Do this, instead of staying upset after a fight. 

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I can say one thing for sure ...everyone who saw this video and searched it ...def cared about their relationships genuinely ...thats is for sure ...cz no one would search how to solve problem bout relationship until n unless they care about it a lot ....stay positive yall hope yall get along with ur partners and stay happy for ur life 💖✨

He is absolutely right. Everyone makes mistakes. Learn to forgive and forget. But the problem is too hurtful make sure to bring to his or her notice. So they don't do that thing again.

Staying upset with patner who loves u truly. Works out....becoz he will notice the difference and clear the prblm.. so dont get too much upset with wrong person it may lead to depression.... which is dangerous ...

Just the video I needed to watch today

Now a days, relationship lacks love and have high expectations. If there are too many fights and less good moments, then think again you won't get this life again and you didn't come on earth to fight with this person. Try to see bigger picture, then being caught up in little things. See what is important, your relationship or your ego/ fight. In nutshell, if there is Love, then you will find a way. For Love, you need to have emotional connection with this person. Love = Respect = Communication ( no abusive words ofcourse, good respectful communication without trying to showing ur partner down)

If someone doesn't want to communicate then can't pressurise..This pandemic is not right time to fight and making communication gap.....But if someone doesn't want to understand this basic..We are helpless...may God help him and bless him with good health with prosperity

Long term Block of communication creates negativity...So dont break communication ... Thanks

*Pain is Inevitable... Suffering is purely our Choice...🤷*

SIRRRR PEOPLE STAY UPSET BECAUSE THEY ARE HURT. AND THEY NEED TIME TO HEAL.. THEY NEED TIME TO TOLERATE THAT PERSONS BEHAVIOR

Sadly but not everyone has that level of understanding.. No matter you protest Or you die... They have their set pattern of living life keeping the other at the worst.. Disturbed, distracted and what not? 🙏

Completely agree with you!!!❤master level skills😄😄

When I stay upset for a valid reason,he blames for staying upset and spoiling his mood making me guilty,then I forget my own feelings and prioritize him and getting hurt again,any ideas to safeguard myself?

It's so practical and goal-oriented.Basically,its my natural way of protest,or I learned from life at some point, the tagline of the video gets my attention because I have to ensure it is the best way.Iam glad that I watched this.It was really helpful.

How to handle ego and attitude issues where both the partners have it in abundance & everytime it leads to furious fights???? Please come up with a video on this topic.

Thanks Sir, its uncanny ,but this is exactly what i needed right now ..God bless you ! Thank you.🙏

All of this will nly work... If the other person really understands this concept. Sometimes by being engaged people will take you for granted still...thinking oh it's all okay

Sir whenever I do this goal oriented protest he eventually forgets that anything has happened and behaves everything has fine and gone back to normal

This makes me curious to know about Shridhar's love life. Even before starting an argument he must be like "I know I know what's in your stomach".This guy knows it all 😂.

I feel like a lot of the housewife are in silent protests forever. It's a personal view.

Very very clear and logical approach!!!

Hav done it all. Been upset nd also been upset for long. But it hardly affects them for more than a mnt. He hardly cares. Inspight of clear nd calm conversation s

I am so lucky to see this video నేను స్వయంగా face చేసాను situation చివరగా మీరు చెప్పిన విషయాలు అలాగే నేను సాధించాను మీరు చెప్పింది వింటున్న పుడు అనిపిస్తుంది నేను కూడా బాగా నే ఆలోచించగలను అని 🤝

Extremely helpful for bringing clarity and showing a way out of a conflict! 👌 Big fan of your videos 👍

Thanks.. Its the middle of the night and i was just exhausted thinking about how i can get rid of this vicious cycle....

I needed this 2 years ago

Thank you for this important advice 🙏

You're right sir, I'm tired of her same temper everytime she makes me upset without any reason

When both r upset for long time then???

Sometimes people stay upset because they are hurt. If things were said that’s ere very hurtful it can feel like you have been gut punched. Even if you talk it through it can take a little while to heal.

I don't know, me and hubby can't stay upset with each other for more than 5 minutes. We try to directly make our point and follow 'let's agree to disagree' mantra. Before you ask, we have been together for 18 years.

First part of it was so funny coz I realise that it was me who he was talking about 😂

What will comes after this all only one person suffer the other is comforting in this whole situation .. If you cut down luxuries they will find it from somewhere else n you r making of fool to yourself for a long run n at the end accept where it will starts means no or not … what an approach 👏👏 Nobody is affected by this bec everything going through with only one person other is free from all

I've never commented in any of the videos I watch in youtube except this channel ! Yes , of course it's very very helpful for many ...it's actually an higher level of thinking which u actually discuss here . True it's just classy sir 👍🏻!

Superb technique... helps a lot to maintain healthy environment... But it needs lot of practice... yea..👍.. Thanks for making the video..

Really....u rVery intelligent man 🙏

It's ture and the same thing is happening with me now. My husbands sister constructed a house she invited only my husband leaving me. I didn't feel bad for that but my husband forced me to come for the house ceremony by pulling my hand and harassing me badly. Later he dropped me at my mom's house and quietly vacated our house as per his moms ideas. And filed a divorce in the court that my wife left me alone.

I tried all this long back. He rathar enjoys it that everything is working and he don't really need to put any efforts

Well said..👏👏👏

I found this video to be 1000 times more helpful than sadhguru. No rambling. Just answers

I am sorry I do not agree to your approach, cause eventually it leads to being taken for granted forever. One needs to stand up for their respect and honour.

Very beautiful.. And practical.. Approach.. When to avoid.. When to wait till the concern is addressed...

I can't upset more than a minute.

Excellent inspite...loads of respect and likes. Thumbs up mate.

He gets mad out of nowhere, stays silent for days and never apologizes. It gets me angry, I stay away, and my feelings change for the long run.

What should we do when our partner is not fullfilling our expectations but expecting from us

word by word, this is exactly what he does. i keep trying to change things for the better between us but more fights would come up recently. and now he has me blocked saying he'll come back once he thinks im okay or done fixing myself

Yes I agree and trying to protest peaceful.

5:00 solution starts here

Some scenarios mentioned here..might help ppl get ideas -How to stay upset... When it's so enjoyable..the respective partner who is enjoying definitely has already planned an "alternative" to walk away from the partner who's ruined already by the so easily mentioned "punishment"

Really useful info, I never had such a good relationship advice like this, this is really going to help me, thnx a lot

Indeed I know I shouldnt apologize when it's not my mistake... Unfortunately I'm damn insecured.... 😫

Excellent stuff here!

Your videos make good difference in my life thank you sir

This works for soft hearted person not hard core man

I born to be happy..

Thank you very much Sir.. You hav Explained a Very important piece of matter in an ongoing relationship.. facing issues..

This is awesome

When he's cold like ice he wont understand any of these things

Thanks buddy really need this at this time Thank u so much

Wow you are good thank you for this now I understand what’s going on with how I’m feeling

Thank you for sharing however, the only perspective you have taken is a relationship between a couple. Other relationships also have challenges which caused one to become upset. It should have been a generic approach on what to do when you are upset

This video is very useful and convincing . Thank you Sir.

Ah yes, a fight. Something that happens to couples who have been together, who know each other, and who disagree on normal things. Something that is irrelevant to a person harassing every person in your life, and they haven’t even met you once.

Thanks a lot ! For giving life points to sustain a better relationship

I do this whenever it requires...and it works

Ap kitne samajhdaar ho 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Really made me think in a new way. Thank you!

Very good advice. Thank you for your wise suggestions.

He hurts me everytime . And he was changed so much and I CNT even be without him for a single day ..I should be down to him everytime

Thank you. Really helpful.

The suggestion is mature but inapplicable for relationships which deserve no further communication because that's been enough n fortunately several partners creating the anxiety n pain are darn intelligent, knows exactly what he/she is doing, in such case few instances of conversation n some patience is required to keep the relationship or the fake relationship until no change at the partner's part shows with the willingness to grow the relationship, and time comes to love urself, ur self worth more than anything else..... Who's loss? Laugh silently and walk out without a word.... You deserve better, even ur singlehood is better than this .... All the best people, learn to love urself unless u have a baby with the other person n he/she is a good father/mother .... Sacrifice makes sense then for the kid to be raised with affection of both patents

This video is really very helpfull to me thanku

Examples please - one solid example will convey this even better!

I am not sure what he means by protesting with your partner. But the concept well presented that when get upset communicate why and what you want. Don’t get upset and keep it for your self. Sometimes, you your self don’t know why you are upset

Superb surely it will work out

My husband only listens to me after a dose of the silent treatment. It's my only option. It took me thirty years to figure out.

Very much informative and helpful...thankfully i found your channel...😇

Hahh this scenario only my husband follows ... but it happened in each week for silly matters

Hope your videos will reach to all couples.Its really a professional approach to sort out the things.

Wonderful sir 🙏

Everything you said is sooo true, i’ve been married 52 years😳😳😳😳🤣🤣but what you said helped me a lot, you think by now i would know that, thanks for the great video.

Aree...waaa...u nailed it ...exactly...

This is a great video and I’m totally able to relate to it , but what if it’s too late

This is incredible video!!

Excellent thank you

Thank God ab muje ye sab sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai.... Single mast life jaa rahi hai... ❤

I used to do the same.I was being insulted in front of my husband by my in laws and he used to stay silent which made me angrier with him and I used to give him silent treatments just to make him realise about his acts but soon I realised why do I need him to stop them for my insults (That was my expectation from him).I started taking stand for myself.I am much happier now.

Very true, shridhar 👍

I would much rather be left alone than upset!

Thank you

Do you provide any sort of internships, if yes, I'd like to enroll myself!

Am staying silent nearly a year and more

It's 7 years now that he gave me silent treatment including his family, I gave up n filed for divorce, 7 years is quite a long time, even Gandhi ji wouldn't had been able to bear such silence of 7 years.

U r awesome 🙌

What if your husband break stuff and show his unnecessary anger instead of listening and being a bit understanding abt the scenario if you talk abt your problem with him just to have a solution? What should one do in this case ?

Thank you 🙏

Even if I try to be vunerable by communication he won't get it like if I say something that is hurting me he is always like "ofc it's my mistake all the time" in a rude tone . One time I said to him that after coming home from such a long day talk to me instead of using Instagram I had been waiting for him for such a long time to talk . The things he said just shattered my heart he said something like "If u want to find tiny tiny reasons to get angry and argue" "I don't want to calm u down" . It doesn't matter how I tell him either being vunerable or by getting angry I have tried both ways he is too immature to handle it and considering my feelings n he says"i love u a lot".😅 i don't know what to do everytime its bad but not bad enough to leave. So i refrain from communication because ik all m i getting is more hurt n disappointment.

Do videos about being single cuz some of us don't have boyfriends or husbands

But they never change.