HOW OUR OWN LANGUAGE CAN TRAP US INTO FEELING POWERLESS IN CONFLICT SITUATIONS!

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In this video, Alan explores the ways in which a 'victimhood mindset' can become established within us if we don't stop to consider how we speak about our difficult situations. This means looking at how our own language can trap us into feeling powerless in conflict situations.
It will often be that simple changes in how we say things....developing more 'mindful communication'....will help us to review how we are seeing our difficult situations and in turn change how we are dealing with them.
The video Alan refers to about a quote by Eckhart Tolle can be found at this link:
Contemplations on Conflict: ECKHART TOLLE - ON AN UNCONSCIOUS LEVEL, YOU DO NOT WANT POSITIVE CHANGE • Contemplations on Conf...
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Alan Sharland has been a Mediator and Conflict Coach for over 25 years working in a wide range of dispute situations including neighbour disputes, workplace disputes, complaints (NHS, Special Educational Needs, University Student), group disputes and others.
He was Director of a community mediation service in West London for 11 years and now runs CAOS Conflict Management. www.caos-confl...
BOOKS written by Alan:
How to Resolve Bullying in the Workplace: Stepping Out of the Circle of Blame to Create an Effective Outcome for All www.amazon.co....
A Guide To Effective Communication for Conflict Resolution - How Mindful Communication Supports Growth Through Conflict. Purchase the book at this link on amazon: www.amazon.co....
If you would like Conflict Coaching via Skype for FaceTime, please contact Alan via this webpage:
www.caos-confl...
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CREDITS
Outro Music: All Colours Pt 6 by Bob Holroyd, from album Hollowman: / hollowman
Images from www.pixabay.com and www.unsplash.com

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14 окт 2024

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Комментарии : 6

@SelfcareforBodyMindSpirit 3 года назад

Interesting video, thank you for sharing!

@CommunicationandConflict 3 года назад

Thanks Oksana, glad you found it so!

@BrianDonato 4 года назад

I appreciate the message - not encouraging victimhood is so important! I discuss how some people get validation & encouragement mixed up particularly when it comes to this topic in the last video on my channel as well, from a parenting perspective. I hope messages like ours empower people to avoid labeling themselves a victim! I just subscribed to your channel too, keep it up.

@CommunicationandConflict 4 года назад

Thanks Brian, yes I think there's a risk that even practitioners themselves can maintain an unnecessary sense of victimhood through their own language with clients but ultimately it is still for anyone experiencing a challenge to support themselves through self-reflection on how they are seeing and responding to their difficulty, and, as you saw in the video the clues to that can show up in our language.

@CommunicationandConflict 4 года назад

Love the family pix on your videos! Good luck with the channel!

@BrianDonato 4 года назад

@@CommunicationandConflict I agree, it's important to validate when someone feels like a victim or hurt - but some people can that idea confused, and can encourage someone to feel more hurt than they actually are.