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how to find your aligned tribe | learn to fully be yourself | @tiffanylaibhen 

Tiffany TV
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🤎 pre-order your self-love journal prompts here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop - limited amount arriving before Christmas + New Year 🤎
a lottt of you had questions about finding your people... takes a little more than showing up to an event. today, we're getting into all the deets. grab your bevvy + join me.
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find all my links + other socials here:
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Books that changed my life + that I plan to read:
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Podcasts:
On Purpose w/ Jay Shetty podcasts.apple...
Super Soul Sunday: podcasts.apple...
The Marie Forleo Podcast podcasts.apple...
Therapy for Black Girls podcasts.apple...
Other: search motivational videos for insert what you're working on on RU-vid.
Books that changed my life: www.amazon.com...
Podcasts:
On Purpose w/ Jay Shetty podcasts.apple...
Super Soul Sunday: podcasts.apple...
The Marie Forleo Podcast podcasts.apple...
Therapy for Black Girls podcasts.apple...
Other: search motivational videos for insert what you're working on on RU-vid.
find all my links + other socials here:
linktr.ee/tiff...

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@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 месяцев назад
good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop
@taylorjohnson2251
@taylorjohnson2251 10 месяцев назад
I literally just prayed for god to send me a genuine girlfriend and community.. I was recently called into solitude and been feeling super lonely.. really needed this right now ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
yes! it was meant for you to see 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@jazbrehaut
@jazbrehaut 10 месяцев назад
SAME! I’m on a new educational journey & have been drifting away from all of my friends. I’m just becoming a different person & want those around me that fit
@ashleyhunter2156
@ashleyhunter2156 10 месяцев назад
WAIT I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS EXACT THING!!!!
@TheAniyaMarie
@TheAniyaMarie 10 месяцев назад
It's inspiring to recognize how many of us can relate to your comment. I'm going through a similar experience.
@user-kf8dt6ev8t
@user-kf8dt6ev8t 10 месяцев назад
Same! God has literally done the same for me. I really almost began to question it but i know that god has a mysterious way of showing me things in the unknown.
@afrykanqwin
@afrykanqwin 8 месяцев назад
Lost alot of friends since the pandemic and I got divorced ...then when I got laid off last year I lost more friends and so I moved to a new city and been lonely and really lost myself. I went from being super connected and personable to being in this little bubble. Happy to watch this praying for genuine friends in this new chapter.
@electricbeing993
@electricbeing993 8 месяцев назад
This is literally my life. I hope u get comfortable with just u and fall in love with yaself again. My motto is 1 day at a time.
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 10 месяцев назад
I don't even know how to be myself, my family never accepted my personality for what it was, and I've turned into a people-pleaser and just very socially anxious. I hope to one day find my tribe. That's my greatest wish. Love the video!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
hi love... I relate to EVERY word of this. if you haven't already, I hope you have a moment to go through the other videos in this series.. maybe start with this one ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-EycApLCn8KY.html ... I pray that they can get you on the road to feeling a little more comfortable in your body.
@bambisananilubuzo8459
@bambisananilubuzo8459 10 месяцев назад
I am like that too😢
@TracysHaven
@TracysHaven 10 месяцев назад
Sis I feel you completely, God will direct the right people to us amen.
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 10 месяцев назад
@@TracysHaven Amen!!
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 10 месяцев назад
@@TiffanyTV I will check it out, thank you so much for your kind words!
@Melle_Tanya_
@Melle_Tanya_ 10 месяцев назад
This came at the right time. I am honestly working on releasing myself from people I don’t feel at peace around.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
I love that for you mama 🙌🏾🤎
@electricbeing993
@electricbeing993 8 месяцев назад
Me too sis
@rosecitytheaftershow
@rosecitytheaftershow 8 месяцев назад
🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Marixx707
@Marixx707 3 месяца назад
I’M WITH YOU ON THIS!!! Blessings to you always on your journey
@loveandhappinesswithsheila
@loveandhappinesswithsheila 10 месяцев назад
Being authentic,Being yourself is the best gift you can give to the world. When I fully understood who I am it became easier for me to attract people and situations that aligns .
@thatgirlbrinna7927
@thatgirlbrinna7927 10 месяцев назад
Thank you 🙏🏽
@Introverted_thug
@Introverted_thug 10 месяцев назад
This so hit home for me. The fear of being seen and not knowing what to do when I actually put myself out there and people try and connect is my difficulty.
@myfaverecipes
@myfaverecipes 10 месяцев назад
Same!!
@SelfempowermentComeUNITY
@SelfempowermentComeUNITY 10 месяцев назад
Same , I have so much love and would love to say hi hello to others on the road but most always have a bad look so I just keep to myself and close down. I am happy I found this video the energy is everything because she looks just like myself in a highlight. Is this what it means when it says your find people who look like you
@TammiMorrison
@TammiMorrison 10 месяцев назад
I can relate. I just had to go on a deep journey of connecting to me.
@jesusisking3814
@jesusisking3814 10 месяцев назад
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 9 месяцев назад
my suggestion would be working on yourself first. truly start the work of learning + loving yourself deep… figure out why you fear being seen.. do the work get to the root of that before trying to build more connections. I hope you receive this with love 🫂🤎
@QueenPoetK7
@QueenPoetK7 10 месяцев назад
On my isolation journey! Thank you for talking about this and how social media can make us think we need 'girl groups' when we really just need good friends.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
that part! 🎯
@swoozie
@swoozie 10 месяцев назад
This video is a breath of fresh air! Great messages. Tysm for putting this on our plates
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you!
@LovinBeingNatural
@LovinBeingNatural 10 месяцев назад
Well put 🙌🏽
@savedthrulove
@savedthrulove 9 месяцев назад
​@@LovinBeingNatural😊😊😊😊
@sunnni_
@sunnni_ 10 месяцев назад
I realized the other day that I want genuine connection, I want more than sending reels to one another and stuff. So I am working on getting myself together and going to try and put myself out there. I pray to God every night for true community and a genuine best friend and I have faith it'll happen. Needed this reminded ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
you’re doing the work! it will happen sis 🙌🏾🤎
@christalleturner
@christalleturner 10 месяцев назад
This video is definitely for me. Being an introvert can be really hard at times and not feeling like you fit in with anyone. Im still taking steps on getting out of my comfort zone and actually putting myself out there connecting with people. I know soon ill find the right people that I’m compatible with.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
not easy at all but keep exactly who you are, (with the exception of the things YOU feel you want to work on + enhance) + find the people that don't need you to be anything more. like the people you can sit quietly with on the couch lol... praying you find your people mama 🤎
@christalleturner
@christalleturner 10 месяцев назад
@@TiffanyTV Thank you so much Tiffany! So glad i came across your channels today! Must been a sign from the holy spirit! New sub! 🫶🏽💕
@00ashantii
@00ashantii 10 месяцев назад
Omg yes! Me too! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@TammiMorrison
@TammiMorrison 10 месяцев назад
I can feel all of this❤ I recently started doing that as well. Introvert as well. I had recently been guided to move through the fear. One way I started to get out there is I started doing marketplaces and talking to people. Which as you know is completely out of my comfort zone.
@khamiam
@khamiam 10 месяцев назад
I'm appreciative of this video. As a man, I'm creating my "chosen family" or "tribe" right now. When meeting others, I saw that I would dilute myself; I told myself that it was just a matter of me having my "guard" up, but in reality, I was afraid of being judged for who I am. Wishing you many blessings sis 🙏🏾.
@JoAnnRichardsGoffe
@JoAnnRichardsGoffe 10 месяцев назад
People may see this issue as being a female thing. Kudos to you for showing up here!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 9 месяцев назад
whew. this! 🎯
@jamelajones6054
@jamelajones6054 10 месяцев назад
This was literally my prayer yday! Wow!! To be seen, heard, loved etc, genuine friends! Thank you. Hope the ladies in the chat all find their Tribe!!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
I second this 🙏🏾🤎
@prettysimpleday9192
@prettysimpleday9192 10 месяцев назад
My husband sent this video to me. I’m definitely on my journey. Definitely an introvert and experience fear and anxiety…I know what I’m called to do… looking for my tribe!!! Thank you!!!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
you are so welcome! shoutout to hubby 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@Joy-30
@Joy-30 10 месяцев назад
I’m currently in my season of isolation due to being in a new city. I have also grown apart from old friendships. It’s been hard but now I truly feel free to be myself. I truly resonated with this video so much. Thank you
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
you're so welcome love! keep going. it all eventually starts to make sense 🤎
@Forevermj___
@Forevermj___ 10 месяцев назад
Me too it’s been so hard!
@Adoremydyamonds
@Adoremydyamonds 9 месяцев назад
Your spiritual tribe is your actual connection, more than just the physical. And it matters the most. 🌸
@foxwitmox
@foxwitmox 10 месяцев назад
I literally came to the video with “girl group” in mind, and left feeling 1000% more grateful for the 3 (separate) close friendships I already have… I’m going to continue becoming myself and finding ways to support and encourage their growth where I can 💎
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
oof this! this made my day… that mindset shift is everything 🤌🏾
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 10 месяцев назад
Introvert extrovert here sis 😂😊 I like to watch people out the window 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
😂 I getttt ittttt because SAME
@kelightful
@kelightful 10 месяцев назад
This message is right on time. I recently came to the realization that a group of “friends” are catty, jealous, and unsupportive. I believe I am supposed to be in solitude, but damn it’s hard.
@SAkil-oh9hh
@SAkil-oh9hh 9 месяцев назад
A very clear sign to me is , when people are not judging right away and acting with humour and generosity to awkward situations. Usually that’s a good place to be .
@ARAYOFLIFE
@ARAYOFLIFE 10 месяцев назад
Funny how videos with this content just jumps right out when you’re in a space of evolving. Currently in an isolation stage, yes it can get lonely, but worth it when you are devoted to change over your life. Thank you Tiffany I felt this message and proud of myself❤
@nombulelomaseso6520
@nombulelomaseso6520 10 месяцев назад
You gained a follower indeed. Just a few minutes ago I was venting to a sister about how frustrating it is to have people just not liking you for bo reason and she pointed out what is important is quality over quantity so may the Creator meet us when it gets lonely and help us to embrace our small community .
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
yes yes yes... quality over quantity every time 🙌🏾
@lynnejasames77
@lynnejasames77 10 месяцев назад
God will send you the messages you need in certain stages of your life 🎲🎲 Thank you 🙏🏾
@Khyri_WithLove
@Khyri_WithLove 10 месяцев назад
I cannot put into words how this video resonated with me & brought me to tears. Being alone is tough but pouring your genuine positive intentions into the wrong ppl hurts more. I really don’t know myself anymore so I’m accepting this as a sign that I need to pour that love into myself. Thank you thank you thank you for this video 💐🩷 because this world is so discouraging. I hope your blessed beyond your desires 🙏🏾
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 10 месяцев назад
This is so good! About to go to my first conference alone in my 40’s 😳 Terrified a little but will do it afraid! Listening up to get all the help I can get. I’m quite introverted, quirky and private for sure! 🙏🏽
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
sending you alll the love + good vibes!! I pray it goes better than you even thought it could 🙏🏾🤎
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 10 месяцев назад
@@TiffanyTV Amen! Tysm! I receive it 🙌 Continued blessings to you 🙏💕
@CoachAhava-0000
@CoachAhava-0000 10 месяцев назад
How did the Conference go?
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 10 месяцев назад
@@CoachAhava-0000 So sweet of you to ask! It’s actually this week coming weekend. I’m mentally preparing myself for it, apply the advice from here, trust the Lord and do it afraid if I must! Thank you again 🤗
@jesusisking3814
@jesusisking3814 10 месяцев назад
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@s.i.s.manifest6540
@s.i.s.manifest6540 10 месяцев назад
I'm 53 & struggling to find my "tribe" since losing 3 of my closest childhood friends in last 5 yrs...I came across this video shared in a "Girlfriend" Group & so Thankful for the share❤ New subscriber!! Great topic delivered WELL🙌🏾🙌🏾
@TheThundercat718
@TheThundercat718 6 месяцев назад
❤❤
@user-wt9xm6xz6l
@user-wt9xm6xz6l 10 месяцев назад
This video really speaks to the season I’m currently in, I don’t want to be inauthentic to fit in. Instead of searching for better friends I just work on myself and try to become my best self and then maybe, maybe I’ll find my tribe 🤞🏾
@user-cw4ch5gr6e
@user-cw4ch5gr6e 10 месяцев назад
It’s illegal for RU-vid to not recommended your channel to me before this. It’s like god was talking to me and told me what I needed to hear in the middle of me making some big changes in life. I got super emotional when you talked vulnerably about how you rejected genuine energies since you weren’t used to it and you’re used to working hard for love. That was a lot to take in and something I needed to hear and realise about myself. Can’t wait to binge watch all your videos. I’ve already taken into account a few tips from this video - I need to move out of from tough situation and make a new life and make some new friends. ❤
@faithagbossou1882
@faithagbossou1882 10 месяцев назад
Whew, felt the part about being closed because of never had to experience genuine love. It’s real trap because you need grace for « your people » to be patient enough with you in times when you don’t open up to them and show them healthy vulnerability. We’re raised into thinking that vulnerability is being naive or things like that, while it just depends on who you confide to. I’m so happy you shared about it❤
@freebird1784
@freebird1784 10 месяцев назад
People don't have the patience anymore to know anybody. But we are worth enough to not rush anything!
@melaniemichalik7354
@melaniemichalik7354 6 месяцев назад
I had such a hard week with my depression cause literally the people who I thought were true is not at all. This video helped me with the realization
@Shadavik
@Shadavik 10 месяцев назад
See, I can not stand fake support and fake women empowerment. My friends don't have to have a specific look. They do have to be confident and confidence has no specific look ✨️
@omschooling
@omschooling 10 месяцев назад
Essential tips "determine wht is not aligned with you and wht you're afraid of" thk you so much for this reminder!! As I'm just starting my RU-vid channel, I'll keep that mind 🙏💓
@neicycarlasquire
@neicycarlasquire 10 месяцев назад
Being true to yourself and letting go of people that are not in alignment with you, opens up opportunities for you to go to a higher level and way of living your life. Great info!
@TaMonicaR
@TaMonicaR 9 месяцев назад
I prayed to God yesterday to remove ppl in my life that no longer serve me or my purpose. Long story short, My BFF and I got into the pettiest argument a few hours later and she told me to never call her again (I honestly didn’t do or say anything for her to blow up that way). So, I took it as her being one of those people not meant to go with me on my next journey 🤷🏽‍♀️
@spiritualthugg
@spiritualthugg 10 месяцев назад
I been alone since I was born, still alone, lies travel faster than truth. Patience is my virtue
@jmeezy2362
@jmeezy2362 10 месяцев назад
You’re the big sister I need this time of year. I’m going through this now and taking a whole break from social media because I’m tired of seeing people who don’t truly like me or support me. It’s time for a shift.
@ewwwslim
@ewwwslim Месяц назад
I’ve been watching this video since janurday and I finally found two people who are like minded; keep viewing what you want & it will come to you.
@tiffanybyars3939
@tiffanybyars3939 8 месяцев назад
This is the path I'm on. This actually gave me a push
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 10 месяцев назад
Learning the people that you don't want to be around is important, just remember that that can change and it may have more to do with you than them 😊
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
bingo 🎯
@trinhle603
@trinhle603 10 месяцев назад
Just exactly what my mind and heart need to hear. Thank You :)
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
🙌🏾😌🤎
@pulseforpurposebyrachelburrell
@pulseforpurposebyrachelburrell 9 месяцев назад
Showing up and showing up authentically. I’m still growing and still learning
@Self-love-mastery
@Self-love-mastery 10 месяцев назад
Damn man, how does this woman always come up with videos that’s so aligned with my life?❤
@kajaljain7447
@kajaljain7447 10 месяцев назад
This is was what I needed to hear. I hope everyone in this section finds their people
@Shanellereena
@Shanellereena 10 месяцев назад
This just made me think, how many people in my life am I completely myself around? Other than my spouse, I can not think of anyone. I've isolated myself from everyone this year because I was tired of not being my full self around people. It was so draining. Now it is time for me to acknowledge that I do want beautiful and healthy relationships. I do want to connect, be seen, and have a fuller life with my people.
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 10 месяцев назад
Supporters are always better than helpers.
@caterpillar_properties
@caterpillar_properties 10 месяцев назад
OMG...I don't know (outside of divine intervention) how I came across your channel, but I resonate with so much of what you are saying. I've always been a believer in being my authentic self. I am in a place of uncomfortably solitude and just couldn't understand why I was loosing so many people in my life. Hearing this, I now recognize it's part of the process/my journey. This inspires me to go out and do exactly what has been in my spirit and what brings me the most joy. Thank you sooo much.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
you said it girl. divine intervention 🙏🏾 breathe through this uncomfortable part + keep making moves true to your authenticity. let it unfold better than you thought it could 🤎
@caterpillar_properties
@caterpillar_properties 10 месяцев назад
🥰
@myfaverecipes
@myfaverecipes 10 месяцев назад
This really hit home and is how I’ve been feeling all of my life. I really don’t fit in with alot of people at all. I’ve always had a handful of friends in my life and some times even our paths don’t always mix. Would love to meet new friends who get it and can relate on a deeper level. ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
and also... different friends for different parts of your life. I've grown apart from my friends and we've come back together after some time. get yourself in spaces with more people who relate to where you currently 🤎
@drebugsita
@drebugsita 9 месяцев назад
Ok that intro first line right there is truly a life lesson worth meditating on!
@spiriteddoll
@spiriteddoll 9 месяцев назад
Hello! Older woman can definitely learn from younger women. Thanks for this video. I am a vibrant Gemini and I have yet to find my tribe. I spend a lot of time to myself. Others don't understand it, but I spend my time with God in solitude until I find my tribe. I was not taught to embrace my divine feminine. I was taught to take care of family first instead of taking care of myself. Thank God that I am now enlightened. Thank you Queen!
@a_irie__
@a_irie__ 10 месяцев назад
this was so beautifully spoken
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
thank you mamas😌🤎🤎
@candicepantin
@candicepantin 10 месяцев назад
You are the type of friend everyone should have 🦋
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
thank you for these words love 😌 received 🤎
@blessingmamabolo1682
@blessingmamabolo1682 9 месяцев назад
I want to find my people so bad. I have prayed about it but now I want to fast for it. To find a video like this is a breath of fresh air.
@MalaneYoung
@MalaneYoung 9 месяцев назад
We’re out here sis! Reach out!❤️🥰
@theresakelley353
@theresakelley353 14 дней назад
Hi Tiffany, I stumbled upon your page today. I couldn’t quite explain the uneasy feelings I was having but, I realized that it’s fear of not being my full self . I was so moved by your message. Thank you for sharing your light!
@lindawitherspoon9846
@lindawitherspoon9846 10 месяцев назад
Thank you Tiffany….Finally someone to speak the truth! I am finding myself in many of these situations, but hearing you speak on it gives me so much clarity. Keep doing this great work! 😊
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
of coursssee 🤎 thank you so much for your support love!
@ravishinash
@ravishinash 10 месяцев назад
Your videos are exactly what I need in my life rn. Please keep em coming! The setting, the voice, the content! Can’t get enough. ❤
@nikuzenatalie
@nikuzenatalie 10 месяцев назад
been only a week since i know Tiffany but hell, you're already my favorite RU-vidr i love you. Nat
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
🥹 this warms my heart girl
@IamUnstoppabe
@IamUnstoppabe 8 месяцев назад
I love this❤You're gorgeous ❤Keep shining!!! 🎯🎯🎯
@elisseamaranthine2916
@elisseamaranthine2916 10 месяцев назад
*Attracting beautiful souls... Subscribed✔️
@ekaterina.serbenyuk
@ekaterina.serbenyuk 10 месяцев назад
Literally isolating myself from family and friends fully rn. Thank you! Just really needed this assurance of being on the right track💕💕
@RestauranteBeiraMar
@RestauranteBeiraMar 9 месяцев назад
why thou? wht yo family did to u?
@g.quotes.oat1894
@g.quotes.oat1894 6 месяцев назад
Hey girl, going into my 30s in 2 months. My emotions are conflicting. My 6 yrs relationship ended, healing from depression, and I realized my savings are not enough. I am in so much pain but I guess my job right now was my blessing for keeping me busy because I am always burned out in my last job but this job right now is one of the things that keep me going aside from my family, my greatest supporter. I am right here learning from the examples of people searching on youtube how's their life in their 30s and I realized that whenever/whoever you are, everyone is doing their best to live their best life.I really love what you mentioned to be the person in your head as much as you can .. I will too.. thank you
@boniworldwide
@boniworldwide 10 месяцев назад
Omg I needed this video ! My friend was criticizing me yesterday . We were smoking and driving and I said oh snap the police .I prayed I said thank you GOD for letting us get back and forth safely . I kept my eye on the police, they didn’t have on their blinkers so I kept my eye on them they’re petty , I seen them get behind me I said oh shoot they done got behind me behind me lord before I can say anything else she said oooooooo you doubted GOD !!! Im like. .. no I didn’t ? I was just watching there every move she said whatever that’s doubting GOD. & I’m drained everything I say is against god like wow
@reallyruka
@reallyruka 10 месяцев назад
This is probably one of the best videos I’ve come across this year - feeling seen and ironically, not alone after watching this❤
@drinkswithdrea
@drinkswithdrea 10 месяцев назад
Tiffany👀👀 you been spying on me 😭😭 this is so spot on
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
😂 we’re all the same girl
@SeeShavonn
@SeeShavonn 9 месяцев назад
I was looking for videos for black women with ADHD, saw the title of your video and this is exactly where I was meant to be. Felt like you were talking directly to me.
@tjsnaturalliving5148
@tjsnaturalliving5148 10 месяцев назад
I truly see myself in you, and I was having a panic attack about my entrepreneurial journey and feeling alone dejected rejected kind of thing, and I felt like it’s been too long and it’s been too lonely and I was just contemplating what I need to do next and I couldn’t think of anything positive and then I bumped into this video which I have never seen before wasn’t subscribed to and it was just at the right time. I don’t believe in coincidences like this this video was so lovely it is me in you and, you in me ❤❤❤ I feel totally normal and ready to find my tribe and my tribe to find me feel amazing. Thank you so much.❤❤
@iamjaylynrenee
@iamjaylynrenee 10 месяцев назад
Goodness girl! I’m in tears 😭😢 This was so good!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
🥹🫂
@Lupusanadhd
@Lupusanadhd 9 месяцев назад
Thank you I am a 52 year old Christian woman who battle Lupus and adhd and God saved me from emotional dysfunction and I haven't been letting myself shine by just being true to myself. Now I get it. I gotta stop keeping whose I am a secret. I will be showing up and start my youtube channel. Thank you. I'm gonna need y'all lol. @tiffanytv
@ShaniTheBurningTree
@ShaniTheBurningTree 10 месяцев назад
The beauty and top got me here, the voice got me listening, the wisdom got me thinking. Love when young and beautiful women are spiritually inclined. Keep it up sister.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
received! thank you love 🤎🤎
@1amSaada
@1amSaada 10 месяцев назад
You have no idea how much I needed this girl. You are truly an internet older sis😭🥺❤️.
@kgopotsomolekoa2576
@kgopotsomolekoa2576 10 месяцев назад
love your videos. You mention things I didn't know how to describe and this helps so much as one can identify what they are feeling. Thought that wishing they'd cancel events is just being lazy but its anxiety 😅
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
😂 anxiety will have you feeling like the worst person… I’m glad you resonate love! 🤎🤎
@EdenandEavesWorld
@EdenandEavesWorld 10 месяцев назад
Being yourself can cost you the people you may think are your people but will introduce you to your true people yesssss
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 9 месяцев назад
just dropped some self-love, self-awareness prompts + convo starters that I think will really help you guys through these moments 🙏🏾 : www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop
@LexiimaWriter
@LexiimaWriter 8 месяцев назад
You are so pretty. Love your confidence, sis. ❤ Keep it up.
@Danni_Marie
@Danni_Marie 8 месяцев назад
This is so on time ! I’m in this season now
@SupShortie
@SupShortie 6 месяцев назад
I'm turning 30 this year and let me tell you how refreshing it feels to let go of relationships (platonic and romantic) from my late teens to early 20s. Just like Tiffany described, I was showing people the version of me that allowed them to take advantage or treat me some type of way. After breaking off those relationships I did feel lonely. I took time to reevaluate my life and what it is that I want from it including WHO I want in it. Now I vow to live each day as my authentic self and I'm attracting a different crowd that is more aligned with my mindset and lifestyle. I mean it's still a work in progress don't get me wrong but this video was such a great reminder to keep pushing.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 6 месяцев назад
this is beautiful! congrats love, because not a lot of people take this path. it’s so much “easier” in the short term to just stay planted in what you’ve always known. soooo excited for you on this part of your journey. it’s up from here 🥂
@janet1924
@janet1924 10 месяцев назад
Please don’t ever stop making these videos! I love your authenticity and transparency. I’ve never heard anyone say be yourself. While it may seem like an obvious thing to do, so many people struggle and it’s rarely said. Thank you 🙏🏽
@wildewildestrawberries
@wildewildestrawberries 10 месяцев назад
Finally an honest video about loneliness, isolation and finding your tribe. Thank you.
@carlaboatner636
@carlaboatner636 19 дней назад
I think this is diamond in the making stuff !
@HigherSelfSeason
@HigherSelfSeason 10 месяцев назад
Whew, From START to FINISH this video was EVERYTHING my heart needed to hear!💎
@MRSDAVID1
@MRSDAVID1 8 месяцев назад
yep, my unhealthy space is literally me believing that i don't deserve any kindness from people and keep feeling guilty about it.
@cassundraturner4679
@cassundraturner4679 10 месяцев назад
I found this video today and it's must needed. I'm looking for my people.
@decendantfromthesky3636
@decendantfromthesky3636 10 месяцев назад
wow I’m 100% in this mindset at the moment, and I’m realizing how valuable my time and energy really is. Having higher standards for my circle has been life changing.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
this 🙌🏾
@cierabennett8826
@cierabennett8826 10 месяцев назад
The timing of this is impeccable. Thank you 🫶🏼
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
of course love 🤎
@kiarapayne295
@kiarapayne295 8 месяцев назад
So amazed by your transparency, I can't wait to find the right circle of friends.
@arnibah
@arnibah 10 месяцев назад
I found out through experience that your tribe will gravitate towards you without you even trying to find them.All you have to do is get and stay on your purpose for being on the planet.
@anthea01
@anthea01 9 месяцев назад
the way you talk and what you say… I have deep respect and admiration for you.
@melwest1407
@melwest1407 8 месяцев назад
yourselve an dont change and your people will find you❤
@johnkindstudios
@johnkindstudios Месяц назад
I’m glad I gave this video a chance, really touching👌🏿💯💯💯
@vintagelifestyledesign4303
@vintagelifestyledesign4303 10 месяцев назад
You are a blessing. So encouraging to see an attractive articulate educated woman. Who doesn't speak "RU-vid" speak like every other youtuber!! This is a very impactful message that Im sure touches and moves so many people to action in finding there tribe!! Well done. Subbie for life!! lol May God bless and keep you!❤❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
thank you for your encouraging words 🙏🏾🤎
@stacyj4858
@stacyj4858 8 месяцев назад
Amen, one life! I remind myself of that everyday because there is nothing like looking back and regretting that you dimmed or simmered down to make others comfortable. I need to find my people!
@thobekilezikhali511
@thobekilezikhali511 10 месяцев назад
Timely video. So powerful and true. I am also not for fake women empowerment. I love genuine and not forced connections.
@daisycolon2077
@daisycolon2077 10 месяцев назад
I am exactly on your page. I understand everything you’re going through. Don’t worry we will be good. We will find our people that are exactly where we are and we have so many things to relate on. I’m sending you love peace and blessings today.❤
@christinetejada696
@christinetejada696 8 месяцев назад
I’m really glad I found your page today. This is was refreshing.
@Caroline-Horvath-Rivera
@Caroline-Horvath-Rivera 10 месяцев назад
I’m right there with you beautiful lady. Honestly, it’s so freshing to know I’m Not alone. This frequency is so amazing. 👑⭐️🌞🌚
@chinadoll3066
@chinadoll3066 10 месяцев назад
When the student is ready, the teacher appears, and my love, you are my teacher and i have found my community. Thank you so much. I went back In the videos you told me were to start from and am glad I did. You spoke about me in every one of your vids and It hit me deep. I have some serious changes to make and am starting small, but the most important thing for me to do is start. ❤🎉
@mufasahm8238
@mufasahm8238 10 месяцев назад
You are amazing in how come across and also sharing your personal stories that are relatable. You remind me of how I feel with introversion and small talk. I also can't people I ruminate with and don't feel I like I can fully be myself. I have been to networking events like you said to do. They aren't always cheap lol, but I still didn't find my people :( . I subscribed to your channel. Thank you 💕xx
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
welcome to the family! keep going love. keep putting that effort + energy out into the world 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@foxwitmox
@foxwitmox 10 месяцев назад
Soooo many gems 💎 I was going to comment them all but it might as well be a journal entry atp 😅 There was a moment towards the end, 20:31 “wanting community, that is not you being needy, or relying on people, that is you pouring into yourself… and wanting a community around you to support that.” Thank you 💜
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
🎯 you’re so welcome love!
@staceys173
@staceys173 10 месяцев назад
Its amazing that out of this world of billions of people, people have trouble finding people that click with them. I ran a meet up group that was popular in my city. Over 3000 members. However, over 15 years I made a lot of acquaintances, and not many friends. I even experienced many frenemies. They wanted what I could give them, and treated me like crap. Fake. I am so relieved not to do that any more. I can breath again. Love going out, love meeting people, but I also love time to myself. I treasure real friendships. They are rare gems. Thank you for your words of support and guidance.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 10 месяцев назад
yes… rare gems! a lot of people have been through a lot of things… and unfortunately, most don’t do the work or even know how to begin to unpack + heal that trauma. it makes it really hard to form healthy bonds from that space. I just pray that some of the things I share can help people to start taking the reigns on what they actually can control to heal + live the lives they desire… thank you for watching 🙏🏾
@everythingtaylored9223
@everythingtaylored9223 10 месяцев назад
when you said "the thought of small talk" I felt it in my SOULLLLL
@NatureLove_-fy3fk
@NatureLove_-fy3fk 8 месяцев назад
I'm glad the universe kicked my Capricorn butt over here, I needed this. Thank you Tiffany.
@lenarolls443
@lenarolls443 2 месяца назад
O boy!!! I understand!!! Its supposed to be Women Empowerment and leaves you non empowered! I use to think that maybe it is some wrong with me, all the while I was trying to fit in instead of being myself! I just told my neice this yesterday! ❤️ I had to be okay with being good with me and accepting me first! Genuine friendship is everything sis!!!
@suchurchgirl
@suchurchgirl 7 месяцев назад
Watching this was like looking into a mirror. My introverted self needed this so much. Thank you for sharing! New subscriber✅
@Krystalwatchesvideos
@Krystalwatchesvideos 6 месяцев назад
OMG I started laughing when you said that hey, you could befriend the Amazon people. I've been a hermit for years. Got out of an abusive relationship, got into therapy & figured out that I had friendships that were toxic & family....sooooo much. Had to clear house. Thank you SO much for speaking on anxiety! The being comfy at home part really rang true for me. Thank you 🙏
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