what happened.)
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