How To Attract My Ex Back - Long Distance Relationship (LDR) 

This was the exact video I needed for today! Omg I'm going to take that as a sign

In 2016 I was in an long distance relationship that lasted in 2017, I did no contact and she reached out on 2018. I went to visit her in chile for the first time in may 2019. By the way I will graduate from university in 2020 in december. I really want to see her again because we built this inseparable bond between us. I will follow your guidance with this priceless information.

I was dating someone long distance and I didn't feel it was right. I ended it and hurt her. I saw here a few days ago and told her I think I made a mistake. She wanted to kiss to see how she felt. We did, but she wasn't feeling much. We had such a good time together though. I didn't one what to do and I don't want to tell her I still love her. I'll start with asking about her life and go from there. Thanks for this!!!

We were in a great space and he suddenly broke up. We are still talking but he says he doesn’t want to get back together because of the issues we had in the past, and said he needed time to think about getting back together or not. I know he still loves me, but the issue now is we are long distance and quarantined 😢

I will try your advices :c it was 4 years together :’(

My ex doesn't want to see me or talk to me still it hurts alot I miss her so much man things ain't been the same

I have a long distance relationship but communication skills was our problem

I wish I could know this channel early 🤗 it's really fantastic

We broke up 2 months ago. He chased me but I turned him down but when I realize now that I still love him. I chased him for like 1 month and he knows that I am suicidal that made him more distant. I always begged him to comeback. I can't communicate with him since he blocked me but I can communicate with his mom and he reads everything. They said he is seeing someone else a neighbor and he has a contact with his ex. I still want him back and I don't know what to do anymore since he said he doesn't love me anymore 😭

Even though we only live 15 minutes away from each other but it surely feels long distance. After he told me he's going to really buckle down on work and his daughter, he's liked a few photos on fb and left a comment but we haven't spoken since. That was about 2 and 1/2 weeks ago now. I'm assuming I should stick w/ No Contact as before he suddenly told me that we were in the "getting back" stage..everything had been light, fun and awesome as I have been taking all advice from Love Advice TV....truly felt like we were on the cusp...as the romance was there.... then boom, he backed off and dropped the "only going to concentrate on work and the kid" line. His only relationship that he saved himself for failed miserably.....and he wasn't the same since.... Think his excuse to suddenly want to concentrate on work & his young daughter is due to fear? If he's afraid of love and getting committed again/a relationship, what can I do?

He said he didn’t want me to come to his country without his permission or I’d be disrespecting him. He asked for time and space without heavy conversation and no phone calls, but he said I could still message him if the content was light. I don’t know what he meant still and by the sound he wants me to chase but he doesn’t really want me back.

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Lke yr advice vry much,, it has moulded many in their day 2days' life, may God blss

this video is so good and helpful,

Hello! These videos are amazing, thank you for the advice. My ex broke up with me about a week ago. It was a 1 year 7 month relationship (long distance for one year). It started with ghosting and he gave me closure days after. In the closure call, he gave me many excuses- I am not ready for a relationship, You are not in my heart only my head and he said maybe when i asked if we can work in the future. After finalizing, he said we have to go our separate ways, he blocked me on insta and facebook after I was trying to convince him and beg. His parents also blocked me. He archived the instagram pictures of us and before the breakup, he was talking about our future together. So, I am very confused and I don't know what to do. Is it really over? Should I move on or still keep hope?

Hi, I have some questions here.. I chatted with my ex again couple days ago. After 2 months not hearing each other.. and when we talk in the phone, he told me everything he also told me that he have another new girlfriend. But same like me, long-distance relationship. When he says he want to tell me everything I felt sad. and he said he just don't want to lie to me. What should I do after we chatted again now? Looking forward your response..

My ex just recently broke up with me (LDR officially for 2 months but been together for around 4 months but very strong Bond seh even talked about marrying me and wanting Kids from me) saying she would not see a future with me bc of me being too egoistic and disrespectful towards her and her family. She said I haven't really listened to her... But İMO thats not right. At that time she was going through a difficult time like having lots of exams in school etc plus her mom had a major surgery. At that time I was really supportive and didnt ask for much. But one night I wrote her a long text complaining about the situation and saying that im not a priority for her like she is for me (i think i was needy at that time). That was the point our rs started to break apart. In our last phone call she told me that she would still like to meet me when I was in her city. But she also added it would be a normal meet up. So we agreed that I would call her als soon as I arrived. Additionaly I told her a certain Date but I had to come a week earlier. So I posted it on IG and WhatsApp but didnt call her and she contacted me with an Attitude. I waited a day and asked her what the issue was. She Said sth like: Nothing you're just ridiculous. So my question is should I go in no contact now. And should I have met up with her even though she was still pissed and angry towards me? The meetup would have been like a week after the breakup so I thought I wouldnt be a good Idea. After that she deleted my number. What do you Guys think about the situation? Note: The LD would have ended in 3 months bc I will start studying in her city. Other than that our breakup was fairly normal wo any fights etc. But she still has anger towards me as if I was a enemy

She broke up with me because of the distance and we couldn't do anything physical, any ideas on what I could do to get her back that isn't going over to her because I can't right now, she says if I was there we could still be together, any advice?

Coach, I have done the 30 days no contact and reestablished communication with my ex LDR already. He was very receptive and responsive to my contact and we even made plans to meet again (at our favorite spot), but when the time came to meet he said he was feeling a bit under the weather and the Covid 19 quarantine made his excuse more valid. BUT, I do see that about 65% of the time.. I'm the one initiating the contact, this is regarding texts. He doesn't actually call to talk by voice except for one time, unless I have planned a phone call or dialed him myself which is the majority of times. After a while I started feeling like he wasn't really invested, he seems distracted with other things. I think you are right about keeping a positive connection but I also don't want to be the fool who is mostly the one making plans happen. I am also the female in the relationship, at the very least he should be meeting me half way. Not sure how to proceed. P.S. I have kept conversations light and fun.

But look if I go in her town and I appear, what I do if she doesn't respond good? I feel that's a harresment.

I needed this thank you so much. I never know what's right to say to him. I do want him back so badly. I wont be able to see him for at least a year. But this can be a start. How can I make him trust me again. I had cheated during our relationship and that is why u had broken up with him.

My situation is a bit different so i was with me ex for 12 years she broke up with me we have a 3 year old. I moved to oregon and she is in cali for a bit all we did was argue and argue because i kept begging her and pleading but now i decided to just talk to her kool and relax. Just start as being there for her as friends. She says she dont love anymore only sees me as a friend and recently she tokd me she was in another relationship but he broke her because he already had a gf that was pregnant and she reached out to me and we have been talking as friends for the last 2-3 days.... i guess my question is ...is it possible for two exes to fall in love all over again by just starting off as friends again?

It's been 2 months of no contact btw us.i had call several times but no reply had come from his side. I just want to talk with him once.

I made a huge mistake, I had a one-night stand because I was drunk and a little frustrated. I am very regretful, I told him and one month later he broke up with me coz he could not trust me anymore. I do really love him. I want to meet him soon, I am very sorry. He just broke up with me 1 day ago. I am thinking to give him time to really forgive me but I want to know how much time should I wait. I really want to be with him, I consider him a good and the kindest person, I messed up, but I really want him back. Help me what can I do to get him back?

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Dear love advice tv Hi coach Natalie and guys and girls out there I really need your help. My ex is the one who broke up with me and I did the no contact rule. Ive been doing it for 10 days only. The reason is she messaged me. ( I know that I am not supposed to respond during contact ) but the reason I responded was because she was seeking comfort. She was really emotionlly unstable, she said that she's very tired and etc. So there I replied. I tried being polite and kept motivating her. ( so we're kinda friends now) but I found the reason why she was talking to me. The reason is because she found someone a few days after we broke up. She said she needed someone to hold on to thats why she did that. But the guy was just not into her at all. Now she told me that the guy broke her heart. And I was at awe because how could she do that and tell me all those things like nothing happened to us. She is really talking me like we're hardcore friends. So theres me I did not argue I just went with the flow. I tried asking her if we can fix our relationship. All she said is I dont want to be in a relationshio where I'm not happy. ( i am so confused ) because she really is acting like nothing really happened. I know it's real and she's not doing that to make me jealous. I feel like she's only using me as a backdrop so whenever things dont work out for her she can always run back to me.

Me & my bf is not talking anymore for a month we had a huge arguement, he ignores my calls my texts.. But he didnt block me on his messenger and on facebook.. What should i do?

If they blocked you on social media, how can they see what I’m doing. I’m not blocked on phone but I was ignored when I tried to reach out and I just started NC right away.

My boyfriend he didn't call me even he send me message... I missed him so much.. Can u belp me please

In the beginning of the break up my ex was really angry and said he just wanted to be friends did he mean it? Now we talk almost every night still but I can tell he’s still hurt and angry he still loves me he tells me a lot . Is he just telling me he loves me just so I don’t cry? And it gets harder to talk to him he doesn’t want to open up about things why?

So that should be during No contact? or After no contact?

Thanks for your video

Me and my ldr ex boyfriend broke up 7 months ago. Hes still with someone, We dated for 2 and half years and broke up because He said He doesnt want to get married. and last month He told me He got Engaged. I don’t know if He still telling the truth? I remember He told me He doesn’t trust girls in the Military but Hes dating with a military girl now. Hes 3 exes are filipino (including me) and now Hes dating Hispanic. I don’t think Hes really getting married. I don’t know I’m still hoping. Is it possible that He is lying?

My boyfriend is very confused because of his ex. After 1 week no contact i finally asked him.. And he said that his not good... What will i do to build again the love

My ex girlfriend broke up with me 2 moths ago, I begged alot the first 2 weeks after the break up, and told her I needed to delete her on all my sociale media if I should move on. Now 6 weeks later Im thinkting about following her on Instagram again? Is that a good Idea, or will i look needy? Please make a video about this 🤞

I want you to help me,what I can do to bring my ex back because I love my ex so much.my ex hurt me because of my behavior and I don't know what to do so that my ex can forgive me

Its a good long distance relationship is im in Hungary and she lives in Poland it can possibly meet each other?

Also its possible that he just loves me but he’s not in love with me , how can I get him to fall in love with me again? But he did say he would be willing to go to counseling with me, is that a good sign?

My ex is an Italian and I am a Filipina. We were very happy. He went here just to meet me. Now, after a few months he said he was not happy about our relationship because its routinal. I ask him if he has somebody else, he denied it. But admit that he has a friend still a long distance and a Filipina too. Can I get him back? he responds to my messages but not like before. Im so sad about this because i love him. 😔

I am in a no contact with my ldr ex gf we are not talking since last one month... And her birthday is coming what shall do?? I wanna wish her on her birthday but i think she wont reply me

Me and my ex was dating for 2 in the half years i have been in no contact for 2wks because our last interaction we had she was accusing me of something i didnt do and she was angry about the past we broke up april and have been having on and off communication and no my relationship wasnt long distance

My ldr gf just broke up with me on our monthsary, she claimed that she was to overwhelmed and suffocating. Her schedule was conflicting and she couldnt do it anymore, she even threaten to block me if i tried to sway her again.

Hey coach, just a quick question. I called her last friday which is almost a week ago and asked her out. She said she doesn't know cause she's not allowed atm to go out (her parents don't want her to atm). She told me she would ask them if she can and that she would text or call me back about it later this week. She has not texted or called at all. What do i do? Wait and let her take the initiative or text her again?

I only live 10-15 minutes from him, but I don't know how to meet him face to face. We live local to each other, but he's now with a gold-digger (who lied to get us to break up) and she keeps him busy and tied up doing things for her or working overtime to make her more money. We've been NC for about a year, although he's checked my social media a couple of times. His dad died during that time, so I doubt he's been thinking about me much. She was there to comfort him instead of me, took my job, wormed her way into the company I was helping him to build, and now lives with him, so I feel like she's done everything to push me out of his mind completely. We had so much in common, basically twins, but I couldn't keep up with the gold-digger's lies and manipulation, so I couldn't defend myself until it was too late. She didn't even want him and asked me to help her cheat afterwards. But unlike us, she isn't interested in hard work and wants to leech off his money. I've tried to give up and move on, met loads of other guys over the last year, worked on my (separate) company, reached out to friends, family, took up new hobbies, did everything I could to rebuild my life. I thought I could just find someone like him if I talked to enough guys, but no one has been even half a match. He ticked literally every single box on my list and we would have done some amazing things together. It hurts more a year later than it did at the start, as the longer I am NC the more I realise just what I've lost. I feel as though I'm going through the pain of losing him all over again and this time it's even worse as I know I can't just replace him and he clearly isn't interested in getting back in touch. How do I 'bleach' my brain so I can forget I ever met him? I was ok with settling before I met him. I never experienced deep love for someone in the first 33 years of my life and thought what I had with other guys in the past had been 'love'. I want to go back to that naivety. I'm nearly 40 now and don't want to spend the rest of my life chasing love and failing to get it. I want to go back to being fine with settling and just living an ok life with someone. Can you do a video on how to forget?

Hi coach ,he htill loves me he broke up with me bcz of his family (intercast ) he still saying i cant without you i want you to share my life with you but he if afraid of his family to commit marriage they didnt accept me bcz of intercast ,what i have to do to commit marriage please suggest me

Thank you for the informative advice,I have a long distance relationship,later on I found that he slowly changed,and time came that he admit that he is dating someone close to him,and he ended our relationship...what should I do to win him back?

My ex boyfriend just blocked me on he’s WhatsApp. What I should do?

So in LDR there shouldn’t be no contact?

Hello, ok so lets say the relationship ended after 2 years due to some reasons, you both have not met yet (almost... but didnt due to breakup), but she wants to connect and she has been initiating contact since breakup. I didnt get to do NC, and so you both still texting, she still video calls me. She asks for a friendship, I rejected, but I still respond to her, hot and cold. Because we are not together anymore and I dont want her to friendzone me. But what if halfway through, she met someone? This is what I am afraid of. What is your advice?

I've been in LDR for 5 years, but she broke up with me 4 months ago. She has reached out after 3 months, asking for her things to get it back. I told her that we can meet up, see eachother and I'll get these with me. She said it's not good idea and she just want me to mall it to her. I said I won't be bothered to send it and if she wants these things so bad she can pick it up personally. She didn't answered, back to NC.

Thanks bro

Hey coach, so I was in a LDR for a month and 26 days. He had left me for another girl. Few weeks after the breakup, I moved to another place. I reached out to him once before the no contact phase. Then last month I did the 30 days of no contact. I reached out to him 1st time after no contact and ended it short. He was curious about my social life and I told him that I am doing well. Been going out and stuff. He kept asking me whether I was avoiding him on purpose or not and I reply to that saying I was pretty busy. I text him back after 30 mins or 1 hr so that I don't seem like I'm acting needy or desperate. I reached out to him only for reasons. I texted him today too. He said that he doesn't know what is going on around him anymore. My question is should I let him deal with his feelings first and then text him? Should I wait for him to text me? What should I do? Pls advice

We can't talk 4 days im here in Philippines now and he is in USA

And if neither are on social media? Feels impossible:/

,I am in a ldr in 2 months our communication is pretty good. We had a lot of plans in future then one day I was shocked he blocked me. Then I message him the site that we meet then he answered me there telling me he had cancer and his dying..then I send a lot of messages but till now no reply. I really don't understand why he did these to me. Pls give me an advice..thank you

Hi! I have been watching your videos for quite sometime I find them very help . plzz help me out I'm in along distance relationship for 9mths.since last 2mths my boyfriend is avoiding me . before we use to chat alot but now he least bother to even msg me 1 msg a day we had alot af issues plzzz help me out how can I reach you and find answers from you

What about if your ex is your kids mother so theres always a constant seeing her

My ldr are deep connected we are like cat and rat.

My ex does not read my messages...if she reads ,she reads it after a week or two and she never comments on it .

Hello. Me and my boyfriend were on a ldr for 2 years and we met every 1-3 months. Due to coronavirus we haven’t met for 6 months and he slowly started acting weird and he told me he doesn’t feel the same way anymore and he doesn’t see a future,because we are both in a phase on our lives that we need to focus on our careers. We met in person and he broke up with me about 2 months ago. I started no contact but then its birthday came and i made a mistake and said that i miss him and other stuff and he said that its difficult for him too but he doesn’t want to fix anything right now. What do i do now?

Hello Alex, We have some kind of communication with my ex girlfriend, but she never initiate. She moved to India, but now she plan to stay there longer. We talked for a while, but now, she is gone silent again. she answer my text, but generally dont initiate... what should I do ? thank you for all the amazing video!

My ex gf is still talking to me like normal, but she said that she doesn't want us to be back and that she doesn't love me anymore, but still she's contacting me what should I do to win her back? 😢😢😢😔

Sir alex how about my LDR chatmate,i ask only about the pic if he has 5 childrens and his wife. Suddenly he get angry.what do u think sir alex why he easly get mad. Because he said he is unmarried person.

Hey Coach Alex im on Long distance relationship im living in Asia and my ex is living in UK .He's helping me financially on my study at the last part year of my degree .But i finish my study he's breakinh up with me ... and i dont know what im going to do ..and then after 1 month we had a conversation and he want me to go with him in his vacation in other country ..but i dont know what do he is not sweet and expressing or showing his love at me .at all .plz give me some advice thank you and more power.

What to do if we had 1,5 contact and during contact he told me later he have a girlfriend (I know that 3 months ago). After I know that I do no contact only I send by app happy Eid and he replied on that. Later he liked a post of my on social media. ????? Please help me

She talk to me always ,she also say love you and all, but she told her friend that ,she is with me because i can't handle heart break. And she told to me that that i love you ,if i don't feel anything then i will go from your life. I am confused right now , i should listen to her friend or i should listen to her????? Please tell me

It’s been over a year already and nothing from her. Blocked on everything still. Pretty sure she has someone new. Working on myself but I don’t think she is coming back after this point.. :(

How does this work if your ex is ignoring you or not talking and you have no open communication platforms

What's a good excuse to meet him?

Bro my gf broke with me almost 3 times.....now she ...is transferred to another city and...before moving to another city she broke with me..... because of no hope in future....as we belong to different caste ...and she is now with someone else....and i can't control my feelings about her....in this lockdown....i can't meet her....now.... How could i get her back! I lost almost every hope

Thank you for this video it helps me a lot...because I'm in LDR but after 3 half,I decide to make a space because I feel he change a lot of his attitude...💔💔💔am I Right my decision???

I need help in this case I broke up with my boyfriend bcuz he stopped giving me communication nd took me for granted I broke up with him but now he still texts me like we never broke up idk how to stop him from doing that so he could miss me nd change :/

Were almost 8yrs but she dump me bcouse she said she connot see our future, shes not happy any more and she doesant love me any more were almost 3month wen she dump me what will i do

My ex is always promising to meet but never comes and when it comes time to meet he makes up excuses why

Help me please...Should I need to book a session? Read the gist Though we know each other for 6year, we had a short relationship of a year almost...but a perfect from every aspect... She is 6years younger than me... One month she said she wants to break the relation without any reason... But I used to talk to her... Though it hurt me a lot... After three weeks she agreed and we were together for another two months... and it was perfect too... But in these two months she slowly generated feelings for another boy of her class by just chatting with him daily(addiction probably)...she started to give excuses for again a break up...I tried to convince, plead,begged and she started to demean me and my actions of trying to get every information of what she is doing with that new boy... our family was so in favour of our relationship that they sensed something bad happening and with her changed and rude attitude in home led her mother contact me as only I can understand her behaviour or she only used to listen to my suggestions that also from the very begining i.e. from 6years back... and I told her mother everything and she was against the new boy so tried to stop her...stopped her chatting with the new boy,stopped her meeting the new boy at any time of the day, though I said her mother not to do so... she even charged her with some personal questions of us what I shared with her mother with trust and her mother by letting her know that I told the secrets to her mother made me bad before her... Don't know but this series of incidents made me appear as villain before her... She just now get the chance to meet the new boy in and after class...and they do so with passion... I guess this incidents made them stronger too... But it broke me,hurt me... I always have done everything for her...left my research opportunities,abroad opportunities after getting gold medal from university just for her... I melted all my desires just to complete her desires... Can't think my life without her... I had to broke my no contact in 7days as it was an emergency for her...Help me please...

My ex lives in a another continent and the only reason I went to his country and he came to mine was to meet each other so I don't know how could we meet 'casually' if that takes logistics

My ex-girlfriend and i are in a Long Distance Relationship,broke up with me cuz she said she lost her feelings for me...jumped into another relationship with a guy on Discord / Whatsapp,and she asked me if we can still be friends..and i agreed cuz i dont wanna forgot her WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Thks for the video but how do this with no contact?

First of all he is my Ex. So obviously we don't have a relationship. I'm in no Contact. He hasn't talk to me since last December.

My ex says she can't feel romantically anymore for me probably coz she has started talking to someone else.. She keeps saying we will be great as friends.. What should be done in such a case?

im so hurt right now 6 years together then just now he said he found somebody else

My ex isn't answering my calls after she getting done over the distance a month back ... Even tho we had a fabulous bond when together she'll be coming back only after the whole quarantine getting done that's in Aug how am I supposed to go about with things at the moment

I feel so heartbroken right now.

My ex girlfriend said I will never lose her but she left me first and she never comes back I miss her and I love her well sometimes she asked me so much time about money and she become aggressive with me with nonsense she lied to me maybe she wanted to destroy my life!

Not sure but is there any point getting back with my ex if she going overseas for six months with the person she cheated on me with as “friends”. ??

looking for a reason....

I planned to go in his place just to knew what our status.. Is that a good idea or i have to wait

How about when they are in a rebound relationship

How to conect if ur LDR And she rebound to her co worker

#UrgentHelp I really need help how to contact with u I'm from bangladesh . I need solution

My ex is getting scared of his parents how to make him come back but he really loves me but wants to be my friend cuzz of his parents he is scared

How to contact someone who is 2 hours away and has no social media accounts to track them?

My LDR ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago... But he has been nothing but kind to me! So badly wants to be friends, respected that I needed space, contacted me when someone told him to because they were worried about me, and was very respectful when I told him a few days ago that we can't be friends, tho he really wants to. I'm not sure if no contact is/was the right thing to do! I have a couching session booked for Wednesday but my emotions are getting the best of me. Please help!

Long distance while they are in a rebound? it has been 8 months and they keep having issues and getting back together.

He blocked me already

I love my LDR! He just disappeared! I am so heartbroken! I’m devastated! 💔😭! I don’t know how to contact him? He’s in London. I think that could be a li, too! I know he’s probably married. He got me for$35,000! I’m an idiot, I know. 1 and 1/2 year!

hey coach Alex My ex gf broken up last 3 months ago... I chased her and begged her around 15 days... after that I started no contact .... in between NC I saw my ex blocked me on Facebook then later she unblocked too ... after completing NC first I done with message to reach her... she talked me of 2-3 text and then she started ignoring my text later I disappeared for 10-15 days and once again i texted her and apologized my mistake over text to her .... and finally she said she dont want to be in relastionship with me .... and blocked me on fb .... and i noticed yesterday once again she unblocked me on fb...... am not able to understand why she behaving like this .... blocking and unblocking, ignoring my text and all please help me please coach Alex

How about no contact? xd

I had 4 yrs ldr relationship im waisted my time for him

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