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How I changed my mind about bottom surgery - a story of my gender dysphoria evolution. 

Samantha4keeps
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I am having gender affirming vaginoplasty in a few days with Dr. Marci Bowers. In this video, I'd like to share the reasons why I decided to have the surgery, even though that wasn't my plan earlier in my transition. I will discuss my personal experiences with:
Genital dysphoria
Childhood memories
Cultural and family influence
Stereotypes about trans women
Sex & relationships
and more...
Thank you for watching this long video and listening to my story. I hope you find this information to be useful on your journey.

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21 окт 2024

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Комментарии : 49   
@Dlsturbedfan
@Dlsturbedfan 22 дня назад
Congratulations! I wish you luck with your results and your recovery. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 22 дня назад
Thank you!! 💜
@NandoMachado-l7g
@NandoMachado-l7g 20 дней назад
Thank you for always listening to me. You know what my search is. You are cordial and sweet to me. The best for you. You have your place inside my heart
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
You are so welcome
@flyprincess69
@flyprincess69 21 день назад
I still am undecided, but your video has pushed me further toward it. Thank you ❤
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 21 день назад
So glad that you found this information helpful! 💜 I hoped to help someone the way my friend helped me. I will try to make videos about the healing process.
@MirandalindaL.A
@MirandalindaL.A 21 день назад
I just had bottom surgery two months ago. I had the colon vaginoplasty. The surgery is very rough and very invasive. I'm only speaking from my own experience so my recovery has been extremely difficult and the dialation takes most of my time out of my days. Do your research talk to other girls once you do it there's no turning back.
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
Thanks for sharing your experience!
@MirandalindaL.A
@MirandalindaL.A 20 дней назад
@@samantha4keeps you are welcome 😁
@Stacey_Reborn
@Stacey_Reborn 13 дней назад
Good luck with the surgery and your recovery. I've just started my transition (only 4 days on hormones and antiandrogens) but I already feel so much better in myself. It's amazing and wonderful that science can be utilised to help make us feel "right". ❤❤❤
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 6 дней назад
Thanks! Congrats on starting your journey! I am so happy for you. Thanks for sharing!
@sonyxperia731
@sonyxperia731 22 дня назад
we gonna see u soon much more happier😘
@NandoMachado-l7g
@NandoMachado-l7g 20 дней назад
Samantha, it's good that you have decided for your better quality of life and to calm your interior. I love you very much.  Comentarios Aprende vocabulario
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
Nando, it’s so sweet of you to say that. It’s always good to hear from you! 💜
@NandoMachado-l7g
@NandoMachado-l7g 18 дней назад
I always think of you...
@NandoMachado-l7g
@NandoMachado-l7g 20 дней назад
I will always carry you in my heart... you are the only one who did not hurt me... the only one who did not take advantage of my dreams... you always let me express myself... and you treated me with sweetness... I'm in danger of diabetes hehehe... your heart is huge... I already told you the clues were in the plants
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
Hope you take care of yourself.
@Hlizabhet
@Hlizabhet 22 дня назад
Buena suerte 🧧 amiga 🎉 todo estará mucho mejor 👍
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 22 дня назад
Thank you so much friend! 💜
@Hlizabhet
@Hlizabhet 22 дня назад
@@samantha4keeps de nada 😊 linda noche
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 22 дня назад
You too!
@sonyxperia731
@sonyxperia731 22 дня назад
I wish you good luck ❤❤❤
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 22 дня назад
Thank you!! 💜
@Worlds-Collide
@Worlds-Collide 8 дней назад
Good luck. I hope all works out. My wife had it before we met
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 6 дней назад
Thank you! Thanks for sharing about your wife. I am really happy for her and you.
@Briannadawn20
@Briannadawn20 13 дней назад
I’m most worried about the end result. Was surgery successful? Any complications? This is my fear. The thought of losing it doesn’t bother me, the complications after surgery scare me to death .
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 6 дней назад
Those are legit worries. I am currently in recovery and will share my experience in the near future.
@Briannadawn20
@Briannadawn20 6 дней назад
@@samantha4keeps thank you, will keep an eye open
@otaku1688
@otaku1688 16 дней назад
Good luck!
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 15 дней назад
Thank you!
@ludaw2975
@ludaw2975 20 дней назад
Have you talked again to that friend who did bottom surgery recently? How is she doing now? Is she the only person you talked to in real life who went through the surgery? Not trying to be mean, but it does not seem you fully understand consequences of doing something this invasive to your body. The surgery is irreversible, your body will constantly fight that artificial vagina the surgeon will create and will try to close it, and risk of problems with urination, especially as you age.
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
Thanks for your concerns and questions. I have talked with her recently and she is still very happy with having had the surgery. As trans, we were not born with the female anatomy so we have to take some risks to be who we are and to have what we need to be aligned. No surgery is perfect and there will always be risks. We have to evaluate for ourselves the pros and cons and how important it is to us. My video is more about how I have thought of the process over time and realized that it’s something I have to do. The specific techniques and surgeons also make a lot of difference in the outcome. My video didn’t get into the technical aspects of the surgery because it wasn’t what I meant to focus on. I understand I will need to dilate three times a day. The frequency goes down over time. I might post videos about those technical details as I heal. Thanks for taking your time to make a comment. I appreciated your feedback!
@Palliativcare
@Palliativcare 21 день назад
If someone is afraid of words describing anatomy- this person would not watch a video about blotting surgery. Why apologise and give a trigger warning about anatomy and sexuality?
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
Thanks for your feedback! I guess it’s my cultural and influence talking in my head and I wanted to be extra sensitive about the audience.
@willsmom93
@willsmom93 20 дней назад
Dr. Bowers is the best!
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 20 дней назад
She is amazing!
@NandoMachado-l7g
@NandoMachado-l7g 20 дней назад
I 💜 YOU
@elenastevens6090
@elenastevens6090 15 дней назад
Your video is very true full . I'm at the same place.
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 15 дней назад
Thanks! Good luck with your surgery!
@vicky-annedealey479
@vicky-annedealey479 5 дней назад
This is one thing that l want to have
@jamellehearn1389
@jamellehearn1389 7 дней назад
You are so beautiful 🤩 my cutie pie love you 💖💖
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 6 дней назад
Thank you! Good to hear from you. 🤗
@jamellehearn1389
@jamellehearn1389 6 дней назад
You are so welcome my cutie pie I'm so glad that you are doing fine sexy ​@@samantha4keeps
@craigpennington1251
@craigpennington1251 21 день назад
From what I understand, you DID have it done. And I do not think that you are of the Christian faith for it is written: Deuteronomy-chapter 23 verse 2 says: No one whose testicles have been crushed or whose penis has been cut off may come into the assembly of the Lord. People fail to realize that our bodies are NOT our own. We are the sole property of the Lord Jesus Christ. If you haven't already done this Samantha, please,please think before doing so. Being shot 3 times,stabbed twice, 6 stage 4 cancers,13 concussions, & a host of other things that should've put me in the grave long ago but Jesus gave me extra days. I've seen Heaven. It is REAL. Jesus Christ is REAL. Please do not throw your life away.
@samantha4keeps
@samantha4keeps 21 день назад
Thanks for sharing your opinions. I am sorry you have had to go through so much in your life. I hope your life will continue to be better. 🤗
@gonnfishy2987
@gonnfishy2987 20 дней назад
Hot take, can I have a small christ on the side? ta
@Stacey_Reborn
@Stacey_Reborn 13 дней назад
I feel sorry for cancer patients who have had to have their testicles removed. What a choice they had to make: Die from cancer and get into heaven or survive and be refused entry.
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