How to Argue the Right Way in a Relationship - Relationship Advice for Women 

Glad this video could help you Cynthia

Relationship coachs will only help ur relationship so far because reality is only the ‘ladies’ are watching this stuff self help stuff whereas your husbands and bf are’nt and will most likely continue being a jerk or pain in the ass cause he’s does’nt see any issue. Your basically turning more into a door mat.

You apologized? Why? You shouldn't have done that.

I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other. I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other. I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone. I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do. I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?

Any other resources or suggestions ?

icysnow57 cold sounds like you just need to meet a healthy straight couple

@@TimTamSlam7 Men and women are wired differently from each other and women produce a lot oxytocin than men do. Here's a quote I found on the internet about men's brains may not being wired for much connection: "A 2014 study found that males had stronger neural connections in the parts of the brain responsible for perception and action, while females had better connectivity along the neural pathways linking analytics to intuition - two areas used heavily in interpersonal connection. Before this study, differences in these kinds of neural pathways had never been highlighted among such a large sample size (949 individuals)." Here's another quote: "So why are men and women different in the way they make friends? One hypothesis is the difference between the male and female brain. Typically, women tend to have a larger deep limbic system than their male counterparts. The limbic system is a network of nerves in the brain connected to instinct and mood. The limbic system controls basic emotions such as happiness and fear. Because this system tends to be larger in women, females are more in touch with their feelings and have an increased ability to connect individually with others." So because of women being more emotional and more affectionate than men are, and are able to connect a lot better with other women than they do with men or men with men, that would mean that men and women are not very compatible with each other.

These are fantastic points and I personally find many of them to be true in my life. I believe this is evidence of how important it is to have a diverse community of support. I believe it also demonstrates just how important respect is in any relationship, but especially romantic. Men and women are very different and sometimes in conflicting ways, but more often than not I that we are different in complementary ways… were one has weaknesses the other may carry a strength. By slowly down and recognizing the good and benefits we can have complimentary and mutually beneficial and fulfilling relationship. It’s when we expect our partner to be everything that we fail ourselves and them.

Calm down and say you need space and come back when their emotions are less tense.

That's my struggle too. And when I explain my original intent for the accused words/actions it only gets worse. How have you learned to manage or work with this on your end?

@@seanbrownsociety its not easy

@@seanbrownsociety I’ve been in the exact same spot. Not agreeing with my partners perception of my actions then wanting to explain my side so he could understand. But where I’ve gone wrong is needing my explanation to be right so much so that I don’t even consider his feelings and perspective. Then it makes it seem like I care more about being right than I do about him and how he feels. I think it’s best to always apologize if you hurt the other and save your explanation for another time in the future.

@@KhetasarLove well said! Thank you. That's 100% what's happening. It's not easy, but yes, save the explanation for the future.

Wow I’m just like her :(

@@fu9473 Don’t be. It’s incredibly toxic and damaging to anyone you treat that way. I hope the video helped

Toxic

horrible mentality..

mdyiya same

You have all the women hating... ur off to a good start.

lolz

Congrats, so are you! :)

She is hot in the but :)

So happy to have you here!! XO

Lol

Lol

Good luck! Arguing takes too much emotional energy id rather avoid it or do sparingly if it cant be avoided x

Thank you for watching!

Same here bro when I disagree with my wife and I express that I disagree with her she flips it and says I don't understand her. That is a huge problem we have I'm trying to make her realize that I understand her argument I just don't agree with it. This video did help I have to love her more than want to be right

It really thrills me to see a beautiful and adorable woman like you with such an amazing smile iam Ibrahim from egypt and i admire for your comment and photo, i would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend

I'd rather you be the Narcissist!

Ik this is late but what’s your situation?

Thats actually a great topic! Thank you I will put it on the list of discussions xx

Good news..Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back.

Text him on wha'txpp.

___+:2:3:4::70::53::93::88::33.....

You are too sweet Leah

The Ladies Coach thank you so much for your awesome advice! New subbie!

Yay! So happy to have you!

......

@Duded Duded Yeah I get that part but I don't feel the video give you much information on better communication in relationship with people altogether, partner, family and friends, all need good communication.

jimbobthedog it’s called the ladies coach

@@massilovesmj lmbooooo

@@massilovesmj anyone can get something out of her videos regardless of the name

Only men would come to a channel called Ladies Coach and try to make it all about them 🙄

Not much I can do about my voice but thank you for watching! There are so many phenomenal teachers out there, hope you find one that relates to you! XO

Literally, it's the only comments she even responds to. Yet still somehow, all these judgmental pricks aren't even aware of the rise you're getting out of the you-tuber.

@@Theladiescoach I think you sound VERY professional and I really appreciate your video!

Rude!