I think one of the greatest things I've learned through my journey of many years through therapy is the mantra "I'm working on healing." It's beautiful, and even if you slip up or have a bad day, you're still working on it, you're still on that path. Also it takes a looong time to find a therapist that is right for you, most people can't just go to one and it's done and it's perfect. Shopping around is nothing to be down over, you have to find someone who can and will work with you, but also push and encourage you in the right ways at appropriate times.
its brave to share such a personal issue on social media and be so open about it. I really wish you all the best, you are a good person and deserve happiness.
It makes me so happy to see you getting better and I can't wait to see what the future holds for you. It'll be the most amazing thing to see you under 300 lbs.
LSSG Broly There's this man trying his hardest to turn his life around, and what are you doing? Hiding behind a monitor like a snake trying to discredit him? Are you doing anything worth noting? Probably not. I'll never understand trying to bring down someone that only wants to uplift others. Pathetic.
What purpose is this comment serving? If you don't like boogie, don't watch him. If you feel like you are just a customer, that's fine. But he specifically says that he loves his viewers, and its obvious he doesn't do it for the money. What legitimate concern is there? Do you just want attention? Don't argue with someone's emotions.
Taekwon Crawfish first time I've ever seen this youtuber and won't be watching again, but you sound like a dumbass kid lol. Plenty of people "do it" for the viewers not the money. In fact some people with millions of subscribers donate all/most their earnings. What a weirdo for typing that response. Do you ACTUALLY get invited to parties? lol. tata
dude, you're looking so much better physically at this point it's unbelievable. There was visible progress all the time but now it's just ridiculous how far you've come compared to just a year ago! keep it up!
+Swixen woow that's actually significant as fuck. I was an old boogie fan who was disheartened to come back to see he's still a bigger guy but he's come a far way indeed.
Boogie's been through a shit ton of abuse, has to deal with the fact that he's overweight(looking outstanding though boogie), and now got a divorce, and STILL stands on top of the highest mountain🙏 Truly a role model that I look up to fully and completely. I love ya❤
You would not want to look up to someone who makes countless excuses just so he could continue on his "FOOD NOT SO DIFFERENT TO MARIJUANA OR CIGARETEE" addiction. Not to mention fishing for pity and sympathy won't save him from dying from obesity.
i'm not a fan of yours...not in the sense that I don't like your videos..i just never sat and watched but I've seen you pop up in my side bar more than once... I watched your video on the divorce and how great you guys seemed to deal with it .. i want you to know coming from a divorced home growing up .. I AM thinking about you and hope things go well ! .. love ya bruddah ...100% .. you're a good dude
Splucer I mean i dont get ur point. Are u saying hes skinny only because hes a going through stress and doesnt deserve a pat on the back? Whats ur problem lol
*Holy Crap. I NEED TO SEE THAT FRANCIS/BOOGIE CROSSOVER RIGHT NOWWWWW!!* On a more serious note, it makes me so happy to see Boogie doing so well. He truly is an inspiration for anyone that's just having problems and needs help staying positive. *We love you very much, Boogie. Keep your head up and keep fighting forward!!*
Caleb Twombly An inspiration to what ? Being on disability for anxiety and making money off youyube ??? You people all drimk the kool aid. Get a fucking real job. And Boogie who gives a fuck about your divorce. We all have problems in life.
Speak for yourself, dude! I don't care if people are obese, or black, or muslim, or whatever happens to be the "shunned group of the day". I only care if people are interesting as individuals. YOU might not pay attention to obese people - because you have a problem yourself. I certainly don't.
Nick I think it funny u comment on two ppl now who support boogie guess you gotta be like 15 cuz no grown man have time in their life have to go out of their day to talk trash about someone who don’t give a shit bout you
Haven't watched anything from Boogie in such a long time. As soon as I tune back in he's skinny and going through a divorce?!?! My heart goes out to you sir!
Good for you Boogie - enjoy watching you and getting your take on various issues. My husband has sort of a go-to meal that is easy and keeps him trim. He buys tortillas / wraps and makes them with rice, refried beans (sometimes grilled chicken), and salsa or hot sauce. You can add veggies or other types of sauce. Quick and simple, filling, and inexpensive. Best of luck to you in 2018!
theLuigiFan0007 rice=carbs. You don’t want an excessive amount of carbs after gastric bypass. Protein is priority. You can use cauliflower as a rice substitute
Boogie you most likely wont even see this comment but i just want to say your doing great we love you and we are here for you. People worry because we care about you.
I disagree, I believe just because someone gets a divorce doesn't mean it wasn't a good marriage. If people have 10 wonderful years while married, and after that they start to drift apart at some point, that doesn't mean they didn't love the first 10 years of that marriage. It's totally possible to have a great marriage and it just not last. Of course that's not most marriages, it's uncommon, but there are marriages like that.
are you absolutely daft? *_HE IS ALRIGHT HOLY SHIT_* did you not watch the video? not hear anything he said? jesus christ people need to pay attention before commenting...
black broly to bigger people going through stuff like that would usually make u bigger but yea it's cause of the surgery and him trying to sort everything
I don't know why anybody would attack your ex-wife over your divorce. A shame your marriage ended, but I'm glad you & your ex-wife are still friends. As well as the people who supported you before the divorce.
John Duncan, that's all you. The funny thing is that you deleted our comment because you know there are fans who will, or may back me up on this. Plus, what you said was a lie, let's be honest. Also, knock a guy down when he's already down. Not very manly. Knock him down when he's standing up.
There are some people here that dont like positivity so I just wanted to tell u to ignore them and focus on the replies you will get by fans that agree like me :)
I think the word you were looking for instead of exhilarating is elation. I felt that when I filed for divorce myself because the stress over the years leading up to it came to a close and all the energy my then husband and I spent on trying to not divorce failed. It happens and it's perfectly normal to feel that way. It's neither a happy nor sad feeling; you just feel more energy because all that energy you spent before is free and can now be redirected to the future and what you want to do. It's almost like you feel weightless and be forewarned this feeling is temporary. Thank god you have a support system because it's very rough without one.
Fuck dude, my heart goes out to you. The surgery, coping with your personal life, and talking with the community openly about everything. You're one of the strongest, bravest people I've ever seen.😊
I'm honestly stunned about how good you look. I can tell that every moment of pain from the surgery was worth it, 130 pounds is insane for such a short time. And I'm glad you're doing good with the divorce, and thanks for reassuring us that you are ok. Best of luck to you and have a happy new year.
Easily the most inspirational dude on RU-vid, in my personal opinion. I’m so glad Boogie is holding up okay, and having lost over 130 pounds so far? That’s awesome! We all also love you very much, and please always continue to speak with us again soon.
I haven’t been watching too many videos but lately when Boogie puts out a video I’m locked in. He might be one of the most genuine people I’ve ever listened to.
If you think boogie is honest... Oh boy how wrong you can be :) Boogie is an extremely self centered creature that doesn't respond to legitimate criticism so his fans only see the good side of him. But like all humans he is far from perfect as well. And he has kicked allot of dirt into people who considered him to be a good friend and went through allot of hardship to help him out in his time of need, only to get pushed aside and tell lies about them once he feels good again. If you want more information I'll give you more. Boogie at his core is rather evil/ignorant.
I don't understand leaving now.. like in the next few years you're finally going to be able to do the things you've always wanted... It would be mostly uphill and give you tons of new experiences. Like she was willing to stay by you all that time you were basically helpless.. but now you'll be able to travel and do much more on your own.
Eileen the Crow I'm no expert, but judging by the way boogie talks, the things he has said dez said,his improving health is the main reason she felt she could leave. She wasn't just his wife, she was essentially his caregiver. The option wasn't there for her to leave before, he couldn't take care of himself, she had to stay.
pretty shit his wife left just as he's sorting out his life . Feels like from all the stories boogie said that they were more friends and she felt sorry for him because if she loved him why leave now just when he's getting better and looking even better
To me it sounds like she was only in the relationship for the money it's sad to say but I think she was only in it for the money she was thinking he's going to die soon and she would get it all but she realized he's gonna live longer then she expected so now she's leaving and taking half the money
Yes, you could bring him down to have only 25% of his income to pay for rent in his new place to live, while paying for 2 other womens rent where he no longer lives. It's all about getting in there BEFORE he is ruined totaly, since woman 1 took 50% and you will now take 50% of what he has left ...
Quick tip, if you go into the settings in adblock, you can turn on the option to whitelist certain channels. Best way to support boogie is to turn that shit on.
If you paid close enough attention, you would know that he is okay. The key to 2018 is to not dwell in the negative. Have faith in people and they'll prove you right. You probably think I'm a fuckhead right now if you're reading this but I don't care. Just trying to help.
Stephen Luna being that he’s been his roommate the entire time he’s had the channel, I’d bet they probably have talked about it before. Some people don’t like being on camera for fear of exposure, social anxiety, etc.
Hey Boogie, would you ever mind doing a "what I eat in a day/week" type video? I'm on the heavy side myself, and have struggled with portion sizes over the past decade. Like you I've tried every diet out there, but would love to get some insight into what you personally eat in a day/week so I can see what works for you. Thanks man, and keep kicking ass!
Hey there, you'll have to keep in mind that because Boogie's stomach is smaller after the surgery, he physically can't eat very much. Portion sizes for regular stomachs are hard to get right. A food scale is a very great way to measure how much you're eating. Check your food packages for the recommended serving size and at least be aware of how many calories are in certain meals. You don't have to track everything just yet, but the MyFitnessPal app is helpful. Good luck!
What I did I lost about 30 lbs in a couple months with a diet and a little excerise but i was 210 idk how heavy you are but anyway. Whole wheat is very good. I'd eat oatmeal with water for breakfast with 5 strawberries. Lunch was tuna sandwich with whole wheat bread and dinner is really whatever i got because I can't really cook. But if you can I'd suggest grilled chicken breast and broccoli. For snacks probably yogurt and whole wheat peanut butter crackers.
FatBoyzAreUs OH AND THE MOST IMPORTANT! DRINK A LOT OF WATER. I only drink water and nothing else. At least 6 to 7 bottles a day. Can drink other things but not a lot of sugar
Sincerely wishing you, and also Dez, all the best and a very bright future. One of the reasons I watch is you're one of the few RU-vidrs nearer my age, and I appreciate the maturity that you have - you know there's no bad guys here. Glad you're getting through the day.
I’ve never seen a fan base as supportive as yours almost all the comments since you’ve had your surgery have said you look good man and I don’t think this will be any different you always have us supporting you
Boogie, we are both the same age. Both gamers, both suffer from depression and both going through/been through a divorce. Things will get better dude, they did for me, I even met someone else and got re-married (now together 8 years). Keep your chin up and stay safe mate! Lots of love from the UK!
Andy Wedmore And well done for you, mate. Loved reading what you've been going through, and I think it's an amazing journey so far - and one that Boogie could relate to, in some way. Hope it will only continue to get better from here.
Reading the comments, I see a lot of jealous pissbabies and I'm really happy to see what you don't let them get to you! :) At least them commenting and watching gains you stuff! Keep it up 👌👌
Hey Boogie, I would like to suggest water enhancers, lemonade by Mio is my fav and they help with the sweet cravings . I used to live off 2l bottles of pop, but in april I made a change after a hospital stay. I've also given up chips, candy, pizza, ice cream, fast food, and more. I'm glad the surgery worked for you but it wasn't my choice. I figured if I could make the changes myself I didn't need it. It's working for me, almost 900 at my heaviest and now 550 and still going down.
RektWeeaboo a better life partner, a better mate? Someone sincere.. irony though is that this guy himself is sort of a ruse. The amount hes made people pity him over the years (he'd never admit it though) makes me sad. Perhaps the wife could see through the charade, you can only fool people so much (unless it's youtube). I don't buy his act for a second. Hey boogie, IDGAF about how you're REALLY doing.