If you're still single and you want a girlfriend, watch this video… 

Someone said, "I'll do a pushup for every like on this comment." That's motivated me. Now I'll do a pullup for every like on this comment.

I’ll do a push up for ever like this comment gets seriously. Edit: at 3k now!

Guys, if you're still single and don't have a girlfriend. Don't worry and start working on yourself.Because everything will come with time, if you're going towards it.

it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden ebook called crushanygirl

It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden. Thanks jak❤️

Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. its called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. And after reading you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days, it guaranteed Highly recommended to read

I got “rejected” sort of yesterday and this definitely helps. I’m so serious when I say this that you are changing lives ❤

She is totally in these comments smirking and we don't know which 1 is her

I know you probably don’t believe it coming from a stranger on the internet but you must trust that she’ll come as long as you keep doing what’s right. I’m sure you’ve learnt so much through your experiences bro, and now you can apply those to your future 🤝❤️

The fact that Jak is willing to share this makes me respect him more

Man this guy is changing lives. I know he changed mine. What a guy man. His age is 18 but his wisdom provides an imagery of him as 50 years old.

Feeling really bummed out right now. Met this girl at my work, she was 19 and I was 18, and almost immediately after we started talking we were inseparable. She began to show a genuine interest in me, waving her hand every time I walked into work and even began going to the back of the building where we worked at during her breaks to hang out with me. I eventually asked for her number and she told me specifically she never gave guys her number but made an exception for me. We talked for the next six months never missing a day. I eventually told her I liked her and she said the same back, but she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends. She had never dated another guy before or let alone been in a relationship. Two days ago she was in a pretty bad mood with something unrelated, but just dropped the news on me she didn’t want anything out of the relationship and thought it would be best if we just ended things. It was very abrupt and sudden and now we aren’t talking or seeing each other anymore.

I have found myself in this situation multiple times during the past 3 years, and for the same reason, I reached my lowest about 1 year ago Everyone kept saying things like "It'll happen" or "don't try to rush it" but I ignored them because I felt like those words weren't of help But then videos like this one started to appear in my fyp and it helped me to understand on a deeper level and now I find myself still seeking for a partner but not feeling lonely I haven't felt this "at peace" with myself for so much that I can't recall, and all thanks to people like you Jak, who spend their time giving mental support to us Thank you a lot, this really helped me

Before loving others you should learn to love yourself - unknown

Jak out here saving lives❤

I was in a similar boat with a girl at school and I asked her to homecoming, but she said she had a boyfriend. Thankfully, from your content and the change my life has seen I was able to gain a lot of positive from it. I easily detached myself because I realized that it is natural. I got a major confidence boost and now I can easily detach when I need to.

This video is such a comfort to me as someone who has attached or at times over attached himself to several girls over the years, only for it not to work out. I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much!

i genuinely wish id have found ur channel way earlier.. trust me, ure really changing people's lives for the best.. i can not express how much uve helped me out in disciplining myself and avoiding distractions and the drastic drop in my watch time since ive started watching u proves it all. videos like urs r the reason why it should be made possible to like a video more than once. u deserve way more for honestly caring.. dont stop please keep going.. thank you!

Honestly even tho most people only watch ur shorts, ur full vids are so so high quality

you are like the most populer youtuber that I seen who still would reply to comments, mad respect

Love this message bro, shoutout to you for being so vulnerable and open with everyone who watches your videos. That's the best way to make a difference, and you're doing great.

We need more people like Jak in the world today, because as the world evolves, things are just going to get WAY worse.

I used to be like this when i was 17-18 years old, but then after i got brutally betrayed i stopped letting that happen, i stopped creating expectations and whenever i caught myself imagining things i quickly snapped myself to reality. I'm 23 today, still no gf, still want one, but at least i don't get fooled or used like i did before, i no longer put myself in a precarious position for someone who doesn't really care about me. I really do hope most young men can find that special someone they want because after a while it does start to get weird, things inside do start to feel...off.

I’m 27 and I absolutely needed to hear this. When you kept saying it’s okay bro and it’s normal, made me emotional because sometimes I’ll be feeling like being attached to certain women is wrong and illogical but then you put into perspective it’s just a human thing to crave love and connection from another human. It feels reassuring. Thank you bro. You’ve earned a new sub too. You may be 18 but you’re wise beyond your years.

You saying it’s normal has helped me a lot. I’ve been stuck on this girl for about a year and a half, and I still can’t get over her. She has about every trait I want in a partner, and the ones she doesn’t have I can live without. She’s definitely not perfect, but she’s everything I need. I talk to her every day and I just can’t seem to let her go. I’ve tried so hard so many times but I can’t. You saying it completely fine for me to feel like this is the push I needed to actually start to detach my self. Thank you.

Fantastic content! CrushAnyGirl ebook is like a beacon of hope for insecure Americans navigating love. Its wisdom is truly invaluable.

There’s this girl that I’ve been interested in for a few years. I never got the confidence to ask her out and now she’s dating someone else. I’ve learned that I should stop mourning and become a better man, somebody she regrets not talking to. Thank you Jak for guiding me through these tough times❤

Thank you so much, Jak. There’s one girl I developed a crush on two years ago, asked her out one year ago, she said no, and I still get depressed about it to this day. She was just perfect for me, but she turned out to be a lesbian and we stayed friends, so it was really hard to move on. But just hearing this message from you, this guy who I look up to that’s an inspiration for so many teenage dudes all over the world, has lifted a huge weight from my shoulders. This video connected with me so deeply, as do so many of your videos, so I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you do and how much it’s meant to me. Love you bro 🫶✌️

Bro, I honestly feel a personal impact from these videos. Coming from a fellow Aussie, thank you so much Jak.

There's this girl in my class, every trait I want and a lot like me. I was attached, but every time I tried to ask her out something bad happened in my life until I realized its all a bad omen, but even then I was still attached. I needed this, thank you.

You make me feel like a lazy 25 year old. But that kind of unapologetic and encouragung love from a complete stranger is too rare these days. Thank you, brother.❤️🤙

about a month ago the same thing happened to me. this girl i thought was perfect and going to be her ended up having a boyfriend, and it helps a lot to see someone else go through the same thing and talk about it. one quote i heard somewhere was 'you were happy before you met her, and you'll be happy again' glad to say im mostly over it and happy again. thank you for your content!

I saw this in my recommended and paused, looked at the video for a bit before clicking on it and I watched it 100% of the way by through and I've looked at it from this perspective and it has helped me now and I genuinely thank you

Am talking to a girl rn, met her last week, literally cannot get her off my mind, helped me a lot thank you, keep on pushing the great message man ❤❤

I think alot of people who are single have this hollywood idea of them being the knight in shining armour with his princess but ignores the toxicity and paranoia of a relationship. Their are great women out their but the ones i came across makes being single amazing.

This is an extremely powerful video dude, thanks. I also completely agree with your advice as someone who just finished that grueling, long-term, pain and healing process. Every time it’s a new pain and unique situation, but this advice is the best to hear for every single person going through this; whether that person going through it is at fault or not. Doesn’t matter. It really does heal, and quite fast, after the stages of grief and then instead of dwelling on the thoughts of the past, you just have to commit to let go and never give it your energy again. This deserves millions of views.

Fantastic content! CrushAnyGirl e-book is like a beacon of hope for insecure Americans navigating to find a gf. It's wisdom is truly invaluable

I'm 23 and while a lot of this information to me isn't necessarily new, and some of these situations aren't really that scary anymore, this video still helped. Very insightful, and very genuine. You're a smart dude, keep doing what you're doing. You have many of us inspired.

please man, keep smiling in your video, you help me forget her, you make me happy. Much love from a French teen man, thx so much

You're an absolute legend man. Really helping this generation and making people realize it's okay to feel a certain way. Mad respect to you.

Seriously bro you’re changing lives. I feel the exact way you’ve explained about wanting a girlfriend because I feel lonely but now I realise that it is ok and I can use that energy to focus on myself. Thank you Jak, you’re a legend 🙌

Man I just love how real you are in all your vids and not afraid to casually talk about some more "embarrassing" things. I'm still super attached to my ex and I think the message "let go" will definitely help me.

Hey Jak, 23yo here. This is the word of advice i needed today, so thank you for that. Keep it up. I also realte to the feeling of having to give advice to oneself, i keep a journal app and use it to remind myself of these things from time to time.

Firstly, thank you so much for being yourself in the video and not someone else. That is the reason that I keep watching you. You will keep rising on subscribers because you are that genuine about who you are and how you feel. That authenticity makes me addicted to your videos and to 100% understand who you are. I loved that you tell that all these videos are for yourself. It is like a diary of how you felt one day and one day you will open it when you feel bad or when you want to remember what you did and what you felt. Good luck in whatever you do and good luck.

yo jak just watching ur videos helped me through alot. used to be pretty insecure thinking abt shit that wasnt relevant but now i just focus on life. stopped using social media n shiit and it really helped quite a bit. Thank you.

Went through something similar with a girl around Christmas and my birthday, we talked for a bit then she ghosted me completely. This helped me finally decide to fully move on. Thank you Jak

Hey man.. Thank you for sharing everything and being so honest. I no longer see myself as weird because of my feelings.

dont chase, attract.

Bros out here giving motivation to us every day ❤

thanks man. your videos hit hard but in the best way possible. you’re the only self improvement channel that i trust.

DUDE!!! I have been watching your videos for a while now and I have been talking to this girl and last night she said “I love you” I followed all of your advice and I found a awesome wholesome girl. Thanks for all you do.

this guy has helped me so much bro im obsessed with this girl and have been for a loooong time, and just hearing from someone thats experienced something i am just helps soooo much bro

This is the man I'm showing my future kids to

I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one , I'm glad I stumbled across your RU-vid channel

this helps a lot man. Thank you jak. I recently got broken up with and made a video about it and put on my channel to get some advice and help, but this video really helped. Thanks man, you keep helping people cause you’re great at it. I can definitely tell that you are going to get really huge someday

I just want to thank you because you have helped me through very difficult times through those times i was just scrolling through RU-vid shorts and I came across your video and you really gave me the inspiration to do better and to get my life together

Jak, i wanna say that these story time video that always end with a lesson are my favorite, because i can always relate to them. And because of i got the guidance in the that i never got. The second message that she wrote about you're content creation was very true, you are extremely inspirational. Awesome video to watch getting back from school on a Friday. Hope you have a great weekend. Much love ❤❤

Thank you for existing!!! I am trying to focus on myself but there was always that one girl that got into the way ... When i heard you saying its all normal and i just need to let her go you helped me put her out of the way of my self improvement ... Once again thank you , you helped me a lot

this has genuinely opened my eyes. i have constantly searched for love and in that search i was bettering myself but when i finally did find someone i stopped

Always great when jack uploads

bro, this video appeared in my timeline yesterday, I thought "I might see that later"... completely forgot about it, I couldn't expect this video to be so useful. It really helped me, thanks for exposing your self to help others, I did get to some conclusions by my own but as I said, this video is really helpful. You just got one more sub.

My FYP really sent me something I didn't expect to be Soo interested in. So I actually will say Thank You for passing this message cause I felt this, and needed this. Keep up the good work👍🏽

Thanks. Got me at the right time. Keep this up please, thanks

This video is totally on spot. You do not see much content creators talk like this where they exactly hit the nail when you're lonely and want a gf. When you talked about how we want a gf just to fill that void of loneliness instead of a real connection, that really hit me deep and i could totally relate to that point. Keep making content like this bro , this video really cleared my mind of loneliness today. God bless you ❤

Currently I'm going through the process of quitting corn and, I must say that since the day I stopped watching the relationships between me and my relatives started being closer, I can focus on things more easily, and my mood has been really good. So my message for any man going through the process of stopping, you got this.

Man, first half of this video was tough to get through but the message you put out at the end is actually a really good one. Even though I feel like I'm way past the stories you told (I did some of that too, but a while ago), it's still a nice reminder and I think its valuable advice that applies to other areas in life too.

This man spitting facts🔥🔥 Hope everyone watching this video changes their mindset and adapts this dude’s message

My favorite quote is “Everything heals with time”

Bro is saving our generation. ❤

Man I know you most likely won’t see this but this helped a ton. It really is as you described a backpack being lifted off your shoulders by just knowing everyone is going through this. I’m going to put in the work and focus my energy into becoming a better self. Again this helped a ton thank you.

istg bro most genuine youtuber i've seen...deserves subscribing

Wow. I am going through almost the exact situation you described. There’s a girl at school that I have liked for a while, I started talking to her and became friendly with her just to realize she has a boyfriend. I’m trying to let go, and this video helped. Thanks Jak ❤

Best video I’ve ever watched after coming back from the gym. P.S: you have a beautiful smile brother

You are really changing lives man keep it up!

jak, this is the first video i have ever seen of your channel. i am impressed by how mature you are and how you get straight to the point. i am 14, and i thought i liked this girl at school, but because you told us exactly what we have to hear, i stopped thinking about her, and got even more inspired to develop healthy habits because that is what i want, not what others want. thank you for this precious message :)

I’m turning 15 tomorrow and your channel has been the most motivational one I’ve seen. Thanks Jak.

I don't think the timing could have been better. Recently I've been talking to an aquaintance as of recently and I usually don't have the problem of getting crushes but this girl has been on my mind almost non-stop, but given the place I am in life, I know that it's not my time to date anyone seriously. It's just hard becuase I know the feelings I have shouldn't happen and I have to square with that. But I'll be ok. Becuase I've always been ok. Its what I do. I carry on. Just typing it out makes me feel so much better. Thanks y'all. Love and Peace to all of you.

That's a pretty good realization you had my guy. Good luck on your journey cause, I bet you're just getting started!

I saw this a little while ago, but seeing it again was helpful. A needed reminder indeed.

I am attached to someone and i use this energy to become the best i can if i wouldnt start watching u then when i got attached i would just be so desired… so yea i wouldnt ***use*** that energy. So… thanks for the support ur changing a lot of lives including mine ❤

Every time someone asks me:"Do you have a GF?" I say:"No". They say:"Are you in love with someone?" I say:"No but if a friend of mine is in love with me I'll accept".

I’ve really began working on myself recently. I took a gap semester to recharge and now I’m back in college and I even got a gym membership. I am gonna drop this weight and finish my education. I am very proud of myself and actually less depressed for it. I love your message and you’ve earned a new subscriber.

I'm glad that there are still young people who are very mature. It's very rare. This is the only video I watched from your channel, but I can tell that you try to grow and influence other men into growing. Life is short, and I think it's important that we grow, learn from our mistakes and live our lives to the fullest. I hope you keep up what you are doing. Cause I believe you are really helping

You know it’s a good day when this guy uploads

youtube recommended knows me too much at this point

I've been going through a break up right now ,it's been 2 months and this video really lifted something heavy from my shoulder. Thanks a lot for helping

Bro takes the hook out, and at the end of the vid acknowledges that its been lifted. Thanks man. Thanks a lot.

You know what’s worse: her liking you back but you absolutely fucking it up. True story

I don't use social media, so I just went directly to her and confessed. It's been scary so far, but I love every bit of it

this is the best channel ive ever seen that talks about this kinda stuff trust me if you are one of those guys pls use these vids they are emotional but very very helpful

i went into this video expecting to mostly disagree but i truly felt relief from the things you said. that video actually helped me bro. thank you.

Jake giving out great advice

7:04, no way you actually do the entire subtitle process.... what an effort made!

That's the single most helpful thing I've heard about dating in my nearly 21 years of existence. Thank you Jak

I’m new to your channel, i love that you are honest and feel free to share your thought. I have girlfriend:) for almost a year now. I know the feelings of being single, it stuck inside my head for a long time, I want to feel love or having someone to care for:). Being single isn’t bad, you can wait for the right person, meanwhile you can work on yourself and other stuff. Now that I hav a gf, I feel proud of myself because I work on myself becoming a great person + I hav a caring girl. If you are single...it’s time to work😎 sooner or later someone will see the true person that you are and love you the way you want. Strive to be the best of you❤️

I’ll do a push up for every like this comment gets!

My Teenage era ends with this year

I just listened to this video for the 1st time and I was like you know what, I’m going to meditate to it because of the chill vibe and how it related to me right now like everyone else who’s 16 and a guy who has a crush on a girl and so on. And ima meditate to this like every day this video was great and the advice is great too, keep working on yourself and you’re going to know when you’re ready and the time will come when you can have a real connection with the girl you’re mean to be with. Have a blessed day 💯

Your give some truly life changing advice I’m sure there will be so many people who actually find this video helpful to them and I just want to say thank you for this I’m sure you will have a big effect and will continue to

Brother, just hear me out. I had the EXACTLY same situation as you 2-3 months ago with a girl, she had basically all the traits possible with minor inconveniences but I was hooked. I was having the best ever conversations with this girl, no matter the place and she was also interested in having a conversation with me. By just pure coincidence, I met her during the holiday and we both continued on the tradition on going from house to house in the whole village. The conversation was going very well like everytime, but then we touch a more sensitive subject (at least for me) and that is the relationship status or just relationships. She tells me after that she has a boyfriend for already 5 months and then, in the back of my mind, I've just realised that from her perspective, I was just one of her good friends to hang out with or chat and nothing more. Thanks to this all the rest of days left from the holidays vacation were shit. Just shit. I couldn't focus, I couldn't control myself sometimes and I fell deep into a depression. Then I've met your channel. Your first video that I have, I remember even now, was the one called "If you are 13 to 18 years old, please watch this" and I was like "Ok, why not?" I am grateful that I have watched that video because that motivated me to do more, to idk watch more motivational shit. Thanks to you I now succesfully quitted porn and I got a new record of semen retention of 10 days, which I couldn't believe I would ever get. Now I am trying to go for a full month, no matter the urges nor the previous fail, I am continuing no matter what. Ok, I am deviating a little from the subject. Now I have gotten over that girl completely in around 2 months of time, consisting in depression and self Improvement, and I just found another one that has exactly all the traits possible. Unlike the other girl that I was hooked to, I know in the back of my mind that she isn't fake or using other for her own benefits, and it is a real enjoyment to talk to her. Now, again, hear me out, I know I may be a little less than 17 and she is 18 (I think) but believe me when I say that I have never met a girl like her before, and I really mean it, she is a real rare one, like 1 in a billion. Where I live, all the girls are the real jerks of the society and they use other men like me for their benefits or to get attention. These girls are simply bitches, and more and more are following this path as the time passes itself. Again, I know I may be not fully ready for this and I am SCARED. I am gonna be honest I am fucking scared my guy. I am trying my HARDEST to become a better person, whilst trying to be the best version of myself when this girl comes around. She is also pretty hooked I think, and this time, I promise, I know that she is also single because I, myself, asked her and she was honest. Maybe this is a whole ass book for you to read, but the only thing that I want from you is to at least try and understand this message from me and advice me on how to put my energy levels on the right path, this is the only thing that I want right now. Again, I don't have a porn addiction, or fapping addiction anymore, I am constantly improving myself and all of this thanks to you and your advices, thank you! Please advice me on what to do next cause I don't really fucking know Edit: She was a bitch, I made a mistake