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“Today I want to tell the story of our love, how we met and got married. In the last video my wife told about the same thing, now I will offer my version in Russian. I speak Russian for our Russian-speaking listeners, in particular for my friends and acquaintances.
We met on VK (a Russian social media), as they say, quite by accident. But in my opinion, it was not an accident, it was a miracle. I came across Emma's VK page and decided to send her a friend request. At that time I was in a relationship with one girl, but it did not work out very well. God put in my heart the desire to meet Emmanuella. She accepted my request and we started chatting. As soon as we began to communicate, we felt a spiritual connection and talked as if we already knew each other before. This happens very rarely.
We found a common language from the very beginning and fell in love with each other even before we saw each other in person. There is a saying that men love with their eyes and women with their ears. I am very glad that our case turned out to be different. I fell in love with her soul before I could fall in love with her body. Emma can confirm that the same thing happened to her.
When we first met, thank God, we were not disappointed. I was amazed by her beauty. Although I did not expect to meet such a beauty, I just saw in her my future wife, no matter how she looked, I already knew that she was a wonderful person.
We met in October 2022 and got married in May 2023. In just 4 months we came to this decision! We went through many difficulties, such as misunderstanding of relatives, financial difficulties, and more, but I am very glad and grateful to God that these difficulties did not stop us, we were able to overcome them. I am proud of my wife, who showed remarkable courage and willpower to decide to marry me, and I am extremely grateful to her.
Friends and acquaintances began to help us as soon as we began to prepare for the wedding, I am very grateful to them. Someone helped with money, someone with an organization, someone with advice. And this once again leads me to the idea that our marriage is not an accident, but the will of God.
Couples like ours are extremely rare, especially families in which the wife is African and the husband is Russian. Look how many marriages break up, and marriages in which people speak the same language, know each other well, went to the same school and the same church. But my wife and I are from different continents and speak different languages, but at the same time we understand each other perfectly. Isn't that a miracle?!
Therefore, I am sure that a good marriage, a good family is given to a person from above, this is God's gift. You need to rely on God, you cannot do it on your own.
I myself was looking for a future wife for a long time, friends and relatives advised me, they tried to introduce me to girls, nothing worked out for me exactly until I started praying about it and relied on the will of God.
I walked the path of Moses, thirty years I went to my marriage. I did spiritual work on myself. My wife was also preparing to be a good wife and praying for it.
I have never given and will not give advice about a fling, because I think it is harmful and I have never done it myself. All I can advise is to pray and hope in God and, above all, have the goal of creating a good family.
If a good marriage is a gift, then God never gives it for nothing. You should not bury your talent in the ground, you should serve people and God.
Matthew 6:33 says, "Seek first the kingdom of God, and all other things will be added to you." As Christians, we wanted to perform the Sacrament of the Wedding, and we consider this day to be the moment of the creation of our family.
At first, I was tormented by doubts and I did not believe that Emma was my future wife. I deliberately sought confirmation from God when I prayed and asked Him to reveal His will to me. Now I know for sure when you meet your spouse, you will just know about it, God will let you know. I myself received several signs at once. Once, even before I met Emma, I was riding a train and met an old man, who was handing out newspapers. He did not ask for money and approached people very selectively. He predicted to one woman that she would soon have a grandson. He came up to me and said: "son, don't look for a bad girl, look for a good girl, she's somewhere nearby, you just don't know." I thanked him and gave him money.”
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27 сен 2024
