How People Treat You Is Just a Reflection of How They Feel About Themselves... 

You know what's too bad? Most people that really need to hear this won't

Yeah, I've always said, "How people treat you, says nothing about you, but all about themselves."...

"People who are ok, finally" I like that part because it did not happen overnight and took a while to get there. Do not let someone else diminish all you've accomplished!

People don’t have to tell you who they are. They will show you. I am very blessed to have a grateful spirit. And it does shine.❤❤

I have to Love people who are not good with themselves from a distance. I will not be in their company or interaction often. This is the best time in my life. I'm okay with me. ❤

"What you do on the outside is a reflection (mirror) of what's going inside."

I agree with this for the most part. That said, I was able to love others. I was kind, generous, forgiving, and grateful for others all while hating myself. I was made to believe I deserved nothing but suffering because it was all I had known. Trauma victims are not "how it is."

Hence you need to carefully vet people you allow in your life. Those who love themselves and are grateful will draw in the haters who want your happiness but they will ruin you because they don’t know how to love themselves or be grateful. Be selective!!

This gave me so much peace.

People who are grateful in life, love others and who love themselves, who wish respectful thinking onto others, will naturally shine through the clouds 🙏

And it’s absolutely ok to go low/no contact with unhappy, toxic people. Even your parents.

Too many people are unhappy with themselves and want to punish others for the way they feel....until they heal they will not see things differently Sad thing is they may never heal in this lifetime

Truth ! Never take it personally !!

Miserable people will generally give themselves any excuse to project their anger and hate onto others.

Yes may we spread live not hate!! My prayer is for people to start loving themselves 💗

This puts a whole new perspective on "love others as you love yourself". I finally realized, in the last 2 years that we do...exactly as he stated. We treat others exactly as we treat/think of ourselves. For the majority of us, this is a sad state of affairs.

A wise man once told me, "The Way You Treat People Is The Way You Will Look When You Get Old"

Sooooo true! I've even learnt not to get offended when I come across this:it's not me, it's them.

This is so true. I have to deal with a lot of anxious people in my job which is fine, but occasionally I get someone who is downright nasty, even aggressive which is not fine at all. These are the people who have to deal with their own issues instead of projecting them on others.

And ive always been titled weak naive gullible or just flat out too dang kind nice and friendly...all along I've just been being me! Projecting love and kindness onto others because thats whats inside of me 🥰 and its so rewarding 💖

Indeed, one who is joyful by their own nature is unaffected by others' attitude 💕

My sister actually described herself as 'abrasive'. (Being around her was like snuggling up to a cheese grater!) And she manifested less self-love than anyone I have ever known in my life.

How people treat you is just a reflection of how they feel about themselves… whether it be positive or negative.😊👌

I have a hard time being grateful for people who treat me unfairly no matter how grateful I feel but at the end of the day everything in my life is there to teach me a lesson and I have to be grateful for that ❤️

So true. I wish all people would love themselves, but not to the point of selfishness... Everyone is so special and unique and this life we have here is so short. I bless everyone with love and kindness towards themselves and others.

I agree to the extent that yes when someone's happy and content with who they are or they've been through a lot and are both they treat others with respect the way they want to be treated. They do unto others as they would want others to do unto them it's called wisdom

I realised this about the marriage I was in on both sides, all be it a little to late. A few years after our divorce, I realized being happy and loving within has a tremendous impact on your ability to share that with someone. If you over judge yourself, you will probably be over judgy of that person, no matter how perfect they may seem to others.

Hurt 😢 people, hurt people. At some point you need to have a ♥️… ❤❤❤

This is spot on Truth. Be happy people, life is too short!❤ Merry Christmas!

But there are individuals who only treat a chosen few poorly and everyone else as if they like them.

Perfect explanation of some people I know. It's not a "me" problem, it's a "you" problem! Don't take it personally 👍🏻 Avoid the toxicity!!🚫

Be kind to unkind people. They need it the most.

There are a lot of people who love others and put others first because they are people pleasers. They don't necessarily love themselves. They see their needs as unimportant. So you can love others without loving yourself.

The truth is usually very simple. Much love Dr. Dispenza for the examples and walking the walk

I know this to be true cuz I was one of those people, yet my true nature would surface by then sometimes was to late. Today its a very different story,I don't even care if their unhappy i usually always win getting them to laugh even smile. Being a light walker I enjoy my spiritual path but I've got a lot of lessons to still learn . But I like sharing my light as bright as possible. But every statement Mr. Joe said is spot on

Joe is talking about lasting character traits rather than temporary behaviour. Experiencing emotions aren't the issue, but getting stuck in them is. If someone commits a serious injustice against a person anger would be considered a normal reaction in response to a boundary violation. Still feeling rage decades later however suggests healing is needed.

People can be going through a situation where they grew up in a household where they were raped and molested by their father, and I know everybody thanks. Oh wow, you should be over that. But sometimes it takes 40 years to realize what you went through. And that doesn't mean that you treat other people bad in that amount of time you can fill a lot of different Sometimes there can be something wrong with a person and that doesn't mean that's how they're gonna treat somebody else. Maybe they just need somebody to go out of their way and show them kindness. They've never had maybe they were held prisoner against their will. They were abused. They were lied to about their whole entire life. And then they're trying to make sense out of their life. But it's nice to be around so many judgmental people who think they have everything figured out.

I'm so glad that someone said this out loud! Thank you 😊!!!!

So! So! True! Help those whom are blind, to see the light. Love heals all things! Spread the love and enjoy, to change the world we live in. It starts with one person. Plant a seed.❤

This man is a gift to humanity in these times. (.)

Funny how life imitates I was just saying this today And here it is on your show confirming what I said!! Love it!! 🙌✨️

So true‼️‼️thank you Lewis ✅✅💯💯💯how you treat others is a reflection of how you feel about yourself ✳️✳️❣️😊‼️‼️🔆🔆

So true . I love to wistle while i walk and say hi to perfect strangers for i am a loon so if i get side looks i can't hold in and laugh 😂

There are many good hearted people with so much love in their hearts that are treated badly. And often those who understand a lot are being missunderstood. So not, how otherd treat you or what is happening in life is not a mirror, it’s called life and many times life is not fair.

Yes, seeing this pattern everywhere

Self reflection is a must Journeling and breath work is my life’s way to empathy and compassion to all Thank you ☘️

This is the truest message I've heard in a while. I sometimes wonder why people are the hateful beings they are, then I get reminded of why. That's all they know how to be unfortunately.

Insomnia aside: I love life, my life and strive to make not only my experience in this world better, full of true joy, laughter and find the comedy in my misfortunes. I’m finding a peace that I felt as a child, shedding negativity and can’t help but giggle from whom I was developing into. Nonsense! Everything is a gift to share. I wish you all the best of days ahead. Truly. ❤

I find it a shame that more people aren't happy with themselves n don't have thankfulness. Count your blessings is what I've always said. 🕊️💛✨ Everybody n be safe out there!🙏🏼

Simple but true and worth reminding ourselves all the time.

Soooo true! So do not take it personally. Is them. Not you! Bingo! ❤🤗

This is 1000% true. I'm so glad I learned this yrs ago. I pray 4 the peeps who were in my life that r like this. I know real peace is internal but it's also a blessing 2 hv external peace too. 🤗💜🙏🏾✝️

What a nice reminder of where I need to focus my wk for today❤

Wanna listen to this over and over till it gets nice n deep in my subconscious 🎉

True. This is how life works in any relationship!

It's taken me a lifetime to learn this. Parents, sit down and talk to your children about things like this. I always listened, but I was not told many things. Please keep a dialog with your children when events occur

Powerful reminder

The problem is, this isn't true of enough people to make this sort of generalization. It's one of those: "it sounds true" HOWEVER, there are lots of people of out there struggling with themselves & their lives who make it a point not to be negative towards others. There are MORE people out there dealing with personal negative issues who go out to give, help others, visit with the sick, donate, volunteer, check on their friends & family, do good works within the church etc

There was a time in my life when I wasn't happy with myself but I never blamed or punished anyone because I knew it wasn't their fault! No we're not all the same! 🙌

Thank you for not blaming us, for other people's behaviors.

Wow! I had to save this because it explains everything so clearly! Who is this amazing person?😃

So true how people treat you is a reflection of themselves. What people say & do good & evil actions is the reflection of themselves. ❤️🙏❤️😇🥰❤️😇🥰

This is So Very True. To Love Yourself is To Love Others

He is absolutely correct and when I’m around people who continuously treat me mean, nasty, disrespectful, etc. I distance myself and get the hell away from them and do my best not to take it personal because in the end, it’s usually not about us it’s only directed at us

I've came a long way cause of this man, Dr. Joe Dispenza, so GREATFUL for him and Lewis Howes that introduced me to him and other guess.... just WONDERFUL human beings!!! Can't not go wrong!!! A blessing!!! Love my Tribe 🤜🤛💞🌹🙏

I disagree in a point,"People who love themself ,love other people" I am sure,that is not true! May be some times!

He is 100% correct. Sometimes I get feeling that way and I just stay home and stay away from people until I readjust my mind.😮

I just forgot! Thx for the reminder again. From the Netherlands, I wish you a Blessed 2024. 🙏🕊

Some people see others as generally bad people but there are some good people out there. Some people see others are generally good people but some are bad people out there. Glass is half full or glass is half empty. You will decide by your experience with people.

My husband and his mom are very ungrateful, unloving people who do not know how to love. They constantly attack me trying to make me miserable as they are. I am a happy and joyful person and they do what they can to destroy that in me. I had to learn they have the problem, not me, they try to pin their bad behavior on me. That hurts!

True, i think there's a part of us that wants others to feel what we feel. Because then we feel "understood".

This is so simple and makes so much sense that it's ridiculous. He is absolutely correct.

Dr Joe deserves the Nobel Peace Prize.

What about people being the total opposite? I'm very loving and openly accepting of others but I have a very harsh inner critic that's only directed at myself. I'd like to find a way to be okay with myself as I am with others..

So simple, and yet so profound...

Facts. I remember when I read an instagram post that said “hurt people will hurt people”

Not taking anything away from what this man has to say , but you don’t have to be angry with yourself in order for someone to piss you off. This kind of talk can easily go to the head of the wrong people who want nothing more than to have an out in their back pocket in order to gaslight others when they have an unfavorable reaction to nonsense.

Went through a spiritual awakening recently a lot because of the work I did with your material. Thank you! I read the books and did the work. ❤

I needed this. I have been treated so bad by someone too close. Their words made me feel so down and all the times keeps trying to forget. At times wonderingif they're talking about me or someone else but I think now I understand that it's all they feel about themselves inside

💯facts I’ve seen this over and over and over and over

Strong message to remember ..

Absolutely! True I learned that through who ever my neighbor was in friendship, physical neighbor , etc love thy neighbor as you love yourself I noticed then the reason people didn’t love me was they didn’t love them selves.🙏🏾❤️

Being grateful is powerful.

Currently, I'm separated from my spouse & I recently brought up this topic. He clearly stated he does not love himself.. I have so much love for myself, him & others that I believed it would permeate his soul enough to be reciprocated unto me, in the same degree. Still, I love. ❤️

Amen. I had to realize this late in life.

thank you Joe! You have helped me change my life and I am still changing every day, I have profound respect and love for you.

How fun! I love seeing people play songs on the uke that are less typical for the instrument.

Words well spoken. It’s a universal truth, but people can change their behavior if they change their mindset. It is not easy for some to do so.

Grateful for you and the light you bring to the world. Ty

TRUTH! Well said - thank you for this!

Misery loves company! Don’t know who said it first but it’s a timeless truth.

People have a mirror instinct. We can only mirror the content of our experience to others. We mirror energy from our environment too. Healing is something we transmit just as easily as hurt.

Amen thanks for everything even your help and blessing's amen

I see some people that are happy with their lives and seem to have what they want, judge other people which makes me wonder, do they judge themselves? One of my peeves is judgment of other people. There is a lot of that in this world

This must be true! I am always happy to see others happy in relationships even though I haven’t had a man in my life for years. But I’m content and happy. My greatest characteristic is gratefulness. I’m grateful for everything.

This is true I feel all that about myself I've started ny healing and learning to love myself but as much as I was hurting I sat with it I haven't hurt anybody but this process isn't easy xxx

I know this and have said this time and again, it still hurts when you're on the receiving end of someone's self hatred. So sad 😢

Being in a constant state of Gratitude allows me not to take things for granted . The mirror that is reflected internally is the one that is projected externally.

When people show you who they are believe them the first time and just walk away praying 🙏 ❤❤❤

People who dont have peace or self acceptance in their own life will stalk and torment other happy persons because of their own unhappiness😢 untill they eventually destroy and ruin themselves if they aren't already sad but true 😢🙏