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Jak Piggott
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If you're a teenager who is still single, please watch this video...
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@Sensei11111
@Sensei11111 7 месяцев назад
It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden. Thanks jak❤️
@tm_yt496
@tm_yt496 7 месяцев назад
that is cap lol
@cubycube9924
@cubycube9924 7 месяцев назад
Me being sad in my little garden:
@Lesr8
@Lesr8 7 месяцев назад
@@tm_yt496 how?
@DededeHero
@DededeHero 7 месяцев назад
​@@Lesr8 your gonna end up being like 40 something and still wondering why you haven't gotten anything, honestly I hate the least expect it advice, it's literal cope
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
100% brother. Your words couldn’t be more true, keep up the great work ❤️
@CutieAndrew
@CutieAndrew 7 месяцев назад
I got “rejected” sort of yesterday and this definitely helps. I’m so serious when I say this that you are changing lives ❤
@MMadMan-v4j
@MMadMan-v4j 7 месяцев назад
Just my tip: do not get attached to sigma, it will be better if you just be normal and be yourself, my best friend got addicted to sigma content and he hit a new low after a bit of time, now he's ok though
@strike2091
@strike2091 7 месяцев назад
aye bro try not to take it personally, just means that she wasn't right for you
@ninjawizard9667
@ninjawizard9667 7 месяцев назад
same bro I feel that I'm still kinda mad but it was on me and I have a feeling it'll work out
@emma6648
@emma6648 7 месяцев назад
@@strike2091 or maybe there is something wrong with him, you know it’s not always the woman’s fault
@alien_in_white_3
@alien_in_white_3 7 месяцев назад
When i got rejected almost a year ago, i started to self improve, but in a toxic way (at the time i was brainwashed by Hamza). These first few months of self improvement were good for me, but also bad in a way. On one hand, it helped me heal from not just my crush, but also the feelings of loneliness and insecurities i used to have for quite a while. On the other hand, i was trying too hard to escape myself, and it ended up almost costing my relationships. The verdict for you, is that self improvement can be really helpful to deal with a rejection or breakup, but remember to not scold yourself for that rejection. You were just not the right fit, and someday someone will love you. Just don't forget to set goals, and strive to achieve them.
@OLDg_Vids
@OLDg_Vids 7 месяцев назад
Someone said, "I'll do a pushup for every like on this comment." That's motivated me. Now I'll do a pullup for every like on this comment.
@Xx_saucepan_69_Xx
@Xx_saucepan_69_Xx 6 месяцев назад
get to the pull ups
@Brambo1001
@Brambo1001 6 месяцев назад
150 pull ups, gl
@theepicduck105
@theepicduck105 6 месяцев назад
Have fun
@jadenchoi6604
@jadenchoi6604 6 месяцев назад
214 buddy
@brushot
@brushot 5 месяцев назад
How are the pull-ups so far?
@Цікавоподивитись
@Цікавоподивитись 7 месяцев назад
Guys, if you're still single and don't have a girlfriend. Don't worry and start working on yourself.Because everything will come with time, if you're going towards it.
@ewqwewwqqew9175
@ewqwewwqqew9175 7 месяцев назад
Gotchu brother i wont worry
@President_jack
@President_jack 7 месяцев назад
Don’t live with that, don’t be like “things will get better” it’s just going to leave you disappointed
@Цікавоподивитись
@Цікавоподивитись 7 месяцев назад
@@President_jack I didn't mean it like that because of course you can't be like "things will get better" but a lot more things like I wrote up there will come with time. You never know how you'll find your future love
@Цікавоподивитись
@Цікавоподивитись 7 месяцев назад
@@ewqwewwqqew9175 you're doing 👍
@emma6648
@emma6648 7 месяцев назад
why do u want one? we're annoying
@NCGoldMiner2010
@NCGoldMiner2010 7 месяцев назад
I’ll do a push up for ever like this comment gets seriously. Edit: at 3k now!
@MX51997
@MX51997 7 месяцев назад
27 pushups
@jaydenmontes7458
@jaydenmontes7458 7 месяцев назад
38
@moon69428
@moon69428 7 месяцев назад
44
@Kaleeternity
@Kaleeternity 7 месяцев назад
56
@WildmanEli
@WildmanEli 7 месяцев назад
65
@tpsam
@tpsam 7 месяцев назад
She is totally in these comments smirking and we don't know which 1 is her
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Haha who knows bro 😂
@Supponit
@Supponit 7 месяцев назад
She could be in this very room... She could be you! She could be me! She could even be
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me 7 месяцев назад
She could be Japanese Spiderman!
@B2washere
@B2washere 7 месяцев назад
@@YoshiCh1ef-je6me YESSSS!
@andrejtb1
@andrejtb1 7 месяцев назад
@@Supponit 🤯
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 5 месяцев назад
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. its called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. And after reading you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days, it guaranteed Highly recommended to read
@prasannamalatesha3887
@prasannamalatesha3887 5 месяцев назад
Bruh, you got us man. There's no such book lol
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 5 месяцев назад
@@prasannamalatesha3887search it on google, there is. it helped me a lot.
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 4 месяца назад
​@@prasannamalatesha3887 there is bro, search for it on google...
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 4 месяца назад
​@@prasannamalatesha3887 Its forbidden ebook, probably thats why you cant find it, but i think you can find it on google
@HuschGerhard
@HuschGerhard 4 месяца назад
@@prasannamalatesha3887 its forbidden ebook, try finding it on google, unreal thing totally
@NPC_exe
@NPC_exe 7 месяцев назад
The fact that Jak is willing to share this makes me respect him more
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Haha im ngl bro I was scratching my head before making this video 😂
@theharshtruthoutthere
@theharshtruthoutthere 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott The love ain+t hugs and kisses and sex, as this world presents. /be not deceived nor naive. What is unknown life fact? - parenthood is GOD given and love is not LUST. John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. About being single: 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
@xler3441
@xler3441 7 месяцев назад
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms. please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@karanfutbol
@karanfutbol 7 месяцев назад
Man this guy is changing lives. I know he changed mine. What a guy man. His age is 18 but his wisdom provides an imagery of him as 50 years old.
@EvanzAirspace
@EvanzAirspace 7 месяцев назад
Yeah
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Thank you my brother, I still have a lot to learn so don’t put me on a pedestal. I’m only sharing from my own experiences ❤️
@xler3441
@xler3441 7 месяцев назад
Jesus loves you so much and He is waiting for you with open arms. please accept Him in your heart and life while He is near
@thekidfromthebasement
@thekidfromthebasement 6 месяцев назад
​@JakPiggott I would even go so far to compare you to Salomo. You are basically a modern Salomo, teaching young man good advice. Keep up the good work Jak You already helped so many, and you can help even more 👏
@uttyr7525
@uttyr7525 4 месяца назад
@@xler3441 👍
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
I know you probably don’t believe it coming from a stranger on the internet but you must trust that she’ll come as long as you keep doing what’s right. I’m sure you’ve learnt so much through your experiences bro, and now you can apply those to your future 🤝❤️
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me 7 месяцев назад
There are objectively worse strangers on the internet to listen to.
@Chiefcrazy
@Chiefcrazy 7 месяцев назад
Dude honestly I just found you today and you’ve already helped me out a ton. Thank you so much for what you’re doing here, when there are so many other places on this platform that show the opposite. God Bless
@GoetzeLP
@GoetzeLP 7 месяцев назад
My ex GF improved my self-esteem a lot because all guys from the school wanted her and she denied all of them and then I managed to win her hearth without even actually trying to impress her... It was a very nice feeling. We still talk and we are still good friends.
@xzayler7311
@xzayler7311 7 месяцев назад
I hope you're right but it's really hard to believe it.
@rangetrooper5245
@rangetrooper5245 7 месяцев назад
What if you're gay???
@Da_Roblox.DEV1
@Da_Roblox.DEV1 Месяц назад
Oh hell nah, ppl are saying that they will do one push up each comments, I want to try and push my hardest, these ppl got me fr motivated, every like = 1 push-up Edit: wow 11 likes, that’s the most I have ever gotten, I already did 11 push-ups btw Edit2: 52 push-ups? Ez hahahaha thank you all!!!
@key_master7514
@key_master7514 Месяц назад
Dont do it for the like just go do them
@Da_Roblox.DEV1
@Da_Roblox.DEV1 Месяц назад
@@key_master7514 yes sir, I’m doing this as an extra
@russianwhoopiecushion
@russianwhoopiecushion Месяц назад
38 brother, get to working send flex picks
@TitusTyson-xv9jv
@TitusTyson-xv9jv Месяц назад
61 buddy
@Da_Roblox.DEV1
@Da_Roblox.DEV1 Месяц назад
@@TitusTyson-xv9jv YESSIR🫡
@demetriusshuler1391
@demetriusshuler1391 7 месяцев назад
I’m 27 and I absolutely needed to hear this. When you kept saying it’s okay bro and it’s normal, made me emotional because sometimes I’ll be feeling like being attached to certain women is wrong and illogical but then you put into perspective it’s just a human thing to crave love and connection from another human. It feels reassuring. Thank you bro. You’ve earned a new sub too. You may be 18 but you’re wise beyond your years.
@metarex000
@metarex000 Месяц назад
Same here bro and I'm 26
@NinjacatCreative
@NinjacatCreative 7 месяцев назад
Jak out here saving lives❤
@NinjacatCreative
@NinjacatCreative 7 месяцев назад
@Tease34 lol yes I posted this when the vid was 10 seconds posted
@NinjacatCreative
@NinjacatCreative 7 месяцев назад
@@Paradox-artist yeah I corrected it now
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Just doing my best bro, thanks heaps ❤️
@NinjacatCreative
@NinjacatCreative 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott yo the legend himself responded! Thanks for helping so many people! You helped me a lot too! Keep doing what you do
@KT03mc
@KT03mc 7 месяцев назад
fr
@gwben9045
@gwben9045 7 месяцев назад
Before loving others you should learn to love yourself - unknown
@Bjuskens
@Bjuskens 7 месяцев назад
Thats a spongebob quote🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
💯❤️
@Unknown-dw9qc
@Unknown-dw9qc 7 месяцев назад
I dont remember saying that
@ukkomies100
@ukkomies100 7 месяцев назад
Honestly i tried this for years. In the end i needed someone to show me i can be loved and teach me to love before i overcame the trauma.
@David_99778
@David_99778 7 месяцев назад
@@ukkomies100Did you get that?
@AaronKerenza
@AaronKerenza 5 месяцев назад
it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden ebook called crushanygirl
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 4 месяца назад
yeah, crushanygirl changed my life as insecure american, i recommend it for everyone also
@velja5840
@velja5840 4 месяца назад
Yeah, sad. After reading it I found my first gf, totally crazy
@yo_seb5195
@yo_seb5195 4 месяца назад
@@velja5840I can’t tell if y’all or being satire or not lol… is there actually an Ebook???
@markoein5067
@markoein5067 4 месяца назад
What is that?
@dansari0007
@dansari0007 4 месяца назад
What’s the book about?
@archivebin6306
@archivebin6306 7 месяцев назад
i genuinely wish id have found ur channel way earlier.. trust me, ure really changing people's lives for the best.. i can not express how much uve helped me out in disciplining myself and avoiding distractions and the drastic drop in my watch time since ive started watching u proves it all. videos like urs r the reason why it should be made possible to like a video more than once. u deserve way more for honestly caring.. dont stop please keep going.. thank you!
@diederikso6397
@diederikso6397 7 месяцев назад
How old r u
@mrwelshaviation_024
@mrwelshaviation_024 7 месяцев назад
@@diederikso6397why do you need to know
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
This made my night bro, I can’t thank you enough for your words. Don’t give me to much credit though, you’re the one who put the work in, you’re the one who decided to change. So you should be immensely proud of yourself, because I am 🫶
@archivebin6306
@archivebin6306 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott thank you so much.. i cant thank you enough for your words either bro.. youve made me a way better person trust me.. and you should be really proud of yourself too! you're an amazing person
@BorealisZero
@BorealisZero 6 месяцев назад
You saying it’s normal has helped me a lot. I’ve been stuck on this girl for about a year and a half, and I still can’t get over her. She has about every trait I want in a partner, and the ones she doesn’t have I can live without. She’s definitely not perfect, but she’s everything I need. I talk to her every day and I just can’t seem to let her go. I’ve tried so hard so many times but I can’t. You saying it completely fine for me to feel like this is the push I needed to actually start to detach my self. Thank you.
@Spawn_47
@Spawn_47 3 месяца назад
I want one, but to have a genuine connection, to have something beautiful.
@Himmel23
@Himmel23 7 месяцев назад
I used to be like this when i was 17-18 years old, but then after i got brutally betrayed i stopped letting that happen, i stopped creating expectations and whenever i caught myself imagining things i quickly snapped myself to reality. I'm 23 today, still no gf, still want one, but at least i don't get fooled or used like i did before, i no longer put myself in a precarious position for someone who doesn't really care about me. I really do hope most young men can find that special someone they want because after a while it does start to get weird, things inside do start to feel...off.
@felipecastro6544
@felipecastro6544 7 месяцев назад
Being rejected by women messes with your mind from my experience you start to feel resentment it hurts a lot seeing girls out there and you know that aproching them will not have any effect on them because you have tried it thousand times before they are not attracted to me in any way then you you realize that the problem is you not them and then you don’t know what to do with your frustration at least you had a chance
@Himmel23
@Himmel23 7 месяцев назад
@@felipecastro6544 Yeah, the worst part is seeing other guys your age have what you wish you could have, friends, a nice girl, a decent job, a good physique, a social standing etc... then it sinks in that you're invisible, that no one even sees you, you start to feel like you're unworthy of being loved, like you'll never feel that warmth you crave so much. Then your thoughts become more messed up, violent in some cases, you become more cynical as time goes on and the void in your chest grows bigger. You stay out in the void for too long, it claims you before you know it.
@williamsanders468
@williamsanders468 7 месяцев назад
I’m almost 21, same stuck rut that I can’t climb out of. I feel like that position we put ourself in while it does mess with us mentally a lot I also feel like it’s hard when you don’t try either. But then you try, try, and try again for the same answer.
@Himmel23
@Himmel23 7 месяцев назад
@@williamsanders468 Yeah, i tried being more confident when i started college recently, didn't end well, ended up getting made fun of in public, i didn't make any friends or talked to anyone for the rest of the semester. I keep trying to get out, to live but it's always the same weird results.
@Himmel23
@Himmel23 7 месяцев назад
@@felipecastro6544 Yes, it does, but then again so does being lonely, no way out of this i suppose.
@CrushAnyGirl
@CrushAnyGirl 6 месяцев назад
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. its called CrushAnyGirl and its for finding a gf as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read
@ansonchan8537
@ansonchan8537 6 месяцев назад
how the fuck did you get 2k likes
@aerobiesizer3968
@aerobiesizer3968 6 месяцев назад
self promotion lore
@BR33ZYBOY
@BR33ZYBOY 7 месяцев назад
There’s this girl that I’ve been interested in for a few years. I never got the confidence to ask her out and now she’s dating someone else. I’ve learned that I should stop mourning and become a better man, somebody she regrets not talking to. Thank you Jak for guiding me through these tough times❤
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
All you can do is use this as fuel brother, fuel to become the best man you can possibly be, but I’m sure you know this anyway 👊❤️
@Tegui4
@Tegui4 19 часов назад
You see, you're just wasting time thinking you're doing the right thing meanwhile another man put a ring on her finger😅
@evanbaldwin07
@evanbaldwin07 7 месяцев назад
I was in a similar boat with a girl at school and I asked her to homecoming, but she said she had a boyfriend. Thankfully, from your content and the change my life has seen I was able to gain a lot of positive from it. I easily detached myself because I realized that it is natural. I got a major confidence boost and now I can easily detach when I need to.
@Griseofulvin779
@Griseofulvin779 Месяц назад
👍
@ethanielm03
@ethanielm03 6 месяцев назад
This video is such a comfort to me as someone who has attached or at times over attached himself to several girls over the years, only for it not to work out. I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much!
@Law1915
@Law1915 24 дня назад
I saw a guy in the comments getting motivated to do pullups for every single like he recieves by seeing the comment of a guy doing pushups for every like he recieves.. I got motivated by reading their comments so, I will run 500 metres for every like this comment gets
@xitrinean
@xitrinean 7 месяцев назад
Honestly even tho most people only watch ur shorts, ur full vids are so so high quality
@Vatsal1285
@Vatsal1285 7 месяцев назад
Fr man fax
@insertusernamehere8125
@insertusernamehere8125 7 месяцев назад
Wait this guy makes shorts?? I thought the whole point of his channel was just to make proper inspirational videos like these.
@d-family5843
@d-family5843 7 месяцев назад
@@insertusernamehere8125he does everything, man, he’s the best ❤
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Thank you man, I remember when 99% of my audience used to watch my shorts but I’m glad some have transitioned over, much love brother ❤️
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
@@insertusernamehere8125yeah bro I make shorts but I’d say 1/2 of them are vids to stop you from scrolling 😂
@EclipseAirways
@EclipseAirways 7 месяцев назад
We need more people like Jak in the world today, because as the world evolves, things are just going to get WAY worse.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Thank you brother, look no one needs to be like me, everyone needs to be like their truest, almost authentic selves who make the world a better place. If everyone would do that, this world would be an even more beautiful place ❤️
@EclipseAirways
@EclipseAirways 7 месяцев назад
Amen!@@JakPiggott
@shauryasuyal1528
@shauryasuyal1528 7 месяцев назад
skibidi@@JakPiggott
@Beregond1861
@Beregond1861 7 месяцев назад
You make me feel like a lazy 25 year old. But that kind of unapologetic and encouragung love from a complete stranger is too rare these days. Thank you, brother.❤️🤙
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
You aren’t lazy bro. I don’t care what you do, just being on this kind of path already puts you ahead of so many people who are stuck in their head with so many bad habits, which isn’t inherently their fault. You’re still here, and that’s the main thing ❤️
@maxfb09
@maxfb09 7 месяцев назад
Bro, I honestly feel a personal impact from these videos. Coming from a fellow Aussie, thank you so much Jak.
@elizabethl3092
@elizabethl3092 6 месяцев назад
as a woman, this has happened to me before also. i would find a boy from a movie or a show and then make him my background on my computer and spend hours watching interviews of him and stuff. and i would get that obsession type feeling with guys i knew in real life too. but its not healthy to do that especially when you want to seriously date someone. when you automatically put them on a pedestal, you gain this mindset that you can’t live without them. that’s what happened in my first relationship, i talked to him online and i never had a guy really be interested in me so i like threw myself at his feet when i met him. but i also put up with his abusive behavior towards me and that damaged my mental health a lot. so for men and women, don’t rush to idolize the person you are dating or have a crush on because you don’t really know how someone is until you’ve spent actual time with them in real life and be weary of people’s intentions
@nickem6556
@nickem6556 6 месяцев назад
Finally a strong person that admits that by throwing yourself at someone feet you are enabling their abusive behavior, same here but on male side, lessons learned
@astral749
@astral749 7 месяцев назад
I have found myself in this situation multiple times during the past 3 years, and for the same reason, I reached my lowest about 1 year ago Everyone kept saying things like "It'll happen" or "don't try to rush it" but I ignored them because I felt like those words weren't of help But then videos like this one started to appear in my fyp and it helped me to understand on a deeper level and now I find myself still seeking for a partner but not feeling lonely I haven't felt this "at peace" with myself for so much that I can't recall, and all thanks to people like you Jak, who spend their time giving mental support to us Thank you a lot, this really helped me
@jhiggins2782
@jhiggins2782 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much, Jak. There’s one girl I developed a crush on two years ago, asked her out one year ago, she said no, and I still get depressed about it to this day. She was just perfect for me, but she turned out to be a lesbian and we stayed friends, so it was really hard to move on. But just hearing this message from you, this guy who I look up to that’s an inspiration for so many teenage dudes all over the world, has lifted a huge weight from my shoulders. This video connected with me so deeply, as do so many of your videos, so I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you do and how much it’s meant to me. Love you bro 🫶✌️
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
I’m so glad this video has this impact on you bro. I know how good it feels to be told that it’s ok to be “crazy” about a girl. It’s completely normal. That’s an experience in life you’ll look back on in a few years and you will be so grateful of the lessons you’ve learned. Keep using this energy as fuel and your future will remain very bright my brother ❤️
@legittaco5899
@legittaco5899 7 месяцев назад
Hey on the bright side you know for a fact that whatever you did wouldn't have mattered one bit. You never have to stress over the "ifs."
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me
@YoshiCh1ef-je6me 7 месяцев назад
A friend of mine had a crush on this girl and asked one of our friends to help him get closer to her. When that happened, our friend, who is pretty much lesbian, was flirting with his crush. I didn't know what was going on at the time, but hearing what that was all about months later made me laugh.
@Hertea
@Hertea 7 месяцев назад
You're an absolute legend man. Really helping this generation and making people realize it's okay to feel a certain way. Mad respect to you.
@FranTheOtherMan
@FranTheOtherMan 18 дней назад
I started freshman year and I know I want to pick up a girl. I can use this video as help. You have also helped me with so much more, like focusing on health, my well-being and removing addictions. Thanks, man, you definitely deserve much more subscribers.
@tjzero2501
@tjzero2501 Месяц назад
What you said, "Maybe it's to fill a void inside yourself." This really hit me. This is very true. Lot of men deal with this void too. Having a desire for a genuine connection made me realize this void is some garbage formed by social media or envy. A desire for a genuine connection is so much more worth it. Use your time and energy to become a better person to others around you and better yourself first rather than worrying. Thank you for this video and God bless you bro.
@harrisonclarke1675
@harrisonclarke1675 7 месяцев назад
I think alot of people who are single have this hollywood idea of them being the knight in shining armour with his princess but ignores the toxicity and paranoia of a relationship. Their are great women out their but the ones i came across makes being single amazing.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
100% bro and it’s the same with social media 🤝
@andrejz8954
@andrejz8954 7 месяцев назад
out there*
@eksentrik2657
@eksentrik2657 7 месяцев назад
This is an extremely powerful video dude, thanks. I also completely agree with your advice as someone who just finished that grueling, long-term, pain and healing process. Every time it’s a new pain and unique situation, but this advice is the best to hear for every single person going through this; whether that person going through it is at fault or not. Doesn’t matter. It really does heal, and quite fast, after the stages of grief and then instead of dwelling on the thoughts of the past, you just have to commit to let go and never give it your energy again. This deserves millions of views.
@legacymeme8746
@legacymeme8746 7 месяцев назад
There's this girl in my class, every trait I want and a lot like me. I was attached, but every time I tried to ask her out something bad happened in my life until I realized its all a bad omen, but even then I was still attached. I needed this, thank you.
@mttrashcan-bg1ro
@mttrashcan-bg1ro 7 месяцев назад
I'm 23 and while a lot of this information to me isn't necessarily new, and some of these situations aren't really that scary anymore, this video still helped. Very insightful, and very genuine. You're a smart dude, keep doing what you're doing. You have many of us inspired.
@catholiccubing
@catholiccubing 7 месяцев назад
DUDE!!! I have been watching your videos for a while now and I have been talking to this girl and last night she said “I love you” I followed all of your advice and I found a awesome wholesome girl. Thanks for all you do.
@snipermonke21
@snipermonke21 7 месяцев назад
yo jak just watching ur videos helped me through alot. used to be pretty insecure thinking abt shit that wasnt relevant but now i just focus on life. stopped using social media n shiit and it really helped quite a bit. Thank you.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
You should be immensely proud of yourself bro, keep doing you 👊❤️
@snipermonke21
@snipermonke21 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott same 4 U. im proud of where Im at rn. thank you so much
@ANTI_UTTP_FOR_REAL
@ANTI_UTTP_FOR_REAL 7 месяцев назад
Bros out here giving motivation to us every day ❤
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
That’s my job bro, much love ❤️
@richardsonfive5248
@richardsonfive5248 7 месяцев назад
you are like the most populer youtuber that I seen who still would reply to comments, mad respect
@daniel-su2xm
@daniel-su2xm 6 месяцев назад
Guys stay focus on the goal, we might have obstacles that slow us down, but NOT stop us.
@jaydenmontes7458
@jaydenmontes7458 7 месяцев назад
I just want to thank you because you have helped me through very difficult times through those times i was just scrolling through RU-vid shorts and I came across your video and you really gave me the inspiration to do better and to get my life together
@YamiiSekaiYT
@YamiiSekaiYT 7 месяцев назад
This video is totally on spot. You do not see much content creators talk like this where they exactly hit the nail when you're lonely and want a gf. When you talked about how we want a gf just to fill that void of loneliness instead of a real connection, that really hit me deep and i could totally relate to that point. Keep making content like this bro , this video really cleared my mind of loneliness today. God bless you ❤
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for your words my brother, much love 🫶
@emanuelemenna4623
@emanuelemenna4623 7 месяцев назад
if you want a gf stop watching anime
@YamiiSekaiYT
@YamiiSekaiYT 7 месяцев назад
@@emanuelemenna4623 anime has nothing to do with getting into relationships. I'm sure there are many people who watch anime and they're in a relationship
@IMresvill
@IMresvill 7 месяцев назад
Always great when jack uploads
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
My man ❤️
@JohnKenng
@JohnKenng 4 месяца назад
Fantastic content! CrushAnyGirl e-book is like a beacon of hope for insecure Americans navigating to find a gf. It's wisdom is truly invaluable
@spyder027
@spyder027 4 месяца назад
This is a bot please don’t listen to it
@rabbitdrink
@rabbitdrink 4 месяца назад
​@@spyder027lmao theres more than one bot posting the exact same thing with almost the exact same number of likes they aint even trying
@vaztro
@vaztro 7 месяцев назад
dont chase, attract.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
That’s it bro 🤝❤️
@jaran9634
@jaran9634 7 месяцев назад
sometimes the chase is a good thing.
@talkingtochapri
@talkingtochapri 7 месяцев назад
That's a feminine trait. Male chase and women attracts and that's biology. Egg don't chase sperm 😂
@vaztro
@vaztro 7 месяцев назад
the only thing to remember is not to get lost in it.
@vladpintilei6204
@vladpintilei6204 7 месяцев назад
@funniboii6985 then you gotta pick yourself up by the balls and approach her bro, by now you probably know what stop she gets off at, just go up to her 5 minutes before the bus reaches that station, and just chat. If she's your age go up to her and be like "do I know you? do you know ______? do you go to ______ school?". Obviously, you're lying, you clearly have no idea who she is, but I find that this is the best way to non awkwardly initiate a relevant conversation with an opportunity to hold it.
@The_EagleBearer_
@The_EagleBearer_ 7 месяцев назад
Am talking to a girl rn, met her last week, literally cannot get her off my mind, helped me a lot thank you, keep on pushing the great message man ❤❤
@matthewknox9753
@matthewknox9753 5 месяцев назад
That focus at 2:33 is a paid actor.
@noamvardi2045
@noamvardi2045 7 месяцев назад
Firstly, thank you so much for being yourself in the video and not someone else. That is the reason that I keep watching you. You will keep rising on subscribers because you are that genuine about who you are and how you feel. That authenticity makes me addicted to your videos and to 100% understand who you are. I loved that you tell that all these videos are for yourself. It is like a diary of how you felt one day and one day you will open it when you feel bad or when you want to remember what you did and what you felt. Good luck in whatever you do and good luck.
@jrlikesmetal
@jrlikesmetal 7 месяцев назад
Bro is saving our generation. ❤
@ALPHA_XTREMEtechnologies
@ALPHA_XTREMEtechnologies 7 месяцев назад
their aint no saving lets be releastic
@jrlikesmetal
@jrlikesmetal 7 месяцев назад
@@ALPHA_XTREMEtechnologies ok
@Loveior
@Loveior 7 месяцев назад
for some not generation @@ALPHA_XTREMEtechnologies
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Doing my best bro, even though I must question my own benefit 👊
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
*beliefs
@Sagitariius
@Sagitariius 5 месяцев назад
Hey man.. Thank you for sharing everything and being so honest. I no longer see myself as weird because of my feelings.
@WittkingFN
@WittkingFN 13 дней назад
7:30 is when it really gets good, amen to that brother 🙏
@gokuintheair5549
@gokuintheair5549 7 месяцев назад
please man, keep smiling in your video, you help me forget her, you make me happy. Much love from a French teen man, thx so much
@LordFriezathemonkeyhater
@LordFriezathemonkeyhater 3 месяца назад
I remember her monkey
@gokuintheair5549
@gokuintheair5549 3 месяца назад
i lied it has been months now and i just can't handle it, she loved me and now she just want my attention. It was the first fcking time a was falling in love in 18 years of existence, she never loved me actually, she just loved my popularity and the feelings that i still have for her. It's the end of highschool for me now so my friends think that it's good because this way i will never have to see her again, and now i have to tell myself that i missed my chance with the girl of my life and i will never know precisely why.
@AliasIsNotAvailable
@AliasIsNotAvailable 3 месяца назад
⁠@@gokuintheair5549I couldn’t possibly tell you what you should be doing, hell I am on the same track as you, we both clicked on this video with different reasons, maybe you are an active watcher or occasional, maybe it just popped up in your recommendations, I don‘t know. Yet we both headed into this with curiosity what to except, if it might help out and what this person could possibly say to actually help. I am as clueless as you on that matter, so listen to this hypocrites advice who probably has barely any experience compared to you: To my understanding it appears to be one sided and honestly this sounds reason enough to cut this relationship off. The fact that you won‘t see here is something, I can attest personally as well, something that will help overtime and it might be just the thing to fill that black hole inside your heart. Realistically speaking, it will reduce in size but it will remain, nights or days were you think about her or your relationship, your mistakes and attempts. Everything will come flooding down on you and if you are not prepared, it will be weigh you down heavily, not that you can prepare properly anyway. But it‘s a beginning, the first step to realizing that what happened, happend and a crucial realization of self acceptance. That being said, hearing or reading these words mean absolutely nothing if you think about it. If it would, fixing your mental health would be an easy task but alas it isn‘t. We can listen and understand logically, and hopefully someday experience and just understand. Good luck going forth, you will need it.
@CFIG23
@CFIG23 7 месяцев назад
this guy has helped me so much bro im obsessed with this girl and have been for a loooong time, and just hearing from someone thats experienced something i am just helps soooo much bro
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
You’re not alone bro, seriously. I want you to realise whatever happens happens for your greater good. If you don’t get her, or if you do, life has much more instilled for you than you may realise ❤️
@keylanoslokj1806
@keylanoslokj1806 7 месяцев назад
It's just teenage hormones. In your 30s and 40s you will be stoic af.
@Fuzzy-gs1lr
@Fuzzy-gs1lr 7 месяцев назад
Wow. I am going through almost the exact situation you described. There’s a girl at school that I have liked for a while, I started talking to her and became friendly with her just to realize she has a boyfriend. I’m trying to let go, and this video helped. Thanks Jak ❤
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Much love brother, remember this is all temporary, your mind won’t cling to this forever ❤️
@silent_anon404
@silent_anon404 7 месяцев назад
I thought I was the only one! We just gotta get more out there bro and meet new people. Best way to move on.
@DaminovXojiakbar
@DaminovXojiakbar 13 дней назад
This is exactly what I am feeling now. Right on the time, straight to the point, especially at such a friendly tone, thanks bro!!
@davidpt
@davidpt 6 месяцев назад
The whole video and what you said is extremely good and quality advice, but the most impressive part of it all is that you're 18. You're just 18, and you've come to a conclusion that took me almost 10 years more than you to figure out. You're doing great man, good job. In this age filled with dangerous men online filling the ears of young men with absolute nonsense, this video was a breath of fresh air.
@SlideFrogShock
@SlideFrogShock 7 месяцев назад
This is the man I'm showing my future kids to
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Wow bro, you don’t know how much that means to me. Honestly ❤️❤️
@P1CKL3_RICK
@P1CKL3_RICK 7 месяцев назад
You can’t learn from him and guide your kids yourself?
@viladocondesantos4074
@viladocondesantos4074 7 месяцев назад
bro, this video appeared in my timeline yesterday, I thought "I might see that later"... completely forgot about it, I couldn't expect this video to be so useful. It really helped me, thanks for exposing your self to help others, I did get to some conclusions by my own but as I said, this video is really helpful. You just got one more sub.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
I’m glad this video had this impact on you bro, thank you for your kind words ❤️
@ShadowDuke14
@ShadowDuke14 7 месяцев назад
Love this message bro, shoutout to you for being so vulnerable and open with everyone who watches your videos. That's the best way to make a difference, and you're doing great.
@stephens4175
@stephens4175 7 месяцев назад
do your own thing, the right ones will come to you, just be yourself and don't worry or overthink..relax
@Notonthelist-u3u
@Notonthelist-u3u 7 месяцев назад
I saw this in my recommended and paused, looked at the video for a bit before clicking on it and I watched it 100% of the way by through and I've looked at it from this perspective and it has helped me now and I genuinely thank you
@GD.WINTER
@GD.WINTER 7 месяцев назад
Currently I'm going through the process of quitting corn and, I must say that since the day I stopped watching the relationships between me and my relatives started being closer, I can focus on things more easily, and my mood has been really good. So my message for any man going through the process of stopping, you got this.
@LordFriezathemonkeyhater
@LordFriezathemonkeyhater 3 месяца назад
Thanks im going through the process too
@Fermin-hw5pd
@Fermin-hw5pd 20 дней назад
Well tell me how you did it, I tried, stopped for a month, but got urges ALL day every day, and nothing about me really improved
@GD.WINTER
@GD.WINTER 19 дней назад
@@Fermin-hw5pd My most effective way was just getting closer to god, recite something everytime you have an urge, ask for forgiveness and ignore the urge, it should go away.
@Reddeaddimesion
@Reddeaddimesion 7 месяцев назад
I’m turning 15 tomorrow and your channel has been the most motivational one I’ve seen. Thanks Jak.
@TheOfficialDoggyBro
@TheOfficialDoggyBro 7 месяцев назад
happy birthday
@lincolnanderson9671
@lincolnanderson9671 7 месяцев назад
Happy b'day bro
@starlight.productions
@starlight.productions 7 месяцев назад
happy birthday!
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
You have a very bright future ahead of you young man, happy birthday ❤️
@Reddeaddimesion
@Reddeaddimesion 7 месяцев назад
Thanks
@Rylxn_otp
@Rylxn_otp 23 дня назад
Theres this one girl in my class who so perfect. Shes the type of girl u just cant look at with any lust, Her eyes look like stars in a clear sky, her eyes shine in the sarkest of places and always has a sparkle to them, her hair as smooth as a calm river and litterally the perfect colour, her skin looks like the sun shining of snow and her voice is so otherworldly, her smile shines with the light of 1000 suns in a good way and shes so nice, she has aheart of pure gold. I loved her now for a year and i feel like were starting to get closer yet a small part in the back of my mind is screaming that im not good enough. A year ago she rejected me so im scared to try again but i genuinely feel like i have a chance but then theres that voice again. "Shes just being nice, ur not good enough for her, shes probably already has a bf" and its infecting my brain like a parasite. I cam shake the feeling that im not good enough for her or that im ugly. This voice has built so many insecurities over the last year, that i domt know what to do anymore. Ive started going to the gym but still nothing has changed. Im starting to think that this tiny little voice might be right. Why would she ever date me.
@TheFakeXdfishy
@TheFakeXdfishy 23 дня назад
Maybe if you put half the effort it took to write up that essay into talking to her, you would get somewhere
@Rylxn_otp
@Rylxn_otp 15 дней назад
@@TheFakeXdfishy I try so hard to talk to her man
@EnvisMavros
@EnvisMavros 6 месяцев назад
Best video I’ve ever watched after coming back from the gym. P.S: you have a beautiful smile brother
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk 7 месяцев назад
PLEASE READ JAK! Jak, I just started crushing on a girl in my class and I really want to be with her. I can tell with the glow in her eyes she has a crush on me, heck one of our mutual friends told me she said she has a crush on me. But as a guy who is going through his final year of IGCSE exams I know I need to become a stronger man. Every single day at school she is always flirting indirectly, the way she smiled when the teacher said we had to share a book together, the way we looks at me while taking to her friends and I see they are taking about me. I really do not want the responsibilities of a girlfriend and I do not think I can handle school and this at the same time. This is the only girl ever in my life who likes me, and I do not want to say no to this relationship. I do not know if I should share all of this on RU-vid, fuck it I do not care. Please tell me what do to, I know what I have to do, but I just want to hear it from you.
@ShadowFireX
@ShadowFireX 7 месяцев назад
I’m not jak but I have a situation close to yours ,there’s this girl that I’ve liked for a year or two and she knows I’ve liked her. Some days she looks at me 10 times a day and sometimes she looks at me twice a day. Girls are confusing man.
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk 7 месяцев назад
@@ShadowFireX don't think that one is she likes me and clearly keeps looking at me all the time.
@daisy-g2w
@daisy-g2w 7 месяцев назад
Im not Jak but if your not ready for a relationship at this point in your life dont get yourself into one bro, it may hurt now not being with her but it would hurt more if you got with her and couldn’t commit to the relationship because of lack of time. If your not ready for it id say focus on yourself and your goals before anything else.
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk
@RaghavGupta-pn9qk 7 месяцев назад
@@daisy-g2w I already asked her on Valentine’s Day and she said it’s best if we stay friends. All that burden I had of asking her to be with me is gone now! So I am very much focused on my goals and when she rejected me I had this burst of motivation that makes me want to become a better man to show her what she is missing out on. Thanks for your advice, tho.
@garrythegaminggoat6931
@garrythegaminggoat6931 19 дней назад
It's a rare oppurnity take it man you'll be so pissed if u missed out
@maskedfrog
@maskedfrog 7 месяцев назад
My favorite quote is “Everything heals with time”
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Can’t be more true 👊
@jetthesweat3863
@jetthesweat3863 7 месяцев назад
Jak, i wanna say that these story time video that always end with a lesson are my favorite, because i can always relate to them. And because of i got the guidance in the that i never got. The second message that she wrote about you're content creation was very true, you are extremely inspirational. Awesome video to watch getting back from school on a Friday. Hope you have a great weekend. Much love ❤❤
@minimav2846
@minimav2846 14 дней назад
every video you make is truly eye opening to me. mad respect.
@boredomKiller9
@boredomKiller9 4 месяца назад
7:57 naah but that clip is WILD
@ForeverCacti
@ForeverCacti 4 месяца назад
Bro was staring at the wall while beating it 😭
@Jack-su7vm
@Jack-su7vm 7 месяцев назад
Jake giving out great advice
@aadi_dorle
@aadi_dorle 7 месяцев назад
Jak*
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Thank you my fellow Jack ❤️
@cozyProgramm5883
@cozyProgramm5883 7 месяцев назад
Today i finnaly convinced myself. She likes another one, and all this time i have been delusional, thinking she likes me. I always thought she was looking at me, turns out she was looking at guy next to me. I don't blame her. I am so ugly that even I wouldn't love myself. This is also why i am so desperate to find girlfriend, to just prove myself wrong, to prove myself i can get girlfriend. But so far i have only been proving myself right. Now I lost all hope, i don't know what to feel anymore. its like nothings left in my feelings its just empty void.
@divochicken2244
@divochicken2244 7 месяцев назад
Bro, time will come. You are not ugly, one day you'll find the girl, who will be YOUR OTHER HALF. Be patient. Same thing happened to me, as I waited too long and thought she likes me. Shit happens to everyone, stay strong!
@Dabestwingman
@Dabestwingman 7 месяцев назад
That hit hard
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
You have two choices my brother, let this girl completely ruin your self esteem and the rest of your life. Or you can use this negativity, hate and rejection as fuel to become the best version of yourself and make her regret not taking you out. These are your two choices, you know which was is best for you, I hope you find the courage to make the right decision ❤️
@SS-Bismarck
@SS-Bismarck 7 месяцев назад
If you are ugly then try to change that. Acne? Eat healthier food. Fat? Cut some weight and workout. Skinny? Gain some muscle. Everyone has the power to be good looking, just some get a headstart
@its_jo5hu472
@its_jo5hu472 7 месяцев назад
I know exactly how it feels and I can tell you that time will fix it. Focus on yourself, better yourself, the way you dress, the way you present yourself etc… Someday somebody will see you and appreciate who you are. ❤
@Nicrackto-wd1tq
@Nicrackto-wd1tq 7 месяцев назад
You know what’s worse: her liking you back but you absolutely fucking it up. True story
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
All you can do is learn from it bro, you never know, the universe may put you in front of another girl that fits you better and you would of learnt from your past not to make the same mistake again. Gotta look on the positive side my brother ❤️
@Homeless_wizard
@Homeless_wizard 2 месяца назад
He feels like that one friend who pulls god tier advice out there ass
@therealodin87
@therealodin87 4 месяца назад
Really wanted this one girl about a year back, I ended up realizing that it didn’t matter as much as I thought it did, and turned my entire life around because I used that want for her as fuel to work harder ❤️
@lubiemuze6368
@lubiemuze6368 4 месяца назад
maybe I dont have girl BECAUSE I AM UGLY BRUH
@kavinraveendran5108
@kavinraveendran5108 7 месяцев назад
My Teenage era ends with this year
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Same bro, assuming 18 is the end of teenage years ❤️
@HYDROCARBON_XD
@HYDROCARBON_XD 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggottnah its 19
@OrthoPlaysMC
@OrthoPlaysMC 7 месяцев назад
You know it’s a good day when this guy uploads
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Haha thank you my brother ❤️
@OrthoPlaysMC
@OrthoPlaysMC 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott any day my brother
@neyademon1021
@neyademon1021 5 месяцев назад
I'm a lady and this helped me a lot LOL! It's truly amazing advice for a lot of people though, I've been feeling lonely lately and sometimes I'm a bit too hard on myself about it. But accepting that the feeling is totally okay while prioritizing yourself is the way to go. Thank you for this reminder!
@tytool2385
@tytool2385 6 месяцев назад
Every time someone asks me:"Do you have a GF?" I say:"No". They say:"Are you in love with someone?" I say:"No but if a friend of mine is in love with me I'll accept".
@matthewmitchell3457
@matthewmitchell3457 2 месяца назад
Holy crap that's so relatable! People are always like "you gotta have standards bro, you can't just go around being in love with whatever girl happens to catch your eye or show a shred of interest in you." And I'm thinking something like "I need to have higher standards? Meaning I need to narrow down my options? Alright, let's see how many girls are available and interested in me right now... zero! So I'm gonna go out on a limb and say I _don't_ need to narrow down my options." **Disclaimer: I definitely do understand it's important to have standards with dating, and I do have standards; it's just that where I am right now there happen to be a whole ton of girls who meet those standards. But none of them are very interested in me, so for now I'm content to not tighten my standards.
@lostaudio
@lostaudio 7 месяцев назад
7:04, no way you actually do the entire subtitle process.... what an effort made!
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Haha thanks bro, I auto generate it at first and then go through and fix some of it since my editing software can’t handle the Aussie accent 😂😂
@lostaudio
@lostaudio 7 месяцев назад
@@JakPiggott 🤣🤣
@jaymashelkar4554
@jaymashelkar4554 Месяц назад
This brother is always there to tell me whatever I'm feeling is normal. I don't feel sick anymore. Thank you for sharing your feelings it really helps me.
@joshyboi3998
@joshyboi3998 28 дней назад
This video so encouraging. It’s encouraging for people like me to know that it’s normal to get attached. As someone with attachment issues, you video is helping me a lot. Thanks for all that you are doing, and keep up the good work Jak
@gavinburt
@gavinburt 7 месяцев назад
Tbh I don't care about relationships no more I want a Job more than anything else
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Different people share different values at different points in their lives bro, there’s no shame in that 🤝❤️
@ReubenImagination
@ReubenImagination 7 месяцев назад
😂 😂 😂 . Bro nearly fell in love 😂
@JebuzzCrust56
@JebuzzCrust56 7 месяцев назад
2:33 “I wasn’t even focussing on that.” *camera immediately unfocuses*
@oshri9913
@oshri9913 6 месяцев назад
i went into this video expecting to mostly disagree but i truly felt relief from the things you said. that video actually helped me bro. thank you.
@owendorman2007
@owendorman2007 7 месяцев назад
I needed this, cuz sometimes when I am talking to girls I know are just friends, I felt so lonely and I would try to fight that feeling, thanks for the vid
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
Don’t worry bro I struggle with the same thing even till this day, it’s normal bro, don’t force yourself out of it when the feeling comes around ❤️
@NerdyProgrammer
@NerdyProgrammer 7 месяцев назад
When I was younger, I saw a photo of Emma Watson in a newspaper, and I was attached for months. Anyway.....Keep doing what you do Jak, you're changing lives.
@JakPiggott
@JakPiggott 7 месяцев назад
That’s an experience you’ve taken a lesson from bro, I’d say 99% of men go through something similar, much love ❤️
@ZottyLuck
@ZottyLuck 7 месяцев назад
im 21 and ive never been on a date, had a girlfriend, or kissed a girl. I get depressed nearly every day about it. i try so hard to work on myself butit doesnt seem to work because i cant stop thinking about what im missing. thank you Jak. this has helped feel a little better. i see a therapist about but i still cry about it. i know crying isnt mature but it matters so much to me to have a real relationship. i dont want to give up but it just seems like no girl ever likes me that way, is attracted to me, or even walks near me. Its makes me feel ugly. I have autism and that could be part of it. people say it'll happen one day but.......will it really? i think what started this was when i asked a friend to ask a girl out for me (never ever do that.) the girl came back and said "if you had asked me out, i wouldve said yes". i dont think i can even talk to girls anymore. i have only one female friend. im sorry for the spam but i wanted to get this out of my chest to someone who understands.
@keylanoslokj1806
@keylanoslokj1806 7 месяцев назад
Women are born with a million dollars in life. (Well from when they hit puberty basically). And after 25, she loses an amount every year as time passes. Men are born with nothing, zero, natha. And they have 3-4 decades to build it. Sooner the better though cause you get to father more children. So women are born with value/looks. Men must make theirs. Otherwise female hypergamy won't care about your emotions. Men are objects of effectiveness, not entitled crybabies
@WesleyL95
@WesleyL95 7 месяцев назад
Just want to say I am also in a very similar space as you. I'm going to be 29 in March and like you have never been on a date, had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I also get depressed about it and thoughts about wanting a relationship but questioning if I am good enough, fun enough, interesting enough to deserve one. Like you, I am trying to improve myself as well, been going to the gym for 2 years now, it feels like some days I'm getting better but at same time I am not. I have this huge pressure that if I don't get a date or something before I turn 30 that I am just unlovable by anyone other than family and friends, which is awesome to have that from family and friends don't get me wrong, but it doesn't remove these feelings I get seeing my friends having relationships and affection with one another and I feel deprived of it and not having that experience yet. like I hope I get a girl to like me enough to want to hold my hand, snuggle with me on the couch and watch a movie together, it DOES NOT have to be sex,, the other forms of affection would be healing my pain... I have tried talking to a few girls, asked friends about girls I been interested and if they are single... all in relationships.... one friend said I should try tinder and I have gotten matches but not a single one has ever responded back... this has all happened in 2023... I am trying but it just feels like a constant roller-coaster of emotions for me... feel like I could keep going about my feelings, but I am going to stop myself for now...
@bro918
@bro918 7 месяцев назад
@@WesleyL95 Same but im 2 years younger than you. I feel the same way. I know Ill have to come to terms with it and just be okay with being alone but its very difficult to push aside that intrinsic need for human intimacy
@cheekibreeki904
@cheekibreeki904 6 месяцев назад
My first relationship experience was at 28 years old... I guess it's now a "late starters club" in this comment section, eh? Then again, that experience is likely to also be my last, judging by how it went.
@co3tzx375
@co3tzx375 5 месяцев назад
@@WesleyL95never even kissed a girl at 29 is crazy. I have never had a girlfriend at 20 but damn man go out with friends and make yourself a goal to atleast kiss a girl. I started putting myself the goal to approach girls and just made out with 3 in 2 days.
@gageplayz1426
@gageplayz1426 6 месяцев назад
I just listened to this video for the 1st time and I was like you know what, I’m going to meditate to it because of the chill vibe and how it related to me right now like everyone else who’s 16 and a guy who has a crush on a girl and so on. And ima meditate to this like every day this video was great and the advice is great too, keep working on yourself and you’re going to know when you’re ready and the time will come when you can have a real connection with the girl you’re mean to be with. Have a blessed day 💯
@johndecarli3406
@johndecarli3406 2 месяца назад
Tbh this did help my mental a good bit, I've been going to therapy just from PTSD and my anxiety going through the roof. I thought getting a girlfriend would help me out but it makes sense to not rush anything, especially since i just got broken up with. Thanks for changing my thoughts on things like this
@giannisakoumpo
@giannisakoumpo 7 месяцев назад
In my opinion girls just distract you from other things you wanna do focusing on girls at such a young age is hard but that’s just my opinion
@ThomasVargas-i9n
@ThomasVargas-i9n 2 месяца назад
Someone said “I’ll do a pushups for every like this comment gets” lemme do a situation for every like this comment gets
@Lauin129
@Lauin129 5 месяцев назад
Yea this video hits soooo hard into my heart i've Been watching you for a long time from time when you got your community with people that get out of porn and nothing hit me harder than this video
@Fokaks
@Fokaks 7 месяцев назад
You just need to wait for HER bro, we all can do it. Also thanks for posting this video, I had a girlfriend 3 months ago, we were in the same class for 8 years, when school was ending we started talking more ane became a couple. We were together for 4 months, and then I had to broke up . I couldn't handle this pain. It felt like I had everything and it disappeared immodiately. I was thinking about her every single time. It was destroying me, now I am also thinking about her, and I want us and our couple to be back. Breaking up just destroyed me. I was, am and will be thinking about her always, if kinda hurts because I see her as loved one, but she sees me as a friend. I still hope that one day we are gonna be together again, but this time forever. I didn't give up. And I hope yall wont give up either.
@zkdragonvn6002
@zkdragonvn6002 6 месяцев назад
You just like me fr😢
@holdenbar
@holdenbar 27 дней назад
What if I have been attracted to a girl for a year now??
@Fiankogaming
@Fiankogaming 26 дней назад
Ask her out for once dude!
@edwardmunoz3398
@edwardmunoz3398 25 дней назад
Ask her out and tell us the results
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