And who is that entity that should control your brain? That entity is also your brain. ROFL 🤣🤣 Think about it. The brain should control the brain so that the brain does not control the brain?🤣🤣
It's difficult to control urges when we are sad and alone. But porn addiction could also be one of the main reasons why we are sad and alone in the first place.
It's so disgusting when you have a very normal day, like just walking and enjoying the fresh air and greeting strangers on the street, and then suddenly your brain bombards you with these random scenes you watch from porn. It really messes up my day. Also the feeling of regret after you watch porn sucks. I just wish I never ever discovered porn. Being curious sucks sometimes.
@@KaesOner Wouldn't lie about this shit man. Yeah last time I looked at porn was November 2nd I think. That was hell to be honest, I was escaping my own problems and I wasn't experiencing myself or life at all. If you find yourself abusing porn like I did I highly recommend cutting it off. It won't be easy but its so so worth it.
@@KaesOner Feeling right now that I have, is that I have so much life energy to just be myself and love people around me. Almost like I started regaining myself.
Every time I relapse I feel like I'm disappointing the 12 yo version of myself who was full of dreams and expectations. Wish I could have know this earlier.
@@posadist681 Everyone does mistakes. It's not your fault bro. Porn is presented as a natural thing in western society and it's rarely seen as a bad thing. Nobody talks about it as a potential addiction and now with high speed internet many people (expecially teens) are falling in this trap. It probably manipulated you during a bad time and that's when it planted the seeds for addiction. You were unaware of this. You couldn't know that. Forgive yourself and overcome this.
@@ULTRA0ALIEN What's scary is I stopped caring about everything thanks to this disease. Once I realized what porn had done and was still doing to me, I was overcome by fear of how much time I wasted and how many people I hurt. I went from not caring to living in fear. That's my situation right now.. I know I sound defeated but I appreciated you responding to my earlier comment. The fear and shame is no joke.
@@prophetpassionjavajava8720 tell me, you declare yourself a prophet.If you are one then is it true that Christmas is the religious day that Jesus was born?
@@adrienfy4331 he is not a real prophet. I have seen the exact same comment from several youtube accounts. This comment has appeared on several videos.
never going back to that shit again, no matter how hard it gets, no matter how bad my urges tell me to play a porn video, I won't ever watch porn again. I will not quit. Stay strong, brothers and sisters, it might be a very difficult battle, but we will not quit. It might take a long time for us to feel better, but we'll definitely get there.
Thank you I havnt watched in a whole month I feel better in my body 👩🏻🎓 And I feel like I’m taking back what’s mine instead of feeling like It belongs to other people. Wow it sounds really sad when I write it down.
I’m 3 months porn free and it has not been easy since I quit. I’ve watched porn for more than 23 years and I’m still having yet those scene images in my mind (they come and go). One of the things that have been helping me to overcome the addiction is that every time I feel like watching porn I rather go to RU-vid and I look for videos like this that tells me how bad pornography is and what are the benefits of not watching. That calms me down. It’s really hard but I know I can overcome that.💪
Congratulations on your accomplishment. It sounds like you are really committed and doing all the right things to move you in the direction of success. Keep rocking it out. 💪🏽
Bruhhh I started doing the same a few months ago but then relapsed. After coming across this I am going to start again. However I do feel like it is going to be hard for me I want to start like gradually decreasing how much I watch per week. Going cold turkey is going to be hard af
Fill your mind with the word of God to renew your mind daily and to give you a new heart. To be born again and to live like our father Jesus Christ he will give you life.
Yes, images keep coming & disturb our peace as they have a deep impression on our mind. The only way out is to not capture them (i.e. not seeing it). We become what we think & do. So, one has to choose carefully.
Am starting today , wish me luck my fellow worriors Edit: Am still going .Wish me more luck . Edit 2:Believe it or not am still going Edit 3: Ninety days .I think am cured guys .I feel soo powerful I even beat up my bully yesterday. Anyways thanks for the love and support Edit 4:Haven't watched any porn ever since and am proud to say I got a loving girlfriend now 😎 .Thanks a lot guys Edit 5: Still going and I've seen some improvements in my appearance too more muscular. Anyways thanks a lot ✊
When you said "cross your moral boundaries", that got my attention. I never really thought porn caused any problems for me, but now that I think about it, discovering different types of porn has gotten me into things I normally wouldn't, and definitely wouldn't explore in the real world. Even though it's just looking at something on a screen, it's not something I feel proud of, and even feel guilty about. This video just popped up randomly but I'm glad it did because now I want to better myself. Thanks for bringing this to my attention
It takes wanting to stop for the right reason. There has to be a higher purpose in why you stop. When we realize that we are here on this Earth for a reason it changes our perspective. All our organs must be working at the same time and in a complex way just like the world is so complex. The heart pumps blood and we need our lungs working at the same time as our diaphragm with these organs working together so we can breath and help move blood around our body and keep us alive. We have emotions and are able to reason. We're able to love and are created to love and be loved. We must be grateful that we are even alive and that we are blessed with our lives and the blessings in our lives. We are able to eat the fruit of the ground and drink of the water. We don't even deserve it but God gives it to us out of His love for us. We sin against God and do terrible selfish things out of the evil in our hearts. God is so good and us doing even one bad thing disqualifies us from being able to be in His presence because He can't be in the presence of sin since He is holy. We've told countless lies, we've lusted, and we've done terrible things in comparison to God's holiness. God has to have a payment for our sin for us to be able to be in fellowship with Him. God is just and while there's a lot of unjustness going on in the world right now with how sinful people have been God could have destroyed us as soon as we sin but He gives us the chance to come to Him. God gives us a conscience to know that things are wrong, we just have to want to turn from the wrong things and want to go to God.
@@Tullex2 Hello, forgot I posted this. Thanks for responding, God and my wife’s accountability has helped me so much! The last thing I want to do is upset my wife again with this, and tell her I’ve messed up. I’ll pray for you brother!
Do no fap hard mode. Meditation, prolonged/intermittent fasting, and have drive/passion in life. Chase money and invest in your health. Don't chase women. Let women chase you.
I should also add that you shouldn't be surprised if women aren't chasing you. You can be ballin, but don't need to show that you're ballin to the world. If you're literally not trying to even talk to women, and you don't care, then don't expect anything. Have zero expectations. You should be so cool and confident that you can be your own best friend and be cool with that. I like to say I'm not single(single is desperate), I'm solo.
I'll say don't chase women but pursue the right woman. Cause if you are a masculine man you would automatically want a feminine woman. And a feminine woman wants to be pursue.
I don’t know how it serves it up, honestly. But I do know that many people are being suggested my videos and are glad that they are here. If that’s you, welcome.
What does not watching porn do? I don't get the hype for no fap, is it like a moral thing or what? I rarely watch porn so I don't get the purpose for no fap
@@alencifps1535 It's about getting over an addiction. Some people can watch porn in a healthy limited way and that's good. But some tend to rely on it to forget about their pain. Just like some people resort to alcohol or drugs.
@@alencifps1535 gives you more testosterone and energy and positive mood so you’re nicer and more productive. Makes you want to be with your partner or go out more if you’re single.
It takes wanting to stop for the right reason. There has to be a higher purpose in why you stop. When we realize that we are here on this Earth for a reason it changes our perspective. All our organs must be working at the same time and in a complex way just like the world is so complex. The heart pumps blood and we need our lungs working at the same time as our diaphragm with these organs working together so we can breath and help move blood around our body and keep us alive. We have emotions and are able to reason. We're able to love and are created to love and be loved. We must be grateful that we are even alive and that we are blessed with our lives and the blessings in our lives. We are able to eat the fruit of the ground and drink of the water. We don't even deserve it but God gives it to us out of His love for us. We sin against God and do terrible selfish things out of the evil in our hearts. God is so good and us doing even one bad thing disqualifies us from being able to be in His presence because He can't be in the presence of sin since He is holy. We've told countless lies, we've lusted, and we've done terrible things in comparison to God's holiness. God has to have a payment for our sin for us to be able to be in fellowship with Him. God is just and while there's a lot of unjustness going on in the world right now with how sinful people have been God could have destroyed us as soon as we sin but He gives us the chance to come to Him. God gives us a conscience to know that things are wrong, we just have to want to turn from the wrong things and want to go to God.
as a teenage girl who has a pornography addiction for a year and a half, i think i will try to do better. i always had problems with my family so short-term pleasures was an escape for me. but nowadays i started to notice how bad it effects me emotionally. i literally started spending more than two hours a day on adult sites. i don't want to spend all my time on these, i can't even study. from tomorrow, i'm taking steps forward, wish me luck 🤞🏼
Dear Doc, I just had one question. I have pretty much gone cold turkey for around a month now and dedicated my pursuit to the love of my life, music. I experienced a wet dream recently, I've experienced in the past too when I've gone months away from porn and subsequent acts. Is this normal in recovery or should I be worried. Thanks in advance :)
I realised I had a problem when I watched the most perverse video and I wasn’t phased. Also women have addiction to porn too, please raise more awareness for women as well, as we can feel really weird having a porn addiction as people seem to only talk about men
Never knew women go through this issue as well makes me feel better knowing I’m not alone I can’t control my urges and it really does affect my overall lifestyle
Dont fight against watching porn. Simply redirect your mental focus and energy. If the thought arises dont get upset, let it be and get up and do something else. Remember having sexual experiences with your partner is not porn. It's ok to have sex. Once you start fulfilling your life with new goals your need to have porn as painkiller will slowly but surely go away. Dont fight it, just put the damn cellphone down and start living. You'll be amazed on how much work there is to be done in your environment. Get out of your own way, eat clean food and live a happy life.
Honestly, I think this is the best advice. Mindfulness meditation can be a great help in this regard - in terms of being aware of one's thoughts and behaviours and having the presence of mind to just do something else when the urge arises
50 days is the longest I've ever went. I felt wonderful. Each time I go even over a week I feel fantastic. I have been studying and occasionally supplementing microdosing psilocybin to help with neuroplasticity. An intense psychedelic experience can really help too but it's definitely not easy, not a magic cure and not for everyone. I'm gonna make it my new year's resolution to go as many days as possible next year. I haven't smoked tobacco at all this year and that's been a big plus, getting away from porn and into real relationships will be wonderful. I'm proud of anyone out there trying!
I guess I’ve been going at it all wrong. I was already saved when I saw my first pornographic magazine and then years later after i was married I got into phone sex/cyber sex but porn is always handy to fall back on. I do not think I hate it like i should, I think I do but I think it’s the guilt talking and I expect that God should just take it away when i ask him to and when he doesn’t i get into such darkness and turmoil and I don’t pray for days (that really helps the problem 😩) but I’m always viewing it as sin and it is but it’s also a journey. I guess God wants to help me overcome but I am not satisfied with that, I want him to deliver me NOW and when that doesn’t happen the anger gets so bad. But I honestly do not think of it during the day except if a scene pops in front of my eyes. My wife and I can’t sleep together because of sleep habits and so I’m alone with so much opportunity…that alone can excite me. I feel so trapped. I simply hate the guilt I go through afterwards and it’s getting worse to where I feel no hope and feel I should end my life. I hate it but then I love it. I say I won’t do it but then I do. The guilty feelings follow me, follow me. I feel so horrible but I don’t know how to break the cycle for long periods of time. I’m not into hardcore stuff that’s disgusting, I just lust after a pretty face and nice body that is enjoying a moment…so mild and yet so awful. Or hear a female voice in passion…. I feel like an adulterer and that’s what I am. Have begged for forgiveness so many times from God, have opened it up to ministers, to my wife also until she’s sick of hearing about it. A good day brings it on, a bad day sure does. Quitting smoking was easy compared to this because that appetite eventually went away. With this you’re fighting against a God given urge….I need help!
Used psilocybine for alcohol. Had one beer after that, didnt feel the same and threw it away. Didnt have a drink in 87 days. Porn was a bit harder. 21 days now. Saw this video last november, I was struggling to stop watching. Celebrating every couple days and then relapses.
I was addicted for 4 years. I surrendered to Jesus and He helped me give it up cold turkey in one day it’s been 2 years. I hope that’s not discouraging, it may be different for other people. God took away many other addictions like smoking weed, cursing, etc. thank you Jesus!
Yes, some people can quit it in the blink of an eye. And I am so excited for you that that was your journey. For other people… It can be a long and arduous. Thanks for supporting them.
@@DrTrishLeigh thanks, I personally don’t consume a lot of porn (haven’t watched porn for three months now) but I know a lot of people struggle with porn addiction. Keep up the good work, the world would be a better place with more people like you doctor
We are living in an age where nudity is used to sell products. Also when stuck in one place, without any external stimulus, the brain demands excitement, so most of the people resort to porn. The best thing you can do right now is to get rid of all social media, all of it. It's hard but not impossible. We have surrounded ourselves with controversies, rage, hate and instant pleasures. It's time to unplug people.
The worst part is envy... The system is so set up that you can reward yourself with porn when you can't get the girl you want because you have to jump through hoops...
It's been 40 days since I stopped watching, and I feel different, I have more energy now than ever. Very well said "control your brain or it will control you". I even started nofap challenges, but relapsed, my best is 20days, still a long way to go.
Hey masturbation isn't the issue. That is normal and healthy. Sure fasting from masturbation isn't a bad thing. But if you can do it from imagination then it's ok. Porn is the problem. Not your natural sex drive.
@@youtubedrifter5594 nope it's not normal that's what addicts say when they can't quit both the "act" and the "videos" together, what's normal is your body taking care of the excess sperm through wet dreams which is the actual healthy way, I am even surprised to see many people say that they had never had a wet dream or can't remember having one.
I've been addicted to this junk for 18 years and been trying to beat it for the past 12 of those years. My longest streak is 68 days and now years later I have trouble even getting to 2 weeks. I will again try to go as long as I can. Just seeing this video has given me motivation again. I'm tired of damaging my brain and letting lust war against my soul.
Me 12 years I will do the same I am feeling lost my brain is week my bones are paining I am 19 my hair is almost gone I am depressed but enough is enough
@@DrTrishLeigh how long do you think it would take me to have a complete recovery? I started around 2017 so 3 years on a daily basis though. I’m barely 18 so i started watching later then average.
I had severe arthritis and was limited to my home. This made quitting extremely difficult for me. For me it was boredom and ease of access, that drove me to the videos.
if you wanna quit porn, turn to The Most High in the name of Jesus Christ you cannot do it alone, you need to pray for guidance and with Jesus Christ you can overcome all mental obstacles
Thank you! I've literally messed up relationships with potential soulmates because I can't seem to control myself. I'm subscribed to your page now and I pray this is the beginning of serious consistent change for me.
Some of us don’t have any other option. Being sad and alone because you are undesirable is tough and unless you been there you don’t really understand.
One reason to not watch "P", is that you gain the ability to have great conversations with lovely women like Dr. Trish, without feeling awkward. The massive amount of energy you gain, is another great reason to stay away for good.
Absolutely, I honestly get so nervous when woman approach me or talk to me in public. Like there was this one woman, kept talking to me and following me wherever I went. She was attractive and she was so friendly... But me being so nervous I didnt held much of a conversation 😔
@@GurlsiLike I started watching porn at the age of 11 and it really started getting to me because it affected me in all spheres of life. I found the nofap community when I was 14 and ever since then I had been trying to rewire my psychology to accept that porn isn't necessary for my life. Been on it for 3 years and I still lose at times, this truly is a tough challenge, and it shows the extent of how porn had grown its roots through our mind. It's better to pull it out before its roots start to mature.
been pmoing for 21 years and i just hit day 30 of quiting PMO and omg it took me a while to create this habit of not going for the screen. Dr. trish thank you so much for being the voice of reason when my highjacker mind was trying to tell me it was ok to to watch porn. keep up the amazing work we all need you. you are truly an angel sent to help us heal.
@@DrTrishLeigh I had wet dreams 2 consecutive days ... And i think it is because of mt thoughts.. the time i go to bed the last thought that comes to my mind is ( im going to have a wet dreams ) and afraid of it.Im trying to stop it
Bro listen to morphic fields on RU-vid called dopamine receptor repair. We science people have greatly underestimated the power of music and morphic fields. SapienMed has a very powerful audio which is proven to heal people from desensitization issues. If you want more precise infos, I will send you.
can't we say the same for any addiction? In fact if the person doesn't address the underlying problem, they'll just go through life switching from one addiction to another.
@لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول الله Show me in the Quran where it says the New and Old Testament was corrupted? All the Quran says is to follow the New and Old Testament. There is no forgiveness unless there is shedding of blood, and that forgiveness comes from the mercy of YAHUAH through the blood of Jesus.
An addict for almost 6 years I am trying to control but I fail every time. I have lost my studies, body , family, emotions everything. Hope I will recover one day.
Starting right now, wish me luck guys. Used to watch it at least 2 hours a day and it was getting more and more bizarre. I regret watching it and wanna change
Porn ruined me was to focused not studying and paying attention in school , I stopped and feel so much better in myself wish I told myself 10 years ago
@Mr. Notorious super focused man I’m 24 now and been out of work but even my mind was clear and not foggy started picking up better habits out of no where I’m strong will powered even started reading books which I hardly even never bothered with since year 7
I don’t know if you are a religious man, but you should consider praying upon your wishes, confessing your sins to God, and just become grateful for what you have. I kid you not I used to not believe in God a while ago and I just started praying and man it helps. It’s barely been 5 days since when I started and currently feel no urges to go back. I believe an alternative would be using meditation as a way to manifest the person you want to become, if you’re not religious
@@20Dka0107 I just started praying trying to give up some vices especially alchohol all together I try meditate but I struggle to find peice in my mind
I have never been a porn addict but I used to watch it, maybe once or twice a month. Last year I have decided not to watch any pornography anymore, not even search for pictures. It has been 6 months since and I'm doing good. The best way to fight any addiction is to become addicted to something else. Just make sure that "something else" is something positive. In my case its book reading and calisthenics. Free internet porn is not free, the price is your soul.
Wow, "Free internet porn is not free, the price is your soul" seriously that is incredible. It truly isn't free. Although it's easily accessible and can have no financial cost, the burden it causes is a huge price to pay. Often one has to sacrifice their relationships, happiness, and their own soul. It's an empty pit; it never satisfies.
@@shelbymccamy582the indulgence inside the pornographic material is insane for audiences. They are so easily swayed by this thing-perhaps a devil is running the puppet show
Same here Seldom and none I can not even connect the dots backwards of how long it's been since I saw or watched anything either deliberately or by accident Has not been a year yet but it's been maybe 7 to 9 months ???
That someone is not your friend. Deal with it. You wanna quit, it's simple , replace it with another habit, do those habits for 21days a new pattern forms n you might not want to look at it again
@@ezikedarlington8399 It's not always simple as it seems. It takes awareness that you even have it inorder to try and solve it, changing how you view things is not an easy process. Telling people to "deal with it" also doesn't help. If I told you "deal with it" to the pain you were experiencing at a time you wouldn't be open to my opinion. You'd try and put me in my place since I don't know you personally.
It’s day 30 today and I very proud of myself. Currently urges have been becoming very strong but I will never give up! I’ve fasted everyday from 5AM-8PM and I deleted all social media expect for RU-vid. I have quit all music since I discovered it to be a massive trigger. I sense a strong sense of wanting to be more productive and want to improve myself.
I’ve been porn addicted for a long time and i am on my journey to control my sexual temptation. My advice for those who wanna quit watching porn is delete all the social media what you are using, try to avoid smart phone or computer at least 1 month. During that stage, porn image will always appear in your head and your duty is observe it, feel it and using your sexual temptation energy to do something that are useful such as working out, running,.... hope u guys succeed.
18 months ago on 8th may 2021, I gave up porn completely. It was tough since I had been watching porn almost every day since years. Your videos convinced my mind to stop watching porn. Did 90 days of no fap twice since then. Got a gym membership. Gained 15 kg lean muscle. Life is far more better now. I am glad I came across your channel. Thank you.
Good job!!! That’s amazing. If you want to further your understanding of this addiction and how to stay the man you are proud to be, get the book Unwanted by Jay Stringer. It will change your life. - 4 years of freedom.
I was on noFap nearly for an year , honestly i saw the pinnacle of my stamina and then i went downfall again , gonna start it again to see the peak again and the journey is beautiful. Thanks alot doc , it motivated me again to see my strength 🙏
I'm going to do my best to not watch anymore, when you said that porn is an escape, that's how I felt each time I would watch it but then when it's finished I feel guilty,sad and even more depressed.So I want to change no matter how long it takes.
easypeasymethod.org/index.html I can higly recommend reading this! :) Helped me and a ton of others already with quitting this shit, and it is pretty easy actually once you have the right frame of mind
Porn is filthy. My ex husband learned about sex from porn, and he really believed that every woman wanted to be treated like sluts, or enjoyed being forced into a sexual position to gratify a man. We got into many arguments over this fact, as I did not want to carry out his abnormal fantasies. Even though we are no longer married, we became friends several years after our divorce, and he admitted to everything that was said in this video. He sought help to break free from his addiction. Thanks for this video. I hope that it helps someone that has an addiction.
I met a really sweet girl in a restaurant. She had her son with her. She approached me to see what I was reading. She confided in me that she was recently divorced. her marriage crumbled from her husband's porn addiction. She was a fitness nut too, even competing in fitness shows. She told me porn was like heroin to her husband. It was a sad tale. I saw her a month later at another restaurant and my friend went over na paid for her meal after I told him the story; he liked her too.
The turning point for me was realizing I love my own body. Funny thing about porn is it makes you forget who you are; a ghostly spectator who dares not look at their own body. I classify porn consumption as something entirely different from masturbation; the latter, when done right, leaves you more connected to your body and without disgust; porn isn’t masturbation, it’s dissociation. And that, more than any moral or logical argument, is what keeps me away from it. Dissociation nearly destroyed me, and knowing that I have alternative releases for hormonal angst that don’t involved pretending I’m someone else, renders porn a third party that can be dispelled with. What scares me is that in this, I’ve found that porn tempts me in another way entirely; even if I’ve just gone yesterday, I’ll out of nowhere get the urge to google something despite knowing for a fact that I am sated; porn is a different circuit entirely; one that I learned, not born with. And what’s learned, never to be entirely unlearned, can over a long period of de-priotization become a weak circuit that has no power; the temptation for porn itself becomes the shallow ghost, one of many weak voices to be ignored among the clutter while you attend to more important things. I still fall back into it, by now with a sense of morbid curiosity, but sometimes that circuit kicks in when I’m off guard. Ooh! Google that! Surely someone’s done it; that’d be fucking hot! But nowadays the call gets more and more pathetic because I’ve started recognizing how much MORE hot it is to have a wife and kids that actually like me. Realistically, if I were to have this hot mamma and kids who actually like me in the future, what sort of habits would that future hot-dad version of myself actually inhabit? Realistically, my wife would take one look at my impulse 3am google search and slap me in the face to get some sleep and stop fucking around like some dumb teenager. The impulse is still there; it’s a physical switch in my brain that will only dissolve very slowly after decades of disuse, to be overwritten by something more useful; but until then, all I can do is prioritize other impulses, and bemusedly study the dying porn circuit as it flails about vying for my attention, and just figure out how the hell it even got there, and why I ever gave it the credence in the first place, when the real sex drive and the being tender drive and the toss your kid up into the ceiling drive are so much more imperative to the human soul. This impromptu lecture is for the benefit of those personally attacked by this random RU-vid recommendation.
I’ve been healed. This haunted me since childhood, I was just a little girl and it started with h*entai, thought it was just an animated show and got so traumatized yet my curious child brain wanted to watch more, until I saw a rape video... that was when I decided to stop. Best decision, God helped me a lot to get over it.
Excellent. Thank you so much for sharing. I know... that is the hard part, young curious minds don't know what they are getting their brains into. I am glad you were able to break free. Congrats!
@@mandhemjallow1333 Blessings. I am sharing this with those of like mind and spirit. This book, PORN “The truth the whole truth and nothing but The truth” may help those struggling with lust. Please check it out. Available on Amazon, I tunes, Google & B&N. Thank you and Blessings to all.
Man I am eternally grateful for having overcome my addiction to porn once and for all. I will admit it was not easy but it is 100% worth. The way I did it was by getting real with myself, very real. I pictures myself and my life in the future, how it would be like if I did not change. And oh boy there was so much pain that I simply did not have a choice. The alternative was simply to painful. To all those still watching porn and struggling kicking this habit once and for all, why is it that you keep doing it even though you know it is not helping you in your life.
@@nwokwumeshach687 You have to find a reason to hate the impure more than you love it and love pure things more than you love impure things. If you love it more than you hate it, then you'll always relapse. Learn to find joy in life out of person's, places, and things that are wholesome and pure and good. That's why we're so much happier when we are little children than when we're adults, it's because children don't normally take pleasure in doing things that are evil or disgusting, they take pleasure in things that are wholesome. Remember that pure and impure cannot exist together in harmony. When you do something impure, you feel ashamed, but when you do something good, you feel peace. I would urge you to try to do all good and no bad if you're up for the challenge and I assure you that you'll be much happier.(I speak from experience). I should also warn you so you don't give up easily: learning to recapture that childhood essence is probably one of the hardest things a person can do in life so be sure to try your absolute hardest in trying to find a solution. The pursuit of pleasure is not the same thing as the pursuit of happiness and I know how easily we all can get the two mixed up. Seek to do good. 😇
I remember 2 years ago i know a guy, i like him sm, but he only see me as an object instead see me as a human being, and i found he is addicted to porn, i swear porn are the most cursed thing
So sorry but it is not always so. There are many men, who don't see watch p*rn and they do, what you wrote down. And I am pretty sure, that there are men, who watch p*rn and they are very nice and kind and don't see women as a subject, they just struggle with their sexuality...
Just stopped a couple days ago I crossed a moral boundary I am not proud to admit to, it made me do things I thought I never would and I wish I never did
Don't stress about the things you did in the past. You recognize that there is a problem and are doing something about it. That is a commendable thing my friend. Now onwards with your journey. You will face ups and downs but it is 100% worth the struggle
Man I am eternally grateful for having overcome my addiction to porn once and for all. I will admit it was not easy but it is 100% worth. The way I did it was by getting real with myself, very real. I pictures myself and my life in the future, how it would be like if I did not change. And oh boy there was so much pain that I simply did not have a choice. The alternative was simply to painful. To all those still watching porn and struggling kicking this habit once and for all, why is it that you keep doing it even though you know it is not helping you in your life.
Thanks so much for this comment. I hope it motivates others. Getting real with yourself a step number one. I so appreciate you sharing. Congratulations on your accomplishment. I hope you are really proud of yourself.
Admitting to others is the second most difficult part in the process. The most difficult thing to do is recognizing that you have a problem and admitting it to yourself. You can leave it in the past.
@@alphacool7967 Blessings. I am sharing this with those of like mind and spirit. This book, PORN “The truth the whole truth and nothing but The truth” may help those struggling with lust. Please check it out. Available on Amazon, I tunes, Google & B&N. Thank you and Blessings to all.
17 years of addiction, now I am 4 years free. I went to a 12-step group, it was amazing. The people there were so open and raw it blew my mind. I didn’t know I wasn’t the only one that felt this way. I went to therapy. I read books. I joined support groups. The thing that helped the most was a book called Unwanted by Jay Stringer. It blew my mind and helped me understand this issue better. 4 years free of pornography and masturbation now!
@@abood1784 that is a good question. My relationships have improved. Pornography use is a symptom of a deeper issue. I fixed my deeper issue, and now relationships around me are better, ESPECIALLY my marriage and sex life.
“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” John 8:36 “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10
I think that if they were to get banned(my goodness, i wish), they would always find a way to get back on their feet. Even RU-vid has porn nowadays, but those videos don’t get taken down immediately. Plus, the deep web.
I have seen several of these videos on how to quit porn and they seem motivational at first glance. But my big question is why isnt anyone attacking the source of the problem? The reason there is such a rampant problem here is because pornography is so easily allowed to be created and distributed in the first place. Why is no one condemning these people? It isnt fair that we have to control ourselves when there are temptations all around us. This makes me skeptical about these people. As long as there is porn freely available, you guys can make money of our misery. Its the same with all such vices be it smoking, drugs alcohol, video games etc. All these are distributed in the market, people become addicts and then you start de-addction centers or online courses and what not and make tons of money. And porn is the worst as there is no monetary hurdle. Instead there should be a global petition to stop the creation and distribution of pornography and this includes what they make in today's mainstream movies and tv shows that they casually call 'ART'. Out of sight, out of mind. For once, lets do something good for humanity as a whole and not be greedy for ourselves.
I’ve been crawled into this poisonous addiction for about 10 years and I want to stop from now on, thank you for this video as it really helped me and I will assure you I will never do it again 🙏🏼
I recently relapsed after 7 years. I had not watched anything in 7 years and then experienced the death of a loved one in a very traumatic sudden unexpected manner. I was doing so well. feel really bad, sad and empty. Its almost like hitting a line of cocaine. You feel so empty afterwards. I am praying this goes away.
@@ChronicTHCBlaze No I haven’t relapsed it’s been 11 months. I never had cravings to be honest because I am strong willed. I knew it was bad for me so I stopped and changed my mindset. Sometimes I get urges and want to watch it but I just find something else to do like workout or go out. You just have to be hard as fuck and tough and after a few weeks you’ll not care, but may get an urge once in a while. In that case just bash one out using your imagination, it’s less harmful than porn. Or find a woman!
I'm working on it. I have got results in 15 days. Now days I'm plan and execute it very well. I'm kill my demon in myself. I try train my brain get delay to react on things emotionally . . . I'm win at my brain and my brain fight for change.
@@zulfiali9318 Blessings. I am sharing this with those of like mind and spirit. This book, PORN “The truth the whole truth and nothing but The truth” may help those struggling with lust. Please check it out. Available on Amazon, I tunes, Google & B&N. Thank you and Blessings to all.
@@dsp291 Blessings. I am sharing this with those of like mind and spirit. This book, PORN “The truth the whole truth and nothing but The truth” may help those struggling with lust. Please check it out. Available on Amazon, I tunes, Google & B&N. Thank you and Blessings to all.
@@realityhits3022 Blessings. I am sharing this with those of like mind and spirit. This book, PORN “The truth the whole truth and nothing but The truth” may help those struggling with lust. Please check it out. Available on Amazon, I tunes, Google & B&N. Thank you and Blessings to all.
I’ve just started to stop going on 5 days now, I find it really not to be that hard. I just start to watch gaming videos or read books when I get the urge. Stay strong!
