How To Be A High Value Man | Sadia Khan 

A mans value IS NOT determined by the woman he can attain. It is determined by the valley he brings to the world.

Kevin Samuels popularised the term & he already defined the criteria clearly, I'll paraphrase. 1 Consistent high income, 2 Have a network of other high value men, 3 Status, 4 Your influence. Her definition is nonsense. There are 25 year old broke guys out here that look like Harry Styles that could get a top tier woman to submit to him. Women have minimal effect on who's a high value man. Find an unknown Obese guy & surround him with pretty women. No real man would deem him high value because it's clear he's paying for their time. On the contrary, Mike Tyson is deemed as high value even if there are no girls around him & he's single. Because of his STATUS and what he has ACHIEVED

Sadia is making me cry in my soul.shes really get at issues I didn't realise I had

So far I think she has the best definition of a high value man out there. If men think you're great but you're not dating the caliber of women that you'd prefer, that's not the lady's fault.

She speaks wisely 🙌 I am impressed by her words of wisdom

What I really love about Sadia is how she pointed out the bullshit of believing that younger women have a lower notch count than older women. Red pill coaches teach men to seek out younger women with the false belief that they haven’t been around as much as older men. Younger women at the age of 22 on average have higher notch counts than the average woman who is around 52. They have Instagram, they have Snapchat, they have Only Fans. Younger women have various platforms that allow them to sell their wares.

I think that defining a man's value based on his ability to acquire something or someone else is arguably the most destructive mindset a man can have. Your value comes from within.

I think this holds true for all people despite whether they grew up in "broken" homes as people who grew up in "intact" homes that were loveless did not model what healthy intimacy looks like either and I struggle to embrace the term "high value" when referring to a person superficial enough to select a partner based on her parents choices. To me, high value is how you treat others; it has nothing to do with how much money you make or the job title you hold because all of those things can be taken away in a second.

This girl is like my ex. When she speak it feels like she is very intelligent and knows how the world works but when you compare her statements with her statements at different times and different places you realize that she never ever for a single second believed in what she was saying.

Her personal definition of High value isn't base on anything and don't reflect reality

A man's value is *NOT* determined by a woman.....What Fresh N Fit teaches actually goes in line with what she just said { a woman that has family values with feminen qualities }........But I respect her views, she's got some great perspectives.......

both were superb for asking the rigth question to get the most authentic answer

What I discovered is we are all recovering from our childhood. Our parents are lacking some things we need so, especially with women, a man needs time to assess the damage, and determine is she mother material? Most men make the mistake of getting involve too quickly or allowing her to pressure him into a commitment to fast. In both cases it is usually a recipe for problems later. I already know I am emotionally damaged, but women are most likely even more damaged than me, so the bigger question is can I tolerate these issues without going crazy?

They pick wisely... absolute facts

I love her answer to your question. The best answer, How they were raised by the parents

It's funny how men in red pill community can give their own definition of worth to women and can define the word traditional or high value women but when a respectable woman like Sadia does the same then they get mad and say how dare she gives a definition. Thank you for proving our point.

Wow! Sadia Khan is so remarkable and distinct in her concepts and psychological position. Amazing

A very good talk show about what values should we place on ourselves both men and women thanks sadia khan I am watching your show from chennai, India on youtube ..... Great talk show with lot of psychology

She explained that very well!

She's defining high value in terms of how it is measured, not on its own term. A woman with a wretched personality that is good at saying no doesn't make her high value or make really high value men come after her. Likewise a man having a lot of options is evidence that he IS high value, not a definition of the term.

This is the truth. So happy Sadia is out there.

This video should be A MUST WATCH for both men and women ! Thx for posting

Its not hard to "handle" a woman, its just that men wont spend energy everyday on that stuff

Ive never thought about it like this, this was good stuff here

My value is based on what I can do in life, what do I contribute to society, my skillset, my personality my love of and respect for life. I will walk my own road and it will be the right but more difficult road

This is fire 🔥

I liked this interaction more! Valid questions asked. ✍️

Wow she's on point

Yeah, I went a little way with this. The number and/or quality of women you can get to submit to you, that’s what makes a high value man. Well, speaking to the man, don’t feel bad if it doesn’t happen. There is literally no-one on the planet, man or woman, anywhere, that will submit to me the way they used to. Using that I am a 100% alone. Now, you can’t just go and sign up if you think that’s the thing for you. I’m really not sure how much it happens. But I got to tell you, sometimes, the most wonderful thing in the world is to not have to have power over someone else. It feels like freedom. Don’t know what to tell you.

Interesting point of view

What I'm getting is that the value of a human beng is not intrinsic but rather socially determined? If such belief does operate on a large scale and it truly did, you know what could happen? That's how Nazis viewed the world. A high value man is reflected on who he was yesterday compared to who he is today. The same goes with a high value woman. Human beings have intrinsic value. Which means his or her value is not determined by who will submit to him or who she can reject.

I would have like for the interviewer to ask her if persons who grew up with fathers who don't tell their sons about women. What would happened to them ?

So, the value of a woman is determined by the men she can reject? Is that a parameter? Why the value someone has should come from an external individual?

Oh My God, she's a genius

This veritable queen , of a young woman , is so needed now . With poise , intelligence , encouragement, and grace , she speaks this poisonous , woman hating incel culture , straight out of relevance , and hopefully soon , with enough young men aiming right , clean out of existence too .

In the comments there are so stupid people. She speaks about a particular aspect which are man/woman relationships. Agree 1000% with you Sadia. Keep up the work.

Yes who have morals !

Do y’all agree on her definition of a high value man? On another podcast, she said a woman rejected a man isn’t always on him and that Sometimes, it can be because she’s having a bad day

High value men decide who are high value men. Not any women. No disrespect

But today most value money, cars, fashion. So the high value women used to define a high value man, is flawed at best. The core of the issue is that value has a twisted meaning nowadays. For example, everyone knows the names of celebs or most politicians or CEOs like Elon. Do you know the name of your local firefighters? The former groups, will crap their pants in the slightest of dangers, the latter literally walk into fire to help others. I know who I class as valueable.

My counselor friend always told me. Only be with a woman who had a close relationship with her father

Sadia is pretty spot on about high value men.

She also said in a podcast that women don't lie. But in this one she is saying that if you think women don't lie then you are naive.

She raised some good points but her definition is circular

This high value and low value stuff is based upon your worldview and what each individual esteems

Can you make a video on how to become a high value chipmunk?

2:58 ..... 7:51 CFF

I think Fresh & Fit have a lot of great ideas that are rational and missing from the vantage point of young people who grew up in single parent households and exposed to too much porn early on. They do have a background in Muslim traditional beliefs, which does affect their views to an extent that they may come off as extreme, so definitely not perfect. I don’t have any real opinion on their own value (high or not), because I realize that most people are hypocrites or have skeletons they don’t let you see, so the value remains on the advice and points they make. I do think young men are clueless as to how the roles benefit society, and reversing them affects their mental health in unforeseen ways.

Is Saida Khan married?

Are you sure that children really need both parents? What if a parent passed away at their very young age ?

How would it sound if I said a woman’s value is dependent on whether a man stay loyal to her. Laughable. She did just the same

Their hating on fresh and fit lmao 😂 they actually opened the eyes of many men . They speak facts . Yes what they say tho is that women now in days are not “trained by fathers bc they are absent y’all should listen to full podcast before trying to talk trash about em. I started listening here bc of fresh and fit ….I’m out lmao 😂

Why can't woman accept the man on right time who has done the same mistake which was done by her father when he was youth provided that man had good character in past and present except few mistakes done over the particular period of time. (Oct 2011- April 2013)

I didn't agree with the definition of HVM.... its soo elite & abstract....

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I understand what she’s saying but what she’s missing is high value guys sleep with physically attractive women MOSTLY FOR FUN. If they marry her then I agree with her but he’s JUST having FUN with her then I disagree with her. The clarity here is… what is the high value guy’s INTENTIONS? Sex or marriage? Most pro athletes cheat on their wives with groupie girls on the road but they will never marry them. It’s important to point out the 2 DIFFERENT INTENTIONS.

"Value"

The first mistake is to listen to advice from a woman. The value of a man is from within him. If he is wise, has integrity, compassion, and brings value to the world, then he's a high value man. Men like Einstein, Edison, Musk, Buddha, Buffett, etc. A woman is a complement to a man, but never his identity.

High value man is someone who is loyal to his single beautiful wife, and can support his wife both emotionally and financially. He will never even think of "women" submitting to him. Simple. I am a psychologist. Believe me she is manipulating her opinions empowering and supporting women. At the same time discouraging men subtly. She definitely has men problems.

Yup.she hit it on the head cause they are not high value men

WHY IS EVERYTHING BASE AROUND WOMEN?

OMG. This woman is Sick. Starting Point. There is no such thing as a "High Value" Man. All humans are of equal value. Define your weirdness. Live it unapologetically. And connect with the one that gets it and loves it unconditionally. You may have PTSD. And she may have a Dad or brother who had it so she understands well. And you can both heal from teaching and learning from eachother. Secondly. You are not defined by the women you pay for. A woman is not worth less because she is a stripper. By that line of thought, a woman who obsesses over money and wears too much make up like this one are of 'low value' in some cultures. Absolute bullshit about absent parents. You are not damaged goods and neither is she/he. Connections heal. And if you cultivate a healthy connection with someone, you can heal eachother. As friends first. Then maybe as more. As for parental alienation syndrome, this woman has not read the studies. The terms "access" and "custody" have been made redundant because of their negative implications, for years. The long term studies show that Children can find their balance in understanding their connection with the absent parent through connections with others - a family member, a mentor, the other parent they reconnect with, or a partner. Ultimately, they find their peace by cultivating their own connection with themselves. Ie. Finding and living a purpose, understanding the absent parent, connecting with the absent parents families and forgiving them .... There are many ways. As for high value women being ones who reject the most high value men... WTF??? This is a sick shallow woman talking about '"high value women" and "high value men" as though some humans are more important than others. She needs to do some volunteer work, live in a remote Community, and work on herself. Life is about Connection, not stratification. Anyone listening to this and living like this is making their lives harder for themselves and missing opportunities to make valuable authentic connections. You can learn so many valuable things from strippers, people with mental health issues, people from lower socio economic backgrounds and impoverished communities. You're making yourself sick defining humans by virtue of their income social stratification or how many women/men they have dated. Everyone has something to teach. When you see life as a learning experience, you begin to enjoy the journey and this is the most valuable thing you can do for yourself. ❤️

"High Value Man" is a very attractive guy; none of this bullshit being spouted on this clip.

LISTEN MILADY SAIDA KAHN, THE BEST MAN A WOMAN CAN GET IS A MAN THAT WORSHIP HIS CREATER, WHO HAS A GOOD CHARACTAR, AND HE KNOWS WHERE HE IS GOING, BACK TO HIS CREATER AND THERE HE WILL FIND HIS TRUE VALUE, DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME??? ❤❤

Guess I'm not valuable at all, who knew!

A woman who have never lived a male experience telling you how to be a hvm .. bruh

Such a typical woman's viewpoint on porn, that she can't see any value in it and thinks it's purely detrimental. Porn is like most things in life. It can either be an incredibly useful tool, or it can be something that becomes detrimental. For me it has always been a fantastic tool for sexual exploration, for learning about my own desires and sexuality etc, and gave me a much clearer picture of myself and what I need in life. But of course women can get sex whenever they want, so why would they need to use porn to learn about themselves, when they can just hook up with tons of different dudes to learn about what they do and don't like instead. There's just so much blind ignorance in women when it comes to porn.

What if a man didn't have both parents? Raised by grandma and no structure?

There is no such thing as value in this universe. This is just a human concept without any substance.

You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish. You don't ask a woman how to 'catch' a woman.

Women are only high value if they are wanted by tons of high value men? Way to define a woman’s entire worth by being wanted by men.

SORRY SAIDA KAHN, YOU ARE WITHOUT MAKE-UP MACH AND MACH BEAUTIFULER. YOU DON'T NEED MAKE-UP, PLEASE ❤❤

Her takes are very materialistic and quite low resolution

A woman does not define high value man.

She wants him for sure.

Another fish that wants to teach the fishermen how to catch it......

By not wasting time listening to this BS. Thats how you be a high value man.

Literally no guy with any experience thinks she has any credibility.

I'm sure she's freeky