How to Ask Good Questions - A Guideline to Better Conversations

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Do you struggle with asking good questions? Wish you could ask better questions to keep the conversation going? Join Dr. Grace's program at masteryinsights.com/application and develop your communication skills through executive coaching.
Answering questions correctly makes you sound smart. However, asking good questions is genius!
Then what makes a good question?
It is the goal of seeking novel information which you can apply to create a desirable outcome for yourself and for others.
Dr. Grace Lee mentors professionals and executives to elevate their positions in life and in their career through communications and executive coaching.
Discussions are essential in the workplace. In this video, you will receive the best practical guide on how to ask better questions to hold a conversation.
Get examples of certain situations where you can apply specific questions.
After watching the full video, share with us a powerful question that you would want to ask based on what you learned today.
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@PuerinTheHunter Год назад

What are my key takeaways: A good question is a query seeking novel information towards a particular objective. It is better to: - start with genuine curiosity and a desire to learn - map out my knowledge to gain clarity of what I already know and where the boundaries of my knowledge are Check the conversation goal: is it altruistic/cooperative? - start with open-ended questions to build trust and rapport If the conversation goal tends toward narcissism/competition, ask more direct/closed-loop questions Other takeaways: - ask lesser sensitive questions before moving onto more sensitive ones - ask follow-up questions to gain deeper insights and understanding - reframe questions to approach a topic from a different angle - you can use reverse psychology (assuming the pessimistic side) to frame questions for more formulative responses - avoid asking leading/biased questions - avoid the interrogation experience by paying attention to the cadence and continuity of questions, be mindful of tonality and casualness (no rapid firing, keep follow-up questions and smooth transitions, keep casual) - give the person an out and freedom to change their answer anytime Diverse teams will require different communication styles/skills. We need practice and may need a communication coach.

@DrGraceLee Год назад

This is amazing, Joseph. I appreciate you!

@leizlabian7098 11 месяцев назад

"Being able to answer questions is smart, being able to come up with a question is genius because questions are your answers" - Awesome!😍😍 very inspiring 😊

@kwang6522 2 года назад

Many thanks to Dr. Grace Lee, very helpful. Good questions are to seek novel information towards specific objective. Knowledge is power, asking good questions demonstrates superpower 1.Approach with genuine curiosity Map out your knowledge, the more you know, the more you realize that you don’t know. When you know that you don’t know, you will develop your genuine curiosity. 2.Analyze the conversational goal (altruism to narcism) Start with least sensitive question: open questions, close questions, reverse psychology questions 3.Avoid interrogation experience: cadence/ rhythm, continuity/follow-up, casualness

@jasper1105 10 месяцев назад

Dr. Grace Lee, I'm a fan of your videos. There was an experience where I have given an uncomfortable situation to my supervisor simply because, "I don't trust that the person has my best interest". Instead of making him understand the impact of his actions towards me that makes me not trust him, I went straight telling him that I don't trust him and then proceeded mentioning the events. This has put us both on an awkward situation and I'm guilty of starting the conversation on the wrong foot. I should have watched my cadence, my tone, and should have focused more on altruistic questions to drive my point. That way, I could have discovered some of his answers and views about the events that I have a bad experience with and we could have worked towards a better outcome. Your videos helps me understand what I can still improve. You were able to articulate it very well. Thank you very much.

@AVKBA 4 месяца назад

Dr.Grace Being Business analysis practitioner at workplace asking right questions to a identified stakeholders requires skill. This V log will facilitate that. Thank you very much Dr.Grace.

@naushadhasan8767 Год назад

Every time I watch your video I become more confident. Thank you Dr. Grace for this excellent tutorial.

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I’m delighted to hear that you become more confident every time you watch my video. That’s awesome, Naushad!

@victoreous626 Год назад

Questions are the GATEWAY to CRITICAL THINKING. Knowing what to ask is the KEY that unlocks the gateway/door. Study to show yourself approved in your area of expertise/PROfession that you might ask "Germaine" questions.

@henningsenp 2 года назад

What resonated with me were the three tips for behaviors to watch for to avoid interrogation! And the big tip I had forgotten about is to give them an out!! At the beginning! As a coach and home visitor we have to ask many sensitive questions and offering an out is so important! Also, starting with the less sensitive question and moving toward the most sensitive. You have so much to offer Dr. Grace. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. And "questions are your answers". So true.

@joshuapitong899 2 года назад

Asking question is always a starting to point to gain more knowledge.🥰 Thanks.Dr. Grace as always.❤

@jazzjes7753 2 года назад

Great advice, i need reminding, thanks so much 🌻🙏

@w0bblyd0inkb0ink 11 месяцев назад

There’s a lot of value in this video when one is really listening, thank you.

@user-co9bw5qx9r 9 месяцев назад

You're a good adviser thank you so much

@RaviSharma-zq1lx 8 месяцев назад

I was actually planning to ask a church member a few straight questions while watching this video. You helped me to modify my questions for better relationships. Thank you.

@RaviSharma-zq1lx 8 месяцев назад

Thank you. You are generous.

@napstergdl 11 месяцев назад

Thanks for this video!

@alicewooten8548 2 года назад

Very helpful

@amanmagar2117 2 месяца назад

Mam this was a really helpful vedio I have gained lot of knowledge now i need d to practice them.thnk u Dr Garce...your personal profile is also very enriching a neuroscient ,a public speaker leadership coach,wow,a whole lot of other achievements , lot to learn from you

@tommy2chips 2 года назад

I am saving this video

@Hsinkuang 2 года назад

Great topic ! What question we should ask during a business networking event ?

@rl6476 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing valuable tips on how to communicate better. Your time, insights, experience, and expertise on these subjects are precious and appreciated. 🙏👍

@DrGraceLee 2 года назад

I appreciate you, too! Welcome to my channel.

@JuliaGulia470 4 месяца назад

Your videos saved my life:)

@gianlucacrosatti4226 Год назад

Thank you Dr. Grace! The next week I will have on Monday three job interviews, certainly I will keep in mind how to make great questions in order to achieve a better result. A better result to me in this situation means, to get the job I think to be the better fit as soon as possible.

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I'm rooting for you, Gianluca!

@danielbizimana5264 Год назад

I am going to start asking better follow up questions. This video is one ill rewatch! Great content

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I appreciate your comment, Daniel. Asking better follow up questions is a great way to improve your communication skills and show your interest and curiosity. It can also help you build rapport and trust with others. I hope the tips I shared can help you in your next conversation.

@williamnicholson1596 Год назад

I’m gonna call this video also how to ask proper and relevant questions.

@JenKumar 2 года назад

Do you have insight into how to feel comfortable about getting a chance to speak up in meetings when others are talking, I’m not in the agenda or no one calls on me? I have a lot to say but I’m too afraid of interrupting people. Thanks.

@MonkeyBadAssFist Год назад

Dr Grace please see this comment above.

@totochanel2251 Год назад

Just be brave and when there is a pause, say “I have a question “

@isabell9473 Год назад

And how did you resolve it?

@jamesang8735 Год назад

For me, i say "umm.." while raising my hand slightly, or say a few words of the question and if interrupted, ill resect and be quiet to listen. This is good enough indication that you have a question and usually they will come back and ask, "hey, do you want to say something earlier?" works everytime for me.

@mingyao9981 Год назад

@@MonkeyBadAssFist❤

@sirishaayyagari6882 Год назад

This is really an excellent sharing

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I appreciate it, Sirisha!

@luliwei 10 месяцев назад

訂閱了，影片做得很用心，值得學習。

@DrGraceLee 10 месяцев назад

I appreciate the support. Welcome to my channel!

@yukkuankwie7446 Год назад

Approach with genuine curiosity - Mind map to figure out what I don’t know

@tdeveycabilao6826 Год назад

You deserve more views!

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I appreciate you, Tdevey. Welcome to my channel!

@ahokai 8 месяцев назад

thank you for helping me ensure myself that I am stupid

@phd_angel4192 6 месяцев назад

I like asking highly sensitive questions... :-)

@ayhandiker9167 Месяц назад

Great

@theodoraquaidoo768 2 года назад

I seem to muffle my voice subconsciously when it comes to talking in general to people that aren’t in my inner circle because I’m introverted and shy. How do I work on that?

@kathyzimmer3 Год назад

Continuity of question goal of conversation

@joycejourney40 2 года назад

🙏🙏🙏

@johntran7432 Год назад

She has lots of common sense and wisdom.

@DrGraceLee Год назад

I appreciate you, John.

@johntran7432 Год назад

@@DrGraceLee students at universities should definitely need to watch your videos. There are lots of useful materials to learn. If you haven’t reached out to universities, I would definitely try reach out to them, if I were you. it was hard to find useful contents like this 20 years ago when I was in college. After working as a professional for so long and watching your contents I am like uh huh she is right on:)

@joysun364 Год назад

This is even more important in the age of AI.

@lfc7805 11 месяцев назад

👍

@craighofmeyr5059 2 месяца назад

Knowing the desired outcome will determine the path of your questions.

@TableTennis-Man 11 месяцев назад

I have problem answering questions that i know...

@razuakzuak7533 11 месяцев назад

Like they say "Question is the new answer"

@DrGraceLee 10 месяцев назад

💯!

@ParisianStreets 2 года назад

my key takeaway was casualness of questions. one ceo got mad at me saying i'm friendly not respectful. what can i say to maintain a healthy balance and keep a good relationship so that i am perceived as I intend to. Thanks.

@totochanel2251 Год назад

Good question

@madaevans6142 7 месяцев назад

A.E.

@dailylife8901 Год назад

你很漂亮

@edgaryzen4925 11 месяцев назад

Idk. I have doubt on this content being influential for someone likes me who hungry to learn and ask questions (late bloomer millennial gen worker here) See below: Every day when I go to my desk job I can’t comfortably ask any questions. It has to be the right kinds ie quality and productive for them to the experts DESPITE them saying “let me know if you have any question.” Well I do, a LOT and the fact that I kept getting unwanted unhelpful answers from them are hurting my confidence to succeed not at work but in life and I know this is the truth because I learned that these experts at work only want to hear quality productive questions. Not quick question, simple relevant question and such..like they don’t have time to help others grow these days (like they’re only looking out for themselves) and such casual simple informal questions of mine are a way for me to gain confidence in my knowledge skill abilities and characteristics. Overall. I’m not convinced that this video benefit anyone in my shoes.