How to actually make people like you. 

@@SuperBlackDog69 Lol.

Literally

Exactly

Ikr

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Thank you❤

Love this ❤ thanks

Problems: 1. I dont usually care for what other's have to say about themselves 2. I dont have any incentive to smile

@@panzershrek7942no offense my guy but that really sounds like a you problem. If you want to change those things, I hope you will find a solution to it, if not, this might be the wrong video for you.

​@@panzershrek7942 more problems: - Avoid arguments? So we're just meant to swallow people's stupidity and mediocrity? If shutting up, listening and smiling is all I need to make "friends" (shallow ones at that it seems like to me), then I'd much rather be alone. I cannot imagine myself in my daily job not calling out people for their stupid shit. If I did not, I'm not sure how many people would die as a consequence. But I guess people don't care about the therac 25 not happening all over again, because they'd much rather not have their feelings hurt, it seems. And that is just in my line of work... if i cannot tolerate people like that on the job, imagine having to tolerate them on my personal life. Mission impossible. - Give sincere and honest compliments is something that I feel like I could genuinly do. If there ever was anyone I met that I had anything good to say about them. I've only met one person in my entire life who was deserving of any compliments for their actually amazing accomplishments. Am I just meant to lie to people to their face and compliment their mediocre work? Again, this comes full circle to my previous point. I'd much rather be alone than to lie to people for the sake of getting fake, shallow friends who only care about their egos.

😊 man... That is so true... Its just that being told to do it always sounds corny. Ive tried it myself and its awesome

Nice cheeks

Idk man, if i smile all the time i would be like a damn clown 🤡

@@giorgosd3624 well of course not all the time

@@giorgosd3624Maybe it's a good idea to learn the difference first between a friendly smile and a creepy evil clown smile 🤣

I think that's just the RU-vid algorithm taking effect

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Hey your really smart😊

@@Stewie_eating_Heisenburger ya i think so...

@@dbdlegionjoey5140 impressive 👏

well you wouldnt befriend such person in the first place right

Agreed

true. and some of them over here might already be likeable by people but they can't see bcoz of their insecurities. It's good for them to work on the latter i guess .

I disagree. People have negative traits, talking about themselves too much for example, that make them who they are. If they can change thise things and be better than the person they are now why not do that?

@@Roddy556 why would you try to change someone else? if you dont click and their morals are different from you, its not worth being their friend.

Doing this would make others feel cared for and appreciated .

the same principals stand, if you loved someone more you would smile more, compliment honestly more, want to know about them more, avoid arguments more. If you don't love them then remember what a wise man said: "love is like a fart, if you try to force it, its probably shit"

I do try all of these things whenever I have a crush... I do not get a gf anyways 😂​@@joesephjoestar6430

Sometimes i feel sad cause people forgot the meaning of love. They always think it's romantic or crush but it's not if its with family.. what about friends?

love yourself

I liked how you actually explained your pov Have a nice day

And sometimes they won’t be interested in said discussion and that’s ok too. I think if the conversation is going no where it’s good to just change the topic

good word man

Thank you for explaining it and giving an example on how to avoid an argument! ❤❤

That is the best alternative possible. Not only are you not destroying the other person's pov, but you're also engaging in leaning with an open mind.

Thank you for the advice your an amazing person!

@@axle3064 damn your words made my day...

That's actually beautiful...your absolutely right, having just one person support you and hang out with you is really better then being alone

That’s wonderful, have a great day🖤

Same, I literally saw my new self when i was watching this video,all of these made me respectful enough that everyone in my class likes to talk with me and it even made me get really close with a girl from class

Thanks for commenting, I have a question related to the first principle, if we like someone and we are utilising the first principle during a conversation, for how many occassions we should utilise this and when should we start talking about ourselves to create a balance, because if we keep questioning them or keep extending the conversation from sub-topics picked from the main topic of the conversation then it may get boring or the other person will get suspicious. I know that it is when they are going to naturally ask about us then we have to answer naturally and honestly, and I also know we shouldn't tell everything at once, share your insight please.

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey my experience is that when i try to structure conversations in a mathematical way, then I struggle actually connecting with the person im talking to. I dont actively try to balance the conversation, i just go with whatever is easier for me at the moment. Things like conversations and relationships are trial and error. Sometimes you will make mistakes and say something embarrassing or unexpected, but thats okay. Its normal.

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey usually i put stories at the beginning of conversations because theyre a good openener

@@plswatchinfinitytrain thanks for replying, I think that I shouldn't think too much about application of principles and all that stuff, like you said instead of approaching conversations mathematically I should just go with the flow, unfortunately it is high time for me and I wish I could have just be in the natural state of flow and take things as they come (trial and error like) , but at this age I have some pressure, clock is ticking for me and that's why I'm analysing everything, things were not like this 10 years ago for me, I wish I had achieved some experience in dating and relationship, so I wouldn't have to worry about things the way I do now, all I can fo now is hope and keep trying.

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey it sounds like youve been working a lot on getting better at this and like its been very difficult and I can see that you are very knowledgeable with communication. I hope things work out for you!!!! :)

Great point.

hey man, I noticed you post poker vids on ur channel. What's your favorite psychological trick that you use to trick people in poker?

This is a really beautiful comment I am really glad your taking a initiative in complimenting/encouraging others to grow I hope you too would have a blessed day and achieve all the things you want.

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Highly agreed, cheers to your insight brother

This is ass advice though, the video is actually helpful.

@@bruhmoment1835I agree the video is pretty good I can see a lot of these things in people I like a lot

Yeaahh, I'm awake.

Ty, had to wake up from my 7 hour napping

Yessir

Nice buns

It’s the first of the month

Haha i wanted to comment this 😂

I’m cooked

the true uglyness lies beyond the phisical, even a person with a croocked tooth, black eye and missing a ear will look bealtiful with good toughs

@@saposabio03 gigacope9000

The most likeable guy in our year isn’t handsome but he is so charming and full of charisma, while also being really bright and funny. I like him a lot but despite being a pretty person, i mess up, and either dont get a joke or don’t respond in a way that makes him want to be friends with me. Id say im one of the least popular in my year.

I appreciate your comment. Definitely helped change my perspective for the better.

Are there any points not mentioned in this video or importieren Things?

@@yousihard8569 Yeah, There are a lot! The whole book contains so many great ideas 💡

@@yousihard8569 Yeah there are lot. The book has so many useful ideas 💡

I too have same book but haven't finished it

​​@@yousihard8569yeah, there are a lot. Consider reading the whole book :)

ikrrr the feeling itself is so calming that my mind has programmed itself to watch his videos on full screen avoiding any other stimulating content!

Yeah man, it is sooo refreshing that literally every single youtube channel has been doing it for a few years now. Yep. Refreshing. Not repetitive and copypasted at all. A dated new aesthetic, one could say...

@@tiranito2834thank you

@@tiranito2834 u got some examples? would love to have a look at some more of this aesthetic!

Hey man just wanted to say you have beautiful lips

Be sure that the right time will come. I already was in the same situation

Wanna be my friend?

Hey brother i appreciate ur comment

yes

me personally I think I’m pretty mid rn since I’m skinny and mediocre in what I do but idk if that’s what “do I like myself”? On the other hand I’m much nicer than most and like to help

@@siddhant-sj3mu Thank you for your kind words!

@@wheatwhole_ To love yourself is to improve yourself. I believe that you do not hate yourself but do not love yourself either. It's fine though. My advice: Ig work on your physique and look for things that you can improvise in your work to achieve better results. This should help you I think. Just implement, a work done imperfect is better than no work. Have a good day!

The yung lean accent is on top too

@@sharkkisser54 i think your name is cringe/funny in good way:D

@@Kehveli609 thanks haha:D

I like the way you describe yourself :) Have a good day

@@mightnare3237 aww thank you, that made my day

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You sure sound like a respectable person:)! I could never do it in the first place😅

@@dontplsgx7934 heyy thank you for saying that!!

I love your pfp!

Don't worry, that's normal for your age and for people to change their preferences. It's impossible everyone to like us or to spend time with us - people have their own problems even though they act as they don't have any.

I am quite in your situation, btw hello i am sumit from india and I too apply all those principles from the video but still i don't have more than 2 good freinds. Don't worry u shall keep a positive attitude in every lemon this life of yours throw at u. If u feel like making an international friend -awkward; i know but still a good way to know each other and btw u are too much kind the way you explained your situation. ❤

Genuine people often have fewer friends. The popular guys are often not so empathetic and compassionate unfortunately:/

@@simonbonde9123 i agree. The popular guys tend to make other feel low or down happens in my case.

Quality over quantity (:

same 😊❤

Yeah right 😊😊❤

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As we Say Listening IS one of the softest forms of love Hope one day that we will be surrounded by many peopole who use that forms of love ❤️

yeah cause some people are demons , it’s not hard to smile at everyone and be positive and open but some people genuinely are evil or not trustworthy and that’s the only reason ion ever like anyone. idk abt u

Yes. We can never come to like people who hurt us deeply. But we try to always move on. ❤

Do not be of this world, rather, be of the nature of your Father in Heaven, and strive to be perfect before him just as Jesus would proclaim unto us.

Yes it is bro

cute pfp ♥♥♥

I hope ur successful :)

you failed miserably my friend

Well, I can breathe while smiling

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the end of the comment made me smile thanks bro

Thanks ❤

Same boy

Same

i rater be lonely then having friends that make you fell lonely

So true,your kindness at times is taken for granted. At the end of the day,you feel so lonely.. Like you gave your energy to them and when it's not reciprocated the same ,it hurts.

@@liliac3895 Yeah like you go through everything to try and please everyone ask them how their days are going when you really want someone to ask you that. The loudest person in the room is usually the one who needs help the most

Thanks for the advice , love your confident keep going 💪

Bro, keeps traking mam i know you are doing well, good luck

I love just putting on this guys videos and settling in with a cup of tea

your profile picture is stupidly cute! I love it!! 😆

@@urii450 xd… 😁😆

True 👍

On point

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Keep going mate

@@hanzoo7943 thanks

@@dwacheopus thanks mate

ohhh , nicceee , what book are you reading?

Same, i would always fight with my mom at dinner but now I just say 'okay we have different opinions' and move on. Dinner is so much nicer now

Lmao😂

same

same lol

Me too

You are right..

I'm the main guy and all bad things happen to me

But wouldn't you agree that it's ultimately a good thing for these kinds of people to seek improvement? It's unfortunate that it isn't the standard, but so is most things in life tbh

Completely agreed with this comment tbh. First time in this comment section that I have nothing to argue against, ironically. Like, it is so obvious that the summary of this video is "to make people like you, just avoid confrontation", literally, just put up a facade, feliz falsedad, and that's it, no problems whatsoever, you'll be the most popular guy in town. Whenever someone needs a person to step all over, that is... Falsely complimenting people, being all smiles and never saying what you truly think for the sake of avoiding arguments and simply telling other people that they are correct in every single instance is something that I find completely despicable. Not only will it lead to false, shallow friends, but it also is counter productive from the point of view of wanting to achieve some kind of meaningful connection or literally any progress in any aspect of life. If you are convinced that someone is wrong and are bound to f- themselves over, then why should I just nod and smile as if nothing was wrong? That's not what a real friend does. I'd rather be alone tbh. Not to mention, imagine if everyone just falsely agreed with everyone else and never tried to argue anything. Where would humanity be? Why has human progress stagnated so much outside of highly specialized fields? Because most people are fucking mediocre and simply try to avoid confrontation, that's why. That confrontation being any form of hardship, including any argument, debate or even just plain learning. But I guess making false friends matters more than becoming a real person. And, as you said, literally the only point that I can agree with is trying to see things from others' point of view. In my line of work tho, that is mostly to try to understand just how they came up with such an incredibly stupid and absolutely deranged idea.

@@tiranito2834I agree with you. Last year I read this book and tested it out. To be honest, it worked well. I made several new friends and know more people. As time went by, I grew closer to one of the friends I met using these principles. But later I realized this relationship was start/ based on “me being a listener”. So she is used to tell me everything that happened to her, yet she wouldn’t respond to me the same way I did. Though the effect of these principles can vary from person to person, and I might have much more to learn regarding human relationships, I still think there are high chances that you make fake connections rather than genuine ones .

His vids are awesome I did the same too

You have to be open to new learning opportunities regardless of where they come from

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Its good

Idk ,but I love it ❤

That's so usefull , thanks for sharing that :)

You are awesome! Don't forget that.