@@kingtv9910 how’s it going so far? Did you accept them right away? I hear you gotta act like you’re good and that it doesn’t matter if you got back together
Hope things are going well for the two of you now❤️ I have a question, did you feel like you may lose them forever during the NC? I've been blocked for a week now by them, and it's very unusual to get blocked for this long. I got blocked several times before but they reached out to me every single time within a few days. They also told me that they are talking to a new better person now, so I'm afraid I might just lose them forever if I didn't break the NC and reached out to them
my mindset has changed completely. and it's been about 3 months of no contact. I don't care what she does anymore, she's not mine. and boy is she missing out, I'm going to the gym 6 times a week and am seeing insane results. i do things for ME now. not for her, but for ME. it is a freeing feeling, to feel free. i remember watching these videos thinking "I can't live without her, I'll never be the same." well yeah, I'm not the same, I'm an improved version of myself.
Indeed. Insane how tables get turned right. Life is too short being stuck on one person who left you. We should wish that person happiness and move on.
Same here man reaching that 3 month mark after begging and pleading at the beginning of the break up, I’ve been hitting the gym hard and seeing improvements boosts confidence, and recently this week my ex started showing up to the gym I go to out of the blue and I have noticed her staring and seeing the change but I just focus on my work out and it just gives me more fuel to keep pushing harder so do the same give them something to miss and stay strong 💪🏽
It’s been 3 months for me too and I feel like slowly slowly I feel better but I still miss him so bad. I don’t understand what’s with the radio silencer from the dumper after 4 years, like bitch did I ever mean anything to you?!
1. Understand the location 2. Give them the breakup 3. Dont jump back into dating 4. Focus on a passion/ interest 5. Be receptive but reserved + agree with them
It worked! He was 100% in the relief stage for the first 4 weeks. DONT BREAK NO CONTACT. Let it/them do their thing for a bit. Take the time to focus on yourself and learn from the relationship you already had so you don't make the same mistakes moving forward. Thanks Coach Lee!!!
The part that scares me is that I am positive that she is in a rebound relationship. The scary part is that we were each other’s rebound relationship and it worked!
Well we're still together 6 months later :-) We've both learned a lot more about communication and the opposite sex. It's helped a lot having had that space to miss each other.
They always come back. 3 months NC, and two failed rebounds he emailed me asking to talk. He Said he couldn’t stop thinking and comparing me to all the others and pushed the feelings away only for them to constantly come back up. I didn’t take him back though :) politely told him I was moved on but wished him all the best of luck. He was a good person, but truthfully him breaking up with me was such a blessing. I didn’t realize how my attachment for him was based off of the wrong things. He had a lot of qualities I loved but breaking up and hopping around to other woman made it impossible for me to ever open up to him in that way again. My advice to those hurting...hang in there ❤️
Beautiful. I had my 10 yrs relationship, i was ghosted. No contact for almost 4yrs and just recently, he sent a message on my social media that he misses me and our past. I replied politely and said i understand and i wish him well. After a few days he blocked me again. ☺
He contacted me last night after 4 weeks of NC. I wouldn’t go see him. I’ve watched enough of your videos to realize he’s a narcissist and only wanted sex. So I didn’t jump. You’re my best friend and don’t even know it. Lol thanks Lee
i am at day 29 of no contact and meanwhile discovered my ex of 7 years is very likely to be a covert narc. Thank God the way NC is going, I think im going to be ah-ok if he ever reaches out. Or even if he does not. I feel ya, sis
I was with my my girl for almost 6 years , never in those six years I have disrespected her, hit her, yield at her, make her feel worthless, curse at her , never came home drunk , I don’t smoke , always took her with me every where I went, had a really great relationship with her family, it’s been about 3 weeks with no contact but listening to this videos gives me strength and hope she will come back and we can improve as a couple .
I know of a manl who can bring back] your ex within 2days without Daley He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 💯💯.
You are a king, imagine loving your interest/passions and self like that. You will always have yourself! Let people earn your love & respect by reciprocating at the same level.
@@strategos7340 yes bro , it’s funny that you ask because my ex just hit me up Sunday night that she wants to meet up this Thursday and honestly I’m a little nervous it’s been 4 months that we don’t see each other so I’m starting to feel that anxiety right now 🙂
I actually did this. Jumped back in a dating game soon after we ended. I hoped it would help me get my mind of him. But it was all opposite. I went on 7 dates with 7 different men and felt nothing but more sadness. Dating others got me realized that a great connection is really hard to find. Fellings I had with my "ex" were so different. We connected so much, our values, our interests, I don't have that with any of these 7 men. And I wouldn't say it is to early to say and I should give them more chances, but my ex was only a 6 months relationship and I felt all that. So I agree with coach Lee by waiting with dating. Plus if I would have find out my ex is dating again I for sure would lose all my hopes.
My DA is dating again and I'm happy because he'll soon realize that the connection we had is SO difficult to find. I had 5 dates after he dumped me and I felt nothing. Boring dates, no connection. When I met him there was 🎉 a beautiful connection between us.
I love the way coach lee helping all the broken hearts out there every single word he says is 100% legit & I personally experienced tho I was less fortunate that I've got to see his videos too late.
@Ahlam Ahmed ignore and report these comments. It's bullshit people saying they can do a spell to get your ex back. I see them all over coach Lee's feeds. Like I said just report them as spam, like I do.
@@livingwithliv6756 and yes. Even in communication with her today, she is blocked on socials. Out of sight, out of mind is healthy. Even though it doesn’t need to be spoken on, you don’t need to see her & she doesn’t need to see you.
Coach lee, I have been watching you for a while, since March I was begging her to take me back for atleast 5 days. I found your videos and realized I had to do no contact it worked after around two weeks. We lasted for around 5 months and recently ended things again I again begged thinking I was capable of talking her out of it but quickly realized no contact was the right choice. She came back, people it works trust coach lee. Coach lee thank you for everything you have taught me!
What really is ironic here is that right after a breakup, your last thought is to look up online what you should do and you end up following what your heart tells you, which is often a really bad idea. Only after you made all the mistakes is when you come across a channel like this.
When someone dumps you after 8 years-- yiu can’t tell them how you truly feel! They kno they got you, and you’d let them back in-- so instead… I’m trying sumthing new with the NC, and keep my dignity
Sometimes we need to realize that god has a different path for us and some persons are not meant to be in our life god bless you and god bless you coach Lee
I bought the Emergency Breakup Kit and guess who’s back after 5 months and a half? Thank you so much Coach Lee! No Contact is not about games. No Contact is about respecting yourself!
My ex broke up with me and was still contacting me left and right I was cold and dry with her. A few days later told her not to contact me until she’s ready for something besides friends. Then I came across coach Lee and saw your videos what do I do now?
@@benhartart9487 so what’s your argument if OP was dating around and didn’t find anyone better either? Sometimes it’s not just about the ex not finding someone better. Sometimes you have to lose something for good to truly appreciate it. And like coach says, you shouldn’t hold a grudge against that person forever, especially if you still care for them.
@@Rizzy_K its usually the case, noone else will put up with her bullshit, so hes taking her back because she comfortable, if she dumped him once, she will do it again.
I am so happy for you and reading this gives me hope! It has been 7 months of no contact in my case and there seems to be no progress at all and I am heartbroken, but I am not giving up yet.
Update: no contact worked. And after no contact i have been letting my ex be the one to initiate contact every single time. Unless it was an emergency. I'm flying out to meet back with him this week. He said if all goes well I'm going to be the one he settles down with. If it goes bad he's going to block me permanently. I'm going to continue following coach Lee's advice and play it cool and casual when we meet up. This works you guys!!
1 month of NC, I am feeling already alot better. I am starting to realize I don't want him to come back. It hurts, he broke my heart and I think about him everyday, but I don't want him back. He showed me who he really was after the breakup.
Hi Coach Lee, I wanted to ask do you own a fountain of youth? You never aged! I watch all your videos Coach and then purchased your emergency breakup kit and I would like to say thank you so much!! Me and my ex boyfriend are back together again ❤ my words can't thank you enough how much I appreciate you making all this videos for all of us out here dealing with breakups 🙏 God bless you more and more power to your RU-vid channel Coach Lee 🙏🙌❤
The people with the negative comments had a negative outcome because they wanted a negative outcome. I love my ex. I want him back, period. The people who say; "Just move on" are not taking into account that moving on and being with someone when you will always love someone else is unfair.
Day 7 of NC. I had a couple of close calls. We live in a very small town. I went inside a restaurant alone for dinner and waa shocked to see her and her son right by the door. I acted as though I never seen them, ordered food to go and left. The staff told her I was there, but neither of us spoke a word or even made eye contact. It happened again today at walmart.
No contact has worked for my case. Now I am worried that I may lose him again. Because when I love, I love hard. I keep on telling myself "don't ruin this victory; keep calm and do not do the things that you did in the past." Instead of enjoying having him back, I am worried.
Unfortunatelly 12 months passed, I stayed NC, I am working on myself, I am doing my hobbies + new things I never done before, I joined new clubs/groups. I'm still attractive like before. I changed my appearance a bit but not too much. When I met him by accident during one event I was smiling and was polite. He didn't reach out after that. I think he is avoidant style or dismissive avoidant big time or... In a rebound 🤷♀️ and I decided he is gone forever and need to accept that. I still pray for him to be happy tho. So none of those things coaches are talking about worked🤷♀️
Gf of 2 years broke up with me a month ago, been in NC for 3 weeks now, miss her dearly. We were pretty serious and very committed, but she just wasn’t anymore i guess. I hope NC is working, she isn’t flaunting her happiness like she used to on social media anymore like on the first week. Just hope that’s real progress.
Im in the same boat man, we where engaged, been together 3 years. Been NC for 3 days, i texted and told her i was sorry today but Coach says in a different video if you did certain things to reach out and apologize for that thing. She hasn't responded which isn't shocking. Feels terrible man, nights are the worst.
@@travis1418 For me, it’s gotten a lot better with my own emotions. I hardly think of her as a girl I really love, to me, she’s someone who I do want to be with but being in NC gave me a whole new perspective. But there are some signs for me that it’s working, just keep with it man, no matter what happens, you’ll get better, just work on yourself and trust that your relationship was great and that she’ll realize that.
@@sptmoss9723 thanks man, glad to hear there are some signs for you. I broke no contact and made things even worse. Might be no hope at this point but i just need to learn to leave it alone. I cant fix it.
3 months after the breakup i felt like i would die without her and the baby. Almost 10 months later, my life is the best it has ever been and i cant think of a good reason to get back together.
She ended it a month ago. I handled it poorly and even was a puppy dog during the last 6 months and realize how I was becoming unattractive. I lashed out harsh after the break up…. Big lesson and learning to own it and work on me.
No I actually feel you on that. After she broke up my emotions were HIGH!! I lashed out a couple of times, then I calmed down and started seeing a few things from her perspective. Apologized on my behalf and then went no contact
@@blaxpoitation8528 So, I’ll preface my answer by saying every situation is unique and the optimal course of action is not the same every time. Only you can decide what is the best way forward. No contact is sometimes the best approach but these situations are not one size fits all. In many scenarios indefinite no contact will destroy any chance of reconciliation. Ok, not knowing anything about your situation, I’ll say give some space…depending upon your ex’s attachment style this could be anywhere from about a week to a month or two. Then reach out. If time has elapsed and there’s been no interaction, it won’t seem any more desperate or needy than it seemed the very first time you ever contacted this person.
@@blaxpoitation8528 You don't. You focus on personal development and self care. You eat clean, hit the gym, spend time with friends and get yourself back to who you were when you first met her. Make yourself busy and avoid relationships/rebounds, get comfortable and happy being single. If she reaches out, don't entertain anything until she apologizes, takes some accountability and is pretty much begging for another chance, she has to respect you otherwise it'll never work. When she reaches out it should take you by surprise because you won't be waiting or thinking about it, the ball will be in your court. Take them back, smash em a few times for old times sake or just ignore them, up to you, depending on how messy the breakup was, what she did after and how you view her then. Just know that if a girl is leaving you, she's been preparing for it for weeks if not months, getting in shape, talking to other guys, etc... Just know that she won't come back until she's been with another guy (or guys)
@@tylerjohnson9750 Everything you said is wrong if she left because you were taking her for granted, ignoring her, being evasive etc. Every situation is unique.
@@jameskemp2166 I think it's true no one gets up one morning and say I'm gonna break up with this guy she has been preparing it for weeks and possibly months just waiting for the list mistake to send the message either in person or on phone
Day 36 of no contact, he reached out to tell me that he transfered some money he owed me. We ended up talking, it went very naturally, very well and he said there is not a single day when he does not think about me, about the importance I had in his life and the influence I still have, his feelings. He wakes up in the middle of the night sometimes. We agreed to talk a bit more next week. For context, we have been together for 7 strong years, we were about to get married and due to an incident things went downhill. I am not sure if we'll get back together as something changed in my trusting him and I am not 100% sure if he will make the effort and value me after this incident. I still love him though. Listen to Coach Lee - stay in no contact no matter how much it hurts! Coach, I am eternally grateful to you.
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation
@@mletlet03 Yes, last saturday he spontaneously reached out by message. We talked a bit and we are taking things slowly. I let him come to me, not the other way around. You know, they say, invest in a person in the same way they invest in you, dont invest in them as much as you like them. I wont budge.
All that you describe should be a spontaneous way of acting in a break up situation. That is, of course, if you are centered, mature and aware. Maybe sometimes break ups are just a way for life to teach us exactly that: to be more centered, mature and aware. Still your pointers are precious because there is a lot of lost souls in the world who needs wisdom to rewire themselves to it. Just one last think: Love is the container and no one can contain it. Putting yourself at the service of love first and then helping other is one of the highest forms of true love.
Even though I dumped him and filed for divorce, I am heartbroken and also applying these concepts. He will not hear from me at all. If God or the universe wants us together, something magic will happen. Until then, I am okay giving myself time to heal and improve myself in many other ways.
coach lee I followed your advice about not ignoring your ex when they reach out and that took me to 5 months in the split of responding to rubbish messages to check if I was there , 3 months later she tells my mate she thought getting back with me was a good idea (I left her to come to me but she didn't) then a few weeks later she tells the same mate she will never get back with me! I am now detaching my energy from her - we are both in our 40s & were together 4.5 years
After all the times he asked me to promise not to give up on him , he is the who give up on me and at the end he said that he do love me but we can only be friends nothing . My heart is broken as hell but that's it i won't try to get him back anymore
6:37 This has happened to me. I feel like I'm destroying my new, wonderful relationship because I didn't grieve out my last relationship. I also think my ex wanting me back now after 6 months isn't letting me move on.
currently in a NC situation but I just wanted to comment and thank you for these videos! it is truly helping me and reminding why to stay away and just to remain calm.
Hi coach lee. Thank you for your great advice for get an ex back💎❤️i did all you said this far and i started to feel better 💫i wanted to ask you to make a video about (my ex act like i was the one who broke up with them) because this is exactly what my ex is doing right now!plz help me with this one too🥺🙌🏻
The volume in this video is much better than some of the other videos. Anyway, I love your videos. I don't have my ex back yet, but she has a lot of respect for me, and she did engage during no contact, but I am back in no contact because she has an ex who needs to break up with her.
It worked, well initially it is I wonder what will happen. Because of no contact I don’t care massively . 2 months ago I would have been dying at this.
Thank you for your wise wisdom so much Coach Lee. I’m at the point that if my ex doesn’t come back that I’m fine without her but i do have kids with her so i don’t want my kids to grow up without their birth parents. I do still care for her, i know it wasn’t all her fault also why we had to separate. I’m starting to feel her come back slowly though, taking my time, making sure I’m not making mistakes. I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU COACH LEE
I was working on no contact, a week in she totaled her car and her family is not helping her at all. I am the o Lu one taht as always had her back. So of course I had to go help. There goes that !
Love your last two videos coach! Very powerful. I’d also really like to see a video on exes who jump from relationship to relationship and never fully heal (as you mentioned in this video.) That seems very applicable to my situation at the moment.
Hello! I understand how you're feeling going through breakup I can recommend you to the same man who help me get my ex back permanently after 3 years of separation... I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems??????
My ex and I broke up in May and I had a mental breakdown with alcohol and made the mistake of reaching out to her and called her and her friends something disrespectful and feel like I ruin all chances. However, no contact does help to help you see who you really are, what areas you need to work on; everyone makes mistakes. And thank you Coach Lee for the wisdom.
@@tankslapper4686 trust me I was pretty bad. I would drink for weeks every day from morning to night. But I sobered up by talking to a psychiatrist and making small changes. When I get the urge to drink I just go for a drive with music and allow myself to feel whatever I'm trying to escape in alcohol and accept that it's okay to be weak at times...it's just not okay to stay down. Anyway if I can change so can you and good luck with the alcohol and it does get better with effort and faith.
@@aldairvivas3845 well good for you.....for me we were living together for 2 months and i would drink everyday...for 2 months straight....she didn't mind too... And now when i reflect on it...it seems like i pushed her away....now its been 2 weeks without her or the alcohol....i really do miss her and if she comes back... I'm gonna treat her like she deserves it....not that I treated her bad....but things got out of hand when i was drunk.... Now I've been sober for 2 weeks and I don't even have the urge anymore to drink....i just wish i had a second chance at thr relationship....
@@tankslapper4686 I feel you on that. I also wish I had a second chance at making things better but I ask myself the question "if we got back together right now what improvements have I made?" It's heartbreaking feeling like you're the reason why it ended but at the same time you have to give yourself the credit for realizing your flaws. Trust me everyone has a dark side and messes up but you're only getting started on your journey to getting better. Good luck and everything happens for a reason. You're going to find that relationship again but find it within yourself first.
I’d rather attract those right things in my life ( abundance, happiness, positive energy )over someone who choose to walk away. Because that is just waste of my time and energy. Why not focus on yourself first? Work on your self esteem, your mental health! Coz believe me you reap what you sow, and cultivate what you grow.
The important thing I'd not getting her back, as there are no guarantees she will. Ultimately the decision is hers. Your job is to get yourself back, make forward progress in your life, and by doing so, controlling your future, as much as possible, and if she comes back, and if you still want her, great. If not, take it as a learning experience, and keep pushing forward.
I was with my ex for over 6 years. He never actually broke up with me but ghosted me in July 2020. I went complete no contact and he reached out with a vm message in June 2021 two days after my birthday saying he loved and missed me. He said he had been afraid to reach out and was afraid that I had moved on. I had him back but he ghosted me again in January 2022. I don’t think that I made him work enough to earn me back. I am in complete no contact again and continue to work on myself. I am rewatching videos for strength to stay in no contact and for some tips on how to respond if he reaches out again. This video was very helpful. Make your ex earn you back!
@@terael5637 Thank you so much! It was extremely difficult the first time. At least this time I am a lot stronger. He still has things in my house from the first breakup that he never took back. He seems to be an avoidant and if he tries to contact me again I will be polite but I need for him to explain himself a lot more. We are in our 50s and 60s and too old to be playing games. He did reach out after almost 1 year after I went complete no contact so there is hope for everyone!
My ex was the provider. He broke up with me and wanted me back after 2-3 months. During the breakup, I started working and replaced his help with my own money. Now that he wants me back, I really have no use for him. What I’ve learned: The same mouth that’ll feed you is the same one that’ll starve you. Put YOU first. First. Only. Everytime.
I was literally panicking all day that I NEEDED to talk to him today to make him see that I would change and that this can work. You have eased my mind completely 🙏🏼 so grateful
Coach most of your videos revolve around if the breakup was fresh. Can you do a video for those of us where it's been a year (or longer) and the ex is still in the rebound?
I was with my ex for 14 years I truly miss him and want him back I made a mistake I didn't cheat on him but I was not there when he needed me when he had surgery and came home until this day I regret
My relationship was of 6.5 years but from past 6 months nothing was good there was a loss of that special connection..our breakup took almost a week to happen she told she doesn’t feel for me and even after dealing with all the shortcomings she doesn’t want to give an another chance..I started no contact and its been 14 days..she seems really well and enjoying her life.. what is it and what should I do coach🥺
Hi guys, so basically after 3 months I was feeling much better and happy in my life and realised that it was a better decision to move on And to be very honest She contacted me after around 90 days and we had a good conversation. Now this time I decided that I will not move forward with her. I directly told her from my end that I don’t want anything. Also, we are still in contact but on a good note. Guys enjoy your single life for a while, This is the best life where you can anything without giving a f*c about anything.
What about cases where you were left for another man? What are my odds? 6 year relationship, she's bipolar and did cheat a few times. Asking simply about the situation, please spare me the comments about how I shouldn't want her back, ect
paulmackenzie I personally would not take back a CHEATER, but when you love someone it's hard. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation including yours myexbackcoach.com/ebk
I really love your videos, Coach Lee! Whenever I feel weak, I watch your videos and it gives me strength and it reminds me of my self-worth. Thank you so much! ❤
I feel the same way. The grief is like a spouse dying. I listen to these videos for ideas, but also a pep talk. It is time for self care, then if it is meant to be, it will
Lee, I hope you'll address this. What happens when a friend-zoned dumpee dumps the dumper (who is in a very obvious rebound) and then turns the tables on the dumper and says, "I agree. It will never work out." I did this, but I don't know how it will go down.
Interesting re not jumping back into the dating scene. I did that, and let him know, he then settled in with a woman who had been after him, when I was supposedly still with him. SHE would have been a far better wife than I could have been, but she would not divorce HER ex, so he has been left without her, but he does not want me, and he is hoping that he will get back with HER
Would no contact work if you and an ex took a few breaks? I have used it during those breaks and it worked before, but I showed vulnerability the last time and it pushed her away.
Yey now i can comment. There is an error a while ago. ATTENDANCE CHECK: present, coach! 🙋🏻♀️🥰 yey! New vid. I really agree about do not jump into dating…♥️
8 months now Sometimes feel I completely forgot my ex & feel energetic & confident ... Sometimes I miss my ex like hell , cry 😭 like mad ! Anyone like me ?
Last week my husband said that I was stalking him and that if he was a bad person he would have moved far away and I would never hear from him again. Everything I say or do he takes it as if I am trying to force myself on him. I should have pulled back last year November when he asked for it
My ex is seeing a woman he said:we'll see how it goes wit her..i reacted so terrible and i'm sick to my stomach he's with someone else..and i'm terrified he won't reach out..i have alot of inner work to do..
My ex broke up with me in July. She texted me two weeks ago saying that she missed talking to me and hoped I was doing well. We exchanged a couple of texts and I asked when she was free to talk (long distance relationship). She told me she didn’t know when she was free but would like that and would let me know the next day. A few days later she texted me asking when I was available. I told her when I was available and she told me she would let me know again. 2 days ago she texted me and said, “You haven’t reached out one time to me since July. I’m not attracted to you anymore. Like at all. I hope you have a good one, Kyle. May god shine light on your path, always.” How do I respond to that?
She was just trying to test you bro. The truth is she never loved you and is probably stroking her ego. Move on and improve on yourself. Respond with "its alright, no worries" or something like that and dont be so free for her again that easily.
Its not your Job to reach out. All you have to do is be polite. You can ask for coffee or whatever but only After she reached out to you First. I think shes mad because she Was expecting you to beg and be happy again. Dont give her that.
@@NotTellingYou- Before you push this any further I want to ask do you really feel like you have a future with this person? If you don't know why the breakup happened or you haven't gotten a clear reason behind why she left you, then there is a maximum chance she will leave you again. Do you feel like you can handle that pain and baggage of her leaving again? Ask yourself this first because I know exactly how you feel, the thought of being with her can be very enticing but you know you grew as a person when she dumped you and are you willing to throw all that away just to be her? I really hope you are happy again though cause you seem like a good person.
Just know when someone tries to be this shallow and rewrite history to put themselves in the victim position - it is a narcissistic trait and it may even be a covert narcissist. Stay away, such people use the strategy of smoke and mirrors and the one who is ultimately the most hurt interacting with such people - IS YOU. I went through this ordeal...it is the most painful experience I ever lived...
I have to say again but if someone jumps right into a relationship or even a casual hookup .then the person didn’t mean to you what you think they did..I know not a perfect analogy but if your spouse(whom you loved)died…there would be a natural mourning period..you wouldn’t just opening bed with the next person that came along..again a loving marriage not just someone married to..
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been in no contact for 22 days. He unfriended immediately me on everything and totally ignores me anytime we see each other which is daily. He saw that I had a guy with me on Friday (who is just a friend but he doesn’t know that). When I saw him last night, he was sitting in his car. As I walked by, he rolled down the windows and started playing our song loud enough for me to hear it. I turned and looked at him and smiled. He smiled back. He then continued on the rest of the time like he normally does…completely ignoring me. I don’t know what to do or what to think of this although I would say it’s a good sign!?!
I definitely thinks it’s a rebound. I know him well enough to see that he’s just not that into her like she is with him. He texted me out of the blue a week ago just seeing if I still cared about him and then he disappeared again. So frustrating.
@@AngieParsley311 i guess you have to at least pretend that you are moving on with your life. Be the best version of you, make sure you feel confident and look good. He seems a bit lost to be honest, let him have some time to think things through. And don’t let him come back too easy.
Coach Lee I made a lot of mistakes. I chased a lot during the ghosting period after he told me to move on I was still texting him. Everything happened within a month. I am now going through no contact 1 week now . I am not sure if he will come back.
@@jannlewandowski5540 He texted me yesterday. There was a fire nearby where I am living he actually texted me to asked if I ok. He said," he saw the fire it it was not near e any al so for him to asked me that question he believes that he wanted a conversation.
Is there a breakup type where no contact might NOT be the best? My ex left but it absolutely crushed her, no cheating no games and most of what I see described about the “dumper” doesn’t apply to her. I guess I’m curious if there is a couple type where some contact isn’t negative, if that makes sense?
