I think many women struggle with confidence because of the pressure to look like an IG baddie with the wigs, nails and snatched body shapes instead of focusing on enhancing their natural beauty and building up mental fortitude to not feel like they’re an outsider by not conforming to the norm.
@@stanfatou2002on the surface but I try not to judge. Her energy and personality speaks of authenticity, complete opposite of what’s being pushed through social media. 🙃
@@itspumpkinspiceszn None of those people are pressuring them, forcing them to look like IG baddies. The women are creating the pressure for themselves. They don't have to look like IG baddies.
Thank you for this sis! I am 17 and have always struggled with my self confidence and always strived for validation from others. But your video lifted me up and I feel more confident. Thank you so much for this.
ME TOO i can’t do anything i feel like i wasted my teenage years and i wanted to be like those popular girls who had friends could talk to anyone and not be worried and yet i was just going through so much i get so scared to even go outside i’m trying so hard to be normal and love myself i just don’t know why it’s so different than others
This video came at a perfect time. I was just in this negative spiral of thinking about my past and how I have never been good at making and keeping friends. Because of all the negativity, I keep blaming myself and putting my value on the fact that I don’t have as many friends as others and that I feel like my life isn’t where it should be. I am in the process of making my life the way I want it to be. Thank you for reminding me that my worth is intrinsic simply because God made me in His image and I am His child. The desires of my heart are my birthright. I should not be focusing on what I lack but be focusing on how I am loving and taking care of myself. The bad things that happen to us are because God has something better for us or something to teach us.
This is deep! A lot of people don’t understand. I’m the same way. I don’t have friends and most times I feel worthless. I feel like ugly because I was picked on as a child and called names and I’m in my 30s now still feeling this way smh. I’ve kinda learned or accepted that I don’t need friends but everything else is still like a struggle for me
Being confident also means you have to accept that some people are more attractive than you and learn to be ok with.Some people win the genetics lottery what can you do? Cry about it? Looks wont make people love you anyway. Its one thing to be wanted and another to be loved. And there isn't a greater meaning in this life than to be truly and deeply loved, by family, by friends by your lover you name it... but that is all that matters in the end.Looks will fade.
Being confident does not mean going about the “knowing” that your looks are inferior to one else’s. that’s not confidence, that’s insecurity. you can’t look at another person and say sorrowfully “omgg she’s so much better looking than me” and in the same breath tell yourself that you’re confident. why are you comparing your looks? confident people who take pride in themselves do not think to compare themselves to anyone
What a wonderful video .. sometimes i catch myself thinking negatively but then i remember that am living in dreams i used to pray for and that’s enough for me to keep going ❤
Im just a teen and struggling with physical insecurity as everyone in my high school is making fun of me. I mean i don't just sit there and listen but still somewhere deep down it hurts me and i was lossing my confident but thanks to you ❤ im ready to become the best version of myself❤❤
Be confident and never listen to any of those things!! I was constantly ridiculed for being tall and slim! For years! I had low self esteem and was never confident! Don’t listen to them!! Guess what the people who bullied me? I just realized after many years bullied me because of their own insecurities! That is how they cope with theirs! There was a short girl in my class who was always on my neck for being “too tall”! There was a big girl who told me I annoy her whenever she sees me. She didn’t know me! She only saw me around and was annoyed by my sight???? Years later and think back and it all makes sense!!
i got bullied so much in middle school then kinda was ignored in high school. you go to college and realize nothing from then matters. no one knows what your worst insults were, even though it feels like you’re wearing them on your sleeves. truth is when you finally escape high school, you can fully embody and BE the person you’ve been imagining. start embodying that girl now. get to know who that girl is so you spend less time figuring it out in college and more time BEING that girl. things will get better. i know it feels like there’s nothing more out there but in the long run, it’s only 4 years in the decades of life you will be granted.
uhmmm sis you are amazing!!!! Every woman needs to listen to this DAILY!!! no matter what stage of life you are in EVERY woman needs to hear this. Thank you so much.I am listening to this with my daughter beside me and I hope a little bit of this sinks in to her as well. Blesss you !
I was literally breaking down the whole day hating myself thinking of my past few hours ago i was crying but i have open my RU-vid app and this was the first video and i have listened to it gal you are GOD sent thank you so much ❤ i needed this ❤❤❤🙏🌹
Self acceptance over confidence, since our States as humans are always changing, chasing those dopamine hits from confidence isn't sustainable, but true self acceptance and unconditionall self love will do wonders for you especially if you struggle with looking for validation
True self confidence is rooted in self acceptance. You cannot be truly confident in yourself unless you accept yourself as you are. People change too, self acceptance can not last forever, as we grow and experience events that alter ourselves as human beings.
Your video just made my day! If I had a sister like you, I'd feel like I struck family gold. Your combination of kindness and smarts is priceless. Keep shining and sharing the joy sis!
This has to be the best confidence video I've ever watched out of the 100 million and 1😂😂... Thank you Chelsea ❤️ I feel like a completely changed woman
You go girl! so refreshing to see a woman who likes herself- I get so tired of low self esteem women lasing out at me- not my job to fix their insecurties
Delulu is the solulu Girl, I needed this. I don't know why I stopped doing this. Back in highschool I had this rule for myself, to dress for the future I wanted. Back then, I wanted to be a musician. I dressed the part every single day. I started my own band right after highschool. Now, I just want to be successful and confident and wealthy. I can throw on a nice suit before I head out for work and do my makeup and be the corporate girly who has her shit together. Who doesn't care what other people think of her. Thank you. ❤❤
Ohh sh*t !!!! That is exactly the book I'm reading right now! Last night I was also just telling myself I'm done with the constant learning learning learning the stuff that I already know and I said I'm going to stop and start applying it! You popped up on my feed while I'm scrolling and I said to myself... "I'm going to watch her video tomorrow morning and then go with the plan that I have set out for myself"... I can't tell you how many confirmations and BINGOS 🎯 I got with every word you said in here because I already know this stuff and this is my confirmation from the almighty great divine Universe that there's nothing else to learn. It's time to go! It is literally just procrastination at this point because of being used to the old self which comes with that little fear/doubt that wants to come up because it's only trying to keep you safe. ... But I know better now! I know I'm a bad bitch, period!!! I was literally telling my teen daughter, and yes I said my teen daughter... that it's time to pull in this bad bitch energy for both of us. You talking about your mom reminded me so much of me and my daughter 💯! You explained what's up just exceptionally! Bless you! ...and let's get this shit!!!
I’m the mum… so happy that she is reaching even us the parents….I’m forever grateful for such a wonderful daughter…and you are so right… it’s time to be the best version of ourselves….
Listening to this like a pep talk with a big sister I wish I heard, I've been stuck in this situation for years low self-esteem, self doubt and lack of confidence to an extent that I believe that I was ugly and whenever someone compliments me I don't believe it. Started a RU-vid channel posted a few videos and stopped posting because I felt like I was not enough and my content was not good enough I'd film and edit videos but I'd end up not posting them people would ask why I stopped and I'd just give random excuses. After this video I'm determined to go back to content creation since its something I enjoy doing. Thank you for being vulnerable with us Foi ❤❤❤
Loved this 🖤 I just told myself the other day that I’m letting go of the old story I’m telling myself. It is what it is I’m over it and it has no power over me now.
You blessed me so much with this video! Thank you so much!🥹🙏🏾 My chest was so tight it is 3:35 AM right now and I was beating myself up about the fact that I lack confidence and you’re so right it’s because of everything that I’ve recently gone through and it’s made me believe that it happened because I wasn’t of value but that’s a lie and I really appreciate you being vulnerable enough in this video & having enough strength to share! I can relate to you and now I know that I’m not alone in how i feel & that it’s normal. You have so much power in your voice! 🙏🏾🤍 Please keep going and DON’T STOP! I am literally on the verge of tears, my chest is no longer tight & my brain no longer feels cloudy. Thank you so much! PLEASE KEEP GOING! Please don’t listen to those negative thoughts in your head because I just came across your video and within five seconds I was admiring you, so that just goes to show that we all need to just be more confident and trusting and not only in ourselves, but God as well💕🙏🏾
Your first video that I watched was your shower routine and I subscribed before I finished watching it because I liked your aura. And I've never missed watching a single video of yours. I love your vibe and how you keep things real and share your vulnerability with us. When that self doubt knocks on your door again, remind it that Linda Mary loves your content and personality. Thanks for this video babes.
You literally, word for word, said 6 things that I’ve been hearing this entire month. The exact phrasing too. And I’ve always wanted to start a channel to empower other girls but wasn’t sure if I could since I’m not where I want to be yet. But the level of confidence you projected was so incredibly inspiring, I was shocked to hear that you felt the same way. Thank you for the video!
When you said “You are him and he is you” boy that hit home for me almost made me cry in this video because I resonate with everything you said especially the self doubt like that really hit home for me because I know how that feels. I really needed to hear those words you speak when it comes to God. THANK YOU. NEW SUBCRIBER
Not my home girl giving me such a confidence boost! Saw your name and i just couldn't help but jump eight in and boy oh boy what a ride this has been! Thank you so much for sharing this video. Indeed like your disclaimer, i really don't need another video! This is more than enough. That 100k subs must definitely be coz no way it can't ❤😊
I can relate to her on so many levels. My dad was also not present throughout my life and this video gave me motivation to finally become the better version of myself. Thank u, u deserve far more than 100k girl
I hope you know that when you speak to your self you are speaking to souls no matter where you are in your journey. your message and you are VALUABLE! and I love the reflection you bring for us. I appreciate and respect you so much for your vunerability and honesty and showing us the process in between! FUCKING FEARLESS! and you are so SO motivational. THANK YOU for showing us that it's more then ok to be our true and authentic self. like literally, you are so real and genuine and down to earth that when I make my money. I would want to financially give back to you!
You started speaking about God being within me it really spoke to me and idk what came over me but I felt nothing but good energy after that.. I really appreciate you making this video! 🥰
The video encourages viewers to build confidence, emphasizing it as a skill, not innate, and promoting self-belief, letting go of the past, and embodying their aspirations.
wow, i have never known of your existence up till today, this video just checked into my timeline and no matter how much i refresh my page it still appears, 27 whole years and i am still battling with self-confidence in most areas. Cannot even go out because i am scared of how people will look at me, or say about me.. i was even raised knowing God says No, Yes & maybe. i have fantasized about me being IT, being bold and confident in all areas, now knowing that theres a version of me that already has that, its a wake up call. Things are about to change. Thanks
I’ve been on a journey to become the best version of myself and never even knew who I was in the present moment , never accepted my flaws but loved everyone else’s. This month i’m shifting and coming for everything that’s MINE . F*** shrinking for people who aren’t as big as me!
Literally started my channel not knowing what I really wanna talk about and I just found it, being a dark-skinned girl confidence is key! (I have a a video out on that) , thank you sis 🥺❤️!!! This is something I think girls all around struggle with.
Girl. I’ve been having a huge shift over my identity and going down the rabbit hole of Who Am I? It’s been a rough few weeks. And I’ve had the joe dispenza book for over a year. Came across this video and you said so many things that hit home , and then you topped it off w telling me I NEED to read the book I’ve been seeing on my coffee table for over a year. Thank you. Bless you. You are a light
This is exactly what I needed today. I've spent weeks planning a freelance career in something that I do have some experience/knowledge in, but I've spent the whole day today panicking about whether I'll actually be able to do everything it involves, and I started to convince myself that it'll never go anywhere. But after this video, I've realised that I do have what it takes, and I need to start using my time to actually do the things I want to do, rather than stressing about it. It will all come together if I believe in it and become the version of myself who does it. Xx
I really really needed this sis thank you so much I’m battling heavy heavy self doubt and I really needed to hear that thank you so much and God bless you. I hope you’re okay and keep going. ❤
Chelsea... Thank you so much for this video. This has boosted my confidence on a whole new different level. Trust I'm going to start embodying that better version of myself. A new month is upon us... starting my 30 days challenge. Thanks girl. Love you
I had to pause the video and just type this, THIS VIDEO, YOOUUU GIIRRRLLLL AND YOUR WISDOM couldn’t have come at a better time, just days ago I was dwelling on my past the pain inflicted on me, how my self esteem has been affected by it and listening to you it just fits sooo perfectly that I will have to replay this a number of times just to constantly remind myself to stay in that confidence era THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video! I was literally tearing up listening to this. Iv'e been struggling with this for a while. I read so many books and I technically know what to do, but you put it in a way that really resonates with me. You're out here doing God's work :D
this video made me cry, i would always come across these videos i skip them cause i always think that i already have confidence but something brought me to this video. thank you because i needed it.
I kno I’m late , but your words made me subscribed , I’m going through a lot but I ain’t gone let it stop me I’m about to glow up in any weather , thank u , u are that girl I love u , ❤
OMG, mic drop!!! I just discovered you and I'm obsessed. I think the universe wanted me to hear this message because was stuck in a self doubt loop and someone needed to snap me tf out of it. Thank you gorgeous ❤❤
🩶I love how vulnerable and surreal you’ve been in this video 🤧just bumped into your channel yesterday,call me a stalker or whatever but I’ve been watching and rewatching I love the energy you’re giving out love ❤If you like Dr Joe Dispenza you sure will love Bob Proctor too ,mwahh 😘💗!
this is one of the most important videos i have ever seen. thank you, chelsea, for your kind words and your wisdom. may we prosper and live in our truths. i aspire to speak as powerfully and as raw as you do, chelsea.
That is so crazy! Your video made me tear 😅 the timing and everything you said even the mentioning of joe’s dispenza book it’s crazy synchronization for me, thank you Chelsea ❤ I’ll be here watching you win that youtube 100k and 1 million subscriber plate 🤗🥰
I can’t thank you enough for sharing this with us. Thank you for this life changing knowledge. I now realize that I’m enough as I am, and I’m deserving of amazing things. 🙏
I hope You hit millions and millions subscribers girl. God is speaking through you to us who feel lost. Bless your existence and Bless your path to triumph. You're doing the Lord work by making videos like these. Thank you!
i rarely ever comment on videos. if you ever see this, thank you. i am watching this while i am working out and i needed to hear this. you just reignited my faith in myself. so again, thank you. i hope you get everything you want in life and im going to subscribe to watch your journey.
You speak with so much conviction, it’s incredible! I needed this. Made me sad hearing that you doubt yourself- bc I know how this video made me feel! New sub 🤍 I know you’ll surpass 100k
Thank you for being real and sharing your journey. I appreciate you being in the midst of your growth. I started reading Dispenza’s book 4 years ago and many thoughts changed my life. I think I’m definitely in a place where I need a refresher and the universe knew that and gave me this video in the perfect timing! Let’s get you to your goal! I’m here for it! #Subscribed ❤
Girl you literally brought up quantum physics in this video making a point about confidence 😂 you are my hero. Also really appreciate the fact that both God and quantum physics have a place in this subject hahaha
Heey Chelsea....i am so glad you made this video....because the waaay the entire video spoke to me❤i really needed that reminder....thank you soooo muuuuch😊I am haappy that you are back❤
Honestly I didn't think that you had / have moments of self doubt ❤. Your honesty is what I value so much💯. I honestly look upto you, deadass❤💯. Keep doing you boo❤, from a badass (manifesting)❤, to my fellow bomb badass😤❤💯, I love you sm❤.
You don't know how much I needed to hear all this. :( Thank you so very much!!!! I Love you!! Had a lot of things happen to my this year - became the main income provider for my family since the start of pandemic, paid lots of debts, dad died, lost my main job that generates majority of my income, etc. and I couldn't seem to get out of the funk :( I've been in a depressed and irritated state since then, I'm always angry and I just feel so drained everyday. Thank you for this :(
Thank you! 🥹🫶🏼💕 truly! You just came across my feed for the first time and I was about to go to sleep. Didn’t know I needed this sm. My mindset has JUST SHIFTED! Like a whole 180. Thank you 💕 may all your dreams and more come true!!!❤️
literally diggin the vibes thanks for the laughs too "those who peaked in high school/ damn, youre actually boring as hell, lol youre funny, thank you for uplifting my evening with a intruiging message that really resonates with me! compelling content btw
I started watching this video not for the topic at hand but because it's Chelsea. Let's just say I needed it more than I thought and I'm ready to embody the best version of myself
