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I remember when my brother was passing away from cancer the last words he said was I’m tired. He closed his eyes and that was it. Death looked so peaceful and from then I no longer feared it. We don’t know when it will occur and what happens once your no longer alive no need to be afraid.
The thing that I realized is that no one is REALLY going to care if you die. Especially in today’s world. People move on very quickly. We all are relatively insignificant.
When you have given of yourself and made a difference in people’s lives, you absolutely will be loved and missed! If you haven’t, then a natural consequence of that is that people won’t care, so you are right with that.
This begs the question: is it 'death' that people fear or is it the 'suffering' that often leads up to death, ESPECIALLY if you have a lengthy and painful illness? People also fear: leaving unfinished business, leaving loved ones and pets behind, not achieving goals and dreams... so, I don't actually think ANYONE fears the 'death' itself. That's the easy part. Just my two cents. I respect what you're saying, Tim.
Yes, but why prolong the suffering, if you can't avoid it? F.ex. if you are terminally ill, we have something called, 'comfort care', or even 'palliative sedation' in Belgium. Which is NOT the same as euthanasia. It's just a way of letting the body go, in a relativily peaceful way.
It’s crazy you shared this message today. Twenty years ago today, October 19, I woke up to my first son dead. I felt so much pain but I realized over the years that what remains as the pain has subsided is gratitude for his life and the love I have for him lasts forever. I hope when I die that I will leave behind love in peoples hearts and gratitude for a life well lived. I agree it’s all cycles and I believe our souls paths are woven together like a tapestry. 💖
I’m so so sorry about your son. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts 💭 and prayers and hope time has healed many of the raw wounds. Thank you for sharing your experience
Thank you Praveen- definitely hard but honestly that little guy taught me so much and I am grateful for the time I had with him. I think death is less finite than we’re taught, and that love exists continuously, so although painful, a profound thing to go through.
Im the same way man... No healthcare in 31 years. I am natural i except what happens to me here on earth. What has been amazing is everyone i know that goes to doctors often they are always sick. I aint had a cold in 16 years.
You are correct Tim, there is no need to fear death. "At death, the brain stops working. Our memories, feelings, and senses do not continue to function independently in some mysterious way. They do not survive the destruction of our brain. Psalm 146:4 says that when a man dies, “his thoughts perish.” The dead do not suffer pain or heartache. There is no reason to be afraid of them, for they cannot harm us. They do not need our help, and they cannot help us. We cannot speak with them, and they cannot speak with us."
Thanks for reminding me of my cat Matt, he was an adorable, affectionate, dopey critter who everyone loved, even cat haters. I fell asleep with him curled up at my side and woke to my sister screaming and running to my mother, I heard her say he's been hit by a car and I looked down and saw his empty imprint in the blanket and ran up to find him, I walked out front and crossed the road and saw him on the middle path of the avenue, I stood in front of him and saw his guts were hanging out of his stomach. His breathing was really heavy, and his head moved slightly towards me, I knelt down to him knowing he had no chance, and we looked each other in the eyes one last time before his head went to the ground, his breathing stopped, and his eyes glazed over white. I was gutted but for some reason I feel grateful that I got out to see him pass, I know he must've been glad to see me there. He was only 2, young for a cat, and one of the best. I didn't mourn his death so much as sulked it. But he did seem at peace in that final moment of suffering, and it comes to us all. As it's long been put, 'Death smiles at us all, and all a cat can do is smile back.'
Tbh, my main concern as far as health care isn't so much that I might die without it... it's that I might end up with an extremely painful and debilitating condition that just refuses to actually kill me. Admittedly, that can happen with or without health insurance, but there are a lot of conditions like that which can be treated with simple surgical procedures.
I personally think it is none of our business what it's like on the other side. I think our whole purpose is to learn, love and share while we are human beings. I know in the past, I have spent too much time wondering about death and what happens next.
The thing is not all hospital stays will kill you but could set you back 100k. I had so much pain a while back that I had to stay a night in the emergency room area. Just one night and my insurance was billed $12,000.00. Luckily my part was only a few hundred. With me it's not a fear of death it's a fear of debt.
tim this video was absolutely incredible! when i was 14 years old i had a near death experience and talked to the creator.. a year ago i had a second near death experience and was out of my body traveling in the cosmos.. if you do any research on ndes.. you are hitting this right on point!! death is nothing to fear and something im looking forward to! as much as i love life here and live everyday in peace & love making the most of everyday and making sure to live with no regrets.. death is a beyond peaceful experience and you will definitely meet the people you love again on the other side and in other lives.. there are people i call my soul family because i know we’ve met so many times and we’ll leave the body and be a pure soul being and become whatever we want to be!
Do you have any knowing in your nde about abortions, are the woman forgive? Are there babies there? Its ok if you dont, just really wanted to ask you. Thanks
Tim, we miss you. I know I’m posting again, but just know that you mean a lot to many of us out here. Your videos are so meaningful and your inspiration has helped me through some very tough times. I sincerely hope you are doing well and just taking a little break. We are not owed an explanation and you have a right to privacy. If anything is going on and you need help, let us know. I’m serious. Sometimes we all need a little help. I seriously appreciate you.
I come back to Buddhism as my working hypothesis for reality. Seems to map; the cyclical nature of samsara, rebirth, non-self. The more one mediates on death, the less we cling to it and things feel lighter as a byproduct. One of my good friends volunteered at hospice for years. Many people thought it was morbid. She deeply loved it, being with others as they passed. It revealed a reality we don't see.
To hell with being scared of death. Over it, now I'm truly living!! I've missed you Tim, I finally broke free from my addiction to prescription medication and I feel amazing and I'm back baby!!! Missed your Face!! Hope all is well with you!!!
No matter if people agree or disagree with you Tim, I feel we should all see the beauty of the natural honesty that Tim shares with us on the regular. I’m Christian and find much of what you say agreeable and in many ways comforting. The part about missing the ones you love after death. Yeah.. that’s a big one (that’s what she said) no matter what walk in life your on. The loss of loved ones is perhaps the heaviest burden to bear. Keep up the walk and talks Tim. You are well loved brother.
Hi Tim, trying to accept death better but still have some struggles about it. Raised as a Christian , but still have my fears. Getting better but not by any means over it. Liked what u shared today. Wished I was “there” but honestly not yet. Thanks for the share👍
I really needed to hear this!! Thank you so much. Recently left Christianity and a lot of hell paranoia is still present and kinda nukes my confidence and focus sometimes. But thoughts like these are more deeply true and give me peace also. Thank you
This is the best description of life and death I’ve ever heard. You were able to put my thoughts into words. My beliefs have changed a lot over the last 30 years.
TIM I CAN SAY ONE THING YOU ARE GOD SENT!!! ESPECIALLY THE MOTIVATION AND THE ENCOURAGING WORDS!!! YOU HAVE MOTIVATED ME THE LAST 4-5 YEARS I HAVE BEEN LISTENING TO YOUR RU-vid CHANNEL!!! THANK YOU MY BROTHER!!! MAY YOU YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR RU-vid FOLLOWERS KEEP LOVING AND CARING FOR EACH OTHER!!!🙏🏽❤️
Bro, you are so ahead of the game. I appreciate your wisdom. Thanks for having the courage to share your truth! We're all going "bye-bye" eventually. Peace, and much love!
Thank you for this message. As a person who is still trying to overcome anxiety, even though it’s challenging at times. I find this video very comforting.
Do know this could not have been a more timely message. For I certainly needed every word spoken within this video. So thank you for sharing such an impactful message!
Hi TIM you are an old soul. You have provided an amazing amount of inspiration to me and your viewers over the years. You also possess a depth of insight few people can express. Your messages are simple and yet quite profound. Your walk and talks are what is the best part of the channel in my opinion. You are a man in your dharma. Keep doing ‘you’ Tim, it is why we tune in and watch. I wish for you a long and healthy life and the best the world has to offer.
Thank you for this insightful video. This message brings so much comfort. I recently lost my kitty Fritzie after17 years. He was like my child, best friend and partner all rolled up in one. I miss him so much and I hope that the love we shared carries forward into eternity💛
Thank you for sharing this video with us. I have overcome my fear of death at a early age when I lost my mother. We all just transition this time we are here on earth is a time to learn lessons we needed to learn. Our souls are on a journey enjoy the moment
Hi Tim, I feel everything you were saying in this video and I feel the same way and family think I'm crazy. Everyone is not going to understand this message about life.
I agree. Nature is showing us the truth without words. Our suffering comes from strong body mind identity and deep attachments. Energy is powerful and we must be mindful of how we use it. Karma is cause and affect (energies)". Travel well on this journey through life and be wise with one's energy flow. Death is just the dropping away of body form... "ENERGY CONTINUES".
Thanks Tim. I often ponder my physical exit from this place, and I accept it too. I watched my father pass away in a hospital bed at 92. He had that peaceful look on his face. He also accepted he was dying and wanted to "die at home", but my older siblings thought he should stay at the hospital because my mom was at home bedridden from an aneurysm. She passed away 4 years later. Thanks for all your thought provoking videos! Peace!
Great video once again!! I agree, I think that the fear of death does take a toll on folks. I honestly am not scared either. Now at 21, I of course want to live a little longer of course but when my time is up, then my time is up and I wouldn't be ashamed of what I have done so far! I hope all is well there buddy! Take care!🤟🏾
Wow! I would surely love to return to my nonexistent state after I die. Thank you Tim for this one of the best and most consoling video out on the internet.
Thank you I feel the same way. I rather not know and die with my illness because without insurance its a death sentence, so I've came to the terms I just die with whatever illness I may have. Ty
This is my favorite of your videos thus far. You realize that you are Universal Consciousness itself that is temporarily focusing its attention on a locus that isn’t your true self, but a game you are experiencing as a player.
Americans have a sick fascination with life. We believe no matter the circumstances, you should be alive. It’s a stupid way to think. I’ve never been afraid of dying. Maybe it’s because when I was younger I took many risks. Today, I understand how I feel. I don’t want to live here no longer than I have to.
So glad to hear someone else voice these views. So many people are fearful of reality. I also know of numerous people who are extremely religious are the most afraid. My personal opinion as far as healthcare is it is mostly a business and mostly profit driven. I personally want to live my life to the fullest but in the end I am pragmatic.
Great video it is so deep thanks for this tim!! you have taught me to not fear death. Death is apart of life and I also believe our energy will be reborn to something else
Tim! Just know that there is very little that they can do for you n a Dr's office. You can work on your health yourself with basic herbs 🌿, great food, rest, etc
Hey Tim I have never commented on youtube or anywhere else for that matter. I don't comment on stuff, and I am in my 50's; yet, I am compelled to tell you how much I agree with everything you said here. I thought I was listening to myself; except, I am a short white guy. Knowing someone else believes so similar to me is not just encouraging, it is comforting! KEEP IT UP
Tim you are an AWESOME amazing pure Spirit in a human body for a short time ! Thank you for sharing so much ! I'm very blessed to have found your channel here ! Love you heart to heart. 🤗
Big topic. Glad you have peace. Wish all in USA had health insurance. It's been a long, hard life; I think the afterlife will be a relief. Prepping to have some better times while here.
Thank you for sharing this Tim... yes, in accepting Death totally, there is no fear of illness. During most of people's history, people just died. If you were ill or injured, or someone or something attacked you. You just knew you were going to die. People try to run away from death... but it's the only thing that's all powerful, and all encompassing. so you just might as well accept it gracefully. That being said, I've also come along way in dealing with my fear of death... but at some moments, I realize I still have a long way to go. Eventually, we all have to accept Death.
Excellent video, I think about this often. Memento Mori. Remembering that I am going to die brings a whole new perspective. Also, as someone formerly religious, my thoughts on death and whatever afterlife/nextlife happens to be will be what it is and there is no real reason to worry.
I have never feared death. It’s an upgrade to spend eternity with my first love Jesus. While I’m here I’ll continue being kind, spreading love & enjoying peace & joy that can’t be found in people, places or things. Or the things that bring temporary happiness/satisfaction. To know Jesus is to know peace ❤❤❤
Hi Timothy, new subscriber. I love this video. So much so, that i am watching it for a third time. I love your belief about the God that set all this up, wouldn't make a crappy system. So simple and calming to me. And that the God you believe in, would not punish us for eternity. You had me in tears when you spoke about this: our consciousness after death and if it will or will not exist...( I have never been able to put that into words, and didn't know anyone else thought about this.) This is something that is more disturbing to me than death itself. Still a fear, but maybe a different type of fear. Anyway, thank you for sharing your innermost thoughts with the world. Judging by this comment section, we all are so grateful that you share this with us.
How much security you need in life is proportionate to how much you can handle the uncertainties of life. Also proportionate to how much faith you have in life.
Thanks for discussing this - in agreement with you. I'm 63 with no health insurance, no life insurance- I'm retired early, traveling and enjoying myself.
I personally believe in heaven and hell. I was raised Christian but was not a regular church goer. I have always believed in God. I also believe Jesus gave his life for our sins. You can have forgiveness if you believe and ask for it. I believe all those we have lost we will see again. I don't knock anyone else's beliefs and expect the same in return. You are a good man Tim. I believe you are going to heaven where all will be revealed to us then. Until then we need to help our fellow man and do unto others as we would have done unto us.
I have already commented on this video recently but I decided to do a little donation. I know it's only 2 UK pounds, but I am not working at the moment. I would lie if I said I haven't been thinking about death lately. I am not old and I don't have any confirmed serious illnesses. But sometimes I think about all the junk food I used to eat, the smoke I used to inhale and the stress I put myself through, and it makes me think I might not even make it to my 70s. But this video really gives me some peace. Nice location as well. Deep down I know it really doesn't matter how long we live and the cause of our death and that I should not worry about it. But as you mentioned in some of your other videos, we just naturally want to continue living...Not many other videos and articles have given me this amount of peace.
So glad my video could give you some peace! I think about a lot of the same things you mentioned and it is good sometimes to be able to put all that aside and just embrace the life we have left. Thank you so much for the support and for sharing your thoughts!
