NOT OUR LOVE STORY | EP. 4 | SHEENA & TRID 

"I can remember a hundred things that I enjoyed, but I can't remember 5 fights" Their relationship is so deeply rooted, they know what to hold on to and what to forget.❤

so nice to hear Trid be serious about his feelings for her, he is her biggest fan

“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to find and remove all the barriers you have built up against it" - Rumi

At approximately 28:45 Trid explained how Sheena’s off-hand example of their relationship and bringing coffee was such a teachable moment from both. Trid explained where her example was flawed and Sheena listened openly without getting defensive. Such generosity towards each other from both of them. ❤

Trid spoke so wonderfully about conflict resolution in relationships. It stayed with me.

SERIOUSLY loving Serious Trid!!❤ A guy who thinks for himself,is sincere,smart,funny,honest,in control of himself,takes care of his family yet being ok with his wife being herself! Sheena you SO lucked out here!❤ Guys like these are hard to find.That being said the combo of personalities is also a huge factor in a successful relationship in my opinion.

Love is about doing the laundry with a smile even if you hate it. Is about losing a little sleep so your spouse can get some sleep after Taking care of a sick child all night without waking you up.. is about enjoying what she cooks for you every day, even if you can cook better than her the one time in three months that you do. It's about realising how fuller your life is with her in it, rather than without. Love is, essentially, what you are willing to give, to get so much more in return.

43:29 "Let's turn this off so I can give u lil sugar" Awwww ❤🥺

“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to find and remove all the obstacles against it" - Moulana Jalaludin al-Rumi

I think this is my favorite episode so far. I think my favorite part was when Trid said he don't need Sheena but he wanted her, my heart jumped at that, to be wanted by a person that loves you and you love. That has to be top 5 in romantic gestures. I am not jealous of the love/relationship but I am envious. ❤❤❤

This angle is gold! I love that we get to see a side profile. It helps to feel more connected to the conversation, but still feel that mysterious vibe.

“Not your love story?” That’s crazy. This episode was ALL about your love story. Loved it.

Trid, you might want to ponder being a relationship advisor. A few shorts with your insight and wisdom about a couple's interactions would be helpful for so many folks . Great episode.

I am typically very skeptical and pessimistic about love. However, watching you both gives me hope that someday, perhaps even I can cultivate a relationship like yours. Thank you for revealing a different aspect of love and relationships that I have not experienced within my own family.❤

It's so refreshing to see the usually unserious guy like Trid suddenly delivering the-most-basic-yet-are-forgotten life lessons with all his focus. He meant to build a life with her and is still doing it with determination. I'm so happy to see people like Sheena and Trid doing their best to protect love and hope like this.

It's annoying how cute this is

The toilet story; "I told him Look in most cases in life, you stare at problems in the face, in this you don't" absolutely howling, his wit and humour is unmatched.

You guys have amazing chemistry. Hearing Trid one can appreciate his intellect, not only humour but real wisdom as well. Great podcast. Loved it.

Best episode ever!!!! The relationship advice from Trid was so spot on. You guys are seriously couple goals. No screaming, yelling or ignoring. Well done. Appreciate you both. 😘❤️😘❤️

Found your podcast today by accident. So glad I did. Binged them all in one afternoon. Humor, wisdom, combined in the perfect mix.

I feel this series should be called "Falling in love with each other...Again!" Cause by discussing all the things they have been through, learned from each other and correcting each other, they are falling in love all over again!💕 I think everyone should have this kinda recap session with their significant other! 😌

My husband and I are working through some things currently. I think I got more from this podcast than I have in the past 2 couples classes. Thank you for sharing. ❤

After 37 years of marriage this episode re-centered me, another career as marriage counselors could await you!

I absolutely adore the honesty and respect between the two of you . He said he wasn’t good at communication, but I beg to differ . I’ve been going through not so good relationship goals , as I’m 46 and never been married I guess that makes me “ strange “ when people ask your 46 and never been married ? I say yeah and I’ve never been divorced either . I truly believe in the sanctity of marriage, and only going to do it once . Your relationship gives me hope that this is what it should be like . So thank you for setting my standards back to where they should be . Life is too short to live it unhappy . You guys make my day! ❤️

I love that TRID always sounds like he's smiling when he talks to Sheena. It's the sweetest thing

Hillarious beginnings.. and then you got deep.. perfect convo

I had my daughter 10 months ago. I became a stay at home mom. I completely understand the feeling of not being able to spent the money. My husband and I have been together 13.5 years. 4.5 of those married. I struggle spending money on myself that I feel I didn’t earn. Even though we are in this together.

Alternate title: I love you more today than yesterday...get the music rights😂

TRID's insights on relationships and life are so wise. He could be a counselor or coach as a second career.

Do an episode on parenting, Navigating cultural differences, etc.

You can see that TRID is grinning all the way through, enjoying being there sharing their stories of life and love. Both so much in love with each other it shines through.

I am single, very happy and don't want a relationship. However I think the information both of you are sharing on this podcast regarding healthy relationships and all the surrounding aspects is very valuable to society. Thank you both. Respect & Love

In these times especially, it's so good to witness caring, aware, good people. Thanks for that and for the many smiles and laughs. You've lifted my spirit so many times over the past few years. 🙂

I looove this angle of Trid! it makes it so much funnier being able to see his expressions (or really, lack thereof LOL, love the deadpan delivery) during the conversations! Also doesn't hurt that he's easy on the eyes haha -- youre both such a beautiful couple. :) Full of so much life & laughter too!

You, Sheena are so lucky to have someone who is so funny!! You two, there is so much LOVE in your relationship! I adore your banter and the beautiful relationship you two have. It's refreshing to see folks communicating and sharing your LIVES.

In India we say " Nazar na Lage AAP dono ko".. Love you both❤

This episode sold me on the podcast! Loved every second of it, deep yet not so serious! There’s just so much to take away from it!

I feel so much potential for this podcast🩵 seeing this genuine side and such amazing personal, family and relationship POV and organic advice. Social media can be all fun n games but this podcast would thrive on a different note such as this📝🙏🏼👏🏼🤞🏼 small interruptions and real conversations. You both have such great views on life, I’m here for it.

you don't know how much I cried in this episode. You two often make me laugh but this one reminded me of a time when I felt satisfaction and happiness in doing laundry, cooking, and all the services I did for something I deemed the most important part of my life. Granted that my ex was absolutely useless but loving... lol. I'm still thankful that a woman tempted him and he followed her because I would have never left even when that situation was not good for me. Take good care of your love please. People don't realize how rare it is to find someone you can love both foolishly and with reason.

Yay🎉couldn't wait for this episode to drop❤last episode was amazing🥰😘

easy to see why you 2 are so perfect together, both on the same page of moving thru life and the ups and downs it brings.🥰🥰🥰

At 29:05 in your discussion, it’s called discounting. Went through years of counseling to discover that is a trigger for me. We all want to know our efforts for another is appreciated and when it isn’t we feel discounted.

Although we both work & have never set roles, we have the “traditional roles” as well. I love cooking & cleaning our home because I love him & want our home to be a place where he looks forward to coming home to. I work from home and appreciate that he takes care of the outside, trash and cars. He does that because he loves me. We don’t enjoy traveling & love our home so much, we both work hard at our jobs & at home to ensure we both stay happy and love being together in our home. Great conversation. You do these things as an act of love.

Even when yall derail from the topic, it's Amazing! ❤❤

I loved this episode 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Such awesome advice, especially from TRID👍🏼 This is exactly what I was hoping for when you guys announced the Podcast.

3:44 TRID sneaks in such a romantic line.

Wow, loved this episode. My wife and I are in our 41st year married. So much of what you said is spot on. 2 half people do not make a whole couple. It takes 2 whole people to make a whole couple. And communication is the key to a successful relationship. There have been times when my wife hasn't liked me, but she always loved me. And vice a versa. You talked about "traditional roles" (cooking, cleaning etc.). We have said we have blue and pink jobs. But that doesn't align with traditional roles. I feel I am better at vacuuming so I do it. But my wife is a better cook. So most times I vacuum and most days she cooks. But there are times when I cook and she vacuums. Don't assign jobs to one person all the time. We agree that whoever does the job better should do the job. Works for us. Also, separate bank accounts work best for us (although they are joint accounts, we each manage our own money. And bills are split according to annual salaries. If one person is making more than the other, they carry more of the financial responsibility. Don't assume how the other person is going to react. Anyway, great episode. Thanks for sharing.

11 minutes in this is the best one "yet" love watching yall !!

I needed to hear this conversation. Loved it ! Can’t wait to hear the rest of the love story as well!

21:40 yes lot of women can completely relate to it. When we are capable of achieving a lot more but are just not able to utilize that part of us for any reason, it leaves us feeling so lost.

Love the depth of this episode! Thank you

removing obstacles, thats exactly what me and my husband discussed few days back. I cant believe this coincidence. The great thing abt my husband and what i love is exactly this. He removes all the unnecessary noise, and gets to the point right away.

Sheena and trid are my favourite youtubers man. They are just so genuinely hilarious 😂❤.

This episode was so thought provoking, genuinely amazing words from the both of you

This was definitely my favorite episode so far. Great discussion about what really makes relationships work and what doesn't. Loving this podcast more every episode. Thank you for sharing all of this!

You understand each other so well...such a wonderful fit......super relationship advice you two..❤❤

So much Love and understanding in this Union. TRID and Sheena are THE Parents. We love them. I learnt something ❤

I agree completely if you ever feel like you have no joy and what you're doing for somebody else even the slightest bit then there's a problem especially in a relationship. I know anytime I do something for my partner just knowing the fact that it's going to make it easier for them or that they're going to be happy about it makes me feel happy

Thank you so much for the podcast, im enjoying every moment of it. The love and the joy between you guys is projecting unto me rightnow. My heart was very sad but this healed a little bit. Thanks!

Love this episode!! Will be taking something away from this episode!! 💕

Really loving these conversations... You two are wonderful!!❤ Can't wait for the next one 😊

My new favorite quote “You can’t tell someone how to resolve an issue that you don’t want to resolve. It’s a human mistake. People don’t want to do something but they want you to do it in the way they would do it”

Excellent close TRID.👌 The wisdom of this episode may seem profoundly basic, it is literally the most foundational advice any new couple can receive, regardless of age. I was married to someone for 20 years who didn't actually want to be married to me and the divorce papers were literally signed on the 20th date of our anniversary. It took me 16 years to realize that there was never a chance that I could have changed her mind, but I don't believe divorce is the answer because we can always change our minds. This person has resented and blamed me even to this day. It is so much better to recognize when a relationship is not developing the way you hoped and gracefully accept it for what it is. Some people are just not compatible and that is how life goes. Sheena and TRID, I appreciate your story because you are live and in person, just the way you are.👌 Being sensible is a good thing.🤙

Beautiful to watch. Great wisdom nuggets shared there 😍😍

I absolutely loved this episode! My husband and I laugh all the time and are very much like you two but the topic of allowing your partners time to do favors for you hit home. Thank you Sheena and TRID!❤❤❤

I cant belive i was listening on Spotify... Seeing you guys on RU-vid makes it even better.

I loved this episode! I’ve been marries for only 1.5 years so far and that was some really solid marriage advice, thank you! And you two are soo perfect together ❤

Guess we all have to practice patience 😄 cant wait for the next episode AND to see what the gift is.

Ahhhh, this was an awesome episode !! Always love your laughs and humor, but listening to your insight was the best 👌

What a great episode! You guys are awesome and I really appreciate you sharing the insight and the experience with us! 😊

I loved this episode! I said it before and I’ll say it again, your relationship gives me hope! 💗

Best way to start my day and wake me up. Thanks so much

This was so nice to hear. You both actually have alot of wisdom and I really enjoyed Sheena's take on gender roles since we all fear building up resentment over it. And Trid's words were just so enlightening..thanks guys.

oh no been looking forward to part 4....oh well, my my mind is blasted now😄

You guys speak the truth! More people need to listen to you!

This is the best episode I've seen so far. I actually listed to it and the very real and serious relationship advice was beautiful. It was so wholesome and genuine. Thank you for sharing ❤

Continue with this forever... This is so cute

I loved this and I’m impatient for the next episode. 😊

I can’t believe I forgot to comment on your “Our Love Story” video!!! 😮 It was STELLAR. We love you guys so much, it’s ridiculous. You’re GOOD PEOPLE! ❤ Beautiful in heart, soul, and in every way. Thank you for being a light 💡 in the public eye. 🙏 😊

Just finished listening this podcast at spotify..now here again❤

Awe!!! Bawling my eyes out on this one,,,,,

I moved from my mum and dad's house to move in to Amy's mum's house then she sold us the house which we didn't even think would happen. Now we just love our house. And Amy cooks and cleans because she has a desk job. And I do the house work because I have a grafting job. it just works. But I cook Italian once a week.x

I didnt expect this episode to be like this . Saw sides to both of them that normally doesnt show . Sheena is so assertive and "trid" so sensitive n considerate. N both were so observant of so many things . I have so many questions about the dishwasher though

he constantly makes her laugh best kind of partnership 🤣one can't be sad for long with a partner like this

Trid was right, this IS the best podcast!

re-watching this and I must say it's making me love you guys even more. Did not think that was possible.🤩

Been watching you from day one. Listen to you guys everyday. I’m a fuel hauler in southern tier of New York. Makes driving so much better. Love the new pod cast, all of trids personalities make it a full cast lol. Also I loved the our love story episode. Ps how’s the hot box coming AKA FRIGDE

Its tricky watching the actual TRID and seeing the mask behind the microphone. Really enjoyed this next podcast too❣️

I will wait for that book TRID!!

Great podcast! Thank you!

It's nice to get to see you guys under this light. You are wholesome and inspiring. Really

This is so amazing!.. TRID is the next Dr Phil…👍. Awesome episode! Luv u guys💚🙏

Love this episode!! ❤️

Watched it again right after it ended I loved this!

Man this was such a good episode 😊 they really brought to the forefront the importance of communication community and reality of expectations 😅

Sheena this episode was so wonderful, honestly better than the love story origins one

you both are such wonderful people and as a man who has been married for 13 years your advise is spot on... love you peeps

I enjoyed this immensely! Love their values, humor and stories. As usual, I found myself literally laughing out loud at Trid's comments. Especially thought it was interesting when Sheena interrupted Trid, and he said, "Can I finish?" 🤣 (since he never interrupts) 🤣🤣

I loooooved this episode!! You two always make me laugh and this one had so much value in addition to the laughter. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. 😊

I resonate with you guys.I moved to another country, leaving my stable job behind to marry my long-time boyfriend of 11 years last year. We are currently at the phase of where he goes to work everyday and i do household chores while waiting for a job. I am quite lucky as my husband shares all chores with me, whether it be cooking, washing or cleaning the house. He is amazing, always have been, understanding and very patient. We talk a lot and avoid arguments by trying to understand each other's POV. In the 11 years of dating and now into 1st year of marriage, i'm still wondering if or when an argument would ever arise as it has never happened and fingers crossed it never does 😊